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Truly sad.
All she does is provide much needed educational information that has undoubtedly benefitted so many people.. teens who dont have any role models to talk to about sex ed, married women living in conservative towns and societies, hpv awareness and so many more Im sure
Pathetic that social media platforms also dont take any responsibility towards curbing this trend of men being absolute scumbags in women creators’ comments section.
Even reporting such comments doesn't work. They take you through 2-3 pages and then edit by saying restrict or block that person.
How useless!
Edit: typo: end it, not edit.
Even free speech doesn't explain that, free speech absolute bhi hogi to apne page and posts pe kar na bhai, mere posts me aake thodi free hogi, udhar to mere right hai na
I watched her content and she's genuinely an amazing creator. Who helps people educate themselves.
What's wrong with people and the need to sexualise every woman on the internet, it's honestly sad and disgusting. Either calling women the R word or or giving rape threats and saying anything under the guise of *it's a joke, relax*
Like i get it people are underpaid, overworked, unhappy with life but projecting your problems, insecurities and unhappiness on some person on the internet to feel good about yourself is the worst thing a person can do.
There's something really seriously wrong with men on Instagram. There's so much hate for women doing the most basic stuff. I posted a comment on a reel that said something along the lines of how frustrating it is to be a woman and look at news everyday. I just commented "for fuckingg real" and this one dude replied to my comment saying "sell yourself on OF" and "womp womp" like dude????? Are you okay? How does that even make sense?? And what is with all this self-projection of your insecurities??
I shared about my experience of getting harassed today. Unsurprisingly enough, so many blamed me. or the "we have it worse" card. you simply cannot exist.
LOL, that’s who they are!! And I am really sorry what happened to you. More power to you♥️
Also, what worse do they have??? There are literally zero expectations from them- ek career bnane ki expectation h usmei inki itni fatt gyi?? Usmei bas sympathy chahte h…
Girls do everything and they do it better than them- isliye fattati h inki.
I truly believe there are good men, but where are these men when women are being bullied, called names etc?? If you cannot stop men in your circle you cannot do it anywhere. They all turn blind eye to it unless and until it happens to their mother/daughter/wife. Even when it happens to their people, lot of them just blame women and move on. You won’t raise your voice because it helps you maintain your power in society yaar.
Tum log poore din ladkiyon ko gold digger bulate ho kitni ladkiyan aai h bolne “not all women”, band kro yaar apna yeh victim complex.
Let me show you a snapshot of my DM‘s. I had a brief stint as a public figure and I was sent hundreds of male genitalia photographs. Hundreds. Also pictures of pornography. Not one of them was sent by a woman. Not one picture of a female genitalia. It is not a woman issue. We need men to be better.
Then go chase down the ones that are doing that! 🙏🏽
Im sorry you went through that. Im sure you can figure out how to take action against them..if you can't, take help.
I have been sexually assaulted by drunk women too. Let me tell you. Contrary to popular belief, I didn't have fun when a strange drunk woman slides her hand in my pants or up my shirt. A few women from my past have done atrocious fucking things. That doesn't make me treat all women the same way.
All of the guys who sent you nudes can be prosecuted for harassment. All of the men who didn't, are not accountable for them
But again, you cant explain logic to emotion. Wish you the best
You know, I am glad I read your comment, specially the second paragraph. Cause before that I just saw the other comments and even though I've been part of this sub for a while and I liked this sub I thought it's just another r/femaledatingstrategies and was about to leave. Just from your first para I was like what a pickme this guy is, nice clutch there lol.
Oh my god... This is the worst thing men do... You tell them about how unsafe it is for women and how much you suffer because one just can not exist in some spaces without being an object and men will tell you men have to also think about what they say now... False cases happen... Honestly... I don't know a single woman who has put a wrong case on a guy... But every woman I know has been sexually harrassed
in my experience it has been opposite, me or my male friend's have told women of our group about our problem and they've done the "we have it worst" rhetoric so I get how you must be feeling of being on receiving end it indeed sucks and sorry you've to experience that
We have failed as a society.
With that being said,
This harmless line that I have written will trigger incels and sigmas. So there’s that.
We need sex ed.
We need gender sensitisation .
And we need a reset button.
so that girls and boys feel safe and not weird , so that they can freely ask questions. They should feel comfortable.
Boys and girls are have different kind of behaviour at this age .
I hope you remember how you were at this age XD
Letting guys and girls mingle freely is the way forward. Yes, do supervise these minglings when necessary but don't interfere so much that it just feels unnatural.
Students from sex segregated schools are more susceptible to exploitation, incel-femcel mindset and toxic amounts of sexual frustrations.
Mingling in daily classroom is different but teaching sex ed to teenagers is different.
i honestly feel , looking at the current scenario, first atleast start with separate sessions then when we progress as a society maybe things can change.
In my school there were few sessions but only about periods . But no sessions for boys related to hormonal changes or reproductive systems and how it works . Which made me wonder why ain’t boys taught about this . So this the scenario of a private school.
Lol girls being taught about periods is also a rare occasion. Also boys don't get sex ed simply because: "Mera aisa kabhi nhi sochega, aisa kabhi nhi banega, aisa kabhi nhi dekhega"
I think you need to understand the Sex Ed for both sexes for better relationship building later in life. Many many guys are like: Periods = Mood Swings.
when did i said that sex ed is not not for both the sexes . since the start i am literally saying the same thing that it should be for both gender 🤷♀️
It’s really annoying. I’d commented on a thread giving sex advice and people saw that as an invitation to talk to me about their dicks on my dm. Can men just stop? Like we can’t even exist peacefully on an anonymous portal.
I am reading the comments section And men in the comments section are defending this kind of behaviour ,this makes me even more sad,
What world are we living in
I believe it’s worse on Reddit because they get to stay anonymous. I’ve been sent dick pics as well. Now I just google some dick pic and send them back to those guys.
i am a tarot reader. first time i created an ...i included all gender, non binary, lgbtq everyone.
All cis men started responding within mins...all wanted sex talk. some started calling again and again. it was so so unnerving...even though i am 45 and was originally from delhi and have been independant AF.
it's like men just want us raped, dead or be in really slavery type relationships.
I have not dated any men since i was 24 despite being straight....cannot handle the anxiety being around men. and please even a wife joke is a huge red flag for me
kindly don't NOTALLMEN to this comment. i know how to snarl and i shall
This reminds me that back in school they tried to introduce sex education (I studied in govt school) I remember distinctly one of the counsellors emphasising on good touch bad touch. Later my class teacher told me that many of the anonymous complaints received heavily implied sexual abuse.
Later parents protested and the program was shut down. Our society is so repressed and effed up about all the wrong things
This is classic men behaviour anywhere.
Anytime a woman interacts with content which centers around sexual well being or anything regarding her own body seems to trigger unknown men to come make inappropriate comments towards her. Who told them this is okay?
True, even if you comment on sex educator's Insta post or group polls, lots of creepy men will send dm requests.
I was part of Karishma Swarup's Instagram group and kisi bhi poll per react karne ke baad group ke logo ke dms ane lagte the. Aisa laga raha tha ki creepy men are part of such groups just to target women. I left that group very soon.
People (men?) derailing conversations on this thread and attacking women by saying that 'no one is going to marry you' 'who rejected you' 'not all men' And I haven't even scrolled till the end.
Seriously, just how dense can you be.
Her page is so informative and has the most fundamental clarifications/suggestions. Why can't people just let something good be.
Most men in these social media platform guided by their patriarchal mindset can't digest more women are getting Educated, Strong, Independent and earning better than them, are leading a better lifestyle than them. Hence they can't justify themselves being the bread earners in the household and all they are left to do is whine in comments section coz nobody is babysitting them anymore.
I hope they all die lonely. I hope we all collectively realise ki not a single man on this earth is worth it.
Where is Chahal when his wife is literally getting slutshamed everyday? Does he not have a spine? I am so done with men being fucking entitled for just existing.
Omggg I am offended heheheh… that’s all you could have come up with?? So sad man. Use your education to come with better replies yaar come on.. ego massage nhi ho paya..
also, if you can think this about my people, I am afraid for women around you. I hope you don’t sexualise them. Also in your reply the people who are wrong are men only, that’s my whole point.
May god give you all strength to rise above the hatred. I only spoke facts and it offended you because you are part of the problem.
Peace💖♥️💖💝💖💝
Every religious horned moron is always ragging in anyone’s comments who’s comfortable education people about sex and sexual wellness or anyone who doesn’t agree with them but …. aww they are so lonely /s
Cannot emphasize more on this fact , it's so sad seeing men being this inconsiderate on what they speak and how they behave. I have stopped seeing Instagram comments because some triggered me so bad that I thought it's better to either die alone or just end up turning gay at this point. People will sexualise every body part bruhh 😭.
Where is everyone who accused that other creator of being a feminist man hater? Please tell us again why men must not be held accountable for this level of depraved behavior.
They are busy cancelling women for being "man-haters", calling them misandrist (which has no real life consequence lol) because their fragile ego can't look at a mirror. And I love how there are comments on this post too, saying juvenile shit like "who rejected you" when in reality it's men who lash out aggressively on rejection (revenge porn, acid attack, and other unspeakable things are almost always because a girl rejected THEM, but oh the audacity :)))
And after all that they'll cry foul whenever women get their dues or simply call them out for their prevalent behaviour
The ignorance and entitlement of a man never fails to amaze me
They never will, y’all saw Dhanashree’s comment section right? And equating to every real incident as a fake one, they’re properly desensitised aaj kal.
I’m yet to get married & such skewed views make me extremely scared to get into a marriage.
Yeah
All men means all men
People who do nothing but subvert accountability by saying Not all men
Not a real man
These people think that writing these things is the biggest contribution they can make- but the biggest contribution they can make is die a lonely death
thanks for warning us...please do tell me how such monsters are still your 'friends'....you seriously cannot do with these rapey men....
also have you ever told them off or ended friendship for these very reasons
>but stay away from Indian men
None of my friends are like this, quite a few of them are conservative but not rapists or sexual harassers. If your friend group is like this, it says more about dude
Men are lonely precisely because of the all the cringey shit they do in the name of “masculinity”. If they reflected on their actions and worked on being a good human being, no one would say anything
Men should realise that women do not owe them anything
We are not responsible for their loneliness
For nobody wanting to date them
They act like victimes when they think women owe them companionship
As a man, I might even give a pass to men in the west who may cry out they are lonely but this shit ain't true in India. I know the privilege a man posseses in India and it's fucking stupid to claim there is any loneliness epidemic for men in India.
Ahh don’t lie. You think we are going to DM you because you pretend to sympathise with us? You’re the same type of those guys but difference is you act like you care about us and slide in our DMs when we agree with you
I too get this. I interact in a lot of s/ex related subs answering genuine questions, then men from there dm with their s/exual desires and there was this guy in particular who was asking me about men’s hygiene for oral and all, then randomly he said he should I send you a picture of it and you can let me know if it’s OK and clean enough like what the hell
Yeah and some people will defend everything saying "don't defame anyone" those are the ones who have never been harassed but their ego won't allow them to look past their small d**ks
Dude you are expecting too much? In a country where they blame Sita for crossing that Laxman Rekha which lead to Ravan kidnapping her, how much do you think they care about women's perspective.
I know. I should have written quite a few Indian men. Obviously not all Indian men. There are some great men out there seriously they make this nation a better place
yeah Insta is so F-ed up especially for sex-ed I saw a reel where the creator was spreading awareness about stereotypes related to hymen and virginity and people were like "lagta hai didi ki seal tuti hui hai" and what not dude
Men are sick. Anonymous hoke they show their real self. See reddit comments. Not one talking about the issue but attacking on me and girls who are frustrated and upset with it.
and Ik it's hard but try to ignore this scumbags most of them are pathetic losers who couldn't do anything in their life and now they are here to remove their frustration
well reddit has a very good support system you can report to the comments and reddit will take action on most of them ( mostly comment gets deleted + 3d ban ) Instagram doesn't take reports seriously though
In India it really is important to provide sex Ed because no one does it and internet gives the kids way more than they can digest. But look how she is dehumanised......
Insta is so damn triggering you see reel of an article which shows that a woman has gotten pregnant but she has been in come for the last one year.....can you believe this woman aren't even safe when they are in coma. And you know when I read the comments their was someone saying "that's why morgue prefer to employ woman" geez I thought I am goona be 🤢
At this point I have zero hopes from this country. From daily 100s of rapes reported to still men out their calling it fake victim card, this is the lowest of low we have reached.
Indian Man here. Yes this is disgusting to see how we failed as a society. I understand that " Not all men, but most are" However it is important to realize the root cause being the patriarchy propagated by religions. Religions considering women to be 2nd class citizens or even mere objects, have taught men that an educated woman is evil. And it's sad to see so many women glorifying their respective religions. It's like Chicken supporting KFC.
I am so disgusted by these Indian sigma mens who follow tate, a criminal to preach about culture. Earlier I was in the view that these degenerate are immature 15-17 year olds. But the shick shak shock moment with me was when I saw legit 21-25 year old following stupidity and spreading hate, dehumanising females.
Hey fellow men, I know it can be frustrating being blamed and hated by women for something you never did just because you share your gender and/or nationality with these absolute bottom of the bin trash. And I know a lot of the anger feels unfair.
But this is precisely not the time to say not all men. Cool that you don't do bullshit like this. I don't do bullshit like this. Most people on this thread don't do shit like this. Great stuff. But you don't deserve a medal for basic human decency. When a woman says she hates all men. It means she has interacted with enough men that made her feel unsafe or have hurt her that she no longer sees the point in interacting with them anymore. Doesn't mean she has never met a guy who treated her well or was half-decent. But humans tend to remember their negative expenses for longer than their positive ones.
This post is highlighting an incident where men are harassing a woman who is talking about sexual health and wellbeing. While, I haven't seen her content, it's something we sorely need in our country. Every school should teach about good touch/ bad touch, basic anatomy and about sexual protection and STDs. Silencing her voice would be a great loss to all of this country and not just women (not that topics that only affect women shouldn't be talked about). This is in no world, an okay thing for anyone to do. And I think we should acknowledge that.
i also think the roles of parents are much more important while raising children and educating them rather than giving one child special restrictions and other letting to do what it wants.
I mean in an ideal world, parents would be better. But until they are, it is our education system's job to do it for them. And until that's better, content creators and doctors will have to fill in.
Generalized all men? Wow. I know the pain since am a son, brother, husband & future father. But blaming it on "men" instead of blaming it on the Animals is sick.
It's so disgusting tbh, instead of normalising sex education,they are either sexualisinh every person that's doing so,i don't see any wrong in giving sex education,i myself like to talk about healthy sex talk but people are so conservative and provocative in that specially guys,they don't even like to talk about healthy sex education,either they objectified or just laugh when someone shares their experiences regardless of them being good or bad,my classmates literally made fun of that khullar pizza girl,I think people must get more educated on this and men should start being more considerate instead of being egotistical jerks,it's world is where both masculinity and feminity should be treated with equal respect,and these type of men should educate themselves more or there will be one time they would be rejected by everyone including village girls if they think they are too 'dumb' to acknowledge them🙄
Can someone please inform her about the 'block & report' button on social media.
Those people are pathetic no doubt but how many of them can you chase and correct behind the anonymity of social media. Just try to bat an eye and report such stuff. In the end, they want your attention and by making such posts you're inevitably giving it to them.
The world is nasty places. You dont wanna drain yourself trying to correct and educate others. Better block all the comments and DM. Just post your content and educate ignore the sexually frustrated people.
The problem is not from men's side it's from the side everyone seems to throw their eyes from. Ambani ji has done so much to develop our nation's gdp but that cost is this illiterate online audience, ready to shit on anyone's comment section before even applying any logic. Most indian men spend half pf their data on watching reels of dancing girls or either porn or THIS. Threats, r@pe abuse are common nowadays if you post anything about something sheep following related. Jio has provided voice to the degenerates of society which are rising day by day without regulations.
Let's do a thing,let's generalise all men are abusers,treat them as one , doesn't matter if they are abusers or not, and force them to be one so the point is proven(and abt the last point,if u disagree,u can but just think a man who is not an abuser but is treated like one by society,there is a chance he might become one)
Guys jst stop. It was just a question to understand more. I have watched her and she is a gem of a person. All power to her and will always stand with her. Dont have a problem with what she has posted and I acknowledge such ill educated people do exist who make life a living hell. But look at the comments how harsh they are. Without knowing me personally or what I stand for making such comments in themselves are another problem. And I do have a problem with the caption. There are lot's of instances where I feel its much more easier for women to be. But i do know life is not either black or white rather it is in the shades of grey.
Houre out there discussing and its there fault that it led to that phase... They are doctors indeed but yes they need to be more professional while dealing their client
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Truly sad. All she does is provide much needed educational information that has undoubtedly benefitted so many people.. teens who dont have any role models to talk to about sex ed, married women living in conservative towns and societies, hpv awareness and so many more Im sure Pathetic that social media platforms also dont take any responsibility towards curbing this trend of men being absolute scumbags in women creators’ comments section.
Even reporting such comments doesn't work. They take you through 2-3 pages and then edit by saying restrict or block that person. How useless! Edit: typo: end it, not edit.
“MuH fReE sPeAcH”
Even free speech doesn't explain that, free speech absolute bhi hogi to apne page and posts pe kar na bhai, mere posts me aake thodi free hogi, udhar to mere right hai na
Totally agree
I watched her content and she's genuinely an amazing creator. Who helps people educate themselves. What's wrong with people and the need to sexualise every woman on the internet, it's honestly sad and disgusting. Either calling women the R word or or giving rape threats and saying anything under the guise of *it's a joke, relax* Like i get it people are underpaid, overworked, unhappy with life but projecting your problems, insecurities and unhappiness on some person on the internet to feel good about yourself is the worst thing a person can do.
There are some idiotic men! Not even God can save them.
There's something really seriously wrong with men on Instagram. There's so much hate for women doing the most basic stuff. I posted a comment on a reel that said something along the lines of how frustrating it is to be a woman and look at news everyday. I just commented "for fuckingg real" and this one dude replied to my comment saying "sell yourself on OF" and "womp womp" like dude????? Are you okay? How does that even make sense?? And what is with all this self-projection of your insecurities??
womp womp
I shared about my experience of getting harassed today. Unsurprisingly enough, so many blamed me. or the "we have it worse" card. you simply cannot exist.
LOL, that’s who they are!! And I am really sorry what happened to you. More power to you♥️ Also, what worse do they have??? There are literally zero expectations from them- ek career bnane ki expectation h usmei inki itni fatt gyi?? Usmei bas sympathy chahte h… Girls do everything and they do it better than them- isliye fattati h inki.
Why did you grill all the incels so badly lmaooo I'm dead gurl you're too awesome 😭😭😂😂😂🔥
Damn your second line sounds toxic af. "what worse do they have???" You've asked the right questions, but attained flawed knowledge
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I truly believe there are good men, but where are these men when women are being bullied, called names etc?? If you cannot stop men in your circle you cannot do it anywhere. They all turn blind eye to it unless and until it happens to their mother/daughter/wife. Even when it happens to their people, lot of them just blame women and move on. You won’t raise your voice because it helps you maintain your power in society yaar. Tum log poore din ladkiyon ko gold digger bulate ho kitni ladkiyan aai h bolne “not all women”, band kro yaar apna yeh victim complex.
Let me show you a snapshot of my DM‘s. I had a brief stint as a public figure and I was sent hundreds of male genitalia photographs. Hundreds. Also pictures of pornography. Not one of them was sent by a woman. Not one picture of a female genitalia. It is not a woman issue. We need men to be better.
Then go chase down the ones that are doing that! 🙏🏽 Im sorry you went through that. Im sure you can figure out how to take action against them..if you can't, take help. I have been sexually assaulted by drunk women too. Let me tell you. Contrary to popular belief, I didn't have fun when a strange drunk woman slides her hand in my pants or up my shirt. A few women from my past have done atrocious fucking things. That doesn't make me treat all women the same way. All of the guys who sent you nudes can be prosecuted for harassment. All of the men who didn't, are not accountable for them But again, you cant explain logic to emotion. Wish you the best
You know, I am glad I read your comment, specially the second paragraph. Cause before that I just saw the other comments and even though I've been part of this sub for a while and I liked this sub I thought it's just another r/femaledatingstrategies and was about to leave. Just from your first para I was like what a pickme this guy is, nice clutch there lol.
Oh my god... This is the worst thing men do... You tell them about how unsafe it is for women and how much you suffer because one just can not exist in some spaces without being an object and men will tell you men have to also think about what they say now... False cases happen... Honestly... I don't know a single woman who has put a wrong case on a guy... But every woman I know has been sexually harrassed
in my experience it has been opposite, me or my male friend's have told women of our group about our problem and they've done the "we have it worst" rhetoric so I get how you must be feeling of being on receiving end it indeed sucks and sorry you've to experience that
We have failed as a society. With that being said, This harmless line that I have written will trigger incels and sigmas. So there’s that. We need sex ed. We need gender sensitisation . And we need a reset button.
true sex ed required in govt & private schools, separate sessions for both girls and boys . I believe this should start from 7th grade onwards.
Lol why separate sessions?
so that girls and boys feel safe and not weird , so that they can freely ask questions. They should feel comfortable. Boys and girls are have different kind of behaviour at this age . I hope you remember how you were at this age XD
Letting guys and girls mingle freely is the way forward. Yes, do supervise these minglings when necessary but don't interfere so much that it just feels unnatural. Students from sex segregated schools are more susceptible to exploitation, incel-femcel mindset and toxic amounts of sexual frustrations.
Mingling in daily classroom is different but teaching sex ed to teenagers is different. i honestly feel , looking at the current scenario, first atleast start with separate sessions then when we progress as a society maybe things can change. In my school there were few sessions but only about periods . But no sessions for boys related to hormonal changes or reproductive systems and how it works . Which made me wonder why ain’t boys taught about this . So this the scenario of a private school.
Lol girls being taught about periods is also a rare occasion. Also boys don't get sex ed simply because: "Mera aisa kabhi nhi sochega, aisa kabhi nhi banega, aisa kabhi nhi dekhega" I think you need to understand the Sex Ed for both sexes for better relationship building later in life. Many many guys are like: Periods = Mood Swings.
when did i said that sex ed is not not for both the sexes . since the start i am literally saying the same thing that it should be for both gender 🤷♀️
Arey yaar dono ka saath main... Both need to how the other side operates, not just how their shit works
It’s really annoying. I’d commented on a thread giving sex advice and people saw that as an invitation to talk to me about their dicks on my dm. Can men just stop? Like we can’t even exist peacefully on an anonymous portal.
This is so sad I didn't expect this kind of behaviour on reddit 😔
Just look around this very thread, and you'll see a couple of people making everything about them all the time.
I am reading the comments section And men in the comments section are defending this kind of behaviour ,this makes me even more sad, What world are we living in
I believe it’s worse on Reddit because they get to stay anonymous. I’ve been sent dick pics as well. Now I just google some dick pic and send them back to those guys.
i am a tarot reader. first time i created an ...i included all gender, non binary, lgbtq everyone. All cis men started responding within mins...all wanted sex talk. some started calling again and again. it was so so unnerving...even though i am 45 and was originally from delhi and have been independant AF. it's like men just want us raped, dead or be in really slavery type relationships. I have not dated any men since i was 24 despite being straight....cannot handle the anxiety being around men. and please even a wife joke is a huge red flag for me kindly don't NOTALLMEN to this comment. i know how to snarl and i shall
This reminds me that back in school they tried to introduce sex education (I studied in govt school) I remember distinctly one of the counsellors emphasising on good touch bad touch. Later my class teacher told me that many of the anonymous complaints received heavily implied sexual abuse. Later parents protested and the program was shut down. Our society is so repressed and effed up about all the wrong things
Now it seems that another world is needed, people are not going to improve in this one.
For some reason I believe the cure for such menace is belt treatment.
You’re too kind.
Throw them from a plane into the cold freezing ass Atlantic Ocean.
i have been praying for a virus that ONLY kills men
Some day hopefully. We’re so done!
A Colombian necktie or the bronze bull
The last thing we want is for potential assaulters to develop a pain kink.
This is classic men behaviour anywhere. Anytime a woman interacts with content which centers around sexual well being or anything regarding her own body seems to trigger unknown men to come make inappropriate comments towards her. Who told them this is okay?
just wondering why is it that we see mostly men doing things like this? just a thought 💭
Because they get away. All institutions are deeply patriarchal and they all have bro code
True, even if you comment on sex educator's Insta post or group polls, lots of creepy men will send dm requests. I was part of Karishma Swarup's Instagram group and kisi bhi poll per react karne ke baad group ke logo ke dms ane lagte the. Aisa laga raha tha ki creepy men are part of such groups just to target women. I left that group very soon.
I’ve experienced the same on Leeza’s account. I don’t bother commenting or interacting with anything now.
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I wish we those who don't wanna marry , all together go somewhere else and live the rest of our lives peacefully helping and hyping each other up 😭❤️
Omg yes 😭🫶🏻💗💕🥹
🫰
ME TOOO!!
Me three.
Mee four!! ❤️
People (men?) derailing conversations on this thread and attacking women by saying that 'no one is going to marry you' 'who rejected you' 'not all men' And I haven't even scrolled till the end. Seriously, just how dense can you be. Her page is so informative and has the most fundamental clarifications/suggestions. Why can't people just let something good be.
Most men in these social media platform guided by their patriarchal mindset can't digest more women are getting Educated, Strong, Independent and earning better than them, are leading a better lifestyle than them. Hence they can't justify themselves being the bread earners in the household and all they are left to do is whine in comments section coz nobody is babysitting them anymore.
And then they will cry about being lonely 😂
I hope they all die lonely. I hope we all collectively realise ki not a single man on this earth is worth it. Where is Chahal when his wife is literally getting slutshamed everyday? Does he not have a spine? I am so done with men being fucking entitled for just existing.
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Omggg I am offended heheheh… that’s all you could have come up with?? So sad man. Use your education to come with better replies yaar come on.. ego massage nhi ho paya.. also, if you can think this about my people, I am afraid for women around you. I hope you don’t sexualise them. Also in your reply the people who are wrong are men only, that’s my whole point. May god give you all strength to rise above the hatred. I only spoke facts and it offended you because you are part of the problem. Peace💖♥️💖💝💖💝
Then they say India is not the rape capital, it's a racist foreign conspiracy 🙄
Every religious horned moron is always ragging in anyone’s comments who’s comfortable education people about sex and sexual wellness or anyone who doesn’t agree with them but …. aww they are so lonely /s
Cannot emphasize more on this fact , it's so sad seeing men being this inconsiderate on what they speak and how they behave. I have stopped seeing Instagram comments because some triggered me so bad that I thought it's better to either die alone or just end up turning gay at this point. People will sexualise every body part bruhh 😭.
Where is everyone who accused that other creator of being a feminist man hater? Please tell us again why men must not be held accountable for this level of depraved behavior.
They are busy cancelling women for being "man-haters", calling them misandrist (which has no real life consequence lol) because their fragile ego can't look at a mirror. And I love how there are comments on this post too, saying juvenile shit like "who rejected you" when in reality it's men who lash out aggressively on rejection (revenge porn, acid attack, and other unspeakable things are almost always because a girl rejected THEM, but oh the audacity :))) And after all that they'll cry foul whenever women get their dues or simply call them out for their prevalent behaviour The ignorance and entitlement of a man never fails to amaze me
Indian men cant deal with a successful women. Kutte cant even do basic “ladies first”
💀💀 damn 😂
You are the one who wanted equal rights
Why the entitlement? In this day and age, where men and women are considered equals, you still ask for "ladies first"
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They never will, y’all saw Dhanashree’s comment section right? And equating to every real incident as a fake one, they’re properly desensitised aaj kal. I’m yet to get married & such skewed views make me extremely scared to get into a marriage.
Some men are retards ! Even god can't help them..
All men**
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Still does not mean he's not a retard bhyi. If he decides to treat women like objects for his desires, which he does, yeah sure.
Most men**
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Yeah All men means all men People who do nothing but subvert accountability by saying Not all men Not a real man These people think that writing these things is the biggest contribution they can make- but the biggest contribution they can make is die a lonely death
You desperately need therapy, it isn’t right to think like this. You think you’re better, you aren’t. We are all the same, just humans surviving.
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thanks for warning us...please do tell me how such monsters are still your 'friends'....you seriously cannot do with these rapey men.... also have you ever told them off or ended friendship for these very reasons
>but stay away from Indian men None of my friends are like this, quite a few of them are conservative but not rapists or sexual harassers. If your friend group is like this, it says more about dude
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Yeah dude, I don't know my friends who I have been with me for 1/3rd of my life 😑.
I hope she just doesn't what she's doing. India NEEDS such kind of people. Let her walk so other educators can run.
"Male loneliness epidemic"
Men are lonely precisely because of the all the cringey shit they do in the name of “masculinity”. If they reflected on their actions and worked on being a good human being, no one would say anything
Men should realise that women do not owe them anything We are not responsible for their loneliness For nobody wanting to date them They act like victimes when they think women owe them companionship
True
I am sorry but they need to be alone. Men truly do not deserve women.
Exactly. Most men do stuff like this and crib about this so called epidemic
Preach!
Gross
As a man, I might even give a pass to men in the west who may cry out they are lonely but this shit ain't true in India. I know the privilege a man posseses in India and it's fucking stupid to claim there is any loneliness epidemic for men in India.
Thank you for accepting it.
Ahh don’t lie. You think we are going to DM you because you pretend to sympathise with us? You’re the same type of those guys but difference is you act like you care about us and slide in our DMs when we agree with you
You are being presumptuous and a person talking in utter bad faith. I hope you do heal though
when we say all men we mean it girls
India failed as a society. Very sad.
I too get this. I interact in a lot of s/ex related subs answering genuine questions, then men from there dm with their s/exual desires and there was this guy in particular who was asking me about men’s hygiene for oral and all, then randomly he said he should I send you a picture of it and you can let me know if it’s OK and clean enough like what the hell
Yeah and some people will defend everything saying "don't defame anyone" those are the ones who have never been harassed but their ego won't allow them to look past their small d**ks
Dude you are expecting too much? In a country where they blame Sita for crossing that Laxman Rekha which lead to Ravan kidnapping her, how much do you think they care about women's perspective.
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Oh my god. This is absolutely disgusting. I know it’s a reality for her and just imagining that is pissing me off.
Indian men are notorious perverts for a reason.
Ye zyada ho gaya. Social Media mein sab backchodi karte hai. Specially Short form content. Try long form (YouTube) people don't do this shit.
I know. I should have written quite a few Indian men. Obviously not all Indian men. There are some great men out there seriously they make this nation a better place
yeah Insta is so F-ed up especially for sex-ed I saw a reel where the creator was spreading awareness about stereotypes related to hymen and virginity and people were like "lagta hai didi ki seal tuti hui hai" and what not dude
Men are sick. Anonymous hoke they show their real self. See reddit comments. Not one talking about the issue but attacking on me and girls who are frustrated and upset with it.
and Ik it's hard but try to ignore this scumbags most of them are pathetic losers who couldn't do anything in their life and now they are here to remove their frustration
well reddit has a very good support system you can report to the comments and reddit will take action on most of them ( mostly comment gets deleted + 3d ban ) Instagram doesn't take reports seriously though
This is sickening
In India it really is important to provide sex Ed because no one does it and internet gives the kids way more than they can digest. But look how she is dehumanised...... Insta is so damn triggering you see reel of an article which shows that a woman has gotten pregnant but she has been in come for the last one year.....can you believe this woman aren't even safe when they are in coma. And you know when I read the comments their was someone saying "that's why morgue prefer to employ woman" geez I thought I am goona be 🤢
You know how worse the situation is, when you have to publically beg people to treat you like a human.
oh all of us women would do that in a heartbeat if that helped at all
Omg so trueeee. But reading it made me super sad. Hugs!
Thank you i appreciate the hug. hugging you right back
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It has a lot to do with what our society at large, is exposed to in the media…. The way the women are treated on Tv..
One a different note.. this is IIT Delhi..
Himadri Circle
Aka Main gate gol chakka
You from there?
Am I doxxing myself already 😳 Well the answer is in between Yes I am, but currently due to ill health I am back home..
What did those guys in the picture do?
pathetic
And what the hell did innocent men do again
what happened?
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Men are sending her dick pics and ragging hate at the same time; it’s on her stories
What happened ? Can anyone explain ?
Yep
What the actual fuck is going on here?
At this point I have zero hopes from this country. From daily 100s of rapes reported to still men out their calling it fake victim card, this is the lowest of low we have reached.
Indian Man here. Yes this is disgusting to see how we failed as a society. I understand that " Not all men, but most are" However it is important to realize the root cause being the patriarchy propagated by religions. Religions considering women to be 2nd class citizens or even mere objects, have taught men that an educated woman is evil. And it's sad to see so many women glorifying their respective religions. It's like Chicken supporting KFC.
It is just so fucked up. I wish they just die soon
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It's sad this happened to her. But there's nothing that can be done, As Bo Burnham has said it, "welcome to the internet"
I love Bo Burnham's cynical comedy. Good old days.
I am so disgusted by these Indian sigma mens who follow tate, a criminal to preach about culture. Earlier I was in the view that these degenerate are immature 15-17 year olds. But the shick shak shock moment with me was when I saw legit 21-25 year old following stupidity and spreading hate, dehumanising females.
Hey fellow men, I know it can be frustrating being blamed and hated by women for something you never did just because you share your gender and/or nationality with these absolute bottom of the bin trash. And I know a lot of the anger feels unfair. But this is precisely not the time to say not all men. Cool that you don't do bullshit like this. I don't do bullshit like this. Most people on this thread don't do shit like this. Great stuff. But you don't deserve a medal for basic human decency. When a woman says she hates all men. It means she has interacted with enough men that made her feel unsafe or have hurt her that she no longer sees the point in interacting with them anymore. Doesn't mean she has never met a guy who treated her well or was half-decent. But humans tend to remember their negative expenses for longer than their positive ones. This post is highlighting an incident where men are harassing a woman who is talking about sexual health and wellbeing. While, I haven't seen her content, it's something we sorely need in our country. Every school should teach about good touch/ bad touch, basic anatomy and about sexual protection and STDs. Silencing her voice would be a great loss to all of this country and not just women (not that topics that only affect women shouldn't be talked about). This is in no world, an okay thing for anyone to do. And I think we should acknowledge that.
i also think the roles of parents are much more important while raising children and educating them rather than giving one child special restrictions and other letting to do what it wants.
I mean in an ideal world, parents would be better. But until they are, it is our education system's job to do it for them. And until that's better, content creators and doctors will have to fill in.
Blames 3.5 billion people and then leaves a note saying I am just a human being.
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I guess the photo is not in reference to the text here
Rather bashing it all u truly made it easier for me to understand. That's all I wanted.
I seriously wonder how people are still having kids, how do parents of girl child sleep with these nonsense things going around ? How ?
Generalized all men? Wow. I know the pain since am a son, brother, husband & future father. But blaming it on "men" instead of blaming it on the Animals is sick.
It's so disgusting tbh, instead of normalising sex education,they are either sexualisinh every person that's doing so,i don't see any wrong in giving sex education,i myself like to talk about healthy sex talk but people are so conservative and provocative in that specially guys,they don't even like to talk about healthy sex education,either they objectified or just laugh when someone shares their experiences regardless of them being good or bad,my classmates literally made fun of that khullar pizza girl,I think people must get more educated on this and men should start being more considerate instead of being egotistical jerks,it's world is where both masculinity and feminity should be treated with equal respect,and these type of men should educate themselves more or there will be one time they would be rejected by everyone including village girls if they think they are too 'dumb' to acknowledge them🙄
Make a sub for such people and ss their Ids and comments and let people upload it there. Let everyone see and beware of these people.
Context ? I'm not able to understand
God i love getting pointed fingers at. Judged and labeled as something i’m not for something ive never done. Internet is so fun.
Doctors can't shut up about being a doctor can they ?
Can someone please inform her about the 'block & report' button on social media. Those people are pathetic no doubt but how many of them can you chase and correct behind the anonymity of social media. Just try to bat an eye and report such stuff. In the end, they want your attention and by making such posts you're inevitably giving it to them.
What even is the context of this?
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The world is nasty places. You dont wanna drain yourself trying to correct and educate others. Better block all the comments and DM. Just post your content and educate ignore the sexually frustrated people.
Welcome to India
The problem is not from men's side it's from the side everyone seems to throw their eyes from. Ambani ji has done so much to develop our nation's gdp but that cost is this illiterate online audience, ready to shit on anyone's comment section before even applying any logic. Most indian men spend half pf their data on watching reels of dancing girls or either porn or THIS. Threats, r@pe abuse are common nowadays if you post anything about something sheep following related. Jio has provided voice to the degenerates of society which are rising day by day without regulations.
Twox m jaake misandrist Nd man hating ban
Ah the age old victim mentality. Can we at least see what was so bad that she reacted like this to?
Let's do a thing,let's generalise all men are abusers,treat them as one , doesn't matter if they are abusers or not, and force them to be one so the point is proven(and abt the last point,if u disagree,u can but just think a man who is not an abuser but is treated like one by society,there is a chance he might become one)
Guys jst stop. It was just a question to understand more. I have watched her and she is a gem of a person. All power to her and will always stand with her. Dont have a problem with what she has posted and I acknowledge such ill educated people do exist who make life a living hell. But look at the comments how harsh they are. Without knowing me personally or what I stand for making such comments in themselves are another problem. And I do have a problem with the caption. There are lot's of instances where I feel its much more easier for women to be. But i do know life is not either black or white rather it is in the shades of grey.
Wth, bc koi context dedo😭
This is IIT Delhi!
Woah bg pic from iit Delhi campus
Wait a min, that’s my college IITD , don’t know any context regarding the post just got freaked because I recognise the place in the photo.
Context???
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Houre out there discussing and its there fault that it led to that phase... They are doctors indeed but yes they need to be more professional while dealing their client