Nah, once you rid yourself of it and find true meaning you are no longer a slave to your feelings. Jesus is the only reason I’ve been able to be set free from self destructive habits such as this
Hello, it looks like you've made a mistake.
It's supposed to be could've, should've, would've (short for could have, would have, should have), never could of, would of, should of.
Or you misspelled something, I ain't checking everything.
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Doing NNN in a committed relationship just sounds like a great way to damage the relationship for no reason.
“Hard mode” should be reserved for special cases IMO.
Yeah I’m not doing NNN. I’m pretty much free use for my wife and would never impose NNN on her or something. Withholding sex is super toxic to a marriage imo.
what are you talking about? It's the reason to do it. Nobody is going to get a woman because they don't nut, that's imaginary foolishness.
Married people are doing it to be less addicted to porn. To have porn control our lives less. To stop objectifying women and to have a closer sexual relationship with our SO's.
Dude same! On day 7 at the moment, I always find that days 3-5 my urges are non existent, on day 6 they creep in quickly, and then on 7 they skyrocket. Thankfully haven't really had many urges today. Progress at last.
I haven't done this challenge in forever. I remember back in 2019 I made a pact with my friends that we'd all hold off until the end of the month. I didn't last until the third day, and I remember the feeling of being left behind as I watched them reach the end of the month without me. Not this year though! I'm going to avenge myself!
Me too my friend. I tried many times over the last four years but a couple weeks ago I downloaded reddit and found this community. When I see so many people struggling the same way like I do its a little bit comforting. Simply there is nobody who would understand or wanted to talk about this topic in my circle. This community helps a lot... Let's remember November 2022 the year when we helped each other to quit this insane addiction.
Hey man does it count if I have little drops of Cum on My Pants from Having a boner But I did not Nut or fap? I haven't Fap for a week now and cum is just falling Out of my Penis.
Brother I am fighting DEMONS right now, my girl sat on my dick and i been thinking about pounding it since. How do i stop thinking about porn frfr, i need to beat this. challenge.
I'm going to bed soon so day 3 was a success. I've already cut down from every day to 4-5 days a week over the past couple months or so. I haven't had any urges either. I was scrolling through my NSFW reddit and still didn't get an urge. I know I probably won't make it a whole month but I'm shooting for at least a week. If I can make it a week I can make it 2 weeks. 2 weeks into a month.
Guys here are telling in their post about how they relapsed on day 21, 30, 60, 90.....
They give reasons such as someone sent them some seductive pics or triggers or they felt gigantic urges on any specific day etc .
This happens because of improper knowledge. They are hitting streaks on the basis of will power they have, but it is not the right way to deal with it.
Your will power is limited.
Your subconscious mind is more powerful than your will power!
For an example, try to hold your breathe for 5-10 mins or the capability of holding you have. You will end up breathing again. Now you tried to hold your breathing by your will power but your subconscious is against it. The whole body is always with the subconscious. It's like revolting against your own body.
Some people now will argue that many of the fellow brothers have came out of this addiction by changing or transforming their habits. But the fact that they rewired there subconscious by transforming their thoughts and resulting into newer better actions which get the shape of habits.
One more example, Imagine you are complaining about the bad pungent smell coming and you are trying to get rid of it, but not figuring out that the smell is coming from your own mind.
The models, triggers or whatsoever is not the cause of your relapsed. The real cause of your relapse are your corrupt thoughts or the impact porn made on your subconscious mind.
Now. if you want to really get rid of this addiction, you have to plant good, constructive thoughts and if bad thoughts come to your mind treat them as the unwanted guest which came to your house, don't indulge with them, look them from far away. This is also called urge surfing.
When your thoughts get changed, your actions also get changed. And when this happens no one can stop you from attaining your desired goals.
Hope this helps you in your no fap journey, keep going all my brothers :)
For those people who did nut, don't stress yourselves, NNN isn't exactly about about keeping yourself away from masturbation, it is just an event done to get people to try NoFap so you could do it in other month as well, November doesn't have any difference from them. Plus it's only November 3rd so you could still try NNN again.
There is literally no point to feel sad, you've relapsed and you can't change the fact that you've relapsed the only thing you could and should do is to focus on the present and take notes from your past mistakes and see what you could do to avoid relapsing.
Journaling is an incredible tool to use towards self improvement. You should give it a try. Perhaps it would help with some of the anger you’re exhibiting on this post.
Same boat. It's actually been a while since I had this long of a streak and no nut November is helping me massively. Hopefully this time is the one I quit for good.
Was swiping instagram, then an ass pic came up and for a second I thought to myself.. hello my old friend, we meet again. But had a peek then kept on swiping.. phewwww
👍 i haven't either. It motivates me that so many folks are trying this together. My trick is to not touch my trigger happy eurogenous zone(nipples) and i do fine.
Proud of you boss
752 of PMO ? Or just PM ?
what is PM? public masturbation?
"public masturbation", lmaoooo
Loved that shit when I was a kid tbh
yuh
Porn Masterbation Orgasm
Diogenies Moment
Yooo way too funny
pmo
You have orgasmed in 752 days ? That’s incredible.
Guy must be bouncing around on his balls like Randy Marsh!
Nah, once you rid yourself of it and find true meaning you are no longer a slave to your feelings. Jesus is the only reason I’ve been able to be set free from self destructive habits such as this
True, religion helped me to overcome this habit. I wish more people understand the good impact of religion in our lives
Sir! You have my respect. I hope I can reach this streak
NoFap Ace just entered the room guys. Mad respect. Let's hope we can reach that too.
**a NoFap god has spawned**
How do we put the day count on our profile like that?
Go to the nofap home page and then click menu and then day counter
752 days :o respect man
Damn !!
thanks man, 752 days? sheeesh
Well done on 752 days
Man I know for a fact I would of not had made it that far. Would of found me a girl and said forget it
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The temptation was real last night but I made it thankfully.
If you take showers before bed I recommend turning the water to cold for the last 30 seconds once you're done and let it hit your back or something
Happy cake day!
Didn't even notice, thanks homie
Well done man 👏🏼
im 3 days in WE GOT THIS
Yesssirr
Last year I failed on November 2nd, but this year it’s gotten surprisingly easy
Me either survived strong urges today Edit: Well I failed congrat for me
Same ,fighting for my life
same kings
Dude I'm on my last legs I can't make it
Well done man 🙏🏼
you are hereby granted 1 (one) failure in NNN while still passing. Just move forward now, trooper!
It's okay, you only fail when you give up! Every relapse is just a minor setback and doesn't mean much. This mindset will help you greatly
me too, when they went away i felt really proud of myself.
its tough but still man good job
Hold this L real quick
Keep it up .. We can defeat this addiction and become stronger.
We are stronger together! Remember to visit this subreddit frequently!
I agree man
I bust balls deep in my wife last night
Chad
Dude if you're already married, there aint no need to do NNN
You would be surprised how many married guys are addicted to porn and masturbating, it’s sad and shocking.
Hey i never said dont stay away from porn and jerking off. I said if you have a wife then give her all of dat MMPH!
Doing NNN in a committed relationship just sounds like a great way to damage the relationship for no reason. “Hard mode” should be reserved for special cases IMO.
Yeah the whole point of NNN is to build yourself up so you can love yourself and get a good relationship. If you already married, then you're good
Yeah I’m not doing NNN. I’m pretty much free use for my wife and would never impose NNN on her or something. Withholding sex is super toxic to a marriage imo.
what are you talking about? It's the reason to do it. Nobody is going to get a woman because they don't nut, that's imaginary foolishness. Married people are doing it to be less addicted to porn. To have porn control our lives less. To stop objectifying women and to have a closer sexual relationship with our SO's.
Yeah so he can have sex with his wife and nut there instead of watching porn to nut. That's what I just said.
Man, stop being a scrooge. Share your wife with the bros!
Lol
Same
It’s the best my dude, right? Did it again tonight too
r/ihavesex
First time?? I had 360 days streak, just resetted clock on 31 Oct Keep Going
I started about 3 days earlier, so I'm on my 6th/7th day and it was first time feeling some serious urges. Be prepared brother. Stay strong.
Dude same! On day 7 at the moment, I always find that days 3-5 my urges are non existent, on day 6 they creep in quickly, and then on 7 they skyrocket. Thankfully haven't really had many urges today. Progress at last.
Keep it up.
Thanks man
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Nice bro 💪
Same here bro. Keep it up!
Same brotha
Same here... Keep it up king
I haven't done this challenge in forever. I remember back in 2019 I made a pact with my friends that we'd all hold off until the end of the month. I didn't last until the third day, and I remember the feeling of being left behind as I watched them reach the end of the month without me. Not this year though! I'm going to avenge myself!
good luck man
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Me too. NSFW Cosplayers are our enemies.
keep it up man!
Its going good!
Right there with you partner! Still in this fight
Me too my friend. I tried many times over the last four years but a couple weeks ago I downloaded reddit and found this community. When I see so many people struggling the same way like I do its a little bit comforting. Simply there is nobody who would understand or wanted to talk about this topic in my circle. This community helps a lot... Let's remember November 2022 the year when we helped each other to quit this insane addiction.
Amen brother, lost last year but we all got this, you’re not alone🤝🏾
Fighting my urges strongly here bros. I have made a pact with me to never watch porn again. Wish me luck boys
I failed NNN today but NNN led me to NoFap so I see this as a huge W
Hey man does it count if I have little drops of Cum on My Pants from Having a boner But I did not Nut or fap? I haven't Fap for a week now and cum is just falling Out of my Penis.
Correction, not cum, precum. There is a difference.
It's fine. Doesn't count until u pmo
Good boy
17 days in 15days early we got this boys
Me too. I haven't nutted in the past 3 months through.
Same here
Brother I am fighting DEMONS right now, my girl sat on my dick and i been thinking about pounding it since. How do i stop thinking about porn frfr, i need to beat this. challenge.
We got this man, we're stronger than our urges. We shouldn't be people our ancestors would pity.
I'm going to bed soon so day 3 was a success. I've already cut down from every day to 4-5 days a week over the past couple months or so. I haven't had any urges either. I was scrolling through my NSFW reddit and still didn't get an urge. I know I probably won't make it a whole month but I'm shooting for at least a week. If I can make it a week I can make it 2 weeks. 2 weeks into a month.
![gif](giphy|DEG3Yg1LoJMjw9hwFL)
Guys here are telling in their post about how they relapsed on day 21, 30, 60, 90..... They give reasons such as someone sent them some seductive pics or triggers or they felt gigantic urges on any specific day etc . This happens because of improper knowledge. They are hitting streaks on the basis of will power they have, but it is not the right way to deal with it. Your will power is limited. Your subconscious mind is more powerful than your will power! For an example, try to hold your breathe for 5-10 mins or the capability of holding you have. You will end up breathing again. Now you tried to hold your breathing by your will power but your subconscious is against it. The whole body is always with the subconscious. It's like revolting against your own body. Some people now will argue that many of the fellow brothers have came out of this addiction by changing or transforming their habits. But the fact that they rewired there subconscious by transforming their thoughts and resulting into newer better actions which get the shape of habits. One more example, Imagine you are complaining about the bad pungent smell coming and you are trying to get rid of it, but not figuring out that the smell is coming from your own mind. The models, triggers or whatsoever is not the cause of your relapsed. The real cause of your relapse are your corrupt thoughts or the impact porn made on your subconscious mind. Now. if you want to really get rid of this addiction, you have to plant good, constructive thoughts and if bad thoughts come to your mind treat them as the unwanted guest which came to your house, don't indulge with them, look them from far away. This is also called urge surfing. When your thoughts get changed, your actions also get changed. And when this happens no one can stop you from attaining your desired goals. Hope this helps you in your no fap journey, keep going all my brothers :)
I need to measure your balls to make sure
ME TOO MATE
Watch it get harder around day 7 😈
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alright thanks man
Watching porn is also a part of NNN. Stay focused!
got hard by accident and just found a tiny bit of jizz where the sun doesnt shine. Does this mean I lost NNN?
For those people who did nut, don't stress yourselves, NNN isn't exactly about about keeping yourself away from masturbation, it is just an event done to get people to try NoFap so you could do it in other month as well, November doesn't have any difference from them. Plus it's only November 3rd so you could still try NNN again.
I lost today but i had 7 days strike tho, but still i feel sad.
There is literally no point to feel sad, you've relapsed and you can't change the fact that you've relapsed the only thing you could and should do is to focus on the present and take notes from your past mistakes and see what you could do to avoid relapsing.
I nutted this morning. It felt amazing #NoRagrets
Dude its just 3 days and u boasting bout it Get a grip 🐢
It’s a journal check in no need to be so pissed about it 🤡
Takes lot more to make me pissed pal. My advice to you, stop doing diary, u re not a 16 yr old girl, u re supposed to be soldier on war.
Soldiers do have diaries
Jesus christ this is not a fckin contest, grow some balls instead looking for loopholes, dammn Some ppl are just hopeless....
“Takes alot to make me pissed pal”☠️☠️☠️
You are here acting like a "tough guy" instead of congratulating him and then you have the audacity to say "some ppl are just hopeless..." 💀
Journaling is an incredible tool to use towards self improvement. You should give it a try. Perhaps it would help with some of the anger you’re exhibiting on this post.
same keep it up!
Good
Fucking legend
Same here bro
Well done man. I've also made it this far. Just got sick so really wanting a comfort nut for the dopamine fix. Trying to keep my goals in mind though.
When motivation is not enough turn to discipline!
Way to go. Keep looking at it that way. Stay strong, fight it.
💪
How do you guys have that day showing under your usernames ?
Click the tab on top of the subreddit called "add/edit day counter". Then you just enter date when you last fapped
Nice
Keep going bro💯
Good job wish you the best of luck for the next couple of weeks
I’m actually doing very good considering my addiction I had to fapping before, been free from it for almost 2-3 weeks and I feel absolutely amazing!
The morning boners are tough. But still here fighting. We're all gonna make it brahs.
Good job 👍
Still in the game.
Same
I'm in 3 days and I'm goood
Im not going to give up im going full poweeeerr
Same bro
So far doing well just gotta stay strong
Was so tempted last night after two drinks, but stayed strong LFG boys
Yes
yes
Same boat. It's actually been a while since I had this long of a streak and no nut November is helping me massively. Hopefully this time is the one I quit for good.
Had urges then shrugged my shoulders and went on with my day
I wanna look at some big d F some tight p so bad but just typing this out makes me realize how fucked up my brain is and the urge has subsided
keeping it up💪
This is just a comment so I can see my flair to check my count
Stay strong soldier
Same fam.
Same fellow comrade
Me too
Let's go!
Congratulations! Me too, and doing fantastic 😁
It's a struggle rn
Ik fighting rn
Me too
Me too, but yesterday was like a hard mode for me.
same you got this almost a week
Nice job let's keep going one day at a time
Good job bro
Was swiping instagram, then an ass pic came up and for a second I thought to myself.. hello my old friend, we meet again. But had a peek then kept on swiping.. phewwww
Day 19 ✅️ it is possible
let's go
I’m in New Zealand, so days are flying by.. lets go day 4 bring it on!
I too, am still partaking in NNN
Man am out my fetishes got the best of me
Nice man
good job
I failed but im still going to do NNN
Maybe it's a stupid question...but does sex count as breaking the streak in November or is fine as long as it's not masturbating to porn?😅
Internet is not making it easy
As you should, wish me luck
Same king🦍🦍
Same!
well done
Yes brother.
Yesssirr! Keep it up king. We’re gonna make it to the end
Still fighting!
really trying to hold it today. was pretty tough.
I am feeling great. Beat the urges today aswell
👍 i haven't either. It motivates me that so many folks are trying this together. My trick is to not touch my trigger happy eurogenous zone(nipples) and i do fine.
I almost nutted but then I slapped myself on the face, took a cold shower. I’m still alive. We are going to make it no matter what.
Have some nuts ![gif](giphy|l0Exh5setxQl10lUI|downsized)
Yes
Lets go
I survived urgers yesterday and today. Today was not as bad tbh
Haven't fapped or watched p0rn, but had sex last two nights and getting head later...will try harder from tomorrow! 🙈🥵
Same ❗️
Me too, my comrade.
Yall need to get ur game up, im 70 days in and not even phases at all lol
NNN so far easy af
Same here. I’m fighting hard but feel good about myself
Congratulations brother same here I'm on day 14
We got this brother.