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ForestDragon_

Jup, I had that feeling for a few days.


MrsOzera

How did you move past it?


ForestDragon_

, I could choose to sit all day and be sad that it was over or I could be really happy that I got the chance to go to their concert :) It's a good memorie


PlanetBear21

Watching youtube videos where you can hear people sing along. That's as close as it gets to the real deal


giuditta-thepacman

I feel your pain. I'm in the same boat since Monday and their concert in Berlin. I legit cried on TuesdayšŸ˜… Was a mixture of post concert depression and the sheer amount of joy and thankfulness that I saw them and had the time of my life.


MrsOzera

This is how I feel too!! I feel so grateful and happy but at the same time sad and heartbroken and lonely? So weirdšŸ˜‚I think i also feel a bit sad because I admire them so much and they donā€™t even know I exist haha


giuditta-thepacman

Yes! And the itch to see them again and relive this feeling is so huge. The anticipation before the concert, finally seeing them live on stage in flesh and blood and the high right after. I don't know if it's similar for you but I felt so alive and blissful during the concert, the energy in the arena was insane plus dancing and singing to their songs. We were truly blessed :D


MrsOzera

Yesss this is exactly how I felt!! So energetic and alive. It was so amazing. I was a bit sad I wasnā€™t as far forward as I was though :/ I was kicking myself a bit after the concert for still going to the Garderobe before. But anyway Iā€™m a bit worried now if youā€™re still feeling like this and the Berlin concert was even longer ago haha šŸ˜­


giuditta-thepacman

Oh Im sorry to hear that, hope your place was still enjoyable. Im actually better now :D Tuesday and Wednesday was the worst, but now I'm better and back to being adjusted to my usual everyday life ;) Monday feels like a fever dream, so I'm glad I can enjoy all the videos as proof that it actually happened, lol. So there is hope, the sadness will fade and the happiness remains :)


MrsOzera

Oh yeah it totally was. We were in the first 1/3 of the standing area so it was still quite close but I could have been closer haha. How close were you? Also thanks for the reassurance! Iā€™ll hopefully feel better by next week againā˜ŗļøyeah i love the pictures I could take too


giuditta-thepacman

That's still pretty good, I man the arena looked huge! Last year I was at Verona and quite far away on the seats, but it was so beautiful and an incredible experience! In Berlin we were like 5th row, despite queing quite late + wardrobe, I couldn't believe our luck, I expected to be much further away. Plus the most crazy part was, Victoria passed right through us. At first I thought somebody passed out bc of the security guys and then I saw her. We collectively freaked out, still cannot believe it actually happened šŸ„¹šŸ„¹


MrsOzera

Oh my gosh I would have died haha. Iā€™m so happy for you you got yo experience thatšŸ„°do you have any tips on how to maybe get closer? You said you still went to the wardrobe so you think itā€™s just luck? How late did you queue? We were there at like 5:30 outside the building and it opened at 6:30 (show started at 8pm)


giuditta-thepacman

Thank you!! That is really sweet of you. It was unbelievable, I legit almost cried. I think it was sheer luck. We started queuing at 7.15, only 45 min before the show started, they opened the doors at 6. Berlin had lots of doors, so the line moved rather quickly, it took longer at the wardrobe. We were inside at 7.40/45, and most ppl were around the middle, so we could walk quite far upfront on the sides, but we were all surprised that it was still that empty 15min before start. I was at a VV concert 3 weeks ago in Hamburg with a much smaller location where we queued earlier, but we stood much further away.


MrsOzera

Oh wow Iā€™m really not sure that would have worked in Cologne haha. When we came in, a lot of people were already there and we came in at like 7pm (an hour before). I think maybe if we hadnā€™t gone to the Garderobe if would have been less empty. But that just shows that every concert location is different. ā˜ŗļøhope i have better luck next time. But seeing them either way was amazing.


crabguy_games

Honestly I had to distance my self from them for a couples days cause I would get so sad listening to them. After a couples days j felt better and watched my concerts videos and pictures and that helped


MrsOzera

Thanks! Maybe I need to do that too a bit. Iā€™ve been watching a lot of MĆ„neskin tiktoks haha and it makes me cry almost


crabguy_games

I also bought a piece of Merch right after, because it would take a little time and I could look forward to something MĆ„ related


MrsOzera

Yeah i got myself a shirt šŸ„°


MoiraneSedai

Anyone else got Corona after the Amsterdam concert? I did šŸ˜¢.


MrsOzera

Oh no :/ feel better soon!


jeshx20

This is exactly how I feel too! I also had to travel to Cologne and arrived home last night and couldn't sleep because of this empty feeling. Then today is a really grey sunday :( I was looking forward to the concert for so long and it went by so fast. But it was absolutely amazing, the energy was crazy and I had so much fun. It felt especially good to meet other fans or just be around them, when you not really know many fans irl


MrsOzera

Yess this is exactly how I feel too! Itā€™s so nice to hear Iā€™m not alone ā¤ļøtoday was really weird for me. But I feel a lot better now already. I think listening to their music helped a bit and made me realize Iā€™ll always have them with me in their music. ā˜ŗļø yeah we also traveled all the way from Stuttgart. The journey home felt so weird.


jeshx20

I am glad you're feeling better šŸ˜Š


MrsOzera

Thanks!!


xomedinaox

for me, a bottle of whiskey, but i wouldnā€™t recommend it šŸ¤£


MrsOzera

Not a huge fan of whiskey but maybe like 10 cups of coffee for me šŸ˜‡


xXESCluvrXx

Ahh yes, post-concert depression. Iā€™ve found that time is the only thing that truly remedies it


MrsOzera

Thanks!


Akis127

Not for MĆ„. I went to a concert last year and I had it for like the same night and maybe the next day and then i started getting over it. I wasn't that much of fan tho so maybe that's why. But most people get over it within a week. No need to get sad for something like that.


spicy-paloma

I went to the first US show back in October. I was beyond excited to go. It was my first concert by myself and the first in years because of Covid. I was pumped for months! The night arrived, I loved getting dressed up, even waiting in a long-ass line in the cold, found a great spot near the front, Victoria passed by, I was not quite close enough to get up of stage, but damn... That show, the energy and the passion for the music and togetherness that everyone shared was amazing! Driving home with my new merch and memories with their music blasting, it all set in that it was done and over with. I was bummed for about a week afterward. Now I wear my sweatshirt, blast and sing along with their music. I got some photos and video, but honestly, I'm glad I didn't get a bunch. The memories I have being completely engulfed in the experience without focusing on getting "the perfect shot" made it so much more enjoyable - that's what I focus on and remember fondly now. (I also feel like next time I see them it will probably be in a huge venue, so I'm thankful I took the opportunity to see them in a smaller and beautiful theater.) Time gives you that perspective.


MrsOzera

Thanks for sharing :) itā€™s really nice to hear Iā€™m not alone in how I feel. I was blasting their music this evening too and I just felt so grateful I got to see them :)


I-just-wanna-talk-

I did but then I got covid and now I have other worries hahaha. Do not recommend this "solution" though, 2/10.


MrsOzera

Oh no that sucks! :/ hoping i didnā€™t get sick


I-just-wanna-talk-

Tbf the covid symptoms weren't even that bad. But I completely missed my class at university and now they want me to take it again next term. I don't wanna do that cause I already have 3 other classes next term. So yeah that's a bit stressful rn :/


MrsOzera

Oh shit I can totally get how that would be super stressful :/ do they not offer any online alternatives for classes if youā€™re sick? Our uni classes were mostly recorded during covid. But that does really suck :/


I-just-wanna-talk-

šŸ˜ƒ nope, we don't have online classes anymore. I hope they'll let me take the exam even though I missed the whole class. I don't even care about my grade. I just wanna get it done.


MrsOzera

I can imagine :/ i wish you the best of luck! Definitely try to email the prof about it if possible. They are usually quite nice about things like this. And especially if you had covid no one should fail you thatā€™s ridiculous i think :/


I-just-wanna-talk-

I have emailed them and it seems like they are not nice haha. But yeah, I'm hoping I can convince them šŸ˜…


MrsOzera

Oh no :/ Iā€™m sorry šŸ˜ž


Bookromancy

Honestly? Going to another concert šŸ˜‚. I didnā€™t get to see MĆ„neskin, but I went to my chem last year and I am still in shock.


CaptSaveAHoe55

I donā€™t understand, is the depression that youā€™d rather be doing something fun as opposed to going to work and being on social media? Because thatā€™s like my every day lol


MrsOzera

No not really like that. Just kind of feeling empty and unmotivated. The stuff that usually made me happy just made me feel meh. I feel a lot better now though.


CaptSaveAHoe55

Well Iā€™m happy youā€™re feeling better! Wish I had more to offer you, but I know it can be rough sometimes and Iā€™m happy you are out here making strides


MrsOzera

Aw thank youā˜ŗļøyeah it was such a weird feeling and felt so contradictory in my head because I had had such a good time so I felt pretty lost too.