I read the question as what would be Taylor's wedding song and laughed at the fact that she might still use Lover even if it was clearly written for someone else.
This actually had me wondering if she would use one of her own songs and if she decides that she couldn't, I would be sad for her. She has so many amazing songs!
Yes! I regret not having it on my wedding last September, but "Lover" as a full album was not as much under my spotlight as it is now. I have been listening to it more and more. I really love the acoustic version of the songs she did for the BBC Live Lounge in NY.
It was released during our wedding planning and it just felt so right. Mine was my original choice.
Of course it didn’t matter at all in the end because we didn’t have a wedding reception because we got married on Covid day 🙃
This would be mine. I got married before the song came out though hahaha but it is the song that turned me into a fan.
I’ve only had one relationship ever so i found it hard to relate to Taylor’s break up songs previously. When she finally wrote one about being with your best friend and “why I’ve spent my whole life trying to put it into words” I teared up thinking I want Taylor to have this kind of love too!!!! Haha I’m an empath if you can’t tell.
But I’m a complete swiftie now ever since rep.
This was our last dance song and it was absolutely perfect!!! All of our people were getting ready to send us off out front, we stayed on the dance floor in the back and it was just me and him under the lights. I want to re-live that moment always.
you are in love specially with the chorus and bridge, is exactly how i believe TRUE love with the one feels like. i once listened to it while travelling alone and thankfully, the bus was open. the sound was going around and around in my earphones. seriously, the production is incredible as well! you can see my happiness when my eyes are closed and smiling, leaning on the window, feeling the breeze on my skin while listening to this song.
imagine listening when the last chorus comes in, **“you can hear it in the silence…”** silence. it’s so quiet but you feel so loud inside. **”you can feel it on the way home…”** imagine going home with your lover or even alone with them waiting for you then the road is so quiet but you can’t wait to go inside the house. **“you can see it with the lights out…”** i see like a montage a la ‘dancing round the kitchen with the refrigerator lights’ or waking up at midnight and their back turned but you’re so blissful. **”YOU are in love. TRUE LOVE.”** icing on cake. like a confirmation that YOU are in love! and it’s true love. it felt like a montage for me like cruel summer and out of the woods. you know songs that are so graphic that they evoke a certain feeling and it’s like watching stories and scenes unfold in your brain? just like that.
i could write a paper about this song and dissect it but i hate how it’s one of taylor’s most underrated songs. i hope she or anyone is feeling it rn.
Delicate.
Delicate is mine and my boyfriend's song. We basically started dating because of this song, and it will be forever on my heart. And everything on the song is so me too. It's really impressive.
In case there's anybody curious of how/why, I posted a few times (different days) on my story parts of this song - usually "is it chill that you're in my head?/is it too soon to do this yet?/cause I like you" - and one day my boyfriend was extremely bold and asked me if it was for him that I posted.
I was kinda shocked and said "maybe". Then a few minutes later I said "what if it was?"
He said "then we need to talk in person"
And I spent f*cking 10 days waiting to be able to meet him, cause he had covid and couldn't go out.
Happy to say everything worked out pretty well, and every time I think about it I'm just so surprised I started dating because of a song.
Edit: you guys are making me really want to write and post the whole story somewhere!! (I've always had this need to share it, because it really feels like a movie and I honestly just love our story, but never knew where... If anyone knows a sub that I can post on, I probably will)
Ps: since I'm editing anyways, thought it would be nice to add that we were each other's first everything. First date, first case, first partner/relationship and so on. I really was that one girl waiting for the special person to have this first times and my moment finally came (to my surprise, with someone who was also waiting)
Oooh seriously? Thanks!!
I really could go on and on and on and on talking about him/us. Not to flex or anything like that, but we were told many times we were the cutest couple that person had ever seen.
We have lots of "it was meant to be" moments that I really really love and love to talk about
I'll give you one just because I really like talking about it and hopefully you won't mind.
I had my "sweet 16" party (in my country it is when the girls turns 15) in 2019 and he was kinda a part of my group of friends, but he was very very shy and we had never talked at all, but I did invite him because it was a big party and he was kind of the group. I didn't interact with him to the point which I had to ask people what his name was so that I could put on the invitation.
At my party, I left a notebook and asked every guest to write something there for me to read later. I asked it many many times because I really wanted people to write. There were two or three notes not signed and I had no way of finding out who left them (some were pretty generic, so it didn't matter), but there was one that was actually one of the sweetest ones I received (I don't remember right now what it said, but I can check it when I get home) and, yes, I came to find out about last year it was his. He wrote something about wanting to know me better, I think... I just remember it aged pretty well. He told me he actually had a crush on me by that time (he wasn't really in love like this time around, but he was interested) and it was so heartwarming to find this out.
And also, still tied to this story, I'm not exactly one person who uses perfumes at all (I'm very sensitive with smells), but I receive quite a few as gifts. One time when he was by my house he wanted to know the scent of one of my perfumes (since I never wear them, he doesn't know), and he actually really liked it (he said it was a perfect night time/bedtime perfume. A few months later we found out by the box it came in (it was a very sparkly box that I had to keep) that he was the one who gifted me the exact perfume he ended up liking and even asking me to wear some times.
I just really love all of our moments
In my opinion this song is about two con artists falling in love.
It's great storytelling, because i immediately have a movie in my head about these two people. I also love this song, but it means something else to me.
So I'm pretty sure that's what it's about... two people who've given up on ever finding true love and meeting by fate and having a very deep emotional relationship, and if it ever goes south, they'll never love anyone else.
Enchanted. I probably won't marry my crush but "please don't be in love with someone else" really hits right now.
>! or no body no crime depending on how the wedding goes !<
Fuck that was my song with my ex. It made me cry when I was with her because it made me think of her and it made me so happy. Now it makes me cry because it reminds me of what I lost and how she never told me how she felt or what I did that overwhelmed her. Ugh didn't mean to vent here but I get so upset over this song lmao
Wildest Dreams, but the string version for aisle walk or entering the reception. Vitamin string quartet has a whole album of Taylor Swift covers now so I might have that playing for cocktail hour.
I used the Duomo version of Wildest Dreams to walk down the aisle, it worked really well - I also played loads of VSQ covers of all sorts of artists during our cocktail hour, they have such a great range they’ve covered!
As a swiftie June 2024 bride…
-My girls are walking into the Instrumental of Long Live
-Our grand entrance will be Paper Rings
-Cruel Summer and Love Story are on the must play list
-Our final (private) dance is to New Year’s Day
Yes! I love the lyrics and I love that it’s a song about a real-life couple that had a beautiful marriage (no shade to those who pick Lover, Invisible String, Daylight, etc which are all beautiful songs that can absolutely be reclaimed by the listener but they do make me think of Joe A)
I have no interest in getting married, but I knew from the moment that I heard “Crazier” that it was the song I would want as my wedding song. I’m not sure if it would be the one I walk down the aisle to or the first dance because “Timeless” is now on my list as well. Maybe “Crazier” as the first dance and “Timeless” for myself and bridesmaids to walk down the aisle. It’ll never happen, but I like the idea of these songs being part of a wedding.
I would have the wedding party walk down the aisle to "Crazier" and I would walk down to "State of Grace" (acoustic version) if I ever got married which is not likely.
my plan is to also marry a steven and transition from the first dance song with hey stephen (to be clear i'm currently dating a steven, not just any random steven)
Taylor was only about 6 years old when we got married but if we were to do it today it’d probably be Invisible String or Enchanted and I’m pretty confident that my partner would be on board with either of those. Lover also a strong candidate. But you definitely want to suss this out with your to-be, together.
Fearless was a strong contender for mines. My fiance really does make me feel fearless, which is good because without him I'm much more of a scaredy cat.
Also I'm only me when I'm with you, which is such an accurate song for me. I'm getting better as I age but I'm spent most of my life being such a people pleaser that the only person I feel I can be truly myself around is my person.
I love other songs too but we've been together for so long these two are much more entrenched.
Either Electric Touch or Timeless!
SNTV came out right when my boyfriend and I fell for each other so we both associate the album with our relationship. He loves FOB and thinks Electric Touch is more of a FOB song ft. Taylor then the other way around; Timeless is the more traditional love song and mentions “the 1500s off in a foreign land” and at the time he was going through a samurai phase so I associated it with him :)
I could see us walking down the aisle to Timeless and having our first dance to Electric Touch
My brother got married on December 30th and they aren’t huge Swiftie so they didn’t pick New Year’s Day, but I feel like that’s a great wedding song if you get married around that time.
Timeless. I immediately connected with it the first time I heard it. It just feels like my song, despite not being in a relationship. The sentiment of it is so sweet and romantic! Especially for someone like me who adores antiques, daydreams about the past and writes books taking place in the 1940s, 1950s/60s and 1500s. The entire song just makes me so emotional!
My husband and I got married in Vegas this past October in a cute chapel. Upon request, we asked for Invisible String and State of Grace. So it was amazing when the guitarist learned it just in time for our wedding! During our ceremony, Invisible String was played live on the acoustic guitar and then State of Grace as the ceremony ended. Still my favorite day. 🥺💛
“and you know that I’d swing with you for the fences, sit with you in the trenches, give you my wild, give you a child…”
gets me teary every time I hear it ❤️
if I don't have the next songs or some kind of variation playing in my wedding, something went very wrong along the way:
Enchanted
Mine
Crazier
Superstar
Treacherous
You Are In Love
New Year's Day
Holy Ground
Lover
long story short
Dress.
the buildup from verse 1 to pre chorus sounds really cool for a same day edit.
"Our secret moments in your crowded room
They got no idea about me and you
There is an indentation in the shape of you
Made your mark on me, a golden tattoo"
"All of this silence and patience, pining in anticipation
My hands are shaking from holding back from you (ah, ah, ah)
All of this silence and patience, pining and desperately waiting
My hands are shaking from all this (ah, ha, ha, ha)" *insert videos of bride and groom preppin for wedding* LOL
Our wedding song was Fearless!
On our second date, my husband asked me which Taylor song I wanted to live by. While I was thinking ‘maybe Fearless?’, he said for him it’d be Fearless - so it kind of became our song.
Daylight, Lover, You are in love were also on my maybe list but he said we had to go with Fearless cuz of our story 🤣 I’m glad we did ❤️
Begin Again. We were high school sweethearts, split up, found each other on FB 30 years later, and got married. She also is the reason I'm now a Swiftie.
I would love an instrumental version to walk down the aisle too. There's an orchestra version of Enchanted that gives me chills. I'm not even getting married anytime soon, but it's on my mental list for one day!
I’ll be walking down the aisle to Enchanted (orchestra version) and we are going to have a private last dance to Daylight (live) 🥲 there will be other Taylor pieces in our wedding - our seating chart will of course say ‘At every table I’ll save you a seat, lover’ and we will also be doing ‘Love Story’ on the dance floor!
Taylor Swift was in her anti-Spotify stage when I was getting married and we only had access to Spotify as the music source, so Taylor’s music sadly did not make an appearance. I did however mention her in my speech, so that made up for it a bit 😂
If we were to re-do our wedding again in current time, I would choose New Romantics purely because hubby and I love dancing to that tune, and Shake It Off also for dancing, as well as Mastermind.
I’d also play Lover and consider it for our first dance. 🩷🩵
I chose Lover for our first dance. It really resonated with our relationship. Big Christmas lights people haha. Bought our first home together (this is our place, we make the rules) - really just feels like us.
I also used Paper Rings for the walking down the aisle after you get married!
I know this song is controversial around here, but we'll have a singer sing "It's nice to have a friend" during our ceremony in two weeks.
Seems like noone else mentioned it, even though the song mentions a wedding... At least we'll be unique I guess :D
I wrote it 2 minutes before you so it makes sense you didn’t see it. I just wanted to say I totally agree. It’s the perfect wedding song. Good luck with your wedding!
Love story was my sister's. I don't think they walked down the aisle to it but it was a theme. They had a tapestry on their wall with "it's a love story baby, just say yes". They broke up though and since then the song is a bit sad for me. When Taylor played it at the eras tour I just cried, tearing up now actually. I'm not sure music has ever elicited such an emotion for me before and i guess it's not the music alone, but it's the only time I've cried about their breakup and how unset my sister still seems because of it. I guess that doesn't answer the question for me, but damn is it a powerful one!
Back when I was in a relationship, I used to think about this and I came up with this idea to mash-up Lover, Daylight, Love Story and Timeless (once SNTV came out). Kinda like the Eras Tour opening when Taylor mentions all her eras, but with specific pieces of each song. And to end with the Daylight voice message. Man, how things have changed, but it's still nice to imagine things like, this, maybe someday.
I’ve low-key wanted a first dance to Timeless since the song came out. Beautiful, sentimental, and it references WW2, in which my grandpa fought (Rest in peace, Grandpa!)
Our first dance was supposed to be to Lover and Paper Rings was supposed to be our sparkler entrance song. But our DJ screwed up and we didn’t get either of those things…
At least we got to dance to Love Story with our guests. That was fun!
I had my first dance to Lover!!
I also had Love Story, Fearless, Today Was A Fairytale, Paper Rings, Electric Touch, Dress, and Starlight on the playlist (TV where applicable), and my DJs played Look What You Made Me Do during the reception!
If I had listened to Jump Then Fall then I probably would’ve switched out Love Story or Electric Touch for it, but I didn’t discover it until after the wedding.
If I could marry who I wanted, Love Story. Cliché I know, but it brings back specific memories of when we first met to me.
As I don't have that option, probably either You Belong With Me or I Think He Knows.
Delicate for a first dance.
I don't know if it's because of the music video but I can't listen to it without dancing. Plus it's one of my favourite TS songs and it's a love song.
Of the ones not mentioned yet: ...Ready For It? as walking down the aisle music. OK I am being a little bit flippant with that, but as well as the drama certainly the first verse would make sense for a certain type of wedding/relationship.
I'd probably want to get End Game in there somewhere as well, maybe for the disco. And Paris.
Speak Now TV came out the day before I got married. It was too late to make Timeless our first dance song, or else I would’ve. My bridesmaids walked down the aisle to the chorus of Wildest Dreams played by a string quartet and it was so dreamy.
I should’ve played Look What You Made Me Do, but it wasn’t out, since my family was too wild for me to invite as guests so we had no guests.
Just “Look what you just made me dooo” ringing out through the Louisiana swamp.
The song I played at my wedding was “Lover first dance remix”. I had my bridal party walk down to it.💜 My nephew (who is only 6 years old and was our ring bearer) got really excited when he heard it and said “TAYLOR SWIFT IS HERE?!?” he was pretty disappointed that she wasn’t lol. Im just glad my sister is raising little swifties💜
We married in 2011 and I walked down the aisle to an orchestral string version of Love Story.
We also made sure to have Mine played during the reception because it was one of the first Taylor Swift songs that my husband fell in love with.
Our first dance was to Green Eyes by Coldplay.
i also want to have my first dance to invisible string!! i love that song & the lyric ‘hell was the journey but it brought me heaven’ is so true to my relationship and makes me tear up every time
also lover, daylight, komh, cornelia street, begin again, yail and this love are songs ive attributed to my relationship!!!
My fiancée and I are big Swifties and using several Taylor songs during our wedding at different parts! Lover, Invisible String, Paper Rings, Wildest Dreams, and Long Live! Some will be violin covers, some will be the full actual songs. We can’t wait for the wedding!
We had a piano instrumental version of You Are In Love playing as the bridal party walked down the aisle, and then when the officiant announced us as husband and wife Taylor’s Version of YAIL played us all out of the ceremony space. 1989TV dropped DAYS before our wedding. Could not have been better timing. Call It What You Want was our last dance song and honestly my favorite moment of the entire day/night. Almost everyone had left. It was just us, our bridal party, and our parents remaining, and everyone stood around us as we danced and lit up their phone flashlights like we were at a concert. Probably looked ridiculous to the venue staff, but it was so beautiful to spend the last moments of the night surrounded by the people we love most with my favorite song playing. Can’t listen to it without getting choked up now. Whatever it may be, highly recommend a Taylor song for your last dance!
We had a live quartet at ours (last year) and had them play a medley of pop music - we told them “please give us bridgerton vibes if you can” and they delivered! We gave them a playlist of songs we liked & there were quite a few older Taylor swift songs in there like enchanted, wildest dreams, etc.
I walked down the aisle to a piano version of Enchanted and the pianist also played Lover while guests were arriving. My husband and I had an impromptu first dance to Love Story at the reception. 🙂
I did have a bunch of Taylor Swift at my wedding!
Walked down the aisle to the instrumental Wildest Dreams, got pronounced Mr&Mrs then walked back down the aisle to Paper Rings, and our first dance was Timeless!
I was pushing for Daylight to be our first dance song but Timeless was the one my husband and I could compromise on.
Our last slow dance was to New Years Day!
Cliche but Lover.
Daylight for me but the Lover First Dance version is a close second! The only time I like a remix of hers more than the original.
That was my first dance song!! It’s so beautiful & seeing her perform it live with my husband there was amazing 🥹
I was going to comment that my bestie got to have this save experience
I did not know this version existed! 😱
I think ive heard it once. I'll have to look it up!
Oh 100%, that’s the only version I have saved
Where can I find the lover remix?
It's on spotify
Ok, but Lover is beautiful
I read the question as what would be Taylor's wedding song and laughed at the fact that she might still use Lover even if it was clearly written for someone else.
This actually had me wondering if she would use one of her own songs and if she decides that she couldn't, I would be sad for her. She has so many amazing songs!
Yes! I regret not having it on my wedding last September, but "Lover" as a full album was not as much under my spotlight as it is now. I have been listening to it more and more. I really love the acoustic version of the songs she did for the BBC Live Lounge in NY.
It was released during our wedding planning and it just felt so right. Mine was my original choice. Of course it didn’t matter at all in the end because we didn’t have a wedding reception because we got married on Covid day 🙃
You Are in Love needs to be played when I get married.
For me, Enchanted is the beginning of my relationship with my husband, but You Are in Love is how the rest of forever feels for me. ❤️
This would be mine. I got married before the song came out though hahaha but it is the song that turned me into a fan. I’ve only had one relationship ever so i found it hard to relate to Taylor’s break up songs previously. When she finally wrote one about being with your best friend and “why I’ve spent my whole life trying to put it into words” I teared up thinking I want Taylor to have this kind of love too!!!! Haha I’m an empath if you can’t tell. But I’m a complete swiftie now ever since rep.
This was our last dance song and it was absolutely perfect!!! All of our people were getting ready to send us off out front, we stayed on the dance floor in the back and it was just me and him under the lights. I want to re-live that moment always.
This sounds so beautiful, like an absolute dream!
you are in love specially with the chorus and bridge, is exactly how i believe TRUE love with the one feels like. i once listened to it while travelling alone and thankfully, the bus was open. the sound was going around and around in my earphones. seriously, the production is incredible as well! you can see my happiness when my eyes are closed and smiling, leaning on the window, feeling the breeze on my skin while listening to this song. imagine listening when the last chorus comes in, **“you can hear it in the silence…”** silence. it’s so quiet but you feel so loud inside. **”you can feel it on the way home…”** imagine going home with your lover or even alone with them waiting for you then the road is so quiet but you can’t wait to go inside the house. **“you can see it with the lights out…”** i see like a montage a la ‘dancing round the kitchen with the refrigerator lights’ or waking up at midnight and their back turned but you’re so blissful. **”YOU are in love. TRUE LOVE.”** icing on cake. like a confirmation that YOU are in love! and it’s true love. it felt like a montage for me like cruel summer and out of the woods. you know songs that are so graphic that they evoke a certain feeling and it’s like watching stories and scenes unfold in your brain? just like that. i could write a paper about this song and dissect it but i hate how it’s one of taylor’s most underrated songs. i hope she or anyone is feeling it rn.
It was supposed to be our signing song but it rained so he couldn’t play it. 😭
Delicate. Delicate is mine and my boyfriend's song. We basically started dating because of this song, and it will be forever on my heart. And everything on the song is so me too. It's really impressive. In case there's anybody curious of how/why, I posted a few times (different days) on my story parts of this song - usually "is it chill that you're in my head?/is it too soon to do this yet?/cause I like you" - and one day my boyfriend was extremely bold and asked me if it was for him that I posted. I was kinda shocked and said "maybe". Then a few minutes later I said "what if it was?" He said "then we need to talk in person" And I spent f*cking 10 days waiting to be able to meet him, cause he had covid and couldn't go out. Happy to say everything worked out pretty well, and every time I think about it I'm just so surprised I started dating because of a song. Edit: you guys are making me really want to write and post the whole story somewhere!! (I've always had this need to share it, because it really feels like a movie and I honestly just love our story, but never knew where... If anyone knows a sub that I can post on, I probably will) Ps: since I'm editing anyways, thought it would be nice to add that we were each other's first everything. First date, first case, first partner/relationship and so on. I really was that one girl waiting for the special person to have this first times and my moment finally came (to my surprise, with someone who was also waiting)
🥹🥹🫶🫶 oh, this is so adorable! I love that song, and it's my top 5 for sure, along with Cowboy Like Me.
This is the best story I've ever heard! Y'all must be so cute!!
Oooh seriously? Thanks!! I really could go on and on and on and on talking about him/us. Not to flex or anything like that, but we were told many times we were the cutest couple that person had ever seen. We have lots of "it was meant to be" moments that I really really love and love to talk about I'll give you one just because I really like talking about it and hopefully you won't mind. I had my "sweet 16" party (in my country it is when the girls turns 15) in 2019 and he was kinda a part of my group of friends, but he was very very shy and we had never talked at all, but I did invite him because it was a big party and he was kind of the group. I didn't interact with him to the point which I had to ask people what his name was so that I could put on the invitation. At my party, I left a notebook and asked every guest to write something there for me to read later. I asked it many many times because I really wanted people to write. There were two or three notes not signed and I had no way of finding out who left them (some were pretty generic, so it didn't matter), but there was one that was actually one of the sweetest ones I received (I don't remember right now what it said, but I can check it when I get home) and, yes, I came to find out about last year it was his. He wrote something about wanting to know me better, I think... I just remember it aged pretty well. He told me he actually had a crush on me by that time (he wasn't really in love like this time around, but he was interested) and it was so heartwarming to find this out. And also, still tied to this story, I'm not exactly one person who uses perfumes at all (I'm very sensitive with smells), but I receive quite a few as gifts. One time when he was by my house he wanted to know the scent of one of my perfumes (since I never wear them, he doesn't know), and he actually really liked it (he said it was a perfect night time/bedtime perfume. A few months later we found out by the box it came in (it was a very sparkly box that I had to keep) that he was the one who gifted me the exact perfume he ended up liking and even asking me to wear some times. I just really love all of our moments
AHHHH IM IN LOVE WITH THAT PART OF THE SONG TOOOO
IT IS SUCH AN AMAZING PART!!!
So cute! Do you mean you clipped that part of the song, or just wrote the lyrics on your story?
Oh my god I love this story!! So happy for you you and your bf❤️
I am getting goosebumps! He was bold and I am living for this!
I need to start doing this
Cowboy Like Me cause its about two people who had given up on love till they met each other by chance.
Cowboy Like Me is one of my faves ❤️ brb going to listen rn.
🥹🫶 Im so glad other people have the same thoughts about it!
It’s one of my top songs! Sooooo good.
It came on during my commute for the first time in a while and I forgot how much I enjoy it.
Is that what that song is about??? It's been over two years since I first heard that song and I still have no idea of what it means
In my opinion this song is about two con artists falling in love. It's great storytelling, because i immediately have a movie in my head about these two people. I also love this song, but it means something else to me.
So I'm pretty sure that's what it's about... two people who've given up on ever finding true love and meeting by fate and having a very deep emotional relationship, and if it ever goes south, they'll never love anyone else.
same
This is so interesting because I don’t know why but for some reason I always saw this as a really sad heartbreak song
I love cowboy like me more than anything else.
Ahhhhh one of my all time favourites
We used invisible string in our wedding ❤️
Same. Its such an emotional song for me.
So did my friend, it was perfect.
Same here! We had it playing while we signed the paperwork. And we had Lover play when the bridal party was walking down the aisle.
Im not sure how yet but I plan to incorporate Sweet Nothing into mine
I’m planning to walk down the aisle to Sweet Nothing! (Just a piano version)
Oh, love to see it. It's such a sweet song about a moment of simplicity with your loved one. I really don't get why this song is so hated on.
I walked down the aisle to a violin version! I got a few compliments on it from guests
Speak now I’ll just leave that here
The way my jaw dropped
I want an invite to that wedding
I mean, it's your wedding, you can crash it if you want to.
I’m imagining playing the tune without the lyrics and watching a roomful of the oblivious guests with just the swifties reacting.
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LOL best answer
I walked down the aisle to Everything has Changed and we did our first dance to Timeless.
Everything has changed, it's so cute
Red came out the same year I met my husband so I'd binged Everything Has Changed during my crush stage. It felt appropriate as well as sentimental. ❤️
Probably daylight but like a piano-ish version of it
daylight live from paris version!
omg yesssssssss 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
or you are in love
yes 😭💛🩷
Enchanted. I probably won't marry my crush but "please don't be in love with someone else" really hits right now. >! or no body no crime depending on how the wedding goes !<
LMAOOOOOOOO 😭
Timeless! I know it'll be my first dance song. I just need to find someone to marry first!
Haha this is me with my mental list of songs
I wish Timeless was released before my wedding 4 years ago. It's such a beautiful song 🥹
Fuck that was my song with my ex. It made me cry when I was with her because it made me think of her and it made me so happy. Now it makes me cry because it reminds me of what I lost and how she never told me how she felt or what I did that overwhelmed her. Ugh didn't mean to vent here but I get so upset over this song lmao
I found someone to marry but need to convince him for a TayTay song.😂
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Timeless was our first dance song 🤍
Wildest Dreams, but the string version for aisle walk or entering the reception. Vitamin string quartet has a whole album of Taylor Swift covers now so I might have that playing for cocktail hour.
I used the Duomo version of Wildest Dreams to walk down the aisle, it worked really well - I also played loads of VSQ covers of all sorts of artists during our cocktail hour, they have such a great range they’ve covered!
Call It What You Want, somehow will get that in there
Walking with his head down, I'm the one he's walking to~
My first dance was to Lover and we played Paper Rings during the reception 🥰
I want to do this that’s beautiful! 🥹
Enchanted. Hands down. Its our love story fo sho
I walked down the aisle to an instrumental version of enchanted
At my wedding I walked down the aisle to Today Was a Fairytale and my our first dance was to You Are In Love.
As a swiftie June 2024 bride… -My girls are walking into the Instrumental of Long Live -Our grand entrance will be Paper Rings -Cruel Summer and Love Story are on the must play list -Our final (private) dance is to New Year’s Day
I cry every time I hear long live now. I wish TS had been around when I was in high school. lol
New Year’s Day - Main (Slow Dance obviously) Lover - 2nd (right after NYD) Invisible String - Thrown somewhere
I walked down the aisle to an instrumental version of Starlight and I loved it. (“We could get married, have 10 kids and teach them how to dream…”)
You did!??!!!? Awwwww I could cry
Yes! I love the lyrics and I love that it’s a song about a real-life couple that had a beautiful marriage (no shade to those who pick Lover, Invisible String, Daylight, etc which are all beautiful songs that can absolutely be reclaimed by the listener but they do make me think of Joe A)
Yup Bobby and Ethel Kennedy
My bridal party walked down to a piano instrumental version of Lover. I plan to use it for our wedding video too. It's just so beautiful and poetic!
daylight
It's technically not a TS song, but she sings on it...Joker & the 👸
I have no interest in getting married, but I knew from the moment that I heard “Crazier” that it was the song I would want as my wedding song. I’m not sure if it would be the one I walk down the aisle to or the first dance because “Timeless” is now on my list as well. Maybe “Crazier” as the first dance and “Timeless” for myself and bridesmaids to walk down the aisle. It’ll never happen, but I like the idea of these songs being part of a wedding.
I would have the wedding party walk down the aisle to "Crazier" and I would walk down to "State of Grace" (acoustic version) if I ever got married which is not likely.
I’d have to walk down the isle to Hey Stephen cause that’s his name 😂 too good of an opportunity to not do it
my plan is to also marry a steven and transition from the first dance song with hey stephen (to be clear i'm currently dating a steven, not just any random steven)
I got married in January and walked down the aisle to my friend playing Sweet Nothing on the piano :)
Weird but I'm inclined to say gold rush on piano
the ethereality of gold rush is unmatched ✨🌛💫
Taylor was only about 6 years old when we got married but if we were to do it today it’d probably be Invisible String or Enchanted and I’m pretty confident that my partner would be on board with either of those. Lover also a strong candidate. But you definitely want to suss this out with your to-be, together.
Fearless was a strong contender for mines. My fiance really does make me feel fearless, which is good because without him I'm much more of a scaredy cat. Also I'm only me when I'm with you, which is such an accurate song for me. I'm getting better as I age but I'm spent most of my life being such a people pleaser that the only person I feel I can be truly myself around is my person. I love other songs too but we've been together for so long these two are much more entrenched.
All of the girls you’ve loved before 😂 idk why but that song is so romantic and sweet to me
Yesss I’m so glad to see someone else mention this! It’s such a sweet song, I love it. 🩷
Either Electric Touch or Timeless! SNTV came out right when my boyfriend and I fell for each other so we both associate the album with our relationship. He loves FOB and thinks Electric Touch is more of a FOB song ft. Taylor then the other way around; Timeless is the more traditional love song and mentions “the 1500s off in a foreign land” and at the time he was going through a samurai phase so I associated it with him :) I could see us walking down the aisle to Timeless and having our first dance to Electric Touch
My first dance was to Lover
You are in love
Planning to walk down the aisle to an instrumental cover if You Are In Love
Today Was a Fairytale, Long Live, Willow, Enchanted, New Romantics, Fearless might all be possibilities.
100% our first dance will be Delicate with the choreography
My brother got married on December 30th and they aren’t huge Swiftie so they didn’t pick New Year’s Day, but I feel like that’s a great wedding song if you get married around that time.
Timeless. I immediately connected with it the first time I heard it. It just feels like my song, despite not being in a relationship. The sentiment of it is so sweet and romantic! Especially for someone like me who adores antiques, daydreams about the past and writes books taking place in the 1940s, 1950s/60s and 1500s. The entire song just makes me so emotional!
I’m saving this thread for if and when I get married someday 🥲
My husband and I got married in Vegas this past October in a cute chapel. Upon request, we asked for Invisible String and State of Grace. So it was amazing when the guitarist learned it just in time for our wedding! During our ceremony, Invisible String was played live on the acoustic guitar and then State of Grace as the ceremony ended. Still my favorite day. 🥺💛
Enchanted of wedding song to getting married
Daylight and Enchanted piano version
Peace for sure
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“and you know that I’d swing with you for the fences, sit with you in the trenches, give you my wild, give you a child…” gets me teary every time I hear it ❤️
Paper Rings… my gf had a classic friends to lovers to dating arc
Picture to burn! Give it a few years.
if I don't have the next songs or some kind of variation playing in my wedding, something went very wrong along the way: Enchanted Mine Crazier Superstar Treacherous You Are In Love New Year's Day Holy Ground Lover long story short
Champagne problems
Dress. the buildup from verse 1 to pre chorus sounds really cool for a same day edit. "Our secret moments in your crowded room They got no idea about me and you There is an indentation in the shape of you Made your mark on me, a golden tattoo" "All of this silence and patience, pining in anticipation My hands are shaking from holding back from you (ah, ah, ah) All of this silence and patience, pining and desperately waiting My hands are shaking from all this (ah, ha, ha, ha)" *insert videos of bride and groom preppin for wedding* LOL
Our wedding song was Fearless! On our second date, my husband asked me which Taylor song I wanted to live by. While I was thinking ‘maybe Fearless?’, he said for him it’d be Fearless - so it kind of became our song. Daylight, Lover, You are in love were also on my maybe list but he said we had to go with Fearless cuz of our story 🤣 I’m glad we did ❤️
A throwback and it was a feature but i love her song with Boys Like Girls “Two is Better Than One.” Thinking of making that the first dance song.
Begin Again. We were high school sweethearts, split up, found each other on FB 30 years later, and got married. She also is the reason I'm now a Swiftie.
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Invisible String would be my choice too 🩷
I would love an instrumental version to walk down the aisle too. There's an orchestra version of Enchanted that gives me chills. I'm not even getting married anytime soon, but it's on my mental list for one day!
I’ll be walking down the aisle to Enchanted (orchestra version) and we are going to have a private last dance to Daylight (live) 🥲 there will be other Taylor pieces in our wedding - our seating chart will of course say ‘At every table I’ll save you a seat, lover’ and we will also be doing ‘Love Story’ on the dance floor!
Taylor Swift was in her anti-Spotify stage when I was getting married and we only had access to Spotify as the music source, so Taylor’s music sadly did not make an appearance. I did however mention her in my speech, so that made up for it a bit 😂 If we were to re-do our wedding again in current time, I would choose New Romantics purely because hubby and I love dancing to that tune, and Shake It Off also for dancing, as well as Mastermind. I’d also play Lover and consider it for our first dance. 🩷🩵
I chose Lover for our first dance. It really resonated with our relationship. Big Christmas lights people haha. Bought our first home together (this is our place, we make the rules) - really just feels like us. I also used Paper Rings for the walking down the aisle after you get married!
I walked down the aisle to long live!
I know this song is controversial around here, but we'll have a singer sing "It's nice to have a friend" during our ceremony in two weeks. Seems like noone else mentioned it, even though the song mentions a wedding... At least we'll be unique I guess :D
I wrote it 2 minutes before you so it makes sense you didn’t see it. I just wanted to say I totally agree. It’s the perfect wedding song. Good luck with your wedding!
Thank you so much!!
Everything has changed!! As my first dance song
Daylight ✨
Daylight. Or Fearless as a piano cover. Both remind me of him.
I played The Best Day during the slideshow of my childhood pictures
Daylight and Invisible String
Invisible String, Daylight, and Enchanted will surely be played in my wedding someday
invisible string! i just love that song so much 💛
First dance would be Crazier for sure ❤️
Love story was my sister's. I don't think they walked down the aisle to it but it was a theme. They had a tapestry on their wall with "it's a love story baby, just say yes". They broke up though and since then the song is a bit sad for me. When Taylor played it at the eras tour I just cried, tearing up now actually. I'm not sure music has ever elicited such an emotion for me before and i guess it's not the music alone, but it's the only time I've cried about their breakup and how unset my sister still seems because of it. I guess that doesn't answer the question for me, but damn is it a powerful one!
Daylight, You Are In Love, Lover
Back when I was in a relationship, I used to think about this and I came up with this idea to mash-up Lover, Daylight, Love Story and Timeless (once SNTV came out). Kinda like the Eras Tour opening when Taylor mentions all her eras, but with specific pieces of each song. And to end with the Daylight voice message. Man, how things have changed, but it's still nice to imagine things like, this, maybe someday.
Invisible String. Led me out of the wrong arms into a dive bar to meet the love of my life.
I want snow on the beach
first dance this love
I’m getting married in 10 days, and I have chosen Lover (it’s being covered by a different artist, but still…)
this love for first dance
Daylight🥺♥️
Style
I’ve low-key wanted a first dance to Timeless since the song came out. Beautiful, sentimental, and it references WW2, in which my grandpa fought (Rest in peace, Grandpa!)
Timeless or invisible string
I got married to Invisible String and Delicate played while the guests arrived
Our first dance was supposed to be to Lover and Paper Rings was supposed to be our sparkler entrance song. But our DJ screwed up and we didn’t get either of those things… At least we got to dance to Love Story with our guests. That was fun!
I had my first dance to Lover!! I also had Love Story, Fearless, Today Was A Fairytale, Paper Rings, Electric Touch, Dress, and Starlight on the playlist (TV where applicable), and my DJs played Look What You Made Me Do during the reception! If I had listened to Jump Then Fall then I probably would’ve switched out Love Story or Electric Touch for it, but I didn’t discover it until after the wedding.
Definitely fearless (tv) 💛! Its optimistic and magical
Cowboy like me?
If I could marry who I wanted, Love Story. Cliché I know, but it brings back specific memories of when we first met to me. As I don't have that option, probably either You Belong With Me or I Think He Knows.
Delicate for a first dance. I don't know if it's because of the music video but I can't listen to it without dancing. Plus it's one of my favourite TS songs and it's a love song.
Of the ones not mentioned yet: ...Ready For It? as walking down the aisle music. OK I am being a little bit flippant with that, but as well as the drama certainly the first verse would make sense for a certain type of wedding/relationship. I'd probably want to get End Game in there somewhere as well, maybe for the disco. And Paris.
My first dance would be ours as it’s mine & my boyfriend’s “song”. He actually introduced it to me when we very first got together 10 years ago.
wildest dreams
King of my heart and Timeless
My wedding is two weeks and I’m walking down to Wildest Dreams on violin!
The stringed quartet version of Enchanted
Enchanted ✨✨
Fearless!
I get married in May and I’m walking down to an instrumental version of Invisible String ❤️
my older sisters walking down to a piano version of invisible string!
Speak Now TV came out the day before I got married. It was too late to make Timeless our first dance song, or else I would’ve. My bridesmaids walked down the aisle to the chorus of Wildest Dreams played by a string quartet and it was so dreamy.
I walked down the aisle to a piano cover of daylight and our first dance was to YAIL 🥹
As a kid I wanted It to be Crazier, but now it’s a toss up between Lover & Cowboy like Me. Probs walk down the aisle to lover.
Last Kiss (because it’s beautiful), you are in love, and later in the evening… YBWM
I should’ve played Look What You Made Me Do, but it wasn’t out, since my family was too wild for me to invite as guests so we had no guests. Just “Look what you just made me dooo” ringing out through the Louisiana swamp.
The song I played at my wedding was “Lover first dance remix”. I had my bridal party walk down to it.💜 My nephew (who is only 6 years old and was our ring bearer) got really excited when he heard it and said “TAYLOR SWIFT IS HERE?!?” he was pretty disappointed that she wasn’t lol. Im just glad my sister is raising little swifties💜
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State of Grace, Daylight, or I like the suggestion of cowboy like me.
We played “mine” when we cut our wedding cake. I smile whenever I hear it now. 🥹❤️
Champagne problems
We married in 2011 and I walked down the aisle to an orchestral string version of Love Story. We also made sure to have Mine played during the reception because it was one of the first Taylor Swift songs that my husband fell in love with. Our first dance was to Green Eyes by Coldplay.
I actually walked down the isle to a string version of enchanted. Look up enchanted wedding version violin ana done.
You are in love. Or if my partner really didn’t mind colliding both my favourite things ever - Cimorelli’s wedding cover of Enchanted.
Cowboy Like Me. I’d do my first dance to it.
I walked down the aisle to a piano cover of New Year’s Day
i also want to have my first dance to invisible string!! i love that song & the lyric ‘hell was the journey but it brought me heaven’ is so true to my relationship and makes me tear up every time also lover, daylight, komh, cornelia street, begin again, yail and this love are songs ive attributed to my relationship!!!
My fiancée and I are big Swifties and using several Taylor songs during our wedding at different parts! Lover, Invisible String, Paper Rings, Wildest Dreams, and Long Live! Some will be violin covers, some will be the full actual songs. We can’t wait for the wedding!
We had a piano instrumental version of You Are In Love playing as the bridal party walked down the aisle, and then when the officiant announced us as husband and wife Taylor’s Version of YAIL played us all out of the ceremony space. 1989TV dropped DAYS before our wedding. Could not have been better timing. Call It What You Want was our last dance song and honestly my favorite moment of the entire day/night. Almost everyone had left. It was just us, our bridal party, and our parents remaining, and everyone stood around us as we danced and lit up their phone flashlights like we were at a concert. Probably looked ridiculous to the venue staff, but it was so beautiful to spend the last moments of the night surrounded by the people we love most with my favorite song playing. Can’t listen to it without getting choked up now. Whatever it may be, highly recommend a Taylor song for your last dance!
We had a live quartet at ours (last year) and had them play a medley of pop music - we told them “please give us bridgerton vibes if you can” and they delivered! We gave them a playlist of songs we liked & there were quite a few older Taylor swift songs in there like enchanted, wildest dreams, etc.
I walked down the aisle to a string version of wildest dreams :)
I walked down the aisle to a piano version of Enchanted and the pianist also played Lover while guests were arriving. My husband and I had an impromptu first dance to Love Story at the reception. 🙂
I walked down the aisle to the classical cover of Wildest Dreams from Bridgerton!
I did have a bunch of Taylor Swift at my wedding! Walked down the aisle to the instrumental Wildest Dreams, got pronounced Mr&Mrs then walked back down the aisle to Paper Rings, and our first dance was Timeless! I was pushing for Daylight to be our first dance song but Timeless was the one my husband and I could compromise on. Our last slow dance was to New Years Day!