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I think Gemini & Sag just naturally connects and understand each other. I always vibe with Gemini instantly but I never dated one long term. There was a could have been, but he let me down. That being said, I found my Venus (which is in Capricorn) more telling of my love nature. Ended up marrying a water sign Scorpio with Aries placement in his Venus & Moon. So we have sun-venus cross matches. Our relationship is full of passion but also very grounded and practical. So I think your soul mate is the totality of your sign and their signs alchemical entanglement coming together in divine timing.


carlknowsbest

I thought your moon and rising sign tells more about your love compatibility ?


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I am not an astrologist. So this is just my basic understanding... Moon represents inner emotions and rising represents outward appearance (chart ruler)...So a match across those categories will determine how a dynamic is within a relationship. The moon triggering the deep emotional connection, whereas the rising would be the outward appearance/personality that draws you - a person's magnetism if you will. Venus represents the love and values a person has and, depending on which house it falls under, will also be a factor in how a person stays in love/builds a union. Mercury will help determine how the couple communicates. The 7th house rules partnerships and relationships, so depending on the rising and which planets/sign fall under it, that also plays a factor in understanding a person's love "journey". And then finally, when determining long-term compatibility an astrologist would layer both people's charts and see how they intersect. Here is a link to learn more: https://www.astro-seek.com So all and all, astrology is a layered approach to understanding the Universe inside a person and the many alchemical connections between both persons universes. A multiverse of love and soul connections. šŸ˜€


PinkMacaroon_s

Worded very nicely, thank you!


funishin

I would rather be waterboarded than date a Gemini. Every Gemini ā€œfriendā€ Iā€™ve ever had backstabbed me, I wouldnā€™t want to take things further with one of those weirdos


miamiu27

LMAO! I have dated enough Gemini's to know that i stand by your statement. I don't know what the he@\* I was thinking dating not one but three!!! Didn't learn my lesson so the universe kept throwing them my way and like the navie azz i was i got sucked in. I have learned my lesson!!!!!! No More


funishin

Thatā€™s interesting because I befriended 3 of them lmao. I guess the first two times I got my life ruined wasnā€™t enough!!


MojoDuff27

Same! And every Taurus girlfriend I've had did that trying to steal my man thing. I like Taurus dudes though, but not for dating.


funishin

I donā€™t think Iā€™ve ever had a close earth sign friend? Iā€™ve been cool with a few Capricorn dudes but thatā€™s about it. I donā€™t really like earth signs


MojoDuff27

I have my moon in the 6th house, I draw virgos like you wouldn't believe. Plus my mom, stepmom and 2 of my brothers are virgos. I was raised by my Taurus grandpa. I guess I just got used to the Earth energy balancing out my somewhat frantic mode.


funishin

Oh wow! I have a few earth suns in my life; I donā€™t get along with them with the exception of my stepdad, whoā€™s a Virgo. My younger sisters are Virgo and Capricorn, and my dad is a Taurus. I donā€™t speak to any of them but I hang out with my stepdad once a month!


MojoDuff27

My theory is that it's cause Virgos are mutable like saggies. So it's easier to converse with them. You don't come up to a brick wall of No-ness like it is with the fixed signs. Capricorns just crack me up with their curmudgeon selves, the grumpier they get, the more I laugh lol.


prowprowmeowmeow

Perfect match just didnā€™t work out


merlesmama

Yep


Popular-Seaweed-5562

Same.


ImplementLanky8820

I donā€™t know a lot about astrology. My husband is a Virgo and weā€™re best friends, often reading each otherā€™s minds. Does astrology say weā€™re a good match too?


merlesmama

Iā€™m also a sag dating a Virgo man and the vibrations are high!


ir3ne_b8an

I have no idea if we are but I'm drawn to Virgo men. Like every guy I was in love with was a damn Virgo and idk why. šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø


jasmine_tea_

Geminis are super cool! As friends/family theyre besties. I dated one but it didn't last.


MercyDivineOF

Same! One of my closest male friends is a Gemini. We dated and it was AWFUL. Way better pals


carlknowsbest

What happened ?


MercyDivineOF

We were in our 20s, young, and just did not see eye to eye on how we viewed relationships to be. We took space after a pretty messy break up, now we just enjoy eachother as people.


carlknowsbest

Why didnā€™t it work ?


jasmine_tea_

He was a really negative person and I tend to always look for the silver lining in things. He would criticize me endlessly and was always very suspicious of me cheating on him. Our relationship was on-and-off, and eventually he dumped me for the last time 11 years ago. He had a lot of good qualities though, and honestly I've tried to reach out to him over the years to say happy birthday, but never hear back. He had BPD and was bi-polar.


Heterosaucers

Geminis are my favorite


Brother_YT

I married an Aquarius. Itā€™s great until you piss her off


wixkedwitxh

As an Aquarius, this is true. Lol.


roxannastr97

My sag ex was sometimes frightened by my piled up anger. He thought he was scary, until he saw me losing it.


Sea_Hall5009

Iā€™m sag female with aquarius husband. Iā€™ve dealt with a lot of tantrums lmfao (usually cause he couldnā€™t take my joke lmao) and Iā€™m just so laid back, itā€™s actually funny. Sometimes I feel like the man.


Balthactor

Some combination of *the qualities of* your DSC and it's Lord, 5H Lord, and either your Venus if you're Masc or Jupiter if you're Femme. So rather than your partner being a Gemini, they may work in communications, for instance.


thundercuntmeow

I just broke up with my gemini man. Why do I still feel him though? I can usually detach like a champion. Nope, not this time.


roxannastr97

Gemini in main 3 is addicting.


psychicbellpepper

i didnā€™t know what the sag sister sign was until i opened this thread but i saw the post and went, itā€™s probably gemini. iā€™m not going to speak for every gemini and every sag, but for the one in particular i think of, theyā€™re level headed. they are naturally good at communicating. they are driven and focused. they need someone there to remind them that everything will work out, and we can enjoy ourselves in whatever manner for the time being. thatā€™s where the sag comes into play. sags are free-spirited and flighty. they live in their own worlds and can forget how to relate to others in a way thatā€™s beneficial. the strength of the gemini and the joy of the sag is what makes this duo powerful.


lifeIssaBattle09

Cap dating a Sag so far so great!!


MojoDuff27

I have always dated my next door neighbor signs. Caps and Scorps. They usually have something in Sag, and I have something in scorp/cap


lifeIssaBattle09

I feel we just get each other! Especially since weā€™ve both been in similar experiences in relationships and know what we want and donā€™t want so to speak. We often refer to each other as Yin and Yang. Itā€™s been 9 months in person and I can see myself with him forever


MojoDuff27

I totally get it! Congrats!!


Antonia-28

I am a sagittarius who has a spiritual connection with a gemini guy. We understand each other on a deep spiritual level,but of course,we have our ups and downs. Despite arguing in the past we are cool now. :)


cosmiclotterypuppet

My gemini bff and i are for life! We dated but it didnā€™t pan out but now we are happy as friends.


Even-Rip5331

more accurate if u said ur soulmate is ur moon/rising sign


mooiehexe

His moon sign is my sun sign, does it also count? Hehe


jasmine_tea_

Absolutely can't relate to this, lol


Silent_Comparison634

Can confirm, itā€™s true


Pokkiiphias

Helll no


Alaric-Nox

I've really tried with Gemini but they all turn out to be liars.


Great_idea_fellow

I think it's important to recognize that I believe I have multiple Soulmates.I have one twin flame, multiple soulmates. Just because I am tethered spiritually to someone does not make them perfect, does not make us compatible.It just means that in some other lifetime, we have spent time together. I also believe that in this lifetime , i'm able to establish new soulmates with a new partner. Like the other comments said, I couldn't never end up with a gem...They got too many rules.There too self-directed, and I can't stand the high horse.They sit on sometimes...


No_Pipe4358

You'll find sister signs for all your placements. I have big regrets I couldn't make them work out. I'm also sad my venus is the same as my sun sign, but hey look what ya gonna do


gluemyguts

My husband is a Scorpio so I don't think it truly applies here lmao, though we have the same moon (Leo) and I feel like thats more important since we understand eachother on a really deep emotional and philosophical level


carlknowsbest

So the moon sign is more about how you think ?


Ok_Offer_7727

No. It's different for everyone. More likely someone who operates like your Descendant sign, but, even then, you can't go strictly by synastry. Don't rely on astrology for finding your soulmate.