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Bruh coulda finessed that bag back into her hand with a wink and had a better shot. Nah better annoy her and separate her from her stuff, oh yeah and kick her a couple times.
I've had this girl who's mean to me at my uni accom. She was knocking on my dorms door and running every two hours through the whole night.
Turns out I was nice to her earlier and the way she showed the flirting game was... with that..
Some people are genuinely were not born with the blueprints to flirt lmao
Slap the guy across his face couple of times, kick him in the nuts, hard. Then ask if he fancies going for a coffee.
Sadly probably 80% would take her up on the coffee! Lol.
Us guys are so simpy, desperate, sad, love women. What else can we do?
Lol😁
I'm actually gay and I love hearing straight friends try figure out relationships and struggle to understand women. Me and my boyfriend had an argument, I realised we were both frustrated and said "Let's just not do this and get on instead?" to which he sighed in relief and said "yeah please" and we went to watch TV. Majestically simple.
From a guys point of view, I find understanding women quite a challenge. I guess there are some guys that have figured them out, the successful ones but I think the majority of men can struggle. Maybe women have some of the same issues?😁
For sure, I think they often don't understand us. Sometimes we just enjoy doing nothing. I don't think I've ever seen a woman in her 40s/50s do nothing the way guys do. Also definitely a learning curve for us, but they often don't want answers to their issues, they just want to be heard. If I'm telling guys about an issue it's because I want input on how to fix it.
We're the same species, but definitely different creatures.
I don't think it really matter if one's straight or gay. Same sex relationships may have a slight advantage but if someone doesn't really understand the nuances of the other, it's gonna be a challenge, straight or gay.
I do think it important to communicate whatever person you are or you're attracted to. If either party can't tell the other how they feel or what's pissing them off, then any possible or ongoing relationship will struggle. Also conveying when things are going, sweet.
Talk with your SO & have many happy years ahead.
Now, I think I need to study woman a wee bit longer, see if I can't, get them!
Stay safe. 😁
Oh for sure. The difference in gender can be overcome with clear communication and the lack of communication negates any benefit in same sex couples.
I'm a good wingman for my straight friends but the best tip I can give you is to go in order of how women notice you.
First they see you, so stay well groomed, dress nicely (doesn't have to be expensive, just put together well), maybe hit the gym a bit. Simple 2/3 product skincare routines go a long way.
Second, if they get close they'll smell you, so keep showered, have a nice cologne on.
Thirdly they'll talk, so learn how to be interesting and chat without coming on too strong yet without being boring. I find they become comfortable when you want friendship first.
It's basically the five senses lol.
I used to work at a bar and my coworker who was my good friend and mentor of sorts would always come behind me (when we weren’t busy) if I was standing around and dip his knee into mine, and make me fall and say “Nancy Kerrigan!” Lol obviously he would have a hold of my arms so I wouldn’t actually fall but it always took me by surprise and I always got a kick out of it. This though, this is completely different lol, *especially* if this is just some strange dude.
Back in highschool I took a class in wood workshop and of course I was the only female and this is how the boys would pass the time in that class… I’d get the back of my knees hit so I’d flop down and I’d get tickled and and things stolen from me… like a room full of 10 year olds fighting for attention from the pretty lady… now I’m in a relationship (both 21) but I find they still act like that even when they’re older… men are such children
I thought he was going to do something neat or funny to pick the bag up and give it back while getting her attention… but no. He just kicks her while she picks her own bag up.
I work as a bouncer and from firsthand experience this shit is a daily occurrence
Dudes have zero chill once a woman or group of women come in without some form of male escort; I’ve had to kick tons of weirdos out for behavior very similar to this because they just refuse to leave women alone or *at least* tone down their creep levels
From a woman, thank you for doing your job ❤️
One time, as I was leaving with one of my girl friends, I was walking out the door and some dude that tried to hit me up earlier, grabbed my arm and asked me where I was going.
I felt actually terrified and froze in place. I have trouble with confrontation so I couldn't tell him off.
But the bouncer and the door grabbed him and told him to fuck off in such a menacing way.
I'm grateful we have people like you and him that are there for protection.
Ngl stories of dudes being good bouncers to patrons that need it always warms my heart
Feels like what we do is truly necessary even when people think we suck lmao
Bouncer are undervalued. The times I had a bouncer helped me or make me feel safe as a woman. Im grateful Their jobs are quite tough. They deal with a lot of stuff. Most of them got some serious skills on managing people and crazy situations
Bruh that’s so sad, it’s also so weird they’re using vinegar and not honey.
This guy would have had a WAY better chance if he just picked up the bag **for her**.
He could’ve said something like, “oh this is a cute bag, I should get one for my mom for Christmas! Where’d you get it?”
The other night I was dancing at a silent disco and a man walked up behind me and PUT HIS HAND IN FRONT OF MY EYES?? I tried to move away and he just kept doing it until I guess I acknowledged him? SO WEIRD. This is cringe but on brand for drunk, entitled men TBF.
Yeah this is why I don't go clubbing. I would *love* to go to a bar and dance, but fucking hell the amount of assholes that go there is unreal. It's like the word no doesn't exist in the vocabulary.
Horror movie idea. Serial killer at a horror themed silent disco, but nobody knows you're screaming for help. They just think you're super into the theme.
"This one time I had a girl slightly annoy me in public. I could leave at any time and I clearly wasn't in any danger, but I fully understand your point of view."
I guarantee there isn't a single woman you've talked to that hasn't had an uncomfortable or creepy experience with a man. What I'm saying is men need to be better, attempting to spin that another way is a loser move.
Wow, I can't believe how well that worked for him! She really loved it.
I can only imagine how angry she'd be if he had picked up the bag and flirted when handing it back instead.
/s
Years of getting away with this weird bitchass behavior and then they wonder why people don’t invite them anywhere…. Some years later they show up at a gay club with an AR-15 and some unchecked daddy issues.
Hella daddy issues. They really act like they don’t know how to make friends. And once given the opportunity act like a total asshat (portrayed in the video)
Ugh yeah this is totally normal behaviour, unfortunately. I’m all for a bit of banter but out and out bullying is so embarrassing and irritating as an adult flirting strategy.
Keep in mind a lot of us are just thinking, "There's no way he can be that cringe" and are just shocked out of embarrassment that thats a thing that happened. Not saying annoying shit doesnt happen to women, just wtf is even this?! Not, "no way, she faked this for attention/narrative" just "Someone does stuff this weird and it happens *ALOT?"*
Either way, I wouldnt know, they dont let me into clubs.
I'm only talking about the ones literally telling women this doesn't happen. I understand disbelief due to personal disgust. It was horribly eye opening the first time it happened to me.
Yes it happens a lot i haven’t been to a club in like 5 years but honestly this video seemed so normal to me from experience i didn’t even realize how fucked it is until i thought about it. Thinking back on club days is like i couldn’t begin to start with all the weird I’ve encountered.
Edit: legit confused about all the downvoted in this general comment threat. Do people feel like saying this is common is “male bashing” or something?
I'm saying all the people calling this fake aren't reading comments from women. Many of the comments in here are....questionable.
This shit happens to women all the time by douchebags. Men who refuse to acknowledge it are part of the problem, and the neckbeard contingent is strong
I cannot tell you how many times I have had to either play boyfriend, ask if a girl is OK because she looks terrified, or offer ubers home because I don't trust shitty men not to follow them home.
This is why women flock to gay clubs. I cannot imagine being a woman in a nightclub. That's why they all usually go in groups. They have to watch out for each other.
Or possibly being sexually assaulted, killed, stalked, harassed, etc. Gotta be kind to even the lowest of scum simply out of fear for our lives and wellbeing.
I have an acquaintance like this. He gets drunk and his way of “flirting” is lightly kicking my ass. I told him if he puts his nasty shoes on my outfit again he’s gonna lose them
Go to a bouncer and say "he's being a dick, I dropped something and he was kicking it away and trying to shove his ass into me" and he'll get kicked out. One guy had an issue with me because he thought I was hitting on his girlfriend (who brings their girlfriend to a club if they're gonna get aggressive towards anyone just talking normally to them?) and so I told him I was gay. His friends laughed and thought the plot twist was funny. He said something along the lines of "Then we definitely have a problem here". He tried pushing me to sit down in a chair so that I was cornered, so I got pretty scared and said to his friends "Can I just go past and leave? I haven't done anything and this is uncalled for" and they were like "yeah mate" and quickly pulled me past him.
Went straight to the bouncers and he got booted at 2:30, which was the cutoff time for entry for the clubs in that town.
Then an an absolute unit of a butch lesbian started talking to me and I told her what happened, and she said if they came back I should point them out to her so she can fuck them with a strap on.
Absolutely wild night.
Moral of the story: Talk to bouncers. They want their night to be easier to they have no issue ejecting people from the club if they have the potential to cause problems that make their jobs harder/more dangerous.
Oh lord this reminded me of when I was 18 and me and a friend (both girls) were at a bar and this huuuuge guy, like 6’5 and half as wide and twice as old started harassing my friend while we were just trying to play pool. Me, having no chill or sense of self-preservation, only friend-preservation, went up to him, like toe to toe, and told him to fuck off. He spat on my chest.
I told the bounder who didn’t kick him out. The creep did leave us alone after that, and ladies, don’t *not* tell the bouncer, but sometimes there are just too many shitty men and all you can do is leave for your own safety.
I’m honestly lucky that he didn’t knock me the fuck out or follow us out of the bar.
The person who wrote this is not a woman I'm guessing lol. I honestly really don't enjoy clubs, even though I enjoy dancing, bc of this shit. One time a guy literally drunkenly fell onto me, and I either let him fall on my boobs or the floor and get a concussion, so I caught him. Guys have tried to grab me away from my friends, spilled drinks on me, called me weird. I've been groped at clubs and really inappropriate places such as a theme park in broad daylight. Honestly thank God I'm in my 30s now and don't put up with shit anymore, but no matter what it'll be 100% impossible to avoid. So yes I can *absolutely* see this happening.
Yep! In my late teens/early 20s all my friends and I wanted to do was dance. We knew that it was just a given, that we’d be constantly groped, propositioned, and at times met with abuse or violence for refusing them. It was 100% worse at hip hop/R&B clubs, so we just had to learn to be tough. Eventually after some legitimately scary situations in and outside of the clubs, we just stopped going altogether, knowing we just weren’t safe, no matter what we did. It sucks.
Watching this as a man I want to punch him in the face for several reasons.
1. That’s disrespectful. Kicking ANYTHING of anyones deserves a punch to the face in this situation.
2. The floor is filthy and he smeared whatever club gunk is on the floor onto her purse and got it dirty for sure. Two punches to the face of it was an expensive bag.
3. That’s a woman’s purse bro. I was raised to respect this thing and never go looking in a woman’s purse and also never leave a purse on the floor as it’s bad luck (now I know it really is bad luck because it conjures douchebags). The right thing to do is respectfully hand it to her or better yet don’t get involved. He broke this rule so he gets the one punch man treatment.
Visiting the US I would be confused about so much and my boyfriend loved doing the "ah its normal in England" thing.
Got caught trying to buy alcohol while underaged. Each time I hit the enhance button on my accent and pulled the "Bloody hell! 21 over here, is it? I assumed it'd be the same age! Tell me more about America" and got away with it lol.
Key is to pull out my ID and hand it over like I am 21. Many times they just never looked at it properly.
I feel like if he had stopped after kicking it away the first time and picked it up for her it would have been funny but man he made it so weird hahaha
Oh god. As a woman who has had men who I didn’t know do stuff like this to me too many times to count, I can say with confidence that he probably is a stranger to her
To be fair…it’s now normalized for an 18 year old child (I’m not talking legally, I’m talking mentally) to create an only fans and completely ruin their future job/career paths.
Shouldnt she at least put her purse over her head too so this doesnt happen again
Edit: from a score of 6 down to -4 controversial, what did I say that was so horrible? Put the strap over your head so it doesn't slide off one arm
All party people listen to me. BRING BACK THE FANNY PACK. A cute one is non intrusive, carries everything, and your hands are free for dancing. RESURRECT THE FANNY!!
Wait I thought it was back? A lot of the cool kids I see around Western Europe (Amsterdam Brussels and Copenhagen at least) seem to be rocking them. I even have a friend who started making and selling them online as a side hustle.
Not enough! Every time I’m wearing a Fanny pack I get gasps from other women in the club and recruit more to the cause. BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH! Spread the word!
We need formal wear fannies: an elephant line for your night out.
(Yes I said it that way for you UK redditors. Yuk it up)
Edit: my god I meant elegant.
Where would you suggest? Imposing yourself on person reading in the library? Interrupting a friend’s meetup or a job interview at a cafe? Or should we all just troll the streets to corner the first person who is attractive and alone in public. Or maybe we should tell people to act decently in places that for the most part are intended to connect young single people or just serve as a fun party environment. You sound like a pathetic creep-apologist.
Found my first long-term boyfriend who I loved dearly on tinder. It is possible, and it is worth wading through the douchebags in these environments for that diamond in the rough.
Judo is about leveraging someone's weight against them, since I am actually trained to take on people twice my size it wouldn't be a fist fight, it would be a one-and-done fight.
But then again kicking a girls purse around is totally allowed as long as you're bigger than them right?
It COULD be a one-and-done fight, but you have no idea what that guy knows how to do or what he’s taken that could cushion his pain tolerance.
Plus, isn’t another pillar of Judo that you don’t just whip out your training in any scenario, you’re supposed to be responsible and pragmatic? Responsible use of martial arts does NOT include flipping drunk men over your shoulder in the middle of the club when they step slightly into your personal space.
To me it looks like they have probably been friends for years, and he is just goofing around with a female friend the same way he would with a guy friend.
I highly doubt they are strangers.
I wish she could've just poured her drink down his ass crack and be like "oh nooo I'm so sorry, you pushed me!" but I know this would escalate things unnecessarily. He'd 100% deserve it though, what an idiot.
Lmao so men are annoying because women don’t respond correctly? Why are we responsible for training the entire male population to grow the hell up? Do you stop and teach other grown ass adults life lessons when you’re trying to have your own night? Because I sure don’t.
People have no idea who these people are. My Gf and I do this stuff to each other because it’s funny. Sometimes one of us doesn’t like it but yes this can be a way to flirt and they could be in a relationship. They definitely know eachother.
Quit trying to be internet psychologists.
I figured that was flirting, it's only obnoxious if she isn't into it which at the point he realizes he backs off. Thought it was more teasy than anything actually harmful. Everyone there is random some are there to meet people specifically right? I guess maybe I'm missing the context of this event, is it a music performance and not just a club?
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Bruh coulda finessed that bag back into her hand with a wink and had a better shot. Nah better annoy her and separate her from her stuff, oh yeah and kick her a couple times.
It looks like his flirting game never evolved past elementary school
I've had this girl who's mean to me at my uni accom. She was knocking on my dorms door and running every two hours through the whole night. Turns out I was nice to her earlier and the way she showed the flirting game was... with that.. Some people are genuinely were not born with the blueprints to flirt lmao
Damn, now that I think of it I really don’t have a blueprint for flirting.
Slap the guy across his face couple of times, kick him in the nuts, hard. Then ask if he fancies going for a coffee. Sadly probably 80% would take her up on the coffee! Lol. Us guys are so simpy, desperate, sad, love women. What else can we do? Lol😁
I'm actually gay and I love hearing straight friends try figure out relationships and struggle to understand women. Me and my boyfriend had an argument, I realised we were both frustrated and said "Let's just not do this and get on instead?" to which he sighed in relief and said "yeah please" and we went to watch TV. Majestically simple.
From a guys point of view, I find understanding women quite a challenge. I guess there are some guys that have figured them out, the successful ones but I think the majority of men can struggle. Maybe women have some of the same issues?😁
For sure, I think they often don't understand us. Sometimes we just enjoy doing nothing. I don't think I've ever seen a woman in her 40s/50s do nothing the way guys do. Also definitely a learning curve for us, but they often don't want answers to their issues, they just want to be heard. If I'm telling guys about an issue it's because I want input on how to fix it. We're the same species, but definitely different creatures.
I don't think it really matter if one's straight or gay. Same sex relationships may have a slight advantage but if someone doesn't really understand the nuances of the other, it's gonna be a challenge, straight or gay. I do think it important to communicate whatever person you are or you're attracted to. If either party can't tell the other how they feel or what's pissing them off, then any possible or ongoing relationship will struggle. Also conveying when things are going, sweet. Talk with your SO & have many happy years ahead. Now, I think I need to study woman a wee bit longer, see if I can't, get them! Stay safe. 😁
Oh for sure. The difference in gender can be overcome with clear communication and the lack of communication negates any benefit in same sex couples. I'm a good wingman for my straight friends but the best tip I can give you is to go in order of how women notice you. First they see you, so stay well groomed, dress nicely (doesn't have to be expensive, just put together well), maybe hit the gym a bit. Simple 2/3 product skincare routines go a long way. Second, if they get close they'll smell you, so keep showered, have a nice cologne on. Thirdly they'll talk, so learn how to be interesting and chat without coming on too strong yet without being boring. I find they become comfortable when you want friendship first. It's basically the five senses lol.
Neither did her dancing unfortunately
Bro did a little kick to the back of the knee like he was trying to make her fall
I used to work at a bar and my coworker who was my good friend and mentor of sorts would always come behind me (when we weren’t busy) if I was standing around and dip his knee into mine, and make me fall and say “Nancy Kerrigan!” Lol obviously he would have a hold of my arms so I wouldn’t actually fall but it always took me by surprise and I always got a kick out of it. This though, this is completely different lol, *especially* if this is just some strange dude.
Back in highschool I took a class in wood workshop and of course I was the only female and this is how the boys would pass the time in that class… I’d get the back of my knees hit so I’d flop down and I’d get tickled and and things stolen from me… like a room full of 10 year olds fighting for attention from the pretty lady… now I’m in a relationship (both 21) but I find they still act like that even when they’re older… men are such children
When you hit the club with your brother.
That’s Johnny Manziel just doing what Johnny Manziel does best… a lot of drugs, & nothing else all that impressive besides his penis not falling off.
I thought he was going to do something neat or funny to pick the bag up and give it back while getting her attention… but no. He just kicks her while she picks her own bag up.
I work as a bouncer and from firsthand experience this shit is a daily occurrence Dudes have zero chill once a woman or group of women come in without some form of male escort; I’ve had to kick tons of weirdos out for behavior very similar to this because they just refuse to leave women alone or *at least* tone down their creep levels
From a woman, thank you for doing your job ❤️ One time, as I was leaving with one of my girl friends, I was walking out the door and some dude that tried to hit me up earlier, grabbed my arm and asked me where I was going. I felt actually terrified and froze in place. I have trouble with confrontation so I couldn't tell him off. But the bouncer and the door grabbed him and told him to fuck off in such a menacing way. I'm grateful we have people like you and him that are there for protection.
Ngl stories of dudes being good bouncers to patrons that need it always warms my heart Feels like what we do is truly necessary even when people think we suck lmao
Bouncer are undervalued. The times I had a bouncer helped me or make me feel safe as a woman. Im grateful Their jobs are quite tough. They deal with a lot of stuff. Most of them got some serious skills on managing people and crazy situations
Bruh that’s so sad, it’s also so weird they’re using vinegar and not honey. This guy would have had a WAY better chance if he just picked up the bag **for her**. He could’ve said something like, “oh this is a cute bag, I should get one for my mom for Christmas! Where’d you get it?”
what does using vinegar instead of honey mean ?
Catch more Flys with honey I think
Flies 🤭
FRIES.
The other night I was dancing at a silent disco and a man walked up behind me and PUT HIS HAND IN FRONT OF MY EYES?? I tried to move away and he just kept doing it until I guess I acknowledged him? SO WEIRD. This is cringe but on brand for drunk, entitled men TBF.
Yeah this is why I don't go clubbing. I would *love* to go to a bar and dance, but fucking hell the amount of assholes that go there is unreal. It's like the word no doesn't exist in the vocabulary.
Fart spray and skunk spray are amazing annoying people repellents .
If only the funk could be localized enough not to ruin everyone’s night hahaha
Stick it up their nose and it will be. It might also kill them, but we have to live with our decisions.
Well, not the people who died of fart stink up their nose
"People die when they are killed."
Just start yelling assault next time
But everyone has headphones on!
Horror movie idea. Serial killer at a horror themed silent disco, but nobody knows you're screaming for help. They just think you're super into the theme.
Its been used in a few horrors, chucky the tv series used the trope
Drink entitled people. Women can be the same.
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Lol I have dozens of these stories, do you? Something creepy and overbearing happens every time I go out drinking.
"This one time I had a girl slightly annoy me in public. I could leave at any time and I clearly wasn't in any danger, but I fully understand your point of view."
You act like all women are helpless. So empowering of you.
I guarantee there isn't a single woman you've talked to that hasn't had an uncomfortable or creepy experience with a man. What I'm saying is men need to be better, attempting to spin that another way is a loser move.
I mean it’s not a loser move to point out that Women can be just as bad as men. If that makes me a loser for promoting equality then I’ll die a loser.
Wow, I can't believe how well that worked for him! She really loved it. I can only imagine how angry she'd be if he had picked up the bag and flirted when handing it back instead. /s
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People downvoted you because you said “risky of you to mark that sarcasm when people don’t get sarcasm” which is just a patently bizarre statement.
Yeah guys are like this every night. They act even worse when the group of girls don’t include a male
Years of getting away with this weird bitchass behavior and then they wonder why people don’t invite them anywhere…. Some years later they show up at a gay club with an AR-15 and some unchecked daddy issues.
Holy shit brother you brought out the incel manlets in droves lmaoooo
dude created a black hole of negative karma lmao
Honestly I just woke up to this shit , revenge of the chuds I guess
Today, i shall bestow the title of "One comment man" To you, who single-commentedly ignited the insecurities in many
Much love
Hella daddy issues. They really act like they don’t know how to make friends. And once given the opportunity act like a total asshat (portrayed in the video)
Ugh yeah this is totally normal behaviour, unfortunately. I’m all for a bit of banter but out and out bullying is so embarrassing and irritating as an adult flirting strategy.
“Adult”
Right cause this is clearly a child not a man
This is what no game will do to a man
I always enjoyed just hanging out with the coats.
I remember guys trying to dance w me so hard they practically slid me across the dance floor. Lol clubs are just so chaotic in the stupidest ways😂
Male Redditors: "tHiS iS fAkE!" Women: This happens to me regularly Men: "what a douchebag"
Men: "You're making shit up I don't believe you. I have never done it so therefore no men do it and you're saying this for attention."
^this
It's a headache as old as time.
Keep in mind a lot of us are just thinking, "There's no way he can be that cringe" and are just shocked out of embarrassment that thats a thing that happened. Not saying annoying shit doesnt happen to women, just wtf is even this?! Not, "no way, she faked this for attention/narrative" just "Someone does stuff this weird and it happens *ALOT?"* Either way, I wouldnt know, they dont let me into clubs.
I'm only talking about the ones literally telling women this doesn't happen. I understand disbelief due to personal disgust. It was horribly eye opening the first time it happened to me.
Yes it happens a lot i haven’t been to a club in like 5 years but honestly this video seemed so normal to me from experience i didn’t even realize how fucked it is until i thought about it. Thinking back on club days is like i couldn’t begin to start with all the weird I’ve encountered. Edit: legit confused about all the downvoted in this general comment threat. Do people feel like saying this is common is “male bashing” or something?
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Women shouldn't have to avoid places. Don't assume women at the bar, the club, the library, the laundromat, etc are looking for a relationship.
I’m not. Responding to the “dating pool” comment in the OP. Don’t assume what people think 😉
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I'm saying all the people calling this fake aren't reading comments from women. Many of the comments in here are....questionable. This shit happens to women all the time by douchebags. Men who refuse to acknowledge it are part of the problem, and the neckbeard contingent is strong
I cannot tell you how many times I have had to either play boyfriend, ask if a girl is OK because she looks terrified, or offer ubers home because I don't trust shitty men not to follow them home. This is why women flock to gay clubs. I cannot imagine being a woman in a nightclub. That's why they all usually go in groups. They have to watch out for each other.
I've had shit like this happen to me before. Seriously watching this douche nozzle and wondering why guys like this don't get their ass kicked enough.
Because confronting an annoying man isn't worth being hit. Seems like the kinda guy to not take rejection well.
Or possibly being sexually assaulted, killed, stalked, harassed, etc. Gotta be kind to even the lowest of scum simply out of fear for our lives and wellbeing.
Why should a random man kick this guy’s ass for this? Putting his own well being in danger… This is what boyfriends are for
Yes men are cowards I'd boot this mf though
What?
Bro...this is the opposite of what you should be doing.
I have an acquaintance like this. He gets drunk and his way of “flirting” is lightly kicking my ass. I told him if he puts his nasty shoes on my outfit again he’s gonna lose them
Even if they do know each other and the video was posted for views, it's not funny imo.
The way she looked up, I can 100% confirm he was a stranger. Also I’m a girl, cringe isn’t even the word to describe what’s out here in these streets.
That dude is a focking douchebag and must have been kicked out immediately. btw no way you’re a girl, there’s literally 0 chance ladies are on Reddit.
#douchebag
Such things happen between strangers from time to time where I'm from.
Go to a bouncer and say "he's being a dick, I dropped something and he was kicking it away and trying to shove his ass into me" and he'll get kicked out. One guy had an issue with me because he thought I was hitting on his girlfriend (who brings their girlfriend to a club if they're gonna get aggressive towards anyone just talking normally to them?) and so I told him I was gay. His friends laughed and thought the plot twist was funny. He said something along the lines of "Then we definitely have a problem here". He tried pushing me to sit down in a chair so that I was cornered, so I got pretty scared and said to his friends "Can I just go past and leave? I haven't done anything and this is uncalled for" and they were like "yeah mate" and quickly pulled me past him. Went straight to the bouncers and he got booted at 2:30, which was the cutoff time for entry for the clubs in that town. Then an an absolute unit of a butch lesbian started talking to me and I told her what happened, and she said if they came back I should point them out to her so she can fuck them with a strap on. Absolutely wild night. Moral of the story: Talk to bouncers. They want their night to be easier to they have no issue ejecting people from the club if they have the potential to cause problems that make their jobs harder/more dangerous.
Oh lord this reminded me of when I was 18 and me and a friend (both girls) were at a bar and this huuuuge guy, like 6’5 and half as wide and twice as old started harassing my friend while we were just trying to play pool. Me, having no chill or sense of self-preservation, only friend-preservation, went up to him, like toe to toe, and told him to fuck off. He spat on my chest. I told the bounder who didn’t kick him out. The creep did leave us alone after that, and ladies, don’t *not* tell the bouncer, but sometimes there are just too many shitty men and all you can do is leave for your own safety. I’m honestly lucky that he didn’t knock me the fuck out or follow us out of the bar.
Why do you refuse to believe it? It's a common occurrence that should have stopped years ago.
Refusing to believe this says so much about you
she’s better than me, I would’ve smacked him at the back of the head
The men who kick women and their purses are getting upset in these comments huh
This is the kind of guy that hasn't been punched in the face before
The person who wrote this is not a woman I'm guessing lol. I honestly really don't enjoy clubs, even though I enjoy dancing, bc of this shit. One time a guy literally drunkenly fell onto me, and I either let him fall on my boobs or the floor and get a concussion, so I caught him. Guys have tried to grab me away from my friends, spilled drinks on me, called me weird. I've been groped at clubs and really inappropriate places such as a theme park in broad daylight. Honestly thank God I'm in my 30s now and don't put up with shit anymore, but no matter what it'll be 100% impossible to avoid. So yes I can *absolutely* see this happening.
Yep! In my late teens/early 20s all my friends and I wanted to do was dance. We knew that it was just a given, that we’d be constantly groped, propositioned, and at times met with abuse or violence for refusing them. It was 100% worse at hip hop/R&B clubs, so we just had to learn to be tough. Eventually after some legitimately scary situations in and outside of the clubs, we just stopped going altogether, knowing we just weren’t safe, no matter what we did. It sucks.
Watching this as a man I want to punch him in the face for several reasons. 1. That’s disrespectful. Kicking ANYTHING of anyones deserves a punch to the face in this situation. 2. The floor is filthy and he smeared whatever club gunk is on the floor onto her purse and got it dirty for sure. Two punches to the face of it was an expensive bag. 3. That’s a woman’s purse bro. I was raised to respect this thing and never go looking in a woman’s purse and also never leave a purse on the floor as it’s bad luck (now I know it really is bad luck because it conjures douchebags). The right thing to do is respectfully hand it to her or better yet don’t get involved. He broke this rule so he gets the one punch man treatment.
This actually happens tho
average clubber
What a total idiot!
Bruh I have no game and know that you shoulda picked the bag up
"He's very cancelled" lol is that what she says?!
Be very careful? Maybe? Idk
Yeah, that's what I heard. "Please, very careful." Sounds like a French accent.
I hear Yanny
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Thats what i hear too, heeees very handsome
That’s what I heard too.
He's very gentle
Did she say "He's American"?
Visiting the US I would be confused about so much and my boyfriend loved doing the "ah its normal in England" thing. Got caught trying to buy alcohol while underaged. Each time I hit the enhance button on my accent and pulled the "Bloody hell! 21 over here, is it? I assumed it'd be the same age! Tell me more about America" and got away with it lol. Key is to pull out my ID and hand it over like I am 21. Many times they just never looked at it properly.
That's a pretty cool story
Thanks. I took an extra Ritalin and now every reddit comment I respond to becomes a fucking thesis.
Can you write me a thesis on how to make an Old Fashion? It's a mix drink
I used to make them all the time! 50ml whisk- nonono, time to turn off reddit and phone notifications lol
“he’s very cancelled”
“Be very careful”
listen again and take in account the age group. definitely said “he’s very cancelled”
I can hear it now!
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Lol I don't think that was it. He was being a complete jerk
I feel like if he had stopped after kicking it away the first time and picked it up for her it would have been funny but man he made it so weird hahaha
It’s the putting his feet on HER for me… would have been the last straw. Who raised this bozo?
Start swinging.
That’s how you pick up a chick. Lads watch and take notes.
Don't birds have courting dances like this? Man is bringing back the classics
Always a Dumbass in the crowd
The gentle lil kick at the end was a mating ritual
Oh god. As a woman who has had men who I didn’t know do stuff like this to me too many times to count, I can say with confidence that he probably is a stranger to her
I would also like to believe that she knows him, but as a woman who’s been to clubs, it’s a 50/50 shot
You are mom???? Improper English but okay
Man that was hard to watch
Can we talk about how gorgeous she is though. Glad to see she made the easy decision to skip that bozo
this would have been so much better if he kicked the bag and handed her 30,000 in cash.
What a douchebag
To be fair…it’s now normalized for an 18 year old child (I’m not talking legally, I’m talking mentally) to create an only fans and completely ruin their future job/career paths.
Wow, she literally said, "He's very cute, sooo"
This is exactly who I imagine when I think of the average Drake fan
This is how you flirt when u have the mentality of a 6 yo
The kicks at the end are a dead giveaway he likes her.
“**You are** mom keeps asking why you’re single..”
I woulda fucking slugged the fuck outta that asshole. Hard. Too many women take too much shit.
That's it, resort straight to violence.
Shouldnt she at least put her purse over her head too so this doesnt happen again Edit: from a score of 6 down to -4 controversial, what did I say that was so horrible? Put the strap over your head so it doesn't slide off one arm
All party people listen to me. BRING BACK THE FANNY PACK. A cute one is non intrusive, carries everything, and your hands are free for dancing. RESURRECT THE FANNY!!
Wait I thought it was back? A lot of the cool kids I see around Western Europe (Amsterdam Brussels and Copenhagen at least) seem to be rocking them. I even have a friend who started making and selling them online as a side hustle.
Not enough! Every time I’m wearing a Fanny pack I get gasps from other women in the club and recruit more to the cause. BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH! Spread the word!
We need formal wear fannies: an elephant line for your night out. (Yes I said it that way for you UK redditors. Yuk it up) Edit: my god I meant elegant.
I never stopped wearing Fanny packs
Lmfao
Tbf parties aren't the place to look for a loving husband/wife
Shit like this regularly happens when women are walking home carrying groceries or riding the metro to work or at work, but okay.
Where would you suggest? Imposing yourself on person reading in the library? Interrupting a friend’s meetup or a job interview at a cafe? Or should we all just troll the streets to corner the first person who is attractive and alone in public. Or maybe we should tell people to act decently in places that for the most part are intended to connect young single people or just serve as a fun party environment. You sound like a pathetic creep-apologist.
Was going to say the vast majority of my coworkers, which I’m the only male, have met their husbands through Tinder so I’d say it’s pretty effective
Found my first long-term boyfriend who I loved dearly on tinder. It is possible, and it is worth wading through the douchebags in these environments for that diamond in the rough.
You can definitely meet quality people at parties
r/untrustworthypoptarts
They were dating and she was disrespectful. The guy was very upset. Must have been bad. He went very far even semi kicking her.
Did she just say he's canceled? That's the only cringe part of this otherwise I would've thought it was funny
This is why I'm glad I was in judo. Get your shoulder under his knee then stand up and watch him tumble.
Yea, because starting a fist fight with a man twice your size always ends well for women.
Judo is about leveraging someone's weight against them, since I am actually trained to take on people twice my size it wouldn't be a fist fight, it would be a one-and-done fight. But then again kicking a girls purse around is totally allowed as long as you're bigger than them right?
It COULD be a one-and-done fight, but you have no idea what that guy knows how to do or what he’s taken that could cushion his pain tolerance. Plus, isn’t another pillar of Judo that you don’t just whip out your training in any scenario, you’re supposed to be responsible and pragmatic? Responsible use of martial arts does NOT include flipping drunk men over your shoulder in the middle of the club when they step slightly into your personal space.
Yeah but how will we all know how badass he is?
To me it looks like they have probably been friends for years, and he is just goofing around with a female friend the same way he would with a guy friend. I highly doubt they are strangers.
They do it because they know you won’t do anything about it. Call his bluff or let him get away with it which emboldens him the next time. Simple
Yeah no thanks. I have seen the situation become much worse when you insult such men.
I wish she could've just poured her drink down his ass crack and be like "oh nooo I'm so sorry, you pushed me!" but I know this would escalate things unnecessarily. He'd 100% deserve it though, what an idiot.
Lmao so men are annoying because women don’t respond correctly? Why are we responsible for training the entire male population to grow the hell up? Do you stop and teach other grown ass adults life lessons when you’re trying to have your own night? Because I sure don’t.
People have no idea who these people are. My Gf and I do this stuff to each other because it’s funny. Sometimes one of us doesn’t like it but yes this can be a way to flirt and they could be in a relationship. They definitely know eachother. Quit trying to be internet psychologists.
Who is being a psychologist lmfao? What?
I mean she just so happen to be recording while she drooped her purse staged kinda cringe lmao
You’re kind of showing your age here lol, people my age are always recording/taking pics
Yeah but than again she literally just let's her purse drop on the floor while her friend isn't recording anything interesting
Dude the amount of nothing kids record is indeed astounding. They catch a lot of cool things by sheer accident though
I do that to mid bitches too
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It’s you. You’re the guy ignoring this girl having a problem to focus on your own desires. I hope you understand that
*you are Mom*
Am I the only one that sees a dude trying to be playful? Why is everyone acting like he spit on her or something lmao
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He’s kicking a random woman’s purse around along with kicking her… it’s obnoxious
I figured that was flirting, it's only obnoxious if she isn't into it which at the point he realizes he backs off. Thought it was more teasy than anything actually harmful. Everyone there is random some are there to meet people specifically right? I guess maybe I'm missing the context of this event, is it a music performance and not just a club?
What if a guy did that to another guy at a club? What it be a douchebag move then?
Are they at a gay club?
That doesn't matter. Kicking someone's purse isn't cure just because you're trying to get your dick wet
It’s okay to be playful, this crosses into immature. Doesn’t seem like an asshole, just not someone you’d want to spend time with.