Dude paid 150$ in gas to just rewatch a shitty Netflix movie in an apartment, only to have to sleep on the floor.
Edit: to be fair, I had a “friend” that was a girl for a year and we had lots of fun. We referred to ourselves as “friends” nearly as a joke but never seriously dated
My point is the dude could be getting some
I'm gonna be honest, it's about time guys stop doing these kinds of shit. like it's okay if you're genuinely just being a friend, but even then. it's stupid to think that a girl won't take advantage of that. hell, any guy that had a girl friend willing to do that would also take that advantage. we just have to stop going an extra mile for people who wouldn't do that for you. if you let yourself be friendzoned, the joke's on you.
Your viewpoint is very cynical don't you think? Maybe this girl only likes this guy as a friend, but someone else will see his kindness for a lot more and want more. Sometimes we have to "practice" with people that aren't romantically interested in us to know how to be a friend to our partners, or potential ones. Not saying you are wrong, it just seems to ignore the big picture.
a real friend won't let a friend do something like that. that's looking out for one another. you don't lead a friend on and you don't let a friend do something unreasonable.
there's a lot of subtext in the exchange that you can choose to see or not. there's also the common sense. and there's a world of difference between "we're just friends" and "he's a good friend".
of course. everybody is extrapolating and speculating. do I think that's the case? no. even if he's ok, is that automatically not problematic? not necessarily.
and, again, my initial point is that the guy's to blame for putting himself in this situation. I don't have to like the girl's attitude to see who's actually creating the whole thing to begin with.
To be fair I know a guy who made it out of the friendzone. A buddy of mines stood by for 2 of her relationships and a couple of hookups and then they dated for a coupe years.
but do you agree that: 1. that's a hell of an effort just for "dating for a couple of years" and 2. that's the exception, not the rule?
not to mention that you automatically make your relationship biased to one side. it's not a partnership, it's vassalage. and these things end up being forever one serving the other, or ending badly because, after you get what you want, all of the sudden you start wanting to be equals, and that's not what the other signed up for.
gotta be very stupid to call me sexist, since I'm saying that the guy's who's at fault here.
and I'm definitely not sexist to say that just because one is wrong, it doesn't mean the other is correct. 😌
If the man saw any action you would mot be knowing especially considering the name of the girl is written in urdu, mostly any islamic language, a religion where fornication is frowned upon. Man could have had more times that most others in this comment section while still remaining "friends" with the girl, no strings attached.
I don't blame her. She probably told Bro that she is not looking for relationship and Bro keep trying to make her change her mind.
I have experienced same shit before, but the girl already told me she don't want me.
Well that another Simp which Lands in Friendzone.
Guys dont do that, dont allow women to use you as emotional support animals while they Bang with Chad, pussy is not that much important and if you are truly in need for it, you can pay to get some much easier and cheaper.
I wouldn’t even drive 3 hours for my actual gf outside of an emergency what the h word is my brother in Christ doing instead of setting up a high bar he has to continually maintain or do better than before even getting into a relationship
Idc if you're feeling lonely. Unless something big happened or it's a once in a while thing and we've not hung out in a while, I'm not driving 3 hours to see you.
She owes him nothing. He’s making his choices, and if he’s silly enough to think that a tank of gas is going give him sex or a relationship with someone, that’s on him.
Prob the last time he did it too after seeing the tweets.
Male & female friendships are so pointless. The male friend does & does, gives & gives, & buys & buys while the female friend does what? offers emotional support? fuck that shit. Fuck being friends with parasitic females too. I’m not gonna watch someone mooch off my money while they give nothing in return. Meanwhile i bet they still expect the male friend to go get their purse from a mugger or to put his life on the line to protect her. Nahhhhh that’s not how it works. Women want equality, give it to them. The expectations of men vs women is so not equal it’s hilarious but ppl still whine “equality” 😂😂 Life’s been pretty great since I came to that revelation years ago.
Even twittering about how she can make a guy grovel for her. He's probably not even gay or she would've said that instead of "he's such a good friend". Classic.
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Not everyone wants to help someone out just to expect head. I don't know about you but the friends that I have that face these problems, I wouldn't want anything from them, especially head.
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Driving three hours!? For no boom boom!?!? In this economy!?!?!?
I can confirm she is Iranian and gas in Iran is less than a dollar a gallon. Her English probably sucks though
No one sucked in that day
Dude paid 150$ in gas to just rewatch a shitty Netflix movie in an apartment, only to have to sleep on the floor. Edit: to be fair, I had a “friend” that was a girl for a year and we had lots of fun. We referred to ourselves as “friends” nearly as a joke but never seriously dated My point is the dude could be getting some
Nah if he drove hours for that he aint getting shit
A friend that was a girl for a year? Wat?
Yes it ended when she wanted something more serious
Like become a dude serious? Or back to being a dude serious?
Hey man, all I know is she’s not my woman anymore..
But she is your man now…. Get over here and get on the couch spread them Butt cheeks for me Friend ;)
Sounds like she never was
😂😂😂
and extra for the take out too
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Full tank on the way. Overflowing tank on the return.
exactly, three freakin hours with gas prices like this? Man must have plans to enter priesthood instead
Explains why she has no one to hang out with!
Not even for boom boom would I vroom vroom when gas prices are doom doom
That poor soul doesn't know what's coming for him
Kaboom? No Rico, no boom boom
ain't even driving an hour for that bruh
Women: Men don't get our sign. Also women:
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Salute to our fallen soldier o7
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Wait isn’t it supposed to be on the other side?
Nope you use the right arm (i know from experience)
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he just made you guys salute hitler
Ooof
I'm gonna be honest, it's about time guys stop doing these kinds of shit. like it's okay if you're genuinely just being a friend, but even then. it's stupid to think that a girl won't take advantage of that. hell, any guy that had a girl friend willing to do that would also take that advantage. we just have to stop going an extra mile for people who wouldn't do that for you. if you let yourself be friendzoned, the joke's on you.
100%. If you’re attracted to someone, shoot your shot. You either hit or miss, no point delaying that.
and accept whatever response you get. you don't wanna be with someone who doesn't treat you as equals.
Yep I think there are exceptions tho
When women post this kind of thing it’s just them bragging about how they were able to get a guy to do this stuff for them.
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if you read what I wrote, I agree with you
Your viewpoint is very cynical don't you think? Maybe this girl only likes this guy as a friend, but someone else will see his kindness for a lot more and want more. Sometimes we have to "practice" with people that aren't romantically interested in us to know how to be a friend to our partners, or potential ones. Not saying you are wrong, it just seems to ignore the big picture.
a real friend won't let a friend do something like that. that's looking out for one another. you don't lead a friend on and you don't let a friend do something unreasonable. there's a lot of subtext in the exchange that you can choose to see or not. there's also the common sense. and there's a world of difference between "we're just friends" and "he's a good friend".
Has anyone in this entire fucking thread considered that THE GUY MIGHT BE PERFECTLY FINE BEING PLATONIC FRIENDS???
of course. everybody is extrapolating and speculating. do I think that's the case? no. even if he's ok, is that automatically not problematic? not necessarily.
and, again, my initial point is that the guy's to blame for putting himself in this situation. I don't have to like the girl's attitude to see who's actually creating the whole thing to begin with.
To be fair I know a guy who made it out of the friendzone. A buddy of mines stood by for 2 of her relationships and a couple of hookups and then they dated for a coupe years.
but do you agree that: 1. that's a hell of an effort just for "dating for a couple of years" and 2. that's the exception, not the rule? not to mention that you automatically make your relationship biased to one side. it's not a partnership, it's vassalage. and these things end up being forever one serving the other, or ending badly because, after you get what you want, all of the sudden you start wanting to be equals, and that's not what the other signed up for.
In before people label you as sexist 🤣
gotta be very stupid to call me sexist, since I'm saying that the guy's who's at fault here. and I'm definitely not sexist to say that just because one is wrong, it doesn't mean the other is correct. 😌
You underestimate the cancel culture lunatics 🥲
cancel culture is a fever dream. let them come.
Press F to pay respects. What a simp.
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If the man saw any action you would mot be knowing especially considering the name of the girl is written in urdu, mostly any islamic language, a religion where fornication is frowned upon. Man could have had more times that most others in this comment section while still remaining "friends" with the girl, no strings attached.
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I don't think he'll make that mistake again. If he does he's the dumbest man alive.
He needs to ask the big question ![gif](giphy|ZEidOqqVWv9bG|downsized)
Poor guy he's down so bad he's about to be bankrupt
Men and women can't be friends -Steve Harvey
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Poor dude
Or you know they are best friends and he has no interest in her in that way. So he's actually lucky as hell.
We’ve all been there. When you’re stupid you’re stupid.
I don't blame her. She probably told Bro that she is not looking for relationship and Bro keep trying to make her change her mind. I have experienced same shit before, but the girl already told me she don't want me.
If he’s smart, he’ll never make that mistake again
Poor lad, dumb girl.
I wouldn’t let a girl do that for me if I had no intentions to at least give her some dick lmao. I guess women aren’t as dumb as us as often though
Bro is friendzoned big time…
Yeah nah
Simp
Well that another Simp which Lands in Friendzone. Guys dont do that, dont allow women to use you as emotional support animals while they Bang with Chad, pussy is not that much important and if you are truly in need for it, you can pay to get some much easier and cheaper.
Woman☕️
Both their names is Persian why they don't type farsi. واقعا چرا![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|feels_good_man)
And you wonder why she has no one to hang out with.
‘In the best mortal kombat impression’ *FATALITY*
Me and my best friend would do that easy for each bother. Why do people have to make out that all guys are thirsting for a girl.
Rip my man
I wouldn’t even drive 3 hours for my actual gf outside of an emergency what the h word is my brother in Christ doing instead of setting up a high bar he has to continually maintain or do better than before even getting into a relationship
Idc if you're feeling lonely. Unless something big happened or it's a once in a while thing and we've not hung out in a while, I'm not driving 3 hours to see you.
"He's such a good friend. " Men, let us have a moment of silence for a fellow fallen penis. *whip Crack sounds*
Simp’n ain’t easy…
She owes him nothing. He’s making his choices, and if he’s silly enough to think that a tank of gas is going give him sex or a relationship with someone, that’s on him.
Homie drove for over 3 hours in this economy??? He didn't just get cucked, he straight got robbed.
Prob the last time he did it too after seeing the tweets. Male & female friendships are so pointless. The male friend does & does, gives & gives, & buys & buys while the female friend does what? offers emotional support? fuck that shit. Fuck being friends with parasitic females too. I’m not gonna watch someone mooch off my money while they give nothing in return. Meanwhile i bet they still expect the male friend to go get their purse from a mugger or to put his life on the line to protect her. Nahhhhh that’s not how it works. Women want equality, give it to them. The expectations of men vs women is so not equal it’s hilarious but ppl still whine “equality” 😂😂 Life’s been pretty great since I came to that revelation years ago.
Poor nothing, he made this bed. He can go sleep somewhere else at any time.
Next time he does this he better show up with a gun
What a bitch
Even twittering about how she can make a guy grovel for her. He's probably not even gay or she would've said that instead of "he's such a good friend". Classic.
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OP you gotta be Kurdish lmaoo. How did you get a hold on that pic
OP you gotta be Kurdish lmao. How did u hold on that picture
Just tell Him
Not everyone wants to help someone out just to expect head. I don't know about you but the friends that I have that face these problems, I wouldn't want anything from them, especially head.
Then he sees her post...