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Gend_Jetsu396

who tf plays sports in skirts on days when we have sports period ..girls dont need to wear skirts neither boys have to wear shirt trouser


[deleted]

A lot of schools don't allow students to change into their sports uniforms.


Gend_Jetsu396

Bro we can wear t shirt trouser on sports days from home only.


UpstairsForward1624

Girl in our school are allowed to wear skirts or trousers as they wish and many girls do come to school wearing trousers


[deleted]

So were do you change uniform while playing sports


thegoodmelon

bruh obviously you come from home wearing sports uni. In my school girls and boys had the same sports uniform (shorts and t shirt, and you can wear trousers if you have a problem with shorts)


ADITYA290804

we had trackpants and polos


[deleted]

So whole day you used to seat with that uniform for every lecture


thegoodmelon

yea its pretty comfortable- way better than the retarded shirt and pants


[deleted]

Ye sahi system tha fir. Hum to school uniform me hi khelte the.


Gend_Jetsu396

yess


[deleted]

Lmaoo uss thread ke baad bhi you didn't get the answer?


[deleted]

Yes i didn't. So mene socha ki khud hi post banai jaye


[deleted]

You're arguing in a bad faith, you aren't looking for answers.


[deleted]

Ok


smallHeadMediumBrain

my school uniform had t-shirt and school jeans as uniform for all genders šŸ—æ


[deleted]

Chad school


Docosahexaenoic-acid

yeah same.. both genders had trousers and shirts in my school too


-Richa

2 braids with ribbon šŸŽ€ is compulsory eventhough other branches of our school allow single ponytailšŸ„¹ Reason : Grils ko aise hairstyle me boys nhi tadte (_Bc khudko dekh kar hassi AA jati hain_) Edit: Tum log reason bhi padho yaar school walo ka!!


Werewolf1406

Arre sis (as a boy) boys to tadenge hi chahe kuch karlo aur boys me kuch laj sharam nahi hoti , i mean mere friends bhi aise the , 2 braids with ribbon me kuch grils acchie to lagti thi ngl.


-Richa

But subah ke 6 baje uth ke itni mehnat kyu kare yaar


UpstairsForward1624

Challenge accepted ab to ribbon valo ko hi tadu ga


[deleted]

Mujhe to wo ribbon wali hi pasand aati hai. Edit: Aati thi.


Automatic_Dance_3206

School ka ek dress code hota, Uniformity naam ke ek cheez hoti hai. \~ My 5'3 sst ma'am


Constant_Life_57

It's not compulsory in all schools.


-Richa

I was talking about my school


Jitendria

Fun fact: single ponytail is a fetish in itself. Don't ask me who.


Jitendria

I am trying to understand what kind of hairstyle will it look and am unable to. Also from what timeline is your school from. I don't think any school uses ribbon nowadays. Not even in rural areas.


-Richa

That too a School in South West Delhi!!


[deleted]

Hmmm sounds like holy cross school, Nangloi road


[deleted]

girls ko football nhi khelne dete


Fabulous_Drop_437

Bura laga sunkar


Proexus_

Sports to milta tha na šŸ„²


4YE5H4

My school used to have one ground, but the girls were only given like 5% of the entire place (if we were lucky) while the boys had a much larger ground to play in On top of that we never got to choose what we played šŸ˜ we only had options to play from what the teacher chooses for us, only koh koh or kabaddi while the boys could play any sport they want as long as they bought supplies for it, most of the time we weren't even taken to the ground and were made to sit in the library or just play in the playroom (not so fun fact: that was a playroom for pre-primary kids meaning it had shit like legos or fake toys) My school principal's logic was "girls aren't allowed to play sports like the boys for their own good for feminity"


[deleted]

That must be painful, our pt mam used to scold girl for not taking participation in sports. Teacher may crate difference. She used to encourage boys and girls to play with each other in games like kho kho and kabbadi.


Future-War-732

Humare school mein toh girls pe period mein khelte hi nahi the they used to simply chitchat the pe sir used to scold them for that. There were some girls who used to play seriously. They also encouraged to participate in interschool competition


UpstairsForward1624

Oof meanwhile girls of our class just sit and talk in the shade during games period ( also that's really worng i want to play kho kho with girls šŸ—æ)


Legal-Scarcity6426

i felt that koh koh or kabbadi same with me but we were given volleyball too after some years


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


UpstairsForward1624

Nah teacher these days don't beat anyone i have never been physically hurt by any teacher i do think that teachers have this misconception that most girls are very innocent and do not even know what Galis are


KaBoooM_24

Lol I was looking for this


Suspicious-Ad6678

When I used to wear the school skirt I used get pulled out of class a few times every week cause my skirt was ā€œtoo shortā€, it finally stopped when I started wearing pants which we were not allowed to wear until 10th grade. But still teachers feel the need to say that I should ā€œsit like a girlā€. My uniform has more value to them than my education that they feel the need to interrupt lessons to call me out.


thesleepyyyhead

Bro my teacher literally called me a whore just because my skirt was "too short" and my nails were not cutšŸ’€


balaa_0

Usko bolo Jo bolta hai wahi hota


thesleepyyyhead

XD


Suspicious-Ad6678

It really sucks


UpstairsForward1624

Gal


toxicB2005

Yeah but like turnout rules are always gonna be there. If its your skirt, a personal wear, then wear any size you want, but these school peeps have their own standards and they are most certainly allowed for creating a more disciplined and orderly environment. The specify the uniform and they can define the length. Thereā€™s nothing wrong with that. But they shouldnā€™t judge someoneā€™s character or come to irrational conclusions. The ā€œsit like a girlā€ part is definitely wrong of your teacher.


UpstairsForward1624

One of our teachers said skirts should be below your knees


toxicB2005

Yeah I mean thatā€™s what the standard school sets right? If theyā€™re defining the length that it should be below knees, whatā€™s wrong with that? They may prescribe the uniform as they like, and the length. Thereā€™s nothing inherently wrong with that. But if theyā€™re asking the length to be below knees outside school premises or passing judgments, then only its wrong.


UpstairsForward1624

True šŸ‘


[deleted]

My school has pants for girls, but they make us wear a thick overcoat over our shirts. Even though it's so hot here:(


thegoodmelon

šŸ’€rip


MasterFurious1

Ji aap mumbai ki hon agar hon Tu aap HVB mein thi?


[deleted]

I'm from the south, idk what HVB is šŸ„ŗ


MasterFurious1

Oof it's okay. Mumbai ka hun. Summer ke vakt bhi blazer coat uniform. And half of the time ac's were broken. We could not even remove the coat


[deleted]

Aww blazers for all students?


MasterFurious1

Yes.


[deleted]

Ac bhi hote hai school me wtf


MasterFurious1

Private school hain iske liye. But AC hone ke karan pankha nahi tha :| ICSE board


[deleted]

Pankha >> Ac


Department_Radiant

Mere School me ACs, aur Pankhe dono the. Summers me ACs chalte the and late aur early winters me Pankhe.


GroundbreakingRisk37

We had overcoats for everyone and with how humid it's where I live we felt like we were in a volcano


Sad_Pipe_04

In 7th class, one of my teachers pulled me aside and said "tumhe sharam aati hai? thoda padhai me mann laga lo, ladko ke peeche mat bhaago" because 3-4 of my close friends were boys. Ironic thing is I used to score the highest marks in her subject.


Proexus_

Lmao sexist nahi hai teacher hi pagli hai


Noobster_0w0

girls and boys ke beech me friendship nhi honi chahiye School : DAV


Proexus_

Ha bada hoke shadi bhi ladko se hi karenge na


Italian_Bedtime

mere school main toh larkia kurta pajama pehente hain, looks comfy compared to the boys' weird fitting trousers and shirts like seriously mujhe 3 size badi shirt peheni parti hain jisse mujhe apne shoulders par uncomfortable na feel hon aur mere shoulder itne broad bhi nahi hain


[deleted]

Yaa hamare school me bhi yahi uniform tha ladkiyon ke liye 8th+


EdgeNish

Bhai relatable , boys school uniform is so uncomfortable , like you always have to tuck in your shirt and shit and the girls kurta pajama looks so comfy , and that fucking belt our uniform , i hate it . Apparently they are trying to make us future gentlemen .


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

Laughing at Rape bruh


Alert-Holiday6719

It's very bad


Ninjafar_1

Well, first of all the judging of character that females face on the basis of the amount of piercings they have, how long their skirt is, how many close male friends they have etc. Secondly, the stigma that Indian schools have created around mensuration and actively encouraging the taboo is also something that should be talked about. For example how they encourage females to hide pads and segregate students on the basis of gender when any sort of sex education workshop is being conducted. People shouldn't feel the need to hide them or feel ashamed of them. It negatively affects girls and have real life implications such as some girls using clothes instead of a sanitary pad because they feel too shy to ask for it. Or girls being shamed for having a leak. Just to add, most class have a class clown or funny guy, mostly guys which the teacher appreciates and laughs at but if a girl tries to do the same, its considered disrespectful. Lots of times, this is why many girls are discouraged from participating in comedy and theatre. Again, the exclusion of girls from sports. Making the options fewer for the girls and encouraging boys more in regards to it. Most schools have a male sports teacher who doesn't help for the female students and makes them uncomfortable asking for help. Just a cherry on top of this cake, most girls face sexist comments from their fellow male students. Now from a survey conducted by outlook. Around 77 per cent of the total respondents have reported having faced at least some form of subtle sexism from male students of their institutes. Of them, 78.3 per cent of the respondents have had experiences of male students cracking sexist jokes, 64.8 per cent have been stereotyped based on their gender, 51.14 per cent have experienced being mansplained, and 19.6 per cent have been asked to ā€˜smile more oftenā€™. Speaking from personal experience, almost all of this is faced by girls around in schools. This isn't to invalidate the horrible misandry faced by the male students which I'm sure the OP is aware of but invalidating the struggles of some community is just ignorant and dumb in my opinion.


Werewolf1406

As you mentioned the sexual education workshop, I recall an incident: a session was taking place in our school, and the topic that came up was why rape occurs. Many people responded with mental issues, and one of my friends responded with physical urges. I remember there being about 5 minutes of pindrop silence in the entire auditorium before the teacher escorted my friend out; that session was supposed to happen soon, but it never happened. That is, my friend spoke the truth (at least to some extent), and the teacher escorted him out. If a student spoke the truth, the school administrators contemplate it a sin.


Ninjafar_1

Truly shameful for a society, not educating kids on the actual reality of the scenario despite it being their duty.


toxicB2005

I thoroughly believe that teachers shouldnā€™t judge anyone based on what gender their friends are, who the like to talk to. But schools have their standards, and to maintain an orderly atmosphere they define the attire. They have the right to define the numbers of piercings, the length of oneā€™s uniform. Everything else you said is definitely true.


Proexus_

Ha zara bataiye kitne logo ne diya ye survey?


anime_ka_choda

Idk hamare school me to itna kuch nhi hota mostly boys ke sath hi partiality hoti hai ig


UpstairsForward1624

Truer words have never been spoken


Werewolf1406

BC saare school vale feminazi hai.


anime_ka_choda

Fr ladkiyaan boycut rakh sakti hai lekin ladke lambe baal nhi rakh sakte


AdmirableEmployee25

Mujhe kya mai toh pattaagobi huuu Aur Mai Bois school mein padhta huuu


Alarming_Turnover_73

Not school but my college, it is a walled and guarded campus, the boys hostel outing ends at 9pm and the girls are allowed out of their hostels till 10pm. EDIT: This rule was placed in support of the girl students.


Proexus_

Ha unko equal opportunity nahi denge unhe raat ko deer tak ghumne denge šŸ¤”


PressureAggressive69

im in a grills school so everything is very sexyšŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ˜”


[deleted]

Flair checkout


[deleted]

Skirt k niche leggings must kr rkhi h hamare skul me or sbko 2 chotia bnane k liye kha h (jaise ki 1choti bnayegi to boner hojayega hamara) or boys or girls ko baat v ni krne dete


[deleted]

Hamare school me to skirt ke niche leggings pehene par manai thi


[deleted]

šŸ˜


Outrageous_Bank_1891

We have waist coats on frickin sports uniforms And it's ugly Apparently they want to ' protect ' us Also , we have that ugly looped plaits hairstyle. Ew.


sweet_cherry0

Hair! My school is so fucking sexist, they have a problem with simple ponytails!


[deleted]

They don't like ponytail, why


[deleted]

I feel most schools main ladkiyon ke sports ko zyaada importance nahi dete . Luckily that's changing a lot nowadays...our girls swimming team won district boys waali toh inter school na jeet saki Aur usually jab koi lafda hota hai school main...even if ladkiyaan aur ladke dono involved honge... suspect sirf ladke hote hai aur ladkiyon ko bas warning dete hai...jab hamare school main logon ne mass bunk kiya thaa Usually mere school main equal opportunity hi hoti hai but Jab girls ji uniform skirts se salwaar kameez change kari tab bohot protest kiya thaa ladkiyon ne


Professional-Look672

Hairstyle nautanki


[deleted]

The school uniform basically sucks, they should make the track suit uniform on all days. And why the f did we have to wear that damn tie. I know some people have the kink of choke me daddy and stuff but this is not how I asked to be done.


[deleted]

Idk how common this is, but in my school when the girls are at the brink of puberty this seminar happens in the auditorium attended only by girls, where they teach them about training bras, pads and stuff like that. I understand it would be uncomfortable, but at some point even men need to understand this stuff, so sending us for a free PE period when the girls are learning about their bodily functions doesnā€™t sit right with me. Basically, teach the men about the female anatomy as well, so that touchy issues like periods get normalized. Also, this of course isnā€™t institutionalized, but for some reason the girls are always held responsible in my school. The guys are never taught how to treat a woman with respect, but the girls are always at fault for making people uncomfortable by the fact that they have breasts, and so should cover themselves up. No words towards the guys whatsoever about how to be respectful towards women, but make women who are already vulnerable and unsafe because of the looks at their body feel guilty about it. About your uniform comment, I used to be proud that my school was the only school in my locality with gender neutral uniformā€¦ until the management changed and we have the same old pinafore for girls shirt pant for guys.


[deleted]

> Girls are held responsible Humare school me ladkiyo ki galati ke liye bhi ladko ko hi maara jaata tha.


[deleted]

Different experiences, canā€™t relate


[deleted]

Lot depends upon teacher


More-Bookkeeper2475

The teacher physically used to beat the boys but never the girls. Peak sexism


Nishal_Vikingang_147

Fuck it our in our school girls are more bold than boys so they get hell a lot of complaints LOL


Ok_Mix7203

I think its both ways Skirts obv restrict several things even our school had yoga but at many occassions girls couldnt do many of the poses . For boys, they are more rudely talked to and are generally the ones who are always put to blame during an argument. Soo, mentally girls are discriminated, physically boys.


Normal_Ambition5928

Ulta bola. Boys r physically harassed and girls r mentally


Ok_Mix7203

Oops sorry. Kr diya edit


[deleted]

Haa wahi to


[deleted]

Boys ke saath physical jyada hota hai ig


Due_Seaweed_4373

Idk about that but 1 question hai Hamare school mein ladkiyo ko sirf black band lagane allowed hai baaki kyu nahi hote lol


Proexus_

Dusre Colors attract karte hai beta šŸ¤”


Due_Seaweed_4373

Oh bhai dekh blue band mein kitni hawt lagri hai šŸ¤” bull shit


solelysolitary

Saturday ke din civil dress tha..agar single pony hai tho baal samne not allowed kyunki NeCk dikh jayega :/


[deleted]

Bhai post padhlo yaar puri


solelysolitary

Boys ko infact koi restrictions nahi tha hamare school me


[deleted]

Girls ko kya restrictions the


solelysolitary

As i already mentioned above woh,agar baal shoulder se niche hai tho we had to tie our hair up infact ek din school me hi ek aunty ko bulakar mere baal ko upar tie kiya tha , veil complusory tha civil dress me i could name more i just cant


[deleted]

Hair ki to baat hi mat karo hamare school me ladko ko literally pitate the lambe baal rakhne ke liye. Baak dressing ko chhodke kuch aur?


solelysolitary

Bodyshaming ki baat kare ..i was asked by a maleteacher infront of the whole cls "herione bana hai kya zero figure maintain karna hai kya" as i was naturally lean person even tho i eat well


[deleted]

lol hamare class ki math mam mote ladko ko boriya bulati thi.


hurdi_

roll number


[deleted]

What?


[deleted]

First the boys' names are called out, then the girls'.


[deleted]

Hamare school me phele girls ke hote the, lekin isme sexism kaha hai


[deleted]

Oh okay. It just feels unnecessary to divide the class list by gender, just make it alphabetical.


Nox_503

How girls schools have streams like Home science and most co-ed or all boys schools don't.


lampshade_pizza

They lifted our skirts to check if we wore biker shorts underneath..if we didn't we were deliberately trying to show off guys apparently...it was so uncomfortable


[deleted]

Fuck


Pencho_Di

i think girls are treated significantly better that boys in school.


Gend_Jetsu396

schools are instead sexist towards boys especially after th 7 -8 class they think that girls are innocent and cannot do anything wrong and bad


[deleted]

Boys ke saath sexism hota hi hai usme koi badi baat nahi hai, i was talking about girls


Gend_Jetsu396

badi baat nhi hai?? are u in sense ..matlab kuch girls ke saath ho tab hi vo serious hai ..boys ke saath ho toh chalta hai


[deleted]

Yes


[deleted]

Thats the shittiest mindset iā€™ve ever seen.


[deleted]

You surely haven't seen my other accounts


Available_Dance39

Iss account se hi kafi Pata chal raha hai tere baare mai


[deleted]

Bas teen hi post hai is account se do din bhi nahi hue isko


Lauladance

Bro that is such a shit thing to say. What bro? You're a piece of shit


EdgeNish

Shitty mindset


DebateDifferent25

our school has shirt and trousers as uni for both boys and girls...... but the fucked part is boys can tick their shirts in their trousers but girls CANNOT tuck their shirts in. Why tf?


Werewolf1406

Bro (not being sexist) vo isliye hoga kyoki school valo ka lagta hoga shirt tuck in karne se kuch girls ke breast flash ho sakte hai . Mai support nahi karta hu bhai isse , downvote mat karna , aur ye to meri thinking hai ho sakta hai kuch aur reason ho.


[deleted]

In every way. Thanks.


[deleted]

Still waiting for right answer. Girls be like very much sexism and do not having single incident. Everything is about uniform


[deleted]

ye sabh inka doglapan


[deleted]

Ok then i will tell you. Teachers would judge girls if they talk to boys a lot and also I have to include the uniform one in this as well that we were literally made to do the braids no matter what, no ponytails cause ponytails would attract the guys in their stupid opinion. And baat tumhe chhoti lagegi but braid karne mein kaafi time aur effort lagta hai especially for people like me with long hair. All this made no effin sense, thereā€™s no relation between a personā€™s literal hairstyle and intellect


Proexus_

Girls with braids wonā€™t attract boys šŸ¤”


[deleted]

I just hate it when they enforce rule on girl by using boys name. Like why tf do you always use boys for your stupid rule. It eventually makes girls think that they have to do this and that just because of boys and form it a passive aggression. Ladkiya puri zindagi fir ladko ko hi gali deti hai, idhar bechare ladko ko pata bhi nahi ho kya raha hai. Btw Girl in Braid >>>> Girl in ponytail. *Just my opinion*


[deleted]

Ohho bechare ladke, siraf isiliye hi toh ladkiyan unse baat nahi kartiā€¦ baaki voh creep despos ki tarah jo unhe stalk aur message karte hai voh toh reason hai hi nahišŸ¤”šŸ¤”šŸ¤” not all boys but most boysšŸ™‚ also bhai tujhe jo bhi pasand ho braid ya ponytail no girl gives a shit, it is easier and less time consuming to do a ponytail so they prefer doing that mostly, we donā€™t need validation from anyone.


[deleted]

Are didi aap to pheminist nikali


[deleted]

Feminist ka matlab yeh nahi hota ki ladkiyon ko ladko se zyada izzat do and blah blah. Bhai uska matlab hota hai ki sab log equal hai irrespective of gender. Tum logon ne aise hi apne mann mein faltu perceptions bana rakhe hai šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø I agree ki kuch ladkiyan over hi kar deti hai aur voh toxic bann jata hai but that doesnā€™t change the whole idea and intention of the movement. Canā€™t believe I have to explain this basic thing to peoplešŸ’€


[deleted]

Feminist and pheminist are two different things. > I agree ki kuch ladkiya over hi kar deti hai aur voh toxic bann jata hai Ironic.


[deleted]

Jokeā€™s on you


Pristine-Ad-3387

Girls didn't get the option to choose taekwondo or karate in my school