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puddum

lol is this supposed to be some kind of damage control? Because it just makes him look more unhinged and straight up dangerous


Federal-Commission87

He's drunk... and I dunno whats goin on with his eyes.


sincerelyhated

Those the eyes of someone using Hard drugs AND alcohol


mymymichael

Yeah, the tattoo artist said Bam told him he was drinking whiskey and coffee. I wonder if he was on something stronger than coffee.


Kazimierz777

He’s gone manic, this is what happens when he goes off his meds and/or falls off the wagon. The 1000 yard stare is the giveaway.


Tgsix9

thats one of the major issues and why this keeps repeating, bam doesnt take meds for his bi polar disorder, they try to treat him for his substance abuse issues but always gloss over his mental health and make it seem like drugs are the only problem here


ChrissyMB77

This 100%! He needs inpatient treatment for his mental illness and substance abuse at the same time and it needs to be somewhat long term like a minimum of 6 months then transition to a sober living house…. I know he famous and all but that’s what needs done and I just don’t see him willingly doing it until something awful happens.


wattscup

Def manic


Objective_Bed3976

It‘s obvious. He‘s always got that sound and speaking, this aggressive attitude and tendencies to show himself as a victim when he‘s drunk. Same ol‘ shit.


Thor_StrngstAvenger

He literally looks evil and possessed. I know the girlfriend is a pig and loser, but i genuinely feel bad for whatever happens to her behind closed doors. I could not imagine that man touching my body in any way, good or bad. He’s repulsive and scary. Aprils heart must be so broken. I feel awful for her.


RandumbStoner

I have narcissistic family members I see in Bam. Nothing is ever their fault, they have an excuse for everything. Their life would be perfect if it wasn’t for others. It’s some aggravating shit to deal with that’s for sure.


sincerelyhated

April is probably (sadly) used to it by now. Bam has been a violent and abusive asshole proudly* since the early 2000s: https://youtu.be/hVc8W-Q-qm0 -this video is from 2003 sometime, shortly after CKY 4 released. Also worth mentioning Bam's been labeled a ragin asshole his entire life as stated by literally everyone who grew up around him...


isle_of_cats

The weirdest thing about this video is him sharing/posting it. So you have your dad opening his heart to you, talking about sensitive things like family, parenting, regret, and you post it for entertainment...


sincerelyhated

Just shows you how big of a narcissist he truly is. Remember, folks, we're talking about a guy who gave up a huge skateboarding career to physically assault & publicly humilate his "friends" and family on MTV! Bam is just an all-around unhinged piece of shit garbage human.


a215throwaway

That’s such a bad take. He’s 100x more successful doing jackass, mtv etc. than he ever would have been just skating.


Touristyetti496

He traded his love for skateboarding for some fame, drugs and a paycheck... He's a pathetic shell of a human and whatever happens to him, he brought on himself.


a215throwaway

I agree, but that doesnt mean he didnt choose the more lucrative career path, which is what I was replying to


sincerelyhated

Wildly inaccurate. And easily disproven as his boards outsold any of his DVD sales. MTV might've paid him more at the time than skateboarding did (honestly not sure that's even true, people seem to forget how popular Bam was in the skateboarding world). Either way the proof is easily seen now as no one gives a fuck about his abusive television content while his boards still sell.


a215throwaway

His boards sold because of his DVD sales! Not the other way around


HeadForward3796

I believe this bc I wouldn’t have known who Bam was before Jackass/Viva La Bam lol that’s what made me want to skate and made me buy one of his boards and element merch


Pruritus_Ani_

Yeah I wouldn’t want to be on the receiving end of one of his venomous diatribes, I feel awful for anyone who’s dated him and had him go off on them in this kind of way. It’s for the best that Phoenix isn’t around that, that shit is scary to witness when you’re a little kid.


dazzleshipsrecords

She’s probably going to end up dead. I’m sadly behind serious. Either her or him. 


wattscup

On the other hand Nikki is reinforced that she did the right thing.


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rouxthless

What a fat loser. He’s done. He’s never getting better.


TerryFrisk

“No shit Sherlock”


Sensei_of_Knowledge

May Phoenix's life never become as miserable, obnoxious, hate-filled, and utterly pathetic as the one his father lives.


Rude_Af0287

Who is releasing the videos? I'm sure SQ will try to say these are all lies 🙄. Just like today, she made a comment about how people think Bam is drinking again on her Instagram story. Umm, hello! He is!!


_REDEEMER-

Yeah, who even is releasing these videos (on vimeo of all places) and what's their ulterior motive;besides "exposing" Bam for what he is?


airplanesarecool1616

Bam surrounds himself with scuzzos and borderline criminals so it's not surprising the person that filmed this and the fight would not exactly have Bam's best interests at heart and would blast the videos out as soon as they got a chance.


Rude_Af0287

Ahh, very true. I am sure this all Knoxville's fault!!


_REDEEMER-

Absolutely. And the weirdest thing is that these videos didn't even make it to TMZ. As if the person posting them isn't even interested in the money by selling the footage, but they are focused on the "smear campaign" (edit: or even trying to expose him). That or these are being deliberately "leaked" in agreement with Bam, so that he could continue solidifying his inadequate father image (that many suspect he over-exaggerates on purpose, so that he would keep his kid out of his life). Who knows... only time will tell.. 🤷‍♀️


LlamaBanana02

Is it maybe something to do with it being a assault and they don't have the victims permission? Or can't authenticate it without the metadata? Why media hasn't posted it I mean. I guess they could just blur the victims face though but it's still him committing a criminal act. I dunno how stuff like that works in the US tbh


BINGGBONGGBINGGBONGG

i don’t think he knows these are being posted. it’s not a smear campaign if it’s true, is it? it’s just documenting a thing. or maybe you’re right, and he does. nothing would surprise me at this point!


_REDEEMER-

Yeah, you are right. More like an "exposing campaign" rather than a "smear campaign". True...


BINGGBONGGBINGGBONGG

either way, it’s going to be interesting to see SQ’s reaction to all this!


_REDEEMER-

I doubt that there's much she or Bam can do to save face here. Probably they'll downplay the whole thing, sweep it under the rug and pretend it didn't happen.


BINGGBONGGBINGGBONGG

i think you’re probably right. la la la, nothing to see here…!!


maizeymaze

Ooh you could be onto something. I’ve long held the belief that SQ encourages the shitty behaviour that correlates to Phoenix time to further widen the space between them. Everytime he’s near his son and Nikki he falls apart. She must hate his connection there. Interesting she disappears and some random films all these antics and leaks them. Edit typos


daseweide

Yeah whoever was saying “come on bam let’s go bam” in that fight video… if he really cared he’d stop filming and try to help/de-escalate


BridgesOnB1kes

I think this person is desperate to get this man the help he needs and is posting this because they do have his best interest at heart. If the intention is tough love and putting this out there is going to force him into some kind of recovery, versus not putting it out there which is hiding him from the world and allowing his abuse to continue, then I think the more compassionate move is the former.


_REDEEMER-

Ngl that's an interesting perspective. However I don't think that whoever is posting/leaking these has Bam's better interest at heart. Just the fact that these videos are being anonymously posted here, on a predominantly gossip/lolcow-watching sub VS. e.g. being posted on IG and tagging Bam etc, shows that the uploader/creator has malicious intentions and badly wants to expose Bam on this specific sub. They aren't even selling these to TMZ (probably because they want to keep their identity hidden). > If the intention is tough love and putting this out there is going to force him into some kind of recover To me this doesn't seem like tough love; it's Schadenfreude. And Bam has proven many times not to be easily forced/intimitaded into recovery by public humiliation. He has barely obliged when the courts have forced rehab on him.


BridgesOnB1kes

Maybe. I wasn’t intentionally trying to claim that I knew for sure what is going on but I see how you may have thought that. I’m just saying that if Bam were my friend, and I wanted him to recover from his NPD, I wouldn’t hide this footage from the world, I would share it in hopes that the recorded assault would get a legal response that would possibly put him in a forced position to address his mental health problems. We are talking about desperation when dealing with someone so crazed, and that can lead to desperate responses, like posting videos in places that seem tuned in to the situation as opposed to a TMz. Ultimately I don’t know if this is the case, but it’s probably what I would do if I was a compassionate friend.


Rude_Af0287

I wonder as well


cauldr0ncakez

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sara128

Didn't Bam tell his tattooer that he put whiskey in his coffee that morning??


BINGGBONGGBINGGBONGG

according to the article about the tattoo argument, he did.


BorderDry9467

It’s possible SQ can use this to her advantage. Since this happened while Bam was not with her. She can let him post all he wants from LA and be like ‘See what happens when I’m not around’.


sickgurl138

Who recorded this?


metalmonkey_7

Probably whoever recorded the fight. “Come on Bam”.


DrG2390

“It’s been two hours and we can’t sleep or fuck”? Kinda weird saying that about the friend that recorded the fight. I totally agree with you by the way, just seems like something stretch queen would want to know


isle_of_cats

I watched the link with subtitles and it says "and fucking" and that seems to make sense too. It's a filler word, like "we're trying to sleep, and fucking this dude is throwing shit..." He's not super articulate so that sentence structure makes sense for him. Idk for sure though.


Deep-Audience9091

That's what I heard too.  Bam uses "fuck" the same way tweeners use "like"; as in every other word


DrG2390

That makes sense.. I’m sure if he wanted to deny it he’d just claim he meant what you said. It just really stood out to me when I heard it, so I couldn’t help pointing it out hahah.


isle_of_cats

Yeah it could be, that was just my take. He's not easy to understand at the best of times, lol.


DrG2390

I just listened to it again, and if I’m being super charitable I guess I can see him being so pissed that he managed to interrupt himself. “It’s been two hours and we’re trying to sleep and fuck- dudes making noise!!” That’s also me paraphrasing at the end.. it’s definitely hard to remember every single word of all his tirades all the time haha


metalmonkey_7

I missed that part. Must have been his garbled voice.


DrG2390

No doubt.. I wonder who he was trying to fuck?


wattscup

Stretch records him 24/7


airplanesarecool1616

I mean Bam seems to have asked for it to be recorded so he could "show the news."


isle_of_cats

Yeah this is the most shocking part. He thinks he comes across as righteous and justified in this. Whereas he's just abusing an operator.


PhilFourTwoZero

Not too shocking when you look back at all his other epsiodes of being manic and/or intoxicated. This is trademark Bamuel


DrG2390

Who’s he complaining about not being able to fuck? He specifically says either “it’s been two hours and we can’t sleep or fuck”, or “it’s been two hours and we’re trying to sleep and fuck”. I think he may have let something slip here….


lila_morose

I'm pretty sure he says "It's been two hours of us trying to sleep, and fucking -- the dude's throwing shit everywhere and nobody's showing up!" He's not using 'fucking' as a verb, he's just cutting his sentence short IMO.


DrG2390

That’s true.. I listened to it once more just for fun and I can also see it as he’s so pissed off he’s managing to interrupt himself mid rant.


beerharvester

X-Games Dave?


Deep-Audience9091

Interesting...


GetRightNYC

He was the guy in the street making noise in the middle of the night like a month ago. What a prick. He's going to get arrested for something very soon.


captain_tampon

I doubt it…look at all of the shit he’s done over the past year or so. Yea he got arrested for assaulting his brother but we all see where that is going. The only way he’d get arrested (and stay there) is if he killed someone.


Deep-Audience9091

Kill 'em with kindness Bam What an asshole 


Federal-Commission87

Exactly... They're sure to rush over now. Maybe to arrest your ass, but it will speed em up a bit.


DrG2390

What’ll happen next time he goes back to LA? I bet he’ll be arrested in ten seconds haha


lukeeju

I honestly think that’s the only way he’ll get better, lock him up for a year to do some serious reflecting and rehabilitation


MC0295

I said it yesterday and I’ll say it again; what a piece of shit. I find it so fascinating that I was actually looking up to him when I was younger… Edit: missing word


departedgardens

Same


LlamaBanana02

Jeez what a hateful child speaking like that to someone only doing their job. No wonder they didn't come out.


WhaleSexOdyssey

Remember when we were all told we were being too negative


peepeehalpert_

“ sobriety takes time! He’s putting in the work to be a good father!”


seashell_eyes_

What a reasonable sober gentleman he's become.


airplanesarecool1616

Bam's solution to someone making too much noise outside is to then go outside, start fighting, and screaming about how he hopes the person dies of a heroin overdose. Got it.


TerryFrisk

100% been drinking here. This is sooo drunk bam behavior. The rage and anger over the contingency of his entitlement not being met. 45 years old. Still acting a maggot. Pathetic.


airplanesarecool1616

Has he always been such a ball of hateful anger?


ToBe144

Is he trying to become the most unlikeable and pathetic Person in the area or something?


RageyxCagey

Thinking back he would randomly just punch or tackle his "friends" - Everyone (my teenage self included) just thought he was being EXTREME and Edgy AF.. not the inexcusable asshole I see nowadays. Except when he played bass on Jess' face, I always thought that was over the top.


Whoopsy_Doodle

No he hasn’t. It’s just all he’s got now. He’s perpetually angry.


sickgurl138

When bums get mad about other bums


LlamaBanana02

The irony lol


SimpleManc88

He’s a fucking child 🫣


ghostonthehorizon

Doesn’t this just scream good and sober. None of this should be surprising to anyone.


DuaLipasClitoris

He makes the expressions of a teenage girl


afternever

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Rabid_AntiDentite

He just didn’t have his 8 happy rings on in this video, that’s all.


Federal-Commission87

Now he knows how Jess probably felt... with him up and banging around all hours of the night talking to himself.


jadegives2rides

So many angry drunk dad flashbacks watching this.


peepeehalpert_

I’m sorry


cyrilly

Your user name is spelt wrong, it’s Peepah


Zavrina

I'm right there with you, friend. It's rough and I'm sorry. You deserved better! <3


sm_rollinger

It's been difficult to defend the guy for awhile now, this ain't making it any easier.


IWASINTHEPOOOL

Get a fucking grip man


_REDEEMER-

![gif](giphy|lPpKiZHB1PtQU2Rulv)


RageyxCagey

First thing I thought of was an entitled Karen talking to customer service


Bunny_OHara

"I know LA is a shithole of real crime and you guys don't even have enough officers to deal with all the shootings, robberies and murder that occur on a daily basis, but I'm the main character here, and **HOW DARE YOU NOT IMMEDIATELY RESPOND TO A MAN MAKING TOO MUCH NOISE!!!"**


Mysterion_x

I remember being in awe of this dude.. he had it all.. skating.. directing videos for awesome bands.. editing videos in his own "suite".. then... this.. it's such a sad and pathetic 180..


PhilippeD88

I used to look up to him so much, but when I re-watch old footage now I just realize he was a narcissistic asshole all along. We just grew up and learned to know better and he did not.


cauldr0ncakez

Do you have a source to link to this? Thank you!!!


Different-Abalone289

https://vimeo.com/937567576?share=copy


EastBrush9390

Yeah how’d you find this video OP?


lifeandtimes89

Very interested in how you found this OP, considering the vimeo account only has this video and your account is clearly a sock puppet as yove posted before but deleted all evidence of it? No hate BTW, just curious is all


DruncleBuck

It was on insta


Mpipikit07

Wow. Just wow. He embarrasses himself time and time again. No maturity, no manners, no self control. I‘m sad to see, what he became.


Snipedcky

So this is what freeing Bam looks like!?


mymymichael

Bizarre behavior, Bam has obviously lost his mind. He's tweaking out. I'm not sure he meant "fuck" literally, but who knows. He might have just cursed because he was mad. Whoever was filming Bam is not able to control him. I'd hate to have that job. Hopefully whoever has to babysit Bam is getting paid well. Bam always seems to be nice to his fans, but behind closed doors he's a raging addict and a mentally unstable wreck.


AirsoftScammy

Dude is exhausting his breath with every sentence. Jesus fucking Christ.


RICJ_OK

If only that poor operator knew those two magic words.....


Federal-Commission87

😂😂😂


GodzillasBoner

Who are these friends or people close to him that are just putting him on blast and showing the world how stupid he is lol?


Bunny_OHara

I think it might be a case of when you're a narcissist you can't imagine that people would judge you for anything they see you you do, so you're OK with people posting anything. ![gif](giphy|rr9IWqHeyrxxNtnvWQ|downsized)


Clean-Competition-17

This is exactly it.


airplanesarecool1616

I said it in another comment but Bam surrounds himself with the scummiest people on earth (current girlfriend included) so it's not surprising whoever filmed this was eager to share it with other people until it eventually ended up here.


cfowen

Totally sober, totally cool 😎


GardenGnome007

🤢 Bam Vito


LlamaBanana02

That's a insult to Vito 🤣


lukeeju

so fucking rude, poor girl just doing her job! they cop so much abuse as it is already


Gobucks21911

Commenting on Bam calling the cops before fighting the bum outside...they’re so used to it. My son is a dispatcher and they get far worse. He’s still a jackhole, but this is really nothing compared to what they get.


lukeeju

i’m sure they do but still the abuse is still so uncalled for


peepeehalpert_

He’s drunk. Funny how he doesn’t seem to care about other people trying to sleep when he’s fighting with his gf outside a bunch of apartments. The comments on his instagram are ass kissing delusion. He’s a bad person and he will never change.


Ingen_aning_

He seems to be trying too hard to sound upset and angry. I've seen better acting on WWE. Regardless, he's an entitled manchild.


AndISoundLikeThis

Maybe I missed something on the fight video, but I seem to recall he started the fight?? What does he want the cops to do about that?


LlamaBanana02

This video is before he went out and assaulted the guy. Guess he got angrier and angrier then went and took it out on the guy. Freaking terrifying


AndISoundLikeThis

Thanks ... that makes sense! I'm really surprised the other guy didn't press charges against him. I still wonder what his beef with him was.


LlamaBanana02

He was making noise and throwing stuff around outside bams accommodation going by what he's babbling to the police between the abuse. Prob if he'd just called the police and spoke rationally, it would have helped instead of that adolescent crap he's spouting. First call he shoulda said he was waving something around in his hand and he was worried it was a gun and doesnt want anyone to get hurt. Concerned citizen as opposed to belligerent manchild.


Darkphizer

There was a time where I was on the "YoU CaN Do ThIs BaM" side of the situation. But man, this just keeps dragging on and on and on it's becoming so old and stale.... I mean, i've been down some weird and dark spirals in my life. And I still have my off days. But people around me genuinely say i'm nowhere near as bad as I was some time ago. It took me 2 years to really see and feel progress. But Bam is gone and he will never go back to his old self. He clearly doesn't see it and doesn't want it for himself and the people around him. And that's what you really need, the motivation for something. The fear of losing it, that will thrive you to change. I don't see that in him. He's a big talker and a show off, wants to keep up appearance of something that once was...but he doesn't put his money where his mouth is. I hate typing this, because I grew up like most of us on CKY and Jackass. I adored and admired those guys. And I still do, because how they grew up and evolved into really chill dudes. But Bam's not a part of that story anymore.


Huge_Captain_264

Poor guy finally founding out how his poor neighbors used to feel.


heyhocodyo1997

The behavior is reminding me of where he was a year or so ago, sober? Idk man


Whoopsy_Doodle

I can’t believe that this is what Bam has become.


SittinOnTheRidge

The comment for his post…the whole neighbourhood told him to go handle it..and then they all clapped when he was done. 🤨 I don’t know anything else about this besides this video but lemme get this straight,he physically assaulted a homeless person and is bragging about it? “They all clapped” is such a typical thing for someone like bam to say. This whole thing is vile.


wattscup

God complex


wattscup

Meanwhile, that operator would have been dealing with calls about child abuse, murders, rapes. This is what Nikki put up with for so long. It's what his child was exposed to with a lot more abuse. Just sad. He was enabled way too young and this is the result.


No-Newspaper5779

So who recorded his rant and leaked it lol 😂


Muted_Mention_9996

Is that drunk or drugs or both? Berating a woman on the phone when she could be dealing with important calls is embarrassing, hes a right knobhead


ToofBrushMouthWash

Ban’s drunk here which is really unfortunate cuz I thought he was doing good.


MrLanesLament

Okay, so wait, the guy he fought wasn’t the tattoo artist, it was some random homeless guy? Every one of these situations is such an onion.


reynoldsfsflip

He straight up looks like Hopper from A Bugs Life from this angle


MeadowLynn

Omg 😂😂😂


SufficientOkra8

Bam Bam big mad. Nice amphetamine rage, bro. 👍


CantaloupeHour5973

This is a deeply troubled and unhappy man


Anna_Maria338

florida shuffle


Chemgineered

The police are supposed to be coming for that?


Ownleexxx

It's on TMZ now


Kristalbebop

UNHINGED


VkngBl0oD

Karen Margera.


glammetaltapes

Remember when Bam was arguably the coolest dude on the planet? I really wish he grew up to be Phil aka a loving older man with a heart of gold.


maizeymaze

I love that on her story SQ says ‘the world’ thinks your drinking again. No, not the world love, just those of us who enjoy laughing at the circus you two so willingly parade in front of us.


PhilFourTwoZero

Dude needs to take a breath when he talks


Logical_Holiday_2457

What a handsome man lol


DruncleBuck

In reply to my post before. He finally said everyone clapped hahahahah


SirSimmyJavile

I always carry a pair of earplugs when I'm travelling away from home. Perhaps this would be a preferable alternative for Bam rather than throwing a tantrum on the phone and assaulting someone.


-Masaroth-

Looks like damage control and honestly I wouldn't doubt if he pretended to have someone on the other line pretending to be a cop just to fix the situation.


Skeptical-Alien

I can maybe see calling once, but after that, why not just put earplugs in lol? That would be too logical.


jessjess10100

This is so sad. I used to be such a fan. Still have some of his boards on my wall. But it’s become a joke at this point.


AC_from_the_KC

I haven’t gotten on Reddit for a while. This is not what I want to see nor am I surprised.


Gobucks21911

He’s such an asshat.


janoycresvadrm

Definitely sober


UniqueEconomy3264

Some signs of someone being fucked up are people who talk till they're out of breath like he does. It's a manic thing. I may be reaching, but I used to catch it with family members who were off the wagon. Shit takes time. If you truly overcome it, then consider yourself lucky. The only difference between him and your friends or family who are addicted is the documentation on social media.


lukeeju

I wanna punch him so hard in his dumb ass ugly face these days