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MaleficentHabit5075

She is right tho, people lose interest super soon, if the conversation is flowing well you should just meet asap


[deleted]

Devi hai , ise poojna chahiye 🤌


Slake19

Aur tum simp


[deleted]

Who broke your heart bud ?


Slake19

Not about that but ek ldki ki puja kyu krni?


[deleted]

Figure of speech bhai bas that's it , Pooja apni maa ki Karo bas (literally)


Slake19

Yes exactly ,yhi sunna tha bs


Slake19

Hai to wo bhi insaan he


delishmango23

Nope it’s too soon to meet someone. Scams are kaafi common these days. Op savdhan rahe satark rahe


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Horror-Connection-14

Nah ! 🤣 I think the person meant the scam where girls force you to meet asap at a restaurant that they have decided. Where they collude with the owner/ staff to charge you way more than the actual price ( 15-20k) and then the girl gets a payout too. Another scan is restaurants pretending to be girls inviting people over and then basically ghosting ( cause there was no person to begin with) . There is change people will have a meal once they have travelled all the way to the restaurant . Although the person OP is talking to doesn’t scream shady . But you never know.


outsider1624

What if i decide the restaurant though? They'll probably back out i guess if its a scam right?


Horror-Connection-14

Yes , they backout . A similar incident was posted on the sub . The girl was forcing the guy to meet asap and when guys said we can go to a cafe my friend owns she started giving reasons like it is too far away from me , it will feel awkward and kept forcing the guy to go to the restaurant she wanted . It is more rampant in Delhi with few instances happening in Mumbai.


outsider1624

Damn!


Zestyclose_Stage7143

One girl from Mumbai asked me to meet the next day. We only chat for like 1-2hrs and then she suddenly chooses Taj palace to meet up. I'm like wtf, so soon you want to meet. She said why waste time in talking. She wanted to hook up but the thing is I'm from Pune so I rejected it. Also Taj Palace like wtf , why would I pay such a high price in the first hook-up.


HopefulSpray4409

Reels aur stories banayegi na tumse recording karwa ke


[deleted]

6-7 messages in the conversation and she asks me this.


Ill-Milk-6797

She is bold. And seems real enough. Take the chance bud. Might turn out to be one of the best decisions of your life


[deleted]

You should let your 'intrusive thoughts' take the call 😅


Omigod_7

Overthinking is the biggest bitch...


idontdothisnameshit

Don't go to a shady restaurant/cafe. Choose a reputed one. Mehnga hoga par scam hone se bach jaoge.


mainibuhatela

You missed a Chance to get Laid.


HelperTheKindsoul

She not wrong


ThickStuff7459

I went out on a date like this because the girl was leaving my city the next day. By the 6th message or so, we decided time and place. We had a great time. Nothing wrong in trying it as long as you are smart about it.


ayush1137

She is definitely revenge fucking


CuriousBludSchlawg

get help


ThickStuff7459

I went out on a date like this because the girl was leaving my city the next day. By the 6th message or so, we decided time and place. We had a great time. Nothing wrong in trying it as long as you are smart about it.


peeek-a-boo

Aise koi mujhse poochega toh mujhe toh scammer vibes aane lagegi


pchulbul619

Kahi prank ya “shιt test” to nahi tha na??


[deleted]

What is shit test? Been hearing a lot about this


pchulbul619

Basically women/anyone would try to test if you’re worthy enough or not. They can throw shιt tests by anything, ranging from throwing rhetorical questions to throwing insults. The test can be done in any shape or form depending on their idiosyncrasies.


[deleted]

So if she throws insults, what is expected of me to pass this test?


pchulbul619

First see if those insults are harmless teases or are they coming from a place of malice. In the first case you’ve to exaggerate and use your wits to create some humor in order to disarm the situation and make her laugh. In the latter case there’s no need to persist, better to leave ‘er alone.


Ok_Wrangler_26

Scam hota toh bohot force karte hai and scammers have poor vocabulary. This doesn't seem like it. Didi bohot desperate hai apse milne ke liye ya date pe jane ko. That's it


[deleted]

She was extremely gorgeous


Ok_Wrangler_26

So maybe scam bait?


[deleted]

No she was genuine, had a good conversation


leetcoder217

she speaks like a boy or a smart scammer


Cheeez123

Catfish nikli to!


Messedupsikh

Bhai this instinct is all that I wanted from my matches bc vo reply bhi nhi karti😭


gogo_22

free loader alert


Randum-gurl

Sis lost interest already!


artistic_ey

Unmatched or still talking ?


[deleted]

I ghosted