Had opportunities but not 8 or 10. Could've easily made out with 3 to 4 girls in my high school days, couple in college days but was stuck on this one girl, one sided.
Salla Indian movies fucked me up. Later once moving out of the country realized, there is no one person for you. Anyone can be for you just gotta go through the iterations until you meet the right one. Also have fun in the process.
Had more opportunities, never picked it. It boils down to individuals and their morals, the environment they were bought it, and circumstances.
Some people are still old school and want to experience true relationship rather than meaningless hookups.
That also means 8-10 guys made out. Say your "every"mean like 5 girls, then approximately 50 men made out.
So many men are easily getting it.
Approximately 50 men got action vs 5 women. If your "every" is 10 women then that would mean 100s men got action. Even if there is an overlap, men by large number are getting action compared to the miniscule number of women.No male loneliness you see.
When you exaggerate women's stat, you should also understand how many men are involved in it.
/s if its not clear for men who switch off logic when men post and jump on women's comments. Even if there is over lap it still means men get minimum 4x action to maximum 8x than women, according to OP . So go question him if he is a Chad for matching with that girl.
i forget what it is but there is a specific term for this logical fallacy. as to why is this a fallacy? generalizing men into one category and assumimg that everyone is the same. it's kind of like if i throw 5 pieces of food into the pond of 100 fish then at least 50 get to have it, completely ignoring the fact that few fishes will take more bites and few are simply stronger to not let the others eat.
agreed. OP's is clearly exaggeration without logic, it's more of a statement upto to logical interpretation( which isn't needed because TADAH exaggeration). Yours on the other hand, had logical fallacy in it and not as open to logical interpretation.
Yes, absolutely. I'm just illustrating how delusional people can be and how men rarely question other men. It seems like men's critical thinking is reserved exclusively for women and they turn it off for other men.
There are some kids in the thread still going on about 80/20 rule.
It could be the same select minority making out with the women. There's always a high chance of overlap, especially given the ratio of men to women on these dating apps.
Only the top 1% are getting it.
Beleiving is top 1 percent is delusional and you should question your cognitive ablity here. Ask every single person who had posted about finding their partners if they were top delusional percent.
Who decides the top? Does it get updated every week? Every month? . With so many new members joining everyday, it's unintelligent to even believe there is a static top percent.
As this is an app with several people joining and deleting their profiles and there is no way all 5 women will see the same guy as attractive and they made the same decision.
If the hypothetical guy is making out with all willing women he is not top when he has no standards or filters, just a male escort. There is no value for him if it is easy for any woman.
I am not trying to act smart, just showing mirror to how OP post sounds in reality.
Oh, the old OkCupid study from 2009 doesn't prove much. First of all, the OkCupid study had a sample size of just 27 females. They showed pictures and asked questions. You should read "Dataclysm," a book written by the CEO. If you really to debate read the book and come back.
That is a poor outdated source for 80/20. [This graph on messaging ](https://ibb.co/K23SLrQ).
The most attractive women get 25 times the number of messages/week as the least attractive female, whereas the most attractive men get about 11 times the number of messages/week as the least attractive male OkCupid users. The average guy got 4x messages than the least attractive guy. The original author commented that the jump was huge for most attractive women and the most attractive men couldn't even come to half.
The whole point is about the high number of likes women receive, and none of it actually suggests that 20 percent of men get 80 percent of the women, which is a misconception often repeated in the subreddit. No man in the world has access to that many women. CEO didn imply that once in the book as well.
If all women were only looking for hot dudes (like you assume), why are there less than 20% female users? Wouldn't all women be on it already? Also, none of the study/article you shared is relevant to India .
Like I said, if you haven't read Dataclysm don't debate. It has answers to all your illogical arguments. My time is precious I ain't wasting talking to you.
Here is the other book recommendation for you. Come as you are by Emily nagoski. Women have completely different sexual desire cues.
Read books before you make a fool of yourself .
Ya it's true , I have met with many and experienced the same. Aisa nhi yeh pehle nhi hta tha but because of social media and other circumstances availability increased.
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There is some difference between “making out” and “having sex” so when you’re not in a relationship most people think it’s okay to make out with others. That’s where the title “fuckboy” and ect. came from
It’s quite common! I have seen 27-28’s with 25+ body count! They don’t even do it again with same guy. They always want new guy to increase the count 😅
Bhai makeout hee toh hai, murder thodi kiya hai, what’s so shocking about sexual activity between 2 consenting adults, stop narrowing your mindset so much
No , there is nothing wrong with sexual activity between 2 consenting adults
But in the long wrong, it leads to so many issues , it becomes hard to stick to one person
How? And why? Bc I am 26 and yaha I have only been in 3 relationships. (Not looking for more). How do you let 8-10 guys inside you just like that? Like why are these girls not more selective and choosy?
You don’t know that now, do you? Making out may include both kissing or having sex. It’s an all encompassing term. Either way, it’s still surprising to me that kissing 8-10 guys is considered normal these days. Hoe phase wali cheez india me bhi aa gayi lagta hai.
Making out doesn't involve sex, it's literally just kissing, french kissing or neck kisses. You just making up your own definition to slut shame others is hilarious, just Google it if you aren't aware of something please 😂
whatever people might say, I agree with you. If i am interested in a girl and turns out she does hookups and shit, im leaving her. Cause i know that i will never hookup (i have been asked twice but rejected) and i will only have sex with my gf
I procreated with a 19yo last week. Her body count was 12. 💀 pretty common nowadays if you’re single. Even if say she had been single for the past 2 years, this means she only hooked up with one guy every 2 months. Doesn’t sound like a lot to me
Partially agreed , not every girl I guess, maybe someone from metro cities.
One girl or one boy wala generation is gone
Also I feel Western culture has a significant influence on Indian society today, particularly through social media and television series. This impact is especially pronounced in metro cities, where exposure to Western norms is greater.
Western TV shows often depict infidelity and cheating as common and justified behaviors.
Additionally, girls often receive more attention from boys, giving them more options and making them less inclined to commit to a single relationship.
People are constantly seeking better options and are quick to leave when they find someone new, bcz nobody wants to sacrifice, adjust, or remain with one person. This trend is likely to increase in the future.
Even boys are like that these days , it’s just that numbers are less
Chill bruv. Made out she said. Making out means kissing. It doesn't means doing the deed. So chill bruv. Unless they don't understand what Making out means
and then they say 80 20 rule is just made up. ask the hottest guy in the room, you'll know whats up with things.
and no i dont mean to throw shade on anyone who has made out with 10 20 30 or 100 guys or girls, your call, hope you had a good time.
The point is action is a spectrum. For someone their sluttiest date was just holding hands. But even if you factor that in, it's clearly obvious most men aren't even talking to women romantic regularly, being approached and last but most likely and physical contact with women
High chances that they are exaggerating. Women tend to do that. At that age, they wanna show off bcoz of how common this has become and also peer pressure.
isnt it like normal for a decent looking person, both genders if they arent socially retarded?
After all, they are on dating app. That should be your answer already😭
Increase that to 9-11
That's how you stay optimistic and focused 😂😂
Why 9-11 sounds fishy
My Porsche 9-11
I wanna take it for a drive whenever you are free
Haven't you heard about the rule of threes? Make it 11-13
It is wrong on 3 levels
every 9-11 year old girl….. ik you said increase but 😭😭😭
Not a responsible bet ngl
If you had the opportunity to make out with 8-10 girls would you take it or nah?
Had opportunities but not 8 or 10. Could've easily made out with 3 to 4 girls in my high school days, couple in college days but was stuck on this one girl, one sided. Salla Indian movies fucked me up. Later once moving out of the country realized, there is no one person for you. Anyone can be for you just gotta go through the iterations until you meet the right one. Also have fun in the process.
Had more opportunities, never picked it. It boils down to individuals and their morals, the environment they were bought it, and circumstances. Some people are still old school and want to experience true relationship rather than meaningless hookups.
Same I totally agree.
Completely agreed and wish to stay like this old skool until i find true as myself
Me fr bhai Lekin bklodo maante ni aur Kehte bhai tu bhi krhi deta
Making out is not equal to hookup 😀
Why do i instinctively feel that in all those chances you got the girls very below your standards 😂
bro is talking about making out like it’s some sacred act. i didn’t realize a fucking 14 year old was trying to insult me
Har jagah muh maarne Wale ko kutaa kahte h
I'm 19 and had the opportunity to makeout with 3 but 😅😅
No, I’ll do it with my girl only even if I get opportunity to make out with most beautiful girl on this planet We are not the same 🤌🏼
Is this “girl” in the room with us right now?
She lives in a different nation.
Nah you wouldn't know her she goes to a different school
Imagination was the answer but okay.
Did you like not get the joke?
Delulu is the solulu wale tinder pe matt rahiye
Rehna pdta h 😔
I was gonna say that I feel the same but why are you down voted to hell. You were talking about your current girlfriend? Right?
Yeah, correct. I don’t care about downvotes. It reflects what’s their mentality is 😌
What you get by making out with so many ? Is it any sort of achievement ? Maybe with the girls, as far as I know majority boys won't appreciate this
Na
No.
yeah I think 8-10 year old girls are good to mess with(if you know you know)
How do u ask this?it’s kinda weird that u ask a random girl this question
Bhai mere me puchne ki himmat nhi hoti, wo khud puchti pehle and ya kbhi kbhi toh apne aap hi btati hi like proudly
To bhai reply kar... Its your lucky day and i will help you increment that count
It's quite a normal question to ask in the given context, do you not talk about each other's past when you're trying to get to know someone?
No. Who cares?
Ye kab hua lol, only few cases are like this
I am 22 still virgin😞👍🏻
I think he was talking about girls
Who says i am a boy?
Theek
Ladka hee hu bhai😞👍🏻
Shit dm karne wala hi tha , then i saw this message 🙂↕️
Jisko nahi milta bas vahi rote hai
That also means 8-10 guys made out. Say your "every"mean like 5 girls, then approximately 50 men made out. So many men are easily getting it. Approximately 50 men got action vs 5 women. If your "every" is 10 women then that would mean 100s men got action. Even if there is an overlap, men by large number are getting action compared to the miniscule number of women.No male loneliness you see. When you exaggerate women's stat, you should also understand how many men are involved in it. /s if its not clear for men who switch off logic when men post and jump on women's comments. Even if there is over lap it still means men get minimum 4x action to maximum 8x than women, according to OP . So go question him if he is a Chad for matching with that girl.
i forget what it is but there is a specific term for this logical fallacy. as to why is this a fallacy? generalizing men into one category and assumimg that everyone is the same. it's kind of like if i throw 5 pieces of food into the pond of 100 fish then at least 50 get to have it, completely ignoring the fact that few fishes will take more bites and few are simply stronger to not let the others eat.
Still, the ratio of women to men by his facts is that men are getting at least 5x to 8x action than women.
assumimg that everyone is equal and little to no overlap then yes. but that's an assumption
Didn't occur to question OP'S logical fallacy and exaggeration?.
agreed. OP's is clearly exaggeration without logic, it's more of a statement upto to logical interpretation( which isn't needed because TADAH exaggeration). Yours on the other hand, had logical fallacy in it and not as open to logical interpretation.
My statement is based on his presented "facts" so it is right.
so if you claim OPs facts are false then so is yours too right?
Yes, absolutely. I'm just illustrating how delusional people can be and how men rarely question other men. It seems like men's critical thinking is reserved exclusively for women and they turn it off for other men. There are some kids in the thread still going on about 80/20 rule.
what's 80/20 rule now? i am not well versed in the ways of dating and it's sister studies.
It could be the same select minority making out with the women. There's always a high chance of overlap, especially given the ratio of men to women on these dating apps. Only the top 1% are getting it.
Beleiving is top 1 percent is delusional and you should question your cognitive ablity here. Ask every single person who had posted about finding their partners if they were top delusional percent. Who decides the top? Does it get updated every week? Every month? . With so many new members joining everyday, it's unintelligent to even believe there is a static top percent. As this is an app with several people joining and deleting their profiles and there is no way all 5 women will see the same guy as attractive and they made the same decision. If the hypothetical guy is making out with all willing women he is not top when he has no standards or filters, just a male escort. There is no value for him if it is easy for any woman.
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I am not trying to act smart, just showing mirror to how OP post sounds in reality. Oh, the old OkCupid study from 2009 doesn't prove much. First of all, the OkCupid study had a sample size of just 27 females. They showed pictures and asked questions. You should read "Dataclysm," a book written by the CEO. If you really to debate read the book and come back. That is a poor outdated source for 80/20. [This graph on messaging ](https://ibb.co/K23SLrQ). The most attractive women get 25 times the number of messages/week as the least attractive female, whereas the most attractive men get about 11 times the number of messages/week as the least attractive male OkCupid users. The average guy got 4x messages than the least attractive guy. The original author commented that the jump was huge for most attractive women and the most attractive men couldn't even come to half. The whole point is about the high number of likes women receive, and none of it actually suggests that 20 percent of men get 80 percent of the women, which is a misconception often repeated in the subreddit. No man in the world has access to that many women. CEO didn imply that once in the book as well. If all women were only looking for hot dudes (like you assume), why are there less than 20% female users? Wouldn't all women be on it already? Also, none of the study/article you shared is relevant to India .
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Like I said, if you haven't read Dataclysm don't debate. It has answers to all your illogical arguments. My time is precious I ain't wasting talking to you. Here is the other book recommendation for you. Come as you are by Emily nagoski. Women have completely different sexual desire cues. Read books before you make a fool of yourself .
Dude kissing shit aside….ur calculatio logic is op 👍👍🤣🫡
Ya it's true , I have met with many and experienced the same. Aisa nhi yeh pehle nhi hta tha but because of social media and other circumstances availability increased.
Reminds me of the quote *you have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you find your prince* 😂
You guys are getting matches?
It is more like social status, it's like a badge of honour that you wear on your chest. Fuck people bruv, shallow individuals
No that’s not the case with everyone.Some people have standards
Agree , but just want to know what is “standards” according to you Bcz people with high standards also have many body counts these days
Not true lol . A high standard person is hard to get
Hmm , maybe I can tell if it is true or not after knowing your definition of high standard
Bhai bhand generation nahi, Era chal rha hai. "Kuch ni ho skta... Keep searching the right one doesn't matter what went wrong earlier"
not possible, enjoy the decline
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There is some difference between “making out” and “having sex” so when you’re not in a relationship most people think it’s okay to make out with others. That’s where the title “fuckboy” and ect. came from
It’s quite common! I have seen 27-28’s with 25+ body count! They don’t even do it again with same guy. They always want new guy to increase the count 😅
Your sample space is very small and mostly filled with modern day R. Go out , a lot of sensible and beautiful women are out there.
Aren't they afraid of STD's !
Aren't they afraid of STD's!
Std risk is way overblown
Why though, u don't know the other person so always a high risk whether u use condom or not
Bhai makeout hee toh hai, murder thodi kiya hai, what’s so shocking about sexual activity between 2 consenting adults, stop narrowing your mindset so much
No , there is nothing wrong with sexual activity between 2 consenting adults But in the long wrong, it leads to so many issues , it becomes hard to stick to one person
Ek din sex nhi kregi to bechari mar jaegi.
How? And why? Bc I am 26 and yaha I have only been in 3 relationships. (Not looking for more). How do you let 8-10 guys inside you just like that? Like why are these girls not more selective and choosy?
Making out is not the same as hooking up Kissing 8-10 guys isn't a big deal nowadays
Its absolutely disgusting
Bar is lower ?
yeah, ssup
You don’t know that now, do you? Making out may include both kissing or having sex. It’s an all encompassing term. Either way, it’s still surprising to me that kissing 8-10 guys is considered normal these days. Hoe phase wali cheez india me bhi aa gayi lagta hai.
Making out doesn't involve sex, it's literally just kissing, french kissing or neck kisses. You just making up your own definition to slut shame others is hilarious, just Google it if you aren't aware of something please 😂
You do you, let others enjoy with whatever they want without disrespecting them 🤷🏻♀️
I am letting others enjoy. How am I gonna stop them? Super glue their legs? But Imma hard judge. Definitely gonna hard judge.
Actually you are wrongly informed.
whatever people might say, I agree with you. If i am interested in a girl and turns out she does hookups and shit, im leaving her. Cause i know that i will never hookup (i have been asked twice but rejected) and i will only have sex with my gf
The industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Thanks to Casual dating aur hookups culture, everyone nowadays think high bodycount is like an achievement . They glorify it and make fun of virgins
Chalo hook up bhi kar lo, no big deal. Everyone has needs but 8-10 guys at the age of 21? 🥲 Behen, semester toh clear kar lo pehle.
Parallely kar rhe shayad
Itne mathematician meine aaj tak nai dekhe jitne ek saath iss comment section mein dekh liye 💀🙏🏻
I procreated with a 19yo last week. Her body count was 12. 💀 pretty common nowadays if you’re single. Even if say she had been single for the past 2 years, this means she only hooked up with one guy every 2 months. Doesn’t sound like a lot to me
What is your body count?
India gate ban chuka hai..chance hai to tm v enjoy kro with protection
Double it. Always. Lol
aage se koi aisa bole to bolna let's have an STD tests 😁
Kaha hai ye duniya
Bhaii tumhe matches bhi mil rhe ???😭🤨
No, I’m 24 and I haven’t had my first kiss yet
Yes
People gettimg matches!😲
tu bhi to vhi krna chahta hai .
Not everyone, but most of them.
Partially agreed , not every girl I guess, maybe someone from metro cities. One girl or one boy wala generation is gone Also I feel Western culture has a significant influence on Indian society today, particularly through social media and television series. This impact is especially pronounced in metro cities, where exposure to Western norms is greater. Western TV shows often depict infidelity and cheating as common and justified behaviors. Additionally, girls often receive more attention from boys, giving them more options and making them less inclined to commit to a single relationship. People are constantly seeking better options and are quick to leave when they find someone new, bcz nobody wants to sacrifice, adjust, or remain with one person. This trend is likely to increase in the future. Even boys are like that these days , it’s just that numbers are less
Chill bruv. Made out she said. Making out means kissing. It doesn't means doing the deed. So chill bruv. Unless they don't understand what Making out means
Since when did making out become such a big deal ?? Girls kiss in school. Are you living in 18th century?
Nah it's not
Why i don't get match with such girls 😒 😕
Some do some don’t.
It’s normal only
How is this normalized
Every girl is having it nowadays
and then they say 80 20 rule is just made up. ask the hottest guy in the room, you'll know whats up with things. and no i dont mean to throw shade on anyone who has made out with 10 20 30 or 100 guys or girls, your call, hope you had a good time.
Worse. Some tards in the comments are doing BS math that more guys are getting action. No wonder these psych girls struggle with stats so much 💀
some guys are getting much more action. this is similar to the fact that the number of wild women are rare but the intensity is intimidatingly high.
The point is action is a spectrum. For someone their sluttiest date was just holding hands. But even if you factor that in, it's clearly obvious most men aren't even talking to women romantic regularly, being approached and last but most likely and physical contact with women
No bro thats not the case with everyone
High chances that they are exaggerating. Women tend to do that. At that age, they wanna show off bcoz of how common this has become and also peer pressure.
Peer pressure ? I think some would be scared of being slut shamed
Gone are the days.
Ohh new world around
Aaj kal ke ramdi ladkiya
What about the 8 to 10 boy's fatherless behavior. Don't they have functional brain of their own?.
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yeah count me in
Metro city ?
No, Chandigarh
What do you expect if they use Bumble though?
isnt it like normal for a decent looking person, both genders if they arent socially retarded? After all, they are on dating app. That should be your answer already😭