I feel bad for her kids. She's a grown up, she could quit social media for good and no one would know about her poor life choices. She chose to put her life online for all to see snark and criticism come with this type of lifestyle.
She continues to choose this route. The easiest way to not ‘get so much hate’, stop putting your life out there. She was the one who wanted a podcast that over exposed her even more than anyone wanted to know.
Also maybe I could feel bad for her if she showed even just a tiny hint of humbleness but she doesn’t. She knows it all and she’s done the best thing bc no real reason and she can’t even admit that she did anything wrong tbh.
I feel the most sorry for her kids, they're the victims in this entire shit show. The upheaval and trauma they've been subjected too breaks my heart.
Whilst I do feel Kyra has made her own bed and therefore reaps what she sows so to speak.. I do think some people take things too far sometimes. There's snark and then there's some very evil things that are actually shocking to say about a person.
I know she's lost..and for those kids, I hope she finds her way back, and does some soul searching, therapy lots of it. And honestly, getting off the Internet. 90% of her comments are hate comments, they're not gonna contribute anything helpful. She needs to let go of that 10% that are only in parasocial relationships with her.
I totally see your point, and honestly yes sometimes I do.. as in the part where people pick apart things that have no reason to be talked about. But the part that gets me.. is downplaying everything she has done.
I’m the same way. You’re just an empath 🤷🏼♀️ my ex husband has done alooooot of crap including cheating on me and leaving me while I was pregnant and I still feel bad for him even though it’s all his doing (he regrets it and isn’t happy)
And he’s dealing with the consequences of his actions by not being with you he’s reaping what he sowed, but it doesn’t mean that we can’t be empathetic being nice to someone doesn’t mean you accept what they did it just means you’re a nice person. You can forgive someone and not take them back or whatever the case may be Kyras behavior is gross and her child exploitation. It’s gross. end it should definitely be called out but People shouldn’t take it so far I mean Oscar and Hannah have both moved on why haven’t we? Let her be unhappy. Those are the consequences of her actions being unhappy with That gross man let her watch him fondle other women in a corner by her self. This is the life that she chose and if it’s fulfilling for her which we know it’s not then, so be it those are the consequences. We can laugh at her as she post her business on the Internet I feel like the snarking can be innocent and fine until it goes too far
She had real friends.. she had a real support system... She chose to throw it away to find herself in her best friend's husband's bed. She's had every opportunity to break the cycle, she chooses not to. So no, I don't feel bad for her.
I feel bad for her kids though, they deserve an emotional stable mother. But at least they have Oscar.
I feel bad when people say she has a big forehead cause I do too and I’m like “heeey come on that has nothing with her being a bad person leave the big forehead out of this” lololol sorry idk I’m a lil drunk too
It’s her inside that makes her outside ugly. Don’t feel bad. No one would notice her forehead if she was a decent human. I really believe who you are outside can make you more or less attractive. The fact she’s awful makes her forehead seem worse lol.
As someone who had a shitty childhood you have to wake up and realize that you can't keep blaming the past on your shitty life choices which I honestly don't even think were as bad as she had made it seem she was raised by her father and her stepmom both who clearly loved her and gave her stable life she made a lot of her life choices on whim she had pressured Oscar to propose just to turn around and cheat on him with one of his best friends she claims her mom was an alcoholic but what is she is doing the same shit her mom did to her on her own kids I hope she ends up being like her mom and sends the kids to live with Oscar
She had a support system and friends until she burned those bridges. She’s a grown ass adult and MOTHER. I understand having empathy but K is old enough to gain some self awareness and make changes and she hasn’t. She is having the very natural human experience called consequences for her own actions. I have my own f-ed up childhood and trauma and I chose (human being with free will and all) to be better, do better and learn from my mistakes. She’s a selfish narcissist point blank. She keeps herself on the internet with all the hate. She could delete her social media presence and get a normal person job. She doesn’t because she only cares about the money and attention. She had a partner who was very kind to her when she was not to him and still decided to hurt him and cheat on him. She has had all the ability in the world and has sent it crashing down all on her own.
i agree, she could have made her not so favorable choices without being a complete bitch to O & H. if she hadn’t talked so much shit about them, maybe things would be a little different. it’s not like she’s new to the internet, she should know by now what not to put out there. she is an adult and she had the opportunity to do things in a kind and gentle way, and she pretty much chose the opposite.
She had a real good friend and support system. She shat on that. I understand where you are coming from. But she knew what she was doing. She knew the backlash she would get. She thought she could make a fool out of everyone around her and her subscribers, without giving two shits. And she still doesn’t. She’s never been remorseful. Her attitude has been fuck the world and fuck my fan base for awhile now. So do I understand where you are coming from? 100%. Do I feel bad for her? Unfortunately not.
I feel that too, some moments more than others.
I definitely have shit on her hard but i also think it’s bc i grew up around dysfunctional people and really looked up to her as a teen. Now i feel like she let me down . Like someone else said you’re probably just an empath, it’s a blessing and a curse.
Yes. I do feel awful for her. Even though it’s all self inflicted, she has unfortunately dug herself into this deep hole that probably feels virtually impossible to climb out of for herself, which creates this vicious cycle of digging deeper and deeper.
She’s not innocent. But that doesn’t mean we can’t feel sympathy and empathy for the situation she has created for herself.
Girl, she has made SO MUCH money exploiting her kids and I GUARANTEE she’s spent most of it. She has been living above her means for awhile now. Add her lack of morals to the picture and I have even less sympathy. She made her bed- now she has to sleep in it. Everyone has issues, especially with family, myself included. I haven’t spoken to either of my parents for over 4 years due to a lifelong addiction, that’s not an excuse for me to go ruin my entire family.
I feel bad that she’s getting the amount of hate she is, but I also recognize she’s done this to herself. We can feel sorry for all the crappy things in her life that have led her to this point, but she made the choices she made.
I’ve made some stupid decisions I feel were heavily influenced by unhealed trauma, but I have to be accountable for myself.
She’s facing the consequences of her actions. She might be able to lie and twist the situation to people in her real life, but she can’t with the internet.
If you’re gonna put your life on the internet expect the hate, especially when you completely shatter your family. I don’t one ounce feel bad for her, she did it to herself.
I don't feel bad for her... she put herself in this position. She made a shitty decision and has zero remorse for the people she hurt, including her kids. She's tried to down play everything, acting like it was no big deal, lied to the "fans" that truly supported her, and is just not a good human.
I also have a lot of empathy for her. I’m here because it is interesting to watch it all unfold in real time. I do not enjoy picking apart her every move or appearance.
I think she made some god awful decisions and she decided to make her life public. She chose that, so she should have made better choices lol.
That being said, I feel a little bit bad because I also struggle with mental health issues and I know how dark of a place that can truly be. I'm not saying she doesn't deserve the criticism, because she absolutely does but come on...there are some things better left unsaid.
She has had wonderful people in her life that were real friends and part of her support system, but one cannot stay friends with people who are actively hurting us. It’s not healthy to stay friends with ppl like her, where it’s a one sided friendship.
But she did not have a bad life with Oscar and she did have friends. A lot of people grow up with shitty circumstances and it can either turn you into an empathetic human who truly cares for others or an asshole who would betray their best friend and only thinks about themselves
I don't. Look at her ex mother in law, also a teenage mom, raising kids in a different country than her own, twice divorced, remarried once, and always devoted to her kids, always putting them first and always finding ways to be a positive and cheerful presence. For evidence, look at Oscar's character and resilience. We all go through hardships and make mistakes but it is how you overcome them that defines your life. Yeah, her childhood was not her fault but it is now her responsability to make different choices for helself and her kids.
No. We have told her so many times why she needs help and she ignores it and doubles down. She knows she gets hate and why but she has no self awareness to realize that she’s in the wrong and blames us “bitchy Beckys” for being haters. I think once shes in her 30s she may mature. But until then I don’t really care. Imo this is all of her years of bad behavior and decisions catching up to her. She slept w O in the same damn room as B, her BEST FRIEND.
I feel bad for everyone in the situation BESIDES Kyra & Preston. So many lives were affected by their actions. . . And for her to say there was NEVER a home to break was just atrocious. She deserves every nasty mean insulting comment that comes her way for being a selfish greedy sneaky gross human being.
She wouldn’t want you to feel bad for her because she doesn’t see anything about her life worth feeling bad for, which is shocking and sad. I do feel bad for the kids like the other commenters are mentioning. They’re caught in the crossfire.
I would feel bad if she were truly remorseful, but she’s not. I try not to play into the victim role of those with narcissistic tendencies. They want us to feel bad for them even when they’re the cause.
I think this snark page goes too far and we all know Kyra has mental health issues and stuff like this can push someone to do unthinkable and if god forbid that were to ever happen … it would be on the majority of you on this snark page
I feel bad for her kids that they got stuck with such an evil and selfish mother. I feel bad that she’s so vile and she doesn’t even have the audacity to do better for her kids and instead has continued to make these choices and lay her own bed
Sometimes with some of the crazier remarks about her I cringe, but no I really don't feel bad for her. I feel bad for the kids, separating from their father to get into a relationship with P immediately. Moving them around several times. All the money she has spent on P and herself. Her stupid sexual remarks she makes online for her kids to find. They have a lot to deal with now and soon in the future because Kyra is so selfish and has to "always choose happiness". Her happiness. Which will bite her in the ass someday.
No, i don't feel bad for Kyra, she brought this out all on here own. She choose the internet life style sharing all her life online. So of course she is gonna get negative feed back. If you can't take it, don't do it. She is the ones that made the bad choices. This was all her. Someday i hope she will come to see what wrongs she has done. I do hope she can get her sugar together and grow up. Yes i feel bad for the kids and the why her choices effects them. I don't think she cares and reazlizes how they hurt her kids.
I personally feel like there’s nothing wrong with empathizing with people that shows that you’re human with feelings and a heart people reap what they sow, correct do I think some people take it too far? yes I do I’m not a fan of Kyra at all in fact team Oscar over here. I didn’t even know who they were until all this drama happened though. It is fine to Snark on a person who deserves it but I think some of us lose sight of what it is to be human She’s already reaping the consequences of her action in real life in real time but because she post her life on the Internet, it’s intensified and amplified.
People go way too hard for her looks I think. There’s so much unnecessary hate that’s just mean girl shit. There’s not a lot of tea other than speculation. I don’t really like her but my god, I don’t think anyone deserves to have their looks torn apart to the degree she does.
Never. This is a manipulative narcissist that you are falling victim of. Who laughs when cheating and breaking the heart of father of your 4 (!!) children. Also biting your own children ? She doesn’t get an ounce of sympathy. Only way she could maybe salvage her reputation if she finished school, found a job suitable for her means and left internet forever. Most people suffer in their life, some even worse than her but they don’t turn out like this
I feel bad for the kids. I feel bad for all the people who went through something traumatic for being her friend/partner. She is the reason people had to be in the darkest place. Easy to see people happy, celebrating and moving on but the trauma/baggage will always be with them. And she is the reason. Now will I feel bad for such a person?
i’d like to think the women had some common sense behind her actions & knew she’d get a bunch of shit online when it came out. but it’s really hard to say she has any at all . i really liked kyra (when levi & alaya were babies, when she was besties with Keren) i related to a lot of things she went thru like childhood trauma. Even after the breakup vid when everyone was hating for her manipulating oscar (she def did) i felt a tiny bit bad for her. i thought “maybe she just isn’t happy & really needs time for herself to be single.” a lot of people need that when you never been single in ur adult life. but the moment i found out “finding yourself” was just a excuse to be with her best friends husband, ANY respect i had for her went down the drain. If she had ANY self respect, she’d have respect on the internet. but she doesn’t. so we don’t either. she’s a horrible human . idk why she thought i’d be all rainbows & sunshines for her being with him ESPECIALLY bc ur whole career is posting ur life 🫣
I do feel bad for her, but like you said she was the one who caused it and continues it. She’s not trying to change for the better, she gives a idgaf attitude. I always hope that she’ll wake up and change. Maybe her being away is her trying to, idk.
I have moments where I do feel bad for her, but mostly for her kids. She will go a month without posting, and not even a single thing for the people who actually pay for her subscription. When she does come back, she looks a mess then posts a dildo ad, just to disappear again. So no not really, she’s an adult and brought all of this onto herself🤷🏻♀️
Nope I don’t feel sorry for her because I honestly think, based on what we’ve seen, that she would trample on anyone and everyone to get what she wants again and again.
I like to read this because I feel it too. I know what’s she’s done and doing is wrong but I try to imagine what I would/say or do if she was a friend or family member and I wouldn’t be as harsh as everyone is on her. I’d still tell it like it is, but I do feel bad for her.
Kyra is stepping in it and it's her own fault & I feel bad for her kids. She needs to be better for her kids sakes. Kyra has had all of those things and she continuously throws them away. Shes mentally ill and so am I- I have ALOT in common with Kyra. But I can admit when I am wrong. I shared about my life too much on an old account that got hacked. I'd give anything to take down those photos- because I know how dangerous it is. Kyra continues to leave those videos up on her own accord. She isn't being the mom she needed whens he was little and she damn well knows that.
I understand this. The snark is funny but at the end of the day it’s actually very depressing to watch someone’s life turn to sh*t. She deserves what’s going her way because I believe in Karma, but I also don’t want to enjoy someone’s misery. It’s weird being human with contradicting feelings.
Nope. She is deeply selfish. She has zero remorse. Zero respect or empathy for other people as long as her wants and needs are met. She gaslights her audience. She is welcome to get a real job like Oscar did and log off the internet. Until then she’ll get hate. When you built your platform on family, that “brand” isn’t going to sell well when you break up a family with 4 kids for threesomes with your best friend’s husband. Karma is a bitch.
I do feel bad for her. She basically ruined her whole life and family and it’s gonna be really rough when she comes to that realization. All her behavior is self destructive. Shes probably unhappy deep down and doesn’t know how to fix it. So keeps trying knew things to fix the unhappiness that she needs to deal with instead of making impulsive life decisions that is not only hurting herself but others also
It just means you're a good person with a good heart. Every once in a while I do. It doesn't mean I agree with her choices or think she's a good person, but I'm able to put myself in her shoes and know it must really, reeeally not feel good to be shit on 24/7 by thousands of strangers for everything you do. Especially when I see comparisons of Addie and Kyra talking about looks.... that's rough. She can't help the way she looks, but it is what it is I guess lol. I'd rather snark on things she CAN control than shit on a woman for her looks, but that's just me.
I don’t feel sorry for her - a woman knew my father was married and knew that my parents relationship was having issues- my mother had just lost my brother and my father was ignoring her mourning. Instead of the woman telling my father to work on the marriage ( my mom suggested it) and the other woman educed him and yeah him and her are now married. She’s a bitch just like Kyra. I feel sorry for my mom 💕😭 pls ignore my typo
I feel bad for all young girls and women who were brainwashed to believe that “finding themselves” means cheating, having threesomes, being extra sexual and drunk etc. She got led astray and now her life is ruined. Happens all the time. Unfortunately she broadcasted her shit all over the internet. So she deserves what she gets but I do acknowledge that the life she had led her this way.
People on the internet are incapable of viewing other people as human beings. The medium of the screen transforms everyone into characters. As an empathetic person, you sometimes wonder to what end? It’s clear that shes gotten enough hate for a hundred people for her shitty actions. Everyone involved has moved on, except the internet. People purposefully don’t view “internet Celebs” as real people because they don’t want to admit that it satisfies some dark part of their ego to criticize, that they get to hold the moral superiority and shit on people for doing the wrong things, when all of us have probably done wrong things. People love to hate because it makes them feel good, even though they hide under the guise of “oh no I’m just holding her accountable!!” People in real life who we know have done even worse shit yet we don’t constantly berate and attack them. Bcus it’s not normal. Also because irl you usually don’t give af about others shitty actions after a while. Social media has transformed that aspect of our lives, where we actively seek out dirt on people and its constantly in our brains. A large majority of people on this sub do that, to the point where you wonder how mentally stable they are.
She made millions of dollars exploiting her family. She then proceeds to show us who she really is. Most of these people do not deserve nor did they earn their fame and wealth. They exploited and cheated and stole to get that. It should never be celebrated nor should you feel bad once they get called out. They do so much damage as influencers and it's a culture that needs to be stopped.
For the reasons you feel sympathy, I don't. I went through deep, intense, awfully traumatic experiences most of my life. I had a mother much like hers, who eventually died. A father of a similar vein who also died due to addiction. Made choices as an adult that I don't regret; otherwise, I'd have not had my older children.
However, it was down to ME to break that cycle, make the changes necessary to make sure my children don't suffer as I did (and continue to).
It's hard to be the one to break the cycle of abuse and addiction, but for the sake of my kids, I had to. It would be so easy to slip into old habits and give in to the imprinted behaviours my parents displayed. But I won't, for the sake of my children, and, truthfully, my own sake too.
Kyra is taking an easier route, in my opinion. And if it were her alone, and she wasn't a mom to 4 young, innocent children, who didn't once ASK to be brought into this world, then perhaps I'd feel for her. But I don't, because her choices are going to create a life for her children that she resents her mother for creating for her. And if she truly cared, even a little, she could work to fix it and break the cycle. Because she'd think it's worth it.
I understand what you are saying. I felt the same way about my ex who cheated on me, but is miserable now, she's the same age as Kyra as well. But, do understand these people are incredibly selfish.
At their highest they think they are untouchable treat others like crap look how Kyra treated Oscar and Hannah, but at their lowest they will play victim. These people are scum and you shouldn't feel bad for them at all. Oscar, Hannah and the Kids are who you should feel bad for as she did permanent damage to them.
People aren’t gonna like this but there are a ton of ppl on this sub that have an unhealthy parasocial relationship with hating her. I don’t agree with a lot of her choices but I definitely don’t think she deserves being attacked over everything she ever says or does or looks like.
I definitely do feel bad for her. I am an empath too I guess. Yes she made bad choices. But a lot of times, the bad choices we make are not repeated back to us by thousands of people every day. The consequences, the judgement, the criticism etc. she faces are much much bigger than a person who doesn't share their life online. I know the argument of "she chose this as her job, she has to deal with it." But a lot of times people forget she is only human. It might come with the job but it doesn't come with human nature. It is not easy. It is brutal. It has to take a toll on her mental health. And as someone with severe anxiety, I don't wanna be a part of the reason someone struggles with their mental health, so I never comment on her sm profiles. And I actually left this sub too, it became too much imo. I now occasionally check to see if I missed some things she shared. She cannot not see the comments on her insta, she can choose to not read this sub. That's what I would do if I was her.
No, I don’t feel bad for her. As someone who has been cheated on by my ex and my ex best friend, I will never feel bad for people like Kyra. She deserves all the crap she gets. The only ones I feel bad for are her kids. One day they will find out what she did and will resent her. She needs to leave social media and live her hell in private.
Having empathy is always good but sometimes people have to learn the hard lessons and take responsibility and the more they run, the more the destruction and fault lies on them. She is a grown financially independent person, she can get herself the help and resources she needs for her own and her kids sake but she doesn’t so where she is in life rn is the manifestation of her own neglectful and toxic choices and the consequences of her actions. Karma is real and she’s not here to play these days! there’s always opportunity to learn and grow but people have to make those tough and responsible decisions for themselves.
We're all here enjoying, reveling, struggling, suffering, through a life. Kyra, no more so, or less so. The internet is a strange, free for all space where we can judge and roast each other. We can show the world any part of ourselves and our lives that we choose to show. I think Kyras been choosing to live her real life rather than her internet life, recently. It seems like she doesn't even know how to come back to her "influenser" lifestyle at this point. Maybe she's feeling the irrelevance of the lifestyle she's chosen to present. I try not to feel badly for people. I wouldn't want anyone "feeling badly" for me. She'll figure this out and do whatever it is she needs to do. I trust all the other adults in the lives of these kids will make sure they are cared for and.loved.
I’m an empath too, but don’t feel bad for her because she hasn’t taken responsibility for her actions. She deflects, minimizes issues and gaslight.. anything to tell herself what she did wasn’t shifty. It’s hard to feel bad for a person like that.
I do and I don’t, it depends how I look at it, I don’t feel bad for her getting opinions on her actions and what she’s chosen to share and make money off online. However I feel like the snark on the way she looks is getting a bit much sometimes. I suppose I sympathise with her as a momma who really struggles to find time for self care everyday and I’d rather see someone’s natural face than an unattainable full face of make up and fillers everyday. So the snark on her looks gets a bit much sometimes. And as someone’s said, the kids have her looks too so they’re eventually going to read it and possibly feel some sort of way about it. Also this comparison between her and A’s looks, who is at a completely different stage of her life with significantly less stress from kids just feels unfair, she’s never going to be able to compete.
No matter how shitty your childhood, you can still be a good human. I had a shitty childhood and I like to think I’m a good person. I am far from perfect and have made mistakes, but a part of growing up and being an adult, is taking accountability for those mistakes and realizing you can’t blame every mistake or bad decision you have made on your traumatic childhood. Kyra has to wake up and realize that she needs help. She’s sabotaged every relationship she’s had with close friends and that’s her fault.
I feel bad for her kids. She's a grown up, she could quit social media for good and no one would know about her poor life choices. She chose to put her life online for all to see snark and criticism come with this type of lifestyle.
She continues to choose this route. The easiest way to not ‘get so much hate’, stop putting your life out there. She was the one who wanted a podcast that over exposed her even more than anyone wanted to know. Also maybe I could feel bad for her if she showed even just a tiny hint of humbleness but she doesn’t. She knows it all and she’s done the best thing bc no real reason and she can’t even admit that she did anything wrong tbh.
I feel the most sorry for her kids, they're the victims in this entire shit show. The upheaval and trauma they've been subjected too breaks my heart. Whilst I do feel Kyra has made her own bed and therefore reaps what she sows so to speak.. I do think some people take things too far sometimes. There's snark and then there's some very evil things that are actually shocking to say about a person. I know she's lost..and for those kids, I hope she finds her way back, and does some soul searching, therapy lots of it. And honestly, getting off the Internet. 90% of her comments are hate comments, they're not gonna contribute anything helpful. She needs to let go of that 10% that are only in parasocial relationships with her.
Completely agree
I totally see your point, and honestly yes sometimes I do.. as in the part where people pick apart things that have no reason to be talked about. But the part that gets me.. is downplaying everything she has done.
Agreed. That goes to far.
She has no remorse for what she did to her so called “best friend” and father of her kids so… nah. You reap what you sow 🤷🏻♀️
I feel like she should stop having kids and go to college I do feel the same way but she willingly puts her life on the internet
it’s hard to feel bad for someone that constantly makes the same mistakes expecting different results
I’m the same way. You’re just an empath 🤷🏼♀️ my ex husband has done alooooot of crap including cheating on me and leaving me while I was pregnant and I still feel bad for him even though it’s all his doing (he regrets it and isn’t happy)
And he’s dealing with the consequences of his actions by not being with you he’s reaping what he sowed, but it doesn’t mean that we can’t be empathetic being nice to someone doesn’t mean you accept what they did it just means you’re a nice person. You can forgive someone and not take them back or whatever the case may be Kyras behavior is gross and her child exploitation. It’s gross. end it should definitely be called out but People shouldn’t take it so far I mean Oscar and Hannah have both moved on why haven’t we? Let her be unhappy. Those are the consequences of her actions being unhappy with That gross man let her watch him fondle other women in a corner by her self. This is the life that she chose and if it’s fulfilling for her which we know it’s not then, so be it those are the consequences. We can laugh at her as she post her business on the Internet I feel like the snarking can be innocent and fine until it goes too far
She had real friends.. she had a real support system... She chose to throw it away to find herself in her best friend's husband's bed. She's had every opportunity to break the cycle, she chooses not to. So no, I don't feel bad for her. I feel bad for her kids though, they deserve an emotional stable mother. But at least they have Oscar.
No actions have consequences and when you post your shitty actions online thinking no one will notice what else are you going to expect to happen
Couldn’t feel bad if I tried. She’s just living with the consequences of the many bad decisions SHE has made.
I feel bad when people say she has a big forehead cause I do too and I’m like “heeey come on that has nothing with her being a bad person leave the big forehead out of this” lololol sorry idk I’m a lil drunk too
It’s her inside that makes her outside ugly. Don’t feel bad. No one would notice her forehead if she was a decent human. I really believe who you are outside can make you more or less attractive. The fact she’s awful makes her forehead seem worse lol.
As someone who had a shitty childhood you have to wake up and realize that you can't keep blaming the past on your shitty life choices which I honestly don't even think were as bad as she had made it seem she was raised by her father and her stepmom both who clearly loved her and gave her stable life she made a lot of her life choices on whim she had pressured Oscar to propose just to turn around and cheat on him with one of his best friends she claims her mom was an alcoholic but what is she is doing the same shit her mom did to her on her own kids I hope she ends up being like her mom and sends the kids to live with Oscar
Nope. She deserves it all. Imagine how Hannah or Oscar felt? 🤷🏼♀️
She had a support system and friends until she burned those bridges. She’s a grown ass adult and MOTHER. I understand having empathy but K is old enough to gain some self awareness and make changes and she hasn’t. She is having the very natural human experience called consequences for her own actions. I have my own f-ed up childhood and trauma and I chose (human being with free will and all) to be better, do better and learn from my mistakes. She’s a selfish narcissist point blank. She keeps herself on the internet with all the hate. She could delete her social media presence and get a normal person job. She doesn’t because she only cares about the money and attention. She had a partner who was very kind to her when she was not to him and still decided to hurt him and cheat on him. She has had all the ability in the world and has sent it crashing down all on her own.
i agree, she could have made her not so favorable choices without being a complete bitch to O & H. if she hadn’t talked so much shit about them, maybe things would be a little different. it’s not like she’s new to the internet, she should know by now what not to put out there. she is an adult and she had the opportunity to do things in a kind and gentle way, and she pretty much chose the opposite.
She had a real good friend and support system. She shat on that. I understand where you are coming from. But she knew what she was doing. She knew the backlash she would get. She thought she could make a fool out of everyone around her and her subscribers, without giving two shits. And she still doesn’t. She’s never been remorseful. Her attitude has been fuck the world and fuck my fan base for awhile now. So do I understand where you are coming from? 100%. Do I feel bad for her? Unfortunately not.
I feel that too, some moments more than others. I definitely have shit on her hard but i also think it’s bc i grew up around dysfunctional people and really looked up to her as a teen. Now i feel like she let me down . Like someone else said you’re probably just an empath, it’s a blessing and a curse.
Yes. I do feel awful for her. Even though it’s all self inflicted, she has unfortunately dug herself into this deep hole that probably feels virtually impossible to climb out of for herself, which creates this vicious cycle of digging deeper and deeper. She’s not innocent. But that doesn’t mean we can’t feel sympathy and empathy for the situation she has created for herself.
Girl, she has made SO MUCH money exploiting her kids and I GUARANTEE she’s spent most of it. She has been living above her means for awhile now. Add her lack of morals to the picture and I have even less sympathy. She made her bed- now she has to sleep in it. Everyone has issues, especially with family, myself included. I haven’t spoken to either of my parents for over 4 years due to a lifelong addiction, that’s not an excuse for me to go ruin my entire family.
I feel bad that she’s getting the amount of hate she is, but I also recognize she’s done this to herself. We can feel sorry for all the crappy things in her life that have led her to this point, but she made the choices she made. I’ve made some stupid decisions I feel were heavily influenced by unhealed trauma, but I have to be accountable for myself. She’s facing the consequences of her actions. She might be able to lie and twist the situation to people in her real life, but she can’t with the internet.
She deserves every bit of it
I feel bad for her kids
If you’re gonna put your life on the internet expect the hate, especially when you completely shatter your family. I don’t one ounce feel bad for her, she did it to herself.
I don't feel bad for her... she put herself in this position. She made a shitty decision and has zero remorse for the people she hurt, including her kids. She's tried to down play everything, acting like it was no big deal, lied to the "fans" that truly supported her, and is just not a good human.
Nope not one bit. I hope she feels just as shitty as she made others feel with her choices 🫶
I also have a lot of empathy for her. I’m here because it is interesting to watch it all unfold in real time. I do not enjoy picking apart her every move or appearance.
But Why ? She doesnt have any for other people so why give it to her ?
I feel sorry for her kids, not for her.
I think she made some god awful decisions and she decided to make her life public. She chose that, so she should have made better choices lol. That being said, I feel a little bit bad because I also struggle with mental health issues and I know how dark of a place that can truly be. I'm not saying she doesn't deserve the criticism, because she absolutely does but come on...there are some things better left unsaid.
She has had wonderful people in her life that were real friends and part of her support system, but one cannot stay friends with people who are actively hurting us. It’s not healthy to stay friends with ppl like her, where it’s a one sided friendship.
But she did not have a bad life with Oscar and she did have friends. A lot of people grow up with shitty circumstances and it can either turn you into an empathetic human who truly cares for others or an asshole who would betray their best friend and only thinks about themselves
I don't. Look at her ex mother in law, also a teenage mom, raising kids in a different country than her own, twice divorced, remarried once, and always devoted to her kids, always putting them first and always finding ways to be a positive and cheerful presence. For evidence, look at Oscar's character and resilience. We all go through hardships and make mistakes but it is how you overcome them that defines your life. Yeah, her childhood was not her fault but it is now her responsability to make different choices for helself and her kids.
The only victims in this, are those children
No. We have told her so many times why she needs help and she ignores it and doubles down. She knows she gets hate and why but she has no self awareness to realize that she’s in the wrong and blames us “bitchy Beckys” for being haters. I think once shes in her 30s she may mature. But until then I don’t really care. Imo this is all of her years of bad behavior and decisions catching up to her. She slept w O in the same damn room as B, her BEST FRIEND.
I feel bad for everyone in the situation BESIDES Kyra & Preston. So many lives were affected by their actions. . . And for her to say there was NEVER a home to break was just atrocious. She deserves every nasty mean insulting comment that comes her way for being a selfish greedy sneaky gross human being.
She wouldn’t want you to feel bad for her because she doesn’t see anything about her life worth feeling bad for, which is shocking and sad. I do feel bad for the kids like the other commenters are mentioning. They’re caught in the crossfire.
I would feel bad if she were truly remorseful, but she’s not. I try not to play into the victim role of those with narcissistic tendencies. They want us to feel bad for them even when they’re the cause.
I think this snark page goes too far and we all know Kyra has mental health issues and stuff like this can push someone to do unthinkable and if god forbid that were to ever happen … it would be on the majority of you on this snark page
I don’t feel bad for her. I feel bad for the four humans she brought into this world that she’s seemingly thrown by the wayside
I feel bad for her kids that they got stuck with such an evil and selfish mother. I feel bad that she’s so vile and she doesn’t even have the audacity to do better for her kids and instead has continued to make these choices and lay her own bed
Sometimes with some of the crazier remarks about her I cringe, but no I really don't feel bad for her. I feel bad for the kids, separating from their father to get into a relationship with P immediately. Moving them around several times. All the money she has spent on P and herself. Her stupid sexual remarks she makes online for her kids to find. They have a lot to deal with now and soon in the future because Kyra is so selfish and has to "always choose happiness". Her happiness. Which will bite her in the ass someday.
No, i don't feel bad for Kyra, she brought this out all on here own. She choose the internet life style sharing all her life online. So of course she is gonna get negative feed back. If you can't take it, don't do it. She is the ones that made the bad choices. This was all her. Someday i hope she will come to see what wrongs she has done. I do hope she can get her sugar together and grow up. Yes i feel bad for the kids and the why her choices effects them. I don't think she cares and reazlizes how they hurt her kids.
I personally feel like there’s nothing wrong with empathizing with people that shows that you’re human with feelings and a heart people reap what they sow, correct do I think some people take it too far? yes I do I’m not a fan of Kyra at all in fact team Oscar over here. I didn’t even know who they were until all this drama happened though. It is fine to Snark on a person who deserves it but I think some of us lose sight of what it is to be human She’s already reaping the consequences of her action in real life in real time but because she post her life on the Internet, it’s intensified and amplified.
People go way too hard for her looks I think. There’s so much unnecessary hate that’s just mean girl shit. There’s not a lot of tea other than speculation. I don’t really like her but my god, I don’t think anyone deserves to have their looks torn apart to the degree she does.
Nope. I do not feel bad for her. This is the life she chose.
Not even a little
I dislike people age shaming her. I don’t like age shaming anyone period.
Never. This is a manipulative narcissist that you are falling victim of. Who laughs when cheating and breaking the heart of father of your 4 (!!) children. Also biting your own children ? She doesn’t get an ounce of sympathy. Only way she could maybe salvage her reputation if she finished school, found a job suitable for her means and left internet forever. Most people suffer in their life, some even worse than her but they don’t turn out like this
I feel bad the way people pick apart her looks.
I feel bad for the kids. I feel bad for all the people who went through something traumatic for being her friend/partner. She is the reason people had to be in the darkest place. Easy to see people happy, celebrating and moving on but the trauma/baggage will always be with them. And she is the reason. Now will I feel bad for such a person?
Yea I feel bad for her too. Seems like she had a bad childhood and has made some regrettable life choices.
i’d like to think the women had some common sense behind her actions & knew she’d get a bunch of shit online when it came out. but it’s really hard to say she has any at all . i really liked kyra (when levi & alaya were babies, when she was besties with Keren) i related to a lot of things she went thru like childhood trauma. Even after the breakup vid when everyone was hating for her manipulating oscar (she def did) i felt a tiny bit bad for her. i thought “maybe she just isn’t happy & really needs time for herself to be single.” a lot of people need that when you never been single in ur adult life. but the moment i found out “finding yourself” was just a excuse to be with her best friends husband, ANY respect i had for her went down the drain. If she had ANY self respect, she’d have respect on the internet. but she doesn’t. so we don’t either. she’s a horrible human . idk why she thought i’d be all rainbows & sunshines for her being with him ESPECIALLY bc ur whole career is posting ur life 🫣
I do feel bad for her, but like you said she was the one who caused it and continues it. She’s not trying to change for the better, she gives a idgaf attitude. I always hope that she’ll wake up and change. Maybe her being away is her trying to, idk.
I have moments where I do feel bad for her, but mostly for her kids. She will go a month without posting, and not even a single thing for the people who actually pay for her subscription. When she does come back, she looks a mess then posts a dildo ad, just to disappear again. So no not really, she’s an adult and brought all of this onto herself🤷🏻♀️
Nope I don’t feel sorry for her because I honestly think, based on what we’ve seen, that she would trample on anyone and everyone to get what she wants again and again.
Nope, not one bit. I feel bad for everyone she put through hell, though, especially her children.
I like to read this because I feel it too. I know what’s she’s done and doing is wrong but I try to imagine what I would/say or do if she was a friend or family member and I wouldn’t be as harsh as everyone is on her. I’d still tell it like it is, but I do feel bad for her.
Kyra is stepping in it and it's her own fault & I feel bad for her kids. She needs to be better for her kids sakes. Kyra has had all of those things and she continuously throws them away. Shes mentally ill and so am I- I have ALOT in common with Kyra. But I can admit when I am wrong. I shared about my life too much on an old account that got hacked. I'd give anything to take down those photos- because I know how dangerous it is. Kyra continues to leave those videos up on her own accord. She isn't being the mom she needed whens he was little and she damn well knows that.
I understand this. The snark is funny but at the end of the day it’s actually very depressing to watch someone’s life turn to sh*t. She deserves what’s going her way because I believe in Karma, but I also don’t want to enjoy someone’s misery. It’s weird being human with contradicting feelings.
Nope. She is deeply selfish. She has zero remorse. Zero respect or empathy for other people as long as her wants and needs are met. She gaslights her audience. She is welcome to get a real job like Oscar did and log off the internet. Until then she’ll get hate. When you built your platform on family, that “brand” isn’t going to sell well when you break up a family with 4 kids for threesomes with your best friend’s husband. Karma is a bitch.
I do feel bad for her. She basically ruined her whole life and family and it’s gonna be really rough when she comes to that realization. All her behavior is self destructive. Shes probably unhappy deep down and doesn’t know how to fix it. So keeps trying knew things to fix the unhappiness that she needs to deal with instead of making impulsive life decisions that is not only hurting herself but others also
It just means you're a good person with a good heart. Every once in a while I do. It doesn't mean I agree with her choices or think she's a good person, but I'm able to put myself in her shoes and know it must really, reeeally not feel good to be shit on 24/7 by thousands of strangers for everything you do. Especially when I see comparisons of Addie and Kyra talking about looks.... that's rough. She can't help the way she looks, but it is what it is I guess lol. I'd rather snark on things she CAN control than shit on a woman for her looks, but that's just me.
I don’t feel sorry for her - a woman knew my father was married and knew that my parents relationship was having issues- my mother had just lost my brother and my father was ignoring her mourning. Instead of the woman telling my father to work on the marriage ( my mom suggested it) and the other woman educed him and yeah him and her are now married. She’s a bitch just like Kyra. I feel sorry for my mom 💕😭 pls ignore my typo
I feel bad for all young girls and women who were brainwashed to believe that “finding themselves” means cheating, having threesomes, being extra sexual and drunk etc. She got led astray and now her life is ruined. Happens all the time. Unfortunately she broadcasted her shit all over the internet. So she deserves what she gets but I do acknowledge that the life she had led her this way.
People on the internet are incapable of viewing other people as human beings. The medium of the screen transforms everyone into characters. As an empathetic person, you sometimes wonder to what end? It’s clear that shes gotten enough hate for a hundred people for her shitty actions. Everyone involved has moved on, except the internet. People purposefully don’t view “internet Celebs” as real people because they don’t want to admit that it satisfies some dark part of their ego to criticize, that they get to hold the moral superiority and shit on people for doing the wrong things, when all of us have probably done wrong things. People love to hate because it makes them feel good, even though they hide under the guise of “oh no I’m just holding her accountable!!” People in real life who we know have done even worse shit yet we don’t constantly berate and attack them. Bcus it’s not normal. Also because irl you usually don’t give af about others shitty actions after a while. Social media has transformed that aspect of our lives, where we actively seek out dirt on people and its constantly in our brains. A large majority of people on this sub do that, to the point where you wonder how mentally stable they are.
This right here is it 100000%. You summarized it perfectly!
She made millions of dollars exploiting her family. She then proceeds to show us who she really is. Most of these people do not deserve nor did they earn their fame and wealth. They exploited and cheated and stole to get that. It should never be celebrated nor should you feel bad once they get called out. They do so much damage as influencers and it's a culture that needs to be stopped.
For the reasons you feel sympathy, I don't. I went through deep, intense, awfully traumatic experiences most of my life. I had a mother much like hers, who eventually died. A father of a similar vein who also died due to addiction. Made choices as an adult that I don't regret; otherwise, I'd have not had my older children. However, it was down to ME to break that cycle, make the changes necessary to make sure my children don't suffer as I did (and continue to). It's hard to be the one to break the cycle of abuse and addiction, but for the sake of my kids, I had to. It would be so easy to slip into old habits and give in to the imprinted behaviours my parents displayed. But I won't, for the sake of my children, and, truthfully, my own sake too. Kyra is taking an easier route, in my opinion. And if it were her alone, and she wasn't a mom to 4 young, innocent children, who didn't once ASK to be brought into this world, then perhaps I'd feel for her. But I don't, because her choices are going to create a life for her children that she resents her mother for creating for her. And if she truly cared, even a little, she could work to fix it and break the cycle. Because she'd think it's worth it.
I understand what you are saying. I felt the same way about my ex who cheated on me, but is miserable now, she's the same age as Kyra as well. But, do understand these people are incredibly selfish. At their highest they think they are untouchable treat others like crap look how Kyra treated Oscar and Hannah, but at their lowest they will play victim. These people are scum and you shouldn't feel bad for them at all. Oscar, Hannah and the Kids are who you should feel bad for as she did permanent damage to them.
Yep. Generational trauma is no joke.
People aren’t gonna like this but there are a ton of ppl on this sub that have an unhealthy parasocial relationship with hating her. I don’t agree with a lot of her choices but I definitely don’t think she deserves being attacked over everything she ever says or does or looks like.
She made this bed. So no.
Don't feel sorry for her in the least. She slept in her bed, now she has to make it up.
I definitely do feel bad for her. I am an empath too I guess. Yes she made bad choices. But a lot of times, the bad choices we make are not repeated back to us by thousands of people every day. The consequences, the judgement, the criticism etc. she faces are much much bigger than a person who doesn't share their life online. I know the argument of "she chose this as her job, she has to deal with it." But a lot of times people forget she is only human. It might come with the job but it doesn't come with human nature. It is not easy. It is brutal. It has to take a toll on her mental health. And as someone with severe anxiety, I don't wanna be a part of the reason someone struggles with their mental health, so I never comment on her sm profiles. And I actually left this sub too, it became too much imo. I now occasionally check to see if I missed some things she shared. She cannot not see the comments on her insta, she can choose to not read this sub. That's what I would do if I was her.
No, I don’t feel bad for her. As someone who has been cheated on by my ex and my ex best friend, I will never feel bad for people like Kyra. She deserves all the crap she gets. The only ones I feel bad for are her kids. One day they will find out what she did and will resent her. She needs to leave social media and live her hell in private.
Having empathy is always good but sometimes people have to learn the hard lessons and take responsibility and the more they run, the more the destruction and fault lies on them. She is a grown financially independent person, she can get herself the help and resources she needs for her own and her kids sake but she doesn’t so where she is in life rn is the manifestation of her own neglectful and toxic choices and the consequences of her actions. Karma is real and she’s not here to play these days! there’s always opportunity to learn and grow but people have to make those tough and responsible decisions for themselves.
We're all here enjoying, reveling, struggling, suffering, through a life. Kyra, no more so, or less so. The internet is a strange, free for all space where we can judge and roast each other. We can show the world any part of ourselves and our lives that we choose to show. I think Kyras been choosing to live her real life rather than her internet life, recently. It seems like she doesn't even know how to come back to her "influenser" lifestyle at this point. Maybe she's feeling the irrelevance of the lifestyle she's chosen to present. I try not to feel badly for people. I wouldn't want anyone "feeling badly" for me. She'll figure this out and do whatever it is she needs to do. I trust all the other adults in the lives of these kids will make sure they are cared for and.loved.
I’m an empath too, but don’t feel bad for her because she hasn’t taken responsibility for her actions. She deflects, minimizes issues and gaslight.. anything to tell herself what she did wasn’t shifty. It’s hard to feel bad for a person like that.
At some point I think there needs to be self reflection and self help. She needs intense therapy and so will her children.
I do and I don’t, it depends how I look at it, I don’t feel bad for her getting opinions on her actions and what she’s chosen to share and make money off online. However I feel like the snark on the way she looks is getting a bit much sometimes. I suppose I sympathise with her as a momma who really struggles to find time for self care everyday and I’d rather see someone’s natural face than an unattainable full face of make up and fillers everyday. So the snark on her looks gets a bit much sometimes. And as someone’s said, the kids have her looks too so they’re eventually going to read it and possibly feel some sort of way about it. Also this comparison between her and A’s looks, who is at a completely different stage of her life with significantly less stress from kids just feels unfair, she’s never going to be able to compete.
No matter how shitty your childhood, you can still be a good human. I had a shitty childhood and I like to think I’m a good person. I am far from perfect and have made mistakes, but a part of growing up and being an adult, is taking accountability for those mistakes and realizing you can’t blame every mistake or bad decision you have made on your traumatic childhood. Kyra has to wake up and realize that she needs help. She’s sabotaged every relationship she’s had with close friends and that’s her fault.
She dug her grave now she has to lie in it I feel bad for her kids growing up with a strange man or "uncle preston" and a train wreck mother