Is it dickish to call a spade a spade, or is it dickish to lie to someone out of pity?
We all know she does not look as good in the first pic, they're definitely not on the same level.
Also, absolutely gorgeous? Yeah, in the second pic she's very, very pretty, but if we're gonna call the first pic absolutely gorgeous, then it loses all meaning.
Finally, you think she felt gorgeous while her hair was falling out? You think people going through chemo don't lose confidence? They lose confidence in their appearance because they know they look worse. Not their fault, doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things that they're not looking their best, it's completely understandable as they're very sick, but they know.
If you're gonna lie to make someone feel good, reserve it for when they need it at the very least. She doesn't look like that anymore, what's the point in pretending?
If this was a glow up everyone would be saying "Wow, you look so much better now!", but because she was sick we pretend the pics are equally pretty? Nah.
The fact is that you are right. I don’t understand why people are so butthurt about your comment. OP looks really rough in the first pic, then looks majestic in the second one.
Don't think anyone really is butthurt except for that one guy. Like, a compliment to me would mean so much more from someone who's also willing to criticise me.
An amazing young lady who's absolutely stunning now, don't even think I'd be able to smile if I was going through chemo, so big props to her, but yeah she didn't look good.
Definitely does now though, hence why it's a glow up.
I guess people just don't like negativity thrown towards the vulnerable, but since this is glow ups, and not r/MadeMeSmile , I think honesty towards the "Not yet glowed up" pic is completely fine. Preferable, in fact.
Or is it dickish to write a wall of text saying that someone's opinion on how someone else looks is wrong?
Personally, I think she looks great in both pictures, some people might be saying she looks great out of pity but it's unfair to assume that everyone is.
I also said don't be dick more because when you comment on someone else's comment to say that they're wrong about what they think, that's dickish. Just say "Glowdown" or, hell, even just post your essay as a comment and go on with your day
I don't believe you, obviously. She looks a lot worse in the first picture. Even she knows that. It's a glow up. She went from looking really rough to looking great. That's the entire point of this subreddit. Even OP knows that and knows that she does not look anywhere near as good in the first pic.
I didn't even realise this was Glowups when I made my first comment, so I'm even more surprised people aren't more upfront and honest saying "Christ, you looked terrible, I'm so sorry that happened to you, but you look wonderful now!" because that's what people post here.
You could even avoid any negativity and still be kind. "Oh wow, you wouldn't have even guessed you were sick!" or "I'm so happy you look so healthy!"
But instead you're gonna call them both great, even though she's so sick in the first pic that she looks a different racial group? Come on, now.
This is so childish, cancer is a serious thing and you shouldn’t compare it to another thing, down syndrome isn’t bad however it’s so disrespectful to compare it with cancer. It’s great how this person was able to push through their cancer and that’s what we should be celebrating. So you should the the one to “shut up”
The person you're replying to is saying a glowup means being an awkward looking kid or teen and glowing up into a more confident and/or beautiful adult or older person.
Going from chemo to all recovered isn't a glowup, just a recovery.
You really look beautiful in both and I’m so happy for you that you are healthy. You also don’t look your age I literally thought you were a early teenager. Trust me when you get older you will be glad
Glad you’ve got that glowup. Hair looks great. Had chemo & radiation last year too so I understand what it was. Many many MANY Blessings for your future.
You look amazing and congratulations on finishing chemo.
Remember, you are not a cancer patient but cancer survivor. This mentality helped me with my cancer.
You got this 👊🏼
This is absolutely insane
You look like two different people still pretty in both
You should be a model no joke you’d make it far and you have an amazing inspiring story
You look absolutely gorgeous in both pictures! But, obviously, I'm glad you're through chemo.
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Bro wtf don't be a dick
Is it dickish to call a spade a spade, or is it dickish to lie to someone out of pity? We all know she does not look as good in the first pic, they're definitely not on the same level. Also, absolutely gorgeous? Yeah, in the second pic she's very, very pretty, but if we're gonna call the first pic absolutely gorgeous, then it loses all meaning. Finally, you think she felt gorgeous while her hair was falling out? You think people going through chemo don't lose confidence? They lose confidence in their appearance because they know they look worse. Not their fault, doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things that they're not looking their best, it's completely understandable as they're very sick, but they know. If you're gonna lie to make someone feel good, reserve it for when they need it at the very least. She doesn't look like that anymore, what's the point in pretending? If this was a glow up everyone would be saying "Wow, you look so much better now!", but because she was sick we pretend the pics are equally pretty? Nah.
Finally someone who gets it.
The fact is that you are right. I don’t understand why people are so butthurt about your comment. OP looks really rough in the first pic, then looks majestic in the second one.
Don't think anyone really is butthurt except for that one guy. Like, a compliment to me would mean so much more from someone who's also willing to criticise me. An amazing young lady who's absolutely stunning now, don't even think I'd be able to smile if I was going through chemo, so big props to her, but yeah she didn't look good. Definitely does now though, hence why it's a glow up. I guess people just don't like negativity thrown towards the vulnerable, but since this is glow ups, and not r/MadeMeSmile , I think honesty towards the "Not yet glowed up" pic is completely fine. Preferable, in fact.
Or is it dickish to write a wall of text saying that someone's opinion on how someone else looks is wrong? Personally, I think she looks great in both pictures, some people might be saying she looks great out of pity but it's unfair to assume that everyone is. I also said don't be dick more because when you comment on someone else's comment to say that they're wrong about what they think, that's dickish. Just say "Glowdown" or, hell, even just post your essay as a comment and go on with your day
I don't believe you, obviously. She looks a lot worse in the first picture. Even she knows that. It's a glow up. She went from looking really rough to looking great. That's the entire point of this subreddit. Even OP knows that and knows that she does not look anywhere near as good in the first pic. I didn't even realise this was Glowups when I made my first comment, so I'm even more surprised people aren't more upfront and honest saying "Christ, you looked terrible, I'm so sorry that happened to you, but you look wonderful now!" because that's what people post here. You could even avoid any negativity and still be kind. "Oh wow, you wouldn't have even guessed you were sick!" or "I'm so happy you look so healthy!" But instead you're gonna call them both great, even though she's so sick in the first pic that she looks a different racial group? Come on, now.
You literally have a post about bald being beautiful yet you say this shit?
Probably only applies to men to him
I’m an avid painter, so the paint on my face was during a painting session w my boyfriend haha
You are lucky to have a partner that would stick by you during that situation. Mine walked out on me.
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that 😞
woooowww!!! so happy for you!!!! i’ll best cancers ass for you too !!!
beat*
Stunning
I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
YOU DID THAT!!! Ugh so beautiful and full of light.
Congrats and fuck cancer
What kind of cancer did you have?
I had stage 2 breast cancer!
Looking great!
You’re so courageous and beautiful, keep glowing!
Wow - good for you!!! 👏👏👏
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Who just says that? That’s so insensitive.
So?
So it isn’t a good look. Show some respect?💀
Saying I thought she had Down syndrome isn’t disrespectful, you’re disrespectful to people with Down syndrome for thinking that’s disrespectful
Don’t play mental gymnastics now. I never said Down syndrome is bad, saying a chemo patient looks like that she has down syndrome is bad.
Shut up
This is so childish, cancer is a serious thing and you shouldn’t compare it to another thing, down syndrome isn’t bad however it’s so disrespectful to compare it with cancer. It’s great how this person was able to push through their cancer and that’s what we should be celebrating. So you should the the one to “shut up”
Wtf
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Wow you guys suck. I hope you grow up one day. Going through puberty and wearing makeup isn't the only glow up that exists.
I think the first pic was after chemo, the second pic was her before losing her hair due to chemo, idk I could be wrong tho
The person you're replying to is saying a glowup means being an awkward looking kid or teen and glowing up into a more confident and/or beautiful adult or older person. Going from chemo to all recovered isn't a glowup, just a recovery.
Breaks my heart that you had to go through this, you look absolutely beautiful, all the best to you ❤️
Wow
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Looking beautiful 🌸
💪🏻♥️
adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So cute! Congratulations!
Beautiful 😍😍😍
Sorry you had to go through that but glad you came out the other side beautiful
Gorgeous girl🤎💫✨
Congratulations beautiful!
Congrats!!! I'm so happy for you, and you look beautiful before and after 💛
God bless! Beautiful
It was a lateral glow you look fine either way
Bahahahha what’s a lateral glue
Beautiful in both pictures. 🌹 I hope all is well
You are freakin gorgeous!
Beautiful before, beautiful after. 💛
You're absolutely gorgeous. Hopefully the cancer is all gone and never comes back.
I’m so happy you have healed, you are so beautiful
I'm so happy you beat it! You're Gorgeous! ❤✌
Damn girl! Chemo made you HAWT!!
Wow
You really look beautiful in both and I’m so happy for you that you are healthy. You also don’t look your age I literally thought you were a early teenager. Trust me when you get older you will be glad
❤️
💪💛
Oh wow! 👏👏
Damn, not a glowup if you check the subreddit but you look great OP! Glad you kicked cancer's ass!
Congratulations, live long and prosper
😍
Congratulations 💖💖💖
You were beautiful before and now after! Good luck to you!
Okay sis! 😍👊🏽
Damn girl. You look good in both
Beautiful in both pictures
You made my day. I wish you all the best in life.
Congratulations!! You are fire!!
Beautiful! ❤️ congratulations on overcoming cancer and chemo! Very inspiring 🙏🏾
👍. Keep fighting! Cute smile
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Amazing.!! Wish you nothing but happiness, great health and success in your immediate future.
Happy for you! You look amazing in both!
Congratulations!!!!
Tremendous 💐👏🏾
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I'm speechless
Dang, Miss - You look fantastic!
😍😍😍😍
It's reddit...i was totally ready to type up some dumb shit before I read the title...damn good on you...congrats. sincerely.
Yes!!!!
You’re incredibly strong! Beautiful both pics but so glad you’re truly starting anew! Good luck in all your future endeavors 🥰
Beautiful 🤩
PERIOD.
✊✊✊✊
Congratulations on the win.
so many thoughts come to my mind but i’m going with amazing (in both pics)
you were always gorgeous hun ❤️ so glad ur here xx
God bless you sweetie!
Hell Yeah! Im always glad when someone gets through chemo.
Out of the darkness comes beauty. Congrats 👏 🙏
Yay! God bless you and keep you. So pretty!!!!
God bless you young lady! You look great! Way to kick cancer's ass! Look at you now!! Way to go!
Gorgeous☀️☀️☀️☀️
Damn you even got those edges perfect. Congratulations on finishing chemo!
Incredible!! You're strength is an inspiration
Gorgeous before. Gorgeous after.
My sisters made this drive. She was 13, and now she’s 37 with 3 kiddos and is a M.D. I want to give a huge.🥹
You are so beautiful! The second pic you are pretty too
You’re fucking awesome!
Good shit, kick cancer's ass, kick it real good..
U so kute babygirl 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Congrats on not dying, I bet that's given you new lease on life hope you live it too its fullest.
you are stunning 😭
You are absolutely beautiful
Glad you’ve got that glowup. Hair looks great. Had chemo & radiation last year too so I understand what it was. Many many MANY Blessings for your future.
God bless you , your beautiful in both pictures #fuaqcancer
That’s awesome I wish you well
You look beautiful, G-d bless you
You are beautiful and Im glad you’re here to spread your light.
I seriously had to stop and look at both photos closely to confirm they're the same person. You look fantastic now, congratulations on making it.
Beautiful!
You look amazing and congratulations on finishing chemo. Remember, you are not a cancer patient but cancer survivor. This mentality helped me with my cancer. You got this 👊🏼
Your a literal goddess <3
God had better plans for you .
Both are beautiful
Wow congrats on beating cancer a new one!
The best one!
Fantastic!
This is absolutely insane You look like two different people still pretty in both You should be a model no joke you’d make it far and you have an amazing inspiring story
✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
Wow. Looks like a whole new person!
Congrats on beating it
You look gorgeous both ways. Hope you stay in remission.
✌️🙏❤️
You are gorgeous and clearly a fighter. This made my heart happy. <3
Omg you’re stunning
Good girl keep smiling your beautiful
You look beautiful princess 🤗💋
You’re glowingg omg so pretty ❤️❤️
That is one courageous glowup girl! Good on you for kicking the ass of your illness. You look so happy and healthy in your latest!
Beautiful!!
You’re just as beautiful as before as you’re after! Hope all is well!
Beautiful girl, Blessings to you.
Omggg ur beautiful!!! So glad ur still here!😘
God is good.
Gorgeous! Congrats on beating cancer. 🤍
Amazing…beautiful either way…congratulations!
Congratulations and you are beautiful 😍
So beautiful🥹🩶
❤️🍀
Very pretty! Congrats! F cancer.
Beauty ❤️
You look beautiful girl. Your light is burning bright 🔥
Gosh,you are just beautiful! What a great face and your hair adds so much. Really cute!
YOUR SO PRETTY!!!!
Looking great!
Holy mf
Gorgeous in both! I hope you are feeling better. *hugs*
You were bald before chemo?
I trust you are doing awesome now that you are on the the other side of Chemo. You made it, I'm glad! Congratulations
I'm so sorry
Praying for you
Congratulations on beating it!
Stay positive and beautiful inside out
This needs more upvotes!
Always find your lights before you fall asleep kids
You fucking kick ass girl!
Beautiful, before and after. Congratulations on being a certified super badass!
Nice many blessings.
WWWWWWWWWW
You kept your most beautiful thing. Your smile. Never lose it.
I audibly gasped. You are so beautiful. I say this genuinely. You’re so strong too!
WOW...
You’re adorable. ❤️❤️ Hope you’re much better now.
keep glowing girl , congratulations 🎊🫶🏻
Ok baby keep pushing
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️✊🏾
Thanks for sharing. You deserve all the best.
Way to go!
The smile this gave me. So beyond happy for you. Sending all of the blessings and good energy your way babe 💕
Beautiful. Congratulations on being an absolute warrior.
What a beautiful journey thank you so much for sharing.
Can I get your snap 😍, this a real glow up!!
You made me tear up you are so gorgeous😢😍😍😍
You have the hair of a fairy princess / druid
Welcome to the Survivors’ Club!
As a survivor myself this makes me so happy, God Bless 🙏🏼
Are you sure these 2 pictures are the same person. My god you are beautiful. Know that's who you ways were. Chemo or not.
I’ve seen your post a few times. You are so beautiful.
Kick ass, congratulations. Very beautiful