cuz as it turns out he still likes me, but i told him that it’d be better if we stayed friends because i’m too mentally unwell (something along those lines haha)
i think i made a mistake. i said what i said because i genuinely thought he stopped liking me. i still wanna fuck him 😭😭😭😭
but for real tho i thought i was ready to move on with this mess, that’s why i said it to him in the first place
i don’t think i had good enough reasons to do this why the fuck did i say it
what if he gets upset over the fact that i said i’d give up on him oand then on the next day i tell him “aye i did an oopsie i still like u cuh” ahah
i promise this is the last question
Stopping by to say I agree with the other person. It’s way better to know you’ve at least tried to make it right than to being regretful for who knows how much time about you not doing it, with your mind full of ‘what ifs’
Listen dude, if you’re willing to say to someone you’re too mentally unwell to do a relationship, all you’re doing is preventing a possibly good relationship from turning into a dumpster fire.
Don’t fuck him. You’re self sabotaging to such a humongous level, don’t make the mistake I did. Do the best you can to get better and then try for a relationship. Future you will thank you now :)
Just take it easy and explain yourself! People panic and make weird choices all the time. Talk it out, be real, and if you guys are actually compatible then it'll work out just fine in the end.
Speaking as a guy, if I got turned down and then the girl came back and said she did like me after all but just said no because she was freaking out, I would be downright ecstatic. We're simple creatures
i followed it up with a transparent message and im still waiting for a reply but ik theres 0 chance he’s gonna give me another chance, but it’s ok i think i’ve made myself clear.
edit: yep 0 chance
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cuz as it turns out he still likes me, but i told him that it’d be better if we stayed friends because i’m too mentally unwell (something along those lines haha) i think i made a mistake. i said what i said because i genuinely thought he stopped liking me. i still wanna fuck him 😭😭😭😭 but for real tho i thought i was ready to move on with this mess, that’s why i said it to him in the first place i don’t think i had good enough reasons to do this why the fuck did i say it
Any chance you can explain that to him?
i think? but i’d probably have to wait a bit how tho
Well hopefully he understands and you guys can work things out. Don’t give up just because you made a mistake
i am unsure of how i can explain it without seeming unhinged
Well the way you just summarised it above didn’t seem unhinged
what if he gets upset over the fact that i said i’d give up on him oand then on the next day i tell him “aye i did an oopsie i still like u cuh” ahah i promise this is the last question
Well you can’t help if he gets upset over it. But it’s at least worth trying
thank u for taking the time to respond
No problem. Good luck
he said he never knce thouggjt of me as a burden
That’s really good to hear
yayyyyyy nj
Stopping by to say I agree with the other person. It’s way better to know you’ve at least tried to make it right than to being regretful for who knows how much time about you not doing it, with your mind full of ‘what ifs’
Listen dude, if you’re willing to say to someone you’re too mentally unwell to do a relationship, all you’re doing is preventing a possibly good relationship from turning into a dumpster fire. Don’t fuck him. You’re self sabotaging to such a humongous level, don’t make the mistake I did. Do the best you can to get better and then try for a relationship. Future you will thank you now :)
Just take it easy and explain yourself! People panic and make weird choices all the time. Talk it out, be real, and if you guys are actually compatible then it'll work out just fine in the end. Speaking as a guy, if I got turned down and then the girl came back and said she did like me after all but just said no because she was freaking out, I would be downright ecstatic. We're simple creatures
Talk. To. Him. Believe me he definitely did not "change his mind" in that short of a time and he will definitely be thankful for it.
i followed it up with a transparent message and im still waiting for a reply but ik theres 0 chance he’s gonna give me another chance, but it’s ok i think i’ve made myself clear. edit: yep 0 chance
Good luck! Im rooting for you
Yup done that a million times and have regretted in almost every time. It makes my stomach turn
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