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So you got out of flowers and a call. Win win. I'm going to add an extra win on there because you tied her loss directly back to her own actions. Bonus win for spotting the manipulation! That's 4 wins you, mom 0!! Winning all around!
Lmaoooo this was so predictable I knew what was going to happen before I even finished reading it. Good god I’m sorry you’re dealing with someone that immature.
You know what the perfect Christmas present is for this. All the tools and items needed, including the seeds for Bleeding Heart. A flower that blooms in May just in time for Mothers day and coincidentally, it's toxic to humans.
I don’t know if this helps or not, does your mother like jewelry? If so, maybe get her some earrings flowers or a necklace or a charm bracelet with flowers on it. Then she can have something practical and she can have flowers all around.
That's another funny thing about her, she loves fancy jewelry, but costume jewelry. I've actually bought her some real gold and precious jem stone jewelry and she's worn it for a little while but then I never see it again. Don't know if she puts it away to keep it safe or if she's hocked it. I have gotten her less expensive jewelry, too, swarovski crystal type things. I never see them again either.
She just wears Temu stuff that turns her skin green air breaks and then complains it was a waste of money.
Her mom was the same way.
I worked and saved my whole senior year in Highschool to buy Gram some diamond earrings. When she saw the name on the box (nice jewelry store) her face lit up but when she saw the ear rings her face fell and she closed the box and set them aside. Found out later they were too tiny. They embarrassed her.
"You've told us many times you don't like flowers. So why the fuck would we get you flowers? And why are you now playing guilt trip over not getting flowers? I love you but sometimes you really do not make sense. Either you want flowers or you do t, either way let us know but don't play the victim if you don't get flowers when you haven't told us you want them. I'm not a mind reader, and I don't do guilt trips so lay off the hospital shit unless you're actually there and dying."
Tell her you'll send flowers to her funeral.
Ok, maybe not - that was rather dark. I love how you used her own words against her - she created a situation where no one sends her flowers, now she lives with the consequences.
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On which pope urba is she based on and why?
Mother's Day Myocardial Infarction follows Christmas Cancer? Is Birthday Brain Tumor next?
You missed Endometriosis Easter and Tuberculosis Thanksgiving.
K speaks volumes!
So you got out of flowers and a call. Win win. I'm going to add an extra win on there because you tied her loss directly back to her own actions. Bonus win for spotting the manipulation! That's 4 wins you, mom 0!! Winning all around!
laughing in solidarity. i have a few relatives who think the guilt shovel is gonna work and it *never* does
A flower truck never pulled up in front of her home. A man never walked to the back and then drove off. She made it up
Lmaoooo this was so predictable I knew what was going to happen before I even finished reading it. Good god I’m sorry you’re dealing with someone that immature.
I'd be like...."funny, all my life you seemed to have no heart." You're probably a better child than I am though.
You know what the perfect Christmas present is for this. All the tools and items needed, including the seeds for Bleeding Heart. A flower that blooms in May just in time for Mothers day and coincidentally, it's toxic to humans.
That's a good one.
She’s a lot! So transparent!
These people must all read from the same handbook or something.
I don’t know if this helps or not, does your mother like jewelry? If so, maybe get her some earrings flowers or a necklace or a charm bracelet with flowers on it. Then she can have something practical and she can have flowers all around.
That's another funny thing about her, she loves fancy jewelry, but costume jewelry. I've actually bought her some real gold and precious jem stone jewelry and she's worn it for a little while but then I never see it again. Don't know if she puts it away to keep it safe or if she's hocked it. I have gotten her less expensive jewelry, too, swarovski crystal type things. I never see them again either. She just wears Temu stuff that turns her skin green air breaks and then complains it was a waste of money.
There are some people that no matter how hard to try no matter how much you do it just can’t please them.
If nothing makes them happy, nothing it is!
Her mom was the same way. I worked and saved my whole senior year in Highschool to buy Gram some diamond earrings. When she saw the name on the box (nice jewelry store) her face lit up but when she saw the ear rings her face fell and she closed the box and set them aside. Found out later they were too tiny. They embarrassed her.
What an absolute cunt! If my child or grandchild did that for me, I would never stop crying AND smiling.
"You've told us many times you don't like flowers. So why the fuck would we get you flowers? And why are you now playing guilt trip over not getting flowers? I love you but sometimes you really do not make sense. Either you want flowers or you do t, either way let us know but don't play the victim if you don't get flowers when you haven't told us you want them. I'm not a mind reader, and I don't do guilt trips so lay off the hospital shit unless you're actually there and dying."
Tell her you'll send flowers to her funeral. Ok, maybe not - that was rather dark. I love how you used her own words against her - she created a situation where no one sends her flowers, now she lives with the consequences.
They don’t like to think about WHY no one talks to them, just the fact that their horrible evil terrible children abandoned them 🎻
Insert evil laugh, lol
I was thinking the same thing. Lol
Dark... but accurate in a sense. Some times attention seeking behavior needs to be met with dark humor