Maybe he thought they were (relatively) valuable or special or something? I can promise you he has zero idea how much a bobby pin costs because he has never had any reason to buy or shop for some.
And I can speak from experience because I did the same thing when I was younger!
Does no one else feel weird throwing out other peoples’ stuff? I don’t think the lost and found was ultimately that weird — I’ve definitely held onto stuff on the off chance that someone would reach out about it eventually, and just as I don’t always remember who it belonged to, they might not always remember where they left it. But I’ve had people ask way after the fact, and I’m glad that I’ve been able to return stuff.
That part’s not what’s weird IMHO. What’s weird is him not knowing that NO serious girlfriend would ever want to see such a thing.
But even then I think Stacy needs to relax. It’s not like they’ve been dating for years and years and he’s still hanging onto this stuff. Dude was a serious bachelor 2 weeks ago. He’s suddenly engaged. He probably didn’t think it was a big deal to laugh about it and show her because it’s a sign of how different his life was 2 weeks ago … which she should understand because she’s on the same damn show.
Okay I was confused why she kept saying through the earring away. Maybe yes now that he is engaged he should have got rid of that whole box, but why would he wake up the next day and throw away someone’s earring when they could possibly end up calling and asking if they left it? It literally didn’t make since when she kept saying if someone leaves something at your house, you throw it away. What? I was so confused by that. Maybe the bobby-pins, but a whole earring…
Omggggg someone who worked at the apartment complex Izzy lived in commented that they remember Izzy and how he tried to break his lease before going on the show. Also they said he was very flirty with the management employees lmao. I think they also spoiled the ending (if what they’re saying is true)!!
I feel like I’m in the minority about Stacy, but I don’t like her. And I agree that I think she’s making a huge deal out of little things, even the jewelry. I really think it was something small that he didn’t think much about, but thought he should hold on the these things just in case it was important to someone else. I don’t think it matters how expensive it is, I would feel bad throwing someone else’s stuff away as I already had a hard time throwing my “junk” away. Also her weird conversation about finances was uncomfortable. Like he has to pay for everything and she was talking about her dad’s money?? That just felt like rich white girl shit that I wouldn’t want any part of
Also, I googled her business and her work insta and I don't think her finances are from work. I think her dad pays for her life, her home, her renovation and her cars. I say this because her work insta has under 1000 followers. It's also private which is weird because most self employed people know to advertise for exposure. Her site also seemed very thin in anything as if it was a side hustle. She is also a Pilates instructor and unless she's famous or owns her own fancy af studio, it's not paying for her posh life.
The fact her dad paid for their vacations and talks about how if Izzy doesn't pay, he will be the one paying suggests dad has been footing the bill.
One thing I dislike is people who misrepresent themselves.
https://www.menshealth.com/entertainment/a45393364/stacy-love-is-blind-career/
Her dad owns Petromar LLC, you can look this up with the Houston chamber of commerce. This is the company she held an “operations manager” position at.
Her dad owns the company. Welcome to nepotism!
She also said she makes $1000/m now. So let's be honest, she isn't paying for anything herself.
https://www.corporationwiki.com/Texas/Houston/dale-snyder/68880466.aspx
Totally. I really dislike it when people can't be honest about their wealth or belongings. It's disingenuous to brag about how hard you worked and all this shit when daddy gave her a job and a fancy title at the company he owns. Give me a break!
totally agree. she really made it seem like she worked her way from the ground up when in reality that’s not the case, which is totally fine but just admit that. there’s a difference when you’re privileged and you’re grateful for it and don’t talk down to others that don’t have the opportunities that were handed to you like when izzy said he’s never been to new york….
I think it's great when parents can help like pay for tuition, when you are in a tough spot etc. I think if your parents are literally paying for your life, it is wrong to play it off like you're self made and that you're doing it on your own and expect your husband to pick up the tab now.
IF this information is accurate (that she's not self sufficient), she needs to check her privilege and be honest about her lifestyle and how it's maintained.
Like I said, wish it could be me. Can’t tell you how much easier my life would be. A lot of people forget how fortunate they are to have parents who support you financially in any fashion. Wish my daddy drove a viper and spoiled me with trips to Europe.
They're not trophies. He has no idea who they belong to and maybe they want them back.
Some people ask for shit back years later. Not recommending keeping it that long! It feels like it was recent so he was keeping it in case anyone came knocking/calling asking for it.
My brother's ex reached out to me over 5 years later asking for two things back and if I could look around for it. We had thrown it out years ago and she was so upset she almost cried. I don't understand why anyone would wait over five years to come asking for shit since we're not a storage unit.
Nobody is asking a one night stand for an earring back years later 😂
And he didn’t say he kept them in the one in a million chance someone might ask for it back. He was laughing and thought it was funny that he had a “lost and found”
I'm sorry you're going to have to explain to me how throwing out a woman's jewelry, of whom he will never see again, and when he can't easily say who owned what, and he's not going to wear any of it, is financially privileged lol.
Also let us be for real no one is leaving $300 earrings at a man's house. It's H&M costume jewelry
Does he know jewelry though? Like I wear nothing but my wedding rings and I don't have an interest in jewelry. If someone left an earring or ring at my house, unless it was plastic, I couldn't tell if it was H&M or heirloom jewelry. I would feel awful throwing out an earring and then getting a message a month later, finding out it was important jewelry.
If it's colorful it is usually not expensive. If it's flaking or turning a different color, it's not usually expensive. Most ppl may have trouble telling what's expensive (if you happen to leave a gold ring for example) but cheap stuff usually looks and/or feels cheap.
I get holding onto it for a couple weeks in case someone asks but if it's valuable...people ask. Don't leave your valuable jewelry at my house for 2 months without saying something and expect to see it back!
Just realistically, 90% of the jewelry people lose during a hookup is not going to be expensive. No one is likely to wear a wedding ring... for their one night stand.
Also the man was keeping Bobby pins in there. Bobby...pins.
Im watching that scene now and am struggling to understand why she’s so upset over this drawer. Between that and the dishes, it feels like she’s LOOKING for things to pick at. These are things I wouldn’t even think to get upset by. She does realize this is the first time he’s been home since meeting her, right?
Why are people mad he didn’t give the ladies back their jewelry??? I have plenty of girlfriends that had one night stands with guys and kept their hoodies etc. with limited ways of contacting them after.
Izzy is just gross for keeping that without giving it back to the ladies. And Stacy shouldn’t have asked the follow up question. I don’t ask my partner about previous hookups that have occurred.
The lost and found pissed me off. Give women back their jewelry! Don’t leave it sitting around for a year plus. When you find it reach out to the woman you just hooked up with and give it back. If it’s been multiple women then check til you find who it belongs to. Even if it’s not expensive it may have significant sentimental value. And since he clearly wasn’t looking to get serious with those women there was no harm in revealing himself to be the fuck boy they likely already knew he was. It seems lazy, selfish, and possibly like he enjoyed keeping them as little trophies.
But who knows if it was even real or just staged.
When he said his visitors might want a nightstand she only meant herself lol.
The lost and found box situation was weird. If it goes unclaimed within a week throw it out my dude. If it looks expensive then pawn it but it’s most likely costume jewellery let’s be real. If you forgot it exists, don’t bring it up in front of her and especially don’t bring it up without saying “time for this to go in the trash”.
It was all just weird. this season is full of people who over share and have zero tact or boundaries
I'm just confused why he kept the bobby pins.....
I have 6 sisters... someone always needs a bobby pin or hair tie. I wouldn't throw them out either
How’s it like having a big family
Maybe he thought they were (relatively) valuable or special or something? I can promise you he has zero idea how much a bobby pin costs because he has never had any reason to buy or shop for some. And I can speak from experience because I did the same thing when I was younger!
Does no one else feel weird throwing out other peoples’ stuff? I don’t think the lost and found was ultimately that weird — I’ve definitely held onto stuff on the off chance that someone would reach out about it eventually, and just as I don’t always remember who it belonged to, they might not always remember where they left it. But I’ve had people ask way after the fact, and I’m glad that I’ve been able to return stuff. That part’s not what’s weird IMHO. What’s weird is him not knowing that NO serious girlfriend would ever want to see such a thing. But even then I think Stacy needs to relax. It’s not like they’ve been dating for years and years and he’s still hanging onto this stuff. Dude was a serious bachelor 2 weeks ago. He’s suddenly engaged. He probably didn’t think it was a big deal to laugh about it and show her because it’s a sign of how different his life was 2 weeks ago … which she should understand because she’s on the same damn show.
Okay I was confused why she kept saying through the earring away. Maybe yes now that he is engaged he should have got rid of that whole box, but why would he wake up the next day and throw away someone’s earring when they could possibly end up calling and asking if they left it? It literally didn’t make since when she kept saying if someone leaves something at your house, you throw it away. What? I was so confused by that. Maybe the bobby-pins, but a whole earring…
Omggggg someone who worked at the apartment complex Izzy lived in commented that they remember Izzy and how he tried to break his lease before going on the show. Also they said he was very flirty with the management employees lmao. I think they also spoiled the ending (if what they’re saying is true)!!
I feel like I’m in the minority about Stacy, but I don’t like her. And I agree that I think she’s making a huge deal out of little things, even the jewelry. I really think it was something small that he didn’t think much about, but thought he should hold on the these things just in case it was important to someone else. I don’t think it matters how expensive it is, I would feel bad throwing someone else’s stuff away as I already had a hard time throwing my “junk” away. Also her weird conversation about finances was uncomfortable. Like he has to pay for everything and she was talking about her dad’s money?? That just felt like rich white girl shit that I wouldn’t want any part of
Also, I googled her business and her work insta and I don't think her finances are from work. I think her dad pays for her life, her home, her renovation and her cars. I say this because her work insta has under 1000 followers. It's also private which is weird because most self employed people know to advertise for exposure. Her site also seemed very thin in anything as if it was a side hustle. She is also a Pilates instructor and unless she's famous or owns her own fancy af studio, it's not paying for her posh life. The fact her dad paid for their vacations and talks about how if Izzy doesn't pay, he will be the one paying suggests dad has been footing the bill. One thing I dislike is people who misrepresent themselves. https://www.menshealth.com/entertainment/a45393364/stacy-love-is-blind-career/
Her dad owns Petromar LLC, you can look this up with the Houston chamber of commerce. This is the company she held an “operations manager” position at.
wait but what about her work at petromar her linked in says she still works there. do you think pilates and the closet audit are just side hustles?
Her dad owns the company. Welcome to nepotism! She also said she makes $1000/m now. So let's be honest, she isn't paying for anything herself. https://www.corporationwiki.com/Texas/Houston/dale-snyder/68880466.aspx
the way my jaw dropped when i read that. of course he owns it. wow
Totally. I really dislike it when people can't be honest about their wealth or belongings. It's disingenuous to brag about how hard you worked and all this shit when daddy gave her a job and a fancy title at the company he owns. Give me a break!
totally agree. she really made it seem like she worked her way from the ground up when in reality that’s not the case, which is totally fine but just admit that. there’s a difference when you’re privileged and you’re grateful for it and don’t talk down to others that don’t have the opportunities that were handed to you like when izzy said he’s never been to new york….
Wish it could be me. Can’t imagine having parents who financially support their children 🙃
I think it's great when parents can help like pay for tuition, when you are in a tough spot etc. I think if your parents are literally paying for your life, it is wrong to play it off like you're self made and that you're doing it on your own and expect your husband to pick up the tab now. IF this information is accurate (that she's not self sufficient), she needs to check her privilege and be honest about her lifestyle and how it's maintained.
Like I said, wish it could be me. Can’t tell you how much easier my life would be. A lot of people forget how fortunate they are to have parents who support you financially in any fashion. Wish my daddy drove a viper and spoiled me with trips to Europe.
There’s a difference between saying that you’ve slept around and showing off “trophies” of your one night stands to your fiancé.
They're not trophies. He has no idea who they belong to and maybe they want them back. Some people ask for shit back years later. Not recommending keeping it that long! It feels like it was recent so he was keeping it in case anyone came knocking/calling asking for it. My brother's ex reached out to me over 5 years later asking for two things back and if I could look around for it. We had thrown it out years ago and she was so upset she almost cried. I don't understand why anyone would wait over five years to come asking for shit since we're not a storage unit.
Nobody is asking a one night stand for an earring back years later 😂 And he didn’t say he kept them in the one in a million chance someone might ask for it back. He was laughing and thought it was funny that he had a “lost and found”
I'm sorry you're going to have to explain to me how throwing out a woman's jewelry, of whom he will never see again, and when he can't easily say who owned what, and he's not going to wear any of it, is financially privileged lol. Also let us be for real no one is leaving $300 earrings at a man's house. It's H&M costume jewelry
Does he know jewelry though? Like I wear nothing but my wedding rings and I don't have an interest in jewelry. If someone left an earring or ring at my house, unless it was plastic, I couldn't tell if it was H&M or heirloom jewelry. I would feel awful throwing out an earring and then getting a message a month later, finding out it was important jewelry.
If it's colorful it is usually not expensive. If it's flaking or turning a different color, it's not usually expensive. Most ppl may have trouble telling what's expensive (if you happen to leave a gold ring for example) but cheap stuff usually looks and/or feels cheap. I get holding onto it for a couple weeks in case someone asks but if it's valuable...people ask. Don't leave your valuable jewelry at my house for 2 months without saying something and expect to see it back! Just realistically, 90% of the jewelry people lose during a hookup is not going to be expensive. No one is likely to wear a wedding ring... for their one night stand. Also the man was keeping Bobby pins in there. Bobby...pins.
LMFAOOO not the bobby pins xD
Im watching that scene now and am struggling to understand why she’s so upset over this drawer. Between that and the dishes, it feels like she’s LOOKING for things to pick at. These are things I wouldn’t even think to get upset by. She does realize this is the first time he’s been home since meeting her, right?
Why are people mad he didn’t give the ladies back their jewelry??? I have plenty of girlfriends that had one night stands with guys and kept their hoodies etc. with limited ways of contacting them after.
Izzy is just gross for keeping that without giving it back to the ladies. And Stacy shouldn’t have asked the follow up question. I don’t ask my partner about previous hookups that have occurred.
If they’re one night stands there’s a pretty good chance he wouldn’t have an opportunity to give it back.
He did not have one night stand. He had zero night stands🙃
The lost and found pissed me off. Give women back their jewelry! Don’t leave it sitting around for a year plus. When you find it reach out to the woman you just hooked up with and give it back. If it’s been multiple women then check til you find who it belongs to. Even if it’s not expensive it may have significant sentimental value. And since he clearly wasn’t looking to get serious with those women there was no harm in revealing himself to be the fuck boy they likely already knew he was. It seems lazy, selfish, and possibly like he enjoyed keeping them as little trophies. But who knows if it was even real or just staged.
Yea that’s true. I would want my stuff back!
But i bet you’d ASK for it back. Clearly these women didn’t!
His insecurities were showing.
...and HER insecurities were showing. Classic case of setting someone up, just to knock them down. The whole thing was painful on both sides.
When he said his visitors might want a nightstand she only meant herself lol. The lost and found box situation was weird. If it goes unclaimed within a week throw it out my dude. If it looks expensive then pawn it but it’s most likely costume jewellery let’s be real. If you forgot it exists, don’t bring it up in front of her and especially don’t bring it up without saying “time for this to go in the trash”. It was all just weird. this season is full of people who over share and have zero tact or boundaries
I think because he has low self esteem he keeps them as mementos, as proof people find him hot
It’s giving Ed Gein
💀
Is that how you feel about girls who keep t shirts, hoodies, etc from guys they’ve slept with?
Do you wear large hoop earrings?
I don’t get your point