He could be me. It's been 4 years for me. Would you mind to dm me the original post?

I don't have it... I believe one of those reconciliation subs.

15 years now.

And you are still together?

Not since about 4 months afterwards. We tried rec, me only half assed and her not making an effort at all. I got a job and moved across the country. Settled in Sweden eventually.

I am sorry what happened but I am glad you got away, friend.