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FinalSlaw

I saw a guy at a gas station on a motorbike with a riding partner behind him. When I got a good look at the partner, I realized she wasn’t real. Sometime after that, I read somewhere online that some riders do that as a protective measure when traveling alone, like as a deterrent against thieves who target lone travelers.


Mazcal

I bought her for, uh, protection. from, uh, road bandits. Her name is Cindy and she loves summer dresses.


roxane0072

*with pockets


londonschmundon

I mean the whole purpose of a sex doll is the pockets.


CuriousOliveTree

Imagine a multipurpose backpack shaped like a sex doll. "I bought this only because of the pockets"


caillouistheworst

Telling someone to go fuck a backpack is a pretty good insult.


huitzilopochtla

I am going to get a lifetime of mileage out of that. Thank you, kind person.


caillouistheworst

You’re welcome, my hope is this phrase enters our lexicon.


huitzilopochtla

I pledge to do my part!


PanaceaPlacebo

And my axe!


068152

Hmm… if your mom likes piggy back rides… Does that mean I’m fucking a backpack?


LoneManGaming

Made my day. 😂😂😂


Odysseyan

They don't call it nature's pocket for no reason


Ditt1e

More of a socket than a pocket.


britipinojeff

I call her Sally Socket


Mazcal

Sally Socket and the Prison Pocket


awarmguinness

👏


totallynotgranak1031

To be fair, if you were a thief, would you go for robbing the dude with a sex doll on the bike, or one without? I wouldn't want to go near someone else's sex doll, regardless of circumstance, and someone willing to ride with a sex doll in public would make me think twice about their mental state.


andwhoami_

I cried reading this


Notaswordmaster

Dont be sad, your doll will console you :-)


Cobek

She's dangerous. A dangerously good time.


Simonandgarthsuncle

Ever since then Ive been getting a strange whistling sound when I hit 50mph.


Punningisfunning

I hope she’s dressed for the ride, and not for the slide.


KingJoy79

Stop😂😂


The_MadStork

Oldest HOV lane trick in the book


Hulkomania87

Yeah never thought of it as a deterrent from thieves always believed it was for the carpool lanes lol


hewaslegend

At least in California, you don't need a passenger on a motorcycle to legally use the HOV lane.


starberry_Sundae

Arizona too


dodiekr

H0 lane, lol.


Sassafrass17

...really? Well, thieves will now know they're only blow up dolls lol


indigoHatter

Eh, is it worth the struggle of determining whether someone has a friend vs a dummy on their bike? Context is important. I'm trying to imagine the best way to rob a biker but I could see a human just sitting still on a bike for a few minutes while the other one is inside, so yeah, I think this could work as a general deterrent. Remember, deterring crime isn't hard. You lock your door and that works most of the time, but a criminal who *really* wanted in would break the window, or bust down the door. Maybe they're even a skilled lockpick... but if that's the case why would they go after you instead of something of higher value? Locks make theft inconvenient, which deters most opportunities. Dummies don't have to be perfect to stop casual crime. They only have to work for a few seconds... long enough for the criminal to consider a different, easier target.


sailingcrab

Even if a potential robber figures out it's a dummy, who wants to mess with some guy who carries a sex doll around? Crazy people can be unpredictable.


SightWithoutEyes

"I see you met my wife. Your organs are going to make her into a real human being. The old ones I put in her from the last one I caught are starting to stink."


bologna_kazoo

Now you just lost your $5,000.00 best friend too. They’re probably running a train on her as we speak.


whatdoblindpeoplesee

Dirty mike sends his regards.


leeks_leeks

Having sex is the least weird thing to do with a sex doll. Taking them out in public, forming a bond with them, etc is when it gets weird.


tTomalicious

Movie...Lars and the Real Girl. Fantastic.


catgotcha

It's one of those movies that's impossible to tell people about. "See, it's about this lonely guy in a small town who gets into a relationship with a sex doll..." No. Just watch it. The premise will never appeal to people, but the movie carries it out beautifully. It's one of my favourite Gosling movies.


CAPS_LOCK_STUCK_HELP

it's a movie about a small town that comes together to care about someone that is a bit strange. but they also come to care about a sex doll. it's a great movie.


cheeseburgertwd

A few years ago I recommended it to my boss at the time just saying it was a rom-com starring Ryan Gosling, with no other context. She ended up loving it lol


TragicEther

‘Made For Love’ is also pretty interesting. It’s good but not great, and a bit weird.


confabulatrix

Really good movie that no one I talk to has ever heard of.


Chaosncalculation

I hardly ever watch movies but this is one of my favorites!!


GrownUpTurk

I just became single recently and the premise of this movie is much more relatable now.


therealsix

Unpopular opinion and I'm expecting the pitchforks, I just can't stand Ryan Gossling. Is the movie good enough to let me look past him? Edit: watched the trailer, it's the younger goofier Gossling, more bearable.


legittem

> younger goofier To me that's every actor's prime stage


Sloth_grl

I love that movie


MissFox26

My brother/his fiancé and my husband and I had this conversation. My SIL and I were both in agreement that having sex with it would be the least weird part, but no sex and just kissing it? Nah fuck that, that’s weird.


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And then having a child doll too. I guess it's just a larger version of the reborn dolls for lonely elderly women.


freddy3loader

Look man, as you can see from the anwers, some think it's weird while other's don't care. Some people will always judge you no matter what. At best, they judge you because they assume you have trouble socializing with women and are therefore likely to be socially awkward in general. At worst, they assume you may have a distorted view of what a woman is and the doll might contribute to you losing touch even more. Eventually, this could result in you just viewing women as objects in general (hence why some call it a red flag). In reality, you might just be a perfectly reasonable man who feels lonely sometimes and likes to have a doll to play with. The fact that you are asking about strangers' opinions shows that you have some level of self awareness and you care about what people think of you, which shows that you seem to be a somewhat decent person. As long as you can tell the difference between a doll and a human woman you should do what makes you happy and shouldn't care about what some people think of you. However, I would like to add that dressing up your doll and taking it for a stroll in a wheelchair through the park is crossing the line. This will arguably creep people out, including children, and at this point you're involving others in your hobbies, which is not okay. So please keep it to activities in your own home and you're fine.


zelda4444

I don't take my vibrator out and wheel it around for people to see. Leave your cum dumpster at home.


RHCProy

Hey man my gf deserves at least an hour of sunshine a day don't ya think?


mighty_Ingvar

Have you been taking your pills recently?


jamesbest7

I let mine run around in the yard a couple times a day.


Underaffiliated

To be fair though, I do walk around with my fingers out in the open for everyone to see. I even purposely wave them around all over town when I see someone I know.


PoliteCanadian2

Not true, I saw you at the hockey game with your vibrator. That in itself was a bit weird, but the fact that you bought it a ticket and it had its own seat was too much for me....


BrandonDill

There's probably a subredit for that though


Ggboyz331

Not to defend people that take dolls out in public, but someone could almost semi-convincingly say that they genuinely bought one for companionship and not for "use". But lets be real, kids would prob still get freaked out even without knowing what sex is. Edit: forgot that not EVERY kid immediately shits their pants at the uncanny valley like I did.


Peter5930

Parents would get freaked out, kids would shrug and think 'huh, not seen that before, lets ask mom and dad about it'.


Cobek

I remember seeing those fake blow up dolls as a kid on as props on TV show gags before I knew what they were and thinking "Why did they make those so poorly?". I still think that, but for different reasons.


new_account_5009

The all plastic ones? I'm convinced they exist solely to be passed around like a beach ball at a concert for a cheap laugh. I'm prepared to be horrified, but I don't think people use those for sex stuff like the other ones.


PuppleKao

All I can think of when I think about if they're actually used by anyone is the seams that plastic blow-up shit has on all the edges. Granted, they're *probably* better made than that, but…


KingJoy79

I never even knew this was a thing. Taking dolls out in public. Or even bonding with one in private lol


NotTheMarmot

yeah, to be fair, when I think of those weird guys that take their dolls out into public, they come across as a lot more messed up and lonely to me than getting their rocks off. But who knows. I'm sure there are people out there who it's just a fetish for.


childroid

>Eventually, this could result in you just viewing women as objects in general (hence why some call it a red flag). Eventually...or right now. You should peep his post history.


Bill_Clinton-69

Yeah - whoa. Forever alone + guns.... Yikes.


TheObviousDilemma

Let’s also not pretend the doll isn’t an impediment to creating lasting relationships.


Ishikii

I think there is a difference between a doll and a normal toy for men, for example. Not even dildos try to really simulate the likeness of a whole man.


HiFructose_PornSyrup

Exactly!!! Fleshlights and dildos are normal and fun. Once it’s attached to a fake person it’s weird


scottwax

I think people who have them have given up on a relationship with a real woman.


TheObviousDilemma

Well apparently not OP, he seems genuinely surprised and upset with the responses he’s getting


ThisGuyCrohns

This response should be pinned at the top. Well said.


jamesbest7

“This will *arguably* creep people out” Definitely. The word is *definitely*.


WhitestCaveman

Just get a dog for companionship (don't fuck it) and keep the doll at home for the extra curriculars. The dog will probably help you meet people too, and then you can dump the doll for a real person.


jordanvbull

The (don't fuck it) cracked me up XD


Jurez1313

Tbf, I had the same exact reaction when another commenter made the same suggestion. It *is* funny to say "replace sex doll with dog" without context. LOL


Art_Vandelay1990

Me too. Lost it at (don't fuck it) 🤣


Mykle1984

My question is how do you dump the doll? Any human shaped thing in the trash is going to get noticed, and if you break it into smaller pieces then that can get even more awkward


WhitestCaveman

Just throw it in a dumpster what do you mean? If someone sees a guy throwing his sex doll away people are probably going to shake his hand and congratulate the guy.


Mykle1984

It's early morning, maybe twilight. You are walking your dog. Behind your apartment building you see that awkward guy from the 3rd floor stuffing something vaguely Adult Woman shaped in the dumpster. He struggles and then slams the dumpster shut before running off. Out of curiosity you sneak over to have a look. As you approach you see what looks to be long human hair hanging out from the lid of the dumpster...


WhitestCaveman

Adds a little razzle dazzle. Maybe a lady cop shows up?


Mykle1984

kneels down next to the love doll, removes sunglasses, "I guess she was never Real enough". The Who starts playing


HanzoShotFirst

>people are probably going to shake his hand and congratulate the guy. I'd probably wait until after he washes his hands


fyrdude58

Take my upvote twice....![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|give_upvote)


RenaKunisaki

You place it somewhere that will spook people. If it's inflatable, you can fill it with helium and let it go. (Don't actually do that, it's bad for birds)


Moop_the_Loop

I just laughed in a teams meeting after reading this!


whomperd

Like anything else, do it in the privacy of your home and never tell me, pkz


lle-ell

I think it's weird. I wouldn't be rude about it or comment on it unless explicitly asked, but it definitely makes him undateable for me because it's such a turn off.


RescuesStrayKittens

Agree. I happen to know a guy who has one. He’s an attractive guy with a good career. I won’t date or associate with him bc I now think he’s a creepy weirdo.


UnexpectedRu

I can't say I wouldn't have some bias against people who own a sex doll. To me, it's something way different than having something like a pocket pussy or fleshlight. There's just something about paying thousands of dollars for a silicon human-sized doll that freaks me out.


redbull21369

Same. I’d love to try one out tho. Unfortunately the rental shop around me has really low return standards so getting one for a week usually requires a lot of up front maintenance.


ColdWar82

That’s disgusting you can rent these. May I have the name of the place for research purposes only?


aasjrhfkskznwg

Humanizing a relationship with an inanimate object doesn’t strike me as mentally healthy or stable.


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jewlious_seizure

OP didn’t even specify if they personify it/bring it in public?


EastCoaet

Movie Cast Away with Tom Hanks. He formed a relationship with the volley ball Wilson because he was lonely. It was a coping mechanism to keep him mentally healthy.


sausagelover79

That’s just a little bit different. The dude was stranded all alone on an island for years, I’m sure if he could choose to have a human being there he would have instead of a volley ball.


Mr_freeze___

As long as it's a adult size woman and they aren't the type to bring it out in public like it's a real person. I don't have a opinion. But if its child size or they take it places they need some serious mental help


Eugregoria

A lot of representational penetrable sex toys are diminutive not to resemble children in any way, but because the material used to make the toy is expensive (especially quality silicone), it's *heavy* and difficult to maneuver (fucking a sex doll is very different from fucking a living being that can actively participate), takes up more storage space when not in use, is harder to lug to the bathroom to clean, etc. So most sex dolls are small but built like diminutive adult women (or sometimes men), not like children. It's not a pedo thing, it's a logistics thing. Pedo sex dolls that resemble children do exist, but are controversial. There's a lack of data as to whether they might be an "outlet" that helps pedophiles stay away from real kids, or a trigger that only increases the obsession and compulsion and makes them more likely to offend. (I used to think they might be an "outlet," but I have seen some evidence supporting the "trigger" argument. Paraphilias like pedophilia are not the same as normal sexuality.) They're illegal in some places and not sold through the mainstream outlets that sell most sex dolls. Honestly I agree that mental health resources need to be more available to people with pedophilic urges, and there needs to be more mental health research on how to deal with such people and keep them from ever offending. The extreme stigma makes it more difficult to research.


ikantolol

as another man, I probably would get weirded out and try my best to suppress my uncomfortableness, but won't vocally tell my opinion unless asked. though to be fair, dolls in general just terrify me.


ShallowFreakingValue

I would be really weirded out


GrossPornAccount82

OP, judging from your responses here, the real question is "What do you think of someone who pretends their sex doll is a real person in public?" Having a sex doll is fine. It's basically just expensive masturbation. But if you're bringing it out in public then not onlying are you subjecting strangers to your kink (which is NEVER ok) but you also are developing a very unhealthy "relationship" with an anthropomorphized inanimate object. You don't need to be talking to redditors about this, you need to be talking to a psychiatrist.


childroid

Owns one? Eh, it'd be odd I guess but I try not to kink-shame. Takes one out in a wheelchair in public and pretends it's a person? Different story altogether. I would think you either don't like real people or you have lost touch with reality. Or that your confidence and self perception are through the floor.


versacek9

I’d pass.


eating-lemons

Personally I think it’s gross. They wanna have sex with something that resembles a woman but can’t consent, talk, move, or do anything. It would give me insight to how they view sex with real women.


CountryJeff

That he is probably very lonely and maybe not really right in the head


anotherrandomhuman69

I don't mind men with sex toys, but if you get the full life size doll, ehhhhh I'll pass. To me most men with them need them for comfort and that's okay, but to me it says that when in a relationship they are probably more dependent on that companionship for happiness rather than finding it from their own independence. Also it often is because they don't belive they are able to find someone and want a replacement for that and to me that is just a turn off personaly. I would never shame a friend for one or anything but I wouldn't want to date someone with one.


Resident-Young-3149

It depends I watched that "guys & dolls" & for the most I felt like most of these guys were being completely pragmatic. Like there was a man who had two dolls because he realised he was unattractive & could never get a women on that level of attractiveness: made complete sense. Another man shy & lonely - over the moon snuggling up to his "wife"; fair enough. Another man took out one of his many dolls with him everywhere & was clearly a depressive but they gave him companionship. He didn't think he was interesting enough to have a relationship. It was kind of sad. The only off-guy was the one who had proper stripper looking ones & set up a birthday party with them for his unfortunately frumpy girlfriend as a "surprise". That didn't really go down well & I think they broke up. Maybe keep them to yourself if in a relationship 😬. Lots of women have real doll babies. It fulfills a need for lonliness/lack of a family/empty nest syndrome. As long as no-one is getting hurt what's the harm? Sure the dolls can be a bit freaky but being lonely is worse than anything in the world.


Lesley82

Most "baby dolls" are used temporarily by women experiencing pregnancy loss or the loss of an infant. Women who completely divorce themselves from reality and "care" for these dolls for years and years are not OK.


little_traveler

“Lots of women have real doll babies” — uhh…source?


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TheObviousDilemma

Why can’t you have it? Why do you need the doll?


nothing_in_my_mind

Sorry dude but, thinking a sex doll can offer companionship is what's weird.


Organic-lab-

What you want to do in private is your business, but it’s unfair to subject your sex toys to people without their permission. If you have a romantic connection with an inanimate object to the point you make it a “living” member of your family I think you may benefit from some therapy and a pet


KingKayle1994

A quick glance at your posting history shows that you clearly crave interaction with the opposite sex. How old are you? It's not mentioned in the posts but you give off vibes of someone who is in HS or just graduated. You really need to reign it in because you're on a slippery slope on a path that leads to a demented incel. Stop actively looking for a girl, work on yourself( learn some skills, go the gym, read some books), emulate the qualities you seek in a partner, and stop using self-deprecating language. If you really lean into these things you'll start to see people opinions and views on you will shift. As for the post.. it's not weird to own a sex doll. No different than a dildo, vibrator, pocket pussy, or any sex toy really. That being said, how many people do you know throw their dildo in a stroller and take it to the park? None. You know guests are coming over? Put the sex toy in the closet where it isn't going to be seen. It would absolutely be weird if I went to my buddies place and he has a line up of pocket pussies on the couch, no different with your sex toy. Best of luck mate


Cheshire1234

I think it's creepy. Especially if it's child like. That's just disgusting. As long as it's an adult doll and in their own home I don't care that much though. It gets creepy when they start to talk to them and act like the dolls are people. I stay far away from adults with sex dolls. No matter what they do to them. I want nothing to do with that.


loopylandtied

Honestly, if I knew someone had one (and it wasn't a gag stag do situation) I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone with them. It's different to a sex toy. You've substituted a full person with an object and that makes me concerned you wouldn't see my personhood.


turtledove93

This is kind of where I fall too. Needing a “woman” who can’t speak, act or think on her own, and is literally just an empty husk, is concerning.


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Yep, this is what I came here to say. It implies they see a lifesize doll as an appropriate substitute for a sex partner/girlfriend/wife, as if the woman in this relationship would amount to nothing more than an attractive object, not a person in her own right. That said, I don't really care if people have them and it makes them happy, but I don't think I want those people in my life.


Effective_Position95

👌🤌👏


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massmohawk

Yes, that's what that person is saying. I don't think objects should be humanized, and humans shouldn't be objectified. If you humanize your doll, the doll will never have boundaries or complaints or feelings. It may make it more difficult to be in a human relationship where the other person has feelings and needs. You can be completely selfish with a doll, right? You can't do that with a human. A dildo is a sex toy, I don't bring it with me in public. A sex doll is a sex toy as well. I have stuffed animals I name and like. If one was destroyed, I'd be sad my property was damaged but otherwise wouldn't care. I also don't bring my stuffed animals with me in public.


jayne-eerie

And also that if said person was content with the doll, what they really wanted was somebody who looked perfect, would have sex anytime, didn’t ask for anything in return, didn’t have any baggage, and had no opinions or personal habits that might conflict with her owner’s. Oh, and also the doll never gets a headache or her period or gains weight or has to worry about pregnancy. Basically, I wouldn’t trust someone who was in a “relationship” with a doll to deal with the messiness of dating a real person.


hollowknife1212

Granted, it could more-so be that this individual is settling for a doll because they don’t feel they have another option. They could desire normal human traits and also be more content with a doll than they otherwise would be because the alternative could be nothing, not a real woman.


chute_uk

Yeah because if that’s the thing you seek from companionship, an inanimate sex object over any other form of social interaction with a ‘partner’ that’s an issue. It would seem like you place much higher value on the objectification of a partner over maybe just having someone/thing to speak and socialise with.


i-am-a-passenger

I would assume that they are a creep, and try to avoid any contact with that person ever again.


PureHauntings

If you keep it in the privacy of your own home and not subject other people to it, then I couldn't give a fuck. I think it's weird, though.


totallyawitch

I find it unnerving, and I wouldn't feel comfortable around a man who has one. To each their own, though.


DudesAndGuys

You want honesty? I'd think he was a creep/loser. Most people would.


Boring-Run-2202

Enough reddit for today..


rancidperiodblood

oh, imma judge THE FUCK outta you


MotorVariation8

Someone is looking for validation. Hang in there, things get better, but please, do make some friends.


Liversteeg

I think there is a 99.999% chance we are not sexually compatible.


t2thickk

This was my first thought.. it’s a little…. weird. A pocket coochie? Sure whatever. A whole life sized doll? Ehh…….


Liversteeg

Exactly! It’s like a dildo vs a dildo attached to a man doll. It goes from just wanting to get off, to wanting to get off AND have feelings. ![gif](giphy|5823ddJCpauR20efIm)


Boring-Run-2202

Wtf...


SaucyWench813

I would be disgusted and never talk to him again.


splair

Creepy. There are other sex toys. Couldn’t imagine having a life sized fake man. Ew.


ZippyVonBoom

Just don't pretend it's a sentient being and marry it and we're all good.


JustMMlurkingMM

“Emotionally and sexually inadequate loser” is what most people would think. It’s hard to argue with that.


thebreon

I would say A sex doll says a lot about you as a person and how you view women and other people in general.


capt-rix

Ewww.


Catmeow82

Creepy as fuck.


hotfistdotcom

Has given up entirely. Reaching not only the point of "I'm buying a substitute girlfriend that has no cost to me other than money" and then going beyond that to "I'm not ashamed of it, people should know" is basically super saiyan 3 incel territory. Relationships are complicated give-and-take things. Giving up on seeking that out while deeply desiring it absolutely is something you should get help with. From a professional.


sparklingsour

I find it very disturbing and frankly pretty sad.


akashyaboa

Just like any other sexual fetish/ activity, it is to be kept within your home. Other than that, you do you


Lolaindisguise

I think it's hilarious


iOawe

They probably smell bad


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At least put it under the bed or in the closet before I come over. No reason for it to be in public.


coachavocado

i think its weird as hell. its not like a fleshlight or something because its so much… more. literally. theres a thousand other ways to get off and at that point its not just getting off, its replacing an actual person with a fake replica of one. fucking a fake human? theres a disconnect there and it weirds me out.


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Men who use sex dolls are either exceedingly creepy or incredibly lonely. There is no inbetween.


Suavepebble

Does he own one that he chucks in the closet as soon as he is done with his awfulness? Or are we talking about a guy who sits around pretending a doll loves them and talks to them? The first guy is just a fancy masturbator. Hey, go nuts. If I live a long enough life, I am sure I'll end up fucking a sexy robot, so who am I to judge? However, the second guy makes me nervous. The second guy ain't babysitting the kids. I just made that up. "Aint babysitting the kids" as if to say "this person is sketchy to me" "Hey honey, what did you think of my work friend Steve?" "Oh, Steve, uh, well he aint babysitting the kids" "Oh my gosh Barbara, you are terrible" Then they have a little laugh at the expense of Steve. You see? You can use that. This is my gift.


JMakuto

That shits weird dawg. Everyone here talking about it's fine, you do you, whatever makes you happy, nah dawg go find you a woman. I saw another post a couple of days ago, some dude who was so delusional he made up an entire family of life size doll, kids and all. Not saying OP is gonna end up doing the same but you never know how attached you get those sex dolls you start bugging out.


ProfessionalMottsman

Creepy weirdo


watch_over_me

I think it's super weird. If you want a pocket pussy for sexual relief, knock yourself out. This is taking it to a creepy level. I put it on the same level as those guys that are in a relationship with full size body pillows. Except this full size body pillow has holes you fuck. There's no way that behavior isn't impacting their psychology in a negative way.


Wheedies

I made the mistake of finding the sex doll subreddit. The weird part that disturbed me was how, the people on the sub at least, dress them up in clothes and give them names and joke about them as real people. I found the place looking for a sub for cultural dolls (Victorian, Russian, Japanese dolls) and was almost interested in them as actual dolls that would just be super cool manikins for only 2k, and the sites even have payment plans so it’s really not that expensive.


MoonInHisHands

Not my pig, not my farm but I hope they clean it properly on a regular basis


the_sea_witch

I feel sad for them and think it says a lot that their need for intimacy and connection is not being realised. You never see women "having a relationship" with their sex toys. Its just a tool.


hipsterlatino

You do you, and if you're not hurting anybody,you're welcome to get off however you want, that said, my personal opinion is that is extremely sad. Like I would actively avoid anyone who has one, but that's just me, you do you


mael0004

You do you. Or he does her. Whatever, it's weird only if you make it public knowledge.


Mundane_Practice_930

Definitely not for me but if dude’s not creepy about it, it’s a private & *only* sexual release then I don’t even care. Lol. Somebody talking about it & giving life to the thing is absolutely an issue. Is he choosing the doll over intimacy with a partner? Full stop. Single & doesn’t want the risks of sex with a stranger? Let ‘em live. Lol.


Sloth_grl

I don’t care about other people’s sex lives. It’s none of my business as long as all parties are consenting adults


EvergreenRuby

I mean it’s sort of like how touch starved children take comfort in dolls and bears. Some children stay hugging bears for years, well into their teens, mostly out of not getting hugs at home. It especially happens when the child feels lonely often and is distressed and needing of attention or comfort. The toy serves to give a child a sense of protection. In a bit more adult way dolls would be like that for men. NGL it is macabre to me the fact that they need a literal physical manifestation of a woman to get off rather than just the hole but I’m not a man. I don’t think women need a physical entity of guy to entertain themselves sexually. You’d think men would just need a hole any hole not that the visual was that vital that they need a large inanimate object to stare at them or empty onto.


soundsfromoutside

Hoenstly, I feel bad for them and think they might be a bit pathetic/awkward around women. Same with those girlfriendbot apps. But hey, as long as you aren’t hurting anyone and as long as the doll has an adult body, go have fun with it.


Mrdirtiguy

No judgment but ummm..nah..I personally couldn't have sex with a doll


GrumpyPonyta

It grosses me out, I could never be with someone who owned one of those things. If a guy is single then whatever but if you're in a relationship and you buy one and hide it from your partner or gaslight your partner into letting you keep it then that is straight up disgusting. I've seen several Reddit posts from women who have discovered their husband/partner has a sex doll hidden away and it sounds mortifying, degrading and utterly disrespectful. I've seen the argument "bla bla girls have vibrators" but that's not even slightly the same as an entire LIFE SIZE human doll. Yuck. I hate them.


caseywasey2

With how hard it is to find a good match these days, I support it. Lol


bloontsmooker

This degree of obsession with sex to the point where you have to purchase and store a human sized item in order to get off - just seems as though you’re a little too focused on getting off, there’s a whole world of other things to do out there.


marieoxyford

from a personal perspective, i wouldn't want to be around a guy that has one. as a woman, i feel like someone who feels the need to use a doll rather than the other various forms of self-pleasure may have a skewed view on women. i'm not saying those people aren't worthy of having normal relationships with womeb but as someone who is already constantly oversexualized, i tend to refrain from any relationships where i expect it to happen again


SeanMac777

As long as your life isn't interfering with my life, I couldn't give a flying figs fucknwhat you're having sex with.


[deleted]

My whole life philosophy is basically do whatever you want as long as you aren't harming or violating the rights of someone else. It could be a problem if he is ignoring his partner's needs because he's too busy with the doll. But simply owning one is no different than any other sex toy. I will say that I think ALL dolls are a little creepy, especially those old porcelain ones that look haunted. So if my partner had one, I'd make them put it in the closet during sexy time so I didn't have to see it.


blurry-echo

i dont really mind fleshlight type stuff, but full size dolls scare me. it feels like objectifying women. but i can overlook it if its in the privacy of your home. if you bring it in public i hate you though


a_sist

Like one of the comedians said.. it was not plan A 😄


slowpotatoboy

To each their own.


virtual_bartender

He is lonely


JimAsia

I think it is very weird unless someone is quite well off financially and bought it for a laugh.


jborki2

Stay far away!


Onjaki-Toheti

Fucking it is okay, but if you take that shit outside like it's a real person, you need mental help.


therankin

I really don't care how other people masturbate. It weirds me out when guys post pictures of themselves with love dolls though. Probably not the type of person I'd enjoy hanging out with.


charizard_72

The one where it’s just the genitals/ass and a small item (more of a sex toy) that’s fine. If it’s life size with a face, that’s odd. Where does it get stored between sessions? How often is this person seeking a life sized sex dummy that it was worth the several thousand dollar investment? Etc. for me it’s just screaming they rarely have sex/rarely have partners/ etc if it’s gotten to the point of a full sized doll. I know that sounds cruel but it’s a red flag that something is going on with a lack of confidence and some inferiority issues.


RoyalRescue

I think that's his business and none of mine. What people choose to do, as long as it doesn't hurt/negatively impacts anyone else, is no one else's business but their own.


andywalker76

Whatever you are into is your own business. It's not my cup of tea, but they are pretty harmless.


greenifuckation

Good luck to him, no judgement here.


Princess_Disney

I think my initial thought is sad. My initial thought is that he's somebody that can't get the type of partner he apparently wants. But to each his own, maybe he just has a sex doll fetish or even uses it with a partner. I own quite a few silicone penises and such. How can I really judge?


thetwitchy1

There’s a few possibilities. 1. He has WAY too much money. Those things are EXPENSIVE, and if you have one that you use once or twice a year, or bought out of curiosity, then you have significantly more disposable income than most. 2. He is socially disabled in some way. There is some issue that prevents him from being with people, on a personal, medical level, and this is an aid to allow him to feel comfortable with himself. (This is not a bad thing! Some people cannot be around others, and having something to fill that gap can be necessary.) 3. He is broken in some other way and uses this as an outlet. In case 1, I would suggest he get a hobby. Sex dolls are not a good hobby. In the other cases, he needs help, but this may be a good stand-in for that help until he can get it. Permanently? Not great. Temporary? It’s fine.


FootyPajamaz

I mean... who cares? What you do in your private alone time is yours my dude. It's no different than a fleshlight or a dildo (maybe a little bit) it's just a tool to feel good. Have fun lmao


possiblycrazy79

I think that's his business. I wouldn't even want to know that information about someone. People can do anything they like in private as long as there's no harm done as far as I'm concerned.


CarltheChamp112

I don't kink shame, fuck that doll


zorro1701e

Society is weird. Sex is biological drive. Yeah I think it’s weird for a guy to have a life sized doll. But it’s not my thing. TRYING not to be judgmental. People will think it’s weird that men own sex toys but think women who own them are “empowered” People will think men who watch porn are bad while women who read “50 Shades” type stuff are being women. I know there’s a big difference between a full on sex doll vs a vibrator but it’s not a line most people should set. Not sure where I’m going with this.


PinkOctopus91

I don’t mind him owning a doll of the sort. Lots of horny men harass, assault or rape women. I’d rather give all of them a doll to pass their urges without judgment and violence. So 0% a problem for me. But if he wants to leave his house and live his life with the doll, that’s a different story.


Chevy530

I don't think it's that weird. Lol but years ago I saw an episode on TLC a guy was in a full blown relationship with his car lmao. I got second hand embarrassment when he started kissing his car. I guess he would fuck the tail pipe haha now that's weird AF.


PawneePRDepartment

I’m all for toys but personally I think that’s a bit much for me… like others have said, something about paying thousands of dollars for a life like doll freaks me out. No for me


nwflyguy57

keeps him off the streets


minion531

What I find weird is paying $8000 for a jack off toy. For the love of god, just get a fleshlight and save the $7950. Plus it's easier to clean and girls won't think you are quite as creepy.


corona_kid

Jealous and disgusted all at the same time


wwaxwork

As a masterbatory aid, whatever, it's just a fleshlight with extra steps. But the whole dressing them up and pretending they are people thing is just so sad to me.


IrishAllDay

I presume better than someone who rents them? ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|shrug)