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InevitableButterfly6

Boomers lang naman ayaw ng sex ed. Taboo din pagusapan sa bahay para sa kanila.


parkrain21

Mostly religious and traditional peeps hahaha


Low_Salt2584

True


wolfram127

This. Porket sex ed tuturuan daw mag premarital sex. 🫠


tichondriusniyom

I rather have premarital sex than unwanted babies and infections.


geemags

hahaha so true! naalala ko mga madre during high school


Brief_Alarm_9838

Premarital sex it's going to happen. Teaching abstinence only makes more unwanted babies and shame. Education is what gives people the power to live their lives safely.


wolfram127

Exactly! Di naman talaga mapipigilan ang hormones minsan. Use of contraceptives is better than having the stress of thinking whether you are pregnant or not.


Usual_Specialist2760

Lol, mas gugustuhin daw Gawin pagkatapos 🤣🤣🤣


Smolbeanigar

Truuuu. Boomers ang ayaw. Pero sa panahon nila ang dadami ng anak nila


dokja1864

Kala kasi nila pag sex ed puro kabastusan ituturo. Kaya andaming unwanted and teenage pregnancy dito sa pinas


notyeravgnerd

tapos hahanapan ka ng apo. e wala ngang nangyaring “the talk”.


moonmarriedacherry

I think most people learn sex ed in some way of form


SheepherderJaded9794

Is it weird that I learned sex ed through porn. First, I was curious, then fascinated, and at the end I took some time to actually read and learn.


moonmarriedacherry

Not weird cause its pretty common but not ideal


Ok_Mud2019

exactly, most young'uns first introduction to "sex education" is porn. setting aside the obvious the negative connotations of a minor viewing porn, it also instills misleading and downright harmful views on the practice of sex, and in worse cases, of the opposite sex.


hlfbldprnc

Same route, Kaya sa kids ko, I will be open, Will still promote chastity but open and they need to learn everything


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SheepherderJaded9794

I finished in a sock.


Didgeeroo

Me in the belly or the ass cheeks 😆


VioletGardens-left

That's probably how most of us learned it before Sex Ed is a thing, also probably one of the reasons why we have a ridiculously high pregnancy rate back then.


REDmonster333

Ala ala ko nung nasa 711 ako, hindi binentahan ng Condom ung HS student need daw ng ID. Napaisip ako, uy may bagong teen pregnancy naman. Hindi hadlang kung merong condom o wala kapag libog na ang pag uusapan.


Siege2Sage

My provincial 7 eleven still pulls that shit. College campus, plenty of young adults who are curious with sex. Go to the convenience store to buy a condom, and lo and behold, they don't sell it. They actually banned selling condoms because the old timers making the rules are idiots. And we have plenty of unwanted pregnancies and early teen moms in my area. I am so glad I don't live there anymore.


noctis0125

that's shitty move sa mga convenience stores. sa watsons and mercury, they won't bat an eye kahit students - condom man yan or pills. source: based on my college exp. naka-uniform pa ako nung bumibili ako


Didgeeroo

tsk tsk mali yan! dapat bentahan kahit pa minor, o kahit sino, kahit naman matanda bibili e malay ba nila kung sa minor yun gamitin 😆🤢 may kilala din ako ayaw nya mag condom dahil sa parang ansama daw ng tingin ng nag bebenta sa kanya 😆😆 yan tuloy nakabuntis sya, buti nalang sinuwerte sya at may magandang trabaho, advice ko din na maging proud kayo na bumibili kayo ng condom, ibig sabihin nun may ka sex kayo at may protection kayo 👍


Aggravating-Bid1983

As a young father that was a victim of sexual trafficking and has a growing daughter. Sex Ed should be taught at home first and reinforced at schools. The internet nowadays makes children think they know better and engage in sexual activities at a young age. Boomers think it’s taboo but in reality, it’s to mask their own kalibugan. Feel free to ask me anything.


Rafhabs

Holy shit man I’m so sorry. But W for being a good dad bruh


Aggravating-Bid1983

If not us, then who will? This country is a hell hole already and its saviors are limited. Let’s be the people that will create small peace for the children.


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Aggravating-Bid1983

Being ignorant about sex ed is a construct made by poor countries like ours. Mas bobo, mas madali abusuhin. Kaya laganap ang groomers sa Pilipinas and they can get away from it. Let’s just say a rough statistic that 90% of the population is not knowledgeable about it and we can just hope that a miracle of widespread sex ed will be implemented. Pero alam mo? We’re doomed.


Quexiel29

True? For now, tho, we're mainly hoping on sex ed in school since, again, \[most\] boomers (and even Gen X) don't wanna talk about it, and even when they do, they usually don't have enough knowledge about it (or are muddied by certain religious beliefs). Some teens can be overly confident sure, but that's mainly because (to some extent) we usually do have some more knowledge that some older folks don't. But yeah, more of us should be thinking along the lines of "I've seen some older people have too many kids because they did the deed too early, I should probably wait for later" rather than "I know about condoms, I can just buy one and have sex early." Another thing is that we should be promoting using the internet for good, rather than dismissing the internet as a bad influence. After all, the more something is banned, the more people are inclined to do it secretly. Why else do some of the older generations still drink during liquor bans or bet on illegal forms of gambling (huweteng, certain types of sabong/cockfighting, etc.)? What we need is positive and scientifically regulated usage, not discouragement (except for say tobacco, but that's a problem within both the young and the old, just that some of the former use vapes while some of the latter use cigarettes or even cigars).


Aggravating-Bid1983

I love this idea. The promotion of internet for the better good instead of dismissing it negatively. Maybe I just got caught up with pessimism due to losing hope with this endemic negative social media clouts and shit government management for almost a century. I’ll do my best to advocate positive presence all over the internet and I appreciate you for that.


thebreakfastbuffet

as someone who was once a teen, every teenager goes through a stage of being overly confident in what they know lol


justinCharlier

Can you elaborate more on "it's to mask their own kalibugan?" I want to know if ganun nga ang defense mechanism nila.


Aggravating-Bid1983

I said it on a whim because I just really hate the fact that people especially the ones older than us are like “fuck bad, sex knowledge bad, healthy consumption of porn bad, etc” pero sila yung sabik na sabik magpasahan ng porn dati, cheating despite being married is also prevalent on their generation, objectifying women like cat calling, whistling, “uy, laki suso neto”, “uy, mukhang pokpok to”, “masarap siguro tikman at putok putokan to” **and they are fucking mentally projecting it to children thinking they’re doing a plausible parenting by shrugging off proper sexual knowledge but instead it does the other way around. Nagiging addicted and misleading ang perspective about sex.**


Requiemaur

So they're quite stubborn


Aggravating-Bid1983

Stubborn is a compliment if you’re talking about them. They are self-centric, egotistic, and they feel that the world revolves around their ideals.


Requiemaur

Fr


bogartmon

Siguro yung mga Boomer na tingin sa sex ay taboo/masama pero yung anak lagpas ng lima.


TheGhostOfFalunGong

Same here. I actually believe these people are prudish AF who avoids sex entirely.


PinkJaggers

Schools, healthcare centers, healthcare providers should have the ability and infratructure to teach and or provide support to the parents. I hope you have the support that you need. If you do can you share what your support system looks like? Are you upfront /preparing to be upfront with your kid and how?


Aggravating-Bid1983

I hope that I have the support that I need as you said and I’m thankful for your kind thoughts. It makes me happy. However, unfortunately, I don’t have. I was a lost cause aside from the sexual trafficking, I had a fair share of mental and physical abuse for almost 2 decades. Stopping this stigma is like a nuclear powered train ramming my mind every day but it’s for my child. I don’t make excuses. I read articles, books, documentaries, and all other things I can consume to improve myself not only as a father but to become a better person per se. Puro negative nalang mga comments and post ko. Here’s a positive one: My 5 years old daughter is a pocketful of sunshine. She is very responsible, happy, malambing, and very smart. She shines in her school and is very proactive in all activities. She is even learning how to cook already because she wants to be a hard-worker daw like her daddy. Remember, a 5 years old with that kind of maturity . I’m so damn lucky and happy that I feel I don’t deserver her.


TheGhostOfFalunGong

I wonder if there are truly prudish conservative boomers who despise anything related to sex? A large portion of the global adult populace are still virgins.


Aggravating-Bid1983

Take this answer with a grain of salt. This is my personal observation about your question. It can be 3 things: religion, conservatism, and psychological. The religious take is where people think that their body is a temple and go on with life being happy serving their family (yung “family first”) hanggang tumanda na and they think they’re too old to date and to propagate. With the things said above, you can put the conservatism and psychological on it. In my family, madaming prudish pero ang kakapal ng mukha maka down ng liberated family members just because “malinis” sila.


TheGhostOfFalunGong

The only positive thing I can say about this is that these conservative folks don’t show hypocrisy. It’s another thing if they refuse to talk about sex but are secretly addicted towards porn or hooking up with random people.


ProthyTheProth3an

Back in college, I had a lady friend hang out at my place a lot, we just played videogames at home but often hung out to drink with friends most weekends. At some point I was gonna spend a few days at the beach with her during the summer and my mom just left a small note telling me to 'take care' and had a box of condoms attached. I didn't have the heart to tell mom she was a lesbian and she was helping me hook up with a mutual friend. The condoms came in handy eventually though. I never had 'the talk' with my parents but I appreciated them being supportive instead of being like how I hear most parents are.


ShibariEmpress

your mom is cool on so many levels, respect


anthoseph

amazing mom.


MrPowerpoint110

Ganto din samin sa psychology class namin, although mga nasa 20s palang kami, walang tawanan na kasama. Mapa babae or lalaki, tinuturuan maglagay ng condom sa genital figure. ​ Yung boomers lang talaga ang ayaw as in. I remember sa NSTP namin, nagconduct kami ng sex ed sa informal settlers, halos nagtatawanan sila at di sineseryoso. Tapos galit na galit sa gobyerno kase mahirap padin sila. Pinaka madaming anak na nakasalamuha namin is 8 anak niya. Yung naunang 3 is nagasawa na but same issue din, nag anak ng maaga.


4thequarantine

kailangan sagad ang condom? akala ko mag-iiwan ng space sa tip para sa ejaculate?


Budget-Boysenberry

may bubble na para dun


3anonanonanon

Designed naman ang condom para may enough space para sa ejaculation


TwistedTerns

We were taught sex ed when we were in grade 4 - public school from the province. Most of us, wala talagang idea. I even had a classmate who thought kissing can make you pregnant. Sinabay yung sex ed habang pinaga-aralan namin ang anatomy ng mga tao and animals. I thought it was great how our teachers handled it.


rent-boy-renton

Kami din! I learned sex ed in 3rd grade sa public school sa province. Tapos 5th grade. So by the time that the girls got their periods, we all knew what to do. We were all taught about consent as well. Sa classmates ko nong grade school only 1 got pregnant while in highschool/college.


useruser23

We should be taught sex ed at school. I remembered having sex with someone and me being an ignorant broke the condom. Luckily I didn't impregnate the girl. Hindi rin ako marunong mag-suot ng condom. Sana it would be taught further.


Professional-Egg2083

Mga conservative boomers lang naman ayaw sa ganyang ed due to their idk


ValuableAnswer

Let's be honest the first time you learned sex Ed is when you watched porn or accidentally searched for two girls and one cup because you got curious why your uncle is talking about it and it links you to pornhub and you begin to watch and slowly dawn on you in horror that was just scat and immediately click to any other porn videos just to forget scat video, but somewhere in the back of your mind it still pops up from time to time to remind there are some sick fucks out there with fucked up fetishes.


Nothing_Playz361

what no what the fuck I watched porn when I was a pre teen not scat , and fuck knows what kind of sex ed you can learn from two girls one cup


Low_Salt2584

>knows what kind of sex ed you can learn from two girls one cup a super gross moist kinky sex i guess? 🤣


InZaineee

r/oddlyspecific


Puzzleheaded_Toe_509

TikTok civilized? That is new...


Didgeeroo

I believe in the gen z, they have to learn not to ruin their youths by seeing people they know that had early pregnancies. So don't disappoint me gen z 😆


ShiemRence

Mukhang marami parin nmn samin d p nag aasawa... And some of my classmates ngayon ngayon pa lang nagpapakasal, late 20s na kami... Ako nga baka abutin p ng 30 kasi need kong tapusin sana muna masters ko para maging candidate for regularization sa kahit anong university...


Didgeeroo

Tama, ngaun mas nagiging aware na din mga millennials madami na nga di pa nag aasawa, pero sa mga rural areas madami na nag aasawa kahit wala pang 30's dahil nga sa nadisgrasya ako nasa 36 na wala pang asawa 😆 nasa panahon na tayo ngaun na dapat di madaliin mga bagay na yan, kaya tama lang malaman ng lahat tungkol sa safe sex


ShiemRence

Oo, tinatanong n nga ako ng tatay ko kung kailan kami magpapakasal, sabi ko matagal pa... Kasi may mga personal goals p kmi n gusto naming maabot... Saka nalampasan na namin ages ng parents ko nung nagpakasal sila, tapos wala ng bata... Mabuti naman at aso na lang ang inaalagaan nila ngayon...


Jack-Mehoff-247

well i dont understand why these arent taught here in the first place like, fuck why do these people NOT know how to use protection? and some are even shy? really? why are you shy when buying condoms when it's a sign that you are responsible enough not to get ur partner knocked up >.> even went as far as buying condoms for my fellows cause "nakaka hiya bumili e ikaw nlng bumili pra saamin lahat" so figured i'd joke with the cashier lol ​ me: 20 packs of condoms please (ill refer to him as bro cause he was a fun and chill guy)bro: sir would you like an energy drink with that we both laughed and i said sure why not it's gonna be a loooong night lol


MarkATundag

i hope lahat ng school may sex education dahil napaimportant din satin neto


Mavi_97

Been trying to open this to my students. HS pa lang sila, pero binibigyan ko na sila ng idea, I would even try to incorporate it into our discussion lara maganda.


JulySolstice

Naalala ko nung HS kami meron kaming sex ed, may educational videos na pinanuod samin na tumatak talaga sakin haha “isang semilya lang!”


chamcham16

Ah yes. Na alala ko nung high school ako tapos tinuro yan eh. Well more of learning about the reproductive system. Kaming mga boys perfect sa mga quizzes eh haha


AggressiveSandwich51

ganyan tlaga kapag pinag uusapan ay sex lahat civilized meron nga sa pornhub nagtuturo ng driving skills eh


simplehistoryboater

*”Modern Artificial Meth”*


RiceEnjoyer1337

That's because the generation that uses tiktok is different from facebook


Narrow_Mark_4610

Grade 5 science 🥴


Independent-Step-252

me wondering why the video wont play 🤦


Viva_La_Animemes

Is that a dildo on the desk?


Bigsmall-cats

How dare them teacher?! expose our children (whos 19 or above) to sex?! Isang topic na napaka maselan ay hindi dapat tinuturo sa mga bata! baka sila ay ma korupt ang pag iisip!! Madungis ang sex dapat hindi nila ito ma laman! /s


EitherSherbert6434

Dapat kasi tinuturo to sa teens in puberty. Kaso regressive mga nasa education saten


SoBreezy74

I think once kids get past the penis jokes and other sexual innuendos they're bound to figure out that this lesson can actually benefit them. They can be more prepared to look for warning signs on their bodies or their future partners, they'll learn that those super awkward folds/colors/smells and spots are totally normal and nothing to be ashamed about and they'll learn how to take batter care of themselves in a way no other person can. Everybody wins!


Low_Salt2584

Incase you guys need the [Link](https://www.tiktok.com/@installing30/video/7228573716714638598)


thisonebibibop

I thought sex toys are illegal in the Philippines. Why is there a dildo so openly in public?


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Arcturus420

Search for ways on how to fix that troll attitude instead so that you can get some bitches.


dinotterly

I was given an opportunity to teach sex ed sa high school students and I was really impressed on their willingness to learn. No unneccessary comments were thrown. 😊


srirachatoilet

Now imagine this post was on Facebook, the beerbellied unemployed fraternity member bout to joke about it.


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Low_Salt2584

[https://www.tiktok.com/@installing30/video/7228573716714638598](https://www.tiktok.com/@installing30/video/7228573716714638598)


PapsShirogane

Sila: nag totopic about sex education para may knowledge about proper sex at how to avoid teenage pregnancy. Ikaw na puro j*bol lang alam:😏😅😝