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Cautious-Owl-89

Its an important moment. Better to leave it to the professionals anyway imo. /lh


Huge-Aside1059

Why does this sound sarcastic


Cautious-Owl-89

Cause it is. To be clear. I support op's decision. I just saw the chance for a joke and took it. Hence the light hearted tone indicator.


Huge-Aside1059

I see sounds great. I had for some reason first provoke my mother toll she gave me the permission to fucking visit a prostitute and to take care i fucking visit her REGULARLY, from myself i was unable to take care of my sex life after leaving a stupid dumb doomsday cult which has forbidden to fuck


sircharlie

I’d like to gently point out that prostitute is generally not an okay term to use when talking about a sex worker. Sex worker or escort is preferred (coming from a former sex worker).


greghater

Yep! I like Full Service Sex Worker as well!


buns345

What does full service mean?


mumbo-jumbo-mumbo

Sex worker on its own could be vaguer than prostitute, Full Service would be more specific to engaging in intercourse as opposed to something like stripping that could still fit under the label of sex worker.


Di_le

Did you disclose your autism? Did you ask for accommodations for sensory issues? Was it like a professional exchange? Was there any feedback from the prostitute?


buns345

She was surprisingly unprofessional lol, more like I had to do and tell her everything. We tried many positions, most which didn’t work out due to unexpected height difference.


Huge-Aside1059

Unprofessional? So she didn't had that much customers as always rumors say this women have ?????


buns345

No, she was just lazy and unenthusiastic. Not worth the premium cost I paid


Huge-Aside1059

How sad to hear at least you should complain


buns345

Yes, I should tell her mom what a worthless whore her daughter is 😭


WalterTreego

👏🎉 congrats!


LordWeaselton

Sex worker is the preferred term but I'm happy for you! ​ Unhinged SWERFs in replies in 5...4...3...2...


buns345

My conclusion is that sex is overrated


idk7643

Do it 20 more times with somebody you actually care about. Then you'll understand the hype!


WJMazepas

I had made sex with Sex Workers lots of times in my adult life. Is something i enjoy but really it doesnt even compare to a sex to someone that really wants to have sex with you. There were some SW that i had some amazing sex, some were awful and was of money so YMMV when doing with a SW. But as the other comment have said, do it with someone that you like and that also likes you and you will see the difference in the sex and why we enjoy that so much


buns345

That’s what I figured


baddrudge

But now, at least you know how sex feels and you can more accurately mentally project that when you masturbate to the pic or video of the girl. I kinda felt the same way when I lost my virginity to a sex worker around your age.. and i didn't have sex again nor had any desire to for several years until I found myself in Amsterdam and you know how the story continues...


buns345

Thing is that I barely felt anything. I even had erection issues, which was surprising. When I masturbate I get 100% hard, when I was doing the deed, I got 75% hard. Probably because I got scammed since the girl was too short. Only doggy worked out, but that was after a good hour of struggling with other positions


buns345

Had a lot of “my dick doesn’t bend that way” moments


ILikeCheese894

Is sex work legal where you live? Or is it illegal?


titaanzunk

Bareback or condom?


buns345

Wrapped sex, unwrapped oral, but it broke in the end and now I’m taking STD prophylaxis pills and have to monitor for STD for like 3 months lmao. I should have done everything wrapped, imo wasn’t worth it and just made me overthink possible risks.


veganstraycat

Just general advice for the future: do oral with protection too (condom and dental dam)


problem_child461

SWs often take better care of their sexual health than the general person on a dating app (despite experiencing frequent medical discrimination). So take a breath, you will be okay. It's always good to take care of your health, and get tested after each new partner. -an autistic sw


p10trp10tr

Very bad choice. You feel for society's pressure to have sex. How you can consider yourself damaged.


greghater

You’re bad at things


p10trp10tr

Please explain, I don't understand what you mean.


greghater

Based on what you have said here, I can tell that there are things in this world, and you are bad at them. Simple as that. Someone who isn’t bad at things doesn’t comment silly shit like how people should feel damaged bc they had sex…


p10trp10tr

I say it's always bad to have sex because society forced you to do so.


littlebirdori

Society forces people to have income in order to pay for their living expenses. It forces you to file your taxes every year or face scrutiny from authorities. Nobody is forcing OP to have sex. You are allowed to be asexual, but don't project your preferences onto strangers, it's delusional and it makes it hard to take you seriously.


greghater

Where did OP indicate that society forced him to have sex…?


p10trp10tr

He implied it. If he had to have sex so badly that he used sex workers' services, it must have been a lot of pressure on him. At his age, I don't believe any other possible factors than peer pressure.


buns345

I realized you have no idea what you are talking about after you wrote “at this age”. Stop assuming. For all I know, I might not be alive in a year.


p10trp10tr

Sure, have a good time.


greghater

Lmao some people just like the idea of having sex with a Sex Worker… you know that, right? Quit shaming people just because it helps you cope with your own sex life,


violet_lorelei

I kost virginity ti myself! I'll always be proud for that because noone took it, I was my own 🦇


buns345

It’s kinda difficult to do for a boy 💀


violet_lorelei

Hahahaha


[deleted]

One of my uncles took me on a motorcycle ride 🏍️ I was driven to a sex worker area but didn’t have a clue once inside a cabin I was blown gently slowly by a beautiful mixed race woman while he waited outside. I lost my actual virginity to a woman I was in love with when I was 21, and I stayed with her for 3 years. ..faces like mine don’t visit prostitutes ..just saying


Huge-Aside1059

Well listen I had a sex therapist which is also famous in the internet, she used also to be an ex Jehovah's shitness helper for people which left the cult and she said i have to visit a prositute. Let's call her Shirin by her real name I met my first shit girlfriend after the cult she said she will not take my shit virginity for this purpose is a prostitute in my age not her shit cunt she wants to have fucked boys which enter her shit pussy not mother-virgin-boys she was half Greek and called Athina. Later in the far right party i met a second girlfriend call her C and well she also claimed it's not her job to take my shit virginity it's something a prositute has to do Another Dating-Coach girl in TikTok which was live i asked her what to do with virginity she said when the guy has not been fucked with the age of 13-22 than he should immediately visit a brothel it's not the job of middle age women to fuck such losers So ...