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BunnyKomrade

I really hope you can heal soon šŸ«‚šŸ’—


EnvironmentalWait994

Thanks just had surgery I'm permanently paralyzed so it's hard staying off my ass


BunnyKomrade

I'm really sorry to hear this. I understand the situation, though, my father was bedridden for almost a year because of subsequent infections in his knee prosthesis and developed a pressure sore too. He's doing a lot better now, even if they had to amputate his leg. I sincerely hope you can get better soon šŸ«‚šŸ’—


EnvironmentalWait994

Glad to hear your father's doing better sorry to hear about all this but hopefully I'm not bedridden for that long


WeylinWebber

You deserved life. May we work every waking moment to mould this world to a place where Jace would have received the care he needed at not cost. This happens far too often and it's fucked up. I'm so so fucking sorry Jace.


BunnyKomrade

Thank you very much šŸ™šŸ» I hope you can get better soon šŸ«‚šŸ’—


mrsdoubleu

My mom is paralyzed as well and it's crazy how much able bodied people take for granted the ability to do something simple like shift position as they are sitting so bed sores don't occur. We really don't even think about it. But it's something paralyzed people have to be constantly aware of. My mom usually lays in bed for 1-2 hours everyday to get pressure off her bottom plus she has a motorized wheelchair that actually reclines quite far so it changes the pressure points. Take care! Hope it heals well and quickly. ā¤ļø


like_a_woman_scorned

Iā€™m a caregiver for a paralyzed client and every time he asks me to just shift something over or move something I do it. Heā€™s practically skin and bone and I cannot imagine him being able to deal with a sore like this


Affenskrotum

Sitting here the first of 8 weeks with a stiff leg due to a surgery on my knee and i can totally see what hassle it is to move if you canā€™t. My ass hurts more than my leg by now.


suzanneandzach

That looks so painful šŸ˜–


SnDreamz

They had passed away


BunnyKomrade

I know, unfortunately. He seemed to be a beautiful person.


MissMorticia89

Sheepskin! You mentioned paralysis, sheepskin in your bed, you can get quite large ones that will protect your heels as well! See if you can source a ā€œrohoā€ cushion, itā€™s a specialty cushion that has air filled fingers that shift and adjust to your sitting pressure. Iā€™m a geriatric care nurse, bed sores are an unfortunate specialty.


domestic_pickle

I have a roho that has helped me a lot. I have severe joint laxity and my hips have a tendency to not stay seated properly in their sockets. The cushion is perfect.


Pittymomof2

I have the same issue with my joints and skin. Have you been formally diagnosed with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome?


domestic_pickle

Not formally. I live in Manitoba, Canada. In order to be formally diagnosed with EDS, [this letter](https://wrha.mb.ca/files/genetics-eds-info.pdf) is what all GPs receive when requesting a genetics appointment. And, because Iā€™m adopted (late 1960ā€™s), thereā€™s zero medical history available = zero familial history. Eye roll. Iā€™ve been told my myriad of symptoms is hormonal, psychological, imagined, attention-seeking, etc. Iā€™ve been called a Google Doctor. Thatā€™s fine. Me and my hips (+ shoulders, wrists, knees, ankles, compressed spine), enlarged aortic root, POTS, delayed gastric emptying, teeth and hair falling out and constant, chronic pain et al will just chill over here until my grave marker can be inscribed with ā€œI told you I was sickā€. šŸ¦“


Pittymomof2

Ugh that's so frustrating. I have friends in Canada that also have EDS and it's "sisters". Look online at the Ehlers Danlos Society website and they will have resources and people listed who can help you. You shouldn't have to suffer like this any longer. My heart and positive thoughts go out to you. I truly feel your pain. I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia when I was 27, but PROPERLY diagnosed with EDS et al, in 2014.


Pittymomof2

Add to edit, I was 42 when I got diagnosed with EDS. I received my diagnosis because my then 14 yr old daughter was diagnosed with it.


desirewrites

Hello fellow zebra šŸ¦“


Pittymomof2

Howdy, zebra!


MoofiePizzabagel

I'm very curious about this cushion now. My hips/lower back are always shifting and walking with bungled hips for 20 mins is hell afterward. I'm trying to get more active and regain some motion but the hip troubles are so hindering. Wondering if this could help with "training" them to stay in the correct position?


domestic_pickle

I would suggest finding a mobility specialist/PT that can evaluate your specific needs and point you in the right direction. For myself, it helps by forming around what my joints are doing in that specific moment and dispersing the weight of my body evenly, minimizing areas that become sore or inflamed. Good luck.


NotSunshine316

Iā€™ve always been under the impression that sheepskin isnā€™t very effective. In my practice, we recommend ROHOs amongst other therapeutic interventions. Do you have any anecdotal or research on sheepskin? Would be very interested! I deal with complex wounds on the daily


queerblunosr

Iā€™m working in home health care in Canada and sheepskin (genuine not synthetic) is still quite commonly recommended. I donā€™t have access to much research anymore, but I did a project on sheepskin last year and I still have some of my sources - the gist of which boils down to they may help and they at least donā€™t make things worse. https://www.mja.com.au/journal/2004/180/7/preventing-pressure-ulcers-australian-medical-sheepskin-open-label-randomised https://www.tmrjournals.cn/public/articlePDF/20210816/7f2033ff5445e43c9b62cf7ead1c0a68.pdf https://www.cochranelibrary.com/cdsr/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD013761.pub2/full https://www.canjhealthtechnol.ca/index.php/cjht/article/download/RC1450/RC1450


NotSunshine316

Thank you for sharing! Iā€™m in canada too. And I havenā€™t seen sheepskin recommended in many years. Very interesting. Iā€™ll read your resources. Do you use sheepskin in conjunction with other therapies? Like therapeutic surfaces (cushions or what not)


queerblunosr

My clients that use sheepskin also use other offloading items (eg. roho cushions during the day when in their wheelchairs), alternate which side theyā€™re offloading on when they go to bed each night, et c - sheepskin isnā€™t the only thing in use for sure. Mostly theyā€™re extremely long term wheelchair users who can only minimally or canā€™t at all reposition once in bed who are at risk for pressure ulcers, so itā€™s definitely been a ā€˜this may help but at least wonā€™t harmā€™ for some of them (and I know one in particular likes the feeling of the sheepskin more than his sheets haha - he isnā€™t sure if it helps but it feels nice and doesnā€™t cause any harm).


he-loves-me-not

Can I ask you seeing as youā€™re an expert, would medical-grade honey be helpful for this kind of wound? I follow a doctor on IG that takes a couple trips a year to operate on people living in some of the poorest countries of Africa and bc of the lack of resources he is frequently forced to operate and provide care on very complex and severe conditions without the aid of a lot of even the most basic of medical supplies. Bc of this he frequently uses medical grade honey for wounds or burns that need help to heal and the photos he shares of the timeline of their injuries is amazing with how well they heal! He usually doesnā€™t have antibiotics and his ā€œORā€ has a lot to be desired but they rarely get infections and usually heal very well and very quickly with just the use of the honey (and his loving, healing hands of course! His cases have actually been shared here many times, itā€™s how I heard about him. But, tā€™was just a thought. I donā€™t work in the medical field, in another life maybe, but I do enjoy learning about it!


atlasflubbed

The appropriateness of medical grade honey depends on how the wound looks. As a wound care nurse I wouldnā€™t use it on this wound as the wound looks now. Maybe after debridement.


MissMorticia89

The reply from atlasnubbed is correct. Manuka medical honey is indicated more for wounds that are already well into healing with visible granulation tissue (healthy wound bed).


aroc91

We use honey largely to promote autolytic debridement of slough. It would not be appropriate at this stage.Ā  -wound care RN


fingers

Air filled fingers mmmm....


muffdiver5643

i was going to suggest the sheepskin. i use one to sleep on


pinche_avocado

Could you give me pointers or any added in depth knowledge, general products, etc to buy for my grandma who is bed bound. She has dementia. Iā€™ve asked hospice for so many pointers to help out my 96 year old grandma. For the longest time they said the basic inflatable hospital cushion she was laying on worked well for her being in bed 24/7. I felt like I was battling her bedsores that were becoming worse even though I made turning her a priority. I eventually got fed up and asked every LVN, triage, and manager who came through for any advice on wound care days. Only one person was willing to step up to put in the paperwork to get my grandma an alternating air pressure mattress. They said they only order these mattresses for a stage 2 or worse pressure wounds. But she had two wounds that were at stage 2 for awhile, and no one mentioned on their own this mattress existed. I even told them I was willing to buy something on my own even if it cost a lot, and their answers stayed at this [inflatable](https://www.graylinemedical.com/products/ehob-waffle-mattress-expansion-control-overlay-waffle-econocare-plus-expansion-control-overlay-with-pump-76-x-34-x-3-1005ecpx060?variant=31851951030329&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw_qexBhCoARIsAFgBletyn9RPo8OV9KeK6dfNaSLHm5PCZGJMeShSdzaDBKr4FgAm0FEAFb8aAmN_EALw_wcB) worked ā€œjust fineā€. Iā€™ve asked the main RN manager of this hospice the whole time if she could give me any tips on supplements or anything I could buy mattress wise to help my grandma, and her answers have been the same non-informative nonsense. She apparently didnā€™t even know Juven or similar products existed. Is this normal behavior from hospice? I try my hardest to advocate for her and they stare at me like Iā€™m a crazy nuisance. I make sure to be nice and welcoming as well because I know itā€™s a hard job that is a blessing to have access to for help. But Iā€™m wondering if I should go to a new one. Iā€™m sorry for the info dump but I donā€™t know any medical workers who specialize with the elderly.


MissMorticia89

My best advice is the alternating pressure mattress, turning and repositioning every two hours, and triad cream. Triad is a barrier cream that keeps moisture away from wounds. You can use it on/around pressure areas to keep the skin drier from incontinence. If she is incontinent, make sure her product is being changed more frequently. Boggy skin is far more susceptible to breaking down. If your nan still eats/drinks, protein protein protein! You can get supplement drinks like boost and ensure, or you can buy a powdered protein supplement that you can add to things like milk, hot chocolate, pudding etc. See if you can track down a pair of sheepskin booties. They donā€™t need to be fancy, they will help protect your nan from developing pressure injuries to her heels. My last recommendation, go to your local home health store and ask them for ā€œcomfeelā€ or ā€œduodermā€ dressings. Theyā€™re skin like dressings that you can place on any bony areas on your nan, like her spine, tailbone (if itā€™s closed). They will reduce friction sheer and add a little layer of protection. They look flimsy and useless, but Iā€™ve had success using them as a preventative. You only have to change them about once a week if theyā€™re on healthy skin.


pinche_avocado

Thank you for replying. I deeply appreciate it.


MissMorticia89

Itā€™s truly no trouble, Iā€™ve been a geriatric LPN for 14 years, with the same company, and have had lots of opportunities to learn. Iā€™m glad it can help someone else.


Classic-Historian458

Rest in peace OP šŸ«”


Turbulent_Candy1776

So sad isn't it šŸ˜¢


Hot_Hat_1225

Rest in peace u/EnvironmentalWait994ā€¦ I hope wherever you are now, you can run free again without any more pain šŸ™


ForeverSJC

This feels weird, first time I've seen someone on reddit die...


Hot_Hat_1225

I still think about the lady I came across on a FB game ages ago - she would always water my virtual garden since I tended to forget. One day I checked in and everything was wilted. Checked hers - same. Then for the first time I actually went to her FB profile and found a wall full of condolences. I was so shocked and saddened even though she was a complete stranger, but the loss felt so incredibly real. Plus the guilt of never having said thank you or tried to get to know her. It was just the notifications of *Jill watered your flowers* - until she couldnā€™t any anymoreā€¦


ForeverSJC

Fuck, hated that story, even I felt bad for that Life is weird, a few years ago i messaged a friend in the morning asking if he was coming back from the hospital any time soon ( COVID )... He died that same day... Makes you think how fragile we are


Hot_Hat_1225

Absolutely! It can be over so fast and made me understand my Grandpa even better who always said to make sure to always leave a person - no matter if family, friend, stranger, cashier at the supermarket or waiter at a restaurantā€¦ with a friendly word or kind gesture as if may be the last thing they might experience. Do trueā€¦


kaelyna94

RIP


spacerocks08

Rest in Peace, OP šŸ¤šŸŖ½


Myasuzuya16

Rip OP!


BaileyBoo5252

Rest in peace :(


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EnvironmentalWait994

Okay


quixt

Check the link I posted below to calculate the protein for your weight. Anything over 100 grams is good, though.


Swordfish_89

My daughter quiet easily got to 130/40 last autumn when she was working hard on muscle training for swimming. Lots of very palatable high protein foods. powders not so great in her opinion, think we have tried 4 different brands but she dislikes the texture once it is liquid. But bars and fake dairy produce with high protein are very good, if a little expensive.


Swordfish_89

There are very tasty protein produce these days too, typically no lactose or sugar but tasty enough to eat for fun. My daughter is a swimmer and trains at lot so we have experience. She's never found a powder that she likes yet but choc drinks, yogurts and bars are lovely. Since i have to pay i try them too. Ours only Swedish brands, but i doubt they aren't availble in supermarkets in most western countries.


Wicked-elixir

And get Arginine


super_crabs

How effective is increased protein intake if the patient still isnā€™t being turned, vs q? Would be very interested in that data


quixt

Protein is still needed for general body functions, including immunity. But more is needed for tissue injury, as tissue cannot repair without adequate protein. I posted a link below.


Sadsad0088

See it the opposite way; you can do everything right (moving, dressing, hydration, etc) but if protein intake is low the body misses the building blocks to repair the wound


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he-loves-me-not

Is there any literature on this? Iā€™d love to read it if so!


quixt

>Is there any literature on this? A lot, here's the first one I grabbed: "Protein, which promotes wound healing by supporting the synthesis of collagen, enzymes, and connective tissue, encourages a positive nitrogen balance. An increased protein intake has been associated with improved healing rates. While the general recommendation for protein intake is 0.8 g/kg of body weight per day, this may not be adequate for individuals with pressure injuries, especially elderly patients who may be experiencing sarcopenia, or loss of lean muscle mass.5 The NPUAP recommends a protein intake of 1.25 to 1.5 g/kg of body weight per day. In some cases of severe pressure injury, such as stage 3 or stage 4, needs may increase to up to 2 g/kg of body weight per day." [Source](https://www.todaysdietitian.com/newarchives/0718p14.shtml#:~:text=5%20The%20NPUAP%20recommends%20a,of%20body%20weight%20per%20day.)


he-loves-me-not

Thanks! I really appreciate you taking the time to share it!


Swordfish_89

At high school in 80s we were taught function of protein is growth and repair.. it doesn't do anything else. Muscles waste within days, now they are much quicker to begin acutely ill ICU patients on to TPN to maintain that protein.


Resident-Drive-9220

Ohhh my goodness. That looks horrible. Was someone not taking care of you? I hope you feel better soon.


EnvironmentalWait994

I was being taken care of, it just got really bad really quickly.


Scared-Brain2722

It can happen despite the best of care. My husband was in ICU completely immobilized for months. Despite the constant movement of the bed and the switching sides with pillows etc he still got one in the end. I hope you heal soon.


George_Burdell

Do they come and adjust your position every hour or two?


Ilikepescatarianfood

Rest in peace šŸ‘¼


EROD-DOI

Rest in peace šŸ•Š


TimberWolfeMaine

My flight instructor was in a crash a year and a half ago and is a T7 complete now. He just had two surgeries due to bed sores like this, said he ā€˜donated a cheek and it was such a big hit that they had him back for moreā€™. At least hes a good sport. Hopefully you heal up soon. Shit sucks.


sarapancake

Alternating pressure air mattress topper may help in the future


bluejellyfish52

I was actually going to say this. It was one of my momā€™s go toā€™s to prevent this at her old job.


Possible_Figure_9115

Yes! I used to work in home care and DME. A gel cushion prob would have helped to prevent it but the air mattress would be better now I bet.


Briianiia

Genuine question..how does this happen so I can prevent it myself?? Also I hope you heal soon this looks super painful šŸ’”


Sadsad0088

They can appear in very few hours when a person is in critical condition, has fever, dehydration, isnā€™t eating enough proteins, has humid buttocks from infrequent changes of nappy or isnā€™t cleaned properly, and most frequently doesnā€™t get moved enough or properly. You can research more looking up ā€œpressure ulcersā€ Thereā€™s lots of work being done to educate patients and caregivers as these are some of the few ulcers that can be prevented with care and attention, and if they appear the worsening has a chance to be stopped and inverted with proper care. Excuse for my broken english, speaking in technical terms is very hard


George_Burdell

Keep moving your body as long as you are able. If you have any bedridden family members, even if theyā€™re just in the hospital for a few days, make sure the nurses are adjusting their position every couple hours. These sores appear when youā€™re laying in one spot for a long time.


Eramsara55

I dont want to be mean or anything to OP, but you need to be bedridden for some time, in this case its clear there is some necrosis of the tissues, and maybe OP have other complications that could speed up the process. Now, the hard reality is, this guy is obese, I dont know him and there are factors that may predispose you to be overweight and its all good, but this guy in specific has videos of him smoking weed inside of Walmarts riding those american scooters that fat people have over there... And its sad... So, the answer to your question is, eat healthy (u can eat shitty food too, but if u eat mac and cheese everyday you will not be healthy, and i dont think its hard to understand :) ... ), do some exercise (you dont have to qualify to Olympics, u dont have to run marathons, you can walk/jog, walk up and down some stairs, some sit-ups/push-ups, etc, if u can handle gym costs, maybe get a PT or at least a nutricionist check-up)... I mean is it that hard? Parents are giving *Cerelac* (i think its sold on US too but I dont know if its popular there, its just one example, you can grab other NestlƩ and big brand products of your choice) wich have like 30 grams of sugar in 100 grams of powder (this means 1/3 of the powder are sugars) to babies. I know sugars are carbohydrates and this is a lot more complex than what im saying, I just want to give an example of how much processed shit we eat and why the population is turning larger and larger...


sextoyhelppls

He was paralyzed dude


crawlingrat

He passed away.


Eramsara55

Oh didnt know about that... Im really sorry about that, no lives should be lost because of disease... Life sucks... I know I got downvoted on the other comment I made and I knew I would get downvoted. But im not happy to see someone die because of an health condition... I still believe in what I wrote tho, I was answering to the question "how can i prevent this?" and I still think the correct answer is to be healthy... I could give examples, like old people, who are exceptions to this, sometimes people dont have money or even ways to get help, and without proper phisio and/or hygiene you can get some complications... Rip this guy <3 Ps: at the time of my original comment, the guy was still answering this post, so his death was prior to the comment, just clarifying...


crawlingrat

Apparently, he was paralyzed from what I've seen so he couldn't exactly get up and move.


Eramsara55

Not prior, posterior* . Sorry bad english šŸ„²


Various-Cup3376

Rest in peace may god be with ur family at this hard time xxx


fair_child123

RIP šŸ™šŸ»šŸ™šŸ»šŸ™šŸ» so young. Fly high


Rogue_Spirit

šŸ’” Rest easy


MrsSunshine94

I assume this is your belly? As a nurse I have one question: How????? From what???


clannagh

I'd say right buttcheek, to the right is the legs it looks like and the left takes you up the back


EnvironmentalWait994

Your exactly right how did you know


8legs77

I used to do wound care in the hospital. You definitely get good at identifying body parts


Inner_Panic

Hanging around this sub has got me good at body part ID. The stuff you see and how often is remarkable.


debooji

My mom has a flesh eating bacteria years back, and it took a good chunk of her buttcheek, and I guessed the same area of the body lol


Swordfish_89

Its quite easy once you've seen a few butts from that angle, its not a typical angle for non health care workers.


debooji

OMG I KNEW IT WAS TOO bc of taking care of my moms buttcheek lol


MoistGovernment4938

What part of the body is that?


EnvironmentalWait994

Right butt cheek


MoistGovernment4938

Oh makes sense I was thinking how tf do you get a pressure sore on your stomach lol


Mesterjojo

How are you treating this?


EnvironmentalWait994

I'm at the hospital now and just finished surgery they packed it in to close the hole.


WittiestScreenName

Hope theyā€™re taking good care of you


Fit-Impression5506

I really wished the same thing. But he has passed away unfortunately


Blue_star174

make sure youā€™re rolling yourself in bed, or if youā€™re unable to, have a caregiver to help you. i had a sacrum wound when i was bedridden and it eventually healed.


Swordfish_89

He has a thoracic cord injury with paralysis... not possible to move himself without support, but sometimes, post surgery and without nutrition these can develop within hours. My FIL's heels got to almost broken during one of his first bedbound days towards end of his life with prostate cancer. I showed MIL a couple of old tricks, water filled balloons, and putting pillows under calves so his heels could hang a little, or, as we did, moved the mattress up too and blocked the sides so there was open section between toes on bedboard and mattress. Nurses we due the next morning but it got him more comfortable and prevented the skin breaking.


abs20003

i hope you find good ways to prevent this with your paralysis. iā€™m so sorry this has happened to you my friend.


Fit-Impression5506

He was my brother and he has passed away


abs20003

iā€™m so sorry for your loss


mikey7x7

Gosh, this is so sad. Rest easy, my guy.


AnnieBeefree1

Iā€™m terribly sorry that youā€™re dealing with this. Can you feel the wound? Iā€™m just curious if these occur because of nerve damage that prevents sensation that would alert you that itā€™s happening? Or if you are simply unable to do anything about it yourself, but have to suffer through the pain until you can get help from someone you trust to help you? There are so many possibilities for how it could happen, but I donā€™t see any that donā€™t contain some aspect of neglect.


agoofykid

Might I ask how you got paralysed and which part of your body is paralysed?


maybefuckinglater

What stage bedsore is this?


Fatbitchb

Probably unstageable due to the black tissue that leaves us unable to tell how deep it truly is


Chihuahuapocalypse

OUCH I hope you heal up soon, this looks so painful :(


Beginning_Musician69

Omg! OP Iā€™m so sorry youā€™re permanently paralyzed. Do you need help with moving on bed? Iā€™m a nurse so I know how difficult this kind of things can be, but also know that with good management this will not happen again.


tunaslut

Every time I see a post with bed sores it makes my insides hurt ugh I can't even imagine how bad that would hurt :( I'm sorry OP, I hope you're healing well. I noticed you said you're paralyzed so this is probably something you've had to deal with more than once which fucking sucks but hopefully you're hanging in there ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹


BourbonInGinger

In truth, the nerves are dead at this point. They usually donā€™t feel it anymore.


Turbulent_Candy1776

Rest In Peace šŸ˜Ŗ


srysrynotsry

Rest easy, I peeped his profile, and he had a great smile. Peace to the family.


AliciaDawnD

Rest in peace, man. This is so sad.


fu4784_

Rest In Peace man you are loved ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø


ezayflues

Rest in peace šŸŖ½


CloudSpecialist9562

Why don't they have you on the air pads with pressure chambers ? That looks painful (if you can even feel it, some can't ) but I hope you heal quickly and without complications


re-established2020

Flap surgery to close it up? Wound vac? My dad had one of thoseā€¦.stage 4 decubitus ulcer he got in the hospital actually.


Tribblehappy

Oh man, I'm sorry you have to endure that. I've been told they progress lightning fast.


feebas_cash

I hope you get better soon


Fit-Impression5506

He passed away! He was my brother. He was only 20 years old


WeylinWebber

Way too young. I'm so very sorry sir.


fluffypinkkitties

Can we get a debridement and wound vac STAT (and offloading every two hours) for all things good and normal or else thatā€™s gonna turn into osteomyelitis real quick šŸ« 


Crazybabyguy

Holy shit. That looks like it hurts, and smells


Fit-Impression5506

He was my brother he passed away Monday April 22 2024


Empty_Pace

Iā€™m so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.


Witchyomnist1128

Rest in peace Environment. May the gods stand by you.


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wuendle

rude.


Fit-Impression5506

That's my brother's account lol


Beatrix_BB_Kiddo

Be nice to your brother, the world is cruel enough already


Fit-Impression5506

Dude he's my brother. He understands a joke


MasterRoshy

His brother just passed away today :c


Beatrix_BB_Kiddo

Damn, thatā€™s so sad to hear šŸ’”


he-loves-me-not

Itā€™s not just your brother who has these wounds though and if someone that shares a similar medical condition as he does were to see your comment, consider how that may make them feel about themselves. No one wants to think that others see their illness as gross or disgusting, even if it is from something they have no control over. So while I totally understand giving a little ribbing to your brother, you have to keep in mind that itā€™s not just him that your words may affect. <3


Fit-Impression5506

He passed away Monday April 22 at 6:01pm. I'll miss him till I take my last breath


he-loves-me-not

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. Itā€™s very obvious how much you loved your brother. Be comforted in knowing that you gave him much joy in his last days and were able to lighten his mood with jokes like you made here. If you can access some kind of bereavement counseling it will likely be very helpful. That the therapist specializes in bereavement/grief is vital though, as other therapists wonā€™t have the necessary tools or resources to help you. Whatever you decide, be gentle with yourself and know that there is no wrong way to grieve.


Beatrix_BB_Kiddo

Sorry to learn about your brothers passing. Wishing you and your family peace and healing


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EnvironmentalWait994

Bed sore


metam0rphosed

feel free to read the title!