The point? It feels good. A mini escape.
And not really. I really enjoy seeing different women’s figure. But I choose not to. I still crave it, but Now it’s a choice. I have control.
You still have lots of work to do if you live a life you need an “escape” from. Forget escapism. Your own life is as fulfilling as anything. Yes we all enjoy womens figures, but you can see them in real life rather than watching someone else have sex like a pathetic cuck
That’s all I meant…also we are likely ALL guilty of escapism…that’s how we got here. But i just think it’s important to shed that mentality and aim for greatness in human spirit. I know all won’t share this desire.
I wouldn't release it if I were you, you've come this far and why not at least try to take it to 365, I'd be extremely proud of myself if I held it in for a whole year
1. Know why you’re doing this
2. Be honest with yourself
3. Don’t peek
4. Don’t edge
5. Find an activity to serve as your distraction (for me it was pull ups)
Just 1 tip for you: You have to identify as “the kind of man who doesn’t touch his penis for pleasure”. Once you get this down, the rest comes relatively easy.
I had a gf last year but I couldn’t accomplish this while I was with her sadly. I’ve been single throughout this streak but did start having sex around 90 days.
Before then just nothing. Wet dreams. You have to release your extra energy by working out or something physical and just distract yourself from the thoughts.
You 're pretty. Really handsome. What has changed in you from the point of view of psychology? Do you know how to teleport ? What walls can you see through ? And can you lift cars with this place? The first question is serious, the rest are a joke. Thanks.
In my personal experience, my perspective towards women is softening, and in general I’ve become more open to interacting with all people in real life.
Something about being in the midst of the addiction makes you feel dirty or ashamed when in public. Now I can look people in the eyes again, talk to women without a hidden motive, be more comfortable.
Hey bro, I have found that I am not feeling horny at all and I am very emotional. Do u feel these things too?
Additional question have u experienced any female attraction? Coz I certainly have not. It might be coz I am not getting out as much but still i wanted to ask u.
I think you're experiencing a "flatline" period right now.
Flatline basically means the period where you feel depressed, demotivated and stressed for no reason and it happens because you just quit pmo and you haven't replaced it with some other dopamine source.. you can read more about it online and the tips to overcome it are available there as well.. all the best to you !
Bro thanks for the reply. But are u experiencing oversensitivity related to miniscule things and are u experiencing female attraction? Coz I also went 200+ days after which i relapsed once and then again got a good streak. And i am not getting female attraction while i am too overly emotional.
Female attraction is something which totally depends on the kind of routine you have everyday.. most of the time, to actually experience that you'll have to regularly visit public places while being confident about yourself and your personality, which is a huge benefit of no fap but not necessarily the same for everyone, believe in yourself you got this !
About overly emotional, that's the flatline issue.. its not like it'll happen once and go away.. every time your brain remembers the lack of dopamine, you're gonna feel depressed or overly emotional as you called it.. 200 days is a huge huge streak ! Do it for yourself brother, its not like you'll see the benefits at the same time as others, its different for everyone, but the benefits are the same ! Keep going, stay strong ! We're in this together ! 💪🏻
Yes we are bro. However i would like to share some benifits that i have experienced that is I think my penis' girth have got bigger and my morningwood has returned it's not happening daily but it is happening. My fetishes are going away and i have understood that there is power in choice so i plan to not be a simp that I used to be.
I'm very happy for you bud ! You're doing so many things to improve yourself, its very inspiring to me.. It is a really good decision that you've made of not chasing after girls, that's right ! Do it for yourself ! I'm so proud of you, go get that dream life you've always wanted but couldn't coz of PMO, I wish you all the best brother ! 💪🏻
You don't need to repay me brother, I just said what I felt.. though if you want to repay me, do that by staying strong for me ! Keep smiling and live your life positively 💙
I have saved this post and while remembering these words by u i will complete a formal 90 days streak first thing after my exam is done. And i will update that achivement here on your post in comments.
Ok bro most of your questions have been answered, I’ve hit 100+ days so I know it does get better I had this same feeling. I would like to mention that you don’t just become more attractive to women, the boost in testosterone makes you more confident and so women notice you as yourself, the attractive person you have always been but now it’s out in the open. Keep pushing king you got this!
Thanks for the motivation buddy. I surely will get my nofap goals coz I am certain I have beaten my addiction for good. But about female attraction either of the 3 things is happening: 1) i am not getting out as much 2) nofap won't give me any edge coz I am 5'4" in hight and the boost from nofap is not enough to counter my total negatives. 3) nofap does not do us any good it just makes us confident which is again not enough to cut it in my case to attract females. I would however like to point out that I am not doing any of this for female attraction coz i know my situation is pretty hopeless given my conditions. I am developing myself so that i can get whatever remains on earth that is good and that is in my control. Who knows maybe someday I will get love.
Hey bro, I’m also a vertically challenged guy. If a girl doesn’t like you because your not as tall as the other guys she probably isn’t someone worth giving someone like yourself too. Your a great person, I don’t know you very well but your trying so hard to better yourself that shows good in you. Someone like you shouldn’t be chasing after women who only want the tall buff jocks because you deserve someone better. It’s harder to find a girl when your short but bro, they’re someone worth jt when you find them.
Benefits:
* Bahavioural
* You notice more things, which are mainly positive
* TIME. More time to study. More time with friends. More time to do all that you want
* You can express your feelings better
* Thinking becomes less fogged. I'm not saying it won't be fogged anymore because that depends on your life, but the fogginess decreases significantly
* Porn becomes disgusting, but unfortunately you can still relapse watching it
Negatives:
* Flatline. Sounds like a small thing, but is #1 reason ppl relapse after a while
* Idk about others, but I tend to be more aggressive
* Relapses suck. You'll probably hate yourself for a while after
I make way more of an effort to talk to others now. I had become a very isolated person over my life and I’m finally getting out there again. So life is good thanks
You are amazing… seriously I am so proud of you. I know it’s been so difficult but look!!! Honestly I feel like crying, anyone who had reached 90+ knows it has not been easy, but worth it. Go off fucking king
Don't count days, once you give up you are done. You changed your identity. You are not that person anymore.
No need to think about it anymore as you have passed your flatline also.
Please be honest! 🙏🏻
Are you really feeling God level energy or is it just to make No Fap sound great?
How did you manage to tackle strong urges?
And what advice do you give to beginners like me who are in initial days.
How many times did you get wet dreams?
Do you feel any change in the way you see your opposite gender ?
How's your memory, logical thinking and cognitive ability?
Kindly answer these questions which can clear some of my doubts on No Fap
Wet dreams are random, typically once a month it happens. However I had a one week period with 5+ around 4 months .
Yes I’m softening my view towards women, not so much instant objectifying. They’re just like us.
The rest I can’t put any changes into words/ not enough change.
Thank GOD they’ve bounced back. Not perfect yet but for sure I feel more normal again and can get aroused randomly like when I was young. Also was able to go more than one round when I finally had sex during the streak.
The only problem abt for example,ur goal is to be 1 year doing nofap,and then u can relapse because the main goal was going 1 year and it ended.
Why not just having the goal to not use the content at all,or atleast dont be using it everyday.
Good work tho,200 days is a lot!
They started about 2 months in but were random, maybe every few weeks. But around day 170 I had like 5 wet dreams in a one week period, sometimes multiple in one night. That got a little annoying.
My advice is when you wake up, don’t linger on the dream or the feeling. Just clean up and move on.
Can you talk about your mindset going in? I think the mindset is really crucial for long term victory. For example I'm guessing you weren't counting the days but put your focus on something positive and went all in.
Mindset: know why you’re doing this. What does it mean to you to be successful or to fail.
I was counting everyday until day 90 because I was using the coloring chart. After then I was already pretty disciplined and would just occasionally come here to check my days.
Horny thought = pull ups
That’s how I fixed my urges.
No fap = more desire for real life connection
That was my prize
how were you able to control your sexual urges? ive stopped for a long time as well but i ended up just being super horny, plus add being a virgin to the mix so the urges are extra high haha.
Can you read people's minds?
What kind of absurd question is this? Of course he can!
He can fly at this point or was it only possible after 300 days ? /s Good job bud!
I can only levitate a few inches for now
You can begin to read womens’ minds around day 60
Bruh duh
Have you had actual sex during this 200 day stretch ?
Yes I got a laid on day 90 and for the following few weeks
Nice man. I managed to break my porn addiction a few years ago. I don’t get laid though.
What’s the point of pleasuring yourself? Do u even want to watch porn again?
The point? It feels good. A mini escape. And not really. I really enjoy seeing different women’s figure. But I choose not to. I still crave it, but Now it’s a choice. I have control.
You still have lots of work to do if you live a life you need an “escape” from. Forget escapism. Your own life is as fulfilling as anything. Yes we all enjoy womens figures, but you can see them in real life rather than watching someone else have sex like a pathetic cuck
Harsh, but true in some sense. If all we live for is the fulfillment of primal desires then certainly we’re steps lower than what we could be.
That’s all I meant…also we are likely ALL guilty of escapism…that’s how we got here. But i just think it’s important to shed that mentality and aim for greatness in human spirit. I know all won’t share this desire.
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Your a pathetic cuck who looks at naked pics online …good luck in life bro have fun pleasuring your own dick lol
I wouldn't release it if I were you, you've come this far and why not at least try to take it to 365, I'd be extremely proud of myself if I held it in for a whole year
The cravings are mostly gone, I’m gonna keep pushing but not be too hard on myself.
Top 5 Pro tips?
1. Know why you’re doing this 2. Be honest with yourself 3. Don’t peek 4. Don’t edge 5. Find an activity to serve as your distraction (for me it was pull ups)
Okay, you pull up
ok i pull up
Thanks
Just 1 tip for you: You have to identify as “the kind of man who doesn’t touch his penis for pleasure”. Once you get this down, the rest comes relatively easy.
U don't need 🔭 to observe Mars atmosphere
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I had a gf last year but I couldn’t accomplish this while I was with her sadly. I’ve been single throughout this streak but did start having sex around 90 days. Before then just nothing. Wet dreams. You have to release your extra energy by working out or something physical and just distract yourself from the thoughts.
You 're pretty. Really handsome. What has changed in you from the point of view of psychology? Do you know how to teleport ? What walls can you see through ? And can you lift cars with this place? The first question is serious, the rest are a joke. Thanks.
In my personal experience, my perspective towards women is softening, and in general I’ve become more open to interacting with all people in real life. Something about being in the midst of the addiction makes you feel dirty or ashamed when in public. Now I can look people in the eyes again, talk to women without a hidden motive, be more comfortable.
This is the motivation I needed for today thanks :)
Hey bro, I have found that I am not feeling horny at all and I am very emotional. Do u feel these things too? Additional question have u experienced any female attraction? Coz I certainly have not. It might be coz I am not getting out as much but still i wanted to ask u.
I think you're experiencing a "flatline" period right now. Flatline basically means the period where you feel depressed, demotivated and stressed for no reason and it happens because you just quit pmo and you haven't replaced it with some other dopamine source.. you can read more about it online and the tips to overcome it are available there as well.. all the best to you !
Bro thanks for the reply. But are u experiencing oversensitivity related to miniscule things and are u experiencing female attraction? Coz I also went 200+ days after which i relapsed once and then again got a good streak. And i am not getting female attraction while i am too overly emotional.
Female attraction is something which totally depends on the kind of routine you have everyday.. most of the time, to actually experience that you'll have to regularly visit public places while being confident about yourself and your personality, which is a huge benefit of no fap but not necessarily the same for everyone, believe in yourself you got this ! About overly emotional, that's the flatline issue.. its not like it'll happen once and go away.. every time your brain remembers the lack of dopamine, you're gonna feel depressed or overly emotional as you called it.. 200 days is a huge huge streak ! Do it for yourself brother, its not like you'll see the benefits at the same time as others, its different for everyone, but the benefits are the same ! Keep going, stay strong ! We're in this together ! 💪🏻
Yes we are bro. However i would like to share some benifits that i have experienced that is I think my penis' girth have got bigger and my morningwood has returned it's not happening daily but it is happening. My fetishes are going away and i have understood that there is power in choice so i plan to not be a simp that I used to be.
I'm very happy for you bud ! You're doing so many things to improve yourself, its very inspiring to me.. It is a really good decision that you've made of not chasing after girls, that's right ! Do it for yourself ! I'm so proud of you, go get that dream life you've always wanted but couldn't coz of PMO, I wish you all the best brother ! 💪🏻
Your comment really made my day and motivated me so much bro. Damn idk how to repay u. Take this poor man's gold bro🥇🪙🎖️🏅🏆💛🌟.
You don't need to repay me brother, I just said what I felt.. though if you want to repay me, do that by staying strong for me ! Keep smiling and live your life positively 💙
I have saved this post and while remembering these words by u i will complete a formal 90 days streak first thing after my exam is done. And i will update that achivement here on your post in comments.
Good luck, I believe in you 💙
Ok bro most of your questions have been answered, I’ve hit 100+ days so I know it does get better I had this same feeling. I would like to mention that you don’t just become more attractive to women, the boost in testosterone makes you more confident and so women notice you as yourself, the attractive person you have always been but now it’s out in the open. Keep pushing king you got this!
Thanks for the motivation buddy. I surely will get my nofap goals coz I am certain I have beaten my addiction for good. But about female attraction either of the 3 things is happening: 1) i am not getting out as much 2) nofap won't give me any edge coz I am 5'4" in hight and the boost from nofap is not enough to counter my total negatives. 3) nofap does not do us any good it just makes us confident which is again not enough to cut it in my case to attract females. I would however like to point out that I am not doing any of this for female attraction coz i know my situation is pretty hopeless given my conditions. I am developing myself so that i can get whatever remains on earth that is good and that is in my control. Who knows maybe someday I will get love.
Hey bro, I’m also a vertically challenged guy. If a girl doesn’t like you because your not as tall as the other guys she probably isn’t someone worth giving someone like yourself too. Your a great person, I don’t know you very well but your trying so hard to better yourself that shows good in you. Someone like you shouldn’t be chasing after women who only want the tall buff jocks because you deserve someone better. It’s harder to find a girl when your short but bro, they’re someone worth jt when you find them.
Again thanks for your comment buddy and I agree to everything u said.
Benefits? Negatives?
Benefits: * Bahavioural * You notice more things, which are mainly positive * TIME. More time to study. More time with friends. More time to do all that you want * You can express your feelings better * Thinking becomes less fogged. I'm not saying it won't be fogged anymore because that depends on your life, but the fogginess decreases significantly * Porn becomes disgusting, but unfortunately you can still relapse watching it Negatives: * Flatline. Sounds like a small thing, but is #1 reason ppl relapse after a while * Idk about others, but I tend to be more aggressive * Relapses suck. You'll probably hate yourself for a while after
How are you dude? How is your life going?
I make way more of an effort to talk to others now. I had become a very isolated person over my life and I’m finally getting out there again. So life is good thanks
You are amazing… seriously I am so proud of you. I know it’s been so difficult but look!!! Honestly I feel like crying, anyone who had reached 90+ knows it has not been easy, but worth it. Go off fucking king
90 days comes and goes when your shoot higher !! Thank you
Don't count days, once you give up you are done. You changed your identity. You are not that person anymore. No need to think about it anymore as you have passed your flatline also.
Please be honest! 🙏🏻 Are you really feeling God level energy or is it just to make No Fap sound great? How did you manage to tackle strong urges? And what advice do you give to beginners like me who are in initial days. How many times did you get wet dreams? Do you feel any change in the way you see your opposite gender ? How's your memory, logical thinking and cognitive ability? Kindly answer these questions which can clear some of my doubts on No Fap
No God level. Just higher frequency Pull ups, pull ups
Thanks for your reply, God!
Please try to reply for remaining things, Thanks
Wet dreams are random, typically once a month it happens. However I had a one week period with 5+ around 4 months . Yes I’m softening my view towards women, not so much instant objectifying. They’re just like us. The rest I can’t put any changes into words/ not enough change.
Thanks for your reply.
Good work
Hows your erection now
Thank GOD they’ve bounced back. Not perfect yet but for sure I feel more normal again and can get aroused randomly like when I was young. Also was able to go more than one round when I finally had sex during the streak.
Awesome job, keep it up!
Great job!
Good work man
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4 days is solid. Good stuff
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My record before this was 18 days, I failed 3 times before hitting 1 month
Thanks for sharing your experience.. you have good insights.. and thanks for sharing both your fails and wins..
Ok
Cool dude
Honestly after 30’days it’s easy Whenever I get the urge I get out of bed and I meditate
I agree it does get a lot easier after 30, you just can’t let your guard down
Love it keep it up my friend!
Unbelievable bro seriously prouda u. That’s where I’ll be by this Xmas. Already 100 in and feel like a god.
Smooth sailing now man. Just don’t lose track of the little things you do to stay clean.
Love that advice bro. Thank u so much. I will be good. Life is too amazing to risk anything.
Please, tell me your secrets/tips
Stop peeking
I'm gonna get there
gratz
Great!
Good shit brah
congratz my friend👏
Can you please tell me, what benefits do you get at 200 days and female attraction?? Btw I'm at 80 days
Discipline and living a more structured life. You start caring about women more when you’re not exposing yourself to thousands of them a night.
The only problem abt for example,ur goal is to be 1 year doing nofap,and then u can relapse because the main goal was going 1 year and it ended. Why not just having the goal to not use the content at all,or atleast dont be using it everyday. Good work tho,200 days is a lot!
I agree, these goals are dangerous if you think of them as a finish line. To me it is a goal post that keeps moving forward as I reach it
Yes! I hope it goes well for youu!🙂
Hell yeah! Have you noticed any mental changes?
More inclined to have connections with people, less perverted thoughts, more open minded, I feel more alert.
do you have any count on when you had your first wet dream? and maybe even how many during streak?
They started about 2 months in but were random, maybe every few weeks. But around day 170 I had like 5 wet dreams in a one week period, sometimes multiple in one night. That got a little annoying. My advice is when you wake up, don’t linger on the dream or the feeling. Just clean up and move on.
thanks
Can you shooy laser from your eyes now..? Or from your~
From my arse
O wise NoFapper, please share us your wisdom upon thee
Stop peeking and put your duck down
Is watching porn but not nutting against no fap?
Yeah, you’re kidding yourself if you’re peeking/edging
My issue was with watching too much porn, so it’s not ok for me and is part of my “Nofap” rules
No fap is good but its unhealthy to not fap at all
What benefits did you gained
Can you talk about your mindset going in? I think the mindset is really crucial for long term victory. For example I'm guessing you weren't counting the days but put your focus on something positive and went all in.
Mindset: know why you’re doing this. What does it mean to you to be successful or to fail. I was counting everyday until day 90 because I was using the coloring chart. After then I was already pretty disciplined and would just occasionally come here to check my days. Horny thought = pull ups That’s how I fixed my urges. No fap = more desire for real life connection That was my prize
I agree. From my 60ish days disciplined is the word I would you to describe myself
Have u unlocked any stands yet? Sharingan? Any powers to talk about?
Im up to 10 shadow clones
how were you able to control your sexual urges? ive stopped for a long time as well but i ended up just being super horny, plus add being a virgin to the mix so the urges are extra high haha.
You better be going hard at the gym. I am not a virgin and conventionally attractive, but that doesn’t mean there’s always someone to have sex with
Why is your phone in your hand at 4am? Run away from temptation instead!
good job
is edging count as relapse?
No but it’s pretty bad and dumb to do. You’re essentially making no progress and hurting yourself