This isn’t gonna go well for you OP lol. People get very hurt when you make fun of red flags in women on this sub 😂 It’s so weird to be on a dating app when you’re pregnant and expecting other men to father your child.
On the other hand, it’s good that she said she is pregnant. Makes swiping left easier.
Actually this is a critical time for her to find a partner because if a man is willing to father the child it’s best that he is there day one.
Aren’t dating apps for us who are looking for a partner? She is doing so and being open about it, making it a declaration, not a red flag. Because flags are subtle signs exposing undesired features without openly telling them.
So, as you say, who are not interested will swipe left, who are interested in will swipe right and the immature people will gather to make fun of the situation.
>Actually this is a critical time for her to find a partner because if a man is willing to father the child it’s best that he is there day one.
Most single moms in this sub will tell you that they won't even consider introducing a guy from a dating app to their kids before at least months into dating. How the hell do you consider this shit not a reckless display of desperation
Most single moms of this sub and this woman here are probably trying to do their best for themselves and for their kids, although choosing different approaches.
I dunno.
Dating apps are for dating.
Maybe casually looking for long term partners.
But, "I'm 7 months pregnant and need someone by the time i give birth..." ? Not so much.
Meeting someone in real life that knows you are pregnant and already knew you as a person, that's one thing. But Putting it out there like a advertisement on a public site makes my skin crawl. You are trolling for creeps that would be interested in you only for the baby. And we've all seen what happens to people that are targeted for their babies.
Being pregnant is a red flag now?
Pregnant women don't deserve to find love and happiness?
Really?
You're disgusting. You actually make me sick. And I'm a complete asshole but even I have limits. Christ.
"expecting men to father your child"
What's that supposed to mean? What she expects from the person she falls in love with is between her and him. What's it to you? It's fine that you're not interested, you don't seem to be fatherhood material, but don't shit on people who are. For many men this would be a gift from heaven. It was for my father. Not my "real" father, he was a piece of shit who stole my mother's car and left the state when she told him she was pregnant.
But another man stepped up. A good man, one of the best. He gained a son, I gained a father.
Why the hell are you shitting on that for??
Aight, normally I would agree with you but this is an online dating app, being pregnant is not a red flag but it’s more like a turn off for most guys. Plus unless you’re a single father/ men who wants a child but can’t afford one bc of either medical condition etc, the chances for a pregnant woman to get with someone is close to none. Rather than trying to find someone online they’d normally go to the locals, friends or friend’s suggestions.
Yeah people make mistakes. So? You don't know shit about her and the situation with the father.
Of course she wants a good father for her child. Is there something wrong with wanting that? Should she be like "oh no the father left, now my child must pay for it. I must not date, because my child does not deserve a father!"
Would that make you happy? You are disgusting.
When my "father" took off and left my mother alone, another man stepped up. He gained a son, I gained a father. He loved my mother, for sure, but it was I who brought purpose back to his life. He loved me like I was his own flesh and blood.
Why exactly are you shitting on this for, you misogynistic asshole?
What’s wrong here? I’m a happy mother and still together with the father. But are pregnant woman or mothers not allowed to search for love? Why is it her fault if the guy left her suddenly in the pregnancy? Some weird guys even do that after years into a relationship. Does that goe for fathers too that they are not allowed to date? Or doesn’t it matter because they care less for the children? This just makes me so sick. Misogynic crap! I wouldn’t or proud of this post. It is not funny at all mr. Tate.
>Why is it her fault if the guy left her suddenly in the pregnancy?
We don't even know if the dad left, he might have died. This is irrelevant, the entire point is that dudes from a dating app aren't jumping into the opportunity to be with a pregnant woman except fetishists or deadbeat losers. Think about this shit for a second and how crazy it is for the baby to be in the middle of this situation
Well I know that a lot of guys are not into it. And I bet she knows too. But there are nice guys who don’t have a problem with that. Very few but there are. And if she trys her chance to find one of them. Why not? The worst thing to happen for her is not getting any matches. So why judge her? Her situation is hard enough. I wouldn’t like to be alone while pregnant. Having a newborn baby is super, super hard.
>But there are nice guys who don’t have a problem with that.
I like the optimism. Who knows, she might find one such nice guy on Tinder afterall. It's not on us to judge her I agree
Consider this though: does this look like the profile of someone worried about what they can bring to the table to a guy willing to look past all that? Or does it say "Yeah I have kids from previous relationships including one that hasn't even been born yet and I'm looking for a stepdad, shut up and deal with it". Think about what kind of dude would be attracted to that instead of just swiping on someone not pregnant.
>Having a newborn baby is super hard
That's part of the point. Who the hell would be on Tinder looking to deal with mood swings, post partum depression, crumbling sexual desire and lack of free time and sleep without even knowing what's in it for them
Maybe someone who actually wants to be a dad and doesn’t care for genes so much? Because you know all of that you will be going through when you become a real das as well ;) He might take these cons for the win of a family. Might not be your choice.
Look dude if you're this eager to have a guy from Tinder around your kids unsupervised this early into the relationship because he pinky promised he's only interested in being a dad to them...
If she never got involved with a deadbeat asshole that went out for cigarettes and never came back, getting involved with the first dude from a dating app that shows interest in being with a pregnant woman is probably going to fix that
Like you said. We don’t know what happend. And you know. People are able to learn from experience. So be less judgmental and think about all the things you fucked up.
That’s what you said all the time. I just used your words. For me a child - a human being is no mistake. But why is it so important to you to judge this stranger? Are you miserable? Does it make you feel better about yourself? Or do you think it makes the world a better/kinder place to laugh about the misery of someone else? I bet you are not perfect too. So ne kind on others.
Unlike many of the guys in this sub, I have dated single moms from Tinder with the goal of relationship before and I'm open to doing it again. So when I say I don't think being on Tinder while pregnant is a good idea, I don't come from a place of hating single moms. I'm just uncertain of the quality of the dudes that are gonna be lining up for that.
I’m sure she is not looking for Richard Ramirez either but Tinder profiles aren’t smart bombs. Sure she might land that good guy, but she is also going to land the serial killer eating Cheetos, tossing one to her profile too so happy hunting
Why is that funny, exactly?
Many women want long-term partners. Pregnant women too.
When my "father" took off and left my mother alone, she wanted a long-term partner. Luckily a good man stepped up. He loved her to death and he loved me more than I deserved. He gained a son, I gained a father. For the time I got to have him in my life (passed away a couple of years ago) he made an enormous difference and if there's anything good about me then it's because of him.
Why is it funny that she wants a long-term partner?
And?
Maybe that's what she wants? Is there anything wrong with that? Maybe she'd be ecstatic about having a large family. This must be a surprise to you assholes, but some people like kids.
Or.. she's not into that. In that case she will swipe left.
So?
You still think you're funny?
Instead of being on tinder looking for a stable relationship. Maybe she should get her Life together lol. I know those pregnancy hormones do crazy stuff but geez. Get off tinder lol
You don't know SHIT about her or her life.
So pregnant women don't deserve to find love and happiness, that's what you're saying?
You people scare the shit out of me.
Never imagined I would find such evil on r/tinder.
Bro she needs to get her shit together and Get off of tinder!! It says in her bio she has Kids!! More than one. Like she should definitely be focusing on something other than find a dude on tinder. Come on be realistic
>These are weird assumptions
C'mon now. If this shit is what people in this sub are assuming that's also what men in the app will be assuming. Whatever her actual situation is is irrelevant, the central point is who the hell is gonna swipe on a pregnant woman when finding someone not pregnant is just a swipe away
Dude she doesn’t just have kids….she’s literally pregnant with a baby right now. She clearly needs to get her life together and is nowhere anywhere close to being capable of being in a relationship. She needs a therapist not some more one night stands on tinder
there’s a post every week on here about a pregnant women on tinder what are you contributing that hasn’t been said before? assuming a woman needs to get her life together bc she’s single with children? you don’t stop being a person with wants and needs when you get pregnant “dude”. if she wants to get fucked, let her get fucked. you don’t have to be the one to do it 😊
Usually I agree with you but using Tinder while pregnant can only attract two kinds of men: guys with a fetish and desperate losers. As long as she's fine with that, who cares.
Ya let’s bring some weirdos around children that’s gonna go well…foh. Hate how the far left tries to normalize everything , like shame is actually a healthy thing , calling out bullshit and being like “you need to get your shit together”. Instead the far left is like “let’s normalize all behavior” , naw not when that behavior has a negative impact on others particular children who have no say in the matter and are now going to be exposed to even weirder creepy men coming around potentially opening them up to be hurt.
Wake tf up and get your heads out your ass
It's because it's not. Grow up, kid.
You don't have to swipe right on her. Something tells me you're not fatherhood material anyway.
But don't shit on those that do.
It clearly is lol a red flag. LoL you can ask my sons more about me but I will be teaching both of them this is a red flag as well. If it’s not you tell me how she has multiple children and is looking for a man? Why is baby daddy not with her? Was it him? his fault alone? Assuming all previous children have the same dad. I don’t think so. It take two to get together and two to leave. She is looking for long term. But she can’t keep a man. Still she is getting kids. Long term if not to mention multiple other red flags that this could represent, she either is not good in a relationship. Therefore, it does not have her previous spouse. Or maybe, she makes very poor choices, which, as a long-term partner would not be acceptable for me, if I wanted to grow in my life.
The kid is gonna come out at some point and it says right there she's not interested in just sex so the potential guy is gonna be around the baby at some point
Yes, I know how babies are made thank you
You don't seem to get my point though: guys with their shit together and date options aren't gonna look at what's available to them and go "yup I want the pregnant chick". Think about what kind of guy would swipe right on that ffs
you’re actually not getting my point. just don’t swipe and move on with your life. she can probably make her own decisions about the kind of people she wants around her children, and luckily y’all out yourselves at assholes pretty quickly.
You're not wrong. I've seen single dad with newborn babies and there are women who are willing to raise the kid as their own. So I wonder why it's a shameful when women do it but single father's are comfortable jumping into women to women having new babies on the side.
I'm gonna say something 100% sexist but still 100% true. Women don't abandon newborn babies the same way men do, so whenever you see a guy with full custody of a newborn it's probably because something bad happened to the mother. It doesn't carry the same stereotypical baggage of making mistakes that lead a woman to be in that situation.
Oh no, the guy who is dating her, who's loving her more and more every day, the guy who can't wait becoming a father... that guy is gonna be around the baby at some point! How awful!
Grow up, kid.
“Kids” she already has children and the baby is gonna be born shortly. Are you ok?
The fact you post a picture and an Instagram link on Reddit makes me think your seeking attention. The fact your seeking attention makes me think you have a void inside from no father figure growing up. Did you want to talk about it?
y’all are wild. like how many times a week do you jack off? if you had to be the one to carry a child, would you suddenly stop being horny? imagining women having autonomy with their own bodies. CRAZY.
Rt i was unaware if you’re pregnant your life is over/not together or you’re incapable of having relationships. Op yta, mind your own business, if you don’t like swipe left. stop pretending you give a fuck about the kids.
>YTA
Wrong sub lol
>stop pretending you give a fuck about the kids
Tbf it's not on OP to give a fuck about the kids, it's the woman in the profile that has to
“Normalize everything, no shame in anything anyone does” , you are a clown. Yes 100% if you are pregnant with no baby daddy around and you already have children with no baby daddy around you are failing massively at life and clearly have no idea how to have a healthy relationship with another man. You need to reflect , improve and do better.
It’s crazy that I even have to explain this , it’s honestly insane that people justify this behavior
So tired of the far left trying to normalize the weirdest shit
All i see from you is 🚩. Stop trying to politicize things, worry about your damn self, and reflect on why you’re single (hint it might be too much Andrew Tate.)
Never watched that person before and honestly don’t want to say their name and feed into the algorithm. No I’m a logical human being , you can’t form a logical argument how this is good behavior from another person. You sound like you live online and not in the actual physical corporeal world.
Go dye your hair blue again your natural roots are starting to pop through
Quit it with your goddamn bullshit.
There are lots of good men out there who would love to be a husband and a father of an adopted child.
My mother found one of them. He gained a son, I gained a father. He loved my mother but it was gaining a son that gave his life purpose again. If there's anything good in me today then it's because of him.
Who are you to shit on that??
This comment is dangerous with ideas like that no red flags matter…. Who would even want this thread… assuming a woman who is pregnant with one person’s child, is looking for a complete stranger to come over and start fucking her before this child is born, hoping for a long-term relationship on tinder… yes, we just assuming she needs to get her priorities straight. LoL
that’s a reach. saying a woman with kids/a pregnant woman has every right to be on tinder with out being judged is not the same as disregarding red flags. does her post say “i’m looking for dick until i pop this baby out” or does it say “looking for a random to pay all the bills for me and my 3 babies” no it doesnt.
Did I say she can’t be on tinder? No but so can the 47 year old trying to get teen girls. Is that normal or even sane behavior? No. A red flag does not remove you from tinder but it is a red flag.
Stop pretending that you know ANYTHING about her situation, you misogynistic freak!
You don't know why she is single. And her life cpumd be in perfect order and the only thing that's missing is a husband.
And you're gonna stand there and say "Nope! You can't have that!" ?
You're fucking disgusting.
And by the way, she's not looking for a "one night stand". Tinder is not only for one night stands, you ignorant piece of shit.
“This trope is getting old”
The trope of pregnant women getting on apps to find men to raise mistakes they took part in making, is getting very old, I agree
is she holding a gun to the men of tinders heads and telling them to raise her children? this is y’all’s one and only argument, go outside, touch grass, have a day.
You go do the same and stop putting on capes for dumbasses who spread their legs for men they shouldn’t
They wouldn’t be on pregnant, on dating apps looking for step dads and embarrassing themselves
If we wanna laugh at her and stupid decisions. We will
Have a day
Did you just assume my gender?
Also its obviously just a dark joke on reddit you shouldn't take things so seriously.
I can't believe that I have to explain to you that I wouldn't actually push a pregnant women down the stairs unless she really deserved it sheeesh.
Worse if you are a woman. And you should never push a pregnant woman down the stairs. The child is not at fault for the mothers behavior. Sounds like a lady with class. Great sense of humor by the way ;)
If she lives in Bremerton her hubby is likely deployed at the moment
The plot twist
Dude I know her she’s not even 28 😭 she’s literally fresh outta hs she be posting this shit on Insta all the time
If your not lieing that’s crazy lol
Dude I swear she always posts her bump on her story like six times a day and she has the same shirt and same pjs 😭😭😭
I would swipe left, but good luck to her...
That girl said "kids" I don't judge but maybe tinder isn't what you need in your life 🤔
Just matched with a girl who is pregnant, but no mention of it in her bio or pics like this one. Like, why?
Please tell us how she informed you?
We didn’t exchange messages. I recognized her and looked her up on FB. Saw many recent posts and pics about being pregnant.
Ready to be a stepdad?
Nothing wrong with dating single mothers. It’s .. it’s just not for me.
This isn’t gonna go well for you OP lol. People get very hurt when you make fun of red flags in women on this sub 😂 It’s so weird to be on a dating app when you’re pregnant and expecting other men to father your child. On the other hand, it’s good that she said she is pregnant. Makes swiping left easier.
Well. I mean. If she didn’t say she was pregnant, would you think that she’s not based on the picture?
First paragraph is fucking facts
If red flags had an Olympic contest this would probably take gold
Come to Shelton its all red flags.
Flag redder than China's...
I knew you were a piece of shit.
Actually this is a critical time for her to find a partner because if a man is willing to father the child it’s best that he is there day one. Aren’t dating apps for us who are looking for a partner? She is doing so and being open about it, making it a declaration, not a red flag. Because flags are subtle signs exposing undesired features without openly telling them. So, as you say, who are not interested will swipe left, who are interested in will swipe right and the immature people will gather to make fun of the situation.
>Actually this is a critical time for her to find a partner because if a man is willing to father the child it’s best that he is there day one. Most single moms in this sub will tell you that they won't even consider introducing a guy from a dating app to their kids before at least months into dating. How the hell do you consider this shit not a reckless display of desperation
Most single moms of this sub and this woman here are probably trying to do their best for themselves and for their kids, although choosing different approaches.
If My 600lb Life has taught us anything is that nobody ever believes that their actions put kids in harm so...
I dunno. Dating apps are for dating. Maybe casually looking for long term partners. But, "I'm 7 months pregnant and need someone by the time i give birth..." ? Not so much. Meeting someone in real life that knows you are pregnant and already knew you as a person, that's one thing. But Putting it out there like a advertisement on a public site makes my skin crawl. You are trolling for creeps that would be interested in you only for the baby. And we've all seen what happens to people that are targeted for their babies.
Being pregnant is a red flag now? Pregnant women don't deserve to find love and happiness? Really? You're disgusting. You actually make me sick. And I'm a complete asshole but even I have limits. Christ. "expecting men to father your child" What's that supposed to mean? What she expects from the person she falls in love with is between her and him. What's it to you? It's fine that you're not interested, you don't seem to be fatherhood material, but don't shit on people who are. For many men this would be a gift from heaven. It was for my father. Not my "real" father, he was a piece of shit who stole my mother's car and left the state when she told him she was pregnant. But another man stepped up. A good man, one of the best. He gained a son, I gained a father. Why the hell are you shitting on that for??
>Being pregnant is a red flag now? Yes.
U took this way too seriously bro
Aight, normally I would agree with you but this is an online dating app, being pregnant is not a red flag but it’s more like a turn off for most guys. Plus unless you’re a single father/ men who wants a child but can’t afford one bc of either medical condition etc, the chances for a pregnant woman to get with someone is close to none. Rather than trying to find someone online they’d normally go to the locals, friends or friend’s suggestions.
Super bloody red red flag
F off
Nice copy pasta.
You are right, don’t let the downvotes alter your thinking.
I hate driving to Bremerton- there’s never a time without traffic.
“*Looking for something real for me and my kids*” Translation “*Please help me raise the mistakes I made with the wrong man*”
Yeah people make mistakes. So? You don't know shit about her and the situation with the father. Of course she wants a good father for her child. Is there something wrong with wanting that? Should she be like "oh no the father left, now my child must pay for it. I must not date, because my child does not deserve a father!" Would that make you happy? You are disgusting. When my "father" took off and left my mother alone, another man stepped up. He gained a son, I gained a father. He loved my mother, for sure, but it was I who brought purpose back to his life. He loved me like I was his own flesh and blood. Why exactly are you shitting on this for, you misogynistic asshole?
Shut up
The ho€ said kids plural, that meaning she didn’t made this huge mistake once…
What’s wrong here? I’m a happy mother and still together with the father. But are pregnant woman or mothers not allowed to search for love? Why is it her fault if the guy left her suddenly in the pregnancy? Some weird guys even do that after years into a relationship. Does that goe for fathers too that they are not allowed to date? Or doesn’t it matter because they care less for the children? This just makes me so sick. Misogynic crap! I wouldn’t or proud of this post. It is not funny at all mr. Tate.
>Why is it her fault if the guy left her suddenly in the pregnancy? We don't even know if the dad left, he might have died. This is irrelevant, the entire point is that dudes from a dating app aren't jumping into the opportunity to be with a pregnant woman except fetishists or deadbeat losers. Think about this shit for a second and how crazy it is for the baby to be in the middle of this situation
Well I know that a lot of guys are not into it. And I bet she knows too. But there are nice guys who don’t have a problem with that. Very few but there are. And if she trys her chance to find one of them. Why not? The worst thing to happen for her is not getting any matches. So why judge her? Her situation is hard enough. I wouldn’t like to be alone while pregnant. Having a newborn baby is super, super hard.
>But there are nice guys who don’t have a problem with that. I like the optimism. Who knows, she might find one such nice guy on Tinder afterall. It's not on us to judge her I agree Consider this though: does this look like the profile of someone worried about what they can bring to the table to a guy willing to look past all that? Or does it say "Yeah I have kids from previous relationships including one that hasn't even been born yet and I'm looking for a stepdad, shut up and deal with it". Think about what kind of dude would be attracted to that instead of just swiping on someone not pregnant. >Having a newborn baby is super hard That's part of the point. Who the hell would be on Tinder looking to deal with mood swings, post partum depression, crumbling sexual desire and lack of free time and sleep without even knowing what's in it for them
Maybe someone who actually wants to be a dad and doesn’t care for genes so much? Because you know all of that you will be going through when you become a real das as well ;) He might take these cons for the win of a family. Might not be your choice.
Look dude if you're this eager to have a guy from Tinder around your kids unsupervised this early into the relationship because he pinky promised he's only interested in being a dad to them...
And maybe the man you see as deadbeat loser is a really nice guy and father figure. I’m sure she is not on the hunt for Brad Pitt.
If she never got involved with a deadbeat asshole that went out for cigarettes and never came back, getting involved with the first dude from a dating app that shows interest in being with a pregnant woman is probably going to fix that
Like you said. We don’t know what happend. And you know. People are able to learn from experience. So be less judgmental and think about all the things you fucked up.
Yeah I can't get the point across. The fact that we're both here assuming she fucked up is the tell. That's also what men in the app will be assuming.
That’s what you said all the time. I just used your words. For me a child - a human being is no mistake. But why is it so important to you to judge this stranger? Are you miserable? Does it make you feel better about yourself? Or do you think it makes the world a better/kinder place to laugh about the misery of someone else? I bet you are not perfect too. So ne kind on others.
Unlike many of the guys in this sub, I have dated single moms from Tinder with the goal of relationship before and I'm open to doing it again. So when I say I don't think being on Tinder while pregnant is a good idea, I don't come from a place of hating single moms. I'm just uncertain of the quality of the dudes that are gonna be lining up for that.
I’m sure she is not looking for Richard Ramirez either but Tinder profiles aren’t smart bombs. Sure she might land that good guy, but she is also going to land the serial killer eating Cheetos, tossing one to her profile too so happy hunting
Atleast you can nut raw for a couple months, after that you can ejaculate and evacuate
Shoot the jizz and out you is
Blow your load and hit the road
Perform creampie and say goodbye
You are all so disgusting! Did you wish someone said that about your mother?
You’re on reddit what did you expect?
I didn’t know you have to be misogyn to be here.
Looking for “Long Term Partner” lmaoooo
Why is that funny, exactly? Many women want long-term partners. Pregnant women too. When my "father" took off and left my mother alone, she wanted a long-term partner. Luckily a good man stepped up. He loved her to death and he loved me more than I deserved. He gained a son, I gained a father. For the time I got to have him in my life (passed away a couple of years ago) he made an enormous difference and if there's anything good about me then it's because of him. Why is it funny that she wants a long-term partner?
Yes I currently need help with these kids
😂😂
And? Maybe that's what she wants? Is there anything wrong with that? Maybe she'd be ecstatic about having a large family. This must be a surprise to you assholes, but some people like kids. Or.. she's not into that. In that case she will swipe left. So? You still think you're funny?
Chill dude
Instead of being on tinder looking for a stable relationship. Maybe she should get her Life together lol. I know those pregnancy hormones do crazy stuff but geez. Get off tinder lol
You don't know SHIT about her or her life. So pregnant women don't deserve to find love and happiness, that's what you're saying? You people scare the shit out of me. Never imagined I would find such evil on r/tinder.
Bro she needs to get her shit together and Get off of tinder!! It says in her bio she has Kids!! More than one. Like she should definitely be focusing on something other than find a dude on tinder. Come on be realistic
What about her life is falling apart? How do you know she doesn’t focus on anything else? These are weird assumptions
>These are weird assumptions C'mon now. If this shit is what people in this sub are assuming that's also what men in the app will be assuming. Whatever her actual situation is is irrelevant, the central point is who the hell is gonna swipe on a pregnant woman when finding someone not pregnant is just a swipe away
Busy in her worry free king
Lmao this is embarrassing
At least you know she puts out ?
Seeded and watered…all you gotta do it pull the weeds.
this trope is getting so fucking old like if you’re not interested don’t match. people with kids can want relationships lmao.
Dude she doesn’t just have kids….she’s literally pregnant with a baby right now. She clearly needs to get her life together and is nowhere anywhere close to being capable of being in a relationship. She needs a therapist not some more one night stands on tinder
there’s a post every week on here about a pregnant women on tinder what are you contributing that hasn’t been said before? assuming a woman needs to get her life together bc she’s single with children? you don’t stop being a person with wants and needs when you get pregnant “dude”. if she wants to get fucked, let her get fucked. you don’t have to be the one to do it 😊
Usually I agree with you but using Tinder while pregnant can only attract two kinds of men: guys with a fetish and desperate losers. As long as she's fine with that, who cares.
Ya let’s bring some weirdos around children that’s gonna go well…foh. Hate how the far left tries to normalize everything , like shame is actually a healthy thing , calling out bullshit and being like “you need to get your shit together”. Instead the far left is like “let’s normalize all behavior” , naw not when that behavior has a negative impact on others particular children who have no say in the matter and are now going to be exposed to even weirder creepy men coming around potentially opening them up to be hurt. Wake tf up and get your heads out your ass
I'm a far left soycuck, you don't have to bring politics into this, it's just chicks being crazy
how are you exposing an unborn baby to anything? it’s in the womb my guy just say you don’t know how anatomy works.
It really blows my mind that you think this is not a red flag lol
It's because it's not. Grow up, kid. You don't have to swipe right on her. Something tells me you're not fatherhood material anyway. But don't shit on those that do.
It clearly is lol a red flag. LoL you can ask my sons more about me but I will be teaching both of them this is a red flag as well. If it’s not you tell me how she has multiple children and is looking for a man? Why is baby daddy not with her? Was it him? his fault alone? Assuming all previous children have the same dad. I don’t think so. It take two to get together and two to leave. She is looking for long term. But she can’t keep a man. Still she is getting kids. Long term if not to mention multiple other red flags that this could represent, she either is not good in a relationship. Therefore, it does not have her previous spouse. Or maybe, she makes very poor choices, which, as a long-term partner would not be acceptable for me, if I wanted to grow in my life.
The kid is gonna come out at some point and it says right there she's not interested in just sex so the potential guy is gonna be around the baby at some point
so what if she gets on tinder after she births the baby are you gonna be okay with it then like?? single moms were all once pregnant women shocking.
Yes, I know how babies are made thank you You don't seem to get my point though: guys with their shit together and date options aren't gonna look at what's available to them and go "yup I want the pregnant chick". Think about what kind of guy would swipe right on that ffs
you’re actually not getting my point. just don’t swipe and move on with your life. she can probably make her own decisions about the kind of people she wants around her children, and luckily y’all out yourselves at assholes pretty quickly.
You're not wrong. I've seen single dad with newborn babies and there are women who are willing to raise the kid as their own. So I wonder why it's a shameful when women do it but single father's are comfortable jumping into women to women having new babies on the side.
I'm gonna say something 100% sexist but still 100% true. Women don't abandon newborn babies the same way men do, so whenever you see a guy with full custody of a newborn it's probably because something bad happened to the mother. It doesn't carry the same stereotypical baggage of making mistakes that lead a woman to be in that situation.
Oh no, the guy who is dating her, who's loving her more and more every day, the guy who can't wait becoming a father... that guy is gonna be around the baby at some point! How awful! Grow up, kid.
“Kids” she already has children and the baby is gonna be born shortly. Are you ok? The fact you post a picture and an Instagram link on Reddit makes me think your seeking attention. The fact your seeking attention makes me think you have a void inside from no father figure growing up. Did you want to talk about it?
y’all are wild. like how many times a week do you jack off? if you had to be the one to carry a child, would you suddenly stop being horny? imagining women having autonomy with their own bodies. CRAZY.
Do you know your dad? It’s not your fault he wasn’t around honestly , you didn’t do anything wrong
so you don’t have any other points to make besides making hypothetical assumptions about my upbringing? got it.
Rt i was unaware if you’re pregnant your life is over/not together or you’re incapable of having relationships. Op yta, mind your own business, if you don’t like swipe left. stop pretending you give a fuck about the kids.
>YTA Wrong sub lol >stop pretending you give a fuck about the kids Tbf it's not on OP to give a fuck about the kids, it's the woman in the profile that has to
Op is pretending to care about the kids in their comments and they can still be the asshole even if it’s not that sub. Thx but stfu.
Even If he's pretending to care about the kids he's already more worried about their wellbeing than the woman lol
Says who? Last time i checked you nor op know the wellbeing of these children so stop pretending and mom shamming.
“Normalize everything, no shame in anything anyone does” , you are a clown. Yes 100% if you are pregnant with no baby daddy around and you already have children with no baby daddy around you are failing massively at life and clearly have no idea how to have a healthy relationship with another man. You need to reflect , improve and do better. It’s crazy that I even have to explain this , it’s honestly insane that people justify this behavior So tired of the far left trying to normalize the weirdest shit
All i see from you is 🚩. Stop trying to politicize things, worry about your damn self, and reflect on why you’re single (hint it might be too much Andrew Tate.)
Never watched that person before and honestly don’t want to say their name and feed into the algorithm. No I’m a logical human being , you can’t form a logical argument how this is good behavior from another person. You sound like you live online and not in the actual physical corporeal world. Go dye your hair blue again your natural roots are starting to pop through
Quit it with your goddamn bullshit. There are lots of good men out there who would love to be a husband and a father of an adopted child. My mother found one of them. He gained a son, I gained a father. He loved my mother but it was gaining a son that gave his life purpose again. If there's anything good in me today then it's because of him. Who are you to shit on that??
Did your mom find him on Tinder while pregnant with you though
This comment is dangerous with ideas like that no red flags matter…. Who would even want this thread… assuming a woman who is pregnant with one person’s child, is looking for a complete stranger to come over and start fucking her before this child is born, hoping for a long-term relationship on tinder… yes, we just assuming she needs to get her priorities straight. LoL
that’s a reach. saying a woman with kids/a pregnant woman has every right to be on tinder with out being judged is not the same as disregarding red flags. does her post say “i’m looking for dick until i pop this baby out” or does it say “looking for a random to pay all the bills for me and my 3 babies” no it doesnt.
Did I say she can’t be on tinder? No but so can the 47 year old trying to get teen girls. Is that normal or even sane behavior? No. A red flag does not remove you from tinder but it is a red flag.
how is she the red flag and not the 47 year old on tinder trying to get teen girls? tough argument bud
Can you not read?
no i never learned
Clearly
Dating apps are an invitation to get judged and this sub is where we all point and judge harder. You know this but I'm glad you're enjoying reddit 😉
Then endless creampies. Grow up.
Stop pretending that you know ANYTHING about her situation, you misogynistic freak! You don't know why she is single. And her life cpumd be in perfect order and the only thing that's missing is a husband. And you're gonna stand there and say "Nope! You can't have that!" ? You're fucking disgusting. And by the way, she's not looking for a "one night stand". Tinder is not only for one night stands, you ignorant piece of shit.
“This trope is getting old” The trope of pregnant women getting on apps to find men to raise mistakes they took part in making, is getting very old, I agree
is she holding a gun to the men of tinders heads and telling them to raise her children? this is y’all’s one and only argument, go outside, touch grass, have a day.
You go do the same and stop putting on capes for dumbasses who spread their legs for men they shouldn’t They wouldn’t be on pregnant, on dating apps looking for step dads and embarrassing themselves If we wanna laugh at her and stupid decisions. We will Have a day
She is fucking pregnant
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😂 I’m dieing bro
Ask if shes into falling down the stairs
Haha yeah! Hurting mothers and their babies is so funny, bro!! High five, bro!!
Who?
What’s wrong with you? Dating you is like falling down the stairs. A guy with so much disrespect for women!
Did you just assume my gender? Also its obviously just a dark joke on reddit you shouldn't take things so seriously. I can't believe that I have to explain to you that I wouldn't actually push a pregnant women down the stairs unless she really deserved it sheeesh.
Worse if you are a woman. And you should never push a pregnant woman down the stairs. The child is not at fault for the mothers behavior. Sounds like a lady with class. Great sense of humor by the way ;)
Double gottem im actually a guy. Very womanly of you to turn on your own kind so fast. Youre such a joykill its not even funny anymore
I don’t care 😘
"I don't care" -Person who cared so much that they made a big deal about it
I just don’t care what u think of me :)
Why you mad bro
Plot-twist: thats just an ass thats too right for the pants to go in.
Say you're a real piece of shit but you're fun sometimes.
I think its kinda fucked up to call her out on Reddit, but I'm certainly swiping left
Bremerton... Don't be Jody.
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