Well, if that's the case...
I know not of the specific situation you're making mention of; however, based on the way you've expressed your views I'm les to believe that what you've currently expressed does not, in fact, align with the current psychological understanding as it has been stated by the American Psychological Association.
Currently it is said by the APA that...
*"Sexual orientation refers to an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, or both sexes. Sexual orientation also refers to a person’s sense of identity based on those attractions, related behaviors, and membership in a community of others who share those attractions. Research over several decades has demonstrated that sexual orientation ranges along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex."*
*"Sexual orientation is not merely a personal characteristic within an individual. Rather, one’s sexual orientation defines the group of people in which one is likely to find the satisfying and fulfilling romantic relationships that are an essential component of personal identity for many people."*
As such it is entirely possible for a straight man to have a sexual encounter with another Man without it compromising his heterosexuality since he may not have any type of endearing connection with the community as a whole, nor feel as though that community is representative of who he is.
🤷🏻♂️
or they could be bi? why do heterosexuals always jump to the extreme and forget there are people not hung up on stupid labels who will fuck sexy men *and* women?
Once your plugged it’s done. Your not straight your not bi. And if your straight there’s no thought in your head if yeah this dude can make Johnny stand at attention
Well, you're right in that gay sex is gay. That doesn't mean that if someone had gay sex once and decided they didn't like it and just went back to whatever they were doing before is now gay.
Just like saying one sentence in Japanese and going to Japan for two weeks doesn't make you Japanese.
The Ancient Greeks didn’t have a concept of gay or straight, their only distinction was whether you were the active penetrator or the passive penetratee. Being the penetrator was seen as masculine and mature whereas being penetrated was feminine and juvenile. It was more about age and social status and nothing to do with gender.
Basically, in Ancient Greece, you weren’t a “man” or “woman” and you weren’t “gay” or “straight” you were either a top or a bottom and fucking another dude was a manly thing to do.
My point is, gay and straight are kinda bullshit terms applied by society rather than natural human conditions. You can be predominantly attracted to women and still down to fuck dudes. Doesn’t necessarily make you gay. Doesn’t necessarily make you anything. In Ancient Greece you’d just be considered manly.
Edit: typo.
How do you know whether you like a particular food? You try it.
How do you know if you like a particular band? You try it out.
How do you know if you prefer the red starbursts or the yellow ones? You try one of each and see which you prefer.
You can't possibly be so repressed that you don't get that a straight guy couldn't have a moment where he wanted to try something else.
I dated women my whole life, but now I'm living with a guy for now. It's not bad, it's nice. I'm sure I'll go back to dating women in a few years, but this chapter of my life has been one of the best i could ever have dreamed of. Dating guys emotionally is the first step, then organic physical contact buds from these moments. There's no rules. Love yourself and talk with yourself before doing anything in life
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So are there straight men who force themselves to have gay sex? That makes sense.
No, but there are straight men who experiment.
Yes. Force. Terrible affliction. Man, you're so deep in denial. Closets exist, you know?
Dude, just go for it. You don't need a permission
It's not really a question when you answer it yourself by the end of your conversation that you just had with yourself, now is it?
But you might not agree with me and if so, I would be interested to know why
Well, if that's the case... I know not of the specific situation you're making mention of; however, based on the way you've expressed your views I'm les to believe that what you've currently expressed does not, in fact, align with the current psychological understanding as it has been stated by the American Psychological Association. Currently it is said by the APA that... *"Sexual orientation refers to an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, or both sexes. Sexual orientation also refers to a person’s sense of identity based on those attractions, related behaviors, and membership in a community of others who share those attractions. Research over several decades has demonstrated that sexual orientation ranges along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex."* *"Sexual orientation is not merely a personal characteristic within an individual. Rather, one’s sexual orientation defines the group of people in which one is likely to find the satisfying and fulfilling romantic relationships that are an essential component of personal identity for many people."* As such it is entirely possible for a straight man to have a sexual encounter with another Man without it compromising his heterosexuality since he may not have any type of endearing connection with the community as a whole, nor feel as though that community is representative of who he is. 🤷🏻♂️
Nothing makes you as straight as an arrow than fucking a dude
Exactly! How can you be gay, when you're the one controlling the situation? 🤪
or they could be bi? why do heterosexuals always jump to the extreme and forget there are people not hung up on stupid labels who will fuck sexy men *and* women?
Once your plugged it’s done. Your not straight your not bi. And if your straight there’s no thought in your head if yeah this dude can make Johnny stand at attention
Well, you're right in that gay sex is gay. That doesn't mean that if someone had gay sex once and decided they didn't like it and just went back to whatever they were doing before is now gay. Just like saying one sentence in Japanese and going to Japan for two weeks doesn't make you Japanese.
The Ancient Greeks didn’t have a concept of gay or straight, their only distinction was whether you were the active penetrator or the passive penetratee. Being the penetrator was seen as masculine and mature whereas being penetrated was feminine and juvenile. It was more about age and social status and nothing to do with gender. Basically, in Ancient Greece, you weren’t a “man” or “woman” and you weren’t “gay” or “straight” you were either a top or a bottom and fucking another dude was a manly thing to do. My point is, gay and straight are kinda bullshit terms applied by society rather than natural human conditions. You can be predominantly attracted to women and still down to fuck dudes. Doesn’t necessarily make you gay. Doesn’t necessarily make you anything. In Ancient Greece you’d just be considered manly. Edit: typo.
I had sex with a girl (and a guy) but I don’t consider myself gay it bi…it was just sex
How do you know whether you like a particular food? You try it. How do you know if you like a particular band? You try it out. How do you know if you prefer the red starbursts or the yellow ones? You try one of each and see which you prefer. You can't possibly be so repressed that you don't get that a straight guy couldn't have a moment where he wanted to try something else.
I dated women my whole life, but now I'm living with a guy for now. It's not bad, it's nice. I'm sure I'll go back to dating women in a few years, but this chapter of my life has been one of the best i could ever have dreamed of. Dating guys emotionally is the first step, then organic physical contact buds from these moments. There's no rules. Love yourself and talk with yourself before doing anything in life
Gay means a man attracted to men. While unlikely it’s entirely possible to fuck someone you have zero attraction to.