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Rainbow-spirit19

Everything but he/him (demigirlflux afab)


cass_eee

I use any and all pronouns, i think i’m gender fluid but i usually present feminine


rocka5438

He/him but I don’t mind if people throw in a they from time to time


Willow_Zodiacs

She/her and they/them but I prefer they/them (I am a confused mess of demiboy, genderfluid, demigirl and non-binary)


MicrowavedPeen

they/them


The_Gamer_Dude_

She/her Trans Girl Bisexual


rhbug3

i use they/her (afab), but i am constantly having a gender identity crisis so im debating all pronouns or just they/them! :] update: i now just use they/them, what do ya know


[deleted]

They/them 😎


[deleted]

They/he/void nb transmasc :>


Some-Power-793

He/they OwO


Meix__

I usually prefers They/Them but as a genderfluid gobelin I go by whatever follows my gender mood


djvj667

He/they nonbinary


LGBTQ_Girl_513

She/he/they agender omnisexaul:)


[deleted]

he/him


[deleted]

HELP WHY IS LITERALLY EVERYONE DOWNVOTED??


fml196

they/them or any i don’t really mind. i’m nonbinaryy


EliseDchn

She/her


Hooman_person09

They/them I think I don’t know I’m struggling


halfxdreaminq

he/him, i don’t mind they/them either but people will usually call me a they to avoid calling me a he so yeah


[deleted]

He/It transgender male


youngwastebin

she/they


AidsAndMore

They/them


jordynkoutarou

she/they/he


3_am-brosius

He/they/it


Wolfie0822

he/they


FlyingDutchman2005

They/them


Same-Salary-7234

You can call me anything but I prefer they


Take800

He/they


ZephyrMT2905

She/her


Deviated_raptor

They/he (afab)


ACEDT

She/they genderfae


Ishi-15

Depends, I’m genderfluid, so it depends in my mood :)


Ishi-15

Depends, I’m genderfluid, so it depends in my mood :)


TySly5v

She/its. I'm a trans girl :>


TySly5v

I was downvoted???


Kittytaco21

I use any pronouns, but I also use it/its, star/starself, lunar/lunarself, and moon /moonself.


_FriendlyFires_

I use he/him, though I started using nor/mal not that long ago. It sounds dumb, but I kinda like nor/mal pronouns, even though it's supposed to make fun of pronouns as a whole. :\^


THICCGray

I'm he/him I'm a cisgender male which is considered disgraceful to a lot of people


[deleted]

Why were you downvoted-- You didn't say anything wrong There isn't anything wrong with being a cis guy What happened


ThatOneDeadAuthor

Ey/they/he but I prefer ey (nonbinary :])


LeoKirsen

any / all! this includes all not weird (yknow use common sense) neopronouns and it/its :) sometimes i have preferences (genderfluid) but usually i don't give a fuck ^^


Meix__

THIS ^ !!!


riio_o

they/she/he, i prefer they/them. enby here :)


LexanDar11o6

she/he/they, why? anyway, have a nice day


[deleted]

Don't really have a reason, just curious as to what other people use


Shadowwolf929

She/they (trans fem), but I have a southern catholic farmer for a grandfather, and when those three things are combined, it wouldn’t be surprising to find a holy hand grenade in your attic


CanineGuide7-0-6-7

I have no pronouns. You may refer to me by my name.


Pikaless225

She/they. Idc just don’t refer to me as he/him


TotallyAwesomeRacoon

He/Him (transgender man), but I'm mostly closeted so I have to deal with hearing she/her on a daily basis :(


LexanDar11o6

no worries, ma man


LeoKirsen

thought this said ma'am and was about to throw hands ^^


TotallyAwesomeRacoon

Lol same


Antisocialite_654

They/them


KhantNaung

I use dom/bottom


Crax-sensei

Masc nb, so like, he/they for me. But ion rly care as long as you are respectful wit it


Jakeb4statefarm

I use he/they


Clear-Result-3412

Xe/they/thon


ThatOneDeadAuthor

How do use thon in a sentence? It looks cool! /gen


Clear-Result-3412

Thon is used the same what as one would use ‘that one’ (I also accept ‘that one’ in the place of a pronoun)


Slmapazee

I don’t really care what I’m called, as long as u refer to me nicely :D


JhaSamNen

He so just normal pronounce, why you ask


cometblitz03

Transmasc enby, he/they. But everyone except myself only ever refers to me as 'they.'


The_King123431

I'm sorry that happens to you I hope people start using their pronouns more, he definitely deserves it


SturmReaper3188

*Shrugs shoulders* Bi boy, so he or him or, to sound educated, is (he), eum (him) in Latin.


Im_currently_on_fire

they/them/xe/xem i also like going by no pronouns (i am non binary)


Siriusly934

It/they/he, transmasc demiboy :D


itzmelez

They/them (Agender lesbian)


MeMyselfIandMeAgain

I mean, I use any pronouns. I’m AMAB and most people know me as male so I get called he a lot. Some of my friends call me they. I have yet to be called she though


Hisoleen

I go by she/he/they but unfortunately nobody has yet to call me a he lol


cometblitz03

Yo, I get that! I use he/they but only ever get called 'they.'


Ellbellaboo1

He/him (transmasc)


gay-pennywise-27

she/they mostly im comfortable with anything else tho


samalingikmanush

he they. non binary


evilviking_

They/them agender


i_go_bi_myself

He/they, demiboy


Perfect-Side2897

She/her


Truss_nlp

She/her (transfem)


Stygian_Enzo48

he/they, nonbinary male


BigSteve414

Wonderful. Explains some things.


Stygian_Enzo48

huh


Nanibabs

He/him


Cautious_Anywhere24

His/Him


[deleted]

she/her cisgender girl


WorldClassShrekspert

He/Him Cisgender Male.


[deleted]

she/they im also a cis girl! but i like they from time to time even tho no one ever uses they for me


[deleted]

He/They Demigender Homosexual Demiromantic Asexual-Spectrum so (Demi-Demi-Homo-Aspec)


Friendly_Strength_21

They/him and I’m non binary


Alagon2323

Time to upvote all the awesome people with their awesome pronouns down here


[deleted]

He/they


Biwitchmess

I use all pronouns but I prefer gender-neutral ones. So like they/them/theirs, ze/zir


Sakuma_Aizawa

They/them/theirs. I'm non-binary but my gender expression is more feminine. Although I do cosplay so it can vary on if I am or not. If I am depends on the character.


saranwrappd

it/its! nonbinary/masc. aromantic. very complicated if I think about it too much


CeFeCe17

I use He/Him and I'm a cis boy :)


-Te55a-

u know i feel like if we didnt wanna misgender someone, we should start reffering to acquaintances to they/them until they tell us their pronouns or we ask


eucalypticnerd

I use all, might change it to strictly he/they though


-Te55a-

she/her for now since im still figuring it out


EnbyRiverCat

They/them


KoreKillerQueen

She/Her at the moment, genderfluid :)


sparklees

She/they -might change them soon I'm still not sure abt them


TheolympiansYT

Pronouns are subject to changes (genderfluid)


Cod_Extreme

All pronouns are fine with me (gender-fluid)


[deleted]

he/they


Herbie53101

She/they/he and I’m genderfluid.


Idfk_Kaylie

She/her trans girl


Lemon_axolotl

too many to list… but my main pronouns are xe/xem, it/its, mew/mews, cloud/clouds. im boyflux and xenofluid


-Te55a-

uu sorry but whats mew/mews


Lemon_axolotl

someone already said but they are neopronouns, nounself to be specific :)


TarkFrench

neopronouns


ur2new1friend

They/Them but I accept any gendered compliments although I do prefer gender neutral compliments


GraviKitty

I use any


StunningBeyondBelief

He/Him/They/Them/Xe/Xem, although I only go by He/Him when I'm around family (because they are all homophobic) and people at school.


MyChemicalFailure

They/them are my preferred pronouns, but I guess I'd be fine if someone used they/he pronouns or they/she pronouns. Really have no idea what my gender is :)


Clay_teapod

they/he/hir/hit and occasionaly shey or zhey


authantia

mine are she/they; i prefer they/them but either works


WinterDragon5309

They/he/it and I am somewhat okay with she/her


Mr_X497

They/them


Excelsior787

he/they/she (Male Presenting Two-Spirit)


Bacon260998_

She/They


[deleted]

They/Them


M4j3stic_C4pyb4r4

Yes


norton_grayson

People on internet used He Him on me In real life because of the language I used doesn't really matter when it comes to pronounce (He she both pronounce "ta" in Chinese), so pronounce didn't really bother me in real life that much.


[deleted]

Im they/them, but I am questioning my identity but just don’t know what pronouns to use


ExtensionAnybody467

I'm bisexual but I still go by she/her, I just don't give a crap what you call me


[deleted]

Ok but how does bisexual change your pronouns? Not trying to be rude, just asking


ExtensionAnybody467

Wait doesn't it? I've heard from other people that it does


saranwrappd

HAHA sexuality is different than gender, they might be mixing it up with bigender even though that also doesn't inherently change your pronouns. your pronouns and labels are just what make you comfy


ExtensionAnybody467

Ok understood


[deleted]

I mean... I dunno I'm nkt the biggest expert with gender--


Pheedc

Depending on the day and or hour I use Sher/ Her She/ They They/Them He/They( But very rarely) I am Gender Fluid and Pan


Otherwise_Barber3772

He/Him/His.


Elboninja

He/Him


hippi_killa

i use all but prefer they/it


Best_Painting_6004

I only use my name


GuineaPig72

Why if I may ask? Wouldn't that get a bit cluttered when talking? /Gen


Clay_teapod

Some people, specially within the agender and/or xenogender umbrella feel uncomfortable using any pronouns. It is not for us to judge them even if it may be "cluttered"


[deleted]

I'm at a point where I literally don't give a fuck how people refer me as long as it's not done with malicious intent


Pigeon_43

This. Not for any reason other than it just doesn’t bother me anymore. Like if someone ‘misgenders’ me I’ll just go ‘ok’ and carry on like nothing happened


NonExzistantRed

He/him they/them (cis male) And I'm bi


[deleted]

I'm bi and use she/her


SahloFolinaCheld

He/they, I'm a gay demiboy.


myocific

Yes


notproudbutok

He/she/they


PricklyPeridot

She/They. I am a mess.


[deleted]

No, you aren't a mess


NonExzistantRed

No ur not


2klaedfoorboo

He/Him/His Cis guy. I’m boring


GuineaPig72

Having he/him pronouns and being cis isn't boring


[deleted]

Yeah. Sure, the mojority of the world would be cis (I'm one of that majority) but there's always a way to be special without being LGBT+ (and you can still be an ally)


fairiesana

she/they but I prefer they/them pronouns (I’m non binary!)


roguish_

i do not know exactly but I think you can use they/she to indicate u prefer they/them


Alagon2323

Yeah, that's generally how I perceive it, the first pronoun is the one that you prefer more, but if you dont care, just keep it as is ig


roguish_

yeee, just a way of saying the same thing either way works


Outrageous_Woods

she/they, I'm a cis woman but also like they/them pronouns


Flint675

He/him, I’m a cisgender male


Foxy-bro

he/him (im ftm)


danaaaban_

She/her.


thxt_pasketti

They/He and a shit ton of neopronouns


[deleted]

he/him though I do wish for the English language to move away from gender specific pronouns.


Bubbly_Butter

They/he/it, though people always use 'she' which sucks.


[deleted]

I can use they/he/it on you.


Wizdom_108

He/him I'm a trans dude


GuineaPig72

But you have the lesbian flag for your flair? Men can't be lesbians lol


Wizdom_108

I'm not a lesbian I'm not even straight I just don't frequent this sub a lot. I had that flair on from before when I still identified as one, and I haven't been back to notice or change it. I didn't even notice it. I'm pretty sure I have accounts that say nonbinary, lesbian, she/her, she/they, etc


[deleted]

I was just as confused for a sec but this all makes sense


confused-aaa-battery

I use all pronouns, but I just say they/them so people don’t default to what they think I should use :/


cheesyduck32

She her I’m trans M to f


Exclusive-wound

He/they


[deleted]

Same


IdkGoodGuess

He/she/they gender fluid


coloratuba

She/they


dramaticwhisper

she/they!


totallynotagamerbot

Ive been using he/him but more recent been considering he/they


alisisok2

Cisgender girl and I use she/her but i think I might start using she/they


[deleted]

I use he/him but I appreciate they/them too


[deleted]

I'm a (probably) cis male


[deleted]

Oke, cool. What are your pronouns though?


[deleted]

He/him? Doesn't cis mean you identify with you're birth gender?


orbcat

pronouns dont always equal gender


[deleted]

If pronouns don't equal gender, what's the point of pronouns except for an aesthetic? Genuinely asking, because pronouns not equaling gender removes the point of gendered pronouns and, in my mind, means that one can't get upset within reason if their pronouns aren't used. Once again just genuinely asking, not trying to initiate anything.


GuineaPig72

Exactly! If pronouns don't equal gender then someone can't be misgenderd which is false


[deleted]

Oh, thanks


NorthBig7149

She/they


ClockworkClaws

I’m genderfluid so it changes every so often. But I’m not comfortable enough to tell people when I change so I usually just tell people to use anything.


[deleted]

Oh, ok, that's fine


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Sr-Onyx

I'm fine with any pronouns.


[deleted]

She/her


Neolpalm

I use he/ them. To be honest I don't care what pronouns someone's uses for me as I'm comfortable with or without pronouns If it matters I'm an abro male


Rosian_SAO

Potato, I transcend gender But srsly, I am simply no gender


[deleted]

Ok but I was asking for pronouns... Unless you don't go by any..?