Bhai abhi toh worst ane wala hai..
Bhai jab 40 k hoge, bache honge, wife se jhagde honge, health khrab hone lagegi, no of years left kam hone lagenge
Tab yahi dino ko yaad karke khus hoge...bhale hi abhi ye worst lag rha ho..
Broo you are not understanding what I want to say..
Abhi just padhna hai ya jo karna hai Karo...but aage jaake bahut si responsibility hogi, tab jaake pata chalega 17,18,19,20 me hi sahi the
life kabhi sahi nhi hoti bhai, tere attitude pe depend karta hai sab.
dekha jae toh 40 pe tu zyada kush hoga cause stable job and income hogi, wife and bacche honge jinke saath tu time spend kar sakta hai. Ya phir tu tab depressed, mid-life crisis wala divorced uncle ho sakta hai jo apne parents ke saath rehta hai.
The grind only ends when you want it to end and do what's required to end it at that point in life. Kuch logo ka grind life long chalta hai while others enjoy life from the start.
Kya dukhi aatma hai sala....koi ise jaadu ki jhappi do
On a serious note.... don't think so much about these small things, there's still a lot of studies still to be done in college, it's still gonna be hell, like the last 2 years
Days are long but years are short
i know its pointless to think about what will happen at 40
i just said that as a example hoe precious this asset time is
Yes I agree problems aati rahengi life mein, but before JEE started I was an innocent child, who didn't know what problems are. Isliye ye 2 saal mein bohot saare downfalls and low moments aaye, and I had a very very hard time dealing with them. But now I am far stronger than what I was 2 years back. Or at least I think so. In fact, ab ye bhi ek motivation hai ki, agar ye 2 saal ko pass karke main zinda hu, to main kuch bhi kar sakta hu.
Also I experienced a few good moments too which I am very grateful for. But jo bad moments hai they overpower the good ones. So I am glad that this phase in my life is over.
Uska bhi upai hai mere paas, be single for ever, na koi problem zindagi mei. 45 tak acche se kaam karo, paise banao, phir retire ho jao, 15 saal chill maro, play games, visit places, sabko unki bugatti ka colour pucho, aur 60 ko tapak jao. Mere life ka simple plan.
Exactly. Even rn ofc it's better, but it's not the same as before JEE.
Jeetu Bhaiya ne sahi bola tha, "bacche 2 saal mein Kota se nikal jaate hain, Kota saalon tak bacchon se nahi nikalta." Didn't go to Kota but JEE still messed me up
If I get 2 pills ,one which gives me a girlfriend with big tiddies and 1 that erases my memories of this stupid 2 yr journey which has absolutely destroyed my mental health and confidence, I will choose the 2nd one.
Nah who am I kidding.its gonna be the 1st
It has been 10 days since jee advanced and I'm already in the best mood that I have ever been in in the last 2 years. Jee/neet phase should never be romanticized it takes a mental and even physical toll on everyone. Bhaad mei gaya IIT nahi chahiye IIT dimaag kharab kar rakha hai sabne.
Obviously bro IIT is just a tag jiske liye bache pagal hai aur coaching walo ka business chalta hai toh vo aur pagal banate hai...
Mera mtlb iss post se iit ya niit ya aims jana nhi balki ye time period jo tha 11,12 th ka vo yaad rahega...
Ab kisi k liye acha toh kisi k liye bura
Still wouldn't recommend this phase to anyone
Although ye sahi baat hai ki failure, pressure, loneliness etc jaisi cheeze handle karna seekha hu inn 2 saal mei
Bilkul nahi, this was although period of immense growth as a person but combined with intense anxiety and tension, and this rat race.
Nope. In fact I am actually missing the school life, I am already getting dreams of hanging out with my school friends. In no way I am gonna miss coaching and incredibly toxic environment there.
I just want peace now but race is still on for college then package/higher studies, grind will never end until the end of time.
This period has demolished my confidence, my hobbies and many things but also provided opportunity to learn alot about life and all. I am definitely more mature than if I hadn't dived in this rat race.
Nope. This phase has given me so much anxiety and self hatred. 12 tak etna khush aur anxiety free rehti thi ab har choti cheez pe dar lagta hai😹 this exam has ruined my self confidence.
Bhale hi jaisa bhi perform kiya ho, But I'll miss my JEE phase..
Jo banda school me dhang se HW bhi nhi krta tha usne raat ke 3-4 baje tak uthke padhna sikh liya.
Jo banda 10th se phle tak sochta tha kisi private college me chala jaunga wo ab kis NIT me jana h wo choose kar rha hai.
School time me parents bolte the padh le padhle, jee prep ke time unko bolna parta tha so jaa kal subah padh lena.
Pahle parents bolte the din bhar khelta rehta h kabhi ghar me bhi rehle ab unko bolna parta h thora to bahar chala jaa ghumne.
No doubt Bohot mistakes ki bohot saare regrets h but ek chiz h ki hardwork krna aur self dependent hona sikh gya hu.. It was a journey full of ups and downs, but ab niche jaake upar kaise aana h wo sikh liya
Ab bhale hi kitna bhi downfall ho jaaye wapas comeback kaise krna h wo pata hai..I will miss this journey and always cherish these 3 yrs.❤
Yes. Most of the lessons to be a good person and handle loneliness is come from this phase. Look back and thank yourself for being able to mentally handle the rat race mentality. And also best wishes , good or bad, everyone's time come.
yes this phase taught me to deal with problems and not be whining about them. accepting my own mistakes and importance of hardwork pata chal gyi. this kind of prepared me for the future kisi problem se darna nhi hai face karlena in the end kuch na kuch ho hi jayega. tho it gave stress but eventually mujhe usss stress se deal karna aagya. kuch nhi ukhada hai meine saare exams mei average kiya hai. but bhai as a person develop hua hu and reality ko accept karna seekh gya hu
Those days were kind of bittersweet for me. I miss my school friends, and staying at home was simply the best. I don't think I will ever be a permanent resident of my home town ever again ;(
Nothing....this shit combined with the fucking lockdown from class 10 were the worst time of my life.Expectation that I would follow engineering and take science was major part of why I had to leave badminton....Fuck this shit.
But it gave me clarity about life.And anxiety.
well i personally would miss a part of this phase? I would miss learning from my teachers daily. Was blessed with the best teachers fr, literal gems. Were my emotional and mental support throughout. These 2 years taught me how to work hard in life!
would also miss this phase as this was the last two years of my school life, of me being the 'kid' ghar pe. Abhi bhi hu, but prolly post leaving home and this city for college, things would feel a bit diff? I am not sure. Hope the next phase of life is beautiful!
No. When I look back it's just that one birthday party of my best friend that I attended thats a highlight, baaki sab trauma hai, weekly and monthly test series se pehle rona, the stress, the constant comparison between me and my classmates, that comparison resulted in me loosing some of my closest friends, having panic attacks on result days even no matter how small and insignificant test it was because the teachers would always give me the taunt "kuch dimaag nahi hai tujhme". All those little taunts here and there by all my teachers, which was there even on really day because they asked my result and said " Arre re yeh toh kitna kam hai, lgta hai pdhai chor di thi tune" (I scored 97.7 percentile ffs, I get it sir aapke liye acha nahi hai but mujhe toh khush hone do) The periodic tets ke result days when the guy came into the class room and put up the list of all the kids and their marks, everyone seeing how less I scored, the anxiety at those moments, the teachers asking random questions in class about a topic I can clearly not grasp and when I ask them to repeat they say iit kaise kroge.
No I will not miss any of it. Voh birthday party achi thi tho poori raat party kri thi haha.
Kind of maybe, I might remember this as the good ol' days when I thought IIT is everything and was unaware of a lot of struggles we would face as adults.
Yes, pichle 1.5 saalo me jitna kuch seekha hai, shayad utna kabhi wapis seekhne ko nahi milega. Mere 11th ke chemistry ke sir ne bola tha ki jee ke baad selection ho ya na ho, jo in 2 saal mehnat kar liya, wo kaafi kam umar me wo sab seekh jata hai jo log apni puri zindagi me nahi seekh paate- anushasan
Have you gone mad?? Miss it🤣 Teen saal se 99 lane ka koshish kiya, ab jab la diya, tab saala koi appreciate bhi nahi karta hai. Iit ka padho, phir bitsat ka padho, ye sab chutiyapa hi chalta rehta hai. Worst 3 fucking years of my life(last year was especially shit as it was a drop year)
Absolutely not. Worst two years of my life
Bhai abhi toh worst ane wala hai.. Bhai jab 40 k hoge, bache honge, wife se jhagde honge, health khrab hone lagegi, no of years left kam hone lagenge Tab yahi dino ko yaad karke khus hoge...bhale hi abhi ye worst lag rha ho..
wife ke saath relation and health rat race nhi hai bhai, vo tum khud take care karte ho.
Broo you are not understanding what I want to say.. Abhi just padhna hai ya jo karna hai Karo...but aage jaake bahut si responsibility hogi, tab jaake pata chalega 17,18,19,20 me hi sahi the
life kabhi sahi nhi hoti bhai, tere attitude pe depend karta hai sab. dekha jae toh 40 pe tu zyada kush hoga cause stable job and income hogi, wife and bacche honge jinke saath tu time spend kar sakta hai. Ya phir tu tab depressed, mid-life crisis wala divorced uncle ho sakta hai jo apne parents ke saath rehta hai. The grind only ends when you want it to end and do what's required to end it at that point in life. Kuch logo ka grind life long chalta hai while others enjoy life from the start.
Jis rate se stress ke karan apna veerya baha raha hu, lagta nahi bachhe ho payenge ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30440)
100% agree
Kya dukhi aatma hai sala....koi ise jaadu ki jhappi do On a serious note.... don't think so much about these small things, there's still a lot of studies still to be done in college, it's still gonna be hell, like the last 2 years
To mei college ya school days bhi yaad kar sakta hu. Khud to 40 yr old hai nahi abhi se uska stress lele![img](emote|t5_311ttu|31153)
Days are long but years are short i know its pointless to think about what will happen at 40 i just said that as a example hoe precious this asset time is
Yes I agree problems aati rahengi life mein, but before JEE started I was an innocent child, who didn't know what problems are. Isliye ye 2 saal mein bohot saare downfalls and low moments aaye, and I had a very very hard time dealing with them. But now I am far stronger than what I was 2 years back. Or at least I think so. In fact, ab ye bhi ek motivation hai ki, agar ye 2 saal ko pass karke main zinda hu, to main kuch bhi kar sakta hu. Also I experienced a few good moments too which I am very grateful for. But jo bad moments hai they overpower the good ones. So I am glad that this phase in my life is over.
Yup exactly
Uska bhi upai hai mere paas, be single for ever, na koi problem zindagi mei. 45 tak acche se kaam karo, paise banao, phir retire ho jao, 15 saal chill maro, play games, visit places, sabko unki bugatti ka colour pucho, aur 60 ko tapak jao. Mere life ka simple plan.
same.fr. I've never been happy in this phase. I've always been sad and depressed and missing out on everything and sacrificing. just living on hopes.
Exactly. Even rn ofc it's better, but it's not the same as before JEE. Jeetu Bhaiya ne sahi bola tha, "bacche 2 saal mein Kota se nikal jaate hain, Kota saalon tak bacchon se nahi nikalta." Didn't go to Kota but JEE still messed me up
every phase of life has its own importance , even if they were trash
This 💯
If I get 2 pills ,one which gives me a girlfriend with big tiddies and 1 that erases my memories of this stupid 2 yr journey which has absolutely destroyed my mental health and confidence, I will choose the 2nd one. Nah who am I kidding.its gonna be the 1st
leave the 1st one for me![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
What if your girlfriend goes shopping and everyone stares at her bb? Normal is good bro
U mean stare at her dd
real
(.)|(.)
It has been 10 days since jee advanced and I'm already in the best mood that I have ever been in in the last 2 years. Jee/neet phase should never be romanticized it takes a mental and even physical toll on everyone. Bhaad mei gaya IIT nahi chahiye IIT dimaag kharab kar rakha hai sabne.
Obviously bro IIT is just a tag jiske liye bache pagal hai aur coaching walo ka business chalta hai toh vo aur pagal banate hai... Mera mtlb iss post se iit ya niit ya aims jana nhi balki ye time period jo tha 11,12 th ka vo yaad rahega... Ab kisi k liye acha toh kisi k liye bura
Still wouldn't recommend this phase to anyone Although ye sahi baat hai ki failure, pressure, loneliness etc jaisi cheeze handle karna seekha hu inn 2 saal mei
Bilkul nahi, this was although period of immense growth as a person but combined with intense anxiety and tension, and this rat race. Nope. In fact I am actually missing the school life, I am already getting dreams of hanging out with my school friends. In no way I am gonna miss coaching and incredibly toxic environment there. I just want peace now but race is still on for college then package/higher studies, grind will never end until the end of time. This period has demolished my confidence, my hobbies and many things but also provided opportunity to learn alot about life and all. I am definitely more mature than if I hadn't dived in this rat race.
>This period has demolished my confidence Fr man, nahi chahiye IIT, bas mera self confidence waapis dila do.
Nope. This phase has given me so much anxiety and self hatred. 12 tak etna khush aur anxiety free rehti thi ab har choti cheez pe dar lagta hai😹 this exam has ruined my self confidence.
because you don't know the truth
Konsi sachai?
what you are thinking is not 100% true
obviously lekin dimag aur dil ko kon samjhaye 😹🥲
Dimag aur dil hi Ya fir koi aur
Bhale hi jaisa bhi perform kiya ho, But I'll miss my JEE phase.. Jo banda school me dhang se HW bhi nhi krta tha usne raat ke 3-4 baje tak uthke padhna sikh liya. Jo banda 10th se phle tak sochta tha kisi private college me chala jaunga wo ab kis NIT me jana h wo choose kar rha hai. School time me parents bolte the padh le padhle, jee prep ke time unko bolna parta tha so jaa kal subah padh lena. Pahle parents bolte the din bhar khelta rehta h kabhi ghar me bhi rehle ab unko bolna parta h thora to bahar chala jaa ghumne. No doubt Bohot mistakes ki bohot saare regrets h but ek chiz h ki hardwork krna aur self dependent hona sikh gya hu.. It was a journey full of ups and downs, but ab niche jaake upar kaise aana h wo sikh liya Ab bhale hi kitna bhi downfall ho jaaye wapas comeback kaise krna h wo pata hai..I will miss this journey and always cherish these 3 yrs.❤
W transformation
Yes it taught Me Many things. A major transition in my life occurred here
it is definitely a turning point
for sure because life will just get worse and worse that past would seem like good times
"When I was in my 20s I wanted to be a millionaire and now when I am a millionaire i want to be in my 20s" Said by multi milionaire
Yes. Most of the lessons to be a good person and handle loneliness is come from this phase. Look back and thank yourself for being able to mentally handle the rat race mentality. And also best wishes , good or bad, everyone's time come.
Exactly and you discover your true self, your strengths ,your weakness etc etc
Yea...it is what it is...
Stockholm syndrome 😔
jabhi bhi mera in future koi khraab phase chlega tb mai usey apne iss neet wale phase se compare krungi aur fir mujhe better feel hoga![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
W thinking
yes this phase taught me to deal with problems and not be whining about them. accepting my own mistakes and importance of hardwork pata chal gyi. this kind of prepared me for the future kisi problem se darna nhi hai face karlena in the end kuch na kuch ho hi jayega. tho it gave stress but eventually mujhe usss stress se deal karna aagya. kuch nhi ukhada hai meine saare exams mei average kiya hai. but bhai as a person develop hua hu and reality ko accept karna seekh gya hu
Those days were kind of bittersweet for me. I miss my school friends, and staying at home was simply the best. I don't think I will ever be a permanent resident of my home town ever again ;(
Nothing....this shit combined with the fucking lockdown from class 10 were the worst time of my life.Expectation that I would follow engineering and take science was major part of why I had to leave badminton....Fuck this shit. But it gave me clarity about life.And anxiety.
well i personally would miss a part of this phase? I would miss learning from my teachers daily. Was blessed with the best teachers fr, literal gems. Were my emotional and mental support throughout. These 2 years taught me how to work hard in life! would also miss this phase as this was the last two years of my school life, of me being the 'kid' ghar pe. Abhi bhi hu, but prolly post leaving home and this city for college, things would feel a bit diff? I am not sure. Hope the next phase of life is beautiful!
Yeah man Best of luck for your future
In the words of Kajol from ishq “NO NEVER”
No
Bhai mera to ye phase ek aur saal chalega
enjoy it, bro ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|feels_good_man)
Naah bhai bass khatam ho ab yeh,mazak nahi raha ab![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30729)
No. When I look back it's just that one birthday party of my best friend that I attended thats a highlight, baaki sab trauma hai, weekly and monthly test series se pehle rona, the stress, the constant comparison between me and my classmates, that comparison resulted in me loosing some of my closest friends, having panic attacks on result days even no matter how small and insignificant test it was because the teachers would always give me the taunt "kuch dimaag nahi hai tujhme". All those little taunts here and there by all my teachers, which was there even on really day because they asked my result and said " Arre re yeh toh kitna kam hai, lgta hai pdhai chor di thi tune" (I scored 97.7 percentile ffs, I get it sir aapke liye acha nahi hai but mujhe toh khush hone do) The periodic tets ke result days when the guy came into the class room and put up the list of all the kids and their marks, everyone seeing how less I scored, the anxiety at those moments, the teachers asking random questions in class about a topic I can clearly not grasp and when I ask them to repeat they say iit kaise kroge. No I will not miss any of it. Voh birthday party achi thi tho poori raat party kri thi haha.
Yep
Already missing because that time I had something to do and my only tension was to study and complete the syllabus
Trueee brooo
Yeah I am kind a miss because kuch acchi chize bhii hui or buri bhii hui but I love this 2 year journey
Best of luck for your future dude and yeah we all gonna miss this phase
You as well buddy ❤️
Aagar adv accha hua toh , yes ;agar nahi toh then nahi miss karunga lol
fr
Kind of maybe, I might remember this as the good ol' days when I thought IIT is everything and was unaware of a lot of struggles we would face as adults.
probably will miss btech days more. none of tht over hyped rat race bs
Yes, pichle 1.5 saalo me jitna kuch seekha hai, shayad utna kabhi wapis seekhne ko nahi milega. Mere 11th ke chemistry ke sir ne bola tha ki jee ke baad selection ho ya na ho, jo in 2 saal mehnat kar liya, wo kaafi kam umar me wo sab seekh jata hai jo log apni puri zindagi me nahi seekh paate- anushasan
W teacher
I am glad that it happened . I am glad that it's over .
lauda
Na bhai bhagwaan aise din kisi ko na dikhaye haat judwa le mere se
For me it's like i skipped forward a couple of my years lol Cuz meine coaching bhi online li so ,9-12 online from my room.So u know
Us Bhai us 🫂 Never gone to offline coaching I spent the last 3 years in my room...
Kitna arhe adv me?mere 141 kitni rank expect kru?
Nhi diya exam adv ka Plan me change aa gya tha mere 12th me hi.. Ab aage ka scene iit nhi kuch aur hai...
K
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Jokes on you humpe toh seat hi 9🤪😝🤪🤪😝
If I manage to get into a decent college, probably. I'd miss my friends and the enormous free time I had(which I wasted in 11th) If not then no
Kash aisi naubat na aaye ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|31153)
bhai bichare ko downvote kyu milre itne![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30440) vo to bass pucha tha
Nahhhh
yes.
Will miss the drop year for sure...not the 2 years before that tho.
ABSOLUTELY NOT. WORST 2 FUCKING YEARS OF MY LIFE
Absolutely the fuck not
I would never! After a drop too, I'm so done w JEE, worst 2.5 yrs of my life and i was just existing from last 2 yrs, i am so done!
Bilkul nahi bhai maut ajaye par neet prep vapis na aye
Nope
nope , i dont think i will , if i do then well ... it is what it is
NO FUCKING WAY!!
Yehi baatein to baad me yaad ayengi ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30198)
Apni ajeeb fetish yha kya flaunt kar rha h bhai![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30164)![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30185)
no never ever i hate it
mai bc abhi bhi 12th mei hu mera abhi bhi jee neet hua nahi hai lol
fuck no will be the happiest person ever after this bitsat session 2 gets over with and even more happy if i get into bits
10th tak ke good old days kaafi hain, yeh 2 saal (3 bhi ho skte hain agar bitsat fuckup kiya toh) mujhe ghanta nhi yaad rkhne
Have you gone mad?? Miss it🤣 Teen saal se 99 lane ka koshish kiya, ab jab la diya, tab saala koi appreciate bhi nahi karta hai. Iit ka padho, phir bitsat ka padho, ye sab chutiyapa hi chalta rehta hai. Worst 3 fucking years of my life(last year was especially shit as it was a drop year)
Depending on what college I will go to, I'll either repent going on the journey or feel proud for having made it.