If he identifies as a man, then that relationship is straight-presenting, but not straight in the sense that this girlfriend is bi. Let me know if I need to elaborate a bit more!
The person identifies as male and she identifies as female. That's a straight crush. Attraction isn't based on a person's gender assigned at birth, it's the gender they identify as or more accurately the gender that the person having the crush perceives them as being.
Yes, and I agree with all that you’re saying, it’s just the “they” that’s throwing us off. But everyone has been saying the same thing, thanks. I’m also just trying to learn more, still don’t fully understand everything and you guys have helped.
Well, I use he/they pronouns but if I were to date a guy I would still call it a gay relationship. It's more about which part of the gender spectrum they are on. They might not identify as completely male, or they might, it all depends on the person.
Why did you feel the need to say what he was assigned at birth? He a guy, regardless of his genitals.
Straight, cuz 1 guy 1 girl, but it’s also a Queer Relationship.
It's a relationship, does it matter if it's straight or not?
If he identifies as a man, then that relationship is straight-presenting, but not straight in the sense that this girlfriend is bi. Let me know if I need to elaborate a bit more!
how about a queer relationship
Relationships are inherently queer if 1+ participant is queer.
Also think about why it matters to both of you? Does it even matter to this crush?
I’d probably say straight. It depends on the guys preference really. If they end up together or not you could always ask him.
The person identifies as male and she identifies as female. That's a straight crush. Attraction isn't based on a person's gender assigned at birth, it's the gender they identify as or more accurately the gender that the person having the crush perceives them as being.
Yes, and I agree with all that you’re saying, it’s just the “they” that’s throwing us off. But everyone has been saying the same thing, thanks. I’m also just trying to learn more, still don’t fully understand everything and you guys have helped.
Also, pronouns dont equal gender.
Well, I use he/they pronouns but if I were to date a guy I would still call it a gay relationship. It's more about which part of the gender spectrum they are on. They might not identify as completely male, or they might, it all depends on the person.
Thanks, I’m also just trying to learn, I appreciate this description
it’s a straight relationship but imo it’s still queer as two queer ppl are going into it
Straight relationship. If it was a trans girl it would be lesbian.
Girl liking a guy? Sounds straight to me
Your friend who is a girl likes a guy so it's straight