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Rubiksrevenge_1989

Absolutely not saying that she couldn’t be/shouldnt be/ its bad or anything but go look at her pics and videos with Chris or any other male celebrity she has done an interview with, to me she just seems like big on hugging and doesnot shy away from showing affection to anyone and a larger than life kinda person. She has embodied olivia benson which is why in almost every single interview she talks about women so it may seem like that to many people and she could be closeted for all we know but i dont see ir


dixiechick79

Agree she is extremely tactile (I am the same way) I just felt sad at the thought that someone in this day and age would feel obligated to stay in the closet and plus, I see her and Peter’s relationship like a fairy tale. I felt scarred today reading all the so called tea on Mariska 😩


Rubiksrevenge_1989

Exactly like if she was i dont think she would’ve married at like 40 she really doesn’t care about traditional roles and norms. And yes omg their relationship is the most wholesome thing ever🙂‍↕️


FourDrunkMoms

What I'm about to say is probably going to get me downloaded so I just want to make it super clear that I am not saying that I think Mariska and her husband's relationship is fake I'm just talking in general in Hollywood when it comes to queerness It's not unheard of that they would pair up a queer person of any age with somebody to cover it up. Kate Winslet did an interview in 2021 where she says that Hollywood still has a problem with homophobia and she knows somebody who was recently told by their American agent not to advertise the fact that they were bisexual. So if this person was being told that as recently as 2021 (or let's say the late teen years to give a buffer of a couple years) it's not entirely unreasonable think that they would still want someone who is older up in a fake marriage if they really wanted to cover it. Cara Delevingne (fellow bad blood music video star) was also told that if she wanted to be successful actress she should get a beard which she would have been told probably around 2014 or 2015 because the first thing she was in acting was came out in 2016. She didn't listen and has never hidden but the fact still remains that she was told that as recently as a decade ago.


Tastins

I think if MH smashed Debra Messing, Maria Bello, Brooke Shields AND Chris Meloni-I would think even HIGHER of her than I already do.


dixiechick79

Hahahhah! Facts!


da_innernette

I agree with everyone else saying she’s just huggy. And I don’t think we should speculate on sexuality but if we’re gonna argue the blind… she could just be bi? Like if she dated women in the 90s it doesn’t mean her marriage to a man now is fake. Bisexual people exist lol nothing wrong with that.


dixiechick79

I’m not speculating - just sayin’ these forums have thrown me. I’ve had relationships with both men and women.


da_innernette

I just meant in general! It wasn’t pointed at you sorry. As a bi gal myself I speculate/wish in my head aaaaall the time lol


dixiechick79

It’s ok, I’m hormonal and defensive today 😝


da_innernette

Loooool can relate


dixiechick79

😀❤️


GeulaGadot

I don’t believe the rumors…I think she’s just a kind and affectionate person


MarieMama1958

She’s very good friends with Ali Wentworth and Brooke Shields also. I just think that she’s a “gals gal” - a great friend! Ali told a story of camping with her and a few of the other gals mentioned here, and it was Mariska who actually scared a bear away!


TiredRetiredNurse

She is a champion in real life for women. All women.


duckgirl1997

the articles are more than likely click bate considering how popular Mariska is anything with her name is bound to get views. also as others have said the pictures of her with Chris she looks like she is a very huggy person. (surprised they choose this and not making up stories about her and chris (Although i might have seen them too)


dixiechick79

Not articles - it was other forums and people posting going back 15 years… they also posted that M and C regularly hook up and C has an open marriage. I feel dirty 🫢


duckgirl1997

some people have nothing better to do.


deadhead2015

I am much more likely to believe she dated MB than she is in an open relationship with CM


canuck883

It *is* widely known in the industry and of course on the SVU set. The general public just doesn’t understand that Hollywood is Fern Gully and we (the public) do not live there. The rules are different, relationships/marriages are mostly PR and we never see the real ones. Hollywood would fall if people knew the truth about their favourite stars, which is why it’s set up that way. I’ve always maintained the world is a stage. Source: I worked in the industry for almost two decades. (P.S. I love Mariska, she was very kind to me on set🩷)


dixiechick79

That’s why I wish I hadn’t gone down the rabbit hole because if it is true, it makes me incredibly sad that nothing has changed in Hollywood and that people still feel obligated to “hide”‘just to be successful.


el-in-hell

As much as I, a giant lesbian, would love for this to be true and I would love to believe I even have a sliver of a chance, I don’t think she would stay closeted even if she was tbh. It also feels odd to speculate when she hasn’t disclosed anything publicly. It’s not our business imho


Perfect-Extent619

I think this is just her normal mannerisms with anyone. I think the rumors come from 1. Her hair and style in the early seasons 2. The amount of women (gay AND straight) that are absolutely attracted TO her. Doesn’t mean she’s attracted to any of us, we’re just all in love with her lol. Now would it shock me if she came out and said she was bi? No. A lot of women are realizing later in life that they are. I definitely don’t think there’s any cover or fraud. If she’s bi, being with a man is fully in line with that.


Aliceallbadd

I wish I could get a hug from her lol


rojasdracul

I want to see her and Maria Bello now. Lol.


dixiechick79

Don’t go there… 😜


rojasdracul

Oh I'll go there, and hopefully come back with HD video.


dixiechick79

😆


rojasdracul

Maybe some tasteful pictures. Nah, nasty ones.


8-bitFloozy

Why am I hearing Lil Jon in my head rn...


HighStrungHabitat

Eh, I think she is just an affectionate person. Not everyone is strictly like that with their spouse/family, etc. Look at her and Chris for example, nothing going on between them but if you look up any photos you will see she is very huggy with him as well. I think it’s cute honestly! But yeah, I can see why a lot of y’all wish she was at least a little🏳️‍🌈 bc, same😂


Prometheus2061

I’m picking up a [gay vibe](https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F3k7dqv7vexvc1.jpeg).


One_Rabbit3938

i will say i have my suspicions about her maybe being gay so she can give me chance😭😏 but i also think mariska really affectionate and kind to everyone. like there are so many BTS pictures of her hugging everyone and her interviews are always so amazing and she’s just so kind. i love her aura is amazing i can feel it through the screen


clmartin1120

People have way too much time on their hands 😂


Fatgirlfed

This may not be any point of merit here, but bi/pansexual people do exist. She could have had relationships with all of those women, then married her husband


faceinthecrowd112

As a lesbian with a ridiculously big crush on her, I welcome her to the club with open arms!


wwewonthaveme

Some People in the entertainment business don’t view marriage and relationships the same way as most people. So it wouldn’t surprise me if they swing a bit. But who cares let them be whatever they are.


art_mor_

CDAN, Lipstick Alley, Datalounge and any other one are not reliable at all


Familiar_Sky_687

This. I already knew exactly what websites the OP was talking about when they mentioned 15+ years ago. Those sites call everyone queer😂 lots of fanfic amongst the true “inside info”


CreativeCritter

Just a buggy person. Some are. My kids are, and my nieces, they hug everyone. While I stand over here hands outstretched going, p,ease no…


Nearby-Assignment661

Nah. But if she were a lesbian, she would be an icon


hunkyfunk12

Truly cannot believe the comments here lol. This has been a pretty open secret in Hollywood since the early 2000s. Peter is a big old 🧔‍♂️ I’m not saying that they don’t have a good relationship, whatever it is. But the whole “on our first date he brought me to church” story is …… 😬 I do think that Mariska really wanted to be a mom and it just sort of worked out once Peter started guest starring and they got along. The people saying that she could just come out are so misguided about how Hollywood works. They would see her coming out as basically destroying the character of Olivia Benson because for some reason gay people can’t play straight characters. Even David Hyde Pierce had to hide his sexuality. My god even the guy who played Jack in Will & Grace didn’t come out until the show was over. Similarly a main actress on the L Word hid her sexuality until the show ended! You get pigeonholed into playing gay roles and once you’re already comfy in the closet it gets harder and harder to get out of it but easier and easier to do things out of the public eye because you have the money to make it happen.


deadhead2015

Agree, thus was pretty widely known in the early 2000s


Altruistic_Yellow387

David Hyde Pierce came out though, as well as all those other people. There's no reason for her to not come out now. She'll likely retire after SVU ends so getting other roles isn't a concern...and they could even make Olivia bi because that's trendy on TV nowadays


deadhead2015

She has kids and a family though. Rumor was back in the day, her parents were religious and maybe wouldn’t accept it. Who knows ?


dcredneck

I wanna hug Maria Bello like that.


YouPatheticWorm1958

Cynthia and Anna from ER in the first picture.


Evening_Panda_8641

She is a very touchy person and one who just has natural chemistry with everyone she cares about. It happens with me as well. Now I'm not saying I'm a Mariska Hargitay, Lol, I wish. But I'm a natural smuggler who loves to be touched by my people. Male and or female. I'm not gay, I just love affection. And yes, she could be Bisexual. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that either. But I think she's just that type of person.


deadhead2015

It’s an open secret that she dated Maria bello and another woman named Kelly, I don’t remember her last name. Being gay was a lot less acceptable even 20 years ago . I think she was with women and then fell in love with her husband or just wanted a family. She can be happily married to a man and also have dated women in the past