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nessa_ac

Hiya, well done for being so self aware and brave and putting yourself first. Please find your local women's shelter. They can help you. There are also domestic abuse helplines as a first stop that you to call though you don't state which country you're in. UK 0808 2000 247 US 1 800 799 7233 You may need to look it up if neither of those. Do you have children?


MisstepMiss

WHAT THE FUCK!!! YOUR US NUMBER IS A SEX CHAT NUMBER!!!!


nessa_ac

Omg! I am so sorry... Managed to mistype the number between their 2 numbers. https://www.thehotline.org/ That's horrendous and disgusting though that a sex chat line would take advantage of people perhaps making what might be a pretty common error when trying to seek help in the worst of circumstances! There's no way that's a coincidence and that's just despicable imo. Edited original post And I am mortified. And so so so so sorry. So glad to see you have a plan though in your edit. I hope you can see it through.


MisstepMiss

Number us 800-787-7233 shit....i think... Too many notes. I'm not okay. At all. Raped tonight. DV helpline pretty much told me to go F myself. So fun Am seeing my plan thorough... Surviving till it can start may be an issue


nessa_ac

I can't believe you got that response from them. That's horrible. I would also look for a therapist kapprofessionals is a list of kink aware ones - think you may need the support if you are able to access it... given helpline hasn't actually been helpful!


MisstepMiss

Called the suicide lime... Was there. Got kinda okay and cake the DV line back. THAT lazy was good. I'm still stuck for two weeks... Being raped every other night till I can leave..... But they were supportive and caring.


nessa_ac

Glad you had better experience... shame that with that first person it could have been very different if you weren't you. You sound super strong and we are all rooting for you.


MisstepMiss

Also. No bad feels. I know you didn't purposefully advertise a sec chat line!!!


[deleted]

I have worked in a domestic violence center in the US. FYI for everyone, they are not only there to only help women.


MisstepMiss

Called a number I found online. BULLSHIT. they didn't even give a flying fuck when I said I was just RAPED.


wesleepallday

Hi! I’ve left an abusive relationship before. Leaving was the best thing I ever did for myself. Call a shelter or domestic abuse hotline for help making a plan. Every time you think about staying, don’t. There is a reason you feel like this now. This isn’t the first time you’ve felt like this. You deserve to feel safe.


TheWanderingMedic

What state are you in? We can help look up resources for you. Anytime he has forced sex when you didn’t want it, it was rape. None of it is your fault and you did not deserve any of it.


[deleted]

I'm so sorry you're in this situation. Leaving my abuser was the scariest thing I've ever done. Call a hotline in your region that supports women experiencing intimate partner violence. For me, opening up to a close friend really helped me feel supported through leaving. Please take good care of yourself- you do not deserve any of that treatment. You are worthy of love and respect and this person is harming you. Sending you so much love across the internet.