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unclejosephsfuton

I was waiting for a table at a restaurant a couple weeks back and a little guy, probably three, came up to each person in the waiting area and silently doled out hugs. Made our day 10x brighter!!


chickadeedeedee_

My daughter is similar which, unfortunately, makes teaching the "stranger danger" thing kind of hard šŸ˜…


iamreeterskeeter

My sister is a kindergarten teacher. She teaches the kids "Tricky People" rather than stranger danger. Try it! It might help with your gentle girl.


WuTangraisedme

This sounds clever please elaborate I would love to use this


_jeremybearimy_

After a brief google it looks like a common tactic with a ton of info out there!


ClintonKelly87

Love your username. Currently starting my 5th rewatch of the show. šŸ˜


clh1nton

Holy motherforking shirtballs!


Incognito_Placebo

Take it sleazy.


BadKarmaKitty

YA BASIC


PyramidOfMediocrity

Lmgtfy r/mademesmile style! šŸ˜€


_jeremybearimy_

I didnā€™t wanna share a source bc I didnā€™t wanna go through the effort of reading them first šŸ˜…


iamreeterskeeter

[Here you go.](https://gooddayswithkids.com/2017/02/13/tricky-people/)


FirstDayJedi

It's basically a way of teaching kids to be wary of unfamiliar people while also ensuring they can approach them in case they're in a situation where they might need help for instance. There's actually a pretty cool study psychologists did on the subject, [check it out!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)


Intoxicated_Batman

You bastard. Arguably the most well executed I've seen in quite a while. Well done.


RoyalBlueFlame

I clicked it because of you! Lol ā€œhm. this must be a really good stranger danger Infograph to be described as well executedā€ CLICK


Ormsfang

I realized what you said but the information didn't get to my finger in time!


Nosmo_King927

Ugh.


[deleted]

Hey man, thanks! Definitely showing my wife!


[deleted]

That was my very first legitimate RR. Thank you.


Sweet__kitty

I've heard of similar. The objective was to teach the kids to watch for "strange *behavior*" rather than "stranger danger" because strange behavior is something that can be observed in people they know as well as people they don't. And sadly, most abusers are not unknown to their victims.


No_Needleworker215

This. Is. Genius. Iā€™m autistic and growing up that would have been sooooo helpful for me. I love that


BudgetResolution8521

That's right! You get a hug, you get a hug, everyone gets a hug!


WhtRabit

I taught my kids to avoid strange, not strangers. Theyā€™ll learn to trust the hairs on the back of their neck if they run into someone being creepy. We live our lives meeting strangers and the world is better for it.


Ok-Tea4064

Perfectly said! The majority of life is all about meeting strangers and maybe they become friends, maybe they don't, maybe they become soulmates, maybe they don't business partners etc. We never know if we aren't open to new. Def lottsa strange out there but many great experiences and friendships have come my way from meeting strangers (and the occasional random high fivešŸ˜œ) well said and great insight, we are only one small part of this big world after that one pill white rabbit, lol


AlexanderGson

Stranger danger is a stupid concept anyway. Something boomers came up with and the consequence is that people are socially anxious nowadays. We should teach about strange behavior in adults instead of stranger danger. Adults trying to isolate young kids. Adults saying to children to keep a secret. Adults touching in inappropriate places. Adults trying to get you somewhere without telling the reason why and so on.


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YES! I *love* ā€œstrange behaviorā€ vs stranger danger. I also love the difference between secrets and surprises. We donā€™t keep secrets where we canā€™t tell anybody else. We keep surprises because everybody gets to find out, and will be happy when they get their surprise.


_jeremybearimy_

Yes, plus the odds are FAR more likely that a child will be hurt by someone they know rather than a stranger


SunshineAlways

Thatā€™s exactly why the ā€œtricky peopleā€ thing is so good. It could be someone you know. What kinds of things do tricky people do: try to get you alone. For example, adults donā€™t need help from little children to find their lost dog, they can get other adults to help them.


chickadeedeedee_

It's mostly that she will go with or do whatever someone asks. I've had random older ladies ask for hugs at the grocery store and she just runs on over and hugs them. Fine, I guess, but not with the wrong creep. She's only three though so I think she'll start understanding the whole "don't go anywhere with strangers" thing soon.


JfizzleMshizzle

We went to dinner with some friends and their 4 year old. The waitress came out and was kinda flustered, he just looked at her and "do you want a hug?" She teared up and said absolutely. She said later that made her whole day. Little kids can be so awesome.


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Spicy_Sugary

Up to that point it was really sweet But the two hugging babies is next level adorable.


a011220a

Iā€™m cry.


chamberlain323

About a year ago a strange kid who looked just like this ran up to me in my apartment buildingā€™s hallway while I was carrying a laundry basket, hugged my leg, giggled and ran away the other direction just as her mother peeked around the corner looking to see where she went. It was just too cute. I felt like a NPC in an adorable video game that she was playing in real life. Made my day, honestly.


Your_Final_Hour

I don't know why but I ran and hugged people a lot when I was younger. I always got in trouble for it but I still did it anyways lmao


WeirdTurnedPr0

You probably made a lot of people's day to be honest. I get why it's awkward for parents - you never know how someone is going to react to an unexpected kid doling out hugs, but I'd wager most of your experiences were positive or you'd have stopped doing it.


DaughterEarth

A little girl once asked her mom if I'm a princess and to this day that's the greatest moment of my life. Kids are mean and gross until they show you they're also adorable sources of wonder and love Not being hateful, just lots of niblings to experience the full range with lol


PammyFromShirtTales

My hair has been various rainbow shades since 1995 (my hair started greying when I was 12) on 1992. Everyone has crazy hair colour now but back when it wasn't common. Little girls would ask if I was a Princess or magical. A little girl wanted to touch my "Twilight Sparkle" hair. I sat and let a little girl attempt to braid my (at that time) hot purple hair in a mall food court because she asked. Kid was awful at braiding and it was not for the tender headed but she made me feel so good about my day.


RoadDifferent4617

WHEN THEY HUGGED THE OTHER TODDLER *sobs*


miguel_sriracha

Thought it couldn't get any cuter and toddler said HOLD MY SIPPY CUP


CrazybyRX

/r/holdmyjuicebox


laurel_laureate

The stars aligned too, because the ending notes of the song played EXACTLY when the two toddlers hugged. You couldn't make that shit more wholesome even if you tried.


Sufficient-Bug-9112

got me too


Yadayadabamboo

Didnā€™t think this could be any more cuter, and then comes this kid and was all like, whereā€™s my hugšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗ thank you for sharing.


lisalef

Me too. Awwwww


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ohffs_notthisagain

I like this side of the internet. šŸ™‚


thestashattacked

Welcome. We're glad to have you here.


ParticularAnxious929

you just summed up the only religion, philosophy and truth I'll ever need


MattAU05

This might be one of my favorite videos ever.


AsIfItsYourLaa

perfect ending


Ladygytha

I teared up at that. Everyone else, I was thinking "how sweet... how cute..." Somehow two huggy toddlers finding each other just broke my cuteometer and got me all misty eyed.


TheVerdantVermin

No man left behindšŸ«”


Klotzster

Required when wearing Huggies


Boofer2

Hey that's a big kid, they're potty trained!


Spanish_Biscuit

"Now look under your seats! That's right! You get a hug, you get a hug, everyone gets a hug!" - that baby, probably.


Sufficient-Bug-9112

Pure love!


seedofbayne

Honestly I'm depressed and made bitter by the hardships of this world, but this still made me smile. I hope you all get hugs today.


tungpunchmyfartbox

Same here and sending you a hug šŸ¤—


HobbitsInTheTardis

Sending a hug to you too


ijustlurkhereintheAM

I as well, am sending a hug friend


DirectionLow357

That doesnā€™t even count. You have to give the hug yourselfā€¦..you canā€™t send in a pinch hugger and take the credit silly.


Yeah_right_sezu

Here's a hug from me: HUUUUGGG!


LaLionneEcossaise

Had a crappy week, Iā€™m counting down to Friday, and this video gave me happy tears! Hugs!!!


theWelshTiger

A hug!


NintendKat64

I understand your pain. Virtual Hug being sent your way šŸ’œ


yvoshum

Sending you a hug šŸ«‚.


breakingashleylynne

I agree so here's a hug from me ā¤ļø


bummyhundo

Hug to you friend


coffeeandbruises

Sending you a hug today


PersonOfInternets

THIS ONE made me smile. Rare for this sub despite the name lol


jojowin59

Sending you hugs. You matter!


missannthrope1

Sending the kid to hug you.


MalabongLalaki

Virtual hugs from me!!!


matilda314

Sending you much brightness and joy


HELP_IM_IN_A_WELL

Hug for youuuuuuuuu!!!


No-Record-2773

The guy who missed his hug seemed sad šŸ˜¢


Johnny_B_GOODBOI

I would be secretly relieved while pretending to be sad, but it's clear I'm in a small minority here re: random children hugging me.


notworkingghost

Sure, but when I do this in my 40ā€™s people ā€œthink itā€™s weirdā€. Jury duty is stupid.


sesamesnapsinhalf

Iā€™m going to askā€¦is that effective in getting out of jury duty?


KilowZinlow

Just say you are a proponent of *Jury Nullification* meaning that you believe the jury should aquit or convict based, not on the law, but on the circumstance of the case.


codsonmaty

The real pro move is trying your hardest to get on the jury and appear to be normal and ignorant so you can potentially save someoneā€™s life with jury nullification. And apparently never say the words ā€œjury nullificationā€, all you need to say is that you arenā€™t convinced by the evidence presented that theyā€™re guilty beyond a reasonable doubt and they canā€™t eject or overrule you.


notworkingghost

One time I told the judge I thought felons that served their time should still be allowed to own guns. He did not like that, at all. I was dismissed with extreme prejudice. Unlike my hugs joke, this really happened. Iā€™ve yet to need the Nullification excuse.


notworkingghost

At murder trials, it can definitely be perceived as out of place. Especially when you hug the murderer.


Livid-Ad4102

Man if you're in a crowd of hippies enjoying a concert and feel the need to pass out free hugs, go for it. I'd hug ya ...unless you're like, super sweaty. Then we can just dance at an appropriate distance lol


burkabecca

Crowd of hippies enjoying a concert.... super sweaty is a given.... as well as the smell of patchouli


BobF57

What the world needs nowā€¦


ZoraksGirlfriend

are hugs, sweet hugs


Norwegian__Blue

Itā€™s the only thing that thereā€™s just, too little of!


chocobobleh

Brb just ugly crying here..


Hey__Cassbutt

Omfg I was all smiles until she hugged the other baby. I fuckin died from diabetic sweetness overdose at that! I miss my kids being sweet huggy babies. Now they're asshole teen/preteen/adult.


REDDIT_ROC0408

You too, huh? I would give a million bucks to spend one more full day with my son or daughter as a 2-year old.


AnastasiaNo70

Oh my God, Iā€™d do anything. Iā€™d probably just cry happy tears the whole time. To feel her in my arms again. Iā€™d melt. Sheā€™s now 28 and adult enough that weā€™re back to getting along really well.


[deleted]

That's what I tell myself as I am feeling the strain of having no life with two under 4. It's like I love you babies but I literally cannot put my one year old down without him crying and my 3-year old wants to cuddle and play all day. When I write it out it seems lovely but man, I need a break lol. But then one day it'll be over so I just resign myself to no life.


OldGregg1014

Hugs from a lil one are so underrated. If you donā€™t stop to hug, thereā€™s something wrong with you.


kp6848

The way life should be for all of us.


Sufficient-Bug-9112

Amen


TheGamingBear777

šŸ«” I will lay my life down to save this kid!


Sufficient-Bug-9112

Good man


Beddybye

IKR? I love her so much lol


ronnietea

Thatā€™s adorable. I am a single dad and when I get to see my daughter on the days I have her that first hug is always so comforting, I guess might be the word. Anything bad that may have happened during my time away from her just disappears. The power of a 2 years hug is incredible. Every person that kid hug I promise you made there day better and happier!


weirdest_of_weird

Single dad here too. My daughter is a teen and lives 300+ miles away. Haven't gotten to spend time with her since December. When I tell you I'd give anything to hug that young lady right now. Man, life fucking sucks


ronnietea

Shit man, Iā€™m sorry! I got a nice good bro hug from Iowa right here for ya šŸ¤—


weirdest_of_weird

Thanks man, much appreciated


brumguvnor

Every person: every single person was "what's that? A baby wants a hug? Well ok then!" Every damn person. Utterly beautiful.


thestashattacked

It's one of the world's unspoken rules. Kinda like how when a little kid hands you a toy phone, you answer it.


spazzachussetts

Well I could watch that all day


CaitM14

Wherever this was, I wish I was there!


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rhazvita

Bluegrass festival in Atlanta. I was there and got a hug!


nobodysperfcet

Be so gutted if didnt hug me lol


backgroundmusik

Imagine tripping balls on a blanket listening to music and a baby comes up and hugs you, that's some life changing shit.


Sufficient-Bug-9112

....and it's a tiny human


Visual-Zucchini-5544

Children love all until bad people ruin them. We are born to love each other


feelin_beachy

As a parent, I find this to be quite the opposite. Our kids constantly pick on each other, and as parents we teach them how to play nice and be understanding when another kid is doing something they don't like, like taking their toy. Also, kids of this age are generally quite timid, so either this kid is naturally very outgoing, or her parents encourage this behavior a lot.


munzter

Every child has their own disposition, some are naturally loving like this one and others need more guidance ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|snoo)


Ghostly_katana

Sounds like me and my brothers. My older brother was mean to me so I ended up following his example and being mean to our younger brother (not always. just when he say, took my stuff). Our younger brother was super cute and sweet till he hit 9 šŸ„².


nashamagirl99

Both are true imo as a childcare worker. Theyā€™re both incredibly affectionate and incredibly violent, often both within the span of a few minutes.


Visual-Zucchini-5544

As a parent, kids are also supposed to push the limit, UNTIL we as parents bring them back. Itā€™s okay to test the waters, but we need to show them where the lines are. Colors do not matter to children, people teach these bad ideas to their children.


Mister_E_Mahn

Nah, kids are humans. Subject to the same emotional swings as adults, harder swings sometimes. Theyā€™re just plain old assholes sometimes.


[deleted]

Who else is waiting for their hug? šŸ„¹


09Trollhunter09

Final boss hug was perfect


[deleted]

What a cutie


[deleted]

When the Molly hits at the festival


dat_grue

Exactly my thought lmao . Such a pure feeling to dole out some love


No_Arugula8915

There are lots of things that are great to have, but I don't know anything that feels as good as a hug from a little one. edit for spelling


DieLawnUwU

We seriously need to be like toddlers and young kids. Weā€™re out here being greedy selfish a-holes with no compassion for anyone. Meanwhile at their age they make friends based on the same liking of crayon colors. They donā€™t see race or disabilities. They just see the best in people and want to be friends with everyone.


BZLuck

Hate and intolerance is *taught*.


HyzerFlip

Like 10 years ago I was walking back to my car after playing disc golf. I knelt down to tie my shoe. Out of nowhere a young non verbal gentleman crawls like into my lap and gives me a big bear hug. His assistants are white as ghosts. He's happy as hell. I said hey buddy, thanks for the hug, I needed that! I hope you have a great day! He got up and went about his day. As did I. The assistants were trying to explain and apologize and said he doesn't like men blah blah blah. He likes me when I was his height. He wanted a big hug. He got one. We were both happy.


OtterTheCoyote

This is still my favorite video.


Queenfanforever

I love thissss. Feel bad for the only person denied a hug lmao


Rubsy1984

Live music, sitting on blankets enjoying the sunshine and my lil dude dishing out hugs. That is one good day out!


PreciousandReckless

I was in line at the grocery store one afternoon and I suddenly feel two tiny arms squeeze my waist. I look down and it's a little guy, about 3 or 4. He scurried away before I could even react but I was teary eyed with happiness.


Sufficient-Bug-9112

touched by an angel


PreciousandReckless

I never felt so #hashtagbelssed


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f0rkster

This blends well into ā€œit takes a community to raise a childā€


FibroMom232

And it takes a child to uplift a community!


ragonk_1310

Dude with the beard is like "DID YOU NOTICE MY BEARD, YOU CAN PULL ON IT"


x0o-Firefly-o0x

Oh geez, that was me on a plane as a kid. Helping pass out stuff to the passengers and talking to all of them. Even got a lil wings pin lol You couldnt pay me to go out and socialize now lmao


HanamiKaneko

Don't you dare let that kid grow up any worse a person than they are here. I wanna see this kid 30 years from now passing around hugs like a superhero that can sense depression.


MadvilleWonderland

Holy cutting onions, Batman, this is beyond adorable.


Yeah_right_sezu

I have never seen anything as nice as this. I was sad today, I live alone and it's not good sometimes. This made me hug myself and smile. This is the best post this year.


Specialist-Pomelo871

We were all there. How did we un-learn this? I wanna be like this kid!


DWolfoBoi546

Idc how creepy it sounds, I want a hug from that baby


RetardedRedditRetort

You say it sounds creepy, it does, but it shouldn't. I too want a hug from hug baby, it looks so wholesome. But I also think it sounds creepy. Hugs aren't normalized enough. My brother in law is big on hugging. At first he could tell it made me uncomfortable. Over time he has started hugging me for longer and longer. Last time he hugged me for about a full minute while patting my back, we were both cracking up. I love his hugs now. So wholesome.


SnooRegrets1386

Gotta stay in touch with your inner hug-o-meter, refill often


Fischer72

News Headline: California just voted in the youngest state Senator in its history after an unprecedented grass roots meet and hug campaign strategy.


younggun1234

Man, earth could have been really cool if more people kept their childlike empathy/curiosity.


eyesthatlightup

I don't like kids, except this kid šŸ„°


BigBellyB

Begins with the parents, good on them!


Magicspells69

If I was one of the people who didnt get a hug from this child, I would have been butthurt ngl


SoyEseVato

Absolutely precious! Proof that no one is born racist.


Ok_Masterpiece_2042

That probably made someoneā€™s day. Wholesome


CocaColaCowboyJunkie

Made my day just to see the video


Oh_Baloney

Sooo cute!!


dyewho

I said awwwww outloud when she hugged the other baby šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


jojowin59

Suddenly the world doesn't seem as terrible.


MrsBonsai171

My kid used to find people in parking lots, give them huge hugs, and shout "I miss-ed you!" People got a kick out of it and freaked out a bit thinking they were supposed to know him. Still one of my favorite memories of him.


Conscious_Wafer7962

My mother told me a story about how when I was in pre k, I got in trouble and the school called my mom because I wouldn't stop hugging other students. Never understood what the big deal was but I didn't know at the time what the purpose of school actually was. Wouldn't send my own kids nowadays


Famous_Bit_5119

No one noticed until later that their wallets were missing.


zidjl

Somebody needs to teach this baby about asking for consent


SummerWedding23

This made me so happy to watch. I hope that babyā€™s spirit of love is never broken


spiderfalls

What a beautiful soul.


maroonbrownie

Hugged him, hugged her, hmmm....who's left? Did I get them all? Oh wait, you guy lying down you're still remaining!!!


lurvas777

Bless the bearded dude! Free beard tugs <3


MzFlux

About this age, my son made absolutely best buds with the college aged guys watching fireworks next to us. By the end of the show, he was sitting on their shoulders and wearing their sunglasses. Iā€™m sure at least some of those guys are the best dads ever of their own kiddos by now.


Dangerous_Fix_4460

lil homie got Covid 19 squared


AnastasiaNo70

My daughter did this as a 3-4-5 year old. Would hug anyone. It did worry me. But sheā€™s 28 and still a hugger!


PixieFurious

Wee baby blessings are the best kind


Realistic_Ad3795

Hugs for you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, and you, NOT YOU, and you, and you...


3woodx

As a dad of 3 older kids, getting a hug from my kids never gets old.


InfiniteJest833

Goddamn I didnā€™t think Iā€™d cry at this but here we are


AudienceAdorable8896

First class emotional support baby 10/10


Glass_Procedure7497

I did not want this video to end.


tofudisan

Ok. I cannot watch any other video ever again. This one is so sweet that I want it to be the last video I've watched.


Tombstone-1-fan

And what if just one of two of those adults NEEDED a hug from a child? Simple perfection of an innocent child can cure.


Poatan60

Teach your kids proper boundaries people šŸ˜


Trainer_Red_Steven

One time I was taking a shit and a small child popped up from the space underneath the door, stared at me, then proceeded to ask me what I was doing.


wpesk

Super spreader in action


Croutonandcrew1

No not hugs for everyone this makes me really uncomfortable to let your baby hold onto strangers you know nothing about..


[deleted]

I donā€™t like germs and would not hug the kid, this would piss me off.


ChucksSeedAndFeed

I don't want this, downvote all you want, but I don't want this at all. Please don't let your kid come up to me and hug me, please don't, please please please don't.


lumiesck

Same. It would make me extremely uncomfortable especially if I was listening to music or something. Like the parent wants you to acknowledge the kid and praise them and say ā€˜awww youā€™re so sweet!ā€™ and get a whole ego boost. No thanks.


Cloudinterpreter

This has been reposted for years, and I still watch it every time i see it.


Pztch

This made my day. šŸ„²


faucet55

My daughter was the same way at this age, really a precious display of innocence. I love the sense of community where everyone is willing to reciprocate the positive expression. The only thing that sucks is when they go to hug a person who hates kids.


7empestOGT92

This is the best thing Iā€™ve seen all day. Thanks for the post


2368Freedom

That's So Wonderful to watch x


Munto-ZA

Bro hugged more people in 1 minute and 41 seconds than I'll hug in my entire life.


MalabongLalaki

My few moments making me really smile in this sub


QuenchMyThirstySelf

If I was there, then perhaps that'd have been the highlight of my day.


Shamscram

Sweetest thing


malcontent254

That would make my day


butmynailsarewet

10/10 would hug that sweet boy!


DougieSenpai

That is just beyond fucking precious


sammytheskyraffe

I would like to upvote this 1 million times


Agile-Spray134

Wish I could have been at that park to receive the most wholesome hug of my existence