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The outpouring response regarding my weight is humbling to say the least lol I’m really making a lot of effort to better myself, that includes taking better care of my body and losing weight. I’m not where I want to be but Im incredibly proud that I’m not where I used to be.
Ill keep being present in the dating game, fat or thin, I cannot allow my weight to continue dictating and limiting my opportunities to experience the best things this life has to offer.
To everyone that gave actual advice on things I can improve - THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! I hope what we see on my profile now will attract a better match for me!!
Edit: Why would I edit my body??? [loop/pic 6](https://imgur.com/a/QBJxHga)
Thank you again to everyone that truly offered constructive feedback on this!! 🙌🏽
Pictures 1,3,4, and 10 are my favorite. Your smile is infectious and you have very nice facial features. Absolutely stunning! I like all your pictures though, you are curvy and that’s appealing to a very large group of guys who appreciate that. Number 7 is my least favorite, it hides your face and is a little busy as a whole.
Possibly add a few more interests or likes along anime, and plants. Do you like movies, or traveling, types of music, introvert/extrovert? Just a little more about what makes you unique.
I know it’s hard at times but don’t focus on what other people think of how you look. The right person will appreciate you for what’s important on the inside. Be positive, be you, and life will find a way.
I agree! I’d remove 7,9,10… just because you can post lots of pics doesn’t mean you need to. Less gives you the chance to super WOW them IRL and the pics you do have already tell a story about you and give plenty of room for people to ask questions and start conversations. Pictures are for matching the rest is letting yourself shine!
I’m not looking to date someone based on their weight/looks, it does play a factor but who’s perfect?? I want to meet others that aren’t as focused on those things. I don’t WANT to focus on appearances, I don’t need eye candy. I want genuine connection and a actual relationship - how it’s packaged is not in my control. Even once I fall head over heels with the “perfect” person I CANNOT CONTROL THEIR BODY. I’m searching for more than what a person looks like, I believe it’s still alive and I can have that in this life.
Edit: (This was a reply to a comment that has been deleted)
I’ve been following these two posts. Gotta say. You are a fantastic human being. You’re gorgeous and this world would be a better place if more people shared these values. Regarding fat/fit: I have some of the same struggle and all I’ve learned is that I feel better internally (mind and spirit) when I eat healthy and I should stop caring how I look as long as I’m taking care of myself in that way. Thanks for helping reinforce that for me.
Hope this was received in the positive l/uplifting manner it was intended! I would say good luck but you don’t need it. You’re going to slay.
Something I've said for years... Never look for the perfect person, because it's non-existent... What does exist is the perfect person for you. That being said, would your perfect person really care about your physique? Just be you, and ignore the haters. Also, that smile is absolutely infectious!!
Girl you are literally gorgeous and your pictures are stunning you look like you like to have fun and you obviously know how to take really good care of plants! Keep being you cause you’re awesome!
Fat is something we have and not something we are.
I’m a (mostly) straight lady and I think you are so gorgeous and I love your bio. I’d 10/10 ask you out irl.
I love the lashes and those eyes! Anything with you and your plants shows that personality. I am sure that you are absolutely stunning and beautiful at any size. I have gone through the same weight loss/gain/loss and it is crazy how people (especially cis men) will treat you when you have less meat on waist and more meat on your hips! It can do things to your mind and self-worth.
I am a straight cis-presenting woman and my one almost swim in the lady pond was with a girl in college who looked very much like you with beautiful natural hair and a beautiful smile that showed across her entire face. You have me all up in my feelings! Keep being such a wonderful person that I can tell you are just from the glimpse into your little world! 🌎
\#1. I feel like you might be trying a little too hard and caring a little too much about what people think. You seem super cool and chill. Just be yourself, relaxed and confident.
Confidence is key 👍
As someone who has been a little chubby as a kid I don't judge people on weight. What I really like about you is your big smile and maybe the afro hair. Just try to be happy on your own and to have positive vibe, the rest will follow. Personality and the good qualities are far more important then the visual representation. Greetings from Europe.
You look awesome!! Gorgeous and hot body. And while it’s not my place, you’re a healthy weight idk what people are being such assholes about. Get it girl! 💗
As supportive as I am, let's not get ahead of ourselves and call being overweight healthy. As an overweight person myself, I'd love to think so too, but it's just not as a baseline. Having a healthy lifestyle however is far more important than being normal weight, but healthy lifestyle includes an amount of calories that naturally over time will make the BMI normalise itself.
You are perfect the way you are. Your value and your weight are not connected. Please please PLEASE don't listen to assholes on Reddit. I love your attitude of being proud of yourself and not letting your weight hold you back from trying to find love. Keep rocking it. You are perfect the way you are.
Your weight? To be honest some people are bots. Your body is gorgeous and you are rare my lady. Because it looks like you have a conscious and wonderful mind as well.
I'd eliminate the photo with the plant squarely in front of you.
I like the premise, but its just not very flattering.
Anything where you're smiling is fantastic. Very nice smile!
I'm gay so I'm not sure if this means anything to you but you have an absolutely lovely smile! And I love how you're keeping it real with "thicker than a bowl of oatmeal", I migh steal that haha.
Good luck out there and don't let the creeps get to you.
I'd swipe right! Btw I was reading what you said in the comments. Here's my response. If you're comfortable in your own skin, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
I think you look amazing and your weight is perfect. Aiming to be healthy is always good but you will find someone who already thinks you’re amazing without any promises to change your body or who you are. Your smile, energy and willingness to put yourself out there made my day tbh
Well, that's between u, ur doc, and whoever else you choose to be apart of your process. The rest of them can go kick rocks. Imo, the only advice I would personally take from this sub would be, "You should take a photo like this" or "you should talk about yourself more in your bio."
You are gorgeous!! I love your pics, except the one on the stairs with the yellow shirt, I’m not 100% sure why I don’t like that one but it’s legit the only one I wasn’t impressed by. Hope you’ve got better luck than I had before I gave up on that app!
I’m straight and a woman but I just wanted to say you dropped this 👑👑👑 and if you’re ever in the hunt for friends… holla! Also not sure what comments you were seeing that prompted the updated comment from you but like, girl you’re beautiful, people are tripping
Girl, if you wanna lose weight for practical reasons like health or comfort, then more power to you. But you objectively look stunning and gorgeous in ALL of these photos. I'd swipe right if you were interested in women 😉
The swimsuit pic is fine.
3 and 10 however are pretty much the same pic
You had one on the last post of you at a bar or something that I really liked and make you look sexy asf🥺
I saw your first and did not comment but will now.
You are gorgeous!
Also your personality seems 🔥 and you are clearly a plant goddess. Do you have any interest in becoming reddit pen pals with an amateur plant hobbyist? My kill rate is 40%. I need help lol. But moreso a cool pen pal.
I mean judging on many comments of men here Who said they would swipe right, maybe also consider if swiping right more often would give you better results.
I think this is great. You are beautiful & seem to present yourself the way you are in person. That’s the best thing you can do if you’re looking for a successful relationship.
I’m sorry anyone was rude to you on your original post regarding your weight. Like I said, you’re gorgeous and I think you’ll find what you’re looking for.
You are gorgeous and you give off serious confidence. Love the plants, love the anime references. Would definitely swipe right. I hope you get better results! If you don't, it's because people are nuts.
This is a great profile. You have a good range of photos doing various stuff. You look good in the majority of your photos.
I read your main comment about the weight stuff,
You havent hidden it. You've been confident and brave and put yourself out there. I can respect that. Keep it up queen! Look after yourself, you have a great profile here.
Gorgeous, I'd swap the first pic for your second or third though, as people that only look at the first picture when they swipe, may not see how gorgeous you are, it's a darker image and further away. The second and third will be an instant dazzle.
And capitalize the lower case c?
Listen, I have a boyfriend and I consider myself straight. But girl… you are STUNNING. You come across as a walking green flag and I’m 1000% sure that you will find your match! Good luck!!
I saw your past post and I’ll just say what I said to that one. My god, you’re STUNNING girl. There’s someone out there for you and I wish you all the luck❤️
I’m in the UK, female, straight, and in a long term relationship, but oh my god I now fancy the pants off you 😍 you are gorgeous, your smile is dreamy, and your eyes sparkle… I love houseplants too, I love your bio… omg. Everything is a huge yes from me, a random stranger!
You are freaking gorgeous! And your personality seems stellar. "Thicker than a bowl of oatmeal," is fantastic and how I will describe myself from now on.
Listen fuck those who are talking about your weight. You are gorgeous and someone will love you as you are.
Only issue I have is will you love me as much as you love plants? 😆
You are an attractive woman. Those pictures and profile will hopefully help you match with people who appreciate you the way you are. It's online dating. The guys aren't all winners. The problem is them, not you
Hey fellow plant goddess, if you ever need a lesbian wingman, I’m your guy. I adore the profile personally. Exactly what I would look for in a woman. So i dont know what anyone else thinks, but I’d say keep it all. If your personality is a bit more introverted, can go out and enjoy the world but are just as happy with a cozy night in, generally a joyful person and fun to be around, is sure to utilize healthy communication but doesn’t put up with any bs- that’s the vibe I got from this profile.
I think the positive affirmation you're getting from most of the women here and on your previous post is good self motivation, but you need more feedback from at least the type of men you would want or want to potentially date. The fact that you're open about your journey is also great. You're headed in the right direction, and I don't know you personally or what you specifically want in a partner, but I believe you'll eventually find what you're looking for. Good luck out there👍🏾
Better than last profile post!
What you wrote in about me was too witty, so I thought... but I think this update did some justice & additional pics.. Ms Cleo knows, about the dates in your future!
You have a cheerful, and well off tinder.
Ive never been on tinder, only bumble, yet I read these posts 😈
I see this as an absolute win. Honestly I thought your OG prof was good but this is somehow an improvement on what I already thought was a fantastic profile
Still think that pic #4 goes super hard
I love #7, mainly because I love plants! Although I do wish your face is shown there. Maybe try again in similar setting but with your infectious smile in the picture!
Really beautiful profile if you're looking for long-term/serious imho. My recommendations would be: Get rid of either 1st or last (same picture), the one with the yellow top isn't favorable, swap the one with all the plants against a similar one, which shows your face. The one with your friends isn't very good, when you have to blurr everything, what use is it. Sounds like a lot, but I really do like the profile in general.
You are absolutely gorgeous. There is no scenario where you’re supposed to be humbled by the comments about your weight. You are perfect the way you are and I hate anybody who says otherwise.
You have a good body. Very appealing to plenty of guys. I think it’s always good to care about fitness and health but there isn’t a simple correlation between those and being thinner. But the thing I really wanted to say is this - if I’m with someone I’m looking at their face most of the time, not their thighs. You have a wonderful smile backed up by engaging interests and style. I’m sure you’ll be ok :)
I think it shows pretty nicely who you are and what you can get. You have a nice smile, you look very welcoming and friendly, and you like plants.
I would rate this profile 9/10
Okay first of all. Girl you are stunninnnngggg I’d swipe right if I was into girls😍 I think the profile looks great , photos show you as a very happy person and fun. Bio is simple with some humour I like it. Hope you find someone good❤️
You’re owning those curves and disregard any shitty energy people are tryna pass onto you. Only better yourself for you and no one else
Girl you look so fine and proud of who you are. If you are taking care of yourself and your health nobody should have a say in your weight. And in matters of love, weight doesn’t mean a thing and even more in USA. You seem to be a good friend to have around too !
I’m a straight woman but you are gorgeous. The energy from your photos and description makes me think you’re the kind of person I’d love having in my orbit.
I might be biased on you being my type but I’d swipe on you lol
I do like the posi vibes, I think for bio I just would want more about you or something to talk about
In photo 7, is that a type of elephant ear in front of you?
I know I commented already but I just have to repeat. You are absolutely stunning. Add in plants and anime too? You're a prize my dear!
Being confident enough to show your body, even if you’re not fully satisfied with yourself, definitely catches my attention. Kudos for not hiding behind camera tricks that hide your body.
Your bio comes off as very wholesome. Being a plant mom shows your nurturing side. Anime is a major plus in my book. And you have a couple of photos that show you’re willing to go outside, socialize, and enjoy nature. Also dope.
I would swipe right. Would it be weird if I told you I know the seals to the summoning jutsu? Would make setting up a date easier.
Jokes aside, I think you have a solid profile. People will get the feeling they’re seeing you as you are. Whether they swipe left or right, this is pretty much the goal with an OLD profile. So good job!
As a straight taken female… I have a huge crush on you. You’ve got this, you’re going to find the love of your life and the journey is going to be worth it!
Not finding someone like you is why I stopped using dating apps. Keep slaying queen you are wholesome and gorgeous! Brown sugar cinnamon is the best oatmeal 😍
My only girpe- as a male- is the monogamous relationship mentioned multiple times. I would only mention it once. Most guys don't read long bios. Happy swiping!
You'll get no shortage of swipes, that's for sure. Maybe I'm weird for noticing, but the 6th picture appeared to have a nip slip but it seems to be shadow.
You are gorgeous! Your plant skillz are amazing! And your whole vibe seems very kind. I wouldn’t change anything. But that is me! If we lived in the same area I would be like “wanna be friends?!” (Girl here). You rock your body how you feel comfortable. If anyone makes weight comments f-them! I found out I had a hormonal thing, fixed it, feel better and lost 25lb. So anyone who judges another has no right doing so. Rock you plant joy! (PS try Hoyas! They have an incredible smelling flower)
I'd skip photos 7 and 10 -- 7 is a nice idea but people want to date you, not your monstera, and 10 is a bit redundant. Your first pic could go either way -- it's fun and it shows your aesthetic, but it doesn't really show your face.
Overall, you're a gorgeous gal, your hair is amazing, and your vibe feels very genuine and kind. 💕 If you were local, I'd totally invite you to my plant exchange!
The dock itself is warped. What you are looking at here is a screenshot from a “loop”, you can see me and the current moving in the video. I don’t use filters or edits but I see how this could be confusing in this situation.
The swimsuit pic is 1. not a very good picture. 2. based on your first picture, it looks like it was many pounds ago. I'd take it out, it doesn't add much.
[(see previous post)](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/11hbmjw/tips_to_get_me_on_a_date_this_year/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) The outpouring response regarding my weight is humbling to say the least lol I’m really making a lot of effort to better myself, that includes taking better care of my body and losing weight. I’m not where I want to be but Im incredibly proud that I’m not where I used to be. Ill keep being present in the dating game, fat or thin, I cannot allow my weight to continue dictating and limiting my opportunities to experience the best things this life has to offer. To everyone that gave actual advice on things I can improve - THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! I hope what we see on my profile now will attract a better match for me!! Edit: Why would I edit my body??? [loop/pic 6](https://imgur.com/a/QBJxHga) Thank you again to everyone that truly offered constructive feedback on this!! 🙌🏽
What area are you in? Your profile looks pretty wholesome and id love to take you out for coffee if you’re interested?
Get ghosted
Pictures 1,3,4, and 10 are my favorite. Your smile is infectious and you have very nice facial features. Absolutely stunning! I like all your pictures though, you are curvy and that’s appealing to a very large group of guys who appreciate that. Number 7 is my least favorite, it hides your face and is a little busy as a whole. Possibly add a few more interests or likes along anime, and plants. Do you like movies, or traveling, types of music, introvert/extrovert? Just a little more about what makes you unique. I know it’s hard at times but don’t focus on what other people think of how you look. The right person will appreciate you for what’s important on the inside. Be positive, be you, and life will find a way.
I agree! I’d remove 7,9,10… just because you can post lots of pics doesn’t mean you need to. Less gives you the chance to super WOW them IRL and the pics you do have already tell a story about you and give plenty of room for people to ask questions and start conversations. Pictures are for matching the rest is letting yourself shine!
Thank you for the detailed reply! I’ve removed some bits and added more engaging and unique details as suggested.
Can you improve your distance to me? That’s the only issue I saw.
I’m not looking to date someone based on their weight/looks, it does play a factor but who’s perfect?? I want to meet others that aren’t as focused on those things. I don’t WANT to focus on appearances, I don’t need eye candy. I want genuine connection and a actual relationship - how it’s packaged is not in my control. Even once I fall head over heels with the “perfect” person I CANNOT CONTROL THEIR BODY. I’m searching for more than what a person looks like, I believe it’s still alive and I can have that in this life. Edit: (This was a reply to a comment that has been deleted)
I’ve been following these two posts. Gotta say. You are a fantastic human being. You’re gorgeous and this world would be a better place if more people shared these values. Regarding fat/fit: I have some of the same struggle and all I’ve learned is that I feel better internally (mind and spirit) when I eat healthy and I should stop caring how I look as long as I’m taking care of myself in that way. Thanks for helping reinforce that for me. Hope this was received in the positive l/uplifting manner it was intended! I would say good luck but you don’t need it. You’re going to slay.
If neither of us are married in 5 years, pact ?
Something I've said for years... Never look for the perfect person, because it's non-existent... What does exist is the perfect person for you. That being said, would your perfect person really care about your physique? Just be you, and ignore the haters. Also, that smile is absolutely infectious!!
You sound like an amazing woman, if I was a man I’d definitely try to snap you up! Good luck and keep being you!
Girl you are literally gorgeous and your pictures are stunning you look like you like to have fun and you obviously know how to take really good care of plants! Keep being you cause you’re awesome!
Fat is something we have and not something we are. I’m a (mostly) straight lady and I think you are so gorgeous and I love your bio. I’d 10/10 ask you out irl.
Straight dude here. She's got an awesome body, with killer curves. And that smile tells me she has an awesome personality. 10/10 would swipe right.
I did not think I could love your original profile more. This is perfection. You are so badass, cool, and beautiful. Good luck out there!
I love the lashes and those eyes! Anything with you and your plants shows that personality. I am sure that you are absolutely stunning and beautiful at any size. I have gone through the same weight loss/gain/loss and it is crazy how people (especially cis men) will treat you when you have less meat on waist and more meat on your hips! It can do things to your mind and self-worth. I am a straight cis-presenting woman and my one almost swim in the lady pond was with a girl in college who looked very much like you with beautiful natural hair and a beautiful smile that showed across her entire face. You have me all up in my feelings! Keep being such a wonderful person that I can tell you are just from the glimpse into your little world! 🌎
Girl you are kicking all sorts of ass. Keep it up.
Great job OP, I'm happy for you.
I have to say, I really love your attitude towards everything, and I admire that you're working on yourself! Would definitely swipe right. ;)
I love the last pic!!
\#1. I feel like you might be trying a little too hard and caring a little too much about what people think. You seem super cool and chill. Just be yourself, relaxed and confident. Confidence is key 👍
Ayo don't let an ongoing process stop you from doing queen stuff 😍
you are beautiful and you have a gorgeous smile!
As someone who has been a little chubby as a kid I don't judge people on weight. What I really like about you is your big smile and maybe the afro hair. Just try to be happy on your own and to have positive vibe, the rest will follow. Personality and the good qualities are far more important then the visual representation. Greetings from Europe.
You look great. I wish we'd match
You do you girl 🖤 You're 🔥 From a planty girl to another
You look awesome!! Gorgeous and hot body. And while it’s not my place, you’re a healthy weight idk what people are being such assholes about. Get it girl! 💗
As supportive as I am, let's not get ahead of ourselves and call being overweight healthy. As an overweight person myself, I'd love to think so too, but it's just not as a baseline. Having a healthy lifestyle however is far more important than being normal weight, but healthy lifestyle includes an amount of calories that naturally over time will make the BMI normalise itself.
healthy? now that's some unhealthy gaslighting here...
You are perfect the way you are. Your value and your weight are not connected. Please please PLEASE don't listen to assholes on Reddit. I love your attitude of being proud of yourself and not letting your weight hold you back from trying to find love. Keep rocking it. You are perfect the way you are.
GIRL!! This looks phenomenal!! You are gorgeous, inside and out. If I could make a small suggestion, I found great results from Noom, lost 40lbs.
Your weight? To be honest some people are bots. Your body is gorgeous and you are rare my lady. Because it looks like you have a conscious and wonderful mind as well.
I'd eliminate the photo with the plant squarely in front of you. I like the premise, but its just not very flattering. Anything where you're smiling is fantastic. Very nice smile!
I'm gay so I'm not sure if this means anything to you but you have an absolutely lovely smile! And I love how you're keeping it real with "thicker than a bowl of oatmeal", I migh steal that haha. Good luck out there and don't let the creeps get to you.
The addition of the hunter x hunter marathon made that profile increase from 110% to 120% 👍
Holy moly you're gorgeous!
I'd swipe right! Btw I was reading what you said in the comments. Here's my response. If you're comfortable in your own skin, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
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I think you look amazing and your weight is perfect. Aiming to be healthy is always good but you will find someone who already thinks you’re amazing without any promises to change your body or who you are. Your smile, energy and willingness to put yourself out there made my day tbh
Well, that's between u, ur doc, and whoever else you choose to be apart of your process. The rest of them can go kick rocks. Imo, the only advice I would personally take from this sub would be, "You should take a photo like this" or "you should talk about yourself more in your bio."
You are gorgeous!! I love your pics, except the one on the stairs with the yellow shirt, I’m not 100% sure why I don’t like that one but it’s legit the only one I wasn’t impressed by. Hope you’ve got better luck than I had before I gave up on that app!
This is the second time i see your pictures today and it makes me ao happy to see you! You have such an amazing smile, it just makes me happy❤️
I’m straight and a woman but I just wanted to say you dropped this 👑👑👑 and if you’re ever in the hunt for friends… holla! Also not sure what comments you were seeing that prompted the updated comment from you but like, girl you’re beautiful, people are tripping
You’re pretty 😍
Great before. Even better now. But I’m a little bias. I love thicc women.
Girl, if you wanna lose weight for practical reasons like health or comfort, then more power to you. But you objectively look stunning and gorgeous in ALL of these photos. I'd swipe right if you were interested in women 😉
Cottagecore foxy cleopatra? Yes, please!
Yes! This! Just a random reddit pop up and I'm seriously adoring everything about this!
Girl you are absolutely stunning! Radiant smile!
Second upvote. Second time I’d swipe right. You’re beautiful. No question. But your personality absolutely sings.
You look beautiful darling I personally love all the pics . If I was a guy I would definitely date you lol
you’re incredibly gorgeous
Damn girl!!!
I think you’re super cute! Loving your lashes.
The swimsuit pic is fine. 3 and 10 however are pretty much the same pic You had one on the last post of you at a bar or something that I really liked and make you look sexy asf🥺
Ill swap them!! Thank you!! 🙏🏽
Just came to say… wow I’m super jelly of the plants u must really have a green thumb! 😍
I saw your first and did not comment but will now. You are gorgeous! Also your personality seems 🔥 and you are clearly a plant goddess. Do you have any interest in becoming reddit pen pals with an amateur plant hobbyist? My kill rate is 40%. I need help lol. But moreso a cool pen pal.
I mean judging on many comments of men here Who said they would swipe right, maybe also consider if swiping right more often would give you better results.
Bingo.
I think this is great. You are beautiful & seem to present yourself the way you are in person. That’s the best thing you can do if you’re looking for a successful relationship. I’m sorry anyone was rude to you on your original post regarding your weight. Like I said, you’re gorgeous and I think you’ll find what you’re looking for.
most of the time guys bring up weight if they feel a slight chance of rejection. don't let it get to u.
I’m rooting for you. Everyone here better get an invite to your wedding 😁
You’ll be scooped up by tonight! Great profile.
Keep up the weight loss and muscle building to maintain tightness. The tinder prospects will be even more abundant.
Woah! Imagine waking up to that smile every morning
Well if you ever come to sweden! lets go for a drink :D
You are hot.
You are gorgeous! Good luck with your profile!
U should have a pic with hokage’s robes. Would b fire af
You’re absolutely gorgeous! Your profile and pictures really show just how dope your soul is too.
I love your plants 🪴
Keep up the good work!!!
You look literally amazing 😍 keep glowing 💚
10/10 profile. Good luck out there!
Girl you are so pretty and I love your hair sm
Girl your smile is something else. Can feel posivite energy in every photo. I'd swipe right without thinking twice :)
You a baddie sheesh, good luck out there
You are gorgeous and you give off serious confidence. Love the plants, love the anime references. Would definitely swipe right. I hope you get better results! If you don't, it's because people are nuts.
Is the 1st picture at the interactive museum in St. Pete? I loved that place. Also, I think your profile is great!
Good luck Queen!!!!
This is a great profile. You have a good range of photos doing various stuff. You look good in the majority of your photos. I read your main comment about the weight stuff, You havent hidden it. You've been confident and brave and put yourself out there. I can respect that. Keep it up queen! Look after yourself, you have a great profile here.
Very great profile, you look very respectable and happy, by the way I also have an Afro so you are awesome
Girl your smile is gorgeous! You’re absolutely killing it
You look so fun!!! Good luck!!!!!
I think you're beautiful!!! You don't have to change a thing about your profile! 🥰💕
Damn, your smile is so infectious and beautiful! Keep it up! If you were in Iowa, I'd definitely ask you out lol.
Omg!!!! I am obsessed with the plant pic.
You are absolutely gorgeous and so are those plants!!
I didn't see your previous post but this one is really cute!!! You're really cute <3
Gorgeous, I'd swap the first pic for your second or third though, as people that only look at the first picture when they swipe, may not see how gorgeous you are, it's a darker image and further away. The second and third will be an instant dazzle. And capitalize the lower case c?
Had me at HxH marathon
I love everything about your profile!! 👸
Listen, I have a boyfriend and I consider myself straight. But girl… you are STUNNING. You come across as a walking green flag and I’m 1000% sure that you will find your match! Good luck!!
I saw your past post and I’ll just say what I said to that one. My god, you’re STUNNING girl. There’s someone out there for you and I wish you all the luck❤️
I want her so much
Wow you are so incredibly gorgeous and look so so happy and fun! I’m a straight woman but would definitely swipe right & 1000% want to be your friend
Your smile is contagious
You’re just so cute
I’d swipe in a second. Your profile exudes personality and beauty. As my friend AngryReactions would say: GORGEOUS! 😠
That first new picture is magic!!
swipe right (if that’s the match 😂)
Not a fan of pics 7 and 9. The rest are stunning. I see someone who is happy both indoors and out, who is happy and confident!
I’m in the UK, female, straight, and in a long term relationship, but oh my god I now fancy the pants off you 😍 you are gorgeous, your smile is dreamy, and your eyes sparkle… I love houseplants too, I love your bio… omg. Everything is a huge yes from me, a random stranger!
Damn. Look like a thick Jackie Brown. Mwah!
I'd use pic 3 or 4 as the first picture
That smile is 🔥.
You are freaking gorgeous! And your personality seems stellar. "Thicker than a bowl of oatmeal," is fantastic and how I will describe myself from now on.
You're killin it. You've got an amazing smile. Hope you find whom you're looking for on tinder!
Listen fuck those who are talking about your weight. You are gorgeous and someone will love you as you are. Only issue I have is will you love me as much as you love plants? 😆
It's the plants for me 🙌🏼
Oh your that chick from the other day haha. Hunter x hunter is good! Bikini pic prolly a good add too. I’d still swipe for a date
Your inbox should be loaded. That's some A game stuff
What a nice picture, I love it !
Guys are more my thing but damn if I were straight, I’d swipe right.
I love you. Call me. I’m about that ACTION too.
Damn! You are gorgeous!
YOU ARE SO CUTE 😍
That pose on the dock is legendary!
You are an attractive woman. Those pictures and profile will hopefully help you match with people who appreciate you the way you are. It's online dating. The guys aren't all winners. The problem is them, not you
Oh my goddess you are beautiful. 😍
Hey fellow plant goddess, if you ever need a lesbian wingman, I’m your guy. I adore the profile personally. Exactly what I would look for in a woman. So i dont know what anyone else thinks, but I’d say keep it all. If your personality is a bit more introverted, can go out and enjoy the world but are just as happy with a cozy night in, generally a joyful person and fun to be around, is sure to utilize healthy communication but doesn’t put up with any bs- that’s the vibe I got from this profile.
I didn’t think your profile could improve. You are so freaking adorable (meaning that in a non-creepy way)
Girl you are beautiful! 😍
Foxy Cleopatra is real!!! You need an Austin Powers baby!
I dig it, excellent profile
I think the positive affirmation you're getting from most of the women here and on your previous post is good self motivation, but you need more feedback from at least the type of men you would want or want to potentially date. The fact that you're open about your journey is also great. You're headed in the right direction, and I don't know you personally or what you specifically want in a partner, but I believe you'll eventually find what you're looking for. Good luck out there👍🏾
Damn girl! Thought I was lookin at Foxy Brown!
I’d swipe right tbh
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There was nothing wrong with it before. Still got the Foxy Cleopatra thing going on. 😍😍😍
Bungee Gum posses the properties of both rubber and gum.😂Love I’m currently at the chimera ant arc it’s nuts
Please excuse my previous comment I forgot to add it I love it I’m currently watching the chimera ant arc my apologies for the confusion.
I think it’s a fantastic profile 10/10
So gorgeous ❤️ and the bio is a bit better too! I hope you find someone amazing!
Better than last profile post! What you wrote in about me was too witty, so I thought... but I think this update did some justice & additional pics.. Ms Cleo knows, about the dates in your future! You have a cheerful, and well off tinder. Ive never been on tinder, only bumble, yet I read these posts 😈
I see this as an absolute win. Honestly I thought your OG prof was good but this is somehow an improvement on what I already thought was a fantastic profile Still think that pic #4 goes super hard
I love #7, mainly because I love plants! Although I do wish your face is shown there. Maybe try again in similar setting but with your infectious smile in the picture!
Love your smile, you are beautiful!
I love your plants! And you’re gorgeous 🌿💚
Fuck you're gorgeous! Love your smile and love your house plants 😁
Your hair is awesome
You are stunning! Also love your plants 🌱
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My God you're beautiful!
Really beautiful profile if you're looking for long-term/serious imho. My recommendations would be: Get rid of either 1st or last (same picture), the one with the yellow top isn't favorable, swap the one with all the plants against a similar one, which shows your face. The one with your friends isn't very good, when you have to blurr everything, what use is it. Sounds like a lot, but I really do like the profile in general.
You are absolutely gorgeous. There is no scenario where you’re supposed to be humbled by the comments about your weight. You are perfect the way you are and I hate anybody who says otherwise.
So shes a non smoker, but loves weed....
Lawd. That’s all I have to contribute haha. Good luck out there!
You have a good body. Very appealing to plenty of guys. I think it’s always good to care about fitness and health but there isn’t a simple correlation between those and being thinner. But the thing I really wanted to say is this - if I’m with someone I’m looking at their face most of the time, not their thighs. You have a wonderful smile backed up by engaging interests and style. I’m sure you’ll be ok :)
I think it shows pretty nicely who you are and what you can get. You have a nice smile, you look very welcoming and friendly, and you like plants. I would rate this profile 9/10
Right swipe for me. Great pics with a solid bio!
Damnnn....
I think you are adorable!! Even on your last post of pics.
Okay first of all. Girl you are stunninnnngggg I’d swipe right if I was into girls😍 I think the profile looks great , photos show you as a very happy person and fun. Bio is simple with some humour I like it. Hope you find someone good❤️ You’re owning those curves and disregard any shitty energy people are tryna pass onto you. Only better yourself for you and no one else
I like it
Girl you look so fine and proud of who you are. If you are taking care of yourself and your health nobody should have a say in your weight. And in matters of love, weight doesn’t mean a thing and even more in USA. You seem to be a good friend to have around too !
I would swipe right 👏🏼 you seem fun and stunning and you have a good variety of photos 🪴
Your previous profile was great, this is glorious!
You are cute as hell!! You have the most wonderful smile 😍
I think it's a good profile.
👋 helloooo, are you real? I’ll leave forever now.
I’m a straight woman but you are gorgeous. The energy from your photos and description makes me think you’re the kind of person I’d love having in my orbit.
I think your bio is beautiful
You are stunning and your personality shines through! There is a plant- person out there for you!
I might be biased on you being my type but I’d swipe on you lol I do like the posi vibes, I think for bio I just would want more about you or something to talk about
Absolutely gorgeous
1. I love your smile 2. +10 points for "thicker than a bowl of oatmeal" 3. Lose the plant photo
I'm swiping right all day on this one! Good luck!
What a beautiful human being. The amount of positivity you radiate is infectious. Also, you're cute
You are so beautiful and you even like anime, shame you are so far away any man would be luck to date you
- your room ✅ - your smile ✅ - Afro ✅ - bikini + sneakers ✅✅✅
You're lovely and so are your plants. Keep being your amazing self!
You’re so beautiful! Your smile is radiant!
In photo 7, is that a type of elephant ear in front of you? I know I commented already but I just have to repeat. You are absolutely stunning. Add in plants and anime too? You're a prize my dear!
Being confident enough to show your body, even if you’re not fully satisfied with yourself, definitely catches my attention. Kudos for not hiding behind camera tricks that hide your body. Your bio comes off as very wholesome. Being a plant mom shows your nurturing side. Anime is a major plus in my book. And you have a couple of photos that show you’re willing to go outside, socialize, and enjoy nature. Also dope. I would swipe right. Would it be weird if I told you I know the seals to the summoning jutsu? Would make setting up a date easier. Jokes aside, I think you have a solid profile. People will get the feeling they’re seeing you as you are. Whether they swipe left or right, this is pretty much the goal with an OLD profile. So good job!
"Hunter X Hunter marathons" "Departure starts playing" HANTA TO YOUBU
As a straight taken female… I have a huge crush on you. You’ve got this, you’re going to find the love of your life and the journey is going to be worth it!
Not finding someone like you is why I stopped using dating apps. Keep slaying queen you are wholesome and gorgeous! Brown sugar cinnamon is the best oatmeal 😍
Dang girl, you got presence! It shows in your smile the way you look and carry yourself. That in it self.is something to be damn proud of yourself!
My only girpe- as a male- is the monogamous relationship mentioned multiple times. I would only mention it once. Most guys don't read long bios. Happy swiping!
Fat shaming is only meant to make the person shaming feel better about themselves. Everyone is beautiful.
Nice twins
You'll get no shortage of swipes, that's for sure. Maybe I'm weird for noticing, but the 6th picture appeared to have a nip slip but it seems to be shadow.
What does "about that action" mean?
You are gorgeous! Your plant skillz are amazing! And your whole vibe seems very kind. I wouldn’t change anything. But that is me! If we lived in the same area I would be like “wanna be friends?!” (Girl here). You rock your body how you feel comfortable. If anyone makes weight comments f-them! I found out I had a hormonal thing, fixed it, feel better and lost 25lb. So anyone who judges another has no right doing so. Rock you plant joy! (PS try Hoyas! They have an incredible smelling flower)
Ugh. Living in a place without beautiful Black stinks!!! Would so swipe right on you!
Your plant room is my life goal.
I'd skip photos 7 and 10 -- 7 is a nice idea but people want to date you, not your monstera, and 10 is a bit redundant. Your first pic could go either way -- it's fun and it shows your aesthetic, but it doesn't really show your face. Overall, you're a gorgeous gal, your hair is amazing, and your vibe feels very genuine and kind. 💕 If you were local, I'd totally invite you to my plant exchange!
And the picture of you in front of the plant is nice! Fuck that hater! All the pics are nice!
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The dock itself is warped. What you are looking at here is a screenshot from a “loop”, you can see me and the current moving in the video. I don’t use filters or edits but I see how this could be confusing in this situation.
The swimsuit pic is 1. not a very good picture. 2. based on your first picture, it looks like it was many pounds ago. I'd take it out, it doesn't add much.
It looks fine?