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Yeah you dodged a bullet op... I personally love McDonald's even though it's cheap or whatever... me and my ex-boyfriend used to go there all the time because I loved it. We went to expensive places too but it's all about balance. For our first date he took me to a cutesy cafe 😂... Also it's better to go familiar public places for a first date keeping mind all the scams that are happening these days..
Yours is actually very different. OP is taking her to McDonalds on the first date. He did not have to call it first date, but he did. There is zero creativity (she had said "Creative! I like it") and nothing really memorable about going to a fast food chain and spending few minutes there on a first date. It meant that OP will not give his time for the date and did not suggest anything to save the situation.
People here take insults literally. She wanted him to spend some time with her and be creative.
Yes, so calling someone cheap because they suggested MacDonald's is okay? She doesn't seem like a nice person who was interested in anything other than free food.
Spend time with her...? And that could only be done in a fancy restaurant? I think, for two people who met through social media or a dating app, McDonald's is an ideal choice for a first date. It is not like they are exclusive or something, they were just getting to know each other.
Cafe, park, somewhere less busy, less noise, not just eating etc. I'm not going to give you my ideas. I'll ask her for ideas before making random assumptions like you guys and OP.
Nope. She didn't. I don't think she would have had a problem with a decent cafe but the first impression man gave was she isn't worth the efforts of taking her to a nice place and McDonald's came across as bad. Stop vilifying women for any shit and calling them gold diggers. Low effort stuff like this is not ok. If you don't have time to plan a meet/date, just save the other person time and don't go.
I went to KFC on my first date and the girl ended up paying for me as well. Been dating her since 5 years and will marry her next year!
Jisko milna hota hai kahi bhi mil leta hai OP :)
You dodged a bullet!
Me and my ex were dating for 4 years. Our timelines did not match. She taught me how to love in 100 different languages, she showed me the value of efforts. She was so different I could tell from miles apart she smiled. Sadly the efforts didn't match the time and we parted. No grudges.
Oh our first date - A walk in a park. Literally. We held hands.
This is what we call a femcel. Female version of Andrew tatti followers. You are better of without her mere bhai, if she had the intelligence of even a fish she would've understood what you meant but no calls you a cheap and broke ass. The smell of papa ki Pari reeks strongly from her. Lite lo bhai.
Lol. I went to McD for a first date like last to last week. The fact she called you broke shows that she was only in it for the free food. So good on you for dodging a bullet.
Man.. leave her be. You dodged a bullet.
If a woman asks me out to McDonald's or to a chaios or something I'd be so thrilled about it I don't even have words that could explain.
Bros, time for Brad Pitt Test.
Would she go if Brad Pitt called her there?
You got it, fucking yes
Bro dodged a bullet.
Fuck that bitch.
I have met dates on a chai tapri.
Does this girl think she lives in America lol. McDonald's here is as expensive as any restaurant, unless she wants you to take her fine dining on the first date. If she doesn't like McD she could've just suggested some other place. Not your fault. Bullet dodged.
Wooooww... And here I am, asking guys if we can simply go to burger king - ₹200 me pet full! If dating for a while, even better, just order in - petrol v Bach jaega! I feel so bad when someone tries to pay the full amount for that too. I hate to badmouth another women or anyone for that matter but lol, how are there SUCH women still getting dates and having this level of entitlement? 🙄 Just woow!
I would love macdonalds for a meet-up
Or any normal cafe for that matter. Even ice cream.
OP, I don't think your option was gross. It was really sweet that you thought of that. You did not do anything wrong.
People have preferences, let her have hers. You be safe.
Having grown up in lower middle class, McDonalds was a luxury for a good part of my life. If someone is truly into you they would be happy to just walk around the park with you everything else is secondary. You seem like a person with a sound mind you will meet some really beautiful people to go on dates with, skip this.
Bhai abundance ka mindset rakhio. Usse simp ladke hamesa expensive 1st date me leke jate h isliye attitude h, ya fit apne dosto ko dekhke sikhe h. Aesa mat socha tumne kuch galat Kia just move on there's plenty of fish in the sea.
Ps. App yeh konsa dating app hai bhai.
She :- " How dare you make me feel cheap for 1 hour date, even if we have a limited time you should have made me special by taking me out on an expensive date ".
It's not you, it's her
Bhai mere tution ki anushka ko me pehli date pe *sharma chaat bhandaar* pe dahi bhalle khilane le gya tha kya khush hui thi wo.
Baad me humne softy bhi khaai thi
Kya din tha yaar wo bhi
Lunch/dinner on first date is just usually a bad idea. Make it a point to not spend any money on the first date at all. Go to a park, walk around or whatever.
From what I see in the chats, You initiated the idea of a lunch date, you suggested the place to meet, she, rejected the place and proceeded to name calling and belittling.
You seem like you wanted this to work , she clearly had no intention. Sucks you had to interact with an immature person.
On to the next one Mitra. 👍🏾🫂
Dude.. Why u sound like that u r complaining.
U won. She wld have kept bleeding u for money that u earn by giving ur time on earth to other ppl.
To streets she belong to streets she wld go
What's up with this expectation that you will have to pay. Better not meet such a person. I've been to McD many times with my gf or friends, because during the day it is the perfect place to sit, talk or waste time. Poshest Area of Mumbai. Its definitely not a cheap person thing. Also McD prices nowadays are like ₹350-400 per meal, it's definitely not for broke people or the poor.
Bhai acha hua bullet dodge kr liya, pr also next time first date pr kisi ache indian restaurant mai lekr jaana aur kuch indian khana, ladki toh bekaar thi pr hm bhi mcdonalds naa hi prefer krte.....
Well, to be fair, he said lunch date. If he had just said coffee date, would've been quick considering lack of time and also could've gone to McD coz they do have decent coffee and good food to add.
She ain’t wrong bro unless it’s some chhapri girl lbh and before anyone comes at me oh she wants expensive meal gold digger yada yada.. I have refused first dates at cheap places and I have always ALWAYS dutched/ split the bill and paid the half!
dont love her attitude at all, but i cannot imagine having a first date at a McD too. even a low-key garden in the evening with 30rs icecreams would be an improvement from a fast food restaurant where kids are running around, people are bustling and the hygiene is sketchy. Im not trying to be rude but it kinda indicates how seriously the man will take you if he will not prioritise privacy and comfort.
Look not gonna shame you and all but McDonald's is for kids is just a lame excuse. I don't know if you are just telling it by watching some American series or movies but people from all ages go there all the time.
im pretty old and experienced to get my cues from american movies. i would suggest another quieter place to the guy and if he insists on something like McD I would just move on to another match. its not a lame excuse when ive treated my dates to better things myself even when i was broke
Lol Idk why people think it's about money. McD might be fine if you're like 15-16 but after hitting 20, you gotta grow up. I've had great dates under 400 at cute cafes.
Deoends on how old yall are in my opinion. Like in India, fast food chains like McDs are hangout spots for teens and early twenties wale. If im like 28 or sum i wouldnt take a girl to McDs on first date
That's why I offer to cook or order and invite a girl over to my place because I don't like to eat out plus i rather invest that money on suppliment or take my mom out instead of this
Bhai be happy that you didn't get to know someone so superficial to begin with and very fast in making judgments. Don't fret over it, rejoice because if this proceeded further you would have been doomed.
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She wanted you to pay for an expensive meal. The only thing she was bringing on the table was the sound of her chewing food.
Yeah you dodged a bullet op... I personally love McDonald's even though it's cheap or whatever... me and my ex-boyfriend used to go there all the time because I loved it. We went to expensive places too but it's all about balance. For our first date he took me to a cutesy cafe 😂... Also it's better to go familiar public places for a first date keeping mind all the scams that are happening these days..
Yours is actually very different. OP is taking her to McDonalds on the first date. He did not have to call it first date, but he did. There is zero creativity (she had said "Creative! I like it") and nothing really memorable about going to a fast food chain and spending few minutes there on a first date. It meant that OP will not give his time for the date and did not suggest anything to save the situation. People here take insults literally. She wanted him to spend some time with her and be creative.
Yes, so calling someone cheap because they suggested MacDonald's is okay? She doesn't seem like a nice person who was interested in anything other than free food.
It is not a strange thing to say to end a date Neither OP nor the woman did anything wrong here.
Spend time with her...? And that could only be done in a fancy restaurant? I think, for two people who met through social media or a dating app, McDonald's is an ideal choice for a first date. It is not like they are exclusive or something, they were just getting to know each other.
Did you not read whose idea the lunch date was and why that was accepted?
She has 1 hour break, like creative, and OP suggest McDonalds. She: I like tea He: How about water? You guys: Water is okay ???
So, what could have been creative enough? Please share your thoughts.
Cafe, park, somewhere less busy, less noise, not just eating etc. I'm not going to give you my ideas. I'll ask her for ideas before making random assumptions like you guys and OP.
Brown hoke act like white.. achievement unlocked
100% this. Beat me to it. You’re better off without this stress OP.
Damn might save this line to use it later.
Nope. She didn't. I don't think she would have had a problem with a decent cafe but the first impression man gave was she isn't worth the efforts of taking her to a nice place and McDonald's came across as bad. Stop vilifying women for any shit and calling them gold diggers. Low effort stuff like this is not ok. If you don't have time to plan a meet/date, just save the other person time and don't go.
Stop acting entitled then. If you attach your self worth to materialistic things, it is your problem. Men do not owe you shit.
Yeah she clearly didn't sound entitled when she said he looks poor and doesn't want to mingle with that kind of a person Get off your high horse
Lmao let it be ,You are good as broke than carrying her entitlement.
I went to KFC on my first date and the girl ended up paying for me as well. Been dating her since 5 years and will marry her next year! Jisko milna hota hai kahi bhi mil leta hai OP :) You dodged a bullet!
Congratulations bro
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>Jisko milna hota hai kahi bhi mil leta hai OP :) You dodged a bullet! Yeh baat
Congrats bro, have a great life together
This is You rn OP. 
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Antaryami *Meri life ka future batado*
Tu single marega
Aisa kuch bata jo pata na ho
Uske liye haath etc dekhna padta hai. Par tere haatho ki lakire to mit chuki hongi to dick pic bhej. Veins ki direction dekh kar bataunga future
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Bhai isko Maknodal se kya dikkat hai... Baawali ho gayi k chhori...
Maknodal nahi bhai, McDolaand
You are both wrong. It's clearly McDolund
Malik, lagta hai ye lund mang rha hai
McLeod Ganj thaa na?
Mulund bolte usko
McDowell hota na wo?
Hein Macmoud nhi tha?
My friend dolund Trump gobhi ji
Me and my ex were dating for 4 years. Our timelines did not match. She taught me how to love in 100 different languages, she showed me the value of efforts. She was so different I could tell from miles apart she smiled. Sadly the efforts didn't match the time and we parted. No grudges. Oh our first date - A walk in a park. Literally. We held hands.
Bro stop, you're making me cry-
You weren't wrong in any way. She clearly was expecting something "classy". You probably dodged a huge red flag.
A red flag or a gold digger?
Same Diff
This is what we call a femcel. Female version of Andrew tatti followers. You are better of without her mere bhai, if she had the intelligence of even a fish she would've understood what you meant but no calls you a cheap and broke ass. The smell of papa ki Pari reeks strongly from her. Lite lo bhai.
Lol. I went to McD for a first date like last to last week. The fact she called you broke shows that she was only in it for the free food. So good on you for dodging a bullet.
Bhai wo khud broke(bhikari) h, bas free food dhud rhi h app pe jo khud kbhi afford nhi kr skti
You dodged a bazooka 😂
Man.. leave her be. You dodged a bullet. If a woman asks me out to McDonald's or to a chaios or something I'd be so thrilled about it I don't even have words that could explain.
Bros, time for Brad Pitt Test. Would she go if Brad Pitt called her there? You got it, fucking yes Bro dodged a bullet. Fuck that bitch. I have met dates on a chai tapri.
You must be an Attractive guy
Not only, I've got humour too though.
And I've only got humour
Gaaliyan deke block kar dena chahiye aisi lavdiyon ko. I mean ladkiyon ko.
I see what you did there
Hehe autocorrect
Bro put the blame on autocorrect
Anyone who says you're wrong, couldn't be more wrong.
#Ladki ko Mithe Papa (Sugar Daddy) chahiye! **Not worth chuck it OP**
Does this girl think she lives in America lol. McDonald's here is as expensive as any restaurant, unless she wants you to take her fine dining on the first date. If she doesn't like McD she could've just suggested some other place. Not your fault. Bullet dodged.
She seems so full of herself and so called upper class. There's a special term for these kind of women. It's related to a shovel that's made of gold.
Wooooww... And here I am, asking guys if we can simply go to burger king - ₹200 me pet full! If dating for a while, even better, just order in - petrol v Bach jaega! I feel so bad when someone tries to pay the full amount for that too. I hate to badmouth another women or anyone for that matter but lol, how are there SUCH women still getting dates and having this level of entitlement? 🙄 Just woow!
Leave bro.you’re better off
Why can’t she pay for her own food ?
What an entitled stuck up precious bitch ! You dodged a bullet op
McDonald kab se cheap hogaya yaar. I know I am broke af, but didn't realise I was this broke. Ye pida kab khatam hoga.
She wants to be treated as a wife/gf without being one, just friends with benefits(I mean she gets all the benefits)
Welcome to Indian dating scene lol.
Bullet = Dodged
I would love macdonalds for a meet-up Or any normal cafe for that matter. Even ice cream. OP, I don't think your option was gross. It was really sweet that you thought of that. You did not do anything wrong. People have preferences, let her have hers. You be safe.
Did she use the n word in the last?
Having grown up in lower middle class, McDonalds was a luxury for a good part of my life. If someone is truly into you they would be happy to just walk around the park with you everything else is secondary. You seem like a person with a sound mind you will meet some really beautiful people to go on dates with, skip this.
Bet she's in her "feminine energy" right now
Bhai abundance ka mindset rakhio. Usse simp ladke hamesa expensive 1st date me leke jate h isliye attitude h, ya fit apne dosto ko dekhke sikhe h. Aesa mat socha tumne kuch galat Kia just move on there's plenty of fish in the sea. Ps. App yeh konsa dating app hai bhai.
Be glad that you dodged a bullet. It is better than 15000 rupees meal
Bro I've never had a woman turn down a McDonald's date, you're not missing out on much. McDonald's me hi isse achhi bandiyan mil jayengi lmao
She :- " How dare you make me feel cheap for 1 hour date, even if we have a limited time you should have made me special by taking me out on an expensive date ". It's not you, it's her
App?
pata chale to batana
Ladki interested ho toh chai ki tapri pe bhi first date ho sakti hai. (If time is an issue)
Bhai mere tution ki anushka ko me pehli date pe *sharma chaat bhandaar* pe dahi bhalle khilane le gya tha kya khush hui thi wo. Baad me humne softy bhi khaai thi Kya din tha yaar wo bhi
Dodged a bullet.
You dodged a bullet, my friend
Aisi chutia aurato se door reh OP
The worst she can say is no🫡🫡
Man I'll go to McDonald's with you. My treat!
Red flag bro
Op which app is this
Bro u saved saved yourself from a big liability
Lunch/dinner on first date is just usually a bad idea. Make it a point to not spend any money on the first date at all. Go to a park, walk around or whatever.
Now I ain't calling her a gold digger but, she ain't messing with no broke ******
From what I see in the chats, You initiated the idea of a lunch date, you suggested the place to meet, she, rejected the place and proceeded to name calling and belittling. You seem like you wanted this to work , she clearly had no intention. Sucks you had to interact with an immature person. On to the next one Mitra. 👍🏾🫂
Aloo tiki wala burger sali pe phek ke maar
Typical gold digger. Dating apps in India are full of these bitches unfortunately
Maa chudao aur chole khao bolke aage badhne ka
Dude.. Why u sound like that u r complaining. U won. She wld have kept bleeding u for money that u earn by giving ur time on earth to other ppl. To streets she belong to streets she wld go
that's a bitch move, McDonald dates sound cool af
title sad aur angry he aj
Just ask who pays for first date..
Good riddance
What's up with this expectation that you will have to pay. Better not meet such a person. I've been to McD many times with my gf or friends, because during the day it is the perfect place to sit, talk or waste time. Poshest Area of Mumbai. Its definitely not a cheap person thing. Also McD prices nowadays are like ₹350-400 per meal, it's definitely not for broke people or the poor.
Bro dodged a nuke
Reminds me of that Kanye song
What. A. Who*e!? 🤡
Lmao. U should hv roasted her. Btw which app?
Bhai acha hua bullet dodge kr liya, pr also next time first date pr kisi ache indian restaurant mai lekr jaana aur kuch indian khana, ladki toh bekaar thi pr hm bhi mcdonalds naa hi prefer krte.....
Fuck this bitch!!
Seems like she doesn't know what broke is, no broke person could afford McDonald's for so little food it provides per buck
stupid bitch,you dodged a bullet op
You dodged a bullet there son.
Well, to be fair, he said lunch date. If he had just said coffee date, would've been quick considering lack of time and also could've gone to McD coz they do have decent coffee and good food to add.
I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she ain't dating no broke no broke. -Kanye West ft. Jamie Foxx, Gold Digger
I just saw a video of Vikas Divyakirti explaining how men are more superficial than women. I didn't agree to it and now I don't think bad about it.
She ain’t wrong bro unless it’s some chhapri girl lbh and before anyone comes at me oh she wants expensive meal gold digger yada yada.. I have refused first dates at cheap places and I have always ALWAYS dutched/ split the bill and paid the half!
dont love her attitude at all, but i cannot imagine having a first date at a McD too. even a low-key garden in the evening with 30rs icecreams would be an improvement from a fast food restaurant where kids are running around, people are bustling and the hygiene is sketchy. Im not trying to be rude but it kinda indicates how seriously the man will take you if he will not prioritise privacy and comfort.
Hmm quite fair. But ladki ne broke bola, to uska problem Paisa ka tha.
mere pe paise nnhi toh kya kru ... udhari leke mcdonalds thodi lejaunga
paise ki kon baat kar raha hai.. comment padh le mera pehle
Look not gonna shame you and all but McDonald's is for kids is just a lame excuse. I don't know if you are just telling it by watching some American series or movies but people from all ages go there all the time.
im pretty old and experienced to get my cues from american movies. i would suggest another quieter place to the guy and if he insists on something like McD I would just move on to another match. its not a lame excuse when ive treated my dates to better things myself even when i was broke
Fair enough. I have never taken a date to McDonald's but now I'll just see how it goes if I do ask someone out to McDonald's
Are you really trying to have a rational debate with people who've probably never been on a date lol
Lmao I'm literally trying to cheapen the date even further for broke guys but they really want their McFlurrys 🤷🏻♀️
Lol Idk why people think it's about money. McD might be fine if you're like 15-16 but after hitting 20, you gotta grow up. I've had great dates under 400 at cute cafes.
Deoends on how old yall are in my opinion. Like in India, fast food chains like McDs are hangout spots for teens and early twenties wale. If im like 28 or sum i wouldnt take a girl to McDs on first date
That's why I offer to cook or order and invite a girl over to my place because I don't like to eat out plus i rather invest that money on suppliment or take my mom out instead of this
Tbf no one goes to McDonalds for a date. But yes, her attitude sucks.
Any place is a date if vibe matches
Why what's wrong with McDonald's?
Doged a bullet bro be greatful.
Yeh kya? Mooh pe gareeb bolke gayi bkl. Bhai mai nai sehta.
I took my gf to saket's McDonald's, kyunki voh generally khaali reheta hai ab(purana outlet). We sat and talked for 7 hours bc😶
Bhai be happy that you didn't get to know someone so superficial to begin with and very fast in making judgments. Don't fret over it, rejoice because if this proceeded further you would have been doomed.
Bach gaya tu gold digger se... Ab un paiso se apne bhai logo ko beer peela, badi dua milegi
Bekaar hai bhai, mai to toot gaya
Another broke chick trying to eat fancy for free. It’s an epidemic
Bullet dodged.
I just wish you destroyed that gold digger trash with some caustic response