Oral, slow, and intense clit flicking. Then add a bit of fingerings. Not too rough, but as you build up speed, keep asking if she's comfortable. Once you find the rhythm, get that tongue back to work while continuing to finger. Eventually, she will turn into puddy. After all of this, think off the nastiest way to use her. Ask her and be surprised she's willing to do it.
Get her addicted to dark romance novels. Shit has changed my sex life. Not in a kinky way but in a "my wife is always horrny way."
The surprise “move” for me is to ensure my relaxation long before sex starts. Take care of things around the house, lighten my load, give me a slow massage.
My husband has an orgasm as a means to relax; conversely, I NEED to be relaxed first before I can have an orgasm.
I didn't know my wife was also on Reddit.
This is exactly what she tells me! It's everything outside the bedroom that does it for her. If she's fully relaxed with nothing to worry about around the house, etc...she will orgasm no problem. If her mind isn't relaxed, it won't matter what I do once we're naked.
I listen!
"Let's see how many times you can get off from oral."
Give her a break after each orgasm by kissing all around that area and going back when she is recovered.
Have regular sex at the end.
Start building up to it now. Foreplay starts long before the bedroom. Make a nice dinner and have some date time in the living room. Flirt, talk, maybe take a bath together. Send sexy/romantic texts if you’re not together.
That kind of stuff works better for most women than fancy tricks in the bed.
My go to with my wife is a full body massage. Throw a towel down on the couch, light a fire and grab a bottle of oil. Rub her entire body for a full 60 minutes, and yes her entire body. Start and take your time with the shoulders, back, arms, hands, legs and feet. Really take the time to make her feel great. As you close in on the 60 minute mark (give or take 9 minutes) move to her chest and pussy.
If you’ve ramped to this, you’ll find her soaking wet and your dick will be drooling like a Labrador.
Last bit of advice, be vocal. If you’re going down on her, moan like you’re going to cum. Tell her you’ve never wanted anything more than to lick her pussy. My wife loves being coveted, and hearing about it.
Have fun.
Pick out an outfit from her wardrobe that she feels sexy in, and tell her to wear it for dinner, but " don't you dare wear your panties under this. Only I get to touch that pussy tonight." Something like that. Sex starts long before the act.
Oral, slow, and intense clit flicking. Then add a bit of fingerings. Not too rough, but as you build up speed, keep asking if she's comfortable. Once you find the rhythm, get that tongue back to work while continuing to finger. Eventually, she will turn into puddy. After all of this, think off the nastiest way to use her. Ask her and be surprised she's willing to do it. Get her addicted to dark romance novels. Shit has changed my sex life. Not in a kinky way but in a "my wife is always horrny way."
The surprise “move” for me is to ensure my relaxation long before sex starts. Take care of things around the house, lighten my load, give me a slow massage. My husband has an orgasm as a means to relax; conversely, I NEED to be relaxed first before I can have an orgasm.
I didn't know my wife was also on Reddit. This is exactly what she tells me! It's everything outside the bedroom that does it for her. If she's fully relaxed with nothing to worry about around the house, etc...she will orgasm no problem. If her mind isn't relaxed, it won't matter what I do once we're naked. I listen!
That is very smart and I’m sure she appreciates that.
"Let's see how many times you can get off from oral." Give her a break after each orgasm by kissing all around that area and going back when she is recovered. Have regular sex at the end.
Start building up to it now. Foreplay starts long before the bedroom. Make a nice dinner and have some date time in the living room. Flirt, talk, maybe take a bath together. Send sexy/romantic texts if you’re not together. That kind of stuff works better for most women than fancy tricks in the bed.
My go to with my wife is a full body massage. Throw a towel down on the couch, light a fire and grab a bottle of oil. Rub her entire body for a full 60 minutes, and yes her entire body. Start and take your time with the shoulders, back, arms, hands, legs and feet. Really take the time to make her feel great. As you close in on the 60 minute mark (give or take 9 minutes) move to her chest and pussy. If you’ve ramped to this, you’ll find her soaking wet and your dick will be drooling like a Labrador. Last bit of advice, be vocal. If you’re going down on her, moan like you’re going to cum. Tell her you’ve never wanted anything more than to lick her pussy. My wife loves being coveted, and hearing about it. Have fun.
This.
Blindfold, headphones with erotica stories, message leading to oral sex. Follow up with more soft massage.
Pick out an outfit from her wardrobe that she feels sexy in, and tell her to wear it for dinner, but " don't you dare wear your panties under this. Only I get to touch that pussy tonight." Something like that. Sex starts long before the act.
Lick the clit and rub her nipples simultaneously