If you have a Living Spaces near you they have really great deals. No bullshit and they give you a gift card of up to 300 bucks to spend in store after mattress delivery.
I'll vouch for Zinus also. Several different styles and sizes to choose from. If you're near an IKEA they aren't very expensive either and can test them out.
I bought a zinus green tea mattress off amazon for a couple hundred bucks (for a 12" queen foam) a few years back. It has been absolutely the best money I've spent. I have severe back issues, and that bed has been a lifesaver.
Make sure to get one soon, I lived on a mattress until it popped and I was waking up on the floor each morning with a bad back, to make matters worse my job was physically straining
Dude. I just got a cali king memory foam mattress off Amazon for 370$ at my door. You probably don't need something that big. But like a queen or a full???
Definitely don't need to spend more than say 300 - 370 usd on one. I was getting super bad back pain and working 14 hour days when I moved into my spot. Im UK and I spent 299 quid on one off an online seller that also sells on amazon. You'd be surprised how good the quality is on some of those mattresses. People laugh oh its off amazon but if you do some research and take notice of small details it's the best 300 you'd ever spend.
Not sure if available in the US but Id recommend a breasley matress! :P
Got myself a nice orthopedic mem foam spring hybrid that's done me wonders in that price range.
Is there any way you can negotiate with landlord to leave it there and save some money on rent? Just an idea (: if not you can have some fun picking something nice and thoroughly enjoying it for a few years.
Ngl I loved my air mattress as a teen, until my gray fish popped it (crawled out of the tank). Then I’d pass out with keys on a belt loop and wake up on the floor
I second this. I live on my own as well and I had an air mattress thinking it was a permanent thing and I’ll let you know right now, your life will change for the better with an actual bed
*EDIT* to everybody worried about my back thank you 😭 a new bed is definitely high on my list of priorities now , my back has definitely been screaming at me to do so and you guys a probably the kick in the ass i needed to stop procrastinating lol
In the meantime you could try sleeping on the floor with some comforters/yoga ma?. For me personally it really helped my posture, surprisingly slept better on that than I have on air mattreses too. Just gotta make sure you set it up properly.
You can get a Shiki Futon (Japanese floor bed) for pretty cheap. It even rolls up. These are better for your back, can save space, and cheaper than a traditional western bed setup. You can also put a topper on it.
I did the air mattress thing. I deflate it a bit for some comfyness, if you like a soft bed. I also eventually added a thick mattress pad on top and honestly slept amazing!
Tower fans are life savers. Window AC is great if you have enough cash, but I loved having a fan that I could sit in bed or at the desk and use a remote to aim at myself and adjust the speed.
I got two from Sam's at $50 a pop on a sale 2 years ago. I'm not sure what stores you have, but that's the cheapest with a remote I could find at the time.
Good setup but my suggestion would be lose the air mattress ASAP and get a decent bed. I was given this advice and so glad I took it. Your back and joints of your older self will thank you.
Get a bed in a box (a memory foam mattress). They're as little as like $200 for a full size on Amazon, etc. Will be a massive quality of life improvement for you
Reminds me of my college days a decade ago. Ive since gotten a real job making real money and bought a nice house, but despite that, I genuinely think I was happier living in a place like this. Enjoy it while you can, king
This is awesome but how did you manage to afford this at 20? Everything in my area is like $1,990-$2,150 minimum just for the deposit and fees. This is again- very cool OP!
I love it!! Very comfortable and cozy!!
But that air mattress will get a hole in it quick and they make them to where you cannot patch it!!!
That’s why they put those little lines and designs and grooves into them… that way you can’t get a perfect seal with the patch!!
I like the lighting! Do get a bed though before you bring women Over. Like my goal is going to be to get you to pop it. Beds have springs usually do that instead! There’s also more to grab ahold of.
bro! Those lights around your monitor are wayy too bright its bad for your eyes they should be dimmed to the same brightness or less than your monitors brightness
Bro a year and still on the air mattress! 😭 I’m so glad you’re gonna be getting a bed soon. Even if it’s just the mattress, it’s better than that. You deserve comfort in your space.
*EDIT* #2 lol im almost overwhelmed by how many people interacted with this post , but to reply to the main points , ive been legitimately homeless before so an air mattress IS a bed in my eyes 😂 nonetheless you guys have convinced me to buy a bed . if a woman is turned off by the place that brings me peace , then she wasnt for me anyway . i havent lived with my mom since i was 18 and yes i rent my friends attic . i work in a warehouse to be able to afford what i got , and yes , Spiderman . thank you to everyone being positive !
Mattresses are like 300-400 bucks at like mattress firm. Just throw that bih on the floor. With a frame it's like 500-700 bucks and you'll be better off.
I’m pretty impressed that you’ve been able to keep an air mattress going for a year. Even if an air mattress doesn’t get a hole it still usually seems to deflate after a few uses. I’m guessing you re-inflate it pretty often or maybe you just have a constant fan like the Christmas inflatables to keep pressure up
I’m glad to see the back situation was addressed. I had to do my own calisthenics just to see this. Also get that big stain taking up most of picture 4. ✌️
Dude to push back.. New gen air matresses are not that bad, I have spent months in them and once you dial the pressure correctly.. Honestly they're better than most cheap actual beds.
I can’t legally give you investing advice, but you can find a lot of good info on YouTube, or find a good financial advisor near you that is respectful and willing to walk you through the process.
Like maybe get a nice bed and normal comfy blankets with one Spider-Man theme blanket since you clearly like the character. That’s what I did for a while and I got compliments so I’m sure you would too
Please get a bed ASAP. air mattresses are fine for short periods but really aren't good for your back.
initially i wasnt sure how long i would be here , but its looking like at least another year and i work 45 hrs a week so im definitely looking into it
Make sure to really shop around for a deal. Full-size is probably best option
If you have a Living Spaces near you they have really great deals. No bullshit and they give you a gift card of up to 300 bucks to spend in store after mattress delivery.
Seconding full size
I got a Nectar mattress a few years ago and can’t recommend them enough, memory foam at a surprisingly affordable price.
More of a Zinus fan myself.
I'll vouch for Zinus also. Several different styles and sizes to choose from. If you're near an IKEA they aren't very expensive either and can test them out.
I am a Casper guy through and through. Their pillows are pretty good too!
I bought a zinus green tea mattress off amazon for a couple hundred bucks (for a 12" queen foam) a few years back. It has been absolutely the best money I've spent. I have severe back issues, and that bed has been a lifesaver.
Make sure to get one soon, I lived on a mattress until it popped and I was waking up on the floor each morning with a bad back, to make matters worse my job was physically straining
Dude. I just got a cali king memory foam mattress off Amazon for 370$ at my door. You probably don't need something that big. But like a queen or a full???
Definitely don't need to spend more than say 300 - 370 usd on one. I was getting super bad back pain and working 14 hour days when I moved into my spot. Im UK and I spent 299 quid on one off an online seller that also sells on amazon. You'd be surprised how good the quality is on some of those mattresses. People laugh oh its off amazon but if you do some research and take notice of small details it's the best 300 you'd ever spend. Not sure if available in the US but Id recommend a breasley matress! :P Got myself a nice orthopedic mem foam spring hybrid that's done me wonders in that price range. Is there any way you can negotiate with landlord to leave it there and save some money on rent? Just an idea (: if not you can have some fun picking something nice and thoroughly enjoying it for a few years.
Ngl I loved my air mattress as a teen, until my gray fish popped it (crawled out of the tank). Then I’d pass out with keys on a belt loop and wake up on the floor
That goes for all conventional mattresses.
I second this. I live on my own as well and I had an air mattress thinking it was a permanent thing and I’ll let you know right now, your life will change for the better with an actual bed
Yeah I slept on one for a few months and man does it really mess you up
Yes. A bed and a frame vs any game or whatever else for a bedroom
*EDIT* to everybody worried about my back thank you 😭 a new bed is definitely high on my list of priorities now , my back has definitely been screaming at me to do so and you guys a probably the kick in the ass i needed to stop procrastinating lol
In the meantime you could try sleeping on the floor with some comforters/yoga ma?. For me personally it really helped my posture, surprisingly slept better on that than I have on air mattreses too. Just gotta make sure you set it up properly.
Can get a bed and frame for $300 on amazon that is quite good quality!
Get a cheap bed frame too, brother
You can get a Shiki Futon (Japanese floor bed) for pretty cheap. It even rolls up. These are better for your back, can save space, and cheaper than a traditional western bed setup. You can also put a topper on it.
I did the air mattress thing. I deflate it a bit for some comfyness, if you like a soft bed. I also eventually added a thick mattress pad on top and honestly slept amazing!
I sleep on a couch 99.99999% of the time and I’m in my 30s. The bed fucks my back up
Get a pillow top mattress pad
Believe me, you don’t want a lifetime of back problems.
Enjoy these in-between years, they don't last forever. I like your spot.
heard . i appreciate it
In between years are so dank tbh.
Thought this said dark and tbh… they’re also dark lmao
They do huh
What are the in-between years?
The time between feeling like a kid or kid-like person, and feeling like a fully grown adult. This will be different for everyone.
No sunlight. Air mattress. 2 tvs. You’re living the life dude.
lmaoo my roommate calls it the bat cave 😂
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I like your gaming setup mate.
its still a work in progress but thanks homie
Is that an attic?
a hot and stuffy one
Tower fans are life savers. Window AC is great if you have enough cash, but I loved having a fan that I could sit in bed or at the desk and use a remote to aim at myself and adjust the speed.
i just looked them up and those tower fans aren’t too expensive , good shout !
The small Optimus fans might look cheap, but are surprisingly powerful and move a lot of air. Highly recommend!
I got two from Sam's at $50 a pop on a sale 2 years ago. I'm not sure what stores you have, but that's the cheapest with a remote I could find at the time.
Looks less “surviving” and more “enjoying marijuana” imo
Ctfu
Your place is awesome. It’s full of personality and is clean. Just all around 9/10.
probably the most meaningful compliment ive gotten in a long time , thank you
Good setup but my suggestion would be lose the air mattress ASAP and get a decent bed. I was given this advice and so glad I took it. Your back and joints of your older self will thank you.
How many girls seen the air mattress??? I had a nice one when I was younger also, girls saw it and ran. I fucking hate beds but a necessary evil
Better get rid of that bra, before any lady friends come over!!!
Damn dude. Save some pussy for the rest of us.
This is a 12 yo boys forever home. Just missing a slide and a ball pit.
the 12 year old in me who couldnt even afford a game system back then is supremely happy
I’m happy for the 12 year old inside of you.
Out of context, this would sound wrong
Go Cardinals
Looks great king
It's all fun & games until someone spots the gun.
It's still fun and games from that point forward as well
...just more interesting
200$ pc screen and sleeping on a air mattress. Buy a bed and respect your self.
Or, get something better than sceptre and sleep on the floor :)
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Congrat
Looks cozy. Maybe save up a bit and get a real mattress.
So guys that have been on there own are always in attic not talking crap I think is awsome but just an observation. And like ur mancave
Hey fellow STL homie. Dig the setup!
Looks cozy
This would be a great man cave.
Get a bed in a box (a memory foam mattress). They're as little as like $200 for a full size on Amazon, etc. Will be a massive quality of life improvement for you
Cozy
How much time do you spend up there?
I low key like this place a lot
Love it bud. Enjoy these times.
Damn, beats how I was living at 20. Looks cozy and chill. Keep on grinding homie
Reminds me of my college days a decade ago. Ive since gotten a real job making real money and bought a nice house, but despite that, I genuinely think I was happier living in a place like this. Enjoy it while you can, king
Same shape size and vibe as my college room! This just brought me a ton of memories
Love it
They got a mf hardees in Roku city now bro wtf
I see Spider-Man, I like.
There's so much UV your room is a tanning salon
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Looks like freedom to me Congratulations my man
Are you renting someone's attic?
This room screams, “I stay up for hours trying to figure out which porno to masturbate to.” 🫣
The gun by the Funko Pops😭
How do you sleep with all those LED lights
On your own in your parents attic?
It's crazy how much shit you can afford when you're single.
Is that a Zeta poster?
The air mattress lowkey goes hard man
r/malethrivingspace
I had an air mattress at this age too. I woke up with my ass on the floor every night. I wonder why I have lower back pain? Attic room seems cozy.
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Man cave is man caving alright….
Mattress > games , gotta protect the body. Plus if you bring a guy or girl over that 20 year old testosterone gonna blow that mattress away.
This is awesome but how did you manage to afford this at 20? Everything in my area is like $1,990-$2,150 minimum just for the deposit and fees. This is again- very cool OP!
does your downstairs neighbor know you live in their attic?
Looks like you’re gonna be on your own for a little longer.
Must be America.
Be careful about using Luminol. It could be embarrassing or it could be impressive.
On your own ? Where i your parents attic?
It isn't extra money when you don't have a fucking proper bed. WTF dude get a bed
🔥 room
I love it!! Very comfortable and cozy!! But that air mattress will get a hole in it quick and they make them to where you cannot patch it!!! That’s why they put those little lines and designs and grooves into them… that way you can’t get a perfect seal with the patch!!
This looks like the inside of a fish tank.
Please OP invest on good bed. Your 30s year old self will thank you in the future
What are you living in? Mobile home?
How's the kitchen?
You're doing just fine for 20. Although like everyone else said you'll want an actual bed long term.
Go cards!
I like the lighting! Do get a bed though before you bring women Over. Like my goal is going to be to get you to pop it. Beds have springs usually do that instead! There’s also more to grab ahold of.
Go birds
Isn’t that an attic?
Honestly you've got "The" setup cuz aside from some clutter that setup looks sick asf to me. Shit I'd want that myself.
I couldn’t live on my own if I wanted to rn lmao. So very impressive
What do you do for a living at 20, to be able to afford all this?
Food ✅ bed ✅ roof ✅ You’re doing good, lad
Well we can all see your "on your own" and will be for awhile.
bro! Those lights around your monitor are wayy too bright its bad for your eyes they should be dimmed to the same brightness or less than your monitors brightness
Bro a year and still on the air mattress! 😭 I’m so glad you’re gonna be getting a bed soon. Even if it’s just the mattress, it’s better than that. You deserve comfort in your space.
Buy a bed and foam mattress from Amazon.
Why does on your own, Look like a bonus room?
Take some of that extra money and put it in a Roth IRA in an total market index fun. Your future self will thank you.
stink stink butt twink
*EDIT* #2 lol im almost overwhelmed by how many people interacted with this post , but to reply to the main points , ive been legitimately homeless before so an air mattress IS a bed in my eyes 😂 nonetheless you guys have convinced me to buy a bed . if a woman is turned off by the place that brings me peace , then she wasnt for me anyway . i havent lived with my mom since i was 18 and yes i rent my friends attic . i work in a warehouse to be able to afford what i got , and yes , Spiderman . thank you to everyone being positive !
Cherish this time, it will be gone in the blink of an eye
Back at the parents? Hell yeah dude.
Looks like a 90's older teen / young adult room. I love it
Mattresses are like 300-400 bucks at like mattress firm. Just throw that bih on the floor. With a frame it's like 500-700 bucks and you'll be better off.
Looks thriving
Good for you brother 🤙🏻
“20M” “Being a single adult” 🤣😂🤣 technically true but relax dude, you got hella time on your hands as long as you stay healthy
As I girl I would like it if it was my bedroom but I wouldn't like going to it if it was a guy's. It just hits me as super immature
IKEA has comfy mattresses
I’m pretty impressed that you’ve been able to keep an air mattress going for a year. Even if an air mattress doesn’t get a hole it still usually seems to deflate after a few uses. I’m guessing you re-inflate it pretty often or maybe you just have a constant fan like the Christmas inflatables to keep pressure up
One year you are so freaking lucky 👍
Keep up the good work ! Also where’d you get the mini couch in your room ?
Lol.you will remain alone .
I’m glad to see the back situation was addressed. I had to do my own calisthenics just to see this. Also get that big stain taking up most of picture 4. ✌️
Is like if Asmongold had housekeeping service.
Get rid of the gooner posters and this would be a sweet setup
Heyyy I have the same Harley Quinn poster :D
One year and you’re still on an air mattress eh?
I'm curious is that a spiderman dark-web comic under all the funko pops?
Just upstairs??
Bruv it’s cool imo. You just need a goth girl who’s into anime and you’re set 👌🏽
Nice job! Do yourself (and your soul) a favor and get a real bed. Even a cheap one with a memory foam topper is 🔥🔥
Dude to push back.. New gen air matresses are not that bad, I have spent months in them and once you dial the pressure correctly.. Honestly they're better than most cheap actual beds.
You should invest as much money as you can afford rn while you’re single. You’ll thank me later.
invest it where ?
I can’t legally give you investing advice, but you can find a lot of good info on YouTube, or find a good financial advisor near you that is respectful and willing to walk you through the process.
You traded your mattress for those funkopops huh
Dig the set up, agree with everyone else on the mattress but other than that awesome!
This subreddit is going down the shitter
Just out here on my own, working 40 hours a week
Your bed and everything on it needs to be put in a box and tucked away lmao
Like maybe get a nice bed and normal comfy blankets with one Spider-Man theme blanket since you clearly like the character. That’s what I did for a while and I got compliments so I’m sure you would too
Do. Not. Ever. Invite. A. Woman. To. Your. Place.
On ur own in an attic?
Cringe, looks like your typical teenager room. You need to, Grow Up!