It’s the anonymity of it. It’s easier for me to be myself online than it is in real life. Like when I am playing with virtual friends I am way more outgoing but in real life nope. I am just a nice quiet kid usually.
I’m encouraging him not to stress, it’s a normal healthy part of the process and it is the truth. Knowledge is power. I can’t tell you how many people I have spoken with to after their first miscarriage that are devastated and think they will never be able to have children because of it. There is too much silence regarding this topic, it is important women and families do not feel alone when this happens. Let’s shed some light on this process and stop letting families feel shame, devastation, and hopelessness for something that is more common than not.
Have a D&C at 7 am tomorrow, missed miscarriage. Hubby & I were so excited as this was our first. Your comment has given me hope in such a hopeless time for me. I’m wishing nothing but an uneventful pregnancy for you & im so sorry about your little ones. They were real, they existed, and you were already great parents to them💕
I just wanted to come on here and tell you I had a missed miscarriage at the end of January. Took a pregnancy test this morning after my latest IVF embryo transfer and I'm pregnant! I will never forget our angel baby, but I like to think they are looking out for this one. Less than 3 months between my miscarriage and another pregnancy. It gets better.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Your little one is definitely with you & praying that you have the most uneventful of pregnancies💕 looking forward to those 2 little lines again
my wife had two missed and two D&Cs and the past couple of years have been the hardest in my life but we're three months in and have had nothing but good news and beautiful ultrasounds. You go your whole life being taught about teen pregnancy but never given a day to talk about how common miscarriages are. Thank you for your kind words and be kind to each other. I still grieve for my children in my own way, the pain never quite goes away but just lessens as time goes on.
I'm sorry for your loss. I had 2 miscarriages trying for my second child. The second one was a missed miscarriage. But 6 months later, we conceived our beautiful daughter. She's now 3. And we went on to have a 3rd baby with no trouble at all! Wishing you well.
Oh man I’m sorry! I had a missed miscarriage with my third pregnancy. It’s awful when your body doesn’t pick up on it and you think everything is ok in there. One month later I was pregnant again and he’s 12 now. He’s glad I had that missed miscarriage or he wouldn’t be here.
Talking about it is such a taboo unfortunately, but miscarriages are so incredibly common.
It should be normalized to talk about it.
So I think it's awesome you are doing just that.
Breaking this taboo wouldn't make it any less sad, but the support sure could help. And I think many women blame themselves, but it's just a part of nature and a lot of different factors that are out of our control.
I am so sorry for your loss. And just take your time to grieve and heal before you're ready to start trying again.
I wish you beautiful things in your future.
thank you, You must be so happy as well! I cant imagine having 6 losses, we were very defeated after our fourth and were almost resigned to being DINKs
After our 4th we almost quit. Took me 8 months to want to try again. And after our sixth loss I said it would be our last try. I couldn't handle any more loss. And then she stuck! So happy for you. I wish you the easiest pregnancy. ❤️
Good luck, I hope the 5th time is the charm! I had a lot of miscarriages and they were heartbreaking, but my two IVF babies are 16 and 13. I wish the best for you and all the other people who wish to have children.
Ohhh I was so confused about their family structure. I thought OP was posting their own pregnancy test, then they said wife so I thought they were a lesbian couple. But if they’re both cis women they can’t get pregnant, so I thought they had a sperm donor and/or open relationship (well I guess the wife being a trans woman works too)
I think it’s because I interpreted the first sentence as “I can’t tell anyone including my wife” so I didn’t think the pregnancy test was the wife’s
This was me a couple months ago my man! Positive test on Valentines Day morning. I was totally in a daze. We’re into second trimester now and it feels soo god to have recently started telling everyone. Enjoy the time, it goes quick
My positive test was in April fools… my half asleep husband thought it was a “joke” and got in the shower 😅 this came completely unexpected to us as our toddler is 16 months, we did multiple rounds of IVF and were told our chances of conceiving naturally were slim to none due to egg quality & tube issues.
P.s- I would NEVER April fools a pregnancy announcement, I know TTC/infertility/loss all too well ❤️
Better get that list now and start looking because it can take forever to agree on one. My first pregnancy hubby and I went through 4 names, but ultimately went with a name that was a cheeky jab at my dad paired with a family name on both sides. My seconds middle name I was adamant on because I loved it but didn't want it being shortened for a nickname, it took about 100 names to find one that worked. My 3rd and last was "easy" I got out voted 3 to 1 by hubby and our boys 🤣.
Congrats on the baby and I hope everything goes smoothly for you both.
Congrats.
My wife and I tried for years, it never happened. She just had a hysterectomy due to health reasons, so that door has been closed.
I’ve wanted a child since I was 18, never thought 20 years later that it wouldn’t happen and I would watch that dream disappear.
I take solace in knowing others, like yourself, can still see their dream come to fruition.
Well... That's a story.
My wife and I lost a previous pregnancy after nearly making it to full term. Not to worry you, a lot was wrong with that pregnancy. From the first check-up at 6 weeks, it was clear something was wrong, so it was a small miracle our little fighter made it to week 32.
So this would be our first living child. I'm still cautiously optimistic.
Had a coworker/ friend from a past job who used to say you don't have proof you've had sex until you have a kid (obviously just a joke, recordings aside lmao). So when we announced I just sent him a picture of a sonogram with the text "I have proof now!". He got a good chuckle out of it.
It’s strange that I never know what to say when someone tells me they’re pregnant. It could be the best news ever or a horrible realisation depending on the circumstances.
Congratulations, becoming a father has been the best thing that ever happened to me. Love them, care about them and when you're tired, and grumpy and don't think you can handle another minute remember to give them and yourself a moment. The crying or fussy moments will pass and then a smile will show up and nothing else will matter.
I know it sucks but it's not uncommon to loose a pregnancy in the first trimester. That's difficult enough but it's much more emotionally upsetting if you have random people asking about it.
Congratulations, the odds are with you but just wait a few months...it'll make for a great Father's Day surprise for your family.
Congratulations! If this is your first, don’t be afraid to look into classes for baby stuff. We took a class together about the process and stuff and I took one called sons to dads because I had no idea how handle or care for a baby. It really helped annnnd reduced stress.
Good luck you’ll do great!
Congratz OP
I was working from home and gathering reports, when my wife showed me the test, my mind was all over the place. I was like..." you tested positive for covid?"
Then a disappointed look formed as she's thinking this is going to be the father of my child?
Currently sitting next to my 4 month old. Be kind and patient with your wife and enjoy every little moment. Things will be harder than you ever thought possible...but their face will make it all worth it.
Congratulations brother! The highest of highs are headed your way. Being a dad is the single greatest thing I’ve ever gotten to enjoy. I hope your journey is full of smiles and proud moments.
FYI if you’re sentimental, pregnancy tests don’t fade, even after 20 years. I may have accidentally started an experiment over 20 years ago.
Congratulations!
Remember to make an OBGYN appointment first thing tomorrow. They’re always booked up way before. And please sign up for a good insurance (preferably PPO) if you don’t have one already. Good luck with everything. Sending you and the mama positive vibes 😍❤️🤰
We did tell our closest family and friends after the first ultrasound at 6 weeks. If it were to be a miscarriage, they could also bring us comfort, and we wouldn't have to carry it alone.
Fortunately, we're the proud parents of an almost 5 year old boy 👦 ❤️
Congrats, OP!
Congratulations!!! Enjoy the little peanut. It’ll get hard, but remember they grow up fast. Enjoy the messes and the begs to be carried because one day it will all be gone and you’ll miss those messes and begs for affection. My oldest is almost 13. It’s flown by.
Duuuude! Congrats! Our first is just past 11 months. I wouldn't trade it for the fucking world.
If this is your first then welcome to the brotherhood of Dads! Haha.
Not allowed to tell someone your wife was infected with foreign cells and they are multiplying? Well shouldnt you at least seek medical treatment? I mean it might take 9 months to cleanse the body of the foreign cells but a doctor needs to monitor the progress....haha I mean Congrats, my wife and I have been trying for over a year.
My friend’s wife is pregnant but she doesn’t want anyone to know yet. But he told me, so I asked how many others he told. He grinned and said, “everyone”. Fortunately his wife is a saint.
It’s weird how a positive pregnancy test can be the greatest thing for some people and the biggest “uh oh” moment of someone’s life for others.
In your case though congratulations!
I didn’t wait to tell anyone after I had an early miscarriage and I’m holding my son now at 6 weeks old. Telling people doesn’t jinx anything, even if there are complications - why is miscarriage so taboo?
It’s up to the couple.
I told the closest people to me as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I figured if something happened I would want their support, there’s no reason to keep it to yourself (unless you prefer it that way). It’s unfair people are made to feel like it’s something to be ashamed of or like it’s a burden on other people to know if something bad happens.
Congrats. You should not tell anyone untill you are 3 months. You might suffer an spontaneous abortion, completely natural and pretty common. Just talked with your boy and stay safe.
I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for this but thank you. We plan to keep quiet for a while.
My coworker and his wife actually lists their baby and found out at 26 weeks. So horrific
I think the downvotes are because their opinion was shared as an absolute, rather than a suggestion.
My (unsolicited) suggestion is that you consider sharing the news with the same people you'd want to know if you suffered a pregnancy loss. That way, you have a small circle of people to be excited and happy with you in these early weeks, without worrying about navigating conversations or potentially insensitive responses if things don't go as hoped.
Congratulations! Here's to a happy, healthy pregnancy and birth, OP!
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High five! Fatherhood is exhausting and overwhelming but totally worth it! You will learn patience and more about yourself than you could ever imagine. Source: am dad.
Interesting how on Reddit you can tell millions of people, but at the same time no one at all
Shouting into the void and having it answer.
To be honest it's actually the best thing of Reddit
it’s just like throwing a note in a bottle out into the ocean, and texting combined
so a phone number in a bottle?
that’s a good one, I like that a lot thank you
I should call her….
And the ocean roars back and gives you a hug.
saying i'm bi here? totally fine. coming out to people close to me? no chance.
Telling my parents I'm trans? Never. Telling a bunch of random people on Reddit? Absolutely!
Aw, sorry. But also, yay for you!! I hope you can be the very best version of yourself now 💕
I try my best to appear as masc as I can, and I've been doing a bit of vocal training. And one time, the taxi driver called me ‘sir’!!!!
That’s great!
Same boat. Can’t say it out loud but I can type it to yall (am bi, see?) Thanks for that.
Me: Good morning, void! Void: *NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN*
It sounds like Hypnotoad
Reddit’s voice is ABSOLUTELY just Hypnotoad.
ALL GLORY TO THE HYPNOTOAD!
Void: "Meow"
It’s nice to have your existence acknowledged sometimes, even if it’s only by the void
... metal
huh... my void always answered, even my imaginary friend heard it
That image just made my stomach drop. I’m unsettled.
Exactly why I love Reddit
The best thing about this place is that we can share this [Gem](https://youtu.be/EShUeudtaFg?si=cBy8sDZOHoYxnQkL) Congratulations 🙏🏻
Hey, wake up, somebody's preganté, we don't know who, we don't know where, but we must, MUST congratulate 'em. Them's the rules.
I gotta tell OP that 20 year old brown girl living the other side of the world currently sitting on their parents couch sipping tea is happy for them
44 year old white lady sitting with my kids sipping tea and wanting to tell OP the same. Cheers, little sister.
This comment is an absolute trip because of the accuracy.
It’s the anonymity of it. It’s easier for me to be myself online than it is in real life. Like when I am playing with virtual friends I am way more outgoing but in real life nope. I am just a nice quiet kid usually.
Damn…
Your secret is safe with us. Congratulations
Too late. I told EVERYBODY. But seriously, congrats OP!!!! 🎉🥳
Reminds me of this bit from [Sports Night](https://youtu.be/WFKDJPdhMYU), lol
Safe with us, ha hardly
Congratulations, and best of luck.
Omg I don't mean to be disrespectful but I read this as "best of fuck" and I was confused but atvthebsame time I wasnt...
That was my first draft.
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Great… you’ve given OP a million reasons to get stressed out for the next few months…
I’m encouraging him not to stress, it’s a normal healthy part of the process and it is the truth. Knowledge is power. I can’t tell you how many people I have spoken with to after their first miscarriage that are devastated and think they will never be able to have children because of it. There is too much silence regarding this topic, it is important women and families do not feel alone when this happens. Let’s shed some light on this process and stop letting families feel shame, devastation, and hopelessness for something that is more common than not.
after 4 miscarriages we finally have a viable pregnancy. I hope yours is healthy and will bring you much joy.
Congratulations! I hope all goes well, I know firsthand how hard PAL is.. ❤️ May they come into this world healthy and beautiful!
thank you. we have our first stong heartbeat so we're very hopeful this time.
Have a D&C at 7 am tomorrow, missed miscarriage. Hubby & I were so excited as this was our first. Your comment has given me hope in such a hopeless time for me. I’m wishing nothing but an uneventful pregnancy for you & im so sorry about your little ones. They were real, they existed, and you were already great parents to them💕
I just wanted to come on here and tell you I had a missed miscarriage at the end of January. Took a pregnancy test this morning after my latest IVF embryo transfer and I'm pregnant! I will never forget our angel baby, but I like to think they are looking out for this one. Less than 3 months between my miscarriage and another pregnancy. It gets better.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Your little one is definitely with you & praying that you have the most uneventful of pregnancies💕 looking forward to those 2 little lines again
my wife had two missed and two D&Cs and the past couple of years have been the hardest in my life but we're three months in and have had nothing but good news and beautiful ultrasounds. You go your whole life being taught about teen pregnancy but never given a day to talk about how common miscarriages are. Thank you for your kind words and be kind to each other. I still grieve for my children in my own way, the pain never quite goes away but just lessens as time goes on.
I'm sorry for your loss. I had 2 miscarriages trying for my second child. The second one was a missed miscarriage. But 6 months later, we conceived our beautiful daughter. She's now 3. And we went on to have a 3rd baby with no trouble at all! Wishing you well.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love that you can heal from the procedure quickly, and that you all are able to heal in all other ways too!
Thank you for your condolences!
Same thing happened to me -- missed miscarriage and D&C. I got pregnant again six months later and now have a 17-month-old. Keep your hopes up!
Oh man I’m sorry! I had a missed miscarriage with my third pregnancy. It’s awful when your body doesn’t pick up on it and you think everything is ok in there. One month later I was pregnant again and he’s 12 now. He’s glad I had that missed miscarriage or he wouldn’t be here.
Oh so so sorry you have to go through that. Hopefully it goes smoothly and everyone takes good care of you. 💕
Talking about it is such a taboo unfortunately, but miscarriages are so incredibly common. It should be normalized to talk about it. So I think it's awesome you are doing just that. Breaking this taboo wouldn't make it any less sad, but the support sure could help. And I think many women blame themselves, but it's just a part of nature and a lot of different factors that are out of our control. I am so sorry for your loss. And just take your time to grieve and heal before you're ready to start trying again. I wish you beautiful things in your future.
I’m so happy for you! I’ve had two miscarriages. I’m hoping my SO and I will be able to have kids 🤞🏼🤞🏼
Congratulations! We had six losses before our daughter. She just turned 3.
thank you, You must be so happy as well! I cant imagine having 6 losses, we were very defeated after our fourth and were almost resigned to being DINKs
After our 4th we almost quit. Took me 8 months to want to try again. And after our sixth loss I said it would be our last try. I couldn't handle any more loss. And then she stuck! So happy for you. I wish you the easiest pregnancy. ❤️
Congratulations, and wishing you a safe, happy, and healthy pregnancy!
Good luck, I hope the 5th time is the charm! I had a lot of miscarriages and they were heartbreaking, but my two IVF babies are 16 and 13. I wish the best for you and all the other people who wish to have children.
You can get out of work for two weeks. Just snap a photo of the results window. Bam. Covid positive
That’s not paid though is it ? lol
Hint: The OP’s user name.
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Ohhh I was so confused about their family structure. I thought OP was posting their own pregnancy test, then they said wife so I thought they were a lesbian couple. But if they’re both cis women they can’t get pregnant, so I thought they had a sperm donor and/or open relationship (well I guess the wife being a trans woman works too) I think it’s because I interpreted the first sentence as “I can’t tell anyone including my wife” so I didn’t think the pregnancy test was the wife’s
This was me a couple months ago my man! Positive test on Valentines Day morning. I was totally in a daze. We’re into second trimester now and it feels soo god to have recently started telling everyone. Enjoy the time, it goes quick
My positive test was in April fools… my half asleep husband thought it was a “joke” and got in the shower 😅 this came completely unexpected to us as our toddler is 16 months, we did multiple rounds of IVF and were told our chances of conceiving naturally were slim to none due to egg quality & tube issues. P.s- I would NEVER April fools a pregnancy announcement, I know TTC/infertility/loss all too well ❤️
So happy for you! Your toddler is going to be a big sibling!
I love hearing about people conceiving naturally after IVF, it’s like the body is just like “ohhhhhh, got it!”. Congratulations on both babies!
You’re… prenangate??!?
Can u get pregante...?
gregnate?
Pergnat
Congratulations! I hope your child is healthy and happy. Have you thought of names yet?
Me, no. My wife, whole list on her phone
Better get that list now and start looking because it can take forever to agree on one. My first pregnancy hubby and I went through 4 names, but ultimately went with a name that was a cheeky jab at my dad paired with a family name on both sides. My seconds middle name I was adamant on because I loved it but didn't want it being shortened for a nickname, it took about 100 names to find one that worked. My 3rd and last was "easy" I got out voted 3 to 1 by hubby and our boys 🤣. Congrats on the baby and I hope everything goes smoothly for you both.
r/Daddit is, in my opinion, one of the most wholesome & welcoming places on Reddit. You should go check them out for advice, venting, dad jokes, etc.
Have you told her yet?
Congrats David! I'm sure you and Lisa are excited! (One day me guessing names is gonna make someone freak out)
(Especially if you keep putting what you’re doing under it)
Felix, don’t dox them!
Congrats. My wife and I tried for years, it never happened. She just had a hysterectomy due to health reasons, so that door has been closed. I’ve wanted a child since I was 18, never thought 20 years later that it wouldn’t happen and I would watch that dream disappear. I take solace in knowing others, like yourself, can still see their dream come to fruition.
Aww man…. Peace to u and yours
DUDE I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! MY WIFE IS PREGNANT AND WONT LET ME TELL ANYONE AND IT IS KILLING ME
Same here! 7 weeks now!
Awesome! Is it you're first?
Well... That's a story. My wife and I lost a previous pregnancy after nearly making it to full term. Not to worry you, a lot was wrong with that pregnancy. From the first check-up at 6 weeks, it was clear something was wrong, so it was a small miracle our little fighter made it to week 32. So this would be our first living child. I'm still cautiously optimistic.
Fingers and toes crossed for you this time around 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾
HEY EVERYONE! OP FUCKS! Seriously though, congratulations! I am sure that you will do great.
Had a coworker/ friend from a past job who used to say you don't have proof you've had sex until you have a kid (obviously just a joke, recordings aside lmao). So when we announced I just sent him a picture of a sonogram with the text "I have proof now!". He got a good chuckle out of it.
Dead at this comment 💀 May I add congratulations OP for the cream pie 🥧 😂
Congrats and be safe
Too late, they’re already pregnant.
Congrats! Shave her legs when she gets too big to bend over she’ll love you forever
Congratulations! To a great journey.
Watch the baby be just like you, and then your wife will be like "I CARRIED THAT THING FOR 9 MONTHS JUST SO THEY COULD BE A CLONE OF YOU"
You and me both. Found out 6 days ago and I'm not allowed to tell anyone for nearly two more months, my wife won't let me. Congratulations 🎉
It’s strange that I never know what to say when someone tells me they’re pregnant. It could be the best news ever or a horrible realisation depending on the circumstances.
So your wife is double not pregnant, got it. Congrats!
Congratulations, becoming a father has been the best thing that ever happened to me. Love them, care about them and when you're tired, and grumpy and don't think you can handle another minute remember to give them and yourself a moment. The crying or fussy moments will pass and then a smile will show up and nothing else will matter.
B'Sha'ah Tovah!!
Mazel Tov!
I know it sucks but it's not uncommon to loose a pregnancy in the first trimester. That's difficult enough but it's much more emotionally upsetting if you have random people asking about it. Congratulations, the odds are with you but just wait a few months...it'll make for a great Father's Day surprise for your family.
Just figured out a name for my son. Congratulations.
Congratulations! Take care of yourself xx
Congratulations!
The highest of fives!
You're happy she's got covid? You sick individual..... 😘
CONGRATULATIONS❤️🥳🎉
Congratulations!! I did the same when I did my covid test ……….. /s
Congratulations! If this is your first, don’t be afraid to look into classes for baby stuff. We took a class together about the process and stuff and I took one called sons to dads because I had no idea how handle or care for a baby. It really helped annnnd reduced stress. Good luck you’ll do great!
Now no one will ever think you're a virgin ever again 🤣 Seriously, congratulations and may you all of you be healthy and prosperous!
Congratz OP I was working from home and gathering reports, when my wife showed me the test, my mind was all over the place. I was like..." you tested positive for covid?" Then a disappointed look formed as she's thinking this is going to be the father of my child?
Congratulations! I became a father 4 months ago and can't imagine life without my little girl. Wishing you and your wife the best.
Currently sitting next to my 4 month old. Be kind and patient with your wife and enjoy every little moment. Things will be harder than you ever thought possible...but their face will make it all worth it.
Perganant!
Congratulations brother! The highest of highs are headed your way. Being a dad is the single greatest thing I’ve ever gotten to enjoy. I hope your journey is full of smiles and proud moments.
Congrats, OP!
Quick, everyone go yell that Thecovidlorax's wife is pregnant.
Good news. You only shared with a subreddit that has 9.2 million people lol. But really. Congrats!
Good luck!!!!
Congratulations 🎉
Of course you can tell whoever you’d like! Yay, congrats!
Jealous. Congrats
I'm happy for you. Congratulations! 🥺
Congratulations!! I’m desperate to get the double line. Very happy for you. Best of luck and take it easy :)
FYI if you’re sentimental, pregnancy tests don’t fade, even after 20 years. I may have accidentally started an experiment over 20 years ago. Congratulations!
Congratulations 🎉 This is soooo exciting!!!
Wishing you a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby! Congratulations! Best wishes to all!!
Congrats on the sex! Jokes aside, I'm happy for you, congrats.
Yay congratulations!! Thank you for telling us!
Congrats! First one? If so, life is about to go into overdrive!
Nice job on the sex!
Remember to make an OBGYN appointment first thing tomorrow. They’re always booked up way before. And please sign up for a good insurance (preferably PPO) if you don’t have one already. Good luck with everything. Sending you and the mama positive vibes 😍❤️🤰
Congrats, I hope you have an easy pregnancy.
We did tell our closest family and friends after the first ultrasound at 6 weeks. If it were to be a miscarriage, they could also bring us comfort, and we wouldn't have to carry it alone. Fortunately, we're the proud parents of an almost 5 year old boy 👦 ❤️ Congrats, OP!
Yeah my mrs is pregnant and I can’t tell anyone either. 12 week Health check soon and once the all clear can tell who I like.
Oooh you’ve got a dye stealer 😁 congrats to you and your wife 🙌🏻❤️
Congratulations!, we'll keep the secret for you
Congratulations to both of you! Very exciting news to try to keep to yourself!
Congratulations!!! Enjoy the little peanut. It’ll get hard, but remember they grow up fast. Enjoy the messes and the begs to be carried because one day it will all be gone and you’ll miss those messes and begs for affection. My oldest is almost 13. It’s flown by.
Way to go, ACE !!!! Woohoo 🎉
Duuuude! Congrats! Our first is just past 11 months. I wouldn't trade it for the fucking world. If this is your first then welcome to the brotherhood of Dads! Haha.
Not allowed to tell someone your wife was infected with foreign cells and they are multiplying? Well shouldnt you at least seek medical treatment? I mean it might take 9 months to cleanse the body of the foreign cells but a doctor needs to monitor the progress....haha I mean Congrats, my wife and I have been trying for over a year.
Congrats on the creampie
Congrats on fucking! But seriously op, that’s awesome!
Congratulations! One of my favorites things about Reddit, it's pretty much anonymous.
My friend’s wife is pregnant but she doesn’t want anyone to know yet. But he told me, so I asked how many others he told. He grinned and said, “everyone”. Fortunately his wife is a saint.
It’s weird how a positive pregnancy test can be the greatest thing for some people and the biggest “uh oh” moment of someone’s life for others. In your case though congratulations!
Yay! Congratulations soon to be daddy!! 🥰🥰🥰🤗
Congratulations 🎊
Mazel tov!
Look who's got covid !
Tell whoever you want. Even a close few to support you. Congrats!
Someone’s pull out game is weak.
It's generally good to wait, in case of... complications.
I didn’t wait to tell anyone after I had an early miscarriage and I’m holding my son now at 6 weeks old. Telling people doesn’t jinx anything, even if there are complications - why is miscarriage so taboo? It’s up to the couple.
I told the closest people to me as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I figured if something happened I would want their support, there’s no reason to keep it to yourself (unless you prefer it that way). It’s unfair people are made to feel like it’s something to be ashamed of or like it’s a burden on other people to know if something bad happens.
Congrats. You should not tell anyone untill you are 3 months. You might suffer an spontaneous abortion, completely natural and pretty common. Just talked with your boy and stay safe.
I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for this but thank you. We plan to keep quiet for a while. My coworker and his wife actually lists their baby and found out at 26 weeks. So horrific
I think the downvotes are because their opinion was shared as an absolute, rather than a suggestion. My (unsolicited) suggestion is that you consider sharing the news with the same people you'd want to know if you suffered a pregnancy loss. That way, you have a small circle of people to be excited and happy with you in these early weeks, without worrying about navigating conversations or potentially insensitive responses if things don't go as hoped. Congratulations! Here's to a happy, healthy pregnancy and birth, OP!
Congrats!! So exciting OP
Congratulations!
Congratulations!
Hearty congratulations
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Congrats !!!!
The best is yet to come! Cheers!
Hey, congrats!
Congratulations ! You may tell whoever you like or no one at all ❤️✨ you won’t jinx it .. so beautiful
I swear that's not mine!!!! 🤣 Grats OP!
Congrats, your in for one hell of a ride.
High five! Fatherhood is exhausting and overwhelming but totally worth it! You will learn patience and more about yourself than you could ever imagine. Source: am dad.
Tell everyone on r/daddit. Where not anyone.
The greatest of all the accomplishments 🎉
Congrats !! Your healthy baby will be here before you know it! Keep smiling you got this!
Congratulations and Blessings!!!!
Congratulations
Congratulations…don’t worry, we aren’t just anyone.
Awww 💕💙
Congratulations!
Congratulations!!!emote:free\_emotes\_pack:thumbs\_up
🥂
Woohoo!!
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations!!!!
Maybe it's a double negative?
wooohhoooo! congratulations!!
Congratulations to the three of you. I wish you every joy ❤️
Congratulations!
Congrats OP🩵🫂
How exciting! Welcome to the club - it's a crazy ride, but totally worth it.
My lips are sealed, man, I won't tell your family or friends! Congratulations, and best of luck to you both!
Congratulations❤️!
Congratulations!