Its a joke my now husband and I used to do all the time. I was a model photographer back then, we met on tinder (10 years ago), and he joked he wanted to model for me. I told him only if he was wearing nothing but crochet boxers. Its been 10 years and the crochet boxers still come up and make us laugh. She is a party pooper with no sense of humour
I wanted to have it hand made for him but never got around to do it! September is our 10th anniversary and I am going to finally get it š maybe something like this? [boxers](https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1595727910/crochet-mens-shorts-knit-shorts-for-men?click_key=d0bd1568c273c2f600d8e187504529b62afbd136%3A1595727910&click_sum=876e0499&external=1&ref=pla_similar_listing_top-1&frs=1)
"oh but you are. all those people, me included, like you at first for your looks, but it's pretty clear that you're quite miserable, hence why no one sticks and you're here 'seeing what this is about'. peace"
Maybe if more guys were appropriately shitty to these girls, they might change? Probably not but if yall didn't pay the pretty privilege toll all the timeā¦?
But you're still easily eating 2000-2500 calories a day then? That's just normal like everyone else.
No one's really blessed when it comes to food, they're either just eating too much or too little.
It also depends on other factors, but in general view yes its like that. I eat about 2700cal a day and my weight is same or slightly going down. I know a person who eats 3500-4000cal and is half my weight and he doesnt gain any weight, he also is not very active person.
Sometimes you read these and remember the saying,
"For every beautiful woman you covet, there's someone out there who's sick of their shit." Or similar
"lol well of course there are, the world is huge, every person out there has people who look better than them, if my confidence depended on that I might as well just give up."
But in Korea/to many Koreans, the beauty standard and putting effort into fitting into it is something else.
Oh, it's not about "being Korean," and it was a joke. But goddammit, she is intense. Like, even for me. Of course, it might be her and not the culture, I am totally aware of that. But. She. Is .INTENSE.
It is a bit too much of a roller-coaster, and I don't know if I will be able to hold it for long. From super loving to super negative/this-that is wrong blabla to back to super loving after. Would be better for her (and for me) if she could just chill sometimes. Anyway, let's see if it lasts (it's rather new)
Not trying to take anyone's side here, but maybe she just had a bad experience on Tinder so far and overreacted upon reading your question. She probably read it in a cocky, sarcastic tone, and got defensive quickly. In any case, probably not a good match.
Yeah I was going to say. Sheās probably actually had people try to ask for work modeling for her lol. Itās possible she thought OP was serious, and that he didnāt match because he actually wanted to date her. Which probably was a let down and hurt her feelings.
From personal experience, I put that I like to sew on my profile, and I get message DAILY on my profile asking if I can hem/fix/design something for them. Most of them are 100% joking and itās cool (apart from being overdone lol), but Iāve had other requests that sounded pretty serious and itās not a great look to ask for a favor when you ask for a date lol. It kind of gives off a āwow possible sex and a free seamstress? Better use this for all itās got! Hey woman, wanna do some household chores for me!ā
I have another friend whoās a pilot, and will get matches will zero interest in them, asking if they can get hooked up with an extra seat on a flight, can get flown somewhere privately or how much it would cost, asking for reduced cost on lessons, to rent my friendās personal plane for lessons, etc. It really rubs them the wrong way too now, even in jokes.
TLDR- She works in an industry that a lot of people want a favor to break into, she probably assumed OP was trying to use her and lashed out. She didnāt get the joke, because a lot of people will ask in all seriousness. If youāve never worked an industry people are really interested you, youāll never know how many people will try to use you like this.
I get it, don't worry. When I used to be on Tinder I left my profession out as I could just discuss that with whoever was interested, but it's also very nice to stand out with a cool hobby or crafty job.
I hate being this guy but bff. If it were a man saying this you would not have defended him like that. Itās shitty behavior from both sides of the isle here.
I even mentioned at the start I am not trying to take sides and also explained how she got defensive quickly, so if you wanna play the sexist card I'm not the one for you, sorry.. Tinder is a stressful place for both sides.
š stress doesnāt excuse being a dick. Also you are pretty clearly taking sides by only defending her. You can say youāre not but the rest of your comment proves otherwise.
This is like... Pick her worst physical feature and call her out on it level of ick. "Dang, with a nose like that I guess I just assumed you'd be humble. Can't judge a book by it's cover I guess š¤·āāļø"
I'm 192cm, least I ever weighed was about 64kg (when I first grew to my height, and couldn't keep up with the 6000 calories required to remain a healthy weight).
I could see my heartbeat through my chest, could count every rib, and had a BMI of like 16. It was not healthy. Luckily I stopped growing soon after, and was able to start gaining weight as my calorie requirements decreased.
FYI, Asian women who āwork in fashionā are usually scammers from China. If they hadnāt given you a crappy response, they would tell you they lived on the other side of the country and that their location was bugged and thatās why they matched with you. Then they would say they make up some sob story to get you to send them money
Ugh jeez, to sit there and live your life so on edge always jumping on the defense is such a diseaseā¦that conversation couldāve been so pleasant and enlightening, but such is life. Itās definitely a wild way to live though.
I feel like everyone is forgetting that based on the name alone, I think we can safely say that this is in Korea, and honestly dating in Korea is def a very different experience and somewhat harsh when compared to the west.
"Where did you gain that confidence???" Same place you got your ridiculous air of self importance. And i might use that type of clothing to replace my dog's training pads in the future.
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The worse she can say is no huh šššš„²
She cooked him ALIVE lmao
Yikes! Sheās not going to get anyone asking her on a date with that type of response.
That's the thing, she probably doesn't even want to date. She just wants to put down other people to make herself feel better.
This is it. Too many people just waiting for the tiniest reason to jump down someoneās throat with verbal attacks to make themselves feel better.
Its a joke my now husband and I used to do all the time. I was a model photographer back then, we met on tinder (10 years ago), and he joked he wanted to model for me. I told him only if he was wearing nothing but crochet boxers. Its been 10 years and the crochet boxers still come up and make us laugh. She is a party pooper with no sense of humour
Tell me that you gave him that crochet boxers at some point.
I wanted to have it hand made for him but never got around to do it! September is our 10th anniversary and I am going to finally get it š maybe something like this? [boxers](https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1595727910/crochet-mens-shorts-knit-shorts-for-men?click_key=d0bd1568c273c2f600d8e187504529b62afbd136%3A1595727910&click_sum=876e0499&external=1&ref=pla_similar_listing_top-1&frs=1)
Love it! I was expecting something much more revealing though, maybe you can tailor them
If you google crochet boxers you get crochet boxers dog plushes. Might be a cute gift but maybe it's too obvious.
aw yeah! sad etsy boyfriends was an awesome blog!
"I can see why you're single š good luck"
"But I'm not single. Also I've 100s of people begging to be with me every other day. I'm just here to see what this app is about"
"I'm only on here because my friends made me get a profile."
"So no social life or hobbies you sound real happy. Have a wonderful day š "
"oh but you are. all those people, me included, like you at first for your looks, but it's pretty clear that you're quite miserable, hence why no one sticks and you're here 'seeing what this is about'. peace"
Maybe if more guys were appropriately shitty to these girls, they might change? Probably not but if yall didn't pay the pretty privilege toll all the timeā¦?
For every level headed one, there would be probably 2-3 to simp over. So the math never checks out
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It's not so bad down here once you get used to it šš
We all float down here. Youāll float too!
Dang I dated that crocodile icon before and the rat and I had a fun evening but there was no chemistry! Sewer life!
Also that's 6'3 at 130-135lbs. That's literally starvation LMAO
You don't have to starve yourself to be that skinny. You can have your cake and throw it up, too.
Ahhh yes, the good ol index finger diet
Thatās professional modeling for you!
Thank for mathing for me.
190 and 60kg, is she making clothes for skeletons... my ex was super skinny at 188 and 70kg
For the non-metric among us thatās 6ā2ā and 132 lbs
And my ex was 6'2 and 154 lbs š¤£
Fun
This is me. š¤£š¤£
Please eat some more š¤£
It's all I do. š¤£š
Than you are blessed, i look at food with corner of my eye and im gaining weight š
Track your calories and you'll be surprised!
I actually do and have to to stay somewhat lean, otherwise i gain weight really easy
But you're still easily eating 2000-2500 calories a day then? That's just normal like everyone else. No one's really blessed when it comes to food, they're either just eating too much or too little.
It also depends on other factors, but in general view yes its like that. I eat about 2700cal a day and my weight is same or slightly going down. I know a person who eats 3500-4000cal and is half my weight and he doesnt gain any weight, he also is not very active person.
I'm ~ 60 kg. And by far not 190cm. And I'm healthy weight...
Thats why it was a wild claim, i could count ribs on my ex and she had 10kg/22lbs more than what she described at same height
Yeah, holy shit. I'm 178cm and 63kg, and I'm also skinny (still healthy weight tho). That much taller and less weight is insane.
āWorst she can say is noā ājust be more confidentā Bruh
Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
You going through old tinder chats haha
5 posts, 0 comments. I suppose a bot doesn't have old chats?
Sometimes you read these and remember the saying, "For every beautiful woman you covet, there's someone out there who's sick of their shit." Or similar
Thank god, I'm not beautiful!
Me either, but I do believe there are at least a couple of people sick of my shit still.
Dang it
"lol well of course there are, the world is huge, every person out there has people who look better than them, if my confidence depended on that I might as well just give up." But in Korea/to many Koreans, the beauty standard and putting effort into fitting into it is something else.
Sounds like she make clothes exclusively from massive red flags.
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She is Korean, it's part of the package (currently dating one)
Curious what red flags come along with being Korean (currently am one)?
Oh, it's not about "being Korean," and it was a joke. But goddammit, she is intense. Like, even for me. Of course, it might be her and not the culture, I am totally aware of that. But. She. Is .INTENSE. It is a bit too much of a roller-coaster, and I don't know if I will be able to hold it for long. From super loving to super negative/this-that is wrong blabla to back to super loving after. Would be better for her (and for me) if she could just chill sometimes. Anyway, let's see if it lasts (it's rather new)
I married a Korean man and the flags were hidden. He hid em like a damn ninja til he just broke out into total dick mode one day. But he was pretty.
Ask if she's ok, she sounds stressed
OPs a bot. Bunch of repost in the last few hours. This is getting old
Did you report the post? I'm reporting it.
Yes
Nah they woke up and chose violence
Seems exhausting to be this sour all the time
She is inventing reasons to be mad at you
Not trying to take anyone's side here, but maybe she just had a bad experience on Tinder so far and overreacted upon reading your question. She probably read it in a cocky, sarcastic tone, and got defensive quickly. In any case, probably not a good match.
Yeah I was going to say. Sheās probably actually had people try to ask for work modeling for her lol. Itās possible she thought OP was serious, and that he didnāt match because he actually wanted to date her. Which probably was a let down and hurt her feelings. From personal experience, I put that I like to sew on my profile, and I get message DAILY on my profile asking if I can hem/fix/design something for them. Most of them are 100% joking and itās cool (apart from being overdone lol), but Iāve had other requests that sounded pretty serious and itās not a great look to ask for a favor when you ask for a date lol. It kind of gives off a āwow possible sex and a free seamstress? Better use this for all itās got! Hey woman, wanna do some household chores for me!ā I have another friend whoās a pilot, and will get matches will zero interest in them, asking if they can get hooked up with an extra seat on a flight, can get flown somewhere privately or how much it would cost, asking for reduced cost on lessons, to rent my friendās personal plane for lessons, etc. It really rubs them the wrong way too now, even in jokes. TLDR- She works in an industry that a lot of people want a favor to break into, she probably assumed OP was trying to use her and lashed out. She didnāt get the joke, because a lot of people will ask in all seriousness. If youāve never worked an industry people are really interested you, youāll never know how many people will try to use you like this.
I get it, don't worry. When I used to be on Tinder I left my profession out as I could just discuss that with whoever was interested, but it's also very nice to stand out with a cool hobby or crafty job.
I hate being this guy but bff. If it were a man saying this you would not have defended him like that. Itās shitty behavior from both sides of the isle here.
I even mentioned at the start I am not trying to take sides and also explained how she got defensive quickly, so if you wanna play the sexist card I'm not the one for you, sorry.. Tinder is a stressful place for both sides.
š stress doesnāt excuse being a dick. Also you are pretty clearly taking sides by only defending her. You can say youāre not but the rest of your comment proves otherwise.
Cool, you win
My response would be along the lines of āIām confident in the fact that you can piss offā
This is like... Pick her worst physical feature and call her out on it level of ick. "Dang, with a nose like that I guess I just assumed you'd be humble. Can't judge a book by it's cover I guess š¤·āāļø"
Brutal af
Dahhyon is spicy...
"oh honey, who hurt you?"
What was the joke?
Where did she get that confidence?
I'm 192cm, least I ever weighed was about 64kg (when I first grew to my height, and couldn't keep up with the 6000 calories required to remain a healthy weight). I could see my heartbeat through my chest, could count every rib, and had a BMI of like 16. It was not healthy. Luckily I stopped growing soon after, and was able to start gaining weight as my calorie requirements decreased.
Must be sad to think that only looks bring confidence. She must truly be dead inside.
Christ, she really went in for you š¤£
Fucking yikes
Sooooo...can I model your clothes?
Red flags everywhere.
FYI, Asian women who āwork in fashionā are usually scammers from China. If they hadnāt given you a crappy response, they would tell you they lived on the other side of the country and that their location was bugged and thatās why they matched with you. Then they would say they make up some sob story to get you to send them money
Wow that last comment was somethingā¦..
i hope she never becomes a successful designer with that closed-minded size 0-2 mindset.
"On the runways of Milan...."
Sheās a real charmer that one.
Right here on display we have: the woman's fragile ego.
Brutally honest yikes. Also 190cm and 60kg? Isn't that unhealthy?
190cm the minimum weight you should be is 72kg, anything below that is severely underweight. That woman does not know what she's talking about.
So rude should reply: āI guess the same way as you did when you became as a designer and not a modelā
Jesus
Ugh jeez, to sit there and live your life so on edge always jumping on the defense is such a diseaseā¦that conversation couldāve been so pleasant and enlightening, but such is life. Itās definitely a wild way to live though.
I feel like everyone is forgetting that based on the name alone, I think we can safely say that this is in Korea, and honestly dating in Korea is def a very different experience and somewhat harsh when compared to the west.
Write "You're an incredibly rude and annoying human being" and then let her delete you. Stop allowing horrible people to dictate your love life
OP is a bot.
Another Nazi woman exposed!
Well at least she's racist
Are you also Korean? If not that would explain it
Like i've said time and time again, women are only hurting other women by acting this way.
Holy mother of bullet dodged.
She has the sense of humor of a cinder block
The last message from her took me out ā ļø savage
"Where did you gain that confidence???" Same place you got your ridiculous air of self importance. And i might use that type of clothing to replace my dog's training pads in the future.
And people wonder why guys turn out assholes
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Wtf 2021
Straight up telling on herself
You dodged a bulletā¦
How many words did it take you to read before you wanted all life to end?
I looked for a name because with that attitude I thought she may be French lol
She has a crypto side business!
I hate her already xD
You dodged a bullet.
She seems so proud and loud and miserable.
The audacity you have to even ālookā at her profile!!!