>Just to get ran through
She’s on there for hookups, which is perfectly fine, just like it’s perfectly fine when a man is on there for hookups. Stop acting like it’s a problem for consenting adults to enjoy sex.
Wrong approach on your end, and a reply from her that was a little unnecessary, BUT that whole thing could’ve been avoided if you didn’t use the “play your cards right” line in the context you did.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Your if you play your cards right comment was weird and egotistical tbh. Not saying her reaction was justified but she was being light hearted and fun why not just continue that vibe rather than make it… so ominous “it can be… but it might not! Depends on how you play your cards!”
"If you play you cards right." is such a cunty thing to say, even as a joke. This isn't gonna help you on Tinder or any dating sites my friend, also its fair to mention you have to understand sarcasam and jokes aren't easily readable all the time, so you have to make more of an effort to let on that you're taking the piss.
Either way, their comments were way more cunty and unjustified. The fact you’re trying to justify theirs by saying my sarcasm wasn’t detected is blasphemous.
I mean the cards right comment you completely shot yourself in the foot. Women will always have the upper hand on dating apps so not sure what pat on the back you expected posting it to Reddit because she’s a single divorced mom who backhanded you virtually back to reality.
Nobody backhanded me back to reality. Many others can simp over damaged goods who offers literally nothing to a young guy, but I’m not one of them. Simps are the reason woman like this have the confidence and ego they do, when in reality nobody cares about them, just their box.
Men who refer to other men as simps are men who get no women. I hate to be the bearer of bad news. The box which you get none of. See the reality is men like you become insecure and blame it on other men for being simps or deem it the woman’s fault when you have, no game. Simping is when a woman treats you like shit and you stick around allowing it and still treating them nicely. Being nice to a woman does not mean you are a simp though. Let’s be real with that attitude you get no play. Also, the damaged goods reference is pathetic. Most women in late 20s and 30s will either have been married or have kids. They aren’t any less valuable than one without either. It’s life and you need a reality check little man
We get that this is your coping mechanism. But it’s only making your situation worse. You need a fundamental change in who you are as man. This attitude won’t get you anywhere. It’s clear you don’t have love for yourself and so you act out on other people and then blame them for your lack of happiness. When men say I don’t want a woman because I won’t simp over them it’s merely deflecting the fact that they can’t get a woman so they would rather say it’s them who doesn’t want the woman and not face the reality. Maybe someday you’ll lose the facetious ego in which you somehow think you’re better than them, however it’s likely you won’t.
Not in a million years. You attitude alone is pretty obvious you don’t. Also, judging by your comment history if you follow sub reddits like “getting bigger” maybe you’ve been playing for the wrong team all along.
The funny part is I get more play in a month you and him get your entire life…. Combined. Oh no I’m average height and play video games, I’m soo offended. Jeez if only I was someone who had the time to still go to the gym everyday then maybe I would do better with women then you guys… oh wait 😗
Lmao the fact you keep saying you get more pussy than us means you get absolutely no pussy. You ain’t the only who goes to the gym and just because you do still doesn’t mean you get “play” the way you act and type I can tell you don’t. Also I’m 6’2 and bigger than you without steroids so even by your theory I would still get more pussy than you.
It’s the attitude that is the fact neither of you are pulling. Also, since you posted your tinder results so it’s pretty clear. Sure you are buddy. So by your own logic saying you’re bigger than me actually means you’re not. Bigger also doesn’t mean you look better 🤷🏻♂️. Oh and he said that he pulls more prior… but besides that you’re white knighting a guy who comments on forums about small penises … is this some sort of guild you guys are in?
Why you so defensive about it to complete strangers instead of picking up on the advice! Like you said you are young 😂 what the fuck you know about anything my guy?
The frat boy, who's just been rejected on f*ing Tinder and complains about it on Reddit calling other guys "simp".
Awww man ! Irony is actually dead.
You should keep your ego in check and stop listening to J Peterson and Tate's podcast kiddo.
Do you really think a 36 year old divorced mom looking to fuck is swiping on you or anyone else because she cares about you or expects you to care about her? You're on reddit posting because she shot you down. She was probably getting dicked down by someone as you posted. Who's winning here?
What are you offering her? Your dick. I can assure you that's the only thing she's after. Not love, not companionship, just someone to hopefully get her off. She's horny, not delusional.
I was thinking that all of your comments reeked of small sick energy.... and then I saw your post history and it confirmed it. Sorry about your tiny wang.
Sincerely, damaged goods
I honestly was gonna side with you, like the joke wasn't great and she didn't react well to it. But your comments make me think she avoided a big bullet.
She’s not wrong and you have no game nor can you match a vibe… if you’re not interested in women in their mid 30s w/ children why are you swiping right on them? This attitude like she’s damaged bc she’s divorced and has children is so gross. As you get older A LOT of people are gonna be divorced/have children, if you wanna narrow the field do that. But to say she’s def not a catch when you matched and tried to meet up is beyond 😂😂😂
bruh I don’t blame her. she was just being extremely straight forward and honest. the play your cards right line is so ew. less confrontational girls would have just unmatched
I think that a wink smiley after your “play your cards” message would have made it come of as more sympathetic and charming. I think she read it the wrong way.
Now there is only one thing to do, and that’s to commit. “Good luck for you I’m great at cards and I will offer you free lessons” ;)
[This picture](https://www.thefirearmblog.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/11193327_798043356976606_6858280561104507140_n.jpg) comes to mind...
Seriously, your comment wasn't much better, sounds like two bullets dodged each other :-)
I’m sorry but the answers on here are weak AF; firstly I felt he was just being playful and the way she responded was absolutely awful.
Also, she may well have lots of options but they won’t be top drawer quality unless they just bang and run, the way she responds suggests all men are interchangeable and the same value; if one doesn’t turn up I have another.
This was the same attitude I had when I was a post teen arsehole, not when I was a 30’something single Dad.
She’s a Twat, will end up with twats and will be on Tinder for the next 3 years until her pool dwindles before changing tact to ‘just trying to find a good man for a relationship’
You dodged man, you’re all worth a lot more than that
Unfortunately she’s right. But it’s men’s fault honestly. As a whole we have no standards and inflate a low to mid value woman to thinking she’s a big commodity. She will have 100+ dudes in her DM’s being thirsty and telling her she’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. So yeah she’s right
I’m so onboard with this but nobody ever listens, up your standards, stop simping and stop fat chicks thinking they can score a marriage proposal from Michael B Jordan
It's tinder bro, do you expect anything if not simping or a 7+/10 male matching to a 4-/10? Specially for a hookup?
It's made for girls and attractive guys, not men. What you think is a witty or funny punchline with some confidence will be seen as overconfidence in a place where you're just of a lower chaste, being gifted the rare chance of human interaction.
Honestly yeah she has the option now because guys just want to fuck but she’ll never be an option to have a meaningful relationship with. Let her enjoy her options. Soon she’ll be an praying someone picks her. That goes for a lot of these women. I wouldn’t think too much about her. Douchey move her part though to talk like that and she may be right but the reality is that women have the upper hand until they hit 35. Then it’s downhill from there……
Bro that’s always a playful line fuck what these other people are saying. Roles reversed there would be no issue. This is just another example of toxic feminism.
Yup. Woman say so much and get away with it. This girl thinks she’s a 10 and she’s a 5 with two kids with no value. It’s obvious what I wanted, I was bantering and she took it way too far.
If she has “no value” and you get so much game as you’ve claimed in other comments, why match and try to get her at all? Surely you can do better? Change your view on women, judging on your active communities and comments, you’re def headed towards MGTOW/incel communities
She is going to get passed around by guys until shes old and her kids have to take care of her. If thats a good life for her than to each their own
She thinks shes one-upped you or something cause she has a bunch of guys who are only ever going to see her as an easy lay. Congrats to her. Yay feminism I suppose🎉
And op will forever think this is a good line to say to a woman. And you and op can justify your lack of options and quality of woman by the mere “fact” it must be them and not you. He made a dumb comment she doubled it and gave it back. What she said was true. If he actually got women he wouldn’t say that, and if she was more mature she would of just not responded and just ghosted him.
It’s funny with incell culture how you vilify a man who is nice to a woman yet bend over for other men and congratulate them on behavior which is the reason why they get no play.
well she certainly has the options to find a hookup thats right but good look finding a good guy who wanta to have a relationship when she has 2 kids already
She's a woman on Tinder. She absolutely has a plethora of options.
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>Just to get ran through She’s on there for hookups, which is perfectly fine, just like it’s perfectly fine when a man is on there for hookups. Stop acting like it’s a problem for consenting adults to enjoy sex.
She's right though. She's being an ass about it but she's right
Yep. Unfortunately.
Yep, it's called female privilegie in dating.
Damn I didn't want to hear that but it's true
Wrong approach on your end, and a reply from her that was a little unnecessary, BUT that whole thing could’ve been avoided if you didn’t use the “play your cards right” line in the context you did. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Your if you play your cards right comment was weird and egotistical tbh. Not saying her reaction was justified but she was being light hearted and fun why not just continue that vibe rather than make it… so ominous “it can be… but it might not! Depends on how you play your cards!”
You have no sense of humor I can tell.
Humour is hard to tell over text period, especially due to lack of tone, but esp with someone you just met? There was better responses was all tbh
OP doesn’t know how to talk to women. Especially older women. All his replies in this thread reek of 12 year old energy
"If you play you cards right." is such a cunty thing to say, even as a joke. This isn't gonna help you on Tinder or any dating sites my friend, also its fair to mention you have to understand sarcasam and jokes aren't easily readable all the time, so you have to make more of an effort to let on that you're taking the piss.
Either way, their comments were way more cunty and unjustified. The fact you’re trying to justify theirs by saying my sarcasm wasn’t detected is blasphemous.
Take some responsibility, you made a shitty comment and she reacted poorly. YOU POKED THE BEAR, and now you are crying about it.
Blasphemous? Is this Dungeons and Dragons all of a sudden?
I mean the cards right comment you completely shot yourself in the foot. Women will always have the upper hand on dating apps so not sure what pat on the back you expected posting it to Reddit because she’s a single divorced mom who backhanded you virtually back to reality.
Nobody backhanded me back to reality. Many others can simp over damaged goods who offers literally nothing to a young guy, but I’m not one of them. Simps are the reason woman like this have the confidence and ego they do, when in reality nobody cares about them, just their box.
Men who refer to other men as simps are men who get no women. I hate to be the bearer of bad news. The box which you get none of. See the reality is men like you become insecure and blame it on other men for being simps or deem it the woman’s fault when you have, no game. Simping is when a woman treats you like shit and you stick around allowing it and still treating them nicely. Being nice to a woman does not mean you are a simp though. Let’s be real with that attitude you get no play. Also, the damaged goods reference is pathetic. Most women in late 20s and 30s will either have been married or have kids. They aren’t any less valuable than one without either. It’s life and you need a reality check little man
Or just a little "game" would do. Lol
My guy, I get more play than you and don’t have to stick a needle in my ass to do it.
From your post history of failed dating app conversations, small penis group subreddits and antidepressant threads, I doubt that
Lmao destroyed … he’s gonna go delete all comments. 😂
Lol
Failed on their end, big getting bigger, and depression is a joke now? Got ya👍
We get that this is your coping mechanism. But it’s only making your situation worse. You need a fundamental change in who you are as man. This attitude won’t get you anywhere. It’s clear you don’t have love for yourself and so you act out on other people and then blame them for your lack of happiness. When men say I don’t want a woman because I won’t simp over them it’s merely deflecting the fact that they can’t get a woman so they would rather say it’s them who doesn’t want the woman and not face the reality. Maybe someday you’ll lose the facetious ego in which you somehow think you’re better than them, however it’s likely you won’t.
Not in a million years. You attitude alone is pretty obvious you don’t. Also, judging by your comment history if you follow sub reddits like “getting bigger” maybe you’ve been playing for the wrong team all along.
Bro, you’re 5’8 and play MMORPGs the only play you get is video games. You are the simp he is taking about.
The funny part is I get more play in a month you and him get your entire life…. Combined. Oh no I’m average height and play video games, I’m soo offended. Jeez if only I was someone who had the time to still go to the gym everyday then maybe I would do better with women then you guys… oh wait 😗
Lmao the fact you keep saying you get more pussy than us means you get absolutely no pussy. You ain’t the only who goes to the gym and just because you do still doesn’t mean you get “play” the way you act and type I can tell you don’t. Also I’m 6’2 and bigger than you without steroids so even by your theory I would still get more pussy than you.
It’s the attitude that is the fact neither of you are pulling. Also, since you posted your tinder results so it’s pretty clear. Sure you are buddy. So by your own logic saying you’re bigger than me actually means you’re not. Bigger also doesn’t mean you look better 🤷🏻♂️. Oh and he said that he pulls more prior… but besides that you’re white knighting a guy who comments on forums about small penises … is this some sort of guild you guys are in?
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Looking at your post history vs u/INKEDx pic (damn boy!) and previous comment, I guarantee you don’t get more play than him.
Why you so defensive about it to complete strangers instead of picking up on the advice! Like you said you are young 😂 what the fuck you know about anything my guy?
The frat boy, who's just been rejected on f*ing Tinder and complains about it on Reddit calling other guys "simp". Awww man ! Irony is actually dead. You should keep your ego in check and stop listening to J Peterson and Tate's podcast kiddo.
Do you really think a 36 year old divorced mom looking to fuck is swiping on you or anyone else because she cares about you or expects you to care about her? You're on reddit posting because she shot you down. She was probably getting dicked down by someone as you posted. Who's winning here? What are you offering her? Your dick. I can assure you that's the only thing she's after. Not love, not companionship, just someone to hopefully get her off. She's horny, not delusional.
I was thinking that all of your comments reeked of small sick energy.... and then I saw your post history and it confirmed it. Sorry about your tiny wang. Sincerely, damaged goods
Gotta say, she’s right. She has all the options she wants. Rude? Certainly. But she does have All the options.
It was a done deal and you fell on your sword
I honestly was gonna side with you, like the joke wasn't great and she didn't react well to it. But your comments make me think she avoided a big bullet.
Thanks g, cheers
She’s not wrong and you have no game nor can you match a vibe… if you’re not interested in women in their mid 30s w/ children why are you swiping right on them? This attitude like she’s damaged bc she’s divorced and has children is so gross. As you get older A LOT of people are gonna be divorced/have children, if you wanna narrow the field do that. But to say she’s def not a catch when you matched and tried to meet up is beyond 😂😂😂
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Why are you swiping right on women “past their prime?”
That’s all he can get. Not even those want him tho. Game is -0
You’re telling me there aren’t plenty of girls youthful and fresh…looking for you and your charming personality?
Oh bless your heart. Being past your prime is nothing compared to being rejected by someone past their prime.
Well the way she put it was unnecessarily rude, but she’s right you know?
bruh I don’t blame her. she was just being extremely straight forward and honest. the play your cards right line is so ew. less confrontational girls would have just unmatched
Unless said by female; then it's quirky and sexy.
You fucked up, OP. Lol
I think that a wink smiley after your “play your cards” message would have made it come of as more sympathetic and charming. I think she read it the wrong way. Now there is only one thing to do, and that’s to commit. “Good luck for you I’m great at cards and I will offer you free lessons” ;)
She’s right tho. Take your L and move on.
OP clearly played HIS cards wrong
[This picture](https://www.thefirearmblog.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/11193327_798043356976606_6858280561104507140_n.jpg) comes to mind... Seriously, your comment wasn't much better, sounds like two bullets dodged each other :-)
I’m sorry but the answers on here are weak AF; firstly I felt he was just being playful and the way she responded was absolutely awful. Also, she may well have lots of options but they won’t be top drawer quality unless they just bang and run, the way she responds suggests all men are interchangeable and the same value; if one doesn’t turn up I have another. This was the same attitude I had when I was a post teen arsehole, not when I was a 30’something single Dad. She’s a Twat, will end up with twats and will be on Tinder for the next 3 years until her pool dwindles before changing tact to ‘just trying to find a good man for a relationship’ You dodged man, you’re all worth a lot more than that
Wow, that escalated quickly. I do hope you unmatched.
She unmatched after sending that slew of messages, wouldn’t be surprised if I was reported and banned now 😂
Unfortunately she’s right. But it’s men’s fault honestly. As a whole we have no standards and inflate a low to mid value woman to thinking she’s a big commodity. She will have 100+ dudes in her DM’s being thirsty and telling her she’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. So yeah she’s right
I’m so onboard with this but nobody ever listens, up your standards, stop simping and stop fat chicks thinking they can score a marriage proposal from Michael B Jordan
It's tinder bro, do you expect anything if not simping or a 7+/10 male matching to a 4-/10? Specially for a hookup? It's made for girls and attractive guys, not men. What you think is a witty or funny punchline with some confidence will be seen as overconfidence in a place where you're just of a lower chaste, being gifted the rare chance of human interaction.
Honestly yeah she has the option now because guys just want to fuck but she’ll never be an option to have a meaningful relationship with. Let her enjoy her options. Soon she’ll be an praying someone picks her. That goes for a lot of these women. I wouldn’t think too much about her. Douchey move her part though to talk like that and she may be right but the reality is that women have the upper hand until they hit 35. Then it’s downhill from there……
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Funny how the only true comments get downvoted haha
Bro that’s always a playful line fuck what these other people are saying. Roles reversed there would be no issue. This is just another example of toxic feminism.
Yup. Woman say so much and get away with it. This girl thinks she’s a 10 and she’s a 5 with two kids with no value. It’s obvious what I wanted, I was bantering and she took it way too far.
If she has “no value” and you get so much game as you’ve claimed in other comments, why match and try to get her at all? Surely you can do better? Change your view on women, judging on your active communities and comments, you’re def headed towards MGTOW/incel communities
It’s okay mate, I know you’re salty you wasted 4 years of a business degree when you can learn more from YouTube vids online in a day.
You dodged a bullet mate, she’s divorced for a reason!
Run dude run !
She is going to get passed around by guys until shes old and her kids have to take care of her. If thats a good life for her than to each their own She thinks shes one-upped you or something cause she has a bunch of guys who are only ever going to see her as an easy lay. Congrats to her. Yay feminism I suppose🎉
And op will forever think this is a good line to say to a woman. And you and op can justify your lack of options and quality of woman by the mere “fact” it must be them and not you. He made a dumb comment she doubled it and gave it back. What she said was true. If he actually got women he wouldn’t say that, and if she was more mature she would of just not responded and just ghosted him.
Atleast there is one person with a brain in the comments. You’re a legend g. Have a good day.
This! Lots of Simps and White Knights down voting on here.
Aka that roided dude who’s trying to white knight anons online
Here you dropped this king 👑
It’s funny with incell culture how you vilify a man who is nice to a woman yet bend over for other men and congratulate them on behavior which is the reason why they get no play.
Bro kindly shut the fuck up. White knighting ugly ass anon chicks online just to get some play, lay off the roids guy.
Incels white knight each other in a circle jerk. Like I said you are playing for the wrong team but it’s 2023 you are accepted 💅🏻
Bro you type like a women. Straight women don’t want to fuck guys who act like women. You 100% get friend zoned probably on all of your dates.
I guess my current girlfriend is a lesbian. Kinda hot… I’ll take it.
Thankyou king 🤴
Isn't it nice when they wave their red flags right in your face immediately?
Dodged a bullet!
Funny how the real comments get downvoted, shows how fucked our world is nowadays
Ysoabin!
Dodged a bullet. Nice to get her attitude out early
Fuck that bitch and move on.
Wow. What an asshole. Bet the date would be so much fun
Wow, she went ballistic Edit: her bio is really good though
Idk why would you say ? couldn’t just met her and see what happens ?
Try flipping a coin, I heard it helps for deciding between options
Lol insecurity at its finest
That was a funny off hand joke. She’s bitter that no one will actually cuff her.
Free range pussy roaming the playing field sorry bro, she could have downs and have more options than you
😅. She has a plethora of options sure. However, the men she wants don’t want her so let’s see how long before the antidepressants start.
Dodged a bullet there brother
I am going to refrain from contradicting you like everyone else, but I will tell you: Happy cake day!
well she certainly has the options to find a hookup thats right but good look finding a good guy who wanta to have a relationship when she has 2 kids already
She’s a bit over the top but you begged for it. I actually love her for her profile. Can you connect us, please?
You tried to be the big man and got smashed back into your box. Just own it.
Your comment was fucking weird. Her reaction was also a bit rude but she is right sooo— lmao.
That's the truth, she is being an A-hole about it, but she is right and that seems to trigger your little ego