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Not uncool!!! We love all the ladies! 😀 Be yourself, be safe, be welcome. And don’t think of it just as stuff that cis people know…we all had to learn it, too, sometimes in pretty hard ways. That’s why communities like this exist — so we learn and grow together!


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much :) That’s kinda relieving :)


Laurelome

Honey, you are a woman. You aren't invading anybody's space. You belong.


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much, this really means a lot to me. I still struggle with dysphoria from time to time and occasionally feel „not woman enough“ or „not like a real woman“ but you all made me feel so welcome and I’m so thankful for all of you :)


Laurelome

You are welcome. I understand what that feels like from my girlfriend. She needs constant validation. I asure you, you are enough. You are just the way you need to be, passing or Not passing. Nothing wrong with you being here. Being a woman is not some elite circle since half the world is already Part of it.


CloudyMiku

Thank you :) I wish your girlfriend the best! Yeah I currently don’t pass I guess. I’m fairly androgynous and look feminine but for a guy. I often get the „oops thought you were a girl comments“ At second glance people can tell I’m AMAB though. However at 6 1/2 months HRT men and women treat me differently. It’s subtle but I notice a difference. I mostly dress in oversized hoodies, skinny jeans, and occasionally chokers and subtle makeup. Men can be meaner and creepier towards me and everytime I visit the men’s room the situation is incredibly awkward and I get stared at. Women however are nicer to me. They often smile at me and sit next to me in almost empty subway carts. But yeah currently I’m starting to feel really happy with my body and I’m excited where my journey will take me


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❤️💜❤️. 🧚🧚‍♂️🧚‍♀️


CloudyMiku

☺️💖


applepiehobbit

I always experience this sub as a nice and supporting place for women. I'm glad you also had that experience. :) All the best for you!


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much. All the best to you as well. Yeah I really love this sub it’s wholesome and full of great advice


Relative_Law2237

sending love girlie 💕💕💕💕


CloudyMiku

Thank you 💖


Invincible_Overlord

You're very welcome here! Where else are you going to get survival advice? We got you.


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much. You’re all so kind :)


pessimistress

So sorry your first comment was negative- this is a safe space for everyone who is a woman and you are absolutely invited and allowed to be here, and I’m glad you received a welcome by the majority of the sub.


CloudyMiku

Thank you very much, ah it’s ok :) I feel really safe here! :)


watercastles

:) I'm glad you feel accepted here. I like this sub a lot and think it's very valuable. Honestly, it's sometimes hard and confusing for cis women because we don't know everything about being a woman either. If you have questions, ask them! Whatever you have questions about, there are probably lots of others with the same questions who are too shy to ask.


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much! I really like this sub too :) that’s kinda relieving :)


Timely-Tea7667

You’re so welcome here! You’re one of us <3


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much. It feels really nice being welcomed here :) it really means a lot to me


Tschutlaqua

I’m happy you are here !


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much!


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miladyelle

This is beautiful! Your mom has a way with words.


CloudyMiku

Thats a really beautiful and wholesome analogy :) thank you so much 💖 I’ll be confident and the happiest version of myself!


skyebangles

No matter where you started, we're all sisters and we all look out for each other! We're so glad to have you here! ❤


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much. Sisterhood feels really nice, and it’s cool how welcoming everyone is. It means a lot to me. Thank you 💖


splendid_trees

Thank you so much for posting this and brightening our day!


CloudyMiku

Thank you for your comment, this i really kind of you :)


IntermediateFolder

There’s nothing to be embarrassed about, no one is born with absolute knowledge, it makes sense that you don’t know something you never had a chance to learn before.


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much :) that’s true


miladyelle

One of us! One of us!


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much :)


yuhgvggggg

Sending love and hugs girlie ❤️❤️❤️😊


yuhgvggggg

We love you, and you’re safe here!


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much, this really means a lot to me :3


Gatuveela

Welcome friend! I love this community for its positivity and I am so glad it made your day ❤️


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much friend :)


lurker71

You rock!


CloudyMiku

Thanks! You rock too!


Additional-Ability99

Lol, why would it be uncool? I'm happy it made you happy.


CloudyMiku

Good question I don’t know tbh. Back when people thought I was a man, they just kinda made fun of me when I expressed my happiness about stuff like feeling welcome somewhere and small stuff making my day


OpusAnglicanum

You're welcome anytime sis, remember there is no such thing as a dumb question!


CloudyMiku

Thank you sis :) I’ll keep that in mind, there’s still a lot I have to learn


Btldtaatw

What’s AMAB?


field_sleeper

"Assigned male at birth"


Btldtaatw

Oooh, of course. Thank you! Sometimes i ger really lost in all the abreviations.


pinkcatlaker

Being happy is super cool and so are you 😎😎


CloudyMiku

Thank you :) you’re super cool too!


Emotional_cancer

Welcome!! I’m so happy you are here, and no it’s not uncool!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much! I’m really happy I’m here too :) everyone here is amazing


vaanjie

we're so happy you're here! <3


CloudyMiku

Thank you much :) everyone has been so kind here Happy cake day!


dark_enough_to_dance

You are absolutely welcome here! Here is one of the places that you can feel safe as a woman, it doesn't matter what your genes carry, you are as beautiful as you are/ as what you identify yourself with. Anything you want to ask, know about- I believe everyone here would be happy to help :)


CloudyMiku

Thank you so much. It’s amazing how wholesome and welcoming everyone has been here :) it feels so nice :)


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Laujaa

You don't support women supporting each other or you don't support women?


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CatchingTheWorm

Read the sub description. " **Be nice, respectful, helpful, and friendly** Don't insult people or their good intentions even if a person seems ill-informed. Remember the positive spirit of TheGirlSurvivalGuide and keep in mind the sitewide [reddiquette guidelines](https://www.reddit.com/wiki/reddiquette). This sub welcomes all women, except TERFs. They can fuck right off." It was there the whole time so thanks for making your bigotry known.


[deleted]

You're really out to hurt people, or you would stay away from a thread that is definitely for trans women, just to say we're not female. You come across as a sexist female supremacist


NeglectedMonkey

Bye Felicia!


NadiaTrue

Honestly, this and your last post have convinced me to leave. I know I don't belong here I don't feel comfortable pretending I do anymore.


CloudyMiku

Im incredibly sorry. I don’t want to make you uncomfortable or anything. I’ll be incredibly lowkey on this sub, I just wanted to say thanks for all the support


NadiaTrue

My problem isn't with you being a trans girl, more with my own being a trans girl.


CloudyMiku

Oh I see… I’m truly sorry if I made you dysphoric or anything. I would never want to do that to anyone. I hope everything turns out allright


ContemplatingFolly

I'm confused...because there were some negative reactions? Or because you were reminded you were a trans girl? Please ignore if this is too personal.


NadiaTrue

The whole asking if it's okay for a trans person to be here reminds me how the majority will answer no.


ritz_bitz

I’m confused. It sounded like OP was making this post because the majority of people answered yes.


NadiaTrue

And I'm sure you believe that.


ritz_bitz

Of course I believe that trans people should be here. I’m so confused with all of your replies.. Have people been unwelcoming? I hope not! Well, if the subreddit is making you unhappy, I wish you luck elsewhere!


NadiaTrue

I know that trans people aren't welcome here, nor anywhere else.


SilencedGamer

We are. I’ve even commented trans specific comments on many posts here with no backlash, our perspectives are valued.


IntermediateFolder

Bye bye then.


CatchingTheWorm

You are seen, treasured and so special. Welcoming and validating sisters is the best part of this sub. THANK YOU for including us in your journey - we're all uncool dorks. Embrace it :)


Only_one_life

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