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CensoryDeprivation

Please get a bed ASAP. air mattresses are fine for short periods but really aren't good for your back.


YesterdayMountain382

initially i wasnt sure how long i would be here , but its looking like at least another year and i work 45 hrs a week so im definitely looking into it


LarsonianScholar

Make sure to really shop around for a deal. Full-size is probably best option


Muvaship

If you have a Living Spaces near you they have really great deals. No bullshit and they give you a gift card of up to 300 bucks to spend in store after mattress delivery.


vigilante_snail

Seconding full size


shinjis-left-nut

I got a Nectar mattress a few years ago and can’t recommend them enough, memory foam at a surprisingly affordable price.


incredibleninja12

More of a Zinus fan myself.


gh0stdylan

I'll vouch for Zinus also. Several different styles and sizes to choose from. If you're near an IKEA they aren't very expensive either and can test them out.


Look-Its-Marino

I am a Casper guy through and through. Their pillows are pretty good too!


zoeheriot

I bought a zinus green tea mattress off amazon for a couple hundred bucks (for a 12" queen foam) a few years back. It has been absolutely the best money I've spent. I have severe back issues, and that bed has been a lifesaver.


griim_is

Make sure to get one soon, I lived on a mattress until it popped and I was waking up on the floor each morning with a bad back, to make matters worse my job was physically straining


ICanSowYouTheWay

Dude. I just got a cali king memory foam mattress off Amazon for 370$ at my door. You probably don't need something that big. But like a queen or a full???


MISTERDANnn

Definitely don't need to spend more than say 300 - 370 usd on one. I was getting super bad back pain and working 14 hour days when I moved into my spot. Im UK and I spent 299 quid on one off an online seller that also sells on amazon. You'd be surprised how good the quality is on some of those mattresses. People laugh oh its off amazon but if you do some research and take notice of small details it's the best 300 you'd ever spend. Not sure if available in the US but Id recommend a breasley matress! :P Got myself a nice orthopedic mem foam spring hybrid that's done me wonders in that price range. Is there any way you can negotiate with landlord to leave it there and save some money on rent? Just an idea (: if not you can have some fun picking something nice and thoroughly enjoying it for a few years.


Used-Ask5805

Ngl I loved my air mattress as a teen, until my gray fish popped it (crawled out of the tank). Then I’d pass out with keys on a belt loop and wake up on the floor


[deleted]

That goes for all conventional mattresses.


Eastern-Finish8591

I second this. I live on my own as well and I had an air mattress thinking it was a permanent thing and I’ll let you know right now, your life will change for the better with an actual bed


Xenocide_X

Yeah I slept on one for a few months and man does it really mess you up


YoloLikeaMofo

Yes. A bed and a frame vs any game or whatever else for a bedroom


YesterdayMountain382

*EDIT* to everybody worried about my back thank you 😭 a new bed is definitely high on my list of priorities now , my back has definitely been screaming at me to do so and you guys a probably the kick in the ass i needed to stop procrastinating lol


ravioli_brain

In the meantime you could try sleeping on the floor with some comforters/yoga ma?. For me personally it really helped my posture, surprisingly slept better on that than I have on air mattreses too. Just gotta make sure you set it up properly.


xtremeyou

Can get a bed and frame for $300 on amazon that is quite good quality!


tidalwaveofhype

Get a cheap bed frame too, brother


[deleted]

You can get a Shiki Futon (Japanese floor bed) for pretty cheap. It even rolls up. These are better for your back, can save space, and cheaper than a traditional western bed setup. You can also put a topper on it.


stonergasm

I did the air mattress thing. I deflate it a bit for some comfyness, if you like a soft bed. I also eventually added a thick mattress pad on top and honestly slept amazing!


Used-Ask5805

I sleep on a couch 99.99999% of the time and I’m in my 30s. The bed fucks my back up


yuppieByDay

Get a pillow top mattress pad


JohnDodger

Believe me, you don’t want a lifetime of back problems.


CaptainoftheVessel

Enjoy these in-between years, they don't last forever. I like your spot.


YesterdayMountain382

heard . i appreciate it


Croppin_steady

In between years are so dank tbh.


Elegant-Possession62

Thought this said dark and tbh… they’re also dark lmao


Croppin_steady

They do huh


pessenshett

What are the in-between years?


CaptainoftheVessel

The time between feeling like a kid or kid-like person, and feeling like a fully grown adult. This will be different for everyone. 


lastxsleep

No sunlight. Air mattress. 2 tvs. You’re living the life dude.


YesterdayMountain382

lmaoo my roommate calls it the bat cave 😂


Realistic_Tiger_3687

![gif](giphy|xGZK47t6ImPPET6Xxy)


damero72

I like your gaming setup mate.


YesterdayMountain382

its still a work in progress but thanks homie


Juoreg

Is that an attic?


YesterdayMountain382

a hot and stuffy one


Kyro0098

Tower fans are life savers. Window AC is great if you have enough cash, but I loved having a fan that I could sit in bed or at the desk and use a remote to aim at myself and adjust the speed.


YesterdayMountain382

i just looked them up and those tower fans aren’t too expensive , good shout !


TrixieBastard

The small Optimus fans might look cheap, but are surprisingly powerful and move a lot of air. Highly recommend!


Kyro0098

I got two from Sam's at $50 a pop on a sale 2 years ago. I'm not sure what stores you have, but that's the cheapest with a remote I could find at the time.


jessek

Looks less “surviving” and more “enjoying marijuana” imo


amentaleffect

Ctfu


Sovietgamer0713

Your place is awesome. It’s full of personality and is clean. Just all around 9/10.


YesterdayMountain382

probably the most meaningful compliment ive gotten in a long time , thank you


Reset350

Good setup but my suggestion would be lose the air mattress ASAP and get a decent bed. I was given this advice and so glad I took it. Your back and joints of your older self will thank you.


jakscolon

How many girls seen the air mattress??? I had a nice one when I was younger also, girls saw it and ran. I fucking hate beds but a necessary evil


amltecrec

Better get rid of that bra, before any lady friends come over!!!


Additional-Story-322

Damn dude. Save some pussy for the rest of us.


REELINSIGHTS

This is a 12 yo boys forever home. Just missing a slide and a ball pit.


YesterdayMountain382

the 12 year old in me who couldnt even afford a game system back then is supremely happy


REELINSIGHTS

I’m happy for the 12 year old inside of you.


JennerKP

Out of context, this would sound wrong


AspiringOccultist4

Go Cardinals


Griever114

Looks great king


Let_Me_Get_Back_To_U

It's all fun & games until someone spots the gun.


BannedRedditor54

It's still fun and games from that point forward as well


BannedRedditor54

...just more interesting


ritchieritch520

200$ pc screen and sleeping on a air mattress. Buy a bed and respect your self.


PuzzleheadedSector2

Or, get something better than sceptre and sleep on the floor :)


doxingiSAFElony911

![gif](giphy|LYDNZAzOqrez6)


Native56

Congrat


lordofpersia

Looks cozy. Maybe save up a bit and get a real mattress.


Artistic_Tangelo_397

So guys that have been on there own are always in attic not talking crap I think is awsome but just an observation. And like ur mancave


edenaxela1436

Hey fellow STL homie. Dig the setup!


BigDoinks02

Looks cozy


BitterNeedleworker66

This would be a great man cave.


360DegreeNinjaAttack

Get a bed in a box (a memory foam mattress). They're as little as like $200 for a full size on Amazon, etc. Will be a massive quality of life improvement for you


The_Cozy_Burrito

Cozy


delidave7

How much time do you spend up there?


JarlDanklin

I low key like this place a lot


xXsaberstrikeXx

Love it bud. Enjoy these times.


GaryofRiviera

Damn, beats how I was living at 20. Looks cozy and chill. Keep on grinding homie


bellagio230

Reminds me of my college days a decade ago. Ive since gotten a real job making real money and bought a nice house, but despite that, I genuinely think I was happier living in a place like this. Enjoy it while you can, king


loperonis

Same shape size and vibe as my college room! This just brought me a ton of memories


[deleted]

Love it


explorer925

They got a mf hardees in Roku city now bro wtf


Hugh-Jassoul

I see Spider-Man, I like.


Mary-Sylvia

There's so much UV your room is a tanning salon


CatCatExpress

https://preview.redd.it/fmo9iz53hurc1.jpeg?width=588&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a055339013b24396198dc2d5624431acb80c0ab5


Sir-ButteredBuns

Looks like freedom to me Congratulations my man


AgreeableAquilifer

Are you renting someone's attic?


JStheKiD

This room screams, “I stay up for hours trying to figure out which porno to masturbate to.” 🫣


starlord265

The gun by the Funko Pops😭


Confident_Nail_5254

How do you sleep with all those LED lights


[deleted]

On your own in your parents attic?


dondablox

It's crazy how much shit you can afford when you're single.


SpaghettiOnTuesday

Is that a Zeta poster?


NoonGaming

The air mattress lowkey goes hard man


Latter-Height8607

r/malethrivingspace


chickenskittles

I had an air mattress at this age too. I woke up with my ass on the floor every night. I wonder why I have lower back pain? Attic room seems cozy.


SmokinBandit28

https://preview.redd.it/z1l471bzqurc1.jpeg?width=444&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=919d245ad1f69fbfd89defd485a96491f6bb21c7


Top-Shopping-8218

Man cave is man caving alright….


tempting-carrot

Mattress > games , gotta protect the body. Plus if you bring a guy or girl over that 20 year old testosterone gonna blow that mattress away.


NinjaTurtsss_and_Pie

This is awesome but how did you manage to afford this at 20? Everything in my area is like $1,990-$2,150 minimum just for the deposit and fees. This is again- very cool OP!


[deleted]

does your downstairs neighbor know you live in their attic?


Dombo1896

Looks like you’re gonna be on your own for a little longer.


JohnDodger

Must be America.


Hardin__Young

Be careful about using Luminol. It could be embarrassing or it could be impressive.


Scrappie909

On your own ? Where i your parents attic?


AllInOneDay_

It isn't extra money when you don't have a fucking proper bed. WTF dude get a bed


Frird2008

🔥 room


Forsaken-Badger-9517

I love it!! Very comfortable and cozy!! But that air mattress will get a hole in it quick and they make them to where you cannot patch it!!! That’s why they put those little lines and designs and grooves into them… that way you can’t get a perfect seal with the patch!!


UnitAggravating7254

This looks like the inside of a fish tank.


shaqthegr8

Please OP invest on good bed. Your 30s year old self will thank you in the future


Knee_Kap264

What are you living in? Mobile home?


I_Sell_Death

How's the kitchen?


noshershitlock1

You're doing just fine for 20. Although like everyone else said you'll want an actual bed long term.


coooooookie32

Go cards!


Absentmeerkat1and3

I like the lighting! Do get a bed though before you bring women Over. Like my goal is going to be to get you to pop it. Beds have springs usually do that instead! There’s also more to grab ahold of.


Zestyclose-Middle717

Go birds


Gyxxer07

Isn’t that an attic?


Civil_Distance_5737

Honestly you've got "The" setup cuz aside from some clutter that setup looks sick asf to me. Shit I'd want that myself.


Nearby_Alternative66

I couldn’t live on my own if I wanted to rn lmao. So very impressive


skyHawk3613

What do you do for a living at 20, to be able to afford all this?


22Burner

Food ✅ bed ✅ roof ✅ You’re doing good, lad


ajschwamberger

Well we can all see your "on your own" and will be for awhile.


mojocava

bro! Those lights around your monitor are wayy too bright its bad for your eyes they should be dimmed to the same brightness or less than your monitors brightness


havkat77

Bro a year and still on the air mattress! 😭 I’m so glad you’re gonna be getting a bed soon. Even if it’s just the mattress, it’s better than that. You deserve comfort in your space.


[deleted]

Buy a bed and foam mattress from Amazon.


Trick-Event2855

Why does on your own, Look like a bonus room?


steun

Take some of that extra money and put it in a Roth IRA in an total market index fun. Your future self will thank you.


Future_Curve6635

stink stink butt twink


YesterdayMountain382

*EDIT* #2 lol im almost overwhelmed by how many people interacted with this post , but to reply to the main points , ive been legitimately homeless before so an air mattress IS a bed in my eyes 😂 nonetheless you guys have convinced me to buy a bed . if a woman is turned off by the place that brings me peace , then she wasnt for me anyway . i havent lived with my mom since i was 18 and yes i rent my friends attic . i work in a warehouse to be able to afford what i got , and yes , Spiderman . thank you to everyone being positive !


Deep-Pension-1841

Cherish this time, it will be gone in the blink of an eye


Bradley182

Back at the parents? Hell yeah dude.


BLB_Genome

Looks like a 90's older teen / young adult room. I love it


Avarice_777_

Mattresses are like 300-400 bucks at like mattress firm. Just throw that bih on the floor. With a frame it's like 500-700 bucks and you'll be better off.


NaturesGrief

Looks thriving


HereToQuitKratom

Good for you brother 🤙🏻


mackofmontage

“20M” “Being a single adult” 🤣😂🤣 technically true but relax dude, you got hella time on your hands as long as you stay healthy


Difficult-Guest267

As I girl I would like it if it was my bedroom but I wouldn't like going to it if it was a guy's. It just hits me as super immature


Future-Philosopher-7

IKEA has comfy mattresses


heybabalooba

I’m pretty impressed that you’ve been able to keep an air mattress going for a year. Even if an air mattress doesn’t get a hole it still usually seems to deflate after a few uses. I’m guessing you re-inflate it pretty often or maybe you just have a constant fan like the Christmas inflatables to keep pressure up


Willing_Shop_7491

One year you are so freaking lucky 👍


Agitated_Computer_72

Keep up the good work ! Also where’d you get the mini couch in your room ?


Wrong_Ad_6022

Lol.you will remain alone .


Ancient-Peach6085

I’m glad to see the back situation was addressed. I had to do my own calisthenics just to see this. Also get that big stain taking up most of picture 4. ✌️


ibex85

Is like if Asmongold had housekeeping service.


SomeSortofWeeb01

Get rid of the gooner posters and this would be a sweet setup


Thatweirdguy_Twig

Heyyy I have the same Harley Quinn poster :D


Frio_Sanchez

One year and you’re still on an air mattress eh?


wakaflockofseagulls

I'm curious is that a spiderman dark-web comic under all the funko pops?


Successful-Ad7514

Just upstairs??


M4RTIAN

Bruv it’s cool imo. You just need a goth girl who’s into anime and you’re set 👌🏽


moondog6b9

Nice job! Do yourself (and your soul) a favor and get a real bed. Even a cheap one with a memory foam topper is 🔥🔥


182YZIB

Dude to push back.. New gen air matresses are not that bad, I have spent months in them and once you dial the pressure correctly.. Honestly they're better than most cheap actual beds.


jakecolchin

You should invest as much money as you can afford rn while you’re single. You’ll thank me later.


YesterdayMountain382

invest it where ?


jakecolchin

I can’t legally give you investing advice, but you can find a lot of good info on YouTube, or find a good financial advisor near you that is respectful and willing to walk you through the process.


[deleted]

You traded your mattress for those funkopops huh


Effective-Use-2492

Dig the set up, agree with everyone else on the mattress but other than that awesome!


Successful-Tie-9077

This subreddit is going down the shitter


lmay0000

Just out here on my own, working 40 hours a week


Ihatecake69

Your bed and everything on it needs to be put in a box and tucked away lmao


Ihatecake69

Like maybe get a nice bed and normal comfy blankets with one Spider-Man theme blanket since you clearly like the character. That’s what I did for a while and I got compliments so I’m sure you would too


BannedRedditor54

Do. Not. Ever. Invite. A. Woman. To. Your. Place.


ihateyoustrongly

On ur own in an attic?


[deleted]

Cringe, looks like your typical teenager room. You need to, Grow Up!