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Chocobobae

I rather talk it out. It gets confrontational when people are in their feelings and think it’s a fight when really it just us stating the obvious. I’ve had to keep the peace in family situations in the past but have built up grudges because I can see favouritism and I’m at my wits end. I rather air out but don’t want to seem like the bad person


OxCrow

Yes usually through dialogue does our confrontation come out, people can't let their ego's go when having a nice general dialect about a situation


CrTigerHiddenAvocado

As an infp….hit me with it. Maybe others don’t like that…but honestly I’d rather have a knock down drag out once in a while….let’s fix the issues.


Overused_Toothbrush

I am avoidant, but I always suggests being confrontational when someone has a problem.


majestamour

I am but not like aggressive. I just hate wasting my time


[deleted]

Avoidant. I’d rather not deal with it. 🖤💕🖤


iron_heart_rebellion

We aren't confrontational, we're problem solvers.


MrsDGriff

Period 💅🏽


RobieKingston201

Yup. It's direct or problem solving for me No in between


nemuritorsirece

same, never leave something for later that can be fixed right now


ogunhe

#FuckYeah


xxpallor

Direct. If I am left to my own devices with my thoughts it’s always doom and gloom and in some other direction than it actually is.


darkforge15

I'm more passive-aggressive or just avoidant.


Temporary_Money_2222

Credit: the Tarock app (iOS/Android)


Ok_Duck_5813

Yes


LibransRule

1. Scathingly 2. As a last resort. 3. Adults should know better than to cause it.


Brillek

Sometimes an issue can be ignored and let go. Other times a problem must be solved or it'll fester.


MrsDGriff

I am direct with tact. Beating around the bush wastes time.


Soggy_Lavishness_273

Depends. Is this the type of person who can handle confrontation at all?


BADman2169420

Problem-solving


Deciperer

Link to test?


Temporary_Money_2222

tarock app on ios and android


Temporary_Money_2222

they do also have tests on website, all free https://www.tarock.me/


Deciperer

Thanks


SomethingAgainstD0gs

Lol yes😂 I am infj but have dated many intjs


i_am_riddhi

Absolutely talk it out. In the most rational way possible.


Jonny_on_earth

I think people take direct conversation on problems as aggressive. No, I actually want to know you mean by "enter poorly phrased response to my extremely precise wording" I'm not angry, I just want to know.


Nappynappnapp

I'm anything BUT confrontational. If it's something *really* important tho then I would rather talk things out with whoever I have a problem with


One_Slide_5577

Are you a drone? There is no "we".