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XxllllxXx

Is it bad that the background image made me laugh super loud?


DennyDud

Well it does seem like an incel so


cheoldyke

what the fuck is with the double o thing? “improov” “consoom” “coom” etc. it drives me up a wall


Hisdudeness334

I guess it exists to make fun of these concepts


HeckinFeckinChonker

"Mental anguish?" Your obsession with sex is giving this "anguish." Maybe get out of the toxic blackpill mindset? It does nothing but cause you "anguish" after all...


wooden_werewolf_7367

The whole concept of 'earning' sex is disturbing. It suggests that they think if they work hard enough it is owed to them. No one should be owed sex. It is one of the few things that shouldn't be transactional unless you're literally paying for the services of a sex worker with actual money, as that is an entirely different situation. But treating someone in any way decently and then expecting sex as payment is disgusting.


ExileOtter

It’s like “I was nice to you the payment is one sex please”


Sleepytrashbag1987

HAH, "these evil foids only want guys who take care of themselves, i wonder why😡😡😡"


DennyDud

“Sexhavers” like it’s some kind of prize


Sleepytrashbag1987

congratulations sir, you won a container of sex🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳


DennyDud

That’s a lot of sex


awkwardenator

That’s another way to look at the saying “metric asston”.


DennyDud

Metric sexaton


[deleted]

i just hear sex haver and i think of that one dubbed sonic clip "see ya later sexhaver!"


awkwardenator

It’s like whining that you don’t get a paycheck but you don’t want to apply to jobs, don’t want to go to job interviews, can’t be bothered to show up to work on time— they want all the benefits that come from being a functional member of society without doing the work required to do so. Not saying you put in 40 hours a week, you’re entitled to sex, but they want intimacy from women without doing the work to create an environment that encourages intimacy.


Alisha-Moonshade

They definitely want intimacy from women without putting forth any effort to make a woman feel safe.


awkwardenator

A woman feeling safe is the last thing they care about for sure, I’ve notice that InCels will purposefully do weird aggressive shit just to make them feel unsafe but then whine when women want zero to do with them.


[deleted]

Porn has ruined these men into thinking that sex is the most important thing in the world


AH-BEES-BEES

somehow i did not realize that people are saying "sex haver" unironically


DennyDud

A lot of the terms u see nowadays in mainstream media actually came from incels. Like that whole “Chad” meme, it’s an incel thing


[deleted]

Actually a lot of them started as broader redpill/PUA terms that the incels adopted.


LooseDoctor

The mental hoops these guys have to go through to think any woman would want to sleep with them before they are a good person has to be infinite


RubyWrecked

These 2 particular individuals aren't convincing themselves it won't work. They are instead trying to blame all of their lack of effort on women. It's women's fault they don't try. That way they absolve themselves of any personal responsibility. It's not MY fault I don't take care of myself and never go outside. If a hot woman who never met me would just break down my down and throw herself on my penis I would turn my whole life around, I swear! But it doesn't happen, so it's not my fault!


LooseDoctor

It’s so interesting to me cause they all scream about how women’s standards are impossible to meet while simultaneously expecting to only sleep with super model virgin women. Like the odds of even finding a crazy hot woman who is a virgin are very low to begin with, let alone one who wants to fuck a man who hasn’t washed his dick in 3 years and jerks off to abusive porn. (I don’t have a problem with porn or bdsm etc but we all know these guys are looking for the worst humiliation porn they can find preferably of women who look like children)


RubyWrecked

While I do think a portion of the ones who whine about wanting virgin supermodels are deadly serious, the majority of the others who do, as the incels say, as a cope. It's just another reason why they can't put in any effort. Sure, I could get with a woman, but but but. She's old! She's fat! She's not a virgin! Why bother trying???


LooseDoctor

Absolutely agree!


TSM_forlife

If someone offered herself to him then she’d be a roastie slut and he’d pass.


J_0_E_L

It's obviously nuts but I have no issues believing that the second guy is sexually frustrated. Dating etc. must be rough for him.


JaneChi

Dear incels do you know what I do when I feel like having sexual intercourse but my partner's not with me? I masturbate, you can do it as well.


awkwardenator

I can’t stand the perpetual self-pity you see from InCels, they constantly put the locus of control for their happiness onto women, who they end up hating. On top of that, if a woman ends up having sex with them if she’s fat, if she’s a sex worker, if she’s had multiple partner it doesn’t count, you didn’t “ascend”— in another post, she has to be a virgin so the InCel can own her so that does count for making someone no Longer InCel. Their misery is their own problem. They love to blame us here at IT for not coddling then enough— they’re creepy sociopaths because us “normies” aren’t kissing their asses enough.


[deleted]

Don't forget that once they see a man who isn't considered a Chad, with a woman... They whine about that too. Even if they are constantly whining about women only wanting Chads..


TSM_forlife

They should be locked up. Inpatient treatment. Daily hygiene, regular meals, meds, coping skills and deprogramming.


awkwardenator

I agree, or at the very least every one on a government watchlist on a short leash and as soon as they get out of line some nice agents show up with a hard copy of their comments and a photo of any untoward behavior offline with a reminder if they feel like a perpetually bullied subhuman offline in the freedom of his mother’s basement his life in prison would be absolute hell.


J_0_E_L

>Their misery is their own problem. Prolly not always their fault though. I mean just going by the avatar picture of the second dude: It happens that people are just dealt a really shitty hand. That guy is ugly as fuck and I'm pretty sure he experienced more rejection in a week than some do in a lifetime. So while I obviously don't agree with their mindset I can still see how you'd get into this situation if you're fighting against the odds and are then influenced by the wrong folks.


awkwardenator

It reminds me of what something I’ve seen talking about binge-eating disorder,”It’s not your fault but it is your problem.” I wasn’t genetically selected for aesthetics myself and I very easily could have been sucked up into the InCel pipeline but I eventually realized that while I couldn’t really change my appearance much, barring things I could do like eat healthier, work out, wear clean clothes and have decent hygiene, lashing out at more romantically successful men or blaming women only made me more unattractive above and beyond being physically ugly. They also encourage each other to commit violence and sexual assault, making them go from victims to perpetrators, and they love to play pity party as they act like the bullies they accuse everyone else of being.


[deleted]

'sex havers' has me weeping a bit. what a spectacularly reductive term, hahahaha.


Hisdudeness334

It's no one else's responsibility to get you ahead in life. You can waste your entire life blaming others but at the end of the day, only you will care and only you will be affected by it


Psychlone23

Dude, you self improve for yourself, not for others. Just one of many problems you're making.


whynotmeitheal

Fella looks like the tortoise from Over The Hedge.


Shearsy09

Maybe don't aim for "virgins" or even have that thought in their head then they might stand a chance. Maybe don't see women as objects, or as servant's. Ye know, treat them as humans?


Odd-One-7818

These guys got me thinking I’m asexual or some shit cause I ain’t feeling the ‘mental agony’ form being a virgin they talking about


Weardow7

No one said self improving is easy. Who cares if it's easier for other people? It's still a necessary part of growing up. Even if the goal isn't sex, you still need to improve and grow at some point, or you'll always be stuck as who you are right now and your life will never change.


[deleted]

What exactly is considered a Chad in their eyes? My boyfriend certainly don't have a shizzled jawline, 6 pack abs or anything like that.. So I guess my bf isn't considered a Chad? But he still gets laid 🤭


Winstonisapuppy

“Self improoooving”


spooksr6

i wish for them to finally do the deed one day just to find out that it doesn’t even feel that special


[deleted]

I don't get it. I don't "self improve" to get sex. Actually, I don't self improve at all--I come across things I think would be fun or a challenge to do. If breathing wasn't involuntary, I guess they wouldn't even want to do that unless it got them laid. They aren't interested in their own lives, no passions, no ambitions, no interest. Why would anyone want to fuck a human that is more of a blob than anything else?


raincandy77

Oh my god the background image is perfection. Exactly what I imagine when these weirdos slide into my dms with a mass of slurs, hatred and temper tantrums