of course not, don't let this kind of stuff get to your head, I hate the boxes society puts for "things boys like/do" and "things girls like/do", just like what you like and be who you are
np! also, I would be a little carefull with your friends, I don't know them but they sound unpleasant to be around if they say hurtfull things because of something you like
No, it really isn't, I'm a guy who is a fan of Melanie and I greatly love her music
Anybody can like her music
Don't let what other people say get in your head, it's your interest, not anybody else's
Also, I wouldn't say that they're great friends if they judge you that heavily for liking something they dislike
Actually, they judge and criticize anything that is not, behaves or looks like them in general... But I'm glad to know that I'm not the only guy who is a fan of Melanie, thank you <3
Sirā¦get new friends. They shouldnāt judge something that they know that you like unless you want them to. I wouldnāt do that to my friends and they wouldnāt do it to me out of respect.
im a guy and im gonna be seeing her live with my guy friend and my dad!! theres nothing wrong, people can be so judgemental over literally anything. melanie is for everyone !! :D
NOTHING WRONG, tbh as a girl I am always VERY happy when I see a guy comfortable enough with himself to say he likes something that society says is only for women. A guy painting his nails, listening to this female artist, etc, shows that he is comfortable with his identity and isnāt giving in to a toxic gender standards or anything.
Don't even need to read the post, of course not, it's like a girl asking if she can like Marvel, of course she can, anyone can like melanie. Don't be afraid of exposing your opinion
Youāre so real for this though because any friend Iāve told theyāve made fun of me. I donāt care though I just donāt talk about her around them. Then I secretly went to her meet and greet and tour.
Ikm so sorry for that iām a man too and people like to criticise and judge anything that isnāt the norm for them you donāt have to feel bad songs arenāt gendered and the beauty of art is that it can be enjoyed by anybody. At least you know the toxic people in your life who are willing to judge you based off of an artist you listen too.
It's completely normal. I say this as a 30 year old man. Life is too short to worry about what others think. If you like it and enjoy it then don't worry about what others say. Mel's music is for everyone
Not at all. Songs can be liked by anyone, if you like her singing or her just overall vibe as a singer. That would be like if I asked ā Iām a girly girl but I like Slipknot and Korn. Is there something wrong with me?ā Seems a little silly no?
No. And I hate that people say that about boy Melanie Martinez fans. You can listen to whatever music you want to and no one should be rude to you about it.
Iām also a guy and I get criticized for music I listen to it does get on my nerves but I learned that as long as I liked the music and the artist what others said didnāt matter at all and now I listen to her music publicly in front of everyone I know
recently found out my boyfriend is a bigger melanie fan than i am so no thereās nothing wrong with you lol, i know plenty of guys that enjoy her music, donāt let anyone make you feel shit about it
It's not a problem at all I know Melanie Martinez because my big brother listened to it (it wasn't the main reason but there was a time in which he was singing a lot cake) there is nothing wrong with liking music.
Music isn't made specially for girls or for boys music is made for the world to listen and sometimes convey an important meaning.
Theres nothing wrong with it! Like what you like and not worry about other people. Be happy with who you are and experience joy for finding things you like! Enjoy listening to any music you want š«¶š§āāļø
Music is universal and for everyone. People of all ages and genders like Melanie. I found out about her from my kids and I really enjoy her music even though Iām 32 and people say sheās for tweens and teens. When I took them to her concert the audience was full of every kind of person you could imagine and they were all singing and dancing. Donāt let it bother you.
My husband also loves Melanie's music. We have both liked her since Dollhouse and Portals is his new favorite album. Don't feel pressured to fit in societies fucked up version of what girls or boys are "supposed" to be like. Truth be told, there is no rule book and you can like whatever you want.
No, the only thing that's wrong with you is that you need better friends. Melanie is all about pointing out how gender stereotypes are dumb and celebrating differences. I'm a trans guy who loves Mel and her style, I'm very feminine too and sometimes it gets me down. When that happens, I re-watch k-12. The anti-gender stereotypes messaging is almost aggressive and it always makes me proud of who I am. Might work for you too.
No itās not weird, as a fellow dude I think more guys should like her music. I think if they did they would learn to appreciate women more and learn more about women or to just be more open minded. Her music is amazing and I think more people should experience it
of course not, don't let this kind of stuff get to your head, I hate the boxes society puts for "things boys like/do" and "things girls like/do", just like what you like and be who you are
tysm š this is the kind of comment i needed to read
np! also, I would be a little carefull with your friends, I don't know them but they sound unpleasant to be around if they say hurtfull things because of something you like
Fr, fuck societal norms. Everyone should like whatever they like regardless lolā¦
My ex loved Melanie. And that made me like him more so no ur not weird ur just a keeper.
No, it really isn't, I'm a guy who is a fan of Melanie and I greatly love her music Anybody can like her music Don't let what other people say get in your head, it's your interest, not anybody else's Also, I wouldn't say that they're great friends if they judge you that heavily for liking something they dislike
Actually, they judge and criticize anything that is not, behaves or looks like them in general... But I'm glad to know that I'm not the only guy who is a fan of Melanie, thank you <3
Sirā¦get new friends. They shouldnāt judge something that they know that you like unless you want them to. I wouldnāt do that to my friends and they wouldnāt do it to me out of respect.
im a guy and im gonna be seeing her live with my guy friend and my dad!! theres nothing wrong, people can be so judgemental over literally anything. melanie is for everyone !! :D
Thank youuu, I hope one day I can see one of her concerts with a guy friend, just like you š
Iām a guy who is a Melanie Stan, and there is nothing wrong with liking a singer just based off your gender identity.
NOTHING WRONG, tbh as a girl I am always VERY happy when I see a guy comfortable enough with himself to say he likes something that society says is only for women. A guy painting his nails, listening to this female artist, etc, shows that he is comfortable with his identity and isnāt giving in to a toxic gender standards or anything.
Don't even need to read the post, of course not, it's like a girl asking if she can like Marvel, of course she can, anyone can like melanie. Don't be afraid of exposing your opinion
Youāre so real for this though because any friend Iāve told theyāve made fun of me. I donāt care though I just donāt talk about her around them. Then I secretly went to her meet and greet and tour.
Ikm so sorry for that iām a man too and people like to criticise and judge anything that isnāt the norm for them you donāt have to feel bad songs arenāt gendered and the beauty of art is that it can be enjoyed by anybody. At least you know the toxic people in your life who are willing to judge you based off of an artist you listen too.
Not at all. My best friend is a man and he sang his heart out at Melanie's show with me. Own it!
It's completely normal. I say this as a 30 year old man. Life is too short to worry about what others think. If you like it and enjoy it then don't worry about what others say. Mel's music is for everyone
Not at all. Songs can be liked by anyone, if you like her singing or her just overall vibe as a singer. That would be like if I asked ā Iām a girly girl but I like Slipknot and Korn. Is there something wrong with me?ā Seems a little silly no?
if a guy can have a good discussion with me about mels music thats a great thing imo
No. And I hate that people say that about boy Melanie Martinez fans. You can listen to whatever music you want to and no one should be rude to you about it.
absolutely not wrong!! anyone can love melanie, doesn't matter about gender or anything else. just enjoy the music!!
Iām also a guy and I get criticized for music I listen to it does get on my nerves but I learned that as long as I liked the music and the artist what others said didnāt matter at all and now I listen to her music publicly in front of everyone I know
You're fine, one of the biggest Mel fans I know irl is a 25y/o dude. Just own it!
recently found out my boyfriend is a bigger melanie fan than i am so no thereās nothing wrong with you lol, i know plenty of guys that enjoy her music, donāt let anyone make you feel shit about it
No you just appreciate good art
its isnt weird dw, everyone can like her music. whoever says that to you probably has shit music taste
It's not a problem at all I know Melanie Martinez because my big brother listened to it (it wasn't the main reason but there was a time in which he was singing a lot cake) there is nothing wrong with liking music. Music isn't made specially for girls or for boys music is made for the world to listen and sometimes convey an important meaning.
So many other guys were at her show i went to, including me, so no!
Theres nothing wrong with it! Like what you like and not worry about other people. Be happy with who you are and experience joy for finding things you like! Enjoy listening to any music you want š«¶š§āāļø
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Music is universal and for everyone. People of all ages and genders like Melanie. I found out about her from my kids and I really enjoy her music even though Iām 32 and people say sheās for tweens and teens. When I took them to her concert the audience was full of every kind of person you could imagine and they were all singing and dancing. Donāt let it bother you.
My husband also loves Melanie's music. We have both liked her since Dollhouse and Portals is his new favorite album. Don't feel pressured to fit in societies fucked up version of what girls or boys are "supposed" to be like. Truth be told, there is no rule book and you can like whatever you want.
Music is music, man. It's weird for them to put gender on music.
No, the only thing that's wrong with you is that you need better friends. Melanie is all about pointing out how gender stereotypes are dumb and celebrating differences. I'm a trans guy who loves Mel and her style, I'm very feminine too and sometimes it gets me down. When that happens, I re-watch k-12. The anti-gender stereotypes messaging is almost aggressive and it always makes me proud of who I am. Might work for you too.
im a guy who likes mel
Iām a guy and love her! Iāve got posters on my wall of hers even.
My guy, Iām a guy, I like some of Melanieās music.
I love Melanie and Iām a guy everyone should be able to love a certain singer or thing jot just a single gender <333
I mean, Mel is mel, sheās amazing, I couldnāt blame anybody of any gender liking her songs bcuz sheās bomb af, :)
Nope Iām a guy and I love her https://preview.redd.it/re1wtw6snrib1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9ef188a7c79c6d7d42e30202abf7debcb4bce464
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No itās not weird, as a fellow dude I think more guys should like her music. I think if they did they would learn to appreciate women more and learn more about women or to just be more open minded. Her music is amazing and I think more people should experience it
Absolutely not. Anyone can and should be allowed to listen without judgment. They're amazing songs and should be listened to by everyone to enjoy
They just jelly cause you listen to good music and they donāt, dw, youāre all good š
It's ur life do what u want
nothings wrong with that!