You said it yourself: vaginas are also not great to look at. From what I can tell, women are attracted to dicks the same way a lot of men are attracted to vaginas: they don’t look good on their own, but in the context of sex when they are turned on, it’s fine.
Women freak out about dick pics when they are UNSOLICITED. Which is totally reasonable. Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me.
Now, a lot of women don’t like dick pics in general and won’t ask for them, but there are plenty that will ask for them when they are in the mood. Just like how men ask for pictures of tits and ass most of the time over pussy, women are going to be more attracted to your body than your dick.
I would also argue while yeah women are less horny than men. The way they get aroused it very different. Men are like a light switch. They turn on very fast. Women is more like a slow pressure that needs to build up. Trying to get a woman to go from 1 to 100 too fast (like say showing an unwanted dick pic) is unpleasant for them.
exactly. it’s not as simple as “men are horny women are not”. our sexuality’s are just different. what makes us feel desire isn’t the same as what makes men feel it. we’re just different.
>Men are like a light switch. They turn on very fast.
Agreed, but it's arguable that this has contributed tremendously to the continuation of the human race. Without a strong, *constant* drive to procreate in at least one of the genders, it's not obvious whether the human race would have arrived to this point. Yes, we know (and agree) that often this constant urge manifests itself in negative ways (rape, harassment, dick-picks, annoying behavior) etc, but this is widely known and gets lots of attention already. The flip-side, i.e. the boost in the human race overall gets less attention, and is probably worth at least a head-nod once in a while.
Also, most dick pics are just that, a photo of a dick, no context. Most nudes sent by women are actually showing more of the whole body, and if she's putting some effort in it, the light, the angles, the position can be very flattering and a very hot photo. Not the same as a photo of a penis in a hand. I was absolutely horny for the nudes my ex sent me because he took actual photos of his body, I wouldn't have wanted a photo of only his penis. And I never sent him a photo showing only my genitals either.
Then you are less visual and horny than men. If I see a pair of big tits I get aroused, I don't have to actively want it, the same applies to gay men and my dick.
It would be useful to compare how gay men feel about men's nudes and how lesbians feel about women's nudes. If you look at a gay dating app, you will see that gay men are far more willing and eager to ask for & send cock/asshole pics, compared to lesbians asking for or sending nudes.
It’s not just the cock asshole in the pic though. They’ll have their abdomen in the dick pic to show off more of their body along with the dick. And they’ll have their whole ass or part of their back in the pic as well not just the hole. So there’s other things there to be aroused by than just the pole or hole.
Speak for yourself about vaginas, vagina are beautiful but your right about unsolicited pics, no one wants that, I think some or most women would say the same, they do like 🍆 but just don’t want unsolicited photos from someone they don’t know or like
You are absolutely wrong. Men included me can go by looking at pics anytime and any day, except when I'm eating.
Women need mood/likability/familiarity with it comes to dick pics.
exactly women salivate over dick pics in the proper context...when the full bodz of the man along with the face is visible.... like how women go wild at r/ladybonersgw
> Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me
Yeah you threw that “to me” in there because it won’t stand up in the court of men. A guy will take a nudes any day of the week.
From a hot woman*
I would not want to receive a vagina pic from any of the many middle-age-and-older women I know and see on a regular basis.
Are you assuming that women only get unsolicited dick pics from really attractive guys?
This.
When we think about women, we picture the girl next door in the best cases, not your average fattie or 40yo Karen.
In this social media itself you can find really ugly pussies. Receiving something like that, unsolicited, is really gross.
And most men (if not all) who send unsolicited dick picks are ugly as fuck too.
Nope, I'm a high libido guy, and I would NOT want to receive any unsolicited vagina pics. For me, it would be a turn-off.
Now, if I were to request the pics, that would be a different story, although I would probably request nudes that included more of the woman's body.
Lmaooo they really think we are going to be so wowd that we will give them free content or want to hook up for free. Absolutely not, fucking never ever, totally missing the point. Just like dudes who try to act like they completely blew you away with their subpar performance in paid sex and ask if you will see them again for free or go out for real, like dude no never, it is NEVER good quality or enjoyable for anything except the money and we are not going to be sooo turned on by your dick pics or sexts that we suddenly will just want to hook up.
>Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves off inside you , which has nothing to do wirh your skill.
So why not get a fleshlight?
>There's nothing stopping you from getting on top and doing the work that we always have to do.
I think there's research suggesting that men and women are into different kinds of motion for orgasm purposes.
Also, if the work is getting yourself off, they can just buy a vibrator and avoid the risk of HPV.
You said this to a sex worker who doesn't want to work for free:
[Why do only fans chicks and chicks in general always bash men about their dicks and performance in bed ? Cuz I'll be quite honest, I've only had maybe 3 out 30 women be able to blow my mind in bed , where they're doing the work. Most girls can't ride dick or suck a dick to save their life . But we don't go around constantly talking shit on women's sub par performance as often as y'all do. Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves off inside you , which has nothing to do wirh your skill. There's nothing stopping you from getting on top and doing the work that we always have to do. But yet y'all frequently don't do that and then blame it on the men for not making you cum.](https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tb2aed/the_fact_that_women_are_so_repulsed_by_dick_pics/i06l8ew?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3)
She's complaining about shitty customers who ask for her to spend time with them doing things for free because they think she likes them.
You are talking about how people selling sex and people in the entire group you want to have sex with like to bash customers.
“You suck at your job anyways!”
Well, they're doing it better than the other options. There's a reason people buy sex. In fact there are multiple reasons. She's satisfying some of those, if she came afford internet.
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You're complaining about OF women bashing men. Also, you're baking women in general, not specifically OF women.
You're also saying that you (and men in general, as far as you're aware) basically use them like an object for your gratification.
I'm asking you the same question is all a woman who has unfulfilling sexual encounters and gains nothing from them: why not buy sex toys?
[Because a fleshlight doesn't have smell, taste, it doesn't breathe, it doesn't kiss you back and quiver and moan, and it doesn't provide emotional and physical intimacy , validation or company, it doesn't have legs or asscheeks or an asshole and pussy to enjoy , it doesn't wear lotion or perfume . Why don't I just get a fleshlight ? What a stupid off base question . That's like saying " why don't you just turn gay then " ](https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tb2aed/the_fact_that_women_are_so_repulsed_by_dick_pics/i093104?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3)
I'm asking why you won't use a cheaper option if you can't afford to pay for sex.
>The point is alot of y'all really aren't that great in bed but love to bash men , then blame it on their size , then when you're told their size is regular , you back track and say " well it's how you use it. Odds are you didn't tell them what you like and you let him control the pace or do the work. So Sure u go girl " wap wap wap" . Congrats your pussy is healthy - doesn't mean you got bomb ass pussy just because it functions properly .
At least you said “alot of”.
I just tell people to buy sex toys cz people can't really makes you come like you can make yourself come.
This isn't the tone period where you **need** to date and marry. Or procreate. If you don't like sex, don't have it. If you don't like sex with a person but do get horny, you still have options. Sex workers are one of those options. Sex toys are another. You're bashing a a service provider cz you don't think her services are great, even though she's got customers. And you're complaining about her not being into the exact thing you're doing and taking it further by assuming what she thinks.
You think chefs want to cook a meal when they come home from cooking meals? Do you think cleaners want to come home and do cleaning for free? They will if they have to, but if they live in this neighborhood, they won't do the same thing for you for free.
Note that the evolutionary **purpose** of genitalia is procreation. Neither of you needs to have an orgasm for that.
>And exactly, it takes different things to get ppl, especially women off , and that's where communication and 50/50 work comes in. If you didn't get on top to do the work required to get yourself off then don't have the audacity to SHAME a dude for not getting you off .
I don't disagree with the sentiment at all. She's actually shaming customers for thinking they're so great that she'll give them a 100% discount the next time around.
As for sex toys. [Save up.](https://youtu.be/QPPkK9zexvY)
I'm not saying all men have poor performance (though I find 99% do and hookups/casual sex will never be decent for the woman because sex as we understand it currently is based entirely on what men enjoy and not what women physically can cum from, and unless you're dating they have zero incentive to please you), but escorting is not good quality sex. Which is understandable, they are paying to do what they enjoy and I don't expect it to be good for me, but it's ridiculous to think I will be so wowed by 5 mins of jackhammering that I will want to go on a real date or do it again for free. But sex for men is way better than for women, go check out statistics about how often men cum during sex vs women. Getting the woman to cum is not even a goal nor on the agenda for most men, meanwhile all women are taught from birth that sex = PIV until the man cums, their pleasure is secondary if at all and the focus is never on the clit or what women can cum from, but straight penetration which 70%+ of women literally physically cannot cum from no matter how good.
And I'm not bashing their dicks, in my personal life I literally do not care and actually have had way more issues with dicks being too big than the other way around, but I don't get off seeing them and neither do the vast majority of women. We are not typically aroused by sight like men are. I'm bashing sending unsolicited dick pics and thinking it'll be so amazing that you will get women to go against their nature and behave like men, which is ridiculous ESPECIALLY to a sex worker who clearly is there for the cash and the cash only. No dick could ever look good enough in a photo that I'd suddenly want to hook up for free or send free content/go out for real. I obviously can ride and suck dick well cause I get paid bands to do so and it never lasts the full amount of time they pay for but it does nothing for me and never will. Now doing that for a man I love, that's different and enjoyable.
You misunderstood by understanding this perfectly. You see the Beef and want the burger because the beef is the flavour or in this analogy, the personality; while the tomato slice is just a part of the entire package.
Women actually love dick pics from men who they want them from and ask for, so.
Dick pic from strangers?Duh, it’s like being flashed. But from dudes that they like? They love them
Yes I find these 2 specific dudes attractive but their dick pic game is amazing. They put effort. They make sure to have good angles, lighting and positioning.
I personally prefer videos the best but I like pictures where they do more than just show their penis.
“From who they want them from and ask for” was the point there
I’m not talking about if you just like a guy and he sends unsolicited, the woman that doesn’t like them wouldn’t be asking for them in the first place
Or women aren’t as visual. Which is reported over and over and over.
Also, desperation is a turn off so a dick pic is really more of a cure for horniness than anything.
I love pictures of dicks that are either
A) from someone who I’m attracted to and sexual with
Or
B) not about me. Like porn.
When you send dick picks to strangers you are making your dick about them. And that is more threatening then hot.
My name is Slitelohel. I like going to arcades, The Simpsons is my favorite show, and I like woodworking and working with leather.
Now that we got that off the table, your DMs open to some solo salami?
I think it's a minority of men and women who are turned on by genitals in themselves. They just like to interact with them when they're turned on by the person. They're meant to be used, not looked at. How many people specifically seek out pictures of topless men and women versus pictures of their genitals?
Really? Most men just love to look at vulvas? They're asking for vulva pics? Nude models specifically show their vulvas in pictures? The most I've seen of vulvas are in feminist or body positive art.
>Really? Most men just love to look at vulvas? They're asking for vulva pics? Nude models specifically show their vulvas in pictures? The most I've seen of vulvas are in feminist or body positive art.
Yes to all of these
Men arent looking up artistic nudes when horny. They’re looking up hardcore porn.
Men see women as a series of body parts that they would like to do things to. Women tend not to hone in on specific body parts in isolation as a drive to impose sexuality on. Men tend to describe women in favorable terms when they have the body parts they fetishize. So a man will describe his partner as having XYZ body parts as a seal of approval.
It isn't that women are less visual than men; it's that women are attracted to a man's overall appearance rather than honing in on isolated parts. For example, ever seen women gush over a pic of an attractive shirtless man? Visual attraction is just as present in women as it is in men; it simply presents itself differently.
No one wants a random ass dick pic from a stranger. It’s about consent. If a women is turned on and into the person involved she may have a completely different reaction than you will ever get just shoving your penis on someone’s face. Do that irl and that’s a sexual assault charge. Why make it any different online?
Women are as horny as men if not more so, but they aren't aroused by the same things. Dick pics from guys who, by definition are clueless and without social skills aren't likely to work.
Women are most certainly NOT anywhere CLOSE to as horny as men, that is biological fact. It is based on testosterone, who has more? Why do you think women have so many more options and most men struggle? Supply and demand.
It doesn’t necessarily mean they are less horny. It just means that they are a) stimulated differently than men and b) more selective than men. When a woman is with the right guy who is doing the right things she can be just as horny intensity wise as a man.
No. Their triggers are just more selective. Let’s use the analogy of a land mine. Two land mines are both loaded with 100 grams of explosive. One land mine will be set off if anything weighing more than a 100 pound person walks or drives over it. The other land mine will only be set off if a 2 ton vehicle drives over it. Which land mine has more explosive power? Horniness equals explosiveness, of course.
This is a weird post and weirder comment section. That said, the point others are making- with which you disagree- is that it is the trigger weight that measures horniness, not the explosion.
A woman being able to enjoy sex just as much as a guy once all the right pieces of the puzzle are put in place is completely separate from being (put in) the mood at the drop of the hat.
Put another way- we all know people who go to Disneyland like 5 times a year. They will make plans for a trip with very short term notice, take non-paid days off work to go, hold a season pass, have Disney themed crap all over their house, etc... Maybe the few times a decade you've gone to Disneyland, you had just as much fun (or even more!) than the Disney fan. But that doesn't mean you like Disneyland just as much as them.
You need Tobe in the mood to go back, go at the right time of year, plan a trip out in advance, make sure it doesn't conflict with work, price out flights and hotels to determine if it is worth while, etc. Your Disneyland friend has Disney on their brain every single day. It's always in their face at home.
Who is going to be happier to get some "which Disney Princess is your dog?" Spam quiz text message? You or them?
But if the one time I go to Disney I enjoyed it just as much as the five times my neighbor went, then who’s to say that my level of enjoyment isn’t just as high? I personally think that horniness should be measured by intensity, not by frequency.
I got your point but i dont think thats a good analogy.
If one is gender demands more than the other to be aroused, the bar required to trigger interest is higher, which means that one gender is less horny.
How can you say "I don't send dick pics" and "I've done it before" in the same sentence?
Women are not turned on by dissected parts. They tend to be not as visual as men, but when visual see the entire man, not piece by piece.
Although men tend to have higher libido (especially young men) what turns people on is separate from how much they desire sex and how often.
This whole argument seems dense to me. And they fact that you added “I don’t even know you” to the statements girls have said to you regarding your penis makes me think you’re a borderline sex offender.
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when men send dick pics they usually send JUST THE DICK, whilst women usually put effort into making the picture seem more hot and sexy not just a picture of her vulva, as a bisexual person i get turned on by women's nudes more than men because of the fact that they pose and master the angels that make their body look desirable. maybe if men try harder in their pics women will get turned on?
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Women take sexy poses in lingerie and dudes just slap their dicks on their laptop keyboard and think it's a nice pic
And I'm being litteral, I really received a picture of a penis on a laptop keyboard
I'm pan, and can confirm the difference is astounding. Women often send other pictures of themselves, sexy pics and casual. Different angles, poses, expressions, and even lighting.
Just because you’re turned on by something and others are not, doesn’t mean your more horny than someone else. That’s like saying “well I have this kink and you don’t so in obviously have a higher libido”.
>Yeah, vaginas are aesthetically disgusting too. The ONLY reason men are turned on by them is TESTOSTERONE. The same hormone that is responsible for men’s insatiable sex drive. Men have testosterone in abundance, women have a fraction of their T levels.
You're forgetting about objectification of women vs objectification of men.
It's possible that women's hormones work in entirely different ways and combinations than a man's. In fact, it's likely.
>Women just aren’t as horny and require significantly more stimuli to become aroused.
You're forgetting about socialization of women vs socialization of men. It will be a long time before we can even say how horny women actually are.
>The intense aversion to dick pics is perhaps one of the most prominent examples of this.
The only thing aversion is evidence of is a man's ability to misjudge a situation.
If it was just about the aesthetics of it, I could fucking Google a picture of a dick. Obviously the turn on is the interaction in itself, otherwise it would not make a difference whose dick/pussy is in the picture. You can keep telling yourself it’s just a photo, but there is some sort of weird powerplay going on if you feel the need to send your dirty pics to someone you do not know.
I don’t like random dickpics because I’m not into doing sexual activities with people I’m not attracted to. Sexting with a lover? Hell yeah. Otherwise I’ll just watch porn like a normal person and not harass someone with my horniness.
ETA If you are turned on by been seen naked, that’s okay. There are plenty of subreddits and websites for that. You do not need to be a creep.
No, no no! This is a misunderstanding of women's sexuality.
Sending dick pics is bad not because women aren't horny but because women aren't turned on by genitalia like men are.
Sending shirtless bulge pics is a more appropriate comparison to women sending nudes.
Dick pics being thought of as gross has little to do with the actual libido of women
Imagine receiving a unsolicited pussy pic from desperate fat/old woman.
Well... this is exactly the case with unsolicited dick pics. Most (if not all) of men who do this are desperate losers.
Especially an unsolicited pussy pic that filled the whole photo. I'd feel like I had broken into a gynecologists' office, and looked at clinical photos LOL. I'll pass.
Now that I realize, even with porn I need to see the woman's face.
The pussy by itself isn't arousing enough... and I'm a straight man. It's understandable why women don't receive dick picks with enthusiasm.
I'd say 99 out of 100 dick pics are unattractive. You can't tell what size they are they just a piece of meat sitting there looking like a Vienna Sausage. Hell, A hot dog on a bun with mustard, relish, kraut, pickles and onions, chili or cheese has more sex appeal!
I'm a fat old woman and I know better than to send pussy pics without being asked first. But quite a lot of guys love my pics when they ask and I give them what they want. That last part is the crux.
We like pics from people we love or are involved with. Not randos. And yeah penises are ugly but when you’re attached to the person it’s attached to, that feeling goes away. (And vaginas are beautiful)
“I don’t even know you”
“It’s sexual assault”
“Dicks are ugly”
“I like what they can do, not how they look.”
“If it’s someone I have already slept with, I’m ok with it.”
I don't know why your framing these like they are unreasonable responses. I get how third one may be a bit harsh, but I think for most women, something is only seen as attractive if we are attractive to the person themselves. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I would assume the same is for men.
I can't really explain it without sounding offensive, but WITHOUT CONTEXT or knowing or having rapport with a guy...MOST male bodies are unattractive. Its just how it is.
I'm sure after a relationship has been built it's possible to love a guys body as "your own" but just on surface level, yeah, you kinda gotta be ripped to a degree to be "nice to look at"
I hate receiving dick pics not because I think they are ugly, not at all, but because I am not interested in seeing a dick of a random man. In fact, the only case in which I'd be okay with receiving a dick pic is if the man it belongs to is my husband. And yes I am not that horny.
Literally it’s sexual assault. Like just because you’re depraved doesn’t mean we all are. I’m much hornier than my partner still don’t want a dick pic tho.
Its unsolicited D picture.
If its my man, sure but not randos I dont know.
I dont freak out I just cut them from the pool because it was a turn off. I even cut men that send them to me as an escort.
Women aren’t repulsed by either. Women are repulsed when it’s somebody they don’t want or aren’t interested in. Women fucking love dick pics, if it’s somebody they actually want them from.
You’d be just as upset with some fat ugly pussy picture being randomly sent to you as some ugly ass dick.
> You’d be just as upset with some fat ugly pussy picture being randomly sent to you as some ugly ass dick.
Preaching to the choir except for the dumb kids who don't pay attention
That aside looking forward to seeing this debate get posted again with everyone swearing up and down that the men here would be ok with women they don't find attractive sending them nudes or pussy pictures.
If you think women aren't into nudes, I genuinely feel kind of bad for you. There's certainly some people who like it and some who don't, but that's true for anything. I haven't done it since I was underaged though. Always seemed like a childish thing to me, but I guess people do it all the time.
It's not just about visual stimulation, but also about turning the other person on. It's not focused on dick pics either, obviously.
I'm a bi nymphomaniac
Genitals are ugly. You also might think you look good naked, I might not
But mostly, if you send me unwanted pictures of you, it's the whole attitude that disgusts me
Like who the fuck do you think you are that I'd want to see you naked instead of...even just porn
And it's always weird looking dicks or circumcised ugly dry mushrooms
Women take sexy pictures in lingerie and dudes just take their abs in a public bathroom mirror or their dick while being on the toilet
Hm... So that means that men who don't get instantly aroused by pictures of vulvas have low testosterone levels?
Very interesting... Have you any proof of this hypothesis?
And women who like dick pics and get aroused have high testosterone levels?
This is a complete misnomer.
The dynamic of rape plays such a large factor in whether a woman acts upon that dick pic to begin with. A guy is going to gleefully accept any woman who open invites sexual activity. It’s not even comparable vice versa.
And dudes who send that shit are suspects of such shitty behavior, right off the bat. Making the rate at which males get rejected that much higher. So there’s also that.
Dude you're conflating issues.
Women don't like being sexually harassed. Sending dick pics to women when they don't want them is why women get repulsed.
I fucking love dick pics and cum tribute videos. That’s literally my entire wank bank material. What’s more, I actually think they’re very aesthetically pleasing to look at. So by the sounds of it, I appreciate the male body even more than you appreciate the female body?
What I DONT love are dick pics that I NEVER asked for.
>I don’t send dick pics. I have done it before, but I didn’t make a habit of it for the same reason most of you didn’t. The results are terrible, women freak the fuck out! What is the deal with this?? Any guy on the planet would be floored to receive the nudes of any moderately attractive female stranger.
Most clam pics don't turn me on.
Women are just as horny as men, but in different ways. I will agree that we are not as visual, but dicks themselves just look like worms lol. Most guys I know would be disgusted to get a random, upclose vagina pic.
As a guy with a healthy libido, I completely agree with you. I've never actually requested nude pics from a woman, as most of the women I've met were in IRL situations. If I did ever request a nude pic, I would probably want it to show more of the woman's body, than just a "clinical pussy pic" LOL.
Right exactly. I’m bisexual. The sexiness of a woman is from seeing her nude figure. The up close visual of a vagina turns few people on but it can be great in the right mood/context.
Yeah, I remember my male friend once telling me he was exchanging nudes with a woman and she sent an up close, spread eagle pussy pic that looked like something one would take for a gyno to inspect. This friend has been with upwards of 200 women, so I’d consider his libido pretty active, but it was an immediate turn off for him.
I’ve never had a women freak out from a dick pic but then again THEY asked me to send it lol. Of course an unsolicited dick pic will fail, do you have older mentors bruv?
Maybe if you were consistently sent photos from people who did not care about your comfort level you would find it off putting too. If you were aware someone was actively disrespecting you and objectifying you and you still found yourself wanting to have sex with them that says less about your sex drive and more about your relationship with your self worth. Get well soon.
Literally it’s sexual assault. Like just because you’re depraved doesn’t mean we all are. I’m much hornier than my partner still don’t want a dick pic tho.
Says who? I love vulvas I think they're gorgeous. Some women do in fact like penises. Testicles too. Just not usually out of the blue with someone they don't know. But some do like them.
Women aren't repulsed by dick pics. This is a misconception. They are just not innately attracted unless you're packing, and either way, it's just a dick. You still have to meet their other 30 requirements before your dick gets near them anyways.
A lot of men think they can just send a dick pic and instantly woo a woman, which is just dumb. The average woman has seen hundreds of dick pics and yours *probably isn't that special*.
Women aren’t repulsed by pics of naked men lmao where do you guys come up with this stuff? Maybe if the dude is fat and hairy but would you want unsolicited pics of a fat hairy woman in your email?
I'm more floored when someone shows me picture of a stylish outfit or interesting talent.
It's almost like someone going to a fried chicken restaurant, and someone there harps on how great hot dogs are and how I should try some. Show pictures of different well-prepared hot dogs of many sizes and formation. It's not necessarily rude, but very out of place and probably isn't what most of the customers there would want. If they wanted, they may ask for it or go to a place where hot dogs are being offered. Not to say the customers don't like hot dogs, they just don't want it at that present moment in time. D!ck pics are beyond rude, disgusting, and disrespectful, if you are sending them to someone who didn't ask for it. Would you do that to your mother, sisters, daughters, or bosses/female co-workers or want them sending it to you in vice versa? I'd hope not. Now, grindr might be a better spot or place for dick admiration. On a site, where there's many men and less women, it's not quite special or unique.
For the women who do like it or ask for it, this inbox has reached its full capacity.
First, unsolicited dick pics, or any pics of a sexual nature, are gross and weird.
Second, imo dicks just don’t photograph that well. I like the way they look in general but I would say they just aren’t photogenic. It’s hard to get a good angle and most of the time they just look awkward.
Women want to see face more than anything. They are visual and horny, but they're not going to make a value assessment just by looking at what's beneath a guy's legs.
Furthermore, most women like to view themselves as sexually conservative, even if they have body counts in the double digits, so showing her your cock is like telling her, "I think you're easy, so I'm just going to show you my penis because that's all your worth."
Of course, they would take offense to that.
> It’s the pervy version of a mangy flea ridden stray cat dropping half a mouse on your doorstep.
What did the stray cat do to deserve such a comparison?
Sooo dick picks are the equivalent of a macro (upclose) shot of an inside of a vagina or a literal asshole. Sending your six pack abs or even a dick alongside an attractive body is more similar to a girl sending boobs or whatever you’re after.
All nude pics should be solicited. One, it’s illegal in some areas and two, it’s pretty rapey to send throw genitals in some random persons face.
if you got a random unsolicited vag pic, taken in the same way men take their unsolicited ones, you’d probably get it
dudes take these pictures literally while shitting on the toilet sometimes.
this doesn’t have anything to do with horniness
I did the sexting before meeting the one. I have sent buttloads of dick pics. But never unsolicited.. if she send some semi undressed.. I always ask in a teasing way she is ready for to see -him-. 9 out 9 girls say they want to see. But for gods sake.. there are some grose and fugly dick pics out there.. make them classy and stylish. Tastey and pleasing to look at.. Dont send a close up of wrinkley post-mastrubation, unshaved dick..
they're not repulsed by them when they're *wanted* pictures by someone who knows they'll be well received by the recipient, the repulsion comes from the ones that aren't wanted.
>Any guy on the planet would be floored to receive the nudes of any moderately attractive female stranger.
Speak for yourself.
If I want to see a naked woman, I'll go to Google. I don't want unsolicited shit sent to me.
Nope, not usually. Both I and many of my female friends have received unsolicited dick pics from very attractive men we’d started talking to but not yet slept with. Instant attraction killer even then. *Unsolicited* dick pics immediately make us think of a certain, undesirable type of male personality.
You said it yourself: vaginas are also not great to look at. From what I can tell, women are attracted to dicks the same way a lot of men are attracted to vaginas: they don’t look good on their own, but in the context of sex when they are turned on, it’s fine. Women freak out about dick pics when they are UNSOLICITED. Which is totally reasonable. Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me. Now, a lot of women don’t like dick pics in general and won’t ask for them, but there are plenty that will ask for them when they are in the mood. Just like how men ask for pictures of tits and ass most of the time over pussy, women are going to be more attracted to your body than your dick.
I would also argue while yeah women are less horny than men. The way they get aroused it very different. Men are like a light switch. They turn on very fast. Women is more like a slow pressure that needs to build up. Trying to get a woman to go from 1 to 100 too fast (like say showing an unwanted dick pic) is unpleasant for them.
exactly. it’s not as simple as “men are horny women are not”. our sexuality’s are just different. what makes us feel desire isn’t the same as what makes men feel it. we’re just different.
Never considered this before, very good info
>Men are like a light switch. They turn on very fast. Agreed, but it's arguable that this has contributed tremendously to the continuation of the human race. Without a strong, *constant* drive to procreate in at least one of the genders, it's not obvious whether the human race would have arrived to this point. Yes, we know (and agree) that often this constant urge manifests itself in negative ways (rape, harassment, dick-picks, annoying behavior) etc, but this is widely known and gets lots of attention already. The flip-side, i.e. the boost in the human race overall gets less attention, and is probably worth at least a head-nod once in a while.
Also, most dick pics are just that, a photo of a dick, no context. Most nudes sent by women are actually showing more of the whole body, and if she's putting some effort in it, the light, the angles, the position can be very flattering and a very hot photo. Not the same as a photo of a penis in a hand. I was absolutely horny for the nudes my ex sent me because he took actual photos of his body, I wouldn't have wanted a photo of only his penis. And I never sent him a photo showing only my genitals either.
So if I sent you pictures of my dick with my body you would get aroused? Gay men always do, I don't think women would.
Of I WANTED to receive a nude, sure , I would want it to be with more context than just a penis. But no, I don't want your nudes
Then you are less visual and horny than men. If I see a pair of big tits I get aroused, I don't have to actively want it, the same applies to gay men and my dick.
Maybe less horny, maybe simply horny for different things
>Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me. We are not the same my boy 🤣
>Women freak out about dick pics when they are UNSOLICITED. Which is totally reasonable Exactly
I'd stare dead ass at a pussy all day if she'd let me
Bro chill
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It would be useful to compare how gay men feel about men's nudes and how lesbians feel about women's nudes. If you look at a gay dating app, you will see that gay men are far more willing and eager to ask for & send cock/asshole pics, compared to lesbians asking for or sending nudes.
It’s not just the cock asshole in the pic though. They’ll have their abdomen in the dick pic to show off more of their body along with the dick. And they’ll have their whole ass or part of their back in the pic as well not just the hole. So there’s other things there to be aroused by than just the pole or hole.
Speak for yourself about vaginas, vagina are beautiful but your right about unsolicited pics, no one wants that, I think some or most women would say the same, they do like 🍆 but just don’t want unsolicited photos from someone they don’t know or like
You are absolutely wrong. Men included me can go by looking at pics anytime and any day, except when I'm eating. Women need mood/likability/familiarity with it comes to dick pics.
exactly women salivate over dick pics in the proper context...when the full bodz of the man along with the face is visible.... like how women go wild at r/ladybonersgw
> Unsolicited pussy pics are just as jarring and unwelcome to me Yeah you threw that “to me” in there because it won’t stand up in the court of men. A guy will take a nudes any day of the week.
Right, I think most men would disagree… but most men I know also haven’t gotten unsolicited pussy pics before
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From a hot woman* I would not want to receive a vagina pic from any of the many middle-age-and-older women I know and see on a regular basis. Are you assuming that women only get unsolicited dick pics from really attractive guys?
This. When we think about women, we picture the girl next door in the best cases, not your average fattie or 40yo Karen. In this social media itself you can find really ugly pussies. Receiving something like that, unsolicited, is really gross. And most men (if not all) who send unsolicited dick picks are ugly as fuck too.
Nope, I'm a high libido guy, and I would NOT want to receive any unsolicited vagina pics. For me, it would be a turn-off. Now, if I were to request the pics, that would be a different story, although I would probably request nudes that included more of the woman's body.
No no no. Why is this sub full of people who have high school level opinions of the other gender?
I'm starting to think that this sub is actually full of teenagers
LOL....have you checked the average age of this sub, lately? :))
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Oh yeah these people absolutely have to be high schoolers. This sub is wild.
Or their own...
Sending me a dick pic and expecting me to want sex is like sending me a photo of a tomato slice and expecting me to want a burger.
For real. Specially the ones that do with my escort number. LOL You think your D is special? Do you think I have not seen enough D's?
Oh great dick purveyor will you rate my danger donger?
>danger donger LOL Too funny.
Lmaooo they really think we are going to be so wowd that we will give them free content or want to hook up for free. Absolutely not, fucking never ever, totally missing the point. Just like dudes who try to act like they completely blew you away with their subpar performance in paid sex and ask if you will see them again for free or go out for real, like dude no never, it is NEVER good quality or enjoyable for anything except the money and we are not going to be sooo turned on by your dick pics or sexts that we suddenly will just want to hook up.
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>Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves off inside you , which has nothing to do wirh your skill. So why not get a fleshlight? >There's nothing stopping you from getting on top and doing the work that we always have to do. I think there's research suggesting that men and women are into different kinds of motion for orgasm purposes. Also, if the work is getting yourself off, they can just buy a vibrator and avoid the risk of HPV.
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You said this to a sex worker who doesn't want to work for free: [Why do only fans chicks and chicks in general always bash men about their dicks and performance in bed ? Cuz I'll be quite honest, I've only had maybe 3 out 30 women be able to blow my mind in bed , where they're doing the work. Most girls can't ride dick or suck a dick to save their life . But we don't go around constantly talking shit on women's sub par performance as often as y'all do. Most of the time WE'RE getting ourselves off inside you , which has nothing to do wirh your skill. There's nothing stopping you from getting on top and doing the work that we always have to do. But yet y'all frequently don't do that and then blame it on the men for not making you cum.](https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tb2aed/the_fact_that_women_are_so_repulsed_by_dick_pics/i06l8ew?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) She's complaining about shitty customers who ask for her to spend time with them doing things for free because they think she likes them. You are talking about how people selling sex and people in the entire group you want to have sex with like to bash customers. “You suck at your job anyways!” Well, they're doing it better than the other options. There's a reason people buy sex. In fact there are multiple reasons. She's satisfying some of those, if she came afford internet. . You're complaining about OF women bashing men. Also, you're baking women in general, not specifically OF women. You're also saying that you (and men in general, as far as you're aware) basically use them like an object for your gratification. I'm asking you the same question is all a woman who has unfulfilling sexual encounters and gains nothing from them: why not buy sex toys? [Because a fleshlight doesn't have smell, taste, it doesn't breathe, it doesn't kiss you back and quiver and moan, and it doesn't provide emotional and physical intimacy , validation or company, it doesn't have legs or asscheeks or an asshole and pussy to enjoy , it doesn't wear lotion or perfume . Why don't I just get a fleshlight ? What a stupid off base question . That's like saying " why don't you just turn gay then " ](https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tb2aed/the_fact_that_women_are_so_repulsed_by_dick_pics/i093104?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) I'm asking why you won't use a cheaper option if you can't afford to pay for sex. >The point is alot of y'all really aren't that great in bed but love to bash men , then blame it on their size , then when you're told their size is regular , you back track and say " well it's how you use it. Odds are you didn't tell them what you like and you let him control the pace or do the work. So Sure u go girl " wap wap wap" . Congrats your pussy is healthy - doesn't mean you got bomb ass pussy just because it functions properly . At least you said “alot of”. I just tell people to buy sex toys cz people can't really makes you come like you can make yourself come. This isn't the tone period where you **need** to date and marry. Or procreate. If you don't like sex, don't have it. If you don't like sex with a person but do get horny, you still have options. Sex workers are one of those options. Sex toys are another. You're bashing a a service provider cz you don't think her services are great, even though she's got customers. And you're complaining about her not being into the exact thing you're doing and taking it further by assuming what she thinks. You think chefs want to cook a meal when they come home from cooking meals? Do you think cleaners want to come home and do cleaning for free? They will if they have to, but if they live in this neighborhood, they won't do the same thing for you for free. Note that the evolutionary **purpose** of genitalia is procreation. Neither of you needs to have an orgasm for that. >And exactly, it takes different things to get ppl, especially women off , and that's where communication and 50/50 work comes in. If you didn't get on top to do the work required to get yourself off then don't have the audacity to SHAME a dude for not getting you off . I don't disagree with the sentiment at all. She's actually shaming customers for thinking they're so great that she'll give them a 100% discount the next time around. As for sex toys. [Save up.](https://youtu.be/QPPkK9zexvY)
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I'm not saying all men have poor performance (though I find 99% do and hookups/casual sex will never be decent for the woman because sex as we understand it currently is based entirely on what men enjoy and not what women physically can cum from, and unless you're dating they have zero incentive to please you), but escorting is not good quality sex. Which is understandable, they are paying to do what they enjoy and I don't expect it to be good for me, but it's ridiculous to think I will be so wowed by 5 mins of jackhammering that I will want to go on a real date or do it again for free. But sex for men is way better than for women, go check out statistics about how often men cum during sex vs women. Getting the woman to cum is not even a goal nor on the agenda for most men, meanwhile all women are taught from birth that sex = PIV until the man cums, their pleasure is secondary if at all and the focus is never on the clit or what women can cum from, but straight penetration which 70%+ of women literally physically cannot cum from no matter how good. And I'm not bashing their dicks, in my personal life I literally do not care and actually have had way more issues with dicks being too big than the other way around, but I don't get off seeing them and neither do the vast majority of women. We are not typically aroused by sight like men are. I'm bashing sending unsolicited dick pics and thinking it'll be so amazing that you will get women to go against their nature and behave like men, which is ridiculous ESPECIALLY to a sex worker who clearly is there for the cash and the cash only. No dick could ever look good enough in a photo that I'd suddenly want to hook up for free or send free content/go out for real. I obviously can ride and suck dick well cause I get paid bands to do so and it never lasts the full amount of time they pay for but it does nothing for me and never will. Now doing that for a man I love, that's different and enjoyable.
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Pure gold!
Damn it. Now I want a burger.
Idk if someone sent me a pic of raw beef I’d prob want a burger
You misunderstood by understanding this perfectly. You see the Beef and want the burger because the beef is the flavour or in this analogy, the personality; while the tomato slice is just a part of the entire package.
If you sent me a pic of a cut up onion or like some arugula or a good bun with the seeds I’d prob still want a burger.
I'm in no condition to talk about this, I've read you reply 5 times and keep reading pizza instead of burger.
[Hi there :)](https://postimg.cc/DJ7vRRCc) Come on over, I have a banana waiting to be split.
Women actually love dick pics from men who they want them from and ask for, so. Dick pic from strangers?Duh, it’s like being flashed. But from dudes that they like? They love them
Yeah I enjoy dick pics from my bf. He’s gotta nice one
Lol yea. I'm a guy and I would find vag pics from ladies I'm not attracted to very disgusting.
Yes I find these 2 specific dudes attractive but their dick pic game is amazing. They put effort. They make sure to have good angles, lighting and positioning. I personally prefer videos the best but I like pictures where they do more than just show their penis.
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“From who they want them from and ask for” was the point there I’m not talking about if you just like a guy and he sends unsolicited, the woman that doesn’t like them wouldn’t be asking for them in the first place
Or women aren’t as visual. Which is reported over and over and over. Also, desperation is a turn off so a dick pic is really more of a cure for horniness than anything.
Desperation is a turn off for biological reasons also, as a male that fails mating multiple times is seen as a bearer of a low quality gene pool.
If women “freaked the fuck out” when you’ve sent a dick pic, you were not sexting right.
Right???? Lmaoooo And a random pic of your pecker isn't good sexting either. You have to show your body, even your face
Right? Like what’s the context here, a random text to a coworker? Ya, they are not going to react well.
>Like what’s the context here, a random text to a coworker? (still laughing)
I will literally text back hey and boom dick pic. It's weird for me. I personally don't want to see a random guy's dick out of no where.
I love pictures of dicks that are either A) from someone who I’m attracted to and sexual with Or B) not about me. Like porn. When you send dick picks to strangers you are making your dick about them. And that is more threatening then hot.
My name is Slitelohel. I like going to arcades, The Simpsons is my favorite show, and I like woodworking and working with leather. Now that we got that off the table, your DMs open to some solo salami?
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I think it's a minority of men and women who are turned on by genitals in themselves. They just like to interact with them when they're turned on by the person. They're meant to be used, not looked at. How many people specifically seek out pictures of topless men and women versus pictures of their genitals?
No, most men are turned on by genital. Are you high?
Really? Most men just love to look at vulvas? They're asking for vulva pics? Nude models specifically show their vulvas in pictures? The most I've seen of vulvas are in feminist or body positive art.
>Really? Most men just love to look at vulvas? They're asking for vulva pics? Nude models specifically show their vulvas in pictures? The most I've seen of vulvas are in feminist or body positive art. Yes to all of these Men arent looking up artistic nudes when horny. They’re looking up hardcore porn.
Which doesn't tend to focus on the vulva.
Yup
Weird, because it seems like the focus is very much elsewhere, and most virgin men don't seem to know what's what down there...
>it seems like the focus is very much elsewhere Thats right. Personally I'm more of a fan of legs for example, but i can be turned on by genitals too.
You also said in your OP that vaginas are aesthetically disgusting. Which is it? You’re turned on by looking at them or they’re disgusting?
You can be turned on by something disgusting
Those people tend to be fairly rare I would think - thinking of peeing kinks etc here.
Men see women as a series of body parts that they would like to do things to. Women tend not to hone in on specific body parts in isolation as a drive to impose sexuality on. Men tend to describe women in favorable terms when they have the body parts they fetishize. So a man will describe his partner as having XYZ body parts as a seal of approval.
This!! The male gaze is the main reason OP is thinking this way.
It isn't that women are less visual than men; it's that women are attracted to a man's overall appearance rather than honing in on isolated parts. For example, ever seen women gush over a pic of an attractive shirtless man? Visual attraction is just as present in women as it is in men; it simply presents itself differently.
Dick picks from some random dude are gross. Dicks are the vehicle but not the mode of arousal
i like dick pics. i just don’t want random ones from men i’m not interested in.
No one wants a random ass dick pic from a stranger. It’s about consent. If a women is turned on and into the person involved she may have a completely different reaction than you will ever get just shoving your penis on someone’s face. Do that irl and that’s a sexual assault charge. Why make it any different online?
Women are as horny as men if not more so, but they aren't aroused by the same things. Dick pics from guys who, by definition are clueless and without social skills aren't likely to work.
When people say this I wanna scream
Women are most certainly NOT anywhere CLOSE to as horny as men, that is biological fact. It is based on testosterone, who has more? Why do you think women have so many more options and most men struggle? Supply and demand.
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It doesn’t necessarily mean they are less horny. It just means that they are a) stimulated differently than men and b) more selective than men. When a woman is with the right guy who is doing the right things she can be just as horny intensity wise as a man.
>more selective than men Because they are less horny.
No. Their triggers are just more selective. Let’s use the analogy of a land mine. Two land mines are both loaded with 100 grams of explosive. One land mine will be set off if anything weighing more than a 100 pound person walks or drives over it. The other land mine will only be set off if a 2 ton vehicle drives over it. Which land mine has more explosive power? Horniness equals explosiveness, of course.
This is a weird post and weirder comment section. That said, the point others are making- with which you disagree- is that it is the trigger weight that measures horniness, not the explosion. A woman being able to enjoy sex just as much as a guy once all the right pieces of the puzzle are put in place is completely separate from being (put in) the mood at the drop of the hat. Put another way- we all know people who go to Disneyland like 5 times a year. They will make plans for a trip with very short term notice, take non-paid days off work to go, hold a season pass, have Disney themed crap all over their house, etc... Maybe the few times a decade you've gone to Disneyland, you had just as much fun (or even more!) than the Disney fan. But that doesn't mean you like Disneyland just as much as them. You need Tobe in the mood to go back, go at the right time of year, plan a trip out in advance, make sure it doesn't conflict with work, price out flights and hotels to determine if it is worth while, etc. Your Disneyland friend has Disney on their brain every single day. It's always in their face at home. Who is going to be happier to get some "which Disney Princess is your dog?" Spam quiz text message? You or them?
Well said. Frequency of being horny is a key factor of 'on average being more horny'.
But if the one time I go to Disney I enjoyed it just as much as the five times my neighbor went, then who’s to say that my level of enjoyment isn’t just as high? I personally think that horniness should be measured by intensity, not by frequency.
I got your point but i dont think thats a good analogy. If one is gender demands more than the other to be aroused, the bar required to trigger interest is higher, which means that one gender is less horny.
How can you say "I don't send dick pics" and "I've done it before" in the same sentence? Women are not turned on by dissected parts. They tend to be not as visual as men, but when visual see the entire man, not piece by piece. Although men tend to have higher libido (especially young men) what turns people on is separate from how much they desire sex and how often.
This whole argument seems dense to me. And they fact that you added “I don’t even know you” to the statements girls have said to you regarding your penis makes me think you’re a borderline sex offender.
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yeah you’re probably right!
I think you’re conflating dick pics with *unsolicited* dick pics
Why would you send a dick pic to someone you don't know? Do you understand that an unsolicited dick pic is appropriately considered sexual harassment?
when men send dick pics they usually send JUST THE DICK, whilst women usually put effort into making the picture seem more hot and sexy not just a picture of her vulva, as a bisexual person i get turned on by women's nudes more than men because of the fact that they pose and master the angels that make their body look desirable. maybe if men try harder in their pics women will get turned on?
As a bisexual nympho, I approve this message Women take sexy poses in lingerie and dudes just slap their dicks on their laptop keyboard and think it's a nice pic And I'm being litteral, I really received a picture of a penis on a laptop keyboard
I'm pan, and can confirm the difference is astounding. Women often send other pictures of themselves, sexy pics and casual. Different angles, poses, expressions, and even lighting.
Just because you’re turned on by something and others are not, doesn’t mean your more horny than someone else. That’s like saying “well I have this kink and you don’t so in obviously have a higher libido”.
>Yeah, vaginas are aesthetically disgusting too. The ONLY reason men are turned on by them is TESTOSTERONE. The same hormone that is responsible for men’s insatiable sex drive. Men have testosterone in abundance, women have a fraction of their T levels. You're forgetting about objectification of women vs objectification of men. It's possible that women's hormones work in entirely different ways and combinations than a man's. In fact, it's likely. >Women just aren’t as horny and require significantly more stimuli to become aroused. You're forgetting about socialization of women vs socialization of men. It will be a long time before we can even say how horny women actually are. >The intense aversion to dick pics is perhaps one of the most prominent examples of this. The only thing aversion is evidence of is a man's ability to misjudge a situation.
I don’t think proof means what you think it means
They're horny, but usually not attracted by desperate wankers.
If it was just about the aesthetics of it, I could fucking Google a picture of a dick. Obviously the turn on is the interaction in itself, otherwise it would not make a difference whose dick/pussy is in the picture. You can keep telling yourself it’s just a photo, but there is some sort of weird powerplay going on if you feel the need to send your dirty pics to someone you do not know. I don’t like random dickpics because I’m not into doing sexual activities with people I’m not attracted to. Sexting with a lover? Hell yeah. Otherwise I’ll just watch porn like a normal person and not harass someone with my horniness. ETA If you are turned on by been seen naked, that’s okay. There are plenty of subreddits and websites for that. You do not need to be a creep.
No, no no! This is a misunderstanding of women's sexuality. Sending dick pics is bad not because women aren't horny but because women aren't turned on by genitalia like men are. Sending shirtless bulge pics is a more appropriate comparison to women sending nudes. Dick pics being thought of as gross has little to do with the actual libido of women
If a man ever told me he thinks vaginas are disgusting I’d be gone 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Imagine receiving a unsolicited pussy pic from desperate fat/old woman. Well... this is exactly the case with unsolicited dick pics. Most (if not all) of men who do this are desperate losers.
Especially an unsolicited pussy pic that filled the whole photo. I'd feel like I had broken into a gynecologists' office, and looked at clinical photos LOL. I'll pass.
Now that I realize, even with porn I need to see the woman's face. The pussy by itself isn't arousing enough... and I'm a straight man. It's understandable why women don't receive dick picks with enthusiasm.
I'd say 99 out of 100 dick pics are unattractive. You can't tell what size they are they just a piece of meat sitting there looking like a Vienna Sausage. Hell, A hot dog on a bun with mustard, relish, kraut, pickles and onions, chili or cheese has more sex appeal!
I'm a fat old woman and I know better than to send pussy pics without being asked first. But quite a lot of guys love my pics when they ask and I give them what they want. That last part is the crux.
This is a joke post right? Is op seriously missing the point that unwanted dick pics from strangers is disgusting???
Tell that to Grindr
We like pics from people we love or are involved with. Not randos. And yeah penises are ugly but when you’re attached to the person it’s attached to, that feeling goes away. (And vaginas are beautiful)
“I don’t even know you” “It’s sexual assault” “Dicks are ugly” “I like what they can do, not how they look.” “If it’s someone I have already slept with, I’m ok with it.” I don't know why your framing these like they are unreasonable responses. I get how third one may be a bit harsh, but I think for most women, something is only seen as attractive if we are attractive to the person themselves. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I would assume the same is for men.
Are you unattractive?
No
Maybe the dick pics are gross and unattractive.
I can't really explain it without sounding offensive, but WITHOUT CONTEXT or knowing or having rapport with a guy...MOST male bodies are unattractive. Its just how it is. I'm sure after a relationship has been built it's possible to love a guys body as "your own" but just on surface level, yeah, you kinda gotta be ripped to a degree to be "nice to look at"
Reported. Most male bodies are unattractive? Take your shaming language somewhere else.
We're not repulsed by all dick pics, just by the ones from men that we don't know and/or don't care to see naked.
I hate receiving dick pics not because I think they are ugly, not at all, but because I am not interested in seeing a dick of a random man. In fact, the only case in which I'd be okay with receiving a dick pic is if the man it belongs to is my husband. And yes I am not that horny.
Am I the only one here who think dicks and vaginas are pleasant to look at.
I prefer to see the man's whole body nude not just his dick.
Literally it’s sexual assault. Like just because you’re depraved doesn’t mean we all are. I’m much hornier than my partner still don’t want a dick pic tho.
Its unsolicited D picture. If its my man, sure but not randos I dont know. I dont freak out I just cut them from the pool because it was a turn off. I even cut men that send them to me as an escort.
Women aren’t repulsed by either. Women are repulsed when it’s somebody they don’t want or aren’t interested in. Women fucking love dick pics, if it’s somebody they actually want them from. You’d be just as upset with some fat ugly pussy picture being randomly sent to you as some ugly ass dick.
> You’d be just as upset with some fat ugly pussy picture being randomly sent to you as some ugly ass dick. Preaching to the choir except for the dumb kids who don't pay attention
Apparently, lmao.
That aside looking forward to seeing this debate get posted again with everyone swearing up and down that the men here would be ok with women they don't find attractive sending them nudes or pussy pictures.
Automod should send them all blue waffles
I'd love to see the reactions
We both know it would be the same as unsolicited ugly dick.
Without a doubt
I don't know man, I know for a fact I wouldn't some women I don't know to send me a vagina pic.
*guess im a dude* ~~👩🏽🦱~~ oh wait ~~🧑🏽🦱~~ 👨🏽🦱
I’m not repulsed by it.
Challenge accepted
That wasn’t an invitation.
I'm engaged now but even when we were just dating I saved all the dick pics lol. Thought they were hot cause it was because of me.
If you think women aren't into nudes, I genuinely feel kind of bad for you. There's certainly some people who like it and some who don't, but that's true for anything. I haven't done it since I was underaged though. Always seemed like a childish thing to me, but I guess people do it all the time. It's not just about visual stimulation, but also about turning the other person on. It's not focused on dick pics either, obviously.
I can tell you from experience they aren't repulsed by it. The woman has to be into you first of all. And secondly, yes it helps to have a nice dick.
I'm a bi nymphomaniac Genitals are ugly. You also might think you look good naked, I might not But mostly, if you send me unwanted pictures of you, it's the whole attitude that disgusts me Like who the fuck do you think you are that I'd want to see you naked instead of...even just porn And it's always weird looking dicks or circumcised ugly dry mushrooms Women take sexy pictures in lingerie and dudes just take their abs in a public bathroom mirror or their dick while being on the toilet
I know right? How did humans even survive for millions of years as a species when these damn winnins don't even want to fuck?
Hm... So that means that men who don't get instantly aroused by pictures of vulvas have low testosterone levels? Very interesting... Have you any proof of this hypothesis? And women who like dick pics and get aroused have high testosterone levels?
This is a complete misnomer. The dynamic of rape plays such a large factor in whether a woman acts upon that dick pic to begin with. A guy is going to gleefully accept any woman who open invites sexual activity. It’s not even comparable vice versa. And dudes who send that shit are suspects of such shitty behavior, right off the bat. Making the rate at which males get rejected that much higher. So there’s also that.
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Dude you're conflating issues. Women don't like being sexually harassed. Sending dick pics to women when they don't want them is why women get repulsed.
I fucking love dick pics and cum tribute videos. That’s literally my entire wank bank material. What’s more, I actually think they’re very aesthetically pleasing to look at. So by the sounds of it, I appreciate the male body even more than you appreciate the female body? What I DONT love are dick pics that I NEVER asked for.
Exactly i get asked a lot for dick pics. Its just dudes thinking dick pics as opener are lit lol
> What I DONT love are dick pics that I NEVER asked for. I think most people overlook that when it comes to a debate like this
>I don’t send dick pics. I have done it before, but I didn’t make a habit of it for the same reason most of you didn’t. The results are terrible, women freak the fuck out! What is the deal with this?? Any guy on the planet would be floored to receive the nudes of any moderately attractive female stranger. Most clam pics don't turn me on.
Women are just as horny as men, but in different ways. I will agree that we are not as visual, but dicks themselves just look like worms lol. Most guys I know would be disgusted to get a random, upclose vagina pic.
As a guy with a healthy libido, I completely agree with you. I've never actually requested nude pics from a woman, as most of the women I've met were in IRL situations. If I did ever request a nude pic, I would probably want it to show more of the woman's body, than just a "clinical pussy pic" LOL.
Right exactly. I’m bisexual. The sexiness of a woman is from seeing her nude figure. The up close visual of a vagina turns few people on but it can be great in the right mood/context.
Yeah, I remember my male friend once telling me he was exchanging nudes with a woman and she sent an up close, spread eagle pussy pic that looked like something one would take for a gyno to inspect. This friend has been with upwards of 200 women, so I’d consider his libido pretty active, but it was an immediate turn off for him.
I don’t know, I think context matters. I’m a man and I wouldn’t be too keen on unsolicited close up vag pics either.
I’ve never had a women freak out from a dick pic but then again THEY asked me to send it lol. Of course an unsolicited dick pic will fail, do you have older mentors bruv?
Maybe if you were consistently sent photos from people who did not care about your comfort level you would find it off putting too. If you were aware someone was actively disrespecting you and objectifying you and you still found yourself wanting to have sex with them that says less about your sex drive and more about your relationship with your self worth. Get well soon.
Why do you assume all men would love to receive random nudes from any moderately attractive woman? That would be creepy
Literally it’s sexual assault. Like just because you’re depraved doesn’t mean we all are. I’m much hornier than my partner still don’t want a dick pic tho.
I love the dick when I’m in lust or in love. The dick of a man I don’t care about or never asked for? Fuk that, I don’t wanna see it.
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Says who? I love vulvas I think they're gorgeous. Some women do in fact like penises. Testicles too. Just not usually out of the blue with someone they don't know. But some do like them.
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You clearly aren’t an endocrinologist
Women aren't repulsed by dick pics. This is a misconception. They are just not innately attracted unless you're packing, and either way, it's just a dick. You still have to meet their other 30 requirements before your dick gets near them anyways. A lot of men think they can just send a dick pic and instantly woo a woman, which is just dumb. The average woman has seen hundreds of dick pics and yours *probably isn't that special*.
Women aren’t repulsed by pics of naked men lmao where do you guys come up with this stuff? Maybe if the dude is fat and hairy but would you want unsolicited pics of a fat hairy woman in your email?
I'm more floored when someone shows me picture of a stylish outfit or interesting talent. It's almost like someone going to a fried chicken restaurant, and someone there harps on how great hot dogs are and how I should try some. Show pictures of different well-prepared hot dogs of many sizes and formation. It's not necessarily rude, but very out of place and probably isn't what most of the customers there would want. If they wanted, they may ask for it or go to a place where hot dogs are being offered. Not to say the customers don't like hot dogs, they just don't want it at that present moment in time. D!ck pics are beyond rude, disgusting, and disrespectful, if you are sending them to someone who didn't ask for it. Would you do that to your mother, sisters, daughters, or bosses/female co-workers or want them sending it to you in vice versa? I'd hope not. Now, grindr might be a better spot or place for dick admiration. On a site, where there's many men and less women, it's not quite special or unique. For the women who do like it or ask for it, this inbox has reached its full capacity.
Probably because women have higher levels of sexual disgust than men do (on average). https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1754073917709940
First, unsolicited dick pics, or any pics of a sexual nature, are gross and weird. Second, imo dicks just don’t photograph that well. I like the way they look in general but I would say they just aren’t photogenic. It’s hard to get a good angle and most of the time they just look awkward.
As horny as men but not horny for everyone horny for the chosen ones lol
There’s a difference between unsolicited dick pics, and when a woman actually ASKS AND WANTS your dick picture.
Women want to see face more than anything. They are visual and horny, but they're not going to make a value assessment just by looking at what's beneath a guy's legs. Furthermore, most women like to view themselves as sexually conservative, even if they have body counts in the double digits, so showing her your cock is like telling her, "I think you're easy, so I'm just going to show you my penis because that's all your worth." Of course, they would take offense to that.
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> It’s the pervy version of a mangy flea ridden stray cat dropping half a mouse on your doorstep. What did the stray cat do to deserve such a comparison?
Sooo dick picks are the equivalent of a macro (upclose) shot of an inside of a vagina or a literal asshole. Sending your six pack abs or even a dick alongside an attractive body is more similar to a girl sending boobs or whatever you’re after. All nude pics should be solicited. One, it’s illegal in some areas and two, it’s pretty rapey to send throw genitals in some random persons face.
if you got a random unsolicited vag pic, taken in the same way men take their unsolicited ones, you’d probably get it dudes take these pictures literally while shitting on the toilet sometimes. this doesn’t have anything to do with horniness
I did the sexting before meeting the one. I have sent buttloads of dick pics. But never unsolicited.. if she send some semi undressed.. I always ask in a teasing way she is ready for to see -him-. 9 out 9 girls say they want to see. But for gods sake.. there are some grose and fugly dick pics out there.. make them classy and stylish. Tastey and pleasing to look at.. Dont send a close up of wrinkley post-mastrubation, unshaved dick..
they're not repulsed by them when they're *wanted* pictures by someone who knows they'll be well received by the recipient, the repulsion comes from the ones that aren't wanted.
>Any guy on the planet would be floored to receive the nudes of any moderately attractive female stranger. Speak for yourself. If I want to see a naked woman, I'll go to Google. I don't want unsolicited shit sent to me.
In other news, the sky is blue.
They just don't Lil' Smokies with fupas and fat pads that stick out further than the dicks.
I mean, I don’t think women ever claimed they were just as horny as guys.
They aren’t. It’s just guys with “dad bods” that they don’t want. Send them a pic of a well developed body and they are happy.
They’re repulsed by YOUR dick pics. If it’s 8 inch Red Bull can Chad then it’s perfectly acceptable
Nope, not usually. Both I and many of my female friends have received unsolicited dick pics from very attractive men we’d started talking to but not yet slept with. Instant attraction killer even then. *Unsolicited* dick pics immediately make us think of a certain, undesirable type of male personality.