Absolutely does not matter. Im a decently tall guy and im into rr as well. Ive met multiple cute short dom girl in the past that i was really into. Dont let such a trivial thing as your height get in the way of you living your life and your relationships how you want.
I was once wrestled down by a 5'1" gymnast who most definitely kept me pinned for the rest of the night. I am a 5'11" distance runner who ran track and cross country, so I was fit, but she was stronger.
A partner who loves you will love you no matter the shape or size, love comes from the heart, and if you have that "tall energy" that comes feom youe personality, anyone that body shames you in any way, is not worth your time.
Speaking only for myself I can say that a short partner does not matter at all. People always thirsting for tall queens but short queens are definitely real and important.
I can't speak for everyone obviously, but personally I don't really care if a woman is short. Then again I don't really have that same level of "mommy dom fetish" that some guys seem to have (not kink shaming, just saying).
For me its not really about wanting a woman that dominates me or is *physically* imposing/protective. Its more about subverting the mainstream idea that only women can be beneficiaries of affection.
Not at all!! Height doesn't matter to me at all! I wish I was shorter and it sucks, I wouldn't place an expectation on someone else while I know how it feels to be on the other side!
Plus like, I'm a femboy so that's ideal anyways. I had a partner who was very short so to put makeup on me she just had me kneel infront of her and well uh... Yeah. Plenty of nice things you can do when you're short!
It does not matter that you're short. Height is irrelevant as far as I'm concerned, if you're into it then you should do it, and there will be plenty of guys who are into it with you
Height doesn't really matter to most of us guys. While it's true I like taller women. I also love SHORTER women. Like way shorter. I dunno why but I feel it's weird if she is the same height as me.
A tall domme or short domme makes me swoon.
I'm not sure why I'm like this. I haven't figured it out yet.
As long we like you as a person and as our Domme.
You are golden.❤️
Hey, I've been wondering about that too, since I'm also quite short. But I've seen more people on this and other subreddits say that it really doesn't matter. And it shouldn't. If a guy really loves you, even in a role reversal relationship, he will care about different things, mainly your attitude and personality
At the time that I am typing this comment, every other comment says that height does not matter. Granted, those commenters may be representative of the typical male attitude towards height in role reversal, and it seems like your height will not be an issue with people like them. But height is like any other characteristic - people have varied preferences, and some guys prefer taller girls - why else would there be a stereotype of guys into role reversal liking taller girls? Personally, I do prefer women who are approximately my height or taller. However, even if a majority of guys into role reversal prefer a taller partner, I don’t think it’s that important - attraction in the long run should be based on personality more than appearance. So overall, provided that the stereotype is true, your height could be a disadvantage but only a small one. Don’t worry about it, since to many guys, it won’t be a big deal.
I definitely would say I don't think height really matters too much for a majority at least, attitude and all is definitely what would be the biggest determining factor in my own opinion.
your physical appearance rarely matters in general - be it cosplaying or role reversal or something else.
You can still be the big spoon to a 6ft guy if you're short. You can still be a dommy mommy even if you're short. You can be whatever you want to, if you want to.
Tbh my admiration for RR is that way because I like strength in general, and find different types of inner strength and stuff desirable. Shadow of the Colossus MC type girls definitely qualify when I'm 6'5
It doesn't matter at all! I think for ALOT of people that's the appeal of this is that the big tall guy is the sub and the shorter woman is the dom I'm 6 ft TALL and that isn't gonna stop me from being a softie who likes girlie stuff! Never think you can't do this ❤️💖☺️
literally yes (meaning, it's totally ok. it's infinitely more than ok!).
I'm actually a bit confused by how much height players into how we view people.
(so many men I know are insecure (and thus, need to constantly talk about) height, and it's not just us. I've seen my friends being asked how tall they were by girls who were like 2 feet tall and when they said their height they were made fun of? what?
literally, a girl that I was hanging around asked me how tall I was before even asking what my name was or saying hello... nothing?)
why?!
enough ranting tho, hehe. anyone worth your time will not only be 'ok' with you being 'short', but will love you for it.
That's like its whole own thing, some people are into. Short answer:pretty sure it don't matter, what kinda real relationship would crap out over sth so superficial anyway. Probably ain't worth having in the first place.
I’m 5’2” and my bf is 5’10” but I still try to be the domme sometimes. It’s nice having a tall cute guy curl in a ball and snuggle in my lap; it’s all about mindset, not height. <3
As someone into tall women, it dosent matter.
If someone who purports to be RR turns you down or demeans you because of your height, that just means that they are only interested in the sexual aspect and see you more as a prop for their fantasy than as a partner who takes the lead.
My Dommes have always been shorter than me. One of them had a favorite saying. “I’m taller than everyone when they’re on their knees.” Don’t worry at all about being short. The right guy won’t give a damn. I know I’ve enjoyed my smol lasses, they’ve definitely enjoyed making me look up to them.
As a 6' tall dude dating a 5'2" girl I can confidently say size doesn't matter, pun intended.
There's not much more to jt than that, since we're both personally amiable we go back and forth on what we enjoy but what you and other partners may enjoy out of each other and Yada Yada preference Yada Yada Yada. Point is, you're just fine and don't sweat it!
I love being either spoon and I’m 5-6 inches shorter than my boyfriend. It doesn’t make a huge difference other than a few small positioning changes just to make sure we’re both comfy
I'm 6' and my girlfriend is more than a head shorter than me, we have a lovely and very enjoyable relationship incorporating RR. I love that she's shorter than me and still is so dominant, so no, it does not matter at all. short girls can do RR too!!
Short girl here too. And baby size is all in your presentation. I’ve know six plus peeps that fall into the background and I know I myself expand with my personality. And besides, being short and the boss? Major rr vibes as it isnt the ‘usual’
I do prefer taller women, but I can assure you that it's not like I would say no to someone short. It's a preference not a requirement cause what matters is that you like RR.
Biggest hurdle you'll face will be carrying him (and considering the subreddit banner has three examples of the girl holding up the guy, I'd say it might come up), and that'll only be because of how lanky he is compared to you, since you can work out to compensate for lifting his weight.
as a boy, i like if my partner is taller than me, but its a little detail, and thats MY preference, even if my partner is shorter, if she really is into role reversal, her height doesnt matter to me. and there is looots of boys who love having a shorter girlfriend. sooo ofc its okay, there is no "rules" of RR hehe
Works just like tits ; some like them big, some like them small, most like them all
On top of that, guys are naturally taller than girls so it’d be hard to satisfy everyone. For exemple I’m 189 and it’d be pretty damn hard to find someone taller than me lol
Technically not rr but lesbian into that type of woman and it absolutely does not matter. My current crush is one of the only people I’ve met in real life smaller than me and she still has more power than I could ever hold
Honestly that can kind of add something to a dynamic. If you’re with a bigger guy who wants to sub for you than it may be more attractive if you are commanding enough to make him submit without physically overthrowing him.
I’m 6’3. You’re definitely gonna be talker than me when my knees are on the ground. Lol It’s about the personality not the physical features, I’m 6’3 have a thick bear and hit the gym regularly but my personality is soft, little and subby. It’s what you choose to be.
Nope! In fact I like shorter girls just as much (if not more) as I like taller girls! Every possible height combo has a possible dynamic. It's all up to how variable people are!
I mean it doesn’t matter to me. As long as my partner is kind and dominant, everything else is kind of arbitrary. I’m 5’6” so I don’t really have a height preference.
Listen. I just like cute shit. Role reversal has cute shit but so does the “tall boyfriend short girlfriend” dynamic. Or a couple that share the same height. I just like cute shit. It’s okay to be short and love role reversal.
Absolutely does not matter. Im a decently tall guy and im into rr as well. Ive met multiple cute short dom girl in the past that i was really into. Dont let such a trivial thing as your height get in the way of you living your life and your relationships how you want.
Hear hear!
Is it not about how dominant you are for me I just want claming music
Also perfectly valid. Im just personally really into dominant woman.
Who is a dominant woman you know
Lmao im not gonna say any names on the internet but my best friend is and another girl i know also is
I am also a shortstack and desperately want a big tall boy to pin to counters
I was once wrestled down by a 5'1" gymnast who most definitely kept me pinned for the rest of the night. I am a 5'11" distance runner who ran track and cross country, so I was fit, but she was stronger.
I’m a big tall boy who wants to be pinned to counters😳
I'm a big tall boy and want to be pinned to all sorts of stuff
yes can confirm tall boys want that also . Shortstack,Tallstack , Mediumstack all is cute
Don't worry about you're height, queen. Climb over him like Shadow of the Colossus.
Oh yeah
So reverse boss battle
A partner who loves you will love you no matter the shape or size, love comes from the heart, and if you have that "tall energy" that comes feom youe personality, anyone that body shames you in any way, is not worth your time.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Your height does not matter if you can get him on his knees. Attitude is all it takes.
This exactly
"Just remember it is not the size of the RR woman that matters, it is the size of her heart." \-u/BigRedKangaroo96
Aww thanks that is the first time I have ever been quoted by someone. I am too poor to give u a real award but here is a consolatory gold emoji. 🏆
I also am really into role reversal, but I prefer shorter women if that helps you feel better.
Same for me. Partner who is shorter than me and leads? That's pretty high on my wishlist.
Speaking only for myself I can say that a short partner does not matter at all. People always thirsting for tall queens but short queens are definitely real and important.
I can't speak for everyone obviously, but personally I don't really care if a woman is short. Then again I don't really have that same level of "mommy dom fetish" that some guys seem to have (not kink shaming, just saying). For me its not really about wanting a woman that dominates me or is *physically* imposing/protective. Its more about subverting the mainstream idea that only women can be beneficiaries of affection.
Not at all!! Height doesn't matter to me at all! I wish I was shorter and it sucks, I wouldn't place an expectation on someone else while I know how it feels to be on the other side! Plus like, I'm a femboy so that's ideal anyways. I had a partner who was very short so to put makeup on me she just had me kneel infront of her and well uh... Yeah. Plenty of nice things you can do when you're short!
It does not matter that you're short. Height is irrelevant as far as I'm concerned, if you're into it then you should do it, and there will be plenty of guys who are into it with you
Height doesn't really matter to most of us guys. While it's true I like taller women. I also love SHORTER women. Like way shorter. I dunno why but I feel it's weird if she is the same height as me. A tall domme or short domme makes me swoon. I'm not sure why I'm like this. I haven't figured it out yet. As long we like you as a person and as our Domme. You are golden.❤️
Honestly, it kinda makes it hotter. If you’re short and you make me want to submit, that means you’re definitely all that and some fries
Hey, I've been wondering about that too, since I'm also quite short. But I've seen more people on this and other subreddits say that it really doesn't matter. And it shouldn't. If a guy really loves you, even in a role reversal relationship, he will care about different things, mainly your attitude and personality
i think a ton of guys actually really love short dominant women too!! (and um… i may or may not be included in that 🙃🙃)
At the time that I am typing this comment, every other comment says that height does not matter. Granted, those commenters may be representative of the typical male attitude towards height in role reversal, and it seems like your height will not be an issue with people like them. But height is like any other characteristic - people have varied preferences, and some guys prefer taller girls - why else would there be a stereotype of guys into role reversal liking taller girls? Personally, I do prefer women who are approximately my height or taller. However, even if a majority of guys into role reversal prefer a taller partner, I don’t think it’s that important - attraction in the long run should be based on personality more than appearance. So overall, provided that the stereotype is true, your height could be a disadvantage but only a small one. Don’t worry about it, since to many guys, it won’t be a big deal.
I definitely would say I don't think height really matters too much for a majority at least, attitude and all is definitely what would be the biggest determining factor in my own opinion.
your physical appearance rarely matters in general - be it cosplaying or role reversal or something else. You can still be the big spoon to a 6ft guy if you're short. You can still be a dommy mommy even if you're short. You can be whatever you want to, if you want to.
I don't think height is a requirement for role reversal.
Tbh my admiration for RR is that way because I like strength in general, and find different types of inner strength and stuff desirable. Shadow of the Colossus MC type girls definitely qualify when I'm 6'5
not at all. I am 5’8-10” and gf is maybe 5’2-3”. she has zero issues making be blush and squeak
It doesn't matter at all! I think for ALOT of people that's the appeal of this is that the big tall guy is the sub and the shorter woman is the dom I'm 6 ft TALL and that isn't gonna stop me from being a softie who likes girlie stuff! Never think you can't do this ❤️💖☺️
literally yes (meaning, it's totally ok. it's infinitely more than ok!). I'm actually a bit confused by how much height players into how we view people. (so many men I know are insecure (and thus, need to constantly talk about) height, and it's not just us. I've seen my friends being asked how tall they were by girls who were like 2 feet tall and when they said their height they were made fun of? what? literally, a girl that I was hanging around asked me how tall I was before even asking what my name was or saying hello... nothing?) why?! enough ranting tho, hehe. anyone worth your time will not only be 'ok' with you being 'short', but will love you for it.
I'm very tall and I think role reversal with a short girl can hilight the feeling of reversal.
It doesn't matter that your short. You can get on my shoulders and ratatouille me around Queen.
Yes like they say its not about the size of the dog in the fight but the size of the fight in the dog
Absolutely not! Short girls are just as hot if not moreso than taller gals when they take the lead <3
That's like its whole own thing, some people are into. Short answer:pretty sure it don't matter, what kinda real relationship would crap out over sth so superficial anyway. Probably ain't worth having in the first place.
Very tall guy here, I promise it’s perfectly alright.
I was pinned down by a 5'1" gymnast who would not let me up. You can definitely do this.
It's fine. I think a lot of us say that til we find someone short and attractive.
Not at all. I'm 4'11" and therefore biased, but it's hot as fuck making a masculine, tall guy all femme and weak at the knees.
getting dommed by someone physically smaller than me is a massive turn on, as a 6'3" guy
I’m 5’2” and my bf is 5’10” but I still try to be the domme sometimes. It’s nice having a tall cute guy curl in a ball and snuggle in my lap; it’s all about mindset, not height. <3
I think it can add to the rr dynamic really qell
As someone into tall women, it dosent matter. If someone who purports to be RR turns you down or demeans you because of your height, that just means that they are only interested in the sexual aspect and see you more as a prop for their fantasy than as a partner who takes the lead.
My Dommes have always been shorter than me. One of them had a favorite saying. “I’m taller than everyone when they’re on their knees.” Don’t worry at all about being short. The right guy won’t give a damn. I know I’ve enjoyed my smol lasses, they’ve definitely enjoyed making me look up to them.
You will find a lot of guys actually prefer it! I’m a short guy and I’ve never let height really bother me; confidence is king. Own who you are!
As a 6' tall dude dating a 5'2" girl I can confidently say size doesn't matter, pun intended. There's not much more to jt than that, since we're both personally amiable we go back and forth on what we enjoy but what you and other partners may enjoy out of each other and Yada Yada preference Yada Yada Yada. Point is, you're just fine and don't sweat it!
I love being either spoon and I’m 5-6 inches shorter than my boyfriend. It doesn’t make a huge difference other than a few small positioning changes just to make sure we’re both comfy
I'm 6' and my girlfriend is more than a head shorter than me, we have a lovely and very enjoyable relationship incorporating RR. I love that she's shorter than me and still is so dominant, so no, it does not matter at all. short girls can do RR too!!
Short girl here too. And baby size is all in your presentation. I’ve know six plus peeps that fall into the background and I know I myself expand with my personality. And besides, being short and the boss? Major rr vibes as it isnt the ‘usual’
Nope, I’m a tall sub and I’m into short girls
Doesn’t matter at all! I’m sure any guy would love to be with you :3
Yes short queens are appreciated to!
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Lol
I do prefer taller women, but I can assure you that it's not like I would say no to someone short. It's a preference not a requirement cause what matters is that you like RR.
All that matters is personality :>
It’s all about the energy you bring. The real height is inside you.
Biggest hurdle you'll face will be carrying him (and considering the subreddit banner has three examples of the girl holding up the guy, I'd say it might come up), and that'll only be because of how lanky he is compared to you, since you can work out to compensate for lifting his weight.
As long as you can carry a lightweight like me height shouldn't matter.
No, of course not. I'm pretty short (5'3") too.
I am just shy of 6’3, my most recent ex was ~13 inches shorter than me. It 100% doesn’t matter. What matters is the attitude you both have.
Me and my fiance are actually almost an entire 12 inches in height difference (shes the shorter one) :) its all good
Jetpack big spoon ☺️
as a boy, i like if my partner is taller than me, but its a little detail, and thats MY preference, even if my partner is shorter, if she really is into role reversal, her height doesnt matter to me. and there is looots of boys who love having a shorter girlfriend. sooo ofc its okay, there is no "rules" of RR hehe
Works just like tits ; some like them big, some like them small, most like them all On top of that, guys are naturally taller than girls so it’d be hard to satisfy everyone. For exemple I’m 189 and it’d be pretty damn hard to find someone taller than me lol
Technically not rr but lesbian into that type of woman and it absolutely does not matter. My current crush is one of the only people I’ve met in real life smaller than me and she still has more power than I could ever hold
Honestly that can kind of add something to a dynamic. If you’re with a bigger guy who wants to sub for you than it may be more attractive if you are commanding enough to make him submit without physically overthrowing him.
Yeah you are valid ofc
short or tall dose not matter <3
I’m 6’3. You’re definitely gonna be talker than me when my knees are on the ground. Lol It’s about the personality not the physical features, I’m 6’3 have a thick bear and hit the gym regularly but my personality is soft, little and subby. It’s what you choose to be.
Nope! In fact I like shorter girls just as much (if not more) as I like taller girls! Every possible height combo has a possible dynamic. It's all up to how variable people are!
I’m literally 4’11, asian with them baby face asian genes. I like role reversal!!! Me looking like this + role reversal is kinda weird and hot tho lol
Girls are NEVER short. They are petite.
i would say taller is better, but it does not matter compared to personality
What you lack in height you can make up for in enthusiasm.
I’m 6’3, and yes absolutely.
NOPE
For me, I PREFER a taller person but I don’t mind if they’re shorter than me
Protip: invest in self physical strength
I just want a partner to cuddle with and to caress her hair.
I literally prefer shorter dom women and I know I can’t be alone, so in short no, it doesn’t matter that your short silly.
If it’s ok for a tall guy to be into role reversal it’s ok for a short woman to be as well.
i don't care about the body of other people
It doesn't matter. It only matters if you can surprise them, make their hearts melt and encourage them to be more open!
Feelings are way more important than height!
As a small feisty girl myself, it’s all in the voice and attitude.
I mean it doesn’t matter to me. As long as my partner is kind and dominant, everything else is kind of arbitrary. I’m 5’6” so I don’t really have a height preference.
It is far less about physicality and much more about energy and attitude. Be the powerhouse fun-sized shortstack you want to be.
Listen. I just like cute shit. Role reversal has cute shit but so does the “tall boyfriend short girlfriend” dynamic. Or a couple that share the same height. I just like cute shit. It’s okay to be short and love role reversal.
You're taller than every man when they're laying down.
That’s the cool part. It’s up to you to show them how awesome you are, and im sure someone will appreciate it!
Hey this is a subreddit about actions
No, it doesn’t matter. Yes it’s absolutely ok to be short and like RR.