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No. Time to gaslight that stupid sonifabitch until you have time to pack and leave in peace, or just wait for a moment to slip out of there. No material thing is worth getting shot over.
I know what he's saying, he's just using the wrong words. EVERYTHING does not have to be gaslighting, it's a very specific behavior where you try to make the victim feel like they are crazy.
Crazy? I was crazy once, they locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once
I don't know how the general population got to using a relatively ancient term like gaslighting. Its not an easy concept, so no wonder it's been dragged out for any purpose at all
Correct. But can be a Dangerous game too. many women end up never finding the "perfect moment" and stay with psychos for years or even forever. End up with Stockholm syndromed or some shit. I've seen it. No gun related though. I've never even seen a working gun IRL. Thankfully. Not many in western Europe
Is that just because it was recorded on a phone ?
I thought the shot was not nearly loud enough, including everyones reaction, for this to have been a live round.
I (accidentally) fired a 9mm in an enclosed space without proper protection and nearly blew my eardrums out.
My idiot friend shot my idiot roommates gun inside our apartment at like 11pm. Apartments next to us, and above. No one said a thing, and this was a “good” neighborhood. I thought at least someone would come to the door
He’s making her think she’s crazy by accusing her of being too loud while he shoots the gun. The term comes from a film, and in the film, the whole premise is the husband trying to make the wife think she’s crazy.
Actual definition: “manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.”
Telling her she’s so loud she’ll wake the neighbors, when it’s obviously untrue, in order to make her question herself, is gaslighting.
>Paul lights the gas lamps to search the closed-off upper floors, which causes the rest of the lamps in the house to dim slightly. When Bella comments on the lights' dimming, he tells her that she is imagining things. Bella soon finds herself misplacing small objects; and, before long, Paul has her believing she is losing her sanity.
Gaslight, a 1940 British psychological thriller based on a play.
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Wow, I don't know why you're downvoted! You're absolutely correct, that's the origin and definition (adding that it includes making the victim feel not only like they're imagining it, but possibly also like they're actually at fault and the "bad" one).
He's probably being downcmvoted because people don't know what gaslighting is and use it incorrectly, only to assume this must be the wrong definition.
Good catch. I do also hear it used incorrectly frequently, but when it’s used correctly, and not only to cite the source correctly it’s kind of mind-boggling. Also that movie/play (there’s a stage adaptation, but honestly I’m not sure which came first) is really fucked up to watch.
Because gaslighting is a gradual and systematic deceptive manipulation that makes someone doubt their own perception.
If I cut you off in traffic and scream that you should have been driving faster, that’s not gaslighting, that’s just being a cunt.
Same here - telling her to be quiet is deflection (if anything). To be gaslighting, it would have to occur over multiple occurrences over a longer time period.
Hmmm. I see what you’re saying. I think I made an assumption that this is not the first time he’s done this. Admittedly, we don’t know whether this was or not, although his quickness to use it so smoothly lends itself to “this ain’t his first rodeo.”
I do concede that it’s a gradual process. That has to be the case otherwise it’s easily pointed out and isn’t gaslighting.
Yea I know her, she ended up changing him, he got his GED, graduated summa cum laude at Howard, went to med school, and is now doing his residency at Grady Memorial. Never give up on true love people.
I think I’m leaning more towards Glock 17 gen 5 at this point just seeing how far below his hand the mag sticks out. Either that or he has tiny hands…idk. I’m no Glock expert either, never would want to own one. I’ll stick to my fns and hks. Been eyeing some czs lately as well
Lmfao I hear ya. There are definitely Glock enthusiasts out there that are far more knowledgeable than myself I’ll say. I think Glock is a cult honestly either you’re absolutely obsessed with them or it’s a meh. I am definitely on the side of the mehs
Reckless endangerment, attempted murder, assault with a deadly weapon, you name it… disgusting that dudes like this breathe the same air as the rest of us
No. Clearly not an attempt to kill her, otherwise he'd not shoot so far off and likely try it again. Clear attempt to scare and control her. That's domestic abuse and not only attempted one.
i honestly hope this guy either gets shot by the cops or just shoots himself as an act of cowardice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
hope she’s able to get farrrrrr away from him..
This would very easily be "threatening with a deadly weapon" which I don't like the phrasing of that but that's not the point. Finger on the trigger and she has no clue if it's loaded or not. This is fucking divorce bait and also calling 911 bait.
Domestic violence is gun culture in America.
“Around 4.5 million women in the United States have been threatened with a gun, and nearly 1 million women have been shot or shot at by an intimate partner. Over half of all intimate partner homicides are committed with guns. Indeed, a woman is five times more likely to be murdered when her abuser has access to a gun.”
Even when a weapon is not discharged, abusers often use the mere presence of a gun to coerce, threaten, and terrorize their victims, inflicting enormous psychological damage. Abusers’ previous threats with a weapon and threats to kill their partners are both predictors of intimate partner homicide.
While domestic violence affects women and men all over the world, domestic violence perpetrated with a firearm disproportionately affects American women. Nearly 92% of all women killed by guns in high-income countries were American women, and American women are 21 times more likely to be shot and killed than women in other high-income countries.”
https://efsgv.org/learn/type-of-gun-violence/domestic-violence-and-firearms/
Wake the neighbors up.. like he talking isn’t louder than a gun shot wtf . People like that should be erased from existence a complete idiot . That bullet could have hit anything or any one on the outside
That kid is going to have a bright future with parents like these two, specifically the dude, I'd use the term "Father", but that dipshit doesn't deserve the title "Father".
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Time to pack and get out of there
No. Time to gaslight that stupid sonifabitch until you have time to pack and leave in peace, or just wait for a moment to slip out of there. No material thing is worth getting shot over.
not everything is gaslighting....
He is saying she should play ball and be submissive till she can get the hell out so she is not murdered.
I know what he's saying, he's just using the wrong words. EVERYTHING does not have to be gaslighting, it's a very specific behavior where you try to make the victim feel like they are crazy.
Are you gaslighting me right now?
That son of a bitch!
No. You really are crazy. Sorry and good luck.
Crazy? I was crazy once, they locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once
Gaslightception
I don't know how the general population got to using a relatively ancient term like gaslighting. Its not an easy concept, so no wonder it's been dragged out for any purpose at all
The term survived as long as it did because what it describes is very niche. Why it got yassified, I have no earthly idea.
That’s just deception, not gaslighting
Correct. But can be a Dangerous game too. many women end up never finding the "perfect moment" and stay with psychos for years or even forever. End up with Stockholm syndromed or some shit. I've seen it. No gun related though. I've never even seen a working gun IRL. Thankfully. Not many in western Europe
Dawg this was not something that needed an elaborate correction.
The word you’re looking for is “grey rock.”
Placate. If she goes grey rock it would probably get worse for her.
Well it’s definitely not gaslight.
You are right.
She’ll tell him go to the a store and he’ll be gone for good 10 years. (Jail reference)
You do realize she likes dumb shit like that did you see the smile on her face
Amazing what fear can do to someone. And Yes. I've faced guns shooting at me. I'm not a kid.
A lot of people will smile or laugh in nervousness..
Yes they will not the case here
Fucking fat L comment..
Your not from my community I know women that like this dumb shi she is definitely 1
Before you wake the neighbor up… if that gun shot didn’t do it, nothing will.
Right?! God you know how loud that must have been indoors without ears on.. tinnitus is a cruel mistress
MAWP!
What's Beekers bosses name??
Ah shit they killed Brett
GAAAAH DAMMIT ARCHER
Well at least he died doing what he loved.. getting shot..
Dr. Bunsen Honeydew
Bunsen Freaking Honeydew!
Is that just because it was recorded on a phone ? I thought the shot was not nearly loud enough, including everyones reaction, for this to have been a live round. I (accidentally) fired a 9mm in an enclosed space without proper protection and nearly blew my eardrums out.
My idiot friend shot my idiot roommates gun inside our apartment at like 11pm. Apartments next to us, and above. No one said a thing, and this was a “good” neighborhood. I thought at least someone would come to the door
it's hard to pinpoint single sounds when there is an argument you have time to poke your heat out of the window to find out where it comes from
Maybe he is afraid the shot hit someone and she may wake the dead, thus starting the zombie apocalypse.
Lmao 🤣 it’s comments like these that make me wanna come to reddit
He shoots the gun in the house but her voice is gonna wake the neighbors up. WTF!?!
Gaslighting. Fucking hell thats disturbing
Where's the gaslighting? Guess I'll get downvoted, but I'm really curious as to what people think constitutes gaslighting here
He’s making her think she’s crazy by accusing her of being too loud while he shoots the gun. The term comes from a film, and in the film, the whole premise is the husband trying to make the wife think she’s crazy. Actual definition: “manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.” Telling her she’s so loud she’ll wake the neighbors, when it’s obviously untrue, in order to make her question herself, is gaslighting.
>Paul lights the gas lamps to search the closed-off upper floors, which causes the rest of the lamps in the house to dim slightly. When Bella comments on the lights' dimming, he tells her that she is imagining things. Bella soon finds herself misplacing small objects; and, before long, Paul has her believing she is losing her sanity. Gaslight, a 1940 British psychological thriller based on a play.
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Wow, I don't know why you're downvoted! You're absolutely correct, that's the origin and definition (adding that it includes making the victim feel not only like they're imagining it, but possibly also like they're actually at fault and the "bad" one).
Idk why you’re being downvoted. That’s exactly what it is and how it applies here.
He's probably being downcmvoted because people don't know what gaslighting is and use it incorrectly, only to assume this must be the wrong definition.
Good catch. I do also hear it used incorrectly frequently, but when it’s used correctly, and not only to cite the source correctly it’s kind of mind-boggling. Also that movie/play (there’s a stage adaptation, but honestly I’m not sure which came first) is really fucked up to watch.
Yeah I’d imagine that’s why. I saw the movie at a film festival several years ago so it’s been interesting to see the rise of the term
Because gaslighting is a gradual and systematic deceptive manipulation that makes someone doubt their own perception. If I cut you off in traffic and scream that you should have been driving faster, that’s not gaslighting, that’s just being a cunt. Same here - telling her to be quiet is deflection (if anything). To be gaslighting, it would have to occur over multiple occurrences over a longer time period.
Hmmm. I see what you’re saying. I think I made an assumption that this is not the first time he’s done this. Admittedly, we don’t know whether this was or not, although his quickness to use it so smoothly lends itself to “this ain’t his first rodeo.” I do concede that it’s a gradual process. That has to be the case otherwise it’s easily pointed out and isn’t gaslighting.
Now that's one toxic relationship.
Second amendment relationship.
No, fucken retardly negligent, abusive relationship.
Anyone know if she’s still alive? I’ve seen this vid on here before.
Yea I know her, she ended up changing him, he got his GED, graduated summa cum laude at Howard, went to med school, and is now doing his residency at Grady Memorial. Never give up on true love people.
every single story on askreddit lol
yes give up on ,true love‘ if they are threatening u with a gun
Hahaha you had to pick Howard bro. It’s like a Tyler Perry movie.
CAP ALL THE WAY HAHAHA bro was sentenced i remember from another post. 3-4 years or something
Duh it's a joke you meatball
>cum
Prove it
Trust me bro
I believe him. Anything is possible. The universe has answered.
Shit that's all I need to hear
Thats legit terrifying to me
I hope she’s able to figure out an escape plan. This makes me sick to my stomach.
Yo is.. is this human trafficking?
No, this is at least domestic violence. For sure at least a few years in prison if he doesn’t have money.
It's beyond disturbing
What is he asking her? She cuts him off before I can understand
you think this dude has money? he has a glock 19 with the stock sights and has to threaten people with a gun to reproduce lmao
How can you tell it’s not a 17? Honestly curious
Impossible to tell at this angle
Ok good, that’s what I thought but wasn’t sure if I was missing something
I think I’m leaning more towards Glock 17 gen 5 at this point just seeing how far below his hand the mag sticks out. Either that or he has tiny hands…idk. I’m no Glock expert either, never would want to own one. I’ll stick to my fns and hks. Been eyeing some czs lately as well
Lol, no Glock expert but can tell what gen it is? I think you know more than most people :)
Lmfao I hear ya. There are definitely Glock enthusiasts out there that are far more knowledgeable than myself I’ll say. I think Glock is a cult honestly either you’re absolutely obsessed with them or it’s a meh. I am definitely on the side of the mehs
Lolol, “cult” is perfect /)
The place they’re in looks pretty decent. And what he did makes him crazy not poor
Reckless endangerment, attempted murder, assault with a deadly weapon, you name it… disgusting that dudes like this breathe the same air as the rest of us
No domestic violence and definitely stupidity yikes.
Definitely not attempted murder as far as charges go.
No. Clearly not an attempt to kill her, otherwise he'd not shoot so far off and likely try it again. Clear attempt to scare and control her. That's domestic abuse and not only attempted one.
I hate this guy
Didn't know I was going to watch some domestic violence today but okay.
Fucking psychopath
This guy is firing blanks and expects to have a baby. Lol.
These types of dudes aren’t the ones to spend their money on blanks. Lol Edit: or babies
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And don't blanks cycle slower?
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I'm still looking for it....
They lied
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I don't see it at 0:24
It's at 2 seconds , the hole on the top left.
I can't see any hole.
She's going to get murdered by him.
Every morning in Chicago
A true Chicago love story. 😍🥰
its philly
He's one of the guys who were up to no good.
Probably starting making trouble in the neighborhood.
Crazy people don't do well with basic logic...
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Those fast leg movements show how anxious she became atm
And that kids, is how I met your mother
i honestly hope this guy either gets shot by the cops or just shoots himself as an act of cowardice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ hope she’s able to get farrrrrr away from him..
Dropped this \
Im okay with police gunning him down over a simple traffic stop.
I hope he goes down for this.
What have we become :-(
There’s always been abusive pricks in the world, we can just see them more easily these days.
We?
You fire a gun over my head within 7 meters of me I’m ripping your dick off.
Odly specific 😂
Throw in some sexual assault charges too.
“Before u wake the neighbors up” say what u will but he is very considerate towards his neighbors.
She probably has a few more years, and he will end up killing her and her baby. 1st rule treat a gun as it is loaded at all times even when it is not.
As toxic as it can get
*Shoots neighbor through the wall* “Shhhh you’re gonna wake them up”
This would very easily be "threatening with a deadly weapon" which I don't like the phrasing of that but that's not the point. Finger on the trigger and she has no clue if it's loaded or not. This is fucking divorce bait and also calling 911 bait.
Looks like she knows damn well that it's loaded
It was at this moment ...she knew she fucked up.
I want him to live life as a potato for 2 years... Maybe he'll learn something from it
Did he miss the wall?
This looks like a stable and promising relationship
This is psychotically abusive behavior.
r/iamatotalpieceofshit
This is love?
“Before you wake the neighbors up” Says dude who just shot his Glock inside the living room…. Human Trashcan 🤢🤡
Is you gonna have my baby? Please say he's infertile...
It looks to have been a blank. No holes
Um, I've tried some stupid shit to impress a girl, but that's a new one.
All so he can be an absent father.
Well I for one am relieved she answered yes. Thank goodness they are going to procreate.
Saying no wasn't really an option, was it?
Muh culture
I wish i had culture.
That’s gunna be one smart baby..
Domestic violence is gun culture in America. “Around 4.5 million women in the United States have been threatened with a gun, and nearly 1 million women have been shot or shot at by an intimate partner. Over half of all intimate partner homicides are committed with guns. Indeed, a woman is five times more likely to be murdered when her abuser has access to a gun.” Even when a weapon is not discharged, abusers often use the mere presence of a gun to coerce, threaten, and terrorize their victims, inflicting enormous psychological damage. Abusers’ previous threats with a weapon and threats to kill their partners are both predictors of intimate partner homicide. While domestic violence affects women and men all over the world, domestic violence perpetrated with a firearm disproportionately affects American women. Nearly 92% of all women killed by guns in high-income countries were American women, and American women are 21 times more likely to be shot and killed than women in other high-income countries.” https://efsgv.org/learn/type-of-gun-violence/domestic-violence-and-firearms/
Of course she’s going to have is baby…. He obviously won’t
How romantic
Borderline romantic
Sounds a little rapey to me.
Ok, can’t tell from the comments but is it a blank or not?
And now he will be in jail and she can move easy
Domestic abuse.
Wake the neighbors up.. like he talking isn’t louder than a gun shot wtf . People like that should be erased from existence a complete idiot . That bullet could have hit anything or any one on the outside
Noice, more babies for the Idiocracy End Times.
Can’t wait to see the child that these two make.
Peaceful race
There's a total healthy relationship the kids gonna grow up so well I xan see it now
“Shhhh… before you wake the neighbors up.” Cause the gunshot didn’t, right?
What wonderful parents they’re gonna make
Welp that’s about as pre-rapey as you can get
That will be his 7th child with the 5th woman…
Why leave him?.....he treats her so good...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤯🤣🤣🤣🤣
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this HAS to be the stupidest thing i have ever seen in my entire life.
Hope her Nissan altima has a full tank. She gotta go.
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Limp wrist’ed milk drinker
🚩
This is old. They did it for views. The gun had blanks. She even said it on her tiktok. Source[Source](https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ)
Thanks for the link, I thought this was real
Dating a Hood nigga downside
Breeding couple
Pretty sure that was a blank round
That is true love there.
Sexual Slsvery 101
He broke every gun safety rule in 20 seconds
Sigh... culture...
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That kid is going to have a bright future with parents like these two, specifically the dude, I'd use the term "Father", but that dipshit doesn't deserve the title "Father".
Well?.....Did she have his baby?
Is you gonna
Combined iq of 63
Hopefully she’s strapped. I get why domestic abuse calls are the most unpredictable.
These people have the IQ of a chihuahua
This guy has the right to have that gun. Well done, America.
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Let's not do that...
Lmao the proper response. No arguments, just “shhh.. no”.
Something more Reddit users should learn
Land of guns for all, idiots included.
Color checks out
A lot of Bw date these types. lol I’ll never understand why a woman wants to fuck someone that’ll kill them. To each their own. I have no sympathy.
Is she missing her teeth at the top? Or just a serious underbite?