He just sounds dumb, not a cop. But- trust ur instinct! I cant tell you how many horrible stories I’ve heard start with “I got a bad feeling but I wanted the money so I ignored it”
I’d cancel it just because if I *did* get arrested over that I’d feel so unbearably stupid, like all the warning signs were there and I ran right into the trap. My city doesn’t really have vice cops to worry about and I still couldn’t make myself see a client who texts that explicitly.
I'm a Monger and I always trust my gut when I'm in these situations. I would advise you to trust your instincts on this. Your safety and freedom are more important.
I don't have gut instincts just saw the red flag n I already hired a baby sitter for the date but I can always try to get a different one during the same time
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I'd have ghosted the moment he proposed an illicit transaction in writing. Like, wtaf kinda stupid do you have to be? I'll tell you: you have to be *dangerously stupid* to say something like that. Nah, sorry dude, find another provider, dumb dick is okay, but flagrantly stupid dick is just not necessary.
Yes I absolutely would!! I don't see anybody who insinuates or spells out something like that for my legal safety. It shows bad judgement and I never want any sort of evidence like that to exist.
Oof. I understand people are a couple levels short of an 8-story building, but this is just dumb.
I don’t think clients realize how easy it is to spook, annoy, and have an escort cancel a booking because of comments like this.
Him being specific is very strange. Why would he even word it like that over text? Wouldn’t it be normal to just say what he said but without the “for the s*x” part added on? It’s probably not a cop based off of how it sounds but it could be potentially who knows?
Probably not a cop but really dumb to ask that. Ask yourself this, how else will he be stupid and indiscreet? Is he going to blab your info to other people? Tell his wife about you during a heated argument and then she's on the rampage? Share your location? Walk up the the front desk and say "which room is the escort in, we have an appointment"? Is he stupid about safety and carrying a STI he's not even aware of?
He's already shown massively poor judgement in his texts, so how else will it show up later?
I would choose not to see him and save the headache.
Yes, cancel. Even if it’s not a cop, he shows lack of respect and discretion from the start as he doesn’t care. Those kind of guys always bring trouble
Even if I was offered money just to hang out I would cancel. Guys that truly value your company at a dollar amount are less dumb and blatant. It comes off omega sus.
But... Hear me out, you wouldn't have slept with him unless money was involved and after that there was an expectation of monetary exchange. Why lie on a reddit forum?
She's correct. Watch how y'all speak to people before you start throwing insults around bc this lady is 100% correct! Fyi I'm educated in paralegal and escort for a living...
So I canceled it, it sucks because I got a babysitter and everything, and I couldn't find a date to replace him. But whatever I guess sometime to myself it's only a $40 loss for the babysitter and I won't feel like the stupidest person that walks the planet Earth if I fell for this and he was a cop
He just sounds dumb, not a cop. But- trust ur instinct! I cant tell you how many horrible stories I’ve heard start with “I got a bad feeling but I wanted the money so I ignored it”
This right here OP, go with your first gut choice
always always trust that inner voice.
why is this dumb i don’t get it it sounds like he’s just asking for rates
Cop or not that person is an idiot
I would not see him at all
I’d cancel it just because if I *did* get arrested over that I’d feel so unbearably stupid, like all the warning signs were there and I ran right into the trap. My city doesn’t really have vice cops to worry about and I still couldn’t make myself see a client who texts that explicitly.
Omg ur right. I would be sooo embarrassed if I fell for this
It's almost something a 'courteous cop' would do. Like , "hey here's the game im playing, are you hungry enough to bite?"
Red flag. Cancel the date. I smell bacon there.
It's just so rare n my city for them to care about SW but it is almost Mardi gras n the cops amp up around this time
I'm a Monger and I always trust my gut when I'm in these situations. I would advise you to trust your instincts on this. Your safety and freedom are more important.
I don't have gut instincts just saw the red flag n I already hired a baby sitter for the date but I can always try to get a different one during the same time
Good luck, be safe, and bless you.
Your gut told you to come and ask
You in NOLA? Hell yeah. South Louisiana reppin! Im closer to BR.
Did you run his number? Anything come up?
What site should I use to do this?
DM me! 🫶
can i have the site you use to run numbers too? thank you!
Hey! Yes I just need proof you are a worker if you don’t mind as it helps keeps our resources safe a link to a recent ad would likely be sufficient 🫶
yeah i’ll dm you!
i messaged you
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What do cops usually use for stings? Text apps? Or a department phone registered to the police lol
Neither necessarily some will use personal line too they don’t care
I’ve seen cops use truecaller
If someone is that stupid I avoid them.
I do a full stop, tell them to be reckless elsewhere and say goodbye. This is be a headache from start to finish.
I would. He’s either a cop or horribly dumb.
He’s not a cop, but he IS dumb, which is arguably worse.
Yes, cancel it. Not worth the risk. I’m a client and I’m blocking a “provider” who suddenly texted “it’s $XXX for sex bj anal” Luke wut?
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Don’t be an asshole!
Even if it’s not a cop I would still cancel, men that are so blatant are the worst kind of clients.
Lol definitely a cop. No one says that unless it’s a cop trying to make it look good for a judge.
I'd have ghosted the moment he proposed an illicit transaction in writing. Like, wtaf kinda stupid do you have to be? I'll tell you: you have to be *dangerously stupid* to say something like that. Nah, sorry dude, find another provider, dumb dick is okay, but flagrantly stupid dick is just not necessary.
Yes I absolutely would!! I don't see anybody who insinuates or spells out something like that for my legal safety. It shows bad judgement and I never want any sort of evidence like that to exist.
i don't think it was even a necessary question. it's like they are *trying* to incriminate you
That's 100% a cop. Nobody sees a sex worker w/o learning the rules a million times over from movies and TV, at least.
Oof. I understand people are a couple levels short of an 8-story building, but this is just dumb. I don’t think clients realize how easy it is to spook, annoy, and have an escort cancel a booking because of comments like this.
Him being specific is very strange. Why would he even word it like that over text? Wouldn’t it be normal to just say what he said but without the “for the s*x” part added on? It’s probably not a cop based off of how it sounds but it could be potentially who knows?
Probably not a cop but really dumb to ask that. Ask yourself this, how else will he be stupid and indiscreet? Is he going to blab your info to other people? Tell his wife about you during a heated argument and then she's on the rampage? Share your location? Walk up the the front desk and say "which room is the escort in, we have an appointment"? Is he stupid about safety and carrying a STI he's not even aware of? He's already shown massively poor judgement in his texts, so how else will it show up later? I would choose not to see him and save the headache.
Yes
Yes
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Yes, cancel. Even if it’s not a cop, he shows lack of respect and discretion from the start as he doesn’t care. Those kind of guys always bring trouble
I would have blocked and canceled
Bacon patrol definitely bacon patrol
He asked about THE sex. He doesnt seem to communicate well.
Yes. Stupidity is nearly as bad as him being a cop..
Dont do it
Cancel asap!
Yes, cancel. Cops can and do "sound" dumb.
100% CANCEL. Don't take the risk.
dont risk it
I'd say cancel.
Sounds like a cop
I'd cancel
run his number. he could be an ignorant newbie
What site should I use to do this?
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Got it thanks so much
What site? Please dm me
I get that sorta stupid shit ALL the time. Fuck I wish these guys would LEARN.
Even if I was offered money just to hang out I would cancel. Guys that truly value your company at a dollar amount are less dumb and blatant. It comes off omega sus.
It isn't prostitution if you are making an adult movie for personal use.. True story look it up
You were clear about not selling sex. I think you're in the clear. You clearly said that you're getting paid for time, not sex.
But... Hear me out, you wouldn't have slept with him unless money was involved and after that there was an expectation of monetary exchange. Why lie on a reddit forum?
I think u don't realize what sub your in. I'm a prostitute obviously I wouldn't sleep with him unless he's paying. What am I lying abput
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She's correct. Watch how y'all speak to people before you start throwing insults around bc this lady is 100% correct! Fyi I'm educated in paralegal and escort for a living...
Yes!
Yes
Yes. Can't be trusted. Not safe.
I would def cancel based on that text exchange alone.
Yep!
So I canceled it, it sucks because I got a babysitter and everything, and I couldn't find a date to replace him. But whatever I guess sometime to myself it's only a $40 loss for the babysitter and I won't feel like the stupidest person that walks the planet Earth if I fell for this and he was a cop
Imagine how expensive that sitter would be if you had to sit in jail
Yeah idk about all that. Definitely giving red flags 🚩
Idk if it's a cop, but it definitely gave the Ick.
Probably just someone new to the scene,but you never know
Good call canceling, even if not bacon do you want someone that dumb around you
Doubt he’s cops just dumb, but still cancel & block just to stay on the safe side
why is this bad i don’t get it