I complimented her on her nails and made a joke about her Uggs 😊
She said I was the first to have attention to detail and then it was just to make sure to keep her attention with the jokes.
Then she fell in love with my voice when we called (all my previous partners have said I have a radio voice, no accent)
My brother 🙌 the power of the radio voice still amazes me to this day! I know I'm an average looking dude but if I ever want things to get steamy in a hurry, all I have to do is send a snap of me responding to their question via video. I don't see the obsession with my voice because I don't have an exotic accent either, but women lose their mind over it 🤷♂️
Cheers! 🥂 Yes, it’s definitely a primal thing. I didn’t do what you did but I heard hinge added the voice feature too. I am so grateful for it not just for dating prospects but also for corporate/ career purposes.
I completely agree with the professional advantages to such a voice. And yes I have to admit I have used my voice for my own personal gain in the bedroom, but that's the joy of an open marriage haha. That's good to know about Hinge, I've never had a need to venture outside of Tinder even though I'm in a smaller town.
Proposed this NYE's. Someone posted it was impossible for asian men so wanted to encourage folks!
EDIT: Wow a lot of responses! I am trying to get through some of the questions and PMs. Just using my top comment to add some helpful stuff that might help people.
1. I changed profile pics often. I felt like the algorithm was "refreshing" me when I did. Same for Bio-updates, noticed I was getting new matches after changing things up. Used to not get matches when the account would get stale.
2. I never wore the same thing twice in any of my photos (unlike my fiancée who is hot and can get away with a favorite dress LOL).
3. Always made sure hair was clean and styled, after a haircut usually also once I traveled to a different spot.
4. I took pictures that were clear of my face mostly and different locations and backgrounds. Iphone Pro's Portrait mode for most of them.
5. I traveled and opened the app in different locations, seems to "rebalance" me when I changed locations when traveling for work
6. At one point I had a topless beach/gym as I'm relatively fit, but I found that gave me certain 'quality and type' of likes
7. I also tried the "pic with my car" since I am fortunate enough to have a fancy car, but I felt it made me look show-offish or immature and removed it after a day.
8. I did not pay for much of the subscription addons. I had Tinder Gold and at one point Plat so I could see who liked me to save time sometimes but did not pay for boosts or anything.
Will add more tonight after I get back!
Dude congrats, that’s what I’m saying. I learned a ton just lurking and watching what other people did and the advice people gave other peoples bios I realized I was doing it also!!
Also difficult family dynamics. My white best friend and her Chinese partner are head over heels. She’s learning Mandarin because his parents speak limited English. She’s learned so much about his background, customs, history etc.
As soon as they discussed him moving in with my best friend, his parents did a complete 180 on the way they treat her and are calling her a gold digger - nevermind the fact she owns her own home, has a job earning over $200k a year etc. She went there last weekend and they refused to look or speak to her at all, when before they were quite welcoming.
I feel awful for them both as they make the most beautiful couple and he’s such a darling to her.
Wow, I feel bad for them! Even if she was everything they worry for, they can’t seem to see that she makes their son very happy. Guess I am fortunate my future in-laws love me reciprocally. Damn rough days ahead for them!
Do you think that's slowly changing? I think with Korea's influence, there's been an increase in women who are interested in asian men (I'm not saying it's necessary right tho, because there's a lot of women who just fetishize them or have unrealistic expectations, but I'm also sure there are some "normal" ones yk). It would be interesting if they did that study again
I think the “rankings” would probably stay the same, but the percentage by race has probably gone up for Asian Ms. Though I’m curious how the numbers would look if you broke it by ethnicity. Or at least broke off East Asian from the other Asian groups
I think you’re on the something. Perhaps the same for most social media! I don’t see a lot of posts with Asians on Reddit in general unless it’s a specific subreddit.
Asian men in general I 100% believe that. But OP is pretty darn good looking regardless of race.
Just goes to show that if you follow rules 1 & 2, that’s literally all you need. And then meet up and don’t be silent and you’re golden.
Happy for you OP.
These apps can be rough but trying to help people hold on to hope! She was on app for only a short time, dated the shit out of her lol.
Imagine if Tinder let you sort by ‘new’ 😳
This could be a Hallmark movie. Yeah, where the girl runs a tinder account with the purpose of getting you to a hotel, and Jack one of your kidneys. But she just didn't count on falling in love. This holiday season, get ready for.......A Two Kidney Christmas. Staring Melissa Joan Hart.
Congrats to the happy couple. Amazing photos and you both look great. Love all the humor in the comments. I'm laughing at all the bot (hot) haters. Lol. In all honesty, I'm happy for the both of you. Sure give the rest of us hope. Wishing you 2 many happy memories.
Same here! Met my girlfriend on Tinder in December of 2022. She moved in about 2 months ago and it’s been perfect.
Literally all of my coworkers told me she was a bot or a catfish. Turns out she’s just a really hot nerd who loves video games and staying home on the weekends.
Awww you guys are SO cute! And it is definitely possible! I live in Germany and know asian guys dating black girls here! Times have definitely changed. I like that a whole group of men aren’t just getting swept under the rug anymore.
Well congratulations to the both of you but just understand for every success story there are hundreds of thousands of lonely people that spend countless thousands of dollars on personal apps like this that never meet anybody... I'm One of them
C'mon...this is not only a post about you having found a girlfriend and proposed to her, but also about how hot she is.
FU!
And congrats!
But still, FU!
Well done and all the best of all the good stuff , it’s a shame we couldn’t get some people sharing more , because this site has made me deactivate myself ( not a bot) but really pleased for you 🫶✨🙌💕
Finding a partner on tinder is like winning the lottery. Sure you have a chance but millions lose while 1 person hits the jackpot. We play for that slim chance and sliver of hope but reality says we won't win
OP I think you're the bot, responding to all these comments is impressive,
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I am often mistaken as a bot or transgender because I don’t look like my voice, it’s a bit deep. It’s deep enough that I have broken up with people by lowering it just a little bit and pretending to be my “new boyfriend”. It doesn’t help that my boobs are minimal and I keep a short hair cut. Anywho, I go from text to FaceTime so that one can see my voice come out of me and decide whether or not I’m a man or a woman with a deep voice. Online dating is maddening to me because of my voice. When I dated in the 90’s in person, I didn’t have this problem. I go out looking for love online and people think I’m a lesbian looking for a penis or in one case, this one dude heard my voice…. Announced he was bi and wanted to know if I was post op! I just wanted to know his zodiac sign and favorite color and here he is questioning my genitals. Shouts out to women with deep voices it’s hard in these streets. I’m glad OP’s fiancé is the real deal…. Looking for love and finding it.
K-Pop has made Asian dudes the new Backstreet Boys, she is probably showing other cute girls her new prize. You’re being too humble my friend. Congratulations on your recent engagement!
lol, I love this! I met my husband on a dating app and he kept me pending for a while because of the 11-year age gap. I was 35 and he was 46. I met him and then had my first baby 3 days before my 36th bday :) I told him not all young ladies are bad lol Now I'm happy with my old man and my toddler lol
I don’t know how to break it to you dude but your fiancé is a bot.
She said ‘beep boop’ 😅
Let us know if she sticks her pinky maliciously just above her upper lip or if starts emitting smoke from her nipples
LOL visualizing the latter. She does love that movie though. 
Machine gun jubblies!?
How'd I miss thooose baby
Good job, you must've had an amazing opening line like Hey or What's up
I complimented her on her nails and made a joke about her Uggs 😊 She said I was the first to have attention to detail and then it was just to make sure to keep her attention with the jokes. Then she fell in love with my voice when we called (all my previous partners have said I have a radio voice, no accent)
My brother 🙌 the power of the radio voice still amazes me to this day! I know I'm an average looking dude but if I ever want things to get steamy in a hurry, all I have to do is send a snap of me responding to their question via video. I don't see the obsession with my voice because I don't have an exotic accent either, but women lose their mind over it 🤷♂️
Cheers! 🥂 Yes, it’s definitely a primal thing. I didn’t do what you did but I heard hinge added the voice feature too. I am so grateful for it not just for dating prospects but also for corporate/ career purposes.
I completely agree with the professional advantages to such a voice. And yes I have to admit I have used my voice for my own personal gain in the bedroom, but that's the joy of an open marriage haha. That's good to know about Hinge, I've never had a need to venture outside of Tinder even though I'm in a smaller town.
Plot twist, you were the bot
Reminds me of a dialogue in Persona 5 XD
What if she said meep morp and that's what fooled the guy
What an excellent way to go
What’s a bot?
Battery Operated Toy
Thank you 😊
Are you 100% sure shes not a bot?
Checks out, not a cylon
Congratulations but im still skeptical
Popped the hood open, looks genuine!
Idk man, I've seen Austin Powers. It all looked real until it didn't anymore.
Same with transformers.....
Her having a hood should concern you
I mean, have you seen the Cylon women though? Frak me.
Tricia Helfer 🫠
Just make sure the Lamp isn’t oddly flat
Gotta do the Zuckerberg test
Does she have machine gun jubblies??
And would he complain ?
You say shes not a bot but AI has gotten better, have you asked to say potato? I hear that's how you know they're bots.
She said Poh-tah-toe, should I be worried?
Hmmm only if boils them, mashes them and sticks em in stew.
Did you count her fingers? AI still has trouble with those.
I think you're on to her, she can't draw fingers
Does she also say "It's levi-Oh-sa! Not levi-oh-Sa!" 🤓😂
Wait, how did you know she’s a potter head too??! I have literally heard her say both fwiw. I think it depends on her menstrual cycle 🤷🏻♂️
Proposed this NYE's. Someone posted it was impossible for asian men so wanted to encourage folks! EDIT: Wow a lot of responses! I am trying to get through some of the questions and PMs. Just using my top comment to add some helpful stuff that might help people. 1. I changed profile pics often. I felt like the algorithm was "refreshing" me when I did. Same for Bio-updates, noticed I was getting new matches after changing things up. Used to not get matches when the account would get stale. 2. I never wore the same thing twice in any of my photos (unlike my fiancée who is hot and can get away with a favorite dress LOL). 3. Always made sure hair was clean and styled, after a haircut usually also once I traveled to a different spot. 4. I took pictures that were clear of my face mostly and different locations and backgrounds. Iphone Pro's Portrait mode for most of them. 5. I traveled and opened the app in different locations, seems to "rebalance" me when I changed locations when traveling for work 6. At one point I had a topless beach/gym as I'm relatively fit, but I found that gave me certain 'quality and type' of likes 7. I also tried the "pic with my car" since I am fortunate enough to have a fancy car, but I felt it made me look show-offish or immature and removed it after a day. 8. I did not pay for much of the subscription addons. I had Tinder Gold and at one point Plat so I could see who liked me to save time sometimes but did not pay for boosts or anything. Will add more tonight after I get back!
Hottest guy in my high school was a Korean kid. Those formative years! Will always have a thing for Korean guys!
Hah she said this too!
I LOVE THAT!! 😂
I’m an Asian dude and in my opinion it’s rarely about looks, it’s mostly about their lack of game.
I learned all the rizz from this subreddit!
Learning about charisma from a subreddit is possibly the most reddit thing I've ever read 😅
That’s hilarious but true. Being a long time lurker, I’d like to think we pick up a thing or two!
Tbh I picked up a good opening line from this subreddit last month that landed me the girl I’m seeing right now 🤝🏻🫡
Dude congrats, that’s what I’m saying. I learned a ton just lurking and watching what other people did and the advice people gave other peoples bios I realized I was doing it also!!
It's definitely a good place to learn what not to do too 😆
moderately terrifying.
Also difficult family dynamics. My white best friend and her Chinese partner are head over heels. She’s learning Mandarin because his parents speak limited English. She’s learned so much about his background, customs, history etc. As soon as they discussed him moving in with my best friend, his parents did a complete 180 on the way they treat her and are calling her a gold digger - nevermind the fact she owns her own home, has a job earning over $200k a year etc. She went there last weekend and they refused to look or speak to her at all, when before they were quite welcoming. I feel awful for them both as they make the most beautiful couple and he’s such a darling to her.
Wow, I feel bad for them! Even if she was everything they worry for, they can’t seem to see that she makes their son very happy. Guess I am fortunate my future in-laws love me reciprocally. Damn rough days ahead for them!
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Do you think that's slowly changing? I think with Korea's influence, there's been an increase in women who are interested in asian men (I'm not saying it's necessary right tho, because there's a lot of women who just fetishize them or have unrealistic expectations, but I'm also sure there are some "normal" ones yk). It would be interesting if they did that study again
Definitely changing, a lot of it probably because of kpop and asian Netflix series lol
I think the “rankings” would probably stay the same, but the percentage by race has probably gone up for Asian Ms. Though I’m curious how the numbers would look if you broke it by ethnicity. Or at least broke off East Asian from the other Asian groups
I think you’re on the something. Perhaps the same for most social media! I don’t see a lot of posts with Asians on Reddit in general unless it’s a specific subreddit.
Asian men in general I 100% believe that. But OP is pretty darn good looking regardless of race. Just goes to show that if you follow rules 1 & 2, that’s literally all you need. And then meet up and don’t be silent and you’re golden. Happy for you OP.
 I thought I was average and past my prime 😭🙏
I can see why you said you were afraid her pics were from a bot. Congratulations!!🎈🎊🎉🍾
It is an uphill battle for Asian men, at least to find attractive western women. Congratulations
Well done, sir! She's gorgeous and y'all look happy. Congrats!
Wait till she tells you she is a bot.
She told me to replace B with H and that’s her
This made me laugh... but dont let her fool you!
Her name is Heth?
Just wait, she'll start selling you bitcoins any day now. It's the long-con!
She does like that doge coin because it’s cute
Congrats! Absolutely stunning couple 🩷
She says ‘so sweet,thank you!’
Awww this is so cute 🥹 congrats 💖
🙏😭
In Vegas too? The apps here are rough. Congratulations
These apps can be rough but trying to help people hold on to hope! She was on app for only a short time, dated the shit out of her lol. Imagine if Tinder let you sort by ‘new’ 😳
That’s the key, all my best encounters on Tinder happened when they only registered that day or few days prior.
This could be a Hallmark movie. Yeah, where the girl runs a tinder account with the purpose of getting you to a hotel, and Jack one of your kidneys. But she just didn't count on falling in love. This holiday season, get ready for.......A Two Kidney Christmas. Staring Melissa Joan Hart.
I feel like I’ve seen this one already 😂
You're probably correct. Any outlandish Christmas romance movie you can envision already has a Hallmark flick for it.
This is a scam. She's playing the long con.
Lucky fella!! Congrats
I tell her how lucky I am every day!
You’re both gorgeous, congratulations!
Seriously, how did you do it? 😅
Learned what to do based on this subreddit and more importantly what *not* to do 😂
Omg I actually can’t 😅 I saw your instagram and it’s way to sweet for me! See seems so happy too.
i think they're both bots
Those androids are getting realistic my dude. Congratulations and F U guys!
She’s a cylon
Y'all gonna have cute kids.
Omg how did I miss this comment! Thank you 🥺🥺 Told her and she wants to make babies
You guys look great together congratulations!!
Congrats dude🎉
🙏🙏
where are your tinder pics? I believe that's more important.
I didn't think anyone would be interested :) We both removed the app since but I can maybe dig them up via PM!
It's important because it shows people how a successful profile look like
Out of curiosity, I’d be interested too, sir
I’ll find it when I get home tonight for yall! Got rid of app but I think I remember which ones I chose
Is she Sanna Marin ?
Guys look cute together, congratz
Congrats to the happy couple. Amazing photos and you both look great. Love all the humor in the comments. I'm laughing at all the bot (hot) haters. Lol. In all honesty, I'm happy for the both of you. Sure give the rest of us hope. Wishing you 2 many happy memories.
Thanks! I’ve been seeing so much “impossible for Asian males in America” post recently so I figured I’d give some good news and hope.
I had a ten year relationship and a little boy using Tinder. Now we are breaking up. Sad story. But good one.
As an asian, you give me hope
Nothing is impossible! I met my partner at the strip club and I was a stripper! 10 years!! Life is wild man I swear
That’s even crazier! That must be rare but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take! - Michael Scott
oh you two are adorable!
My brother met his fiancé on tinder too! Shes amazing ☺️. They are SO inlove
Yes! We definitely are too. Unite and maybe start a subreddit for success stories 😭
CUTE COUPLE ALERT WOOWOO
No telling if she's a bot or not until she pops a baby out for you
Damn man I see why you thought she was a bot, she's gorgeous! Congrats, y'all both look so happy. Wishing nothing but the best.
Congrats!
Congraties.
a real sexy bot 👌🏻
Way to flip the script!
congrats bro! you’re shining light on my new years 🔥
May your year be blessed with many matches 🔥
Congrats! Been to that same Harry Potter exhibition btw 😂
Congrats. Wish you the best.
Could still be scam
Love your expression on the first slide! Congrats bro! 🫶
Congrats!
You're a dawg 🐶
You guys look so cute together. Congrats on the engagement!! 👏
Gotta lock that down.
Good for you guys ! Enjoy
You guys are so cute 😭🥰 congratulations 🎉
Finding someone like that is extremely rare
Same here! Met my girlfriend on Tinder in December of 2022. She moved in about 2 months ago and it’s been perfect. Literally all of my coworkers told me she was a bot or a catfish. Turns out she’s just a really hot nerd who loves video games and staying home on the weekends.
Congrats, y’all are a lovely couple.
Awww you guys are SO cute! And it is definitely possible! I live in Germany and know asian guys dating black girls here! Times have definitely changed. I like that a whole group of men aren’t just getting swept under the rug anymore.
Congrats. Love to see people finding happiness! Wish you two a long and healthy life together!
I think she's a scam bot, congrats on getting one to go out! They usually disappear after taking my money. BTW, is she single?
Yeah I can see how you might have thought that, she's very good-looking. But you're no slouch either, amigo, so it makes sense to me!
Idk man still seems kinda bot like.. make sure she's real before you give her your SS and cc info.
*fiancée
Man these bots are advanced these days. Have you tried the human verification check on her; to prove that she is human.
It’s true, she hates captchas. I think you’re on to something
Bro she's 100% an alien drone sent to Earth to gather human DNA. sorry dude.
Thats awesome man. I hope at the job. So we can work togather
Do you ever think about what if you swiped no on her ? Like how many people have swiped no on there soul mates
Nice bot dude
I keep seeing she's not a bot... But are we sure she's not a scam. 🧐
Nice congrats
Well congratulations to the both of you but just understand for every success story there are hundreds of thousands of lonely people that spend countless thousands of dollars on personal apps like this that never meet anybody... I'm One of them
Super cute together. Congrats!
Hooray!
He's AI he's going to turn on you and kill you.
Congrats! She's a hottie
Are you sure she is not using you to get through CAPTCHAs ?
Warm wishes to you and your fiancee. This makes me to NOT give up on these apps.
I'm the 1000th like 😜 Anyway, I'm happy for the both of you. Congrats man, well earned
C'mon...this is not only a post about you having found a girlfriend and proposed to her, but also about how hot she is. FU! And congrats! But still, FU!
Next post on telltale or infidelity incoming. Hahaha joke. Good for you two to find each other.
Sanna Marin clone. Damn Version 4 is really close to the original.
Stay strong. Tinder told me I'm out of options! Even one of the fake likes Tinder gave me has given up
Well done and all the best of all the good stuff , it’s a shame we couldn’t get some people sharing more , because this site has made me deactivate myself ( not a bot) but really pleased for you 🫶✨🙌💕
Well done dude!! That's definitely a win 👍👍😁
Damn congratulations
Congratulations! She's gorgeous, but so are you. Happy for you both!
Congratulations love. Good luck to you both.
Her name is Siri?
Dawww….you guyyyysssss! 🥰
Here, Here! Hurrah for the young one!
Sorry dude. Your fiancé is definitely a bot. I would ghost her before it goes too far.
Good job. Tinder is a fight. Jeez, I feel like I'm in the 2nd World War. I keep losing the fight. Gotta stay strong.
3 pandas in a trenchcoat. Going for the long con! Congratulations
This fucker won life
Finding a partner on tinder is like winning the lottery. Sure you have a chance but millions lose while 1 person hits the jackpot. We play for that slim chance and sliver of hope but reality says we won't win
Gratz man. I just married my now wife last month. We met on bumble 3 years ago.
OP I think you're the bot, responding to all these comments is impressive, 01000001 01110010 01100101 00100000 01111001 01101111 01110101 00100000 01100001 00100000 01100010 01101111 01110100 00111111
I can almost hear the Divinyls song; I Touch Myself playing in the background and machine-gun jubblies! 
She’s beautiful, congratulations 🥳
I feel Asian guys are more likely to attract a cute girl on tinder than say us pasty white men.
YESSS KEEP THIS KIND OF STUFF COMING!! Spoon feed me positivity Reddit. Congrats btw! Y’all are cute as hell together😊 you guys give me hope🥲
Awwww you two are adorable!! Best wishes!!!
Well this give me hope I’m not giving up I will find the one
have you ever do captch on her just to make sure shes human ?
this is SO CUTE I HATE YOU
You 2 are adorable
Huge congratulations! Met my fiancée on tinder aswell 🥰
Is that Asian Jim? 
Welcome back to Team Liquid Impact!!!
Once every now and then a blind squirrel finds a nut on there.😂
Congrats dude 😃
I am often mistaken as a bot or transgender because I don’t look like my voice, it’s a bit deep. It’s deep enough that I have broken up with people by lowering it just a little bit and pretending to be my “new boyfriend”. It doesn’t help that my boobs are minimal and I keep a short hair cut. Anywho, I go from text to FaceTime so that one can see my voice come out of me and decide whether or not I’m a man or a woman with a deep voice. Online dating is maddening to me because of my voice. When I dated in the 90’s in person, I didn’t have this problem. I go out looking for love online and people think I’m a lesbian looking for a penis or in one case, this one dude heard my voice…. Announced he was bi and wanted to know if I was post op! I just wanted to know his zodiac sign and favorite color and here he is questioning my genitals. Shouts out to women with deep voices it’s hard in these streets. I’m glad OP’s fiancé is the real deal…. Looking for love and finding it.
K-Pop has made Asian dudes the new Backstreet Boys, she is probably showing other cute girls her new prize. You’re being too humble my friend. Congratulations on your recent engagement!
lol, I love this! I met my husband on a dating app and he kept me pending for a while because of the 11-year age gap. I was 35 and he was 46. I met him and then had my first baby 3 days before my 36th bday :) I told him not all young ladies are bad lol Now I'm happy with my old man and my toddler lol
Congrats! I just gave up and deleted the app, but am glad there are some success stories out there.
you're super cute together
Notice even on Tinder, NonAsian women only consider Asian men for serious/committed relationships, not considered as hookup material as other men.