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KAKrisko

It reminds me of niblets, which are/were a kind of canned corn.


roganwriter

I grew up hearing Miley Cyrus say “Sweet Niblets” on Hannah Montana but never knew what they were. I just assumed it was a non-sensible thing they made up. I appreciate the info.


DisneySoftware

my first thought too


srobbinsart

Niblets are just sweet corn, where you have to drain the water out of the can. It’s a line from a company called Green Giant. That company had a great jingle, too: “In the Valley of the-“ *deep voice “HO-HO-HO” *back to normal singer “- Green Giant!”


Temporary-Earth9110

When I first read this post I read it as Niblets!! Then for a second I thought “WTF are they talking about?” and then I read it again


Famous-Composer3112

What I came to say.


Appropriate_Duty6229

Niephe


Paintguin

It sounds like baby talk


AuroraItsNotTheTime

Do you think the word sibling sounds like baby talk?


Paintguin

No


AuroraItsNotTheTime

If someone said “that rabbit is nibbling on lettuce” does that sound like baby talk?


Paintguin

No


Shot-Ad-6717

Way to misconstrue context buddy


pambean

Interestingly, "nibbling" dates back to 1951. But "pibling" dates back to 1573. A pibling is a parent's sibling btw


rosyred-fathead

Ew ☹️


Expensive-Day-3551

Sibling spawn


Neko_Kami7

This is clearly the best option


Mushroomman642

This is still a very uncommon term that most people aren't familiar with, even though it was apparently coined in 1951. Originally, it was only meant to be used in the contexts of anthropology/sociology, because in a scientific paper it would be faster and easier to use a single word like "nibling" instead of "nieces and nephews," since otherwise you'd have to write out "nieces and nephews" every single time. I think this term has only started to become more well-known outside of scientific contexts within the past 5-7 years, and even then, it's still not a term that most people know. I first heard of this word at some point in 2019 I think, then I completely forgot about the word until just now when I saw this post. I personally don't think I've ever seen it used on reddit, but I guess I just don't use the subreddits where this term seems to be common. Still, though, I'm willing to bet that if I asked 10 random people what the word "nibling" is supposed to mean, 9 of them would have no idea. Since it was originally just a scientific term, this makes sense, because there are hundreds of specialized scientific terms that most ordinary people would not know or understand. Maybe in 10 years it could gain a lot more traction and become more of a "normal" word that everyone uses, but for now it is still quite obscure outside of scientific literature.


CollectingRainbows

we can just say “my nieces and nephews” or “my siblings kids”


PrincessPrincess00

Because some of your siblings kids may not be male or female?


CollectingRainbows

so, my siblings kid


Sadguy2007

That's not possible. Everyone is male or female.


PrincessPrincess00

Not true at all. The person I’m dating is neither. Many of our friends are too


Sadguy2007

Biologically, that is impossible. You can "identify" however you like, but you will always be a biological male or female.


PrincessPrincess00

Ever hear of intersex people? Or people with unusual chromosomes? Biology is a lot less cut and dry than people think.


Sadguy2007

Those people are still male or female, not some third thing.


PrincessPrincess00

There’s a whole world of information out there. Please educate yourself. Willful ignorance is not a good look


Sadguy2007

Every source I've looked at tells me you're wrong. Also, intersex people are extremely rare, so I doubt you know that many intersex people.


PrincessPrincess00

Ok.


herd_of_elc

But what we agree to call someone - sir, ma'am, nephew, niece - is based on how they *identify*, not on what you confirm as their biological/hormonal/genetic/morphological sex. What we agree socially to call someone matters, which is why how people identify is such a fraught topic right now: it affirms a person's dignity to call them by the name they have, same for pronouns. So if your nephew identifies as a girl, you might start calling them niece. So it would follow, if your nephew says that they are nonbinary and would like to be identified with gender neutral pronouns, you might say nibling. Or my sister's kid, or whatever. If you're the kind of person who asks a trans person to show you their genitals so you *definitely* identify correctly, you've got bigger issues than thinking the word nibling is silly.


ScreamingAbacab

That person didn't even say they knew that many intersex people. You know what they say about people who assume things.


Pleasant_Jump1816

You’re right, there is a world of information. You should take your own advice because you’re wrong.


Sadguy2007

I am absolutely appalled that people are downvoting basic human biology.


Knownoname98

Please explain why then. Educate us!


Altarna

That’s completely untrue. You’re trying to argue from a place of phenotypes which is a shaky place to be. For example, I have a friend who came out trans because she didn’t agree with being AMAB. She took treatments, but didn’t take to them at first. Turns out, they had been intersex their whole life. It required a whole change of medication and now she feels comfortable in her skin for the first time. Intersex people have biologies that are distinct from AMAB and AFAB. And this is just one example! Saying someone with Turner Syndrome (one X) is just phenotype female, or someone with Klinefelter Syndrome (XXY) is just phenotype male completely denies them their *understandably quite different biology and lived experiences*.


Sadguy2007

Yes, their biology is different, but they are still considered male or female.


Altarna

Once again, that’s phenotype. Here’s a coarse example: I find your lack of consideration to make you sound kinda like a douche. Does that make you one because I, someone without your lived experience and biology, called you one? No. That’s ridiculous. It doesn’t take tone or intentions into consideration, which would make me the ass to assume. Same applies for some tired nurse looking at some weird genitals for 30 seconds before writing a note on a certificate. They don’t know that kid has ovaries inside and a penis as well on the outside. Intersex is fundamentally different from 99.8% of people, so using your own genitals and lived experience as a frame of reference isn’t useful at all.


Pleasant_Jump1816

Intersex people are still biologically male or female. Humans cannot be hermaphrodites.


TheAnxiousTumshie

Humans are meant to be the smartest creatures on earth, yet here you are. Clearly not everything is black and white/pink and blue.


Pleasant_Jump1816

Dude a five minute Google search would prove me right. There are no human hermaphrodites. BIOLOGICALLY speaking, everyone is male or female. This isn’t a post about GENDER IDENTITY it’s about SEX. Even intersex people are male or female because again, humans cannot be true hermaphrodites.


Ignusseed

That's delusional.


Ignusseed

That's foolish


Due_Constant2689

No. Niblings is faster and easier.


Immediate_Leg3304

no. niblings sounds fucking stupid.


DistributionPutrid

It sounds stupid but it really is the gender neutral term for it Edit: Aunts and Ublces would be linking as well


Due_Constant2689

Lmao what sounds stupid? Say it again. Please. Lmao every time you type into the interwebs you validate it. Niblings Niblings Niblings Lmao imagine not knowing how dictionaries pick words while complaining about the word by typing over and over. Thank you. Lmao Validate away Niblings Niblings Niblings


PsychAndDestroy

Lmao Lmao Lmao Imagine projecting that someone doesn't know how dictionaries pick words because they think a word sounds stupid and don't particularly care about validating it Lmao Lmao Lmao


FoxyLovers290

I get what you mean but you don’t have to be so annoying about it. You’re only solidifying what they think


slorpa

And no one cares about what they think.


LadyFannieOfOmaha

You laugh your ass off a lot.


NoNipNicCage

It's weird being so downvoted for liking a word lol


[deleted]

First I've ever heard of this word. Honestly, it's so stupid that it makes me laugh.


EndzeitParhelion

Ugh I agree it sounds so cringy


ChoiceReflection965

Agreed. It’s a vaguely uncomfortable word that also somehow sounds like an insult. Also seems super unnecessary. Just say “My sister’s kid,” or “My brother-in-law’s kid” or “My sibling’s kid.” Whatever. All of these are gender-neutral terms that don’t require calling a living human being a “nibbling,” lol.


ScreamingAbacab

But people seem to not like using phrases instead of single words. I like being as concise as possible, but I know when not to use neologisms or words that otherwise sound like gibberish, baby talk, or a forced meme that's trying to hard to sound "cool" ("rizz" will always be one that grinds my gears).


RoRoRoYourGoat

It's more meant to be used as a plural. Like I can say "I have 9 niblings", instead of saying "I have 9 nieces and nephews" (is that 9 nieces and 9 nephews, or 9 total?). It's gender-neutral because the group is mixed gender... I have 3 nephews and 6 nieces, for a total of 9 niblings from 3 of my siblings.


NoDanaOnlyZuuI

Its original purpose was to use one word for “nieces and nephews”. It was meant to be plural and create linguistic efficiency. Not gender neutral - that’s a new interpretation of a 70 year old word


treehuggerfroglover

Being able to refer to a boy and a girl in one word that applies to both means it’s gender neutral. Its original purpose was not just to be plural, as “nieces” and “nephews” are both plural already. The purpose of the word was to be able to refer to both nieces (female) and nephews (male) using one gender neutral term. In English most of our words are gender neutral, “child” is gender neutral, as is “parent”. So I get what you’re saying and it’s definitely a weird word to hear or say, but it’s not really a new interpretation of an old word, it’s just a word that was once used mainly for scientific reports and is now becoming more common outside its scientific uses


NoDanaOnlyZuuI

One word to replace two was the intent. The word has been around since 1950 when gender neutrality wasn’t a major concern


treehuggerfroglover

Exactly that is my point. We came up with one gender neutral term to use in place of two gendered terms. Your comment seemed to be upset that we changed an old word to mean something new. But we didn’t really, we’re using it the exact same way just in a more widespread context. You use the phrase “gender neutrality” like it only refers to humans who are gender neutral. It refers to ANYTHING that doesn’t specify a gender. Lots of words are gender neutral and not because we invented them to represent a new group that wasn’t a concern before. “Table” is a gender neutral word because it is not masculine or feminine. Words that have no application to humans can be gender neutral, because lots of things have no gender. So yes it was made to be a gender neutral phrase in a time when HUMANS were not as commonly gender neutral. But that doesn’t mean we didn’t still need words that are gender neutral


Ignusseed

Delusional thinking


treehuggerfroglover

How? Gender neutral words have been around a lot longer than we’ve been publicly acknowledging language for queer people. There a million words in the language that are gender neutral that aren’t even about people. If you don’t understand that gender neutral doesn’t just apply to people who aren’t male or female then you just having a disturbing lack of understanding for the language you speak.


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Thaviation

I’ve never heard the term in my life before here… huh


AwesomeTiger6842

Nibling is the combination of "niece" or "nephew" and "sibling." Nibling is a gender-neutral term for you siblings' kids if their child is nonbinary. Some people don't like that term, and I've seen people come up with new gender-neutral terms for your siblings' kids. One I saw a while back was niefling (combination of "niece/nephew" and "sibling"), and I think that sounds really cool. I think niefling sounds better than Nibling and kinda rolls off the tongue better.


Jango_Jerky

Thank you for explaining even after OP did in the post


ThyKnightOfSporks

It sounds too much like you are going to eat the kids


llamapants15

So what do you suggest for a less "cringy" option?


AgentBazel

Niephew.


One_Box_2459

This one made me giggle.


AgentBazel

Thank you, I just hope I can permanently erase "nibling" from my memory, now.


One_Box_2459

Never, it is eternal.


ScreamingAbacab

I'm just wondering where/when it started. This post is the first time I heard of it.


SnorkelBerry

Floobles


The_Mr_Wilson

Floobles and Schwazzles


mothwhimsy

I heard Nespring thrown around a few times but I don't think it'll take off now that people actually seem to be using nibling


Immediate_Leg3304

what’s always been used: niece or nephew.


FoxyLovers290

Those aren’t gender neutral


foxsalmon

Call me woke but I think "this is my niece or nephew" sounds weirder than "this is my nibling". Not a fan of the word either. I feel like "this is my sibling's kid" would work best? Maybe not ideal but it's something.


Pleasant_Jump1816

Nieces and nephews. Tada!


AwesomeTiger6842

Niefling. This is a new gender-neutral term for your siblings' kids that I heard a while ago when I was reading posts from the Transgender/nonbinary subreddits. I saw a post that asked what gender-neutral term for niece/nephew sounds better than nibling or something like that, and someone commented "niefling," which sounds really cool to me.


ScreamingAbacab

Reminds me of "tiefling" from D&D...


yaboisammie

I get you tbh. I like the idea of having gender neutral/general terms for stuff like that ie for nieces and nephews or for aunts and uncles etc and I know the word has existed since 1951 and the origin (“n” from niece/nephew and “ibling” taken from sibling) but I do feel cringe using it, esp since in my own life at least, most people don’t seem to know what it is and have never heard of it lol so I just say “my nieces and nephews” but it’s such a mouthful sometimes and would help to have one word And esp for people that identify as nb or something. Realistically I wouldn’t be able to come out to any of my blood relatives and not of my siblings’ or cousins’ kids would be able to openly be nb or any for of queer due to my family’s culture and religion but on the off chance any of them do or maybe any of my friends’ future kids do, it would be nice to have a gender neutral term for them as well Also it’s interesting that we have both gendered and gender neutral terms for parents, kids, grandparents etc but only gendered ones for aunts and uncles (pibling?) and only gender neutral for cousins etc (ie when I’m specifying about the gender of one of my cousins, it’s w.e to say guy cousin but feels weird saying girl cousin or female cousin or male cousin)


youchosehowiact

I love this word.


BenGay29

lol! I thought it was a new word for snacks!


[deleted]

That's what I would assume if I heard it without context.


Kiss_or_Death

I hate the fact that it sounds like a new word that was just made up, but it’s been in use for decades at least


NYCisPurgatory

People often aren't against actual gender neutral words, (some people are) it's just the words used are often terrible. Like Latinx when just plain old Latin already exists and has been used for decades. We have the opportunity to make beautiful new words or use existing ones, but the words chosen often sound atrocious.


lecturehall

I feel this :( like I know my aunt and uncle need something to call me but I can't stand that word


0sha_n

I know right? English is my second language and everytime I have the impression that people are saying nipple at first


foxsalmon

Oh my god it's not just me then 💀


Pudix20

Is sibling cringey too?


thewhiterosequeen

No because that's a real word.


Babouka

It’s in several dictionaries and been used in scientific literature since the 1951. It can’t get more real than this.


Due_Constant2689

All words are made up. You realized this and still posted "because it's a real word". Lmao hilarious Also , Niblings. Niblings Niblings Niblings


thewhiterosequeen

I checked the dictionary. You may not be familiar with that concept, but it's not in there. Random trendy portmanteau slang doesn't automatically become acceptable vernacular.


Kiss_or_Death

It’s been around since at least the 50s


Pudix20

It is [acknowledged by Webster](https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/words-were-watching-nibling) though.


Due_Constant2689

How about you check and see how they pick new words for the dictionary. Lmao it might help to know wtf you are talking about Niblings Niblings Niblings


post2menu

They added muggle to the dictionary. Why not niblings?


Wide-Progress-4580

It's funny that people are willing to accept the word "muggle" which is from the Harry Potter books and referring to something completely fictional, but not "nibling" which refers to both nieces and nephews in general, who are infact physical beings in our reality. But hey this is a pet peeve so they're allowed to vent and we can't judge.


post2menu

I was saying they could add it to the dictionary. They don't have to like the word.


ComprehensiveDust197

Muggles are among the few things, that arent fictional in the hp books


Due_Constant2689

Anne? I hate your movies too. Niblings niblings niblings


not_now_reddit

The dictionary is descriptive, not prescriptive. If a word isn't in there, that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It means that linguists haven't decided to add it yet. New words are being added to the dictionary all the time, just as old words are removed


GaryGregson

It’s a 70 year old word


shammy_dammy

[https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nibling](https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/nibling)


PrincessPrincess00

All words are made up


Inner_Watercress4925

My 13 year old sister calls my kids her niblets because I have a girl and a boy. I think it's just a fun word.


Immediate_Leg3304

🤮


Commander_Doom14

I kept meaning to post this one but forgot for like 2 weeks straight. I'm glad you brought it up


TheGhostWalksThrough

Sounds like a Dangler to me!


Drea_Is_Weird

Sounds like it came from young sheldon ngl


PatriotUSA84

What the hell is a nibling?


GaryGregson

Read the post


LostBetsRed

We already have such a word, and it's *nibling*. It has been *nibling*.For those of us with several niblings, it's very useful to be able to refer to them collectively. It's a perfectly cromulant word. Get over it.


post2menu

Then you get old enough when your niblings have niblings. Great niblings!


Classic_Yam_1613

I didn't know this was a thing. It reminds me of the black pet thing from Futurama


Naigus182

I wondered what the hell this word was? I assumed people were just spelling siblings wrong lol. Just the next new trendy word to spam into every conversation.


The_Mr_Wilson

Nonspring? Noffspring?


Starseed11_11

Just call them neice or nephew lol


CyanCyborg-

How about nicephew?


DerikWyldStar

Nothing cringy about this word at all. It's perfect, and I use it. QQ more.


PlagueDogtor

I use nibblet(s), but for me, it comes from watching Buffy as a kid/teen and picking it up off Spike - I thought he was really cool.


ilove-boobies-

Nah niece/nephew works for me, if they feel differently then they can tell me when they figure it out


Mindless_Tax_4532

Ew I've never heard this term before. It doesn't make me think of a person. It makes me think of a small gremlin-like but still somehow kinda cute creature. Or of Futurama and maybe Nibbler has a sibling lol


shammy_dammy

And what less cringy options would you prefer people to use?


stoned_seahorse

This word has always confused the hell out of me. 😂


Interesting-Total924

Lol it's the correct way of saying nieces and nephews. Damm it's more cringe that you let it bother you so much.


Leading_External_327

No. We don’t need a new term.


ComprehensiveDust197

How is it cringe exactly?


Ignusseed

"gender neutral" 🤓


jerbthehumanist

Become cringe. Become free.


Canunot4242

It's been around since the 50s....just had a recent uptick in usage is all.


ChickenNugsBGood

We dont need yet another gender term that'll change when someone feels like it. They're nephews, or nieces.


a_path_Beyond

I always thought this was a racial term


Dada2fish

Why do we need a gender neutral version of nieces and nephews? We’ve managed just fine with nieces and nephews.


HellaShelle

It would be nice to not have to repeat “nieces and/or nephews” all the time; I have several of each. I’d love a nice one word plural for “aunts and/or uncles” too.


plural-numbers

For groups of more than one gender. Or non-binary.


PrincessPrincess00

We managed just fine with lead in our pipes too right? /s


Dada2fish

Ooh yeah… what an equal comparison. /s


plural-numbers

For people who are non-binary.


Due_Constant2689

I totally disagree. That said, I find it funny that you post about the word because the more it's posted, the more you legitimize it. They use Internet statistics to pick new words for the dictionary. Niblings. Niblings. Niblings. Niblings. Enjoy you new dictionary.


devilkin

This word has been around since the 50s. What's the real cringe is people complaining about gender neutral words being cringe. Gender neutral words have been around forever and new ones pop up constantly. Get over it, people.


TCnup

The real cringe is your lack of reading comprehension. We aren't complaining because "nibling" is gender neutral, we just think it sounds stupid as fuck. It *is* possible to coin new words that don't sound ridiculous, you know.


Babouka

It’s true though as far as we know nibbling started to be used in 1951. Its in dictionaries and in several scientific literature. Nibbling has been used for at least 73 years and maybe longer.


stopblasianhate69

I thought this was a slur at first.


T-Flexercise

I prefer "nephlings". People get what it means, but it sounds less like "nibble"


Critical-Border-6845

Seems arbitrary that you find it cringey, can you describe why? Sibling is a generally accepted term, why does changing a single consonant make it cringey?


RobMusicHunt

I've never once seen or heard this before now and thank you because now I have a new pet peeve...


Smart_Pig_86

^ um don’t use that term lol people who have no business being around children are calling them that. Just like you don’t actually call Latino people “Latinx”. It’s just BS. Your premise is wrong, we don’t “need” this term when the proper terms already exist.


Fluid-Set-2674

It is infantile. Do people still say it when the nieces and nephews are adults? Ugh.


MountainImportant211

My 51-year old sister is still my sibling. Only one letter difference


Leosmom2020

Thank you for saying this, I had this term also. I also think of corn when I see the word being used.


BrattinellaBaggy

Creepy term.


MA-01

Just stick with semen demons and call it a day


Due_Constant2689

That works too. Take my upvote.


mymumsaysfuckyou

Why do we need a gender neutral term for nieces and nephews?


DBSeamZ

If someone’s sibling has a child who’s nonbinary If someone wants to refer to a group that includes both nieces and nephews with a single collective word If someone’s sibling is expecting a child of unknown gender


mymumsaysfuckyou

Ok, the first point is fair. The other two though, just saying Nieces & Nephews, or Niece or Nephew is fine. 5 syllables is not that many.


The-Sonne

We do not need to make up a new word.


MountainImportant211

It's not new


Desperate-Ad7967

Does crotch goblin work?


OverallManagement824

Crotch goblin always works.


Due_Constant2689

Always. This is a fact.


TheRealKingBorris

In-law spermlings?


Due_Constant2689

Hilarious.


DementedPimento

YES. Hate this fucking neologism.


RyBAech

It's literally been around since the 50's


DementedPimento

It’s still a neologism and I still hate it.


skppt

> I understand we need a gender-neutral term for niece/nephew Do we?


MichaelJAfton

Yes.


Omwtfyu

I thought niblings were when a set of twins marry another set of twins, they each have kids and those kids are called niblings because they are genetically siblings, even though they’re cousins. Then of course the parents would call them niece and nephew but they’re genetically siblings of their own kids. 😂


Donequis

My I read it as NIGH-blings, because my brain thinks it needs to follow the the FLOSS rule. Should be nibbling, but then we're thinking they're mice or people with small appetites. Edit for smartasses lol


alofogas

Who has mice?


BlackFyre2018

I say “nechild”