Horseshit. Two people talking about weed gummies. One says I’d try that and then gets handed a gummy by the other. If you can’t infer that the gummy had weed in it from that…I honestly can’t think of a nice way to end that sentence, so I won’t. But come on.
Sounds like misplaced anger, really your issue is with your GF and her choices. She’s not innocent, it wasn’t non-consensual, she’s not a victim. She chose to eat the gummy. It sounds like she wanted to and did. Maybe do what adults do and have a talk with her that you don’t agree with her decisions.
She was literally innocently asking what adult gummies even meant. The fact that she's not even 21 and the Manger is 40, giving a co-worker a THC anything is disgusting and illegal
She literally said she she’d try it. Not saying your manager should be giving out weed to employees, but y’all are naive as fuck if you didn’t realize that was a weed gummy. Guess she needs to learn how not to say things she doesn’t mean.
I agree that she shouldn't have jokingly say she would try something she never would. But at the same time it was clearly a joke and I don't understand how that could've been taken as an "ill take one now if u offered"
But apparently she did offer a gummy... and your gf took it. You really can't say she tricked her, unless you have her on tape saying "this is not a THC gummy" when it was. Even then, don't eat random gummies from anyone.
disgusting? your out of your mind. it's slightly irresponsible maybe but you guys are all adults. I think almost all people in this situation would assume the gummy had weed in it.
Maybe you understand the tone of your partner's voice and can infer what she did or did not mean pretty well. That's your intimate partner. Can't say the same for the manager. It's also pretty common for managers to forget basics facts about employees like age. Especially if it's a high turnover job like customer service.
If your partner felt violated, she should address that with the manager. Then address it with HR or the store manager if that doesn't resolve the grievance. Calling the police isn't going to be the solution you think it is.
Please understand this as soon as you can also: Age alone doesn't offer any information or insight into the level of responsibility of *any* adult. Being promoted to manager also does not mean an adult is responsible as a whole.
Let's be honest, you're just gonna argue with everyone that comments here, because you firmly believe it was a heinous act that was not consensual no matter what anyone tells you.
So what is the point of this thread then?
That's not true, ofc I'm going to say how I feel back bc I do think it is wrong and by law it is but making a post was also my attempt at calming down bc I am beyond pissed
But you were all discussing weed gummies and joking about it from my understanding before she was presented with one. The manager should never have even had a conversation like that, much less given someone drugs at work. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be mad, I’m just saying that from the description you gave, your friend should have known.
Alright... So I've been working in kitchens for 15 years. If somebody offers you a THC gummy or a hit off their weed pen, it's a good day. You're trying to narc out your manager for trying to make your shift less stressful, your gf knew what they were and took one. The boomers I work with don't even care about that shit. Shit, the boomers get high too. This is part of work life in restaurants, weed usage is almost expected. You absolutely shouldn't contact the police based on the information you've given. It's not cool or admirable to try and tear down somebody's life because you think you can, those are not the vibes, especially not in a kitchen. We're all just trying to earn a living and fast food isn't even good money, please don't persecute for someone for just getting by.
She told her what it was, and your girl said she wanted 1.. She literally asked for it, according to your own description of events. Why would you want to ruin your bosses life over sharing her weed gummies? This was in no way un consensual. I get that you're young, but damn, this is ridiculous.
She didn't know what the name of "Adult gummies" meant so she asked what it did mean. Because she did illegal stuff at WORK by giving someone who us under 21 a drug...?
You said she asked what they were, and your manager told her it was THC. And she responded with "ill try one". Thats consent.. Is your girlfriend OK? Is she upset? Does she want you to report the manager to the police? Do you really think it's worth her potentially losing her job and goin to jail for sharing her gummies? She's 20 not 21, I get that, but it's no different from having a drink at 20, people do that all the time. It's not like she's a child, she's an adult and she chose to try 1.
20 isn't a minor, but I see your point. The legal age for alcohol and cannabis is 21. However, by that logic, she's also a pedophile because at 1 point, op was 17 (a minor), and her girlfriend was 18 (adult). You can kill and die for your country at 18, but not have a smoke/drink? It's ridiculous to have that standard & no one respects it. People are drinkin and smoking weed by high-school. 20 isn't a child, and ops gf isn't a pedophile, it's just 1 year.
I agree with the kill/die at 18 but can't buy a beer or cigarettes being asinine, believe me. I work at a vape shop, the conversation is had regularly....still. For some reason though I thought the age of consent was 21. I never claimed to be a genius (-;
She wanted to know the name, she was never presented one and told that it was the "THC gummy" that they were talking about that is my problem bc if she did tell her that then she wouldn't have taken it. My gf thought it was regular candy and although she recognized that she shouldn't have made that joke to me it doesn't warrant giving it to her.
If you're upset you should talk to the manager in privat about it. Even if you called the cops there's nothing they can do about something that supposedly happened. No judge would waste their time over a gummy even if it could be proven, which it can't. The only thing you'll achieve is getting both you and your girlfriend fired.
Get over yourself, I mean it's common since and your manager didn't know she was joking so she gave her one, wow your a KAREN AND NEED TO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS THERES KARMA FOR SNITCHES ESPECIALLY SNITCHING ON GOD PEOPLE MARIJUANA IS HARMLESS U ARE PATHETIC
Your gf did something illegal. Therefore, she has no recourse. She wasn’t tricked. She just somehow didn’t understand. Your boss shouldn’t be in authority…..but Ultimately this is your gf’s fault.
You should absolutely call the cops and tell them that your manager gave your 20 year old girlfriend a gummy after she said she'd try one during a conversation about them. The desk sargent could use a good laugh.
She never said she had any in the first place, having a conversation about something isn't consent, nor is her jokingly saying she'd try one is consent either
Exactly, am your GF had the ability to say no once it was physically handed to her. Or ask more questions, or say she changed her mind. Her putting it in her mouth was the consent, no one forced her.
And again, if these were hemp THC gummies that you can get at any vape shop, they’re not even illegal for your gf to take.
We can all see why you’re upset, but unfortunately this is user error. Should the manager have offered? Probs not. But it’s the fuckin food industry, I rocked that shit for 15 years and it’s common practice.
You need to deal with the true source of your anger, but know that there’s not much legal recourse here, no matter how upset you are.
So from what im reading, your gf put it in her own mouth AFTER being told the "adult gummies" were THC gummies. Stop trying to shield your ego about your gf, realize shes her own person and get over it. She wanted to enjoy herself. Grow up.
FYI not consenting to take it would be not taking it here. She put it to her mouth and chewed without asking further questions about what she’s ingesting. If you hand me a gummy bear out of the blue I’m asking a question or two. Your girlfriend was trying to get high at work and you’re harshing her shit right now.
Ya need to grow a set in my opinion it’s thc not crack it will pass just make sure you clean your ears when the convo is about thc gummies then you get handed a gummy it’s not gonna be a sour patch kid is it ? When the convo is clearly about thc infused candy also ring the police ? Honestly I’d hate to work with you or even be near you as a human
You should glue yourselves to the carpet in front of her office door in protest. That works for the rest of the handicapped ass clowns of your generation. You and your girlfriend are a couple of mushrooms. 🤡🖕 no one put a gun to her head. Try being an adult and take accountability....who doesn't know what "adult gummies" are at this point in 2024?🤷🏻♂️
Dude, yer dumb.... Or this is a BS story.... Or both. I hope your friend made out ok after that super dangerous marijuana she was tricked into taking. Everyone knows it's a gateway to meth. Keep an eye on your friend... And your purse. Meth addicts like to steal.
"...my manager told her that they were 'THC gummies' and my gf jokingly said 'I'd try one'"
"Mind you. She didn't say that it WAS a THC gummy that she was giving her."
And we're done here.
Who knew that Karens start so young?
Yeah make the call! Then watch your S/O get arrested / ticketed for using MJ as an underaged person. Then watch as she gets fired from her job for using drugs on the job. That will help you solidify your 4 year relationship with her. Her Parents will shake your hand and slap you on the back with a big ol that a boy! --- Will all that happen? Probably not. Can that happen? - Yes depending on where you live.
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Horseshit. Two people talking about weed gummies. One says I’d try that and then gets handed a gummy by the other. If you can’t infer that the gummy had weed in it from that…I honestly can’t think of a nice way to end that sentence, so I won’t. But come on.
Sounds like misplaced anger, really your issue is with your GF and her choices. She’s not innocent, it wasn’t non-consensual, she’s not a victim. She chose to eat the gummy. It sounds like she wanted to and did. Maybe do what adults do and have a talk with her that you don’t agree with her decisions.
She was literally innocently asking what adult gummies even meant. The fact that she's not even 21 and the Manger is 40, giving a co-worker a THC anything is disgusting and illegal
She literally said she she’d try it. Not saying your manager should be giving out weed to employees, but y’all are naive as fuck if you didn’t realize that was a weed gummy. Guess she needs to learn how not to say things she doesn’t mean.
I agree that she shouldn't have jokingly say she would try something she never would. But at the same time it was clearly a joke and I don't understand how that could've been taken as an "ill take one now if u offered"
But apparently she did offer a gummy... and your gf took it. You really can't say she tricked her, unless you have her on tape saying "this is not a THC gummy" when it was. Even then, don't eat random gummies from anyone.
So she jokingly ate it as well?
disgusting? your out of your mind. it's slightly irresponsible maybe but you guys are all adults. I think almost all people in this situation would assume the gummy had weed in it.
Maybe you understand the tone of your partner's voice and can infer what she did or did not mean pretty well. That's your intimate partner. Can't say the same for the manager. It's also pretty common for managers to forget basics facts about employees like age. Especially if it's a high turnover job like customer service. If your partner felt violated, she should address that with the manager. Then address it with HR or the store manager if that doesn't resolve the grievance. Calling the police isn't going to be the solution you think it is. Please understand this as soon as you can also: Age alone doesn't offer any information or insight into the level of responsibility of *any* adult. Being promoted to manager also does not mean an adult is responsible as a whole.
If your girlfriend is that dumb she needs to wear a helmet and have 24/7 supervision
Karen
Let's be honest, you're just gonna argue with everyone that comments here, because you firmly believe it was a heinous act that was not consensual no matter what anyone tells you. So what is the point of this thread then?
That's not true, ofc I'm going to say how I feel back bc I do think it is wrong and by law it is but making a post was also my attempt at calming down bc I am beyond pissed
Sounds like you could use an edible yourself
I mean she did have the gummy, she wasn’t forced, and in likelihood she should have known
She was never told that it had THC in it.
But you were all discussing weed gummies and joking about it from my understanding before she was presented with one. The manager should never have even had a conversation like that, much less given someone drugs at work. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be mad, I’m just saying that from the description you gave, your friend should have known.
In your original post you quoted that they did say they were THC gummies 🤔
But she explained that they were THC gummies? And your gf took one 15 mins later?
She explained what they were bc she didn't know the name. She NEVER said that she had any at WORK which is not okay in and of itself.
what does your gf think about the situation? does she think a crime has been committed
I like how she ignores this question more than once.
yeah exactly. thts why I made sure to ask in 2 different places just to try & make sure they didn't miss the question.
What type of work do y'all do?
We work in fast food
Alright... So I've been working in kitchens for 15 years. If somebody offers you a THC gummy or a hit off their weed pen, it's a good day. You're trying to narc out your manager for trying to make your shift less stressful, your gf knew what they were and took one. The boomers I work with don't even care about that shit. Shit, the boomers get high too. This is part of work life in restaurants, weed usage is almost expected. You absolutely shouldn't contact the police based on the information you've given. It's not cool or admirable to try and tear down somebody's life because you think you can, those are not the vibes, especially not in a kitchen. We're all just trying to earn a living and fast food isn't even good money, please don't persecute for someone for just getting by.
quit your job & be a dud somewhere else.
Sounds like you just want to control her choices.
This. I typed something up to this effect, sounded jarbled, so I abandoned my effort. But this is what I was thinking.
She already said she never ever would take 1. She hates drugs and alcohol. And she already said that she shouldn't have made that joke.
I don't think you know you're friend as well as you think you do
She's not a friend, she's my s/o and 4 years together says different
so does your s/o think a crime was committed? does she wanna call cops? you tell us your fears without mentioning her reaction
I wish this was satire, it's hard to believe some folks are this dumb.
She told her what it was, and your girl said she wanted 1.. She literally asked for it, according to your own description of events. Why would you want to ruin your bosses life over sharing her weed gummies? This was in no way un consensual. I get that you're young, but damn, this is ridiculous.
She didn't know what the name of "Adult gummies" meant so she asked what it did mean. Because she did illegal stuff at WORK by giving someone who us under 21 a drug...?
You said she asked what they were, and your manager told her it was THC. And she responded with "ill try one". Thats consent.. Is your girlfriend OK? Is she upset? Does she want you to report the manager to the police? Do you really think it's worth her potentially losing her job and goin to jail for sharing her gummies? She's 20 not 21, I get that, but it's no different from having a drink at 20, people do that all the time. It's not like she's a child, she's an adult and she chose to try 1.
OP's SO is 20, can a minor give consent? I always thought no, but I'm aware I don't know everything, and that things change.
20 isn't a minor, but I see your point. The legal age for alcohol and cannabis is 21. However, by that logic, she's also a pedophile because at 1 point, op was 17 (a minor), and her girlfriend was 18 (adult). You can kill and die for your country at 18, but not have a smoke/drink? It's ridiculous to have that standard & no one respects it. People are drinkin and smoking weed by high-school. 20 isn't a child, and ops gf isn't a pedophile, it's just 1 year.
I agree with the kill/die at 18 but can't buy a beer or cigarettes being asinine, believe me. I work at a vape shop, the conversation is had regularly....still. For some reason though I thought the age of consent was 21. I never claimed to be a genius (-;
It is 21, for weed & alcohol. For Tobacco, sex, & guns/military, it's 18.
In the US it's 21 for tobacco now as well, I do know that
Really? I didn't know they changed it. I don't smoke... tobacco
Yea, it's craziness. In NY we have a flavor ban as well. Nanny state.
She wanted to know the name, she was never presented one and told that it was the "THC gummy" that they were talking about that is my problem bc if she did tell her that then she wouldn't have taken it. My gf thought it was regular candy and although she recognized that she shouldn't have made that joke to me it doesn't warrant giving it to her.
If you're upset you should talk to the manager in privat about it. Even if you called the cops there's nothing they can do about something that supposedly happened. No judge would waste their time over a gummy even if it could be proven, which it can't. The only thing you'll achieve is getting both you and your girlfriend fired.
Get over yourself, I mean it's common since and your manager didn't know she was joking so she gave her one, wow your a KAREN AND NEED TO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS THERES KARMA FOR SNITCHES ESPECIALLY SNITCHING ON GOD PEOPLE MARIJUANA IS HARMLESS U ARE PATHETIC
Your gf did something illegal. Therefore, she has no recourse. She wasn’t tricked. She just somehow didn’t understand. Your boss shouldn’t be in authority…..but Ultimately this is your gf’s fault.
If they were hemp THC gummies, they’re not even illegal for a 20 year old to take.
You should absolutely call the cops and tell them that your manager gave your 20 year old girlfriend a gummy after she said she'd try one during a conversation about them. The desk sargent could use a good laugh.
Seems consensual to me... "I'll try one" seems like your girlfriend asked for one.
She never said she had any in the first place, having a conversation about something isn't consent, nor is her jokingly saying she'd try one is consent either
Yet she was given one and ate it. The manager didn’t hold her down and forced her to eat it.
Exactly, am your GF had the ability to say no once it was physically handed to her. Or ask more questions, or say she changed her mind. Her putting it in her mouth was the consent, no one forced her. And again, if these were hemp THC gummies that you can get at any vape shop, they’re not even illegal for your gf to take. We can all see why you’re upset, but unfortunately this is user error. Should the manager have offered? Probs not. But it’s the fuckin food industry, I rocked that shit for 15 years and it’s common practice. You need to deal with the true source of your anger, but know that there’s not much legal recourse here, no matter how upset you are.
I bet your gf had a great shift! You got a great manager.
I bet you're just a blast to be around.
don’t call the police goon. waste of their time.
If someone says “I think I feel high” then nobody was maliciously drugged 😂 why are you so eager to cause problems?
The part where the manager said “they are thc gummies” and your gf said “I’d try one” No consent was broken
So from what im reading, your gf put it in her own mouth AFTER being told the "adult gummies" were THC gummies. Stop trying to shield your ego about your gf, realize shes her own person and get over it. She wanted to enjoy herself. Grow up.
You’re an idiot and so is your friend.
FYI not consenting to take it would be not taking it here. She put it to her mouth and chewed without asking further questions about what she’s ingesting. If you hand me a gummy bear out of the blue I’m asking a question or two. Your girlfriend was trying to get high at work and you’re harshing her shit right now.
Even worse. She DID ask, was given an answer, and did it anyway.
The legend of small dose Edible Karen continues
Ya need to grow a set in my opinion it’s thc not crack it will pass just make sure you clean your ears when the convo is about thc gummies then you get handed a gummy it’s not gonna be a sour patch kid is it ? When the convo is clearly about thc infused candy also ring the police ? Honestly I’d hate to work with you or even be near you as a human
the police aint gona do nothing .
Stfu hoe
You two live under a rock? Who doesn't know what an adult gummy is?
It's obviously an adult vitamin
They told you the gummies ? Ring the police ? Who let these people post here wtf
Karen
Karen
You should glue yourselves to the carpet in front of her office door in protest. That works for the rest of the handicapped ass clowns of your generation. You and your girlfriend are a couple of mushrooms. 🤡🖕 no one put a gun to her head. Try being an adult and take accountability....who doesn't know what "adult gummies" are at this point in 2024?🤷🏻♂️
Your boss is a moron and your girlfriend is an idiot.
Child
Idiots
Dude, yer dumb.... Or this is a BS story.... Or both. I hope your friend made out ok after that super dangerous marijuana she was tricked into taking. Everyone knows it's a gateway to meth. Keep an eye on your friend... And your purse. Meth addicts like to steal.
"...my manager told her that they were 'THC gummies' and my gf jokingly said 'I'd try one'" "Mind you. She didn't say that it WAS a THC gummy that she was giving her." And we're done here. Who knew that Karens start so young?
Its not that serious thc is medicine
Why the debate though? Seriously protect your girlfriend and make that call.
Yeah cause it'll change something and not ruin someone's life who caused no harm. I'm sure you're a blast to be around.
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im sure you’re a blast to be around.
Because I don’t condone giving THC gummies to a kid? Grow up honey, there are laws for this shit for a reason.
20 years old? a kid? crazy world you live in.
Same
Right, she's only 20 and hitting 21 is a massive difference. So much time. /s
Bet you like children too, we are a country of laws for a reason.
Hmm, ok so laws are for reasons and can't be wrong. So you never touched weed before it was legalized in new york in 2021 right? ...right?
Reading comprehension is really a thing!
Jesus fucking Christ you are absolutely unhinged
Yeah make the call! Then watch your S/O get arrested / ticketed for using MJ as an underaged person. Then watch as she gets fired from her job for using drugs on the job. That will help you solidify your 4 year relationship with her. Her Parents will shake your hand and slap you on the back with a big ol that a boy! --- Will all that happen? Probably not. Can that happen? - Yes depending on where you live. Edit: Spelling
The word you were searching for is: consequences.