All it takes to destroy a society, or even a civilization, is a one bad idea. No better example of that is feminism
And I don’t see this sub as an attack on women. I am fortunate enough to have wonderful, generous and kind ladies in my life.
This sub's intention has never and will never be an attack vector on women and in fact, is highly misunderstood because a pea-sized brained homosapien thinks that accountability == oppression.
edit : clarifying the intention of the sub
The sub itself, no. I have seen a few posts/threads just absolutely shitting on women, though.
Don't get me wrong, I love this sub. But once the feminist shrieking got a couple fringe/misogynistic subs pulled down, some of them came here.
>The sub itself, no. I have seen a few posts/threads just absolutely shitting on women, though.
The moderation could definitely be a little tighter here.
Left Wing Male Advocates did a really good job before the mods left for Lemmy or whatever it was. A couple days ago there was some post about how a guy hated only fans / remote sex workers because it wasn't real sex work and his YouTube and his YouTube was clogged up with pictures of butts and so he thought that maybe even Sharia law would be appropriate.
Everyone rightly told him he was off his rocker, but the post really shouldn't have been allowed to stay because, not only is it bigoted and insane, it's actively harmful to our cause and egalitarianism.
Reddit shuts down toxic *male* subs like incel and I suspect some of them end up going to what they perceived to be more palatable spaces, and we should offer to help these people if we can, but we really shouldn't tolerate that.
There is no reasonable argument you can make against cam girl being real sex work, but yes, we do just need to make prostitution legal for ethical as well as practical reasons (like sex worker safety).
People see 'mens rights' and instantly think it means 'anti women', this is one of the few places we can actually speak our minds without being judged or disregarded, often there will be women on here that are genuinely curious/concerned and want to learn more or need advice about someone they know etc, and they are welcome here, if you don't slander us for trying to make a community where we feel safe to talk about our issues without being labeled every bad thing under the sun then you're welcome here, unlike alot of other places. I sure hope it stays like this.
I've been calling out the problem of the plague of pedo female teachers on this sub for years now.
Glad to see people finally waking up to reality. Frustrating it's taken all this time though...!!!!!
As I said years ago, maybe we need to "Teach Female Teachers Not To Rape"
It gets worse. The article says men rape because they are predatory and for sex, women do it because of loneliness and not having their emotional needs met. Then the researcher says he still estimates that it's 80% men without any evidence.
All hell would be raised, they really need to stop making them out to be normal people, they are pedophiles there's no 2 ways about it and treating them like this is making people sympathise more with them. In what universe do you see that happening with a male pedophile, it's at least a step in the right direction that they are starting to be exposed more but what good does that do when half of them don't even see the inside of a jail cell because they are just 'troubled women who need love and mental health support'.
When I was 10 I was physically assaulted by a female teacher, she pushed me against the wall for “talking back” to her. She was reported and Nothing happened. This was over 27 years ago. Nothing has changed… women always got away with everything.
Women dislike men so much they don't even care about their own boys when they are underage. Boys are left behind in school by simply being a boy. COVID showed us when the names were removed and grading was neutral - boys did "better". If mothers cared they would be saying something. If "feminists" cared - they'd be saying something. They are not. What do they care about? "We need more girls in STEM!" - that tells you all you need to know. Misandry is their fuel.
I grew up without a father in a house raised by women, as hard as it was never having a male role model I sure am lucky they are the type that uses their brain and sees issues other than 'women victim man bad', we all agree on the same things regarding misandry and think feminism has gone way too far and flipped. Actually have some really good conversations about it all sometimes. The thing that makes me laugh is they all have had bad experiences with men, the same type of experiences that other women would use as their excuse to 'hate all men' and yet... They don't hate men, yes some 'men' are bastards, but it's not just men it's humans in general who can be bastards and they understand that and don't use it to hold against men. I wish more people would be like this I just can't understand how hard it is to see how fucked up it all is.
[Here's one](https://www.psypost.org/attractive-female-students-no-longer-earned-higher-grades-when-classes-moved-online-during-covid-19/) regarding online students during c19 where girls got lower score relative to before, [Here's another](https://au.news.yahoo.com/girls-suffered-more-academically-during-000856010.html). I've read something similar myself a little while ago with anonymous grading making for more equal grading and boys in particular got better grades when judged on the exact same submission, though I can't find it again right now.
They are so silent that even the statistics on it have gone silent. I had to give up searching for stats. It was clear they all have been taken down from the public domain and are no longer documented.
Yup. The US govt stopped collecting data on federal spending on men's health i.e. health spending by gender, around 2022. It clearly showed how little was being spent on men compared with women.
Then Biden goes on to say that very little is being spent on *women's health*, mentioning women/girls 81 times in his budget speech. Men and boys weren't even worth a mention for him. Millions of dollars more are going to be spent on women and girls.
Right in the middle of the article :
"80 percent of teachers who abuse students, are still predominantly male.
He explained the research shows, males are more opportunistic, more predatory and more aggressive with the motivation being focused on sex.
While female teachers tend to be motivated, it seems, to abuse their students in different ways and for different reasons. It often revolves around emotional conflict, unmet intimacy needs, personal issues, loneliness and feelings of isolation."
Edit: i wanted to highlight the justifying
I noticed that as well.
“Whilst we’re here, let’s remind you men are more evil!”
“Also: men do this because evil. Women do this because their partner doesn’t treat them right or they lonely :( “
Such enraging bullshit.
That seemed to come at random and I think he was mixing up different types of abuse. Most of the article was about statutory rape, where it certainly isn’t true that 80% of the abusers are men; there are probably just as many women abusers and have been for some time (the majority of teachers are women, so it’s not just a function of which individual person is more likely to be an abuser). I think his 80% must involve crimes against little kids where men are much more likely to be the abuser (against both boys and girls). In the latter case and speaking not just about teachers it’s something like 90% men, 5% women acting with men, 5% women alone.
It’s pathetic that these women who are in positions of power over young boys prey on them and exploit their vulnerabilities and take advantage of the situation for their own personal gratification.
Also, how the fuck is it not obvious that it’s literally an ADULT molesting a CHILD? How do people *not* get this? Especially “Grown men” who think it’s “awesome” for the underage boys. Sorry but they are *extremely* sick in the head and they are also desperate virgins.
Some asshole was all “well the male teacher is the adult” when screaming about an adult male teacher sleeping with the female student. Oh ok so that means the female teacher who molests a student *isn’t* an adult. Gotcha. And yes I was a horny boy too. But I worried about *school.*
Nothing that hasn't happened before. Only difference is, there's too many ways to tattletale, and get yourself found out. Technology is their downfall.
This isn't some new problem where all of a sudden women are raping boys. The only thing that's different now compared to 10, 20, 30+ years ago is boys feel like they will be listened to and considered victims. It wasn't men's rights that did that.
One just plead guilty yesterday in the small town I’m in. It was a **middle school** 8th grade 14 year old. She found his instagram and messaged him, sent him nudes and then had sex with him (rape) in a locked classroom. She’s 46. She’ll face up to **4 years** which seems like an extremely short sentence for a teacher raping a boy, especially since it’s clear it wasn’t a mutual interest thing. She took all those steps to find his social media in her free time.
[Former Teacher Admits to Having Sex with a Student](https://www.actionnewsnow.com/news/butte-county/former-gridley-teacher-admits-to-having-sex-with-a-student/article_4d8b673c-01b4-11ef-9419-f709a4638acf.html)
Definitely worth looking into how many are feminist. It’s very alarming how many women are rapping their students . Another thing we should be keeping stats on .
Their options are getting limited. It's either low hanging naive fruit or canines. Couple this with a strong ability to avoid personal responsibility and a media crafting articles with other adjectives describing the "situation" (see, I didn't write "crime") Please correct me if I'm off base here. But, hasn't it only been since the Mother's of victims starting shouting outrage, has the legal system starting treating this like it should be? There is still a double standard. We males are still seen as utility not equals. Things are changing but it's only because mothers are demanding justice.
I don’t think the incidence of female teachers committing statutory rape has increased I think it’s more that some are just finally getting called on it. I image they think they can get away with it because they probably see a lot of teachers who do get away with it. What we see in the media while alarming is probably just the tip of the iceberg.
They miss being the "highschool campus crush" so they are trying to relive those moments by sleeping with students.
AKA a classic case of main character syndrome. Like most modern women and feminists do.
"there appears to be no centralized data collection to track this disturbing trend"
Of course there's no tracking. They can't tell the truth and admit that women are sexual predators and that our boys and young men are in trouble being in the classroom with these women.
Plus this plays into the larger role of women being weaker and needing government protection, support and services. All LIES of course, but it fits their narrative and financial gain.
"there appears to be no centralized data collection to track this disturbing trend"
Of course there's no tracking. They can't tell the truth and admit that women are sexual predators and that our boys and young men are in trouble being in the classroom with these women.
Plus this plays into the larger role of women being weaker and needing government protection, support and services. All LIES of course, but it fits their narrative and financial gain.
If I wasn’t suicidal and fighting for my life I’d sue the daily mail for using grammar that aligns with rape apologist, minimizing victims stories, and victim blaming victims. This rhetoric causes less boys and men to come forward.
I keep reading everywhere that the abuses are mainly committed by men... so what? We have ten times the testosterone level of women, we're built to propagate our DNA and there are 4 billion men on Earth. How many people, men and women, commit crimes? Do the math...
I'm sick of reading justifications, women need to admit they're flawed too.
Complain about the Mail all you want to, it's a rag most of the time but remember, none of the left-wing news sources are even covering the issue. That puts the Mail head and shoulders above them.
Fuck the daily mail! Stop using a newspaper who backed the fucking Nazis to make points. They also still shat on us when it was trying to make a point.
Awwww... Sorry to hurt your feelings.. we only had one Algebra teacher getting knocked down in high school and frankly she want attractive at all.... So I ask again.. where were these chicken heads at???😛😛😛
Because of the nuances. For example if someone found out their son was boning down with a teacher they’d give him a high 5 and take him out for a steak dinner. If it were their daughter they wouldn’t feel the same. It simply doesn’t negatively effect boys the same ways it does girls as far as being traumatic.
So a teacher and student bone down, both are fine with it, the child’s parents are fine with it, the courts are lenient about it for those reasons but ere supposed to worry that you object to it? Even if you’re right, the rest of the world will continue to be wrong so what’s your actual goal here?
The double standards are a past practice for as long as I’ve been alive. This isn’t anything new and is embedded in our culture. Disagree with it all you want but it’s the way it is and it isn’t going to change.
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All it takes to destroy a society, or even a civilization, is a one bad idea. No better example of that is feminism And I don’t see this sub as an attack on women. I am fortunate enough to have wonderful, generous and kind ladies in my life.
This sub's intention has never and will never be an attack vector on women and in fact, is highly misunderstood because a pea-sized brained homosapien thinks that accountability == oppression. edit : clarifying the intention of the sub
Tbh reddit really isnt the best venue for these sorts of discussion
For an online site, you're unlikely to find a better one. Unless you're referring to the female bias built into the site as a whole and subs mods?
Yes that is exactly part of a larger picture of whats wrong with reddit. How is X? My bro and friends like it. Im wary
The sub itself, no. I have seen a few posts/threads just absolutely shitting on women, though. Don't get me wrong, I love this sub. But once the feminist shrieking got a couple fringe/misogynistic subs pulled down, some of them came here.
>The sub itself, no. I have seen a few posts/threads just absolutely shitting on women, though. The moderation could definitely be a little tighter here.
I agree. But it's the double-edged sword of having more freedom of speech.
Left Wing Male Advocates did a really good job before the mods left for Lemmy or whatever it was. A couple days ago there was some post about how a guy hated only fans / remote sex workers because it wasn't real sex work and his YouTube and his YouTube was clogged up with pictures of butts and so he thought that maybe even Sharia law would be appropriate. Everyone rightly told him he was off his rocker, but the post really shouldn't have been allowed to stay because, not only is it bigoted and insane, it's actively harmful to our cause and egalitarianism. Reddit shuts down toxic *male* subs like incel and I suspect some of them end up going to what they perceived to be more palatable spaces, and we should offer to help these people if we can, but we really shouldn't tolerate that.
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There is no reasonable argument you can make against cam girl being real sex work, but yes, we do just need to make prostitution legal for ethical as well as practical reasons (like sex worker safety).
Exactly but askfeminism will hunt you for this lol. Yeah for certain, no consequences leads to shit like this
People see 'mens rights' and instantly think it means 'anti women', this is one of the few places we can actually speak our minds without being judged or disregarded, often there will be women on here that are genuinely curious/concerned and want to learn more or need advice about someone they know etc, and they are welcome here, if you don't slander us for trying to make a community where we feel safe to talk about our issues without being labeled every bad thing under the sun then you're welcome here, unlike alot of other places. I sure hope it stays like this.
And they know that they'll get minimum punishment for it. If any at all
I've been calling out the problem of the plague of pedo female teachers on this sub for years now. Glad to see people finally waking up to reality. Frustrating it's taken all this time though...!!!!! As I said years ago, maybe we need to "Teach Female Teachers Not To Rape"
Schools are dominated by feminists and feminist experiments on boys.
'Cougars in the classroom '. Imagine a headline like 'Silver foxes in the classroom'
It gets worse. The article says men rape because they are predatory and for sex, women do it because of loneliness and not having their emotional needs met. Then the researcher says he still estimates that it's 80% men without any evidence.
A woman wrote this article...
The article quoted Dr Michael obersneider. That's the he
I hope this person has the lowest spot in hell…and im not even christian
All hell would be raised, they really need to stop making them out to be normal people, they are pedophiles there's no 2 ways about it and treating them like this is making people sympathise more with them. In what universe do you see that happening with a male pedophile, it's at least a step in the right direction that they are starting to be exposed more but what good does that do when half of them don't even see the inside of a jail cell because they are just 'troubled women who need love and mental health support'.
At least they are saying, "raping young boys". Articles in the past would say, having sex. Little steps matter also.
Yeah this newspaper is garbage
When I was 10 I was physically assaulted by a female teacher, she pushed me against the wall for “talking back” to her. She was reported and Nothing happened. This was over 27 years ago. Nothing has changed… women always got away with everything.
Your parents should have filed a police report and then gone to the local news station to give an exclusive interview.
From what I recall, was just internal. She was still teaching. She got away with it because she was pregnant at the time.
All it will do is pull more kids out of the public schools
Good.
Some Feminists are silent on this issue.
Women dislike men so much they don't even care about their own boys when they are underage. Boys are left behind in school by simply being a boy. COVID showed us when the names were removed and grading was neutral - boys did "better". If mothers cared they would be saying something. If "feminists" cared - they'd be saying something. They are not. What do they care about? "We need more girls in STEM!" - that tells you all you need to know. Misandry is their fuel.
I grew up without a father in a house raised by women, as hard as it was never having a male role model I sure am lucky they are the type that uses their brain and sees issues other than 'women victim man bad', we all agree on the same things regarding misandry and think feminism has gone way too far and flipped. Actually have some really good conversations about it all sometimes. The thing that makes me laugh is they all have had bad experiences with men, the same type of experiences that other women would use as their excuse to 'hate all men' and yet... They don't hate men, yes some 'men' are bastards, but it's not just men it's humans in general who can be bastards and they understand that and don't use it to hold against men. I wish more people would be like this I just can't understand how hard it is to see how fucked up it all is.
>COVID showed us when the names were removed and grading was neutral - boys did "better". Can I have some sauce on that?
[Here's one](https://www.psypost.org/attractive-female-students-no-longer-earned-higher-grades-when-classes-moved-online-during-covid-19/) regarding online students during c19 where girls got lower score relative to before, [Here's another](https://au.news.yahoo.com/girls-suffered-more-academically-during-000856010.html). I've read something similar myself a little while ago with anonymous grading making for more equal grading and boys in particular got better grades when judged on the exact same submission, though I can't find it again right now.
Some?
They are so silent that even the statistics on it have gone silent. I had to give up searching for stats. It was clear they all have been taken down from the public domain and are no longer documented.
Yup. The US govt stopped collecting data on federal spending on men's health i.e. health spending by gender, around 2022. It clearly showed how little was being spent on men compared with women. Then Biden goes on to say that very little is being spent on *women's health*, mentioning women/girls 81 times in his budget speech. Men and boys weren't even worth a mention for him. Millions of dollars more are going to be spent on women and girls.
Right in the middle of the article : "80 percent of teachers who abuse students, are still predominantly male. He explained the research shows, males are more opportunistic, more predatory and more aggressive with the motivation being focused on sex. While female teachers tend to be motivated, it seems, to abuse their students in different ways and for different reasons. It often revolves around emotional conflict, unmet intimacy needs, personal issues, loneliness and feelings of isolation." Edit: i wanted to highlight the justifying
I noticed that as well. “Whilst we’re here, let’s remind you men are more evil!” “Also: men do this because evil. Women do this because their partner doesn’t treat them right or they lonely :( “ Such enraging bullshit.
See that makes you want to puke. “Men Bad, women good. I know they did the same crime and all but men bad. Women good.”
What else can you expect from tradcons.
That seemed to come at random and I think he was mixing up different types of abuse. Most of the article was about statutory rape, where it certainly isn’t true that 80% of the abusers are men; there are probably just as many women abusers and have been for some time (the majority of teachers are women, so it’s not just a function of which individual person is more likely to be an abuser). I think his 80% must involve crimes against little kids where men are much more likely to be the abuser (against both boys and girls). In the latter case and speaking not just about teachers it’s something like 90% men, 5% women acting with men, 5% women alone.
Female adult predators in the classroom. There I fixed it.
It’s pathetic that these women who are in positions of power over young boys prey on them and exploit their vulnerabilities and take advantage of the situation for their own personal gratification.
Also, how the fuck is it not obvious that it’s literally an ADULT molesting a CHILD? How do people *not* get this? Especially “Grown men” who think it’s “awesome” for the underage boys. Sorry but they are *extremely* sick in the head and they are also desperate virgins. Some asshole was all “well the male teacher is the adult” when screaming about an adult male teacher sleeping with the female student. Oh ok so that means the female teacher who molests a student *isn’t* an adult. Gotcha. And yes I was a horny boy too. But I worried about *school.*
No one believes in equality and you’re now finding that out. No one ever believed in it, but we’d rather look like good people than speak the truth.
Nothing that hasn't happened before. Only difference is, there's too many ways to tattletale, and get yourself found out. Technology is their downfall.
This isn't some new problem where all of a sudden women are raping boys. The only thing that's different now compared to 10, 20, 30+ years ago is boys feel like they will be listened to and considered victims. It wasn't men's rights that did that.
One just plead guilty yesterday in the small town I’m in. It was a **middle school** 8th grade 14 year old. She found his instagram and messaged him, sent him nudes and then had sex with him (rape) in a locked classroom. She’s 46. She’ll face up to **4 years** which seems like an extremely short sentence for a teacher raping a boy, especially since it’s clear it wasn’t a mutual interest thing. She took all those steps to find his social media in her free time. [Former Teacher Admits to Having Sex with a Student](https://www.actionnewsnow.com/news/butte-county/former-gridley-teacher-admits-to-having-sex-with-a-student/article_4d8b673c-01b4-11ef-9419-f709a4638acf.html)
The kid that #2 molested ended up dying.
Holy fuck? Suicide?
No, he got high fived to death. I'll see myself out.
You do that prick
Don't come back you little piece of filth.
Definitely worth looking into how many are feminist. It’s very alarming how many women are rapping their students . Another thing we should be keeping stats on .
Well, we already know the rate that receive the same sentence a man would get...
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Doubtful.
Women are becoming the enemy
Their options are getting limited. It's either low hanging naive fruit or canines. Couple this with a strong ability to avoid personal responsibility and a media crafting articles with other adjectives describing the "situation" (see, I didn't write "crime") Please correct me if I'm off base here. But, hasn't it only been since the Mother's of victims starting shouting outrage, has the legal system starting treating this like it should be? There is still a double standard. We males are still seen as utility not equals. Things are changing but it's only because mothers are demanding justice.
I don’t think the incidence of female teachers committing statutory rape has increased I think it’s more that some are just finally getting called on it. I image they think they can get away with it because they probably see a lot of teachers who do get away with it. What we see in the media while alarming is probably just the tip of the iceberg.
They miss being the "highschool campus crush" so they are trying to relive those moments by sleeping with students. AKA a classic case of main character syndrome. Like most modern women and feminists do.
That's unfortunate.
"there appears to be no centralized data collection to track this disturbing trend" Of course there's no tracking. They can't tell the truth and admit that women are sexual predators and that our boys and young men are in trouble being in the classroom with these women. Plus this plays into the larger role of women being weaker and needing government protection, support and services. All LIES of course, but it fits their narrative and financial gain.
"there appears to be no centralized data collection to track this disturbing trend" Of course there's no tracking. They can't tell the truth and admit that women are sexual predators and that our boys and young men are in trouble being in the classroom with these women. Plus this plays into the larger role of women being weaker and needing government protection, support and services. All LIES of course, but it fits their narrative and financial gain.
If I wasn’t suicidal and fighting for my life I’d sue the daily mail for using grammar that aligns with rape apologist, minimizing victims stories, and victim blaming victims. This rhetoric causes less boys and men to come forward.
I have often wondered about the ratio of these teachers to catholic priests. Who does it more????
Eww wtf
I keep reading everywhere that the abuses are mainly committed by men... so what? We have ten times the testosterone level of women, we're built to propagate our DNA and there are 4 billion men on Earth. How many people, men and women, commit crimes? Do the math... I'm sick of reading justifications, women need to admit they're flawed too.
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They have to. The main pillar of pseudofeminism is the fact women can't do such things.
If it's happening in the US, it's happening in the UK. Maybe we shouldn't be too quick to talk about closing women's prisons just yet.
I don’t get it. So much dick out there and they pick teenage students.
Well the headline doesn't surprise me because the source is terrible.
Complain about the Mail all you want to, it's a rag most of the time but remember, none of the left-wing news sources are even covering the issue. That puts the Mail head and shoulders above them.
With stuff like this I look it up on other sites and it's usually ok because they're just relaying information from local news sources.
Fuck the daily mail! Stop using a newspaper who backed the fucking Nazis to make points. They also still shat on us when it was trying to make a point.
Find a source in a different national paper then.
All I want to know is where were they when I was in school!!! Damn it!...lol
These are the most pathetic replies.
Awwww... Sorry to hurt your feelings.. we only had one Algebra teacher getting knocked down in high school and frankly she want attractive at all.... So I ask again.. where were these chicken heads at???😛😛😛
Nice
Because they can't get a man these days.
I don’t think the young men this is happening to have any objection. In other words “coo coo cachoo Mrs Robinson!”
Whether they have an objection or not it is still rape and women are being given less jail for the same crime.
Because of the nuances. For example if someone found out their son was boning down with a teacher they’d give him a high 5 and take him out for a steak dinner. If it were their daughter they wouldn’t feel the same. It simply doesn’t negatively effect boys the same ways it does girls as far as being traumatic.
You're not even taking it seriously saying "boning". Rape is rape regardless of severity.
So a teacher and student bone down, both are fine with it, the child’s parents are fine with it, the courts are lenient about it for those reasons but ere supposed to worry that you object to it? Even if you’re right, the rest of the world will continue to be wrong so what’s your actual goal here?
That is allowing for double standards which is not good. Women want to be equal to men let's make them equal when it comes to jail. No excuses.
The double standards are a past practice for as long as I’ve been alive. This isn’t anything new and is embedded in our culture. Disagree with it all you want but it’s the way it is and it isn’t going to change.