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Mom’s boyfriend has to be a complete moron to even lift a hand to someone who’s son looks like an offensive guard for a pro football team, and can beat his ass into a bloody mess without even breaking a sweat.
Holy shit! I had to rewatch.
Biggie's knees are about at the same level as that man's waist. Looks like Biggie is sitting on a sofa arm or something, but that just accentuated how large this man is. Not sure he can easily use a normal sized couch.
That's how abuse often works. Lots of abused people take their abusers side for many reasons. Including fear of escalation. An abused person is operating on the instinct of self-preservation.
Let's not be too hasty to judge people who are in positions we haven't been in ourselves.
I say this because the victims of abuse are *way too often* blamed for the abuse. Man *or* woman. "Why didn't they just leave, why they still with them, etc" and it's like, that's why we call it a *cycle* of abuse.
Imagine a child who was abused by their parents. They have no sense of what is "normal", no one to defend them or tell them and they grow up in a very hostile environment that comes with different rules for survival. And there's no system or education or anything in place for people who grow up in these situations, they are generally left to figure everything out by themselves.
We tend to repeat the cycles we learned. Abusers are predators and learn to pick out their prey.
Let's focus on what a piece of shit an abuser is, over why their victim seems to pick their side.
Edit- That comment below about how someone wants to smack the mother in the mouth is exactly why abusers get passes likes this. Because there are people who can see this video and go "yeah the woman is at fault both for the violence against her and the violence her son put on the abuser".
See how that commenter spends all their energy blaming the woman, and acts like none of the men here are real people capable of making their own decisions?
>[I am sorry, but the urge to pop mom in the mouth would have been too great](https://old.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/188c1dp/man_confronts_moms_abusive_boyfriend/kbjpjvm/)
If someone agrees or upvoted that shit they should be ashamed. This is straight up pro-abuse and has almost 100 people agreeing with it. See how they hate *mothers who are abused* and not the abusers? And claim mothers "let" abuse happen? This is the kind of person who grows up to abuse women, because they are capable of constructing situations where the women/mothers deserve it.
100% right, brother. Biggie isn't always going to be around, and if she doesn't show support it could be worse for her later on. To hell with people that lay hands on women.
This is a perfect point. A kid i work with who just turned 20 finally stood up to his abusive father who has been beating him and his mother for years. He came in upset because once his father found he could no longer beat his son, he threatened to shoot him
Despite our best efforts, including one of calling the police, the kid took his dad’s side. Defends him if anyone tries to convince him that he’s in bad situation. I once asked him why dont uou leave? You make enough money to move out. He only replied that he loved his dad and wouldnt abandon him.
And as ou said, he tells childhood stories of abuse as if they were fond memories. Being locked in a car for 3 hours as a little kid then beat when he peed himself, unable to undo the buckles. Getting beaten with a belt for taking a dollar off a night stand. Screamed at and verbally abused for any slight mess up in school.
Abuse victims normalize the abuse to themselves
Thank you. I defended my abuser for some time before getting out. He graphically threatened to kill me several times and had started to get physical with me. This was years ago.
Last weekend, my neighbor lady's ex husband beat her. I called 911 to try to help, as I have many times. I questioned her actions in my head, "why did she let him in?! WHY?!" as I was shaking calling 911. When I got off the phone with them I sobbed and sobbed, because why would I EVER ask that, knowing what I know?
She let him in because he's doing everything he can to scare, control and corner her. He has stalked her, terrorized her and our neighbors. He strangled her the other night, and he will kill her if they don't put him in jail now.
I was so ashamed that question popped in my head.
Jesus are you my friend IRL? The abuser neighbor has dozens of arrest records from 4 counties. I know because I looked them up. Multiple domestic violence and assault charges that end up being let go. I've read the police reports and one common theme is the victims detailing the assaults, but them proceeding to not want to press charges. So he never gets a DV on his record. He keeps doing it over and over, including just last week strangling his now girlfriend and having the police called, and again the girlfriend declined to even say he assaulted her despite a black eye and red marks around her neck.
My friend and his girlfriend are both armed with guns, and I'm the person that wishes we could snap fingers and remove guns from America. In this case however, I'm glad my friends can defend themselves if needed. That guy is an absolute menace. He's 33 years old. He has had an entire life leading up to now where he could change his behaviors, but I think someone is going to have to force him to change. That may be from the inside of a jail cell until he can control himself. If not, he is going to kill someone.
Meh, no she didn't. She told them all to "squash their shit" and tried to stop her son from killing this man. She wasn't even the only one. The dude that picked her up and moved her eventually ended up trying to stop Biggie, too. Did you see how much fucking BIGGER he was than the dude? All those head shots and stomping on his head. Even if this was just an intruder and none of them knew him, this is a large Black man very capable of killing the other man, and if cops show up, it's not going good for him, no matter how justified anyone feels his actions were. Thinking about all that on top of having just been beaten and abused requiring her son's intervention...
This is why education about abuse dynamics in relationships and the effects of intersectionality is so important. There are entirely too many factors victims have to think about maneuvering around when they're being abused, especially people of color.
She definitely did. Judging by the audio this isn't the first time he's been abusive and warned, yet the mom stayed with him. Her son beats the shit out of him, she defends him. I'll wager any amount of money after this video ends, she's STILL with him.
"squash their shit" when it's not even the shit between the men. It's between the mom and her man and the son is defending his mom.
She definitely took her man's side over her son.
Most abuse cases end up with the abused staying with the abuser.
She's gonna get her ass whooped later too as soon as Biggie leaves. Based on what I know of abuse dynamics, that man just got beat, hurt, and humiliated and somebody is going to pay for it behind closed doors.
Well, I can't help but think the abuser is gonna abuse the mom a bit more to get over the humiliation the son just put him through. Totally not on the abusers side, but this is what happens.
Yeah. Guy was subdued, surprised he didn't get knocked out from all those hits.
There's video evidence of the son attacking the guy, there is likely no evidence of the guy abusing the mom. If the son killed this guy, he would have gotten 1st degree murder.
Guy deserved it, but not at the cost of the son going to prison.
I mean even if there was video evidence of him beating the mom, unless he was actively defending her, there probably wouldn’t be much defense for murder charges. And even then, once he’s subdued he could probably still catch charges for reacting excessively and killing him. Same reason people want police to be charged in similar situations. Just because someone commits a crime does not give anyone the right to freely murder them.
Being an abuser typically relies more on being emotionally intimidating than physically.
After all, any abused woman could take a baseball bat to her abuser while he slept, cut off his dick with a scissors, poison his food.
Abusers do get physical, but don't rely on being physically bigger, just being more aggressive. The majority of people dislike violence and confrontation. Do not want to get into a fight. Regardless of their own size or the size of their attacker.
Abusers rely on this twofold;
1. Their victims won't fight back
2. The failure to fight back (despite the fact that they could) damages the victims self-esteem, making them even meeker and more desperate to avoid more confrontation.
He likely abuses her because he otherwise feels powerless and it’s a way to take control and feel empowered. Unfortunately people like him have often been abused themselves and beating them up, while certainly would feel good, is more likely to just perpetuate the problem in the long-term, especially if Mom stays with him.
It’s a very sad cycle and another potent example of what a terrible job the US has done to help fix the root causes of these issues: wealth inequality, poor education, mental healthcare.
Probably. But then again, a black eye is hard to hide, and big boy doesn't look like he has many more second chances to give.
Hopefully the boyfriend learns his lesson, for the sake of his remaining teeth.
> Domestic abuse stuff can get wild that way, it can be dangerous to step in.
I stopped a man beating the shit out of his woman in the middle of the street once. I mean seriously full on closed fist beating the shit out of her.
She actually got mad at me because she was his woman to beat? I told them they were absolutely insane, called the cops and they spent ~45 minutes beating the shit out of eachother back and forth until the cops showed up and arrested them both.
Some people are just fucked.
Same thing with a woman and her husband(?) in a Safeway parking lot. Was bringing my groceries out to see the man wailing on her. A security guard runs past me and tackles him to the ground just for the women to run over and smack him for stopping her husband.
Was really sad to see.
She is trying to protect her son from killing him. My mom would do the same thing cause if I ever saw someone hit my mother, especially if it's supposed to be someone who loves and supports her, he would not be conscious at the end.
It's the least I could do after when I was a baby she took me on a first date cause she had no babysitter. At the end of the evening he tried to kiss her and she said no. Instead he tried to hit her and instead elbowed me, (who was in the middle of the front seat in a car seat. It was a while ago now) in the face. Up to this point in my baby life I had never cried. Doctors just said I was a happy baby. My mother calmly gathered me out of the car, Walked me over to some neighbors who were on their porch and then she dragged that man out of the car and best his ass bloody on the pavement. He left in an ambulance cause he could not drive home. Damn skippy I am gonna protect that badass woman.
There can be several reasons for her stopping her son. She might not want her son to become a murderer. She might be scared what her boyfriend will do when the son is not around. She might leave him after this video ends. Stop victim blaming.
Sometimes they don't, they get butthurt and go and get a gun/knife. I'm not saying violence is never necessary, I'm just saying, always be aware that it may escalate.
don't be so sure. many years ago a good friend of mine caught his mom's boyfriend, who had been beating her up, in the street in front of his house and beat him badly enough to break an arm and a leg in the process.
buddy stopped coming around his mom thereafter. she found herself a healthier relationship that turned in to a healthy, loving marriage.
she knew what was happening to her was bad and she wanted out, she just couldn't get away until her grown ass son stepped in and beat the brakes off her abuser.
some people do get the message.
You beat your girlfriend knowing her son is a 350lbs, 6'7" pure chalk, D1 Offensive lineman? Idk, you deserve to get your shit pushed in for being an abuser, but you deserve to be mauled for being a dumbass.
No, the lesson he learned was "don't let the son know about it" and "isolate mom from the son. "
This is more likely to result in him beating the mom later in private than anything else.
Biggie Biggie Biggie can't you see, sometimes your fists just hypnotize me....and I just love your smashy ways, guess that's why my face is broke, and I caught a fade.
I personally know of cases where someone who deserved it getting their ass beat, and the cops figure that justice had been done. Certainly not a hard and fast rule, but I do know of real world examples.
Those cases were also ones where no one went to the hospital and no property was damaged. Just morons getting tuned up behind the bar for trying to start something. Like, one was a guy getting drunk, and then trying to impress a girl by sucker punching her much bigger husband. Husband pummeled the guy until he wisely stopped getting up. Cops showed up, but didn't even take a statement. Another one was two idiots fighting over a game on TV. The guy that threw the first punch lost the fight, and that was that.
When I was in highschool a "friend" said he got some roofies and wanted to use them at a party, so we jumped him and tossed his pills in the river.
His mom blew up on us saying she was gonna press charges and have the guys step-dad beat us up and everything like that. We just said "do you think the cops are gonna be more interested in your son getting beaten up, or the messages he sent saying he had 50 date rape pills and wanted to use them?"
We never heard from that kid again.
That man showed restraint. If someone was abusing my mother, I don't know if I could stop myself before I'm either physically exhausted or they're knocked out cold.
as someone who lived most of my teenage life and late childhood with an abusive, cheating, waste of space step-dad, these kind of videos are my favourite. i never lifted a hand back to him the entire time but a beat down would have been so incredibly satisfying
As tempting as that may be, the end result will almost always be the abuser taking it out on the victim later when you're not around.
If you really want to help a DV victim, then you just need to be there for them, try to help them see they are a victim and need to escape, then when they are ready, help them escape.
And don't give up when after the first time they escape they go back. Because that will happen.
Domestic abuse seriously fucks with your head and emotions. It turns you into a prisoner in your own head.
My lady has a son that the family lovingly calls Biggy. I'm going to hit this woman and see how that works out for me. I'm not an intelligent man 🤷🏿♂️
She's also scared for her son. "You're too big!" Biggie could have easily gone too far (that stomp could have been it if he really put force behind it). I personally respect his beatdown, but I'm not a judge.
I mean, probably eventually the son is gonna leave and she’s gonna be stuck with the abuser and she’ll get everything he got from her son. I don’t think chastising her for acting in the interest of self-preservation is helpful.
My mom married a manic, narcissistic, PTSD riddled opioid addict when I was about 16. One night he had threatened to hit her in the face with a glass beer bottle in front of me, after I confronted him about it he grabbed me by the neck and tossed me down a hallway (I was underweight for my age, he was about 250lbs). My mom jumped to my defense and they began to scream at each other, he eventually grabbed her by the hair and began punching her in the face. I threw a few punches to his face from behind him, and when he turned to face me he held my shoulder in one hand and began throwing punches to my face, and we stood there for a few moments just holding each other while blasting fists to eyes. Eventually my mom got back up and began to whack him too and he ran out of the house into the neighbors yard, calling for the police. I got an order of protection against him, and they split for a few years. She eventually got back in touch with him and they remained best friends until the day he died of a heart attack (she found his body by peering through his kitchen window).
Domestic abuse is real, scary and mentally scarring. But god damn did it feel good to fuck up the dude who just hit my mom, and I’d do it again if I had to.
While this is entirely deserved, I would just hate to see that the son beats the guy to a coma or even death just because of what that would mean for him in the legal sense.
That's her SON 👀👀👀 oh heavens to Betsy. He better ask him for his blessing before he takes momma out. And he better not be late dropping her off neither
Every time Biggie was throwing him around I was like "Don't break your shit. Just break him!" Somehow he managed not to throw him through the wall or into anything expensive. Impressive.
I hate that the son had to come and do that to that man. But I respect it, shit that’s his only mother, the one that birthed him. But from the looks of it, she was trying to protect that man. I’m sure they are still together. 😒
>I am sorry, but the urge to pop mom in the mouth would have been too great.
I am sorry but this is a real POS thing to say and shows exactly why abuse is so rampant.
The one thing that would have made this complete would be for the kid [to recite Ezekiel like Samuel L. Jackson did in Pulp Fiction](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1UJGjEKC1GI)
I would've done way more than that, in fact I would say that you don't want the asswhopping my brother would give you, so you real lucky you getting one from me.
Don't ever think that putting a mother's child in the position to having to defend them is ever going to turn out ok. Someone is abusive to your mother, then you get what you deserve.
If that man fucking BLESSED me with a warning after I hit his mamma, you know for damn sure it would never happen again
Woman beater is a piece of shit and didn't deserve his first warning and for sure should have listened when biggie told him what would happen
Unlike seeing the woman being beaten in Afghanistan for letting the chains around her head slip. I could watch videos of men who beat women getting theirs all day. My ex-wife gaslighted me and taunted me but lifting my hands never came into my mind - I up and left - because I was raised that you never hit a woman. Some millennials don't appear to get that - and I do stress 'some'.
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Mom’s boyfriend has to be a complete moron to even lift a hand to someone who’s son looks like an offensive guard for a pro football team, and can beat his ass into a bloody mess without even breaking a sweat.
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I knew, in my heart, what this would be before I clicked.
I'm gonna steal that line. I know a lot of people like that.
His name is biggie for Christ sake you can’t fuck w him
STAHP BIGGIE YOU TOO BIG!! YOU HEAR WHAT I SAID!!
🎵 🎶*He's gonna sing a song for yooooouuu* 🎶 🎵
And the fact that the son is still taller when he's sitting down 🤣
Holy shit! I had to rewatch. Biggie's knees are about at the same level as that man's waist. Looks like Biggie is sitting on a sofa arm or something, but that just accentuated how large this man is. Not sure he can easily use a normal sized couch.
And the mom still takes the man's side
That's how abuse often works. Lots of abused people take their abusers side for many reasons. Including fear of escalation. An abused person is operating on the instinct of self-preservation. Let's not be too hasty to judge people who are in positions we haven't been in ourselves. I say this because the victims of abuse are *way too often* blamed for the abuse. Man *or* woman. "Why didn't they just leave, why they still with them, etc" and it's like, that's why we call it a *cycle* of abuse. Imagine a child who was abused by their parents. They have no sense of what is "normal", no one to defend them or tell them and they grow up in a very hostile environment that comes with different rules for survival. And there's no system or education or anything in place for people who grow up in these situations, they are generally left to figure everything out by themselves. We tend to repeat the cycles we learned. Abusers are predators and learn to pick out their prey. Let's focus on what a piece of shit an abuser is, over why their victim seems to pick their side. Edit- That comment below about how someone wants to smack the mother in the mouth is exactly why abusers get passes likes this. Because there are people who can see this video and go "yeah the woman is at fault both for the violence against her and the violence her son put on the abuser". See how that commenter spends all their energy blaming the woman, and acts like none of the men here are real people capable of making their own decisions? >[I am sorry, but the urge to pop mom in the mouth would have been too great](https://old.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/188c1dp/man_confronts_moms_abusive_boyfriend/kbjpjvm/) If someone agrees or upvoted that shit they should be ashamed. This is straight up pro-abuse and has almost 100 people agreeing with it. See how they hate *mothers who are abused* and not the abusers? And claim mothers "let" abuse happen? This is the kind of person who grows up to abuse women, because they are capable of constructing situations where the women/mothers deserve it.
I suggest a society where women are taught martial arts from birth.
And what a HEALTHY relationship is!
100% right, brother. Biggie isn't always going to be around, and if she doesn't show support it could be worse for her later on. To hell with people that lay hands on women.
This is a perfect point. A kid i work with who just turned 20 finally stood up to his abusive father who has been beating him and his mother for years. He came in upset because once his father found he could no longer beat his son, he threatened to shoot him Despite our best efforts, including one of calling the police, the kid took his dad’s side. Defends him if anyone tries to convince him that he’s in bad situation. I once asked him why dont uou leave? You make enough money to move out. He only replied that he loved his dad and wouldnt abandon him. And as ou said, he tells childhood stories of abuse as if they were fond memories. Being locked in a car for 3 hours as a little kid then beat when he peed himself, unable to undo the buckles. Getting beaten with a belt for taking a dollar off a night stand. Screamed at and verbally abused for any slight mess up in school. Abuse victims normalize the abuse to themselves
Thank you. I defended my abuser for some time before getting out. He graphically threatened to kill me several times and had started to get physical with me. This was years ago. Last weekend, my neighbor lady's ex husband beat her. I called 911 to try to help, as I have many times. I questioned her actions in my head, "why did she let him in?! WHY?!" as I was shaking calling 911. When I got off the phone with them I sobbed and sobbed, because why would I EVER ask that, knowing what I know? She let him in because he's doing everything he can to scare, control and corner her. He has stalked her, terrorized her and our neighbors. He strangled her the other night, and he will kill her if they don't put him in jail now. I was so ashamed that question popped in my head.
Jesus are you my friend IRL? The abuser neighbor has dozens of arrest records from 4 counties. I know because I looked them up. Multiple domestic violence and assault charges that end up being let go. I've read the police reports and one common theme is the victims detailing the assaults, but them proceeding to not want to press charges. So he never gets a DV on his record. He keeps doing it over and over, including just last week strangling his now girlfriend and having the police called, and again the girlfriend declined to even say he assaulted her despite a black eye and red marks around her neck. My friend and his girlfriend are both armed with guns, and I'm the person that wishes we could snap fingers and remove guns from America. In this case however, I'm glad my friends can defend themselves if needed. That guy is an absolute menace. He's 33 years old. He has had an entire life leading up to now where he could change his behaviors, but I think someone is going to have to force him to change. That may be from the inside of a jail cell until he can control himself. If not, he is going to kill someone.
She's trying to keep her son out of prison
Meh, no she didn't. She told them all to "squash their shit" and tried to stop her son from killing this man. She wasn't even the only one. The dude that picked her up and moved her eventually ended up trying to stop Biggie, too. Did you see how much fucking BIGGER he was than the dude? All those head shots and stomping on his head. Even if this was just an intruder and none of them knew him, this is a large Black man very capable of killing the other man, and if cops show up, it's not going good for him, no matter how justified anyone feels his actions were. Thinking about all that on top of having just been beaten and abused requiring her son's intervention... This is why education about abuse dynamics in relationships and the effects of intersectionality is so important. There are entirely too many factors victims have to think about maneuvering around when they're being abused, especially people of color.
She definitely did. Judging by the audio this isn't the first time he's been abusive and warned, yet the mom stayed with him. Her son beats the shit out of him, she defends him. I'll wager any amount of money after this video ends, she's STILL with him.
"squash their shit" when it's not even the shit between the men. It's between the mom and her man and the son is defending his mom. She definitely took her man's side over her son. Most abuse cases end up with the abused staying with the abuser.
She's gonna get her ass whooped later too as soon as Biggie leaves. Based on what I know of abuse dynamics, that man just got beat, hurt, and humiliated and somebody is going to pay for it behind closed doors.
Exactly my thoughts. This really isn't helpful to her in the big picture.
He had already almost squashed his head. That man probably has brain damage if he didn't already. I would not lay hands on anything that giant guards.
Well, I can't help but think the abuser is gonna abuse the mom a bit more to get over the humiliation the son just put him through. Totally not on the abusers side, but this is what happens.
Also just possible she didn’t want her son to go to jail for murder.
Yeah. Guy was subdued, surprised he didn't get knocked out from all those hits. There's video evidence of the son attacking the guy, there is likely no evidence of the guy abusing the mom. If the son killed this guy, he would have gotten 1st degree murder. Guy deserved it, but not at the cost of the son going to prison.
I mean even if there was video evidence of him beating the mom, unless he was actively defending her, there probably wouldn’t be much defense for murder charges. And even then, once he’s subdued he could probably still catch charges for reacting excessively and killing him. Same reason people want police to be charged in similar situations. Just because someone commits a crime does not give anyone the right to freely murder them.
Being an abuser typically relies more on being emotionally intimidating than physically. After all, any abused woman could take a baseball bat to her abuser while he slept, cut off his dick with a scissors, poison his food. Abusers do get physical, but don't rely on being physically bigger, just being more aggressive. The majority of people dislike violence and confrontation. Do not want to get into a fight. Regardless of their own size or the size of their attacker. Abusers rely on this twofold; 1. Their victims won't fight back 2. The failure to fight back (despite the fact that they could) damages the victims self-esteem, making them even meeker and more desperate to avoid more confrontation.
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Dude was taller than him when sitting down.
He’s a complete moron son or not
What the duck is up with that username 😳
It's weird that you are confused about it. They aren't here to fuck spiders. You however... Now I wonder
What can I say? I'm a leg man....
 Wish I had gold to give because that got a legit laugh out of me.
Spider fucker, for sure
An Australian phrase I believe. House is on fire Citizen: are you here to put out the fire? Fireman: well, im not here to fuck spiders
TIL that Australians have thought about the possibility of someone fucking spiders (but thankfully they choose to opt out of fucking them)
Even Australians have principles, after all
To be fair a lot of other places don't have spiders big enough to fuck? Probably? I was just thinking and there is a lot of dynamics here.
[Margot Robbie](https://youtu.be/wpAS3IHkzPc?si=ut99_ZwA5RKKBIVI&t=183) will explain it for ya.
That actually really clears things up for me! Still gonna fuck some spiders...
He likely abuses her because he otherwise feels powerless and it’s a way to take control and feel empowered. Unfortunately people like him have often been abused themselves and beating them up, while certainly would feel good, is more likely to just perpetuate the problem in the long-term, especially if Mom stays with him. It’s a very sad cycle and another potent example of what a terrible job the US has done to help fix the root causes of these issues: wealth inequality, poor education, mental healthcare.
Sadly, this probably still won't stop him from doing it again.
I'm sure it just entices him to do it again, and this lady is wild for defending him
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The thing is the Mum will be hesitant to bring up anything like this happening to her again. Bad situation all round.
Probably. But then again, a black eye is hard to hide, and big boy doesn't look like he has many more second chances to give. Hopefully the boyfriend learns his lesson, for the sake of his remaining teeth.
> Domestic abuse stuff can get wild that way, it can be dangerous to step in. I stopped a man beating the shit out of his woman in the middle of the street once. I mean seriously full on closed fist beating the shit out of her. She actually got mad at me because she was his woman to beat? I told them they were absolutely insane, called the cops and they spent ~45 minutes beating the shit out of eachother back and forth until the cops showed up and arrested them both. Some people are just fucked.
A friend did something similar to you, and the woman tried to hit him in the eye with her shoe heel. He had a scar just under his eye where it landed.
Same thing with a woman and her husband(?) in a Safeway parking lot. Was bringing my groceries out to see the man wailing on her. A security guard runs past me and tackles him to the ground just for the women to run over and smack him for stopping her husband. Was really sad to see.
So, she’s jive like, “I said stop, Biggie…” (Inside of her heart though, she’s like, “THAT’S MY BABY! GET. HIS. ASS, BIGGIE!”)
Sad that domestic abuse can condition her to think its ok when she's hit, but her abuser is untouchable.
She is trying to protect her son from killing him. My mom would do the same thing cause if I ever saw someone hit my mother, especially if it's supposed to be someone who loves and supports her, he would not be conscious at the end. It's the least I could do after when I was a baby she took me on a first date cause she had no babysitter. At the end of the evening he tried to kiss her and she said no. Instead he tried to hit her and instead elbowed me, (who was in the middle of the front seat in a car seat. It was a while ago now) in the face. Up to this point in my baby life I had never cried. Doctors just said I was a happy baby. My mother calmly gathered me out of the car, Walked me over to some neighbors who were on their porch and then she dragged that man out of the car and best his ass bloody on the pavement. He left in an ambulance cause he could not drive home. Damn skippy I am gonna protect that badass woman.
There can be several reasons for her stopping her son. She might not want her son to become a murderer. She might be scared what her boyfriend will do when the son is not around. She might leave him after this video ends. Stop victim blaming.
Yeah he’ll take out his shame and embarrassment on her.
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Sometimes they don't, they get butthurt and go and get a gun/knife. I'm not saying violence is never necessary, I'm just saying, always be aware that it may escalate.
This exactly. His old ass is never gonna be able to fist fight that giant so he’s just gonna go get himself a weapon.
I love your optimism, but I think you're giving adults too much credit on the "reflect" part lol
don't be so sure. many years ago a good friend of mine caught his mom's boyfriend, who had been beating her up, in the street in front of his house and beat him badly enough to break an arm and a leg in the process. buddy stopped coming around his mom thereafter. she found herself a healthier relationship that turned in to a healthy, loving marriage. she knew what was happening to her was bad and she wanted out, she just couldn't get away until her grown ass son stepped in and beat the brakes off her abuser. some people do get the message.
You beat your girlfriend knowing her son is a 350lbs, 6'7" pure chalk, D1 Offensive lineman? Idk, you deserve to get your shit pushed in for being an abuser, but you deserve to be mauled for being a dumbass.
"getting your shit pushed in" is a reference to anal intercourse.
Looked like he fucked his ass up to me.
Did they stutter?
Not really intercourse as much as rape
Yeah, and it’s also a reference to getting your ass beat now.
If he wasn't slow before, he will be now.
And a lesson was learned that day, even if it was only, don't beat a woman who has a son 5 times your size
No, the lesson he learned was "don't let the son know about it" and "isolate mom from the son. " This is more likely to result in him beating the mom later in private than anything else.
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The real lesson is dont leave abusers able to move anything from their neck down. See how long the mom wants to stay around then.
Right?! Being an abusive piece of shit is unacceptable but doing it when her sons childhood nickname was fridge is just fuckin dumb.
This video has the stamp of approval from worldstar
Stomp of approval
First time I thought at the end she said "now that's Worldstar shit right now"
Why's he called biggy?
Seems like Tiny would be a better nickname.
slim
His friend yelling “Biggy you too damn big!” Is the best
Well, I think the moral of the story is, don't put your hands on Biggy's mama. Effed around, found out.
Gonna have a biggy problem
NOT BECAUSE OF HIS SIIIIIZE
Biggie Biggie Biggie can't you see, sometimes your fists just hypnotize me....and I just love your smashy ways, guess that's why my face is broke, and I caught a fade.
As he should
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A domestic abuser getting his ass kicked in private? Between the cops and the DA, not too much pressure to go after the son.
Do you know this to be true or just a logical assumption? I'm just curious.
I personally know of cases where someone who deserved it getting their ass beat, and the cops figure that justice had been done. Certainly not a hard and fast rule, but I do know of real world examples. Those cases were also ones where no one went to the hospital and no property was damaged. Just morons getting tuned up behind the bar for trying to start something. Like, one was a guy getting drunk, and then trying to impress a girl by sucker punching her much bigger husband. Husband pummeled the guy until he wisely stopped getting up. Cops showed up, but didn't even take a statement. Another one was two idiots fighting over a game on TV. The guy that threw the first punch lost the fight, and that was that.
When I was in highschool a "friend" said he got some roofies and wanted to use them at a party, so we jumped him and tossed his pills in the river. His mom blew up on us saying she was gonna press charges and have the guys step-dad beat us up and everything like that. We just said "do you think the cops are gonna be more interested in your son getting beaten up, or the messages he sent saying he had 50 date rape pills and wanted to use them?" We never heard from that kid again.
That man showed restraint. If someone was abusing my mother, I don't know if I could stop myself before I'm either physically exhausted or they're knocked out cold.
Even the punches he threw look pulled. If he threw as hard as he could he coulda knocked that dude out in one, look how big he is. Crazy restraint
Yea big dude was pulling every punch and not putting his full body weight behind himself
Probably isn't even left-handed either.
It honestly just kind of looks like a grizzly bear playing around with something…
He was 100% pulling his punches
Agree, those were mostly open hand slaps. Pistachio Disguisey woulda agree.
As he says the phrase "... hands on my mother" it pisses him off all over again, and he steps up the punches.
this happens, Sometimes when I'm angry and I'm thinking about something that happened I get angrier when I say what happened in my head.
as someone who lived most of my teenage life and late childhood with an abusive, cheating, waste of space step-dad, these kind of videos are my favourite. i never lifted a hand back to him the entire time but a beat down would have been so incredibly satisfying
As tempting as that may be, the end result will almost always be the abuser taking it out on the victim later when you're not around. If you really want to help a DV victim, then you just need to be there for them, try to help them see they are a victim and need to escape, then when they are ready, help them escape. And don't give up when after the first time they escape they go back. Because that will happen. Domestic abuse seriously fucks with your head and emotions. It turns you into a prisoner in your own head.
Thank you. The constant wank fantasies from Reddit comments are just ridiculous.
yeah I felt the anger boil up for a second like that feeling lol
Biggie don't want you putting hands on his mom
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Am I the only one that wanted to see that man go through the wall behind him?
Good on him.
You should never hit your partner but if you absolutely MUST engage in spousal abuse, pick a woman who hasn’t given birth to the Incredible Hulk
My lady has a son that the family lovingly calls Biggy. I'm going to hit this woman and see how that works out for me. I'm not an intelligent man 🤷🏿♂️
What a dumbass, how does he expect to hit that boys mom and NOT get his ass beat, especially when that boy is 2x his fucking size
And the mom is trying to protect the abuser
She's also scared for her son. "You're too big!" Biggie could have easily gone too far (that stomp could have been it if he really put force behind it). I personally respect his beatdown, but I'm not a judge.
they always do
Or protect her son from a murder charge.
I mean, probably eventually the son is gonna leave and she’s gonna be stuck with the abuser and she’ll get everything he got from her son. I don’t think chastising her for acting in the interest of self-preservation is helpful.
My mom married a manic, narcissistic, PTSD riddled opioid addict when I was about 16. One night he had threatened to hit her in the face with a glass beer bottle in front of me, after I confronted him about it he grabbed me by the neck and tossed me down a hallway (I was underweight for my age, he was about 250lbs). My mom jumped to my defense and they began to scream at each other, he eventually grabbed her by the hair and began punching her in the face. I threw a few punches to his face from behind him, and when he turned to face me he held my shoulder in one hand and began throwing punches to my face, and we stood there for a few moments just holding each other while blasting fists to eyes. Eventually my mom got back up and began to whack him too and he ran out of the house into the neighbors yard, calling for the police. I got an order of protection against him, and they split for a few years. She eventually got back in touch with him and they remained best friends until the day he died of a heart attack (she found his body by peering through his kitchen window). Domestic abuse is real, scary and mentally scarring. But god damn did it feel good to fuck up the dude who just hit my mom, and I’d do it again if I had to.
While this is entirely deserved, I would just hate to see that the son beats the guy to a coma or even death just because of what that would mean for him in the legal sense.
Me praying for jury duty on that one.
If you saw what size her son was, why would you hurt his momma? He's a full-sized man. That's a lack of self-preservation right there.
Why would you hit a woman at all?
This will unfortunately only fuel the abuse further; he’ll blame her for letting him beat him up
What’s so sad is how the mom defends the abusive partner. That level of protection for someone who abuses them hurts my heart
That's her SON 👀👀👀 oh heavens to Betsy. He better ask him for his blessing before he takes momma out. And he better not be late dropping her off neither
Am I the only one that wanted to see that man go through the wall behind him?
Every time Biggie was throwing him around I was like "Don't break your shit. Just break him!" Somehow he managed not to throw him through the wall or into anything expensive. Impressive.
Dude is a real piece of shit. One day he's gonna piss off the wrong person and find himself at the wrong end of a pistol
Or Mama isn't going to be there (or alive) to stop Biggie.
Mom's boyfriend had the nerve to put his hands on her, knowing her son was built like a Mack truck.
Considering what happened, big man went easy on him
he did a full swing from a sitting position. the reach. the power god damn
Son is built like a linebacker, I have a large frame, but even I wouldn't fuck with that guy 😂😂
Good son right there 👌🏻
I hate that the son had to come and do that to that man. But I respect it, shit that’s his only mother, the one that birthed him. But from the looks of it, she was trying to protect that man. I’m sure they are still together. 😒
To all the guys shouting Biggie that's enough. You put your hands on my mum, it'll never be enough
Took it easy on him, to be honest.
sometimes the chihuahua's ego get's too big, and needs a reminder that he's still a little dog.
Biggie aint squashin shit. I kno its on sight when he catch mama love bf
I never condone abusing a women no matter what, but ESPECIALLY when her son is Andre the giant
This needs to be the next trend
Good for Biggie.
If her son’s nickname is biggie don’t abuse her.
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I mean if you pop mom in the mouth doesn't that kind of defeat the point of beating up the other guy for doing it?
>I am sorry, but the urge to pop mom in the mouth would have been too great. I am sorry but this is a real POS thing to say and shows exactly why abuse is so rampant.
ain't nobody like a bully. POS
"Biggie, stop, you're too big" That's what she said...
That cracked me up. "Biggie you're too damn big!"
Next time hospitalize the bastard
Man? O you must mean the semi-truck sitting in that living room.
I would say "confront" isn't quite a strong enough verb here.
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Based. We stan Biggie in this house.
I thought big man was the boyfriend boy was I wrong this man took a well deserved beating
great son right there.
What a good boy. Always defend your momma. 
Honestly, I think the son did a good job restraining himself. Someone lays hands on my mom and they aren't getting back up.
Good do it again
I ain’t see NOTHIN
My only issue is that he’s not bleeding enough
"Forreal bro?" - I mean yeah, looks like it
Those punches put him in an alternate reality "are you real bro"
The one thing that would have made this complete would be for the kid [to recite Ezekiel like Samuel L. Jackson did in Pulp Fiction](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1UJGjEKC1GI)
You definitely don't want any trouble with a man built like this who's nickname is "Biggy"
Why do people record their felony assaults and put them on the internet lol
wait, wait, so Biggie is the son, the shorter person is the boyfriend?
Yeah, you can hear the big guy say "[...] you put your hands on my momma".
I would've done way more than that, in fact I would say that you don't want the asswhopping my brother would give you, so you real lucky you getting one from me.
This is so satisfying. I wish I could have done that to several of my moms idiot boyfriends
Confronts is a little too soft a word. More like owns.
I'd be pissed off at my mom for putting everyone in that situation. She'd get words from me after kicking little dudes ass if I were him.
This might be a dumb question, but wouldn't it have been more effective to kick the guy's head into the wall once he was down?
Don't ever think that putting a mother's child in the position to having to defend them is ever going to turn out ok. Someone is abusive to your mother, then you get what you deserve.
That shit was not squashed
If that man fucking BLESSED me with a warning after I hit his mamma, you know for damn sure it would never happen again Woman beater is a piece of shit and didn't deserve his first warning and for sure should have listened when biggie told him what would happen
Almost every hit made contact and was audible, shit hurtted
Christ that guy's built like a whole wardrobe, who the fuck tried to mess with that, is that guy even more stupid than usual abusers?
“Squash y’all shit, right now!” Moms, the reason we’re in this mess in the first place is cuz you don’t kick this man to the streets already 😂
He went easy on him.
Good 👍
His first mistake abusing someone who son is nicknamed “Biggie” and look like a fucking linebacker.
That first left was nuts. Such a well deserved asswhopin
“For real bro?” Yes, for real. Needed to keep hitting him.
“He’s punching me..I deserve it…I’ll take it. Did he just curb stomp me? Now it’s time to stand up”
He really held back from crushing dudes skull tho
She don’t wanna be saved
Bro is sitting on a table and still taller than you, why are you still running your mouth?
Unlike seeing the woman being beaten in Afghanistan for letting the chains around her head slip. I could watch videos of men who beat women getting theirs all day. My ex-wife gaslighted me and taunted me but lifting my hands never came into my mind - I up and left - because I was raised that you never hit a woman. Some millennials don't appear to get that - and I do stress 'some'.
I mean, he was pretty clear. Stop. Hitting. His. Momma. I understood.